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ADVICEz0mb1equeen/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 02:26 AM
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z0mb1equeen/r/AntiFeminists13/02/20 07:32 AM
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DATING ADVICEz0mb1equeen/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 06:19 PM
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z0mb1equeen/r/AntiFeminists19/04/20 10:57 PM
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z0mb1equeen/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 07:32 PM
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Wow that is such a nice story. You're lucky to have found each other. I hope mine appears too :/
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/20 04:22 AM
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I don't think it's about you but a challenge for himself. I thought no nut November in person sex didn't count. In any case, your sex is prob gonna be awesome once you can do it again. Try to support him for now, maybe u can challenge urself too or relief urself on ur own.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/20 10:07 PM
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Some questions for you.. Are you feeling less attracted to him? Are you guys sexually compatible? It sounds to me like he checks all the boxes in paper but there's something missing otherwise you wouldn't care what others say. Be careful though, it's easy to take for granted what we have. Maybe you want him to take charge a little bit more and have some of that alpha energy back.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/20 04:44 PM
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I feel very alone too. I don't have any female friends to talk about relationship or women issues. The conservatives I know are male. I wish we were allowed to create RPW meetups but we can't post our locations :( I understand it's a safety measure too
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 03:31 AM
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Your post made me think about this video from Esther Perel. She talks more about 'desire' but I think there are things you can take away from it. I think it could help you to distract yourself a bit with your own hobbies and tone it down on chasing him. Let him 'miss you'. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sa0RUmGTCYY
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/20 03:12 AM
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Really great to read a success story like this! Goals!
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/20 07:19 PM
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Why did he hate the MRP? I didn't know about it until you mention it here and it seems like the kind of dynamic I wish to have. But I do think it would work best if the man is into kind of bdsm / power dynamics.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/20 07:15 PM
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You have nothing to be ashamed of. First step is letting go of that. Is OK to make mistakes. Is OK to learn something new. I don't think this is that uncommon nowadays. I learned to cook around your age. I used to stress a lot when I first started and now I am pretty decent. The thing with cooking I think the more you do it the easier it gets because you learn from your mistakes for the next time. Rarely are we good at something from the get-go. I think something super simple is pasta. Mashed po…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/20 08:40 PM
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Yes women are entitled but we are not even aware of this. I became aware of it this past year. We meet a man and we think we are almost immediately entitled to his attention, time, and commitment. Rarely do we realize that just like they have to grow on us and "gain" all of those things, we do too. That just because we are physically attractive to them and have the pussy power it doesn't make me better than the girl next to me. That we have to work on our personality, and what we can offer to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 01:44 PM
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Do you seek bdsm only in the bedroom or do you want to incorporate it into the relationship? I'd definitely try talking to him before thinking about leaving him.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/20 06:08 AM
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This is very interesting. I want to assess myself with this. I think it makes a lot of sense! Thanks for sharing.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/20 05:20 PM
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What do you mean with "beta orbit"?
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/20 02:37 PM
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You don't need to ghost him. You can be honest with why you are cutting it off.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/20 02:37 PM
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Indeed now that I am back in the dating world I am seeing guys that text very little or are just very different than me in communication style which could be a dealbreaker. But doesn't necessarily mean he's not interested. I've literally asked and they say yes they are interested but I do most texting. I honestly don't like that but if OP can get into more in person interaction and maybe talk about their intentions more clearly.. It could work..
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 03:32 PM
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So. Did he friendzone you? Do you guys talk more like buddies than as of there's an interest for more? I'd think you would be able to tell. Also when is he coming back? That whole long distance thing + his behavior is not good. Has he ever told you he hates texting or something?
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 08:54 AM
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I would try to see a therapist if possible. Other than that try to start small. Set one goal for that day, even if it is something very small. If I don't feel productive I feel down. Don't be so hard on yourself. Also, sleep is so important and having some sort of routine. I hadn't been sleeping well in like forever and trying to fix that is helping me have a better day in general. My therapist recommended melatonin to help fall asleep faster and it's been good. Try to have a schedule and plan h…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/20 12:31 PM
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You said you've been seeing each other once a week or once every couple of weeks. Do you think you haven't spent much quality time yet or that you haven't had the chance to know him that much? I feel that if you're hesitant there must be some reason for doubt other than telling yourself you need X amount of time. After all a relationship would just be a label and that you're now officially exclusive. Do you feel you want to see other people still?
