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| 1 | Confused about how open and emotional guys are expected to be?Bro, i never said you were. In fact i specifically said this was my experience as a man. From making these mistakes myself and learning from them. If you already no this then your all good. Im not coming for your throat haha Also i dont know what seeing the fire flicker out of her eyes means. Have you tried asking her what she thinks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Confused about how open and emotional guys are expected to be?Hey! man here, and its super simple. Women do want you to be open with your emotions. However that does not mean be completely unhinged. Being open with your emotions means calmly explaining what your feeling. IT DOES NOT MEAN Raising your voice, or using violent body language. Open about your emotions means that you are calm and understand yourself. It doesn’t mean, say nothing until you explode with anger or sadness or whatever and then say women hate when I’m emotional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 02:24 PM |
| 4 | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?Why would anyone date a fds woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Asking your partner to wear less revealing clothes: controlling or boundaries?I think that ultimately it has nothing to do with your partner and 1000% to do with your insecurity. My girlfriend posts beautiful photos of herself online. So what? Were both faithful and she has fun doing it. Im not threatened by her behavior because i trust her. Thats it. Any kind of other discussion is pointless its that simple. If you have issue with your partner posting provocative photos then simply don’t date people like that. But realize your limiting yourself from potentially wonderful… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 02:17 AM |
| 2 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.Sounds like you either have bad taste on women or awful luck either way that sounds rough. Ive never met anyone like you describe so i honestly don’t even know what to say. I usually get to know someone really well when first dating so i know what kinda person they are. If i dont think its a good fit i step away. My girlfriend is perfect but thats because i was patient and confident in exactly what i wanted. If anyone was unkind or impatient or rude i was just immediately over it. I grew up in a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Should men still cold approach women?If you can handle rejection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 07:19 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to even get a relationship nowadays?I met my partner on bumble | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Talking to women "as people" first usually gets the guy friendzonedYes whats wrong with that? Having female friends is a GOOD THING. In high school I got put in the friend-zone a bunch. Then those women became my friends and later became my wingwomen because i genuinely befriended them and they liked me. Consequently i learned a bunch about young women and what they want from young women. Ffs its NOT HARD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 02:17 PM |
| 1 | I hate to say it but a lot of the ideas you have about finding partners and relationships is the result of being chronically onlineWhats changed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 03:13 AM |
| 7 | I hate to say it but a lot of the ideas you have about finding partners and relationships is the result of being chronically onlineDeadass i saw a post here the other day where op was swearing its impossible to date anyone if your under 6 foot. I told him about my five year long relationship and im 5 feet 4 inches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 01:25 PM |
| 1 | What are women even expected to do during the courting phase?Nope she messeged me first on bumble. Asked if i wanted to hangout. I didn’t have to do anything we just got along really well and enjoyed each others company. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Average men gain nothing from being sex positive and against purity culture.Ty much appreciated :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 01:52 PM |
| 1 | What are women even expected to do during the courting phase?Women need to do these things too you know. And if their not. Your probably not with a girl that values you. My girlfriend and i while starting to date eachother both did all of the things on this list. We coordinated all our dates mutually and split tabs or take turns paying on everything. She pursued me in the first place then everything came together as a team effort. My partner and i are both very conversational so thats super easy. We love the same things and have similar careers. Whenever … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Average men gain nothing from being sex positive and against purity culture.So i shouldnt add the edit? I think i fixed it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Average men gain nothing from being sex positive and against purity culture.Better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 12:30 PM |
| -1 | Average men gain nothing from being sex positive and against purity culture.Its got nothing to do with you. Female sexual liberation is to make it so women’s lives are less oppressive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 12:15 PM |
| 8 | How are short man supposed to date?Um this is insane. Im 5’5 and have dated many women. Some were taller, some were shorter than me. I was never rejected for being short. I was however rejected for being desperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Why isn't the plight of unattractive women ever talked about?Cause women dont go on murder sprees over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is a low value woman to you?Superficial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 10:42 PM |
| 8 | Do the men in here that struggle to get laid not have any women in there social circles?Well if you like self isolation thats all fun. Id go mad just doing that alone all day myself though :p | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 10:57 PM |
| 0 | What Are The Weirdest/Most Random Reasons You’ve Lost Interest In Someone?Oh my god thats pretty bad!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 04:02 AM |
| 1 | What Are The Weirdest/Most Random Reasons You’ve Lost Interest In Someone?She told me she was christian and didn’t like the gays. Noped outta that one pretty fast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Why do you believe that men have an obligation to disclose their intentions to you?Well said! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 02:04 AM |