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/20 02:27 AM
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What does being rpw mean to you then? Letting your man lead? I am creating a local group for traditional women and don't want to scare off the more liberal ones since I did include that we don't identify with modern feminism.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 12:49 PM
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Some tips. Always remove all of your makeup before bed. Wash your face with a light cleanser. Use moisturizer every day and SPF. Exfoliate 1-2 times a week (following with moisturizer). You can develop your own skincare routine depending on your needs but those are just some basics that I follow. There are anti-aging serums and creams, especially for night-time. I also use an eye cream because that's my problem area (dark circles). I really like the PCA skin line although it is quite pricey. If …
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 04:23 AM
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I'm going through a tough breakup myself after trying to leave several times. I know it's hard and very tempting when he says all the right things when you actually leave.. But then you go back, with a feeling of guilt inside yourself for not being able to go through with it. This time I couldn't go back because I honestly just want to get this horrible feeling over with. Is it more comfortable to stay? Yes. If you don't go back, will you feel like shit right now and still have to show up and ta…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/20 04:12 AM
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Gosh Javier Bardem is totally my type!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 03:10 AM
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I think you can be chill and not be a doormat. Also you need a personality and something more to offer than just looks. But def keep yourself looking good (some let themselves go and get too comfortable), have an edge to yourself, sexually satisfying, etc and hey its nice to be bratty every one in a while. I think us women are emotional and dramatic by nature, so that's gonna come out whether you're trying to be low or high maintenance. But nagging for the sake of nagging.. I think in the long t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 03:04 AM
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I didn't know about this strategy but a man that let's me get away with all of that is already very unattractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 02:08 AM
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Honestly... when an alpha ex of mine would do certain things from time to time that would hurt me I would find myself more sexually attracted to him. I started thinking maybe it was a sort of masochism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 11:25 PM
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This right here is my biggest frustration after discovering the TRP. I was with a pretty alpha guy, who basically redpilled me. But I had to break it off because he was lacking in other things.. This was one of my only relationships where I really didn't want to look for someone else or inclined to cheat. I feel that I would prefer a guy that's an alpha and maybe occasionally share him than being unfulfilled with a beta man.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/20 11:11 PM
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Keeping a woman "tamed" and "submissive" and yours when her natural biology is hypergamous and constantly subconsciously testing your leadership to see if you're still strong enough is incredibly rewarding. Great response. This is my dream (including the D/s aspect)! Yes, we DO want a stable relationship but also someone that will keep us in check, tamed and put us in our place when needed. Not a beta. It's so hard to find though. Men nowadays are basically afraid of women and put them on a pede…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/20 10:39 PM
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How about Discord?
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/20 07:24 PM
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You did good. You're so brave and strong for being able to go through with it. hugs "I can't change him" sometimes that is the hardest and most painful lesson.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 07:35 AM
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I've wondered about the idea of having some sort of meetups for RPW in real life. But not sure how to go about it or if people would be interested. Maybe asking here for other gals in your area and creating a private chat? No idea haha.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 05:03 AM
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Sorry but your boyfriend sounds like a complete asshole. He talks to you in a very ugly way. One thing is being very honest but it seems like he wants to make you feel bad on purpose or dumb instead of helping you improve. Wow.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/20 03:03 AM
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How was your way not working if you care to elaborate?
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/20 02:04 AM
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I am very confused learning about all these things because I am very attracted to the alpha qualities of RP men and their ways of putting a woman in her place and train her... But I feel these types of men rarely want to settle down :/ also hard to find in general in the current BP world 😫
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/20 02:02 AM
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I think this is more BDSM than RP, but if he's your Dom he's the one that should be telling you what he expects of you in and out of the bedroom - if he hasn't done so already. You can definitely take some initiative or bring ideas, "how can I serve you?", "how can I be of service / make your day better?". Being proactive and anticipating things he might need (coffee, water, etc). Being respectful. Some might say here to hold off on the domestic tasks for a little bit until you know he is more c…
/r/RedPillWives23/01/20 04:43 PM
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How did you break it off with the second guy? Did it end up in bad terms?
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/20 05:25 PM
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You knew the red flags were there, you weren't so naive. The issue is being conscious when dating, keeping ur eyes open and not ignoring those flags. You don't need to settle for someone that doesn't treat you right. Better alone than in bad company. There's more people out there, you're very young.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/20 05:12 AM
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What do you mean they failed because you were naive? My guess is you should work on vetting the men properly when dating before committing and becoming too submissive. Keep your eyes open and trust your gut. Don't ignore the red flags. Look for consistency, respect, communication, honesty.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/20 07:20 PM
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Well one thing is the usual typos and another one is writing like a retard all the time. You're clearly not writing like that in here. If a guy is like: "heyy sup? wut u doin?" "yea i am doin good", it's just unattractive.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 01:44 AM
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I have nexted men literally only because of bad grammar. Dumb is never a good look.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 01:17 AM
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That is an amazing post... I had a similar situation with a boyfriend and he pretty much reacted like this. I didn't realize it at the time.. But what a difference it makes. To this day he has never shown himself weak and it blows my mind.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/20 12:37 AM
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This! You can't judge a 21 year old the same as a 28+ year old. I wouldn't expect much from a guy at that age.. Sad but true.. This is experience talking lol. OP needs someone that will guide her, not throw her into an emotional pit and immature behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/20 12:32 AM
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Yes, I meant more like leading the conversation so it's not awkward. It shows a lot of confidence. But also you're showing a lot of attention/interest towards her if you call too much so bear that in mind. Could be annoying if she's not that into you.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 04:49 PM
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I can attest that calls make you stand out especially if you have a charming personality. It's super rare.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 07:49 AM
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Now it's all down to how good you fucked her. If you did, her mind if blown right now lol.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/20 07:41 AM
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You have to read the situation. Personally, if it's a first kiss I don't like that kind of intensity. If it's getting more heated and we're comfortable with each other then yes. But it will come down to preference. I personally don't like that type of kiss all the time while other women might love it. If she's attracted enough to you likely it won't be an issue and you can get her into it too.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 06:27 AM
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I don't think it matters if you're not showing your face. Just be smart about it. It could lead to further bad decisions.. I wouldn't do it compulsively.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/20 05:48 AM
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Ease into it.. He's new to all this. I wouldn't go from zero to I want degradation and rape play, this is advanced stuff. There's so many ways to focus and channel your submission and his Dominant side. How was that conversation when you showed him the test, did he react intimidated? This means he already knows you're into being a sub? Has he expressed any interest at all? You can try things like saying you love him so much you want to show your devotion to him. That it turns you on to do things…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/20 12:22 AM
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Wow just wanted to day you are so lucky. That is my dream kind of relationship!
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/20 12:10 AM
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Oh to be 18 and already know all of this lol. Just came here to say I am the same. Each woman will have her own desired mix. And for me if there's no attraction I find it hard to want to continue pursuing. I am still new to RPW though..
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/20 11:54 PM
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If this is something that concerns you so much then I would find a moment when neither of you is stressed or busy and just talk about it. Communication is key in a relationship and probably part of the burden is because you feel you have these hidden thoughts. Once you talk you should feel better especially because he will likely not care like others have said. But if you still feel bad you should def talk to a therapist, maybe journal about this too. There is no reason for you to feel bad or to…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/20 11:46 PM
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I can relate to that feeling of wanting to be with your SO as much as possible because it can feel as an escape from your stress/anxiety/negative thoughts. Sadly this is something that you have to start addressing on your own with conscious effort. Here's several ideas that I am trying to incorporate for similar issues: - Seek therapy if you can afford it - Find some hobbies (art, cooking, dancing, etc), new friends, look for meetups - 100% recommend exercise and yoga - this helps me tremendousl…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/20 12:02 AM
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Fellow feminine programmer here! I was also one of the few (or only) feminine girls in my classes. I never cared much other than the fact that it was a bit funny being in a room full of geeks (although I can be a geek in other areas lol). I didn't feel too alone cuz I got along well with my peers. Also can't say I hated the attention and feeling unique. I think in part these girls are genuinely not as girly and being around so many guys can make you kinda reflect that (it did a bit in me in the …
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/20 01:00 PM
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I know that feel. Feeling rejected is the worst. He did good for being truthful. He's still finding himself and trying to explore... To use that new perspective and skills... It sucks because you're ready for the long term commitment. But sadly he's not.. In time hopefully you will find someone that wants the same thing as you.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/20 02:08 AM
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Thank you so much for your perspective. I will DM you!