| 7 | Why do you believe that men have an obligation to disclose their intentions to you?Because sometimes men have really fucked up intentions and time is fleeting. Why would anyone want to spend even a week nay a day with anyone that isn’t upfront about what they want? Imagine you date someone for a year, and eventually it becomes known that they have an incompatible ideology to yours. The relationship will end, and that year together could’ve been spent doing anything more productive. This is easily avoided by being upfront with your intentions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not.Sure, thats the case with any group. but id ask you to prove that measurably not via anecdotal evidence. Christians for example argue they’re all good people and its certain there are good christians out there. But there are also horrible racist sexist christians out there to. Nothing is a monolith. I will grant you that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 01:09 AM |
| 8 | The advice women give here should be prefaced with "for ugly or average men only".Ive experienced the same and its surreal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 11:50 PM |
| 12 | The advice women give here should be prefaced with "for ugly or average men only".Ive noticed the same. The mental gymnastics it takes to 1 assume all women are the same and 2 never clarify that belief by conversing with actual women. Is baffeling. Like when i had girl troubles i asked my mom for advice and she told me to treat them like humans and ask them what they think and feel. It goes to show cause I’ve been with my amazing gf for 5 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 11:41 PM |
| 12 | The advice women give here should be prefaced with "for ugly or average men only".Hey man you got it! scream it on every post! women are not a monolith! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 10:27 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] Plausible deniability numbers game is the ideal strategy for most menSee when i read shit like this i regret trying to be nice to you yesterday. You are a troll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Dating would be a lot more easier for both sexes if most women made the first moves.Well to respond to your question in Ernest. Classifying a group of people “women” as having all the same opinions and actions is absurd. Even siblings of the same gender vary wildly in their ideas and actions. Let alone complete strangers. If i were you i would take a step back and say: “okay maybe the problem isn’t women.” Instead these “problems” you perceive must analyze on case by case basis with each person you’ve or others have interacted with that also happened to be a women. My fundament… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Dating would be a lot more easier for both sexes if most women made the first moves.What woman told you this? Also are you a troll? Ive seen a few of your posts and at this point i’m starting to doubt you want genuine discourse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 11:30 PM |
| 3 | The actual consequences of a woman's high N count.Same. Keep it up! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.No but you already agree judging is unfair. It has to go both ways. You understand the point I’m making right? What exactly are you saying sex with a women does that makes them unappealing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.Why not? And just so i understand your saying: its not fair for women to judge mens genitals but its totally fair for men to judge theirs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.Ah so you agree it doesn’t make sense! It is rude to derive value from someones genitals. Maybe this applies to women’s as well? Hmm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Women don't feel love or want sex. These things are an insurance policy to them. Don't fall for the white knight mentality and get used by them, work on bettering yourself for you not for them.Bro get a grip women do feel love and want sex your out of your mind. Have you ever spoken to a women about what they think about love or sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 02:56 AM |
| 2 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.I honestly shocked i don’t even know what to say. Maybe women can be valued for more than their vagina? Would you be upset if a women judged you for your genitals? Im curious why do you say this? The way describe women is like, they’re an object. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.I will admit that analogy was hastily thought of, i do apologize. But yes the core is that the obsession is weird so I’m glad we agree on that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.What? Where did you get this information from? Because in my experience thats definitely not the case. In all of my relationships regardless of sexual history i have been cheated on by virgins and people with history. Pair bonded with virgins and people with history. And there were those who were impulsive and not impulsive again on both sides. I would say you can trust rely on and start a family with any partner that you form a meaningful relationship with. I completely disagree sexual history … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.What the does virginity have to do with relationships? Virginity just means you haven’t had sex. Unless the entire relationship is sex it should have no bearing. Please explain i genuinely don’t understand. Ive dated virgins and people with experience and their sexual past had no bearing on our relationship. Maybe I’m missing something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 03:11 PM |
| 0 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.I don’t understand this it all. Why would you want to date a virgin? If the point is to have sex then you want someone whos had plenty of experience. Why the fuck would you want to have to go through all the delicate patient process of taking someones virginity? It takes time and patience and trust. Which is cool. But i don’t want that. i want a partner that knows what they like in the bedroom, and someone that has experience and is ready to go. It just makes no fucking sense to me why a virgin … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 02:48 PM |
| 3 | I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly.Male. Oh interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 02:34 PM |
| 5 | I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly.For example i remember trying to ask him to explain super solids to me and still have trouble getting it. In my experience dating women they’ve always had super transparent intentions and actions. And in the times where there was any confusion it was quickly clarified by a conversation. No mathematics or complex theoretical calculations were necessary. If you experience it as harder than rocket science then it is as you say for you. Good luck with the math lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 02:13 PM |
| 4 | I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly.Yeah but thats the case with most humans not just women. And its far from rocket science. Both my parents have phds in physics. And believe me having my father try to explain something to me is way fucking harder than a women saying she didn’t like you because she got a bad vibe. Im not saying women cant be confusing, but dude its not as hard as you say. I think you may be exaggerating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 01:55 PM |
| 7 | I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly.Have you tried asking a women what she thinks? It makes things a LOT clearer instead of guessing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever turned a woman down for her body count?Why would i ask? It doesnt matter. Im curious more how her previous relationships have shaped their outlook on life and relationships that shit is WAY more important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not.Weak sauce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 04:17 AM |
| -1 | What solutions are there for older virgin men?Go to vegas bang a prozzy. Realize its not that important. You could go to Germany or the Netherlands too but thats further. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not.No you just disregarded everything i said. Like the entire premise of my statement is asking you to listen and you cant even do that. You literally just disregarded everything i said. I have no energy for bad faith argument’s. Learn to debate better. Maybe you’ll get a proper response. Like literally all your post is straw man. Look up what that is if you don’t know. It’ll help you construct better argument’s in the future. Cause you wont convince anyone of anything this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not.Disregard everything i say. But you know, go off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 02:14 PM |
| -2 | Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not.Disregard my comment but you know, go off or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not.What feminism are you into? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 08:35 PM |
| 7 | Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not.Feminism is a range of socio-political movements and ideologies that aim to define and establish the political, economic, personal, and social equality of the sexes. Feminism incorporates the position that society prioritizes the male point of view and that women are treated unjustly in these societies. Intersectionality is an analytical framework for understanding how aspects of a person's social and political identities combine to create different modes of discrimination and privilege. Interse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 08:08 PM |
| -5 | Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not.Being willing to hear everyones story. And considering how multiple aspects of identity shape someones world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Women claim that men in reality do not care about how slutty a girl has been in her past, but then they also go on to defend women lying about their past to not get judged from men, don't these claims contradict each other?Its contextualized in our society. Men are told women are lower value if they have sex. Women are told this too. However primally i would say most men just want sex. Just like women do. One more thing to keep in mind is that it may be a matter of physical safety to women. I don’t think these claims contradict each other i think they both point towards how our society has pushed men and women into these positions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Do you want a man to do 50% of the housework if you are a stay at home mom?Believe whatever you want. Shes also teaches physics on a collegiate level so she certainly isn’t like a lot of women her age. (Unfortunately not a lot of women go into stem fields and its quite an issue) She was always the one to tell someone to fuck off and learn it herself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Should you show your weaknesses & vulnerabilities to women that you are dating?So discussing vulnerability is typically something you do with someone you trust greatly like a close friend or a family member. The relationship you describe is not that close. Yet. Officially Date for a few weeks maybe even months. Then its much safer to open up about these things. Assuming your partner isn’t a misandrist then your gonna lose no matter how little emotion you show. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 01:43 PM |
| 7 | Do you want a man to do 50% of the housework if you are a stay at home mom?Maybe its different cause she grew up in Britain. My mom taught me how to repair electronics, do woodwork, manage plumbing, car maintenance, roof repair, you get the idea. She grew up working for her dads boat building company too so maybe thats more to do with it. Just my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 01:39 PM |
| 1 | is it realistic to expect men to just be confident if they have faced a lifetime of rejection and isolation?I think that the whole discussion here is skewed. Its not so much about being confident. Confidence will let you start talking to a girl. But its DESPERATION. That drives women away. You can be confident and desperate and you’ll never go home with anyone. Your best bet is to be confident and happy with going home alone. I think this is the biggest issue. Men who define their happiness on having a women. And i have been guilty of this myself. As long as thats how your self worth is viewed not onl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 02:55 AM |
| 0 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.Well said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 03:56 AM |
| 1 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.No i have had friendships with really wonderful kind caring compassionate men. I am also a man. However the majority of interactions ive had with men have been surface level or just cruel. From my experience most men arnt interested in opening up to people and will actively avoid it.like you say this isnt all men. But in my experience this is most men And because its my experience your right maybe i have had very poor luck meeting kind men. Now im considering it more i have met a larger number o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 01:08 AM |
| 4 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.Based on what? Your anecdotal evidence? Have you even asked a single girl your friends with if they think this way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.Bro this test had a sample size of FORTY SEVEN PEOPLE. That is NOT conclusive results. Moreover the test was setup to gauge their reaction to online dating profiles exclusively. This is not representative of real world relationships and how they form. To believe