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 06:32 PM
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I feel that with online dating likely you will have to grow into that attraction. It's different when you meet someone in person, in the wild and you have the chance to develop that attraction organically. Whereas with online dating I think we meet with the mental inclination to not like the guy (by over analyzing his photos/profile, not knowing his demeanor in person) and have to "grow into it" - maybe that takes 1 date or several.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 06:30 PM
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Did you have an immediate physical attraction to ur current partner? How was the initial dating different? I feel I can identify greatly with needing that attraction heavily. I'm trying to expand my options :S
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 05:00 PM
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Thank you for sharing ur lovely story. You two are very lucky to have found each other! This def inspires me ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 02:16 PM
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Oh look at that. I just learned something new about myself.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 01:42 PM
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Haha it's nice to know we're not alone in this. Totally, after a bad/meh date is the worst.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 01:41 PM
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From my experience, younger guys (around 20-26) are rarely long term relationship material.. Most are not thinking about commitment yet. Although I wouldn't completely discard it. Having too much of an age gap can also bring problems. I'd also focus on knowing how to vet and attract the right kind of men.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 01:36 PM
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Yep, I'm in panic mode lol. Thank you for this! I started to read the Surrendered Single as well as Marry Him. Haha.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 08:08 AM
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These girls in his past are not with him now (likely did not even make it to relationship level) and mean absolutely nothing to him. Men feel proud about their conquests - even if it makes us eye-roll. And yes he absolutely did it for the chase and pleasure of it, and yes for men sex is different and they don't need the connection like we do. That is life and you can't resent him for it. Maybe tell him to tone it down with those kinds of comments. But you have to come to terms and find a way to …
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 12:02 AM
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Been there (his exact philosophy). Was cheated on. I considered threesomes and such - even AFTER he cheated on me, Yes.. I forgave him.. The truth is it is very unlikely for a man that thinks like that and 24 yrs old (very young in man years) to change his philosophy.. I am still healing from this.. I still find myself battling in my head if not all men think like this. It will damage you mentally.. The worst part is you start to like him more because you feel he's honest and that all good men a…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 11:41 PM
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That makes a lot of sense, thanks for sharing your experience! I think my failed past relationship had to do a lot with us not being able to talk openly about these topics to the point where it was even awkward.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 07:05 PM
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So your point is I shouldn't care about our sex life? I plan to stay desirable for my husband in terms of looks/weight/attitude and all. I know we wouldn't be fueled with the same passion as the years go by but I feel that it needs to be healthy in order to be happy. Maybe once we have kids it will be less important.. but there has to be some importance to it? I was married and our sex life became almost nonexistent. But our sex life wasn't really all that good to begin with, but I decided to ig…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 06:58 PM
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That is my fear, wasting time just to find out we are not compatible there and feel like shit for having to cut it off.. But I guess wasting a couple of months is better than wasting years in a relationship with a man that is not good for marriage/kids :/ In the past I have always started relationships with the sexual part very early on. I think usually if a guy is really interested that doesn't throw them off (then again I haven't been dating many quality men in the past). But I do agree that i…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 06:53 PM
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This has nothing to do with you. He has a girlfriend and he was looking for side entertainment (likely with no intention on leaving her no matter who the side girl is). You shouldn't feel bad about yourself although I get it. But why would you want a man like that? A liar and a cheater. He would likely do the same if you were his girlfriend. Good riddance! I know it's tough but I'd cut all communication and forget about him.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 01:44 PM
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Do you guys live together?
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/20 12:35 AM
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Sounds like he's the one holding YOU back. This man won't give you a long term commitment. You have all the information you need to see this.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/20 11:09 PM
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It would be great to know some examples of how you're not being treated the greatest or the types of conversations that are triggering the dislike from your family. In my opinion, sometimes it's best to just avoid political talk or the like with family. If they are very liberal for example you gain nothing by starting a fight with them, especially coming from your boyfriend. He should respect them and not stir that kind of shit. He should want your family to like him. Sounds like he still has so…
/r/RedPillWives31/12/19 12:37 PM
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I use home chef and it's really good!
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/19 07:09 AM
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Dating apps are not horrible. Tinder is over saturated in my opinion. But with dating apps I just find you have to be ready for a lot of dates that will lead to nothing. As it's difficult to assess a person just by photo/text. Especially their attractiveness and personality (which is key). That has been my experience.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/19 07:51 PM
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Girl I'm also in nyc... It's hard!!!
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/19 07:49 PM
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How old is he?
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/19 05:51 AM
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How would you "prove yourself" if you're not dating? You need to get to know each other. What are the "benefits" if you're not having sex? This all sounds more confusing than it needs to be lol. He sounds kind of immature.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/19 11:52 PM
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So he explicitly said "we are not dating"? Why? Sounds like he just wants to make sure you don't fuck anyone else or he doesn't want a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/19 11:31 PM
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I don't get it. What is your purpose with this man? Are you hoping for something more? He clearly only wants you for sex only. Otherwise why FWB instead of dating? If you only want a FWB sure.. But I wouldn't hold my breath for something more.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/19 11:24 PM
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No, I'm not OP lol. This just resonated with me as well
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 08:38 PM
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I'm very glad that it was helpful
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 08:32 PM
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I completely understand what you mean. There's no way a woman can completely give herself to a man that she does not look up to and respect.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 08:31 PM
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Coming from a marriage where there was no spark and he also had problems in bed.. I'd tell you to not ignore these issues. It will only get worse as you live together. Then again maybe for some people sex is not as important. And as for guy B it sounds like you need to give it more time and get to know him more. Do you have any common views let's say religiously, politically or the sort? Maybe watch some shows together, get more interested in his hobbies/interests? Make some friends together. I'…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 06:41 PM
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Well I was little so I only have what I remember. But the fact is she shouldn't have married my father at all probably. They had a 20 year gap, and even though he was very alpha, he always liked drinking, women and partying, she had to chase him. I'm not sure what she could've done better, maybe be more submissive and STFU? If I completely submit and follow my man I expect appreciation and respect as a wife at least. I'd have to talk to her more about this to get more details. But I remember her…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 05:48 PM
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I wouldn't say my boyfriend is abusive or chaotic. Maybe to a small degree? A part of me is happy and comfortable with him in the present because he gives me company and is there since I don't have much friends, no family here. The part that makes me most unhappy is knowing he is not captain material in the long run. Yet I've preferred to be with him than alone. I do hope I can get to being alone and happy with my own self :/ Even tho I have some hobbies and my career it's just so hard to feel m…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 02:46 PM
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Thank you! That makes a lot of sense. I'm scared of being alone, my current partner keeps me in a comfortable place yet no space to grow, build other friendships or what I truly want for my future. It's time to face my demons.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 02:10 PM
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For sure! I can understand that. For me the emotional dependency is in terms of knowing that someone is there. Not being comfortable with being single. Preferring to be with someone bad for me than alone. I think the term I've read here is called branch swinging?
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 07:26 AM
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I was referring to the female sexual liberation and the fact that feminism is all about be a slut! You can do whatever you want! Men are horrible! Only think about yourself and your career! Shaming on traditional values. Sex without consequence or importance to it, hookup culture. I'm not saying this is exactly why I did the things I did but especially nowadays it makes it more inviting for other young girls to chase happiness in that same way.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 07:23 AM
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Thank you!! <3
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 03:18 AM
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I def want a responsible partner and ideally someone that makes as much or more money than me. But yes he was a very safe kind of person. I remember just feeling very old with him. Like he couldn't relax and have a good time when we would go out together. He was always looking at his watch. I am kind of introverted and need someone that can give me a little "push" and energy. Ideally a professional and responsible man with an edge, but I am not sure if I am just immature for thinking this :/ It …
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 03:17 AM
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True. They should learn from The Mandalorian. Which is already being criticized from having few female characters..
/r/AntiFeminists01/12/19 05:17 AM
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Janice is a genius. I recently discovered her and admire her rawness and courage when speaking about these topics.
/r/AntiFeminists01/12/19 04:39 AM
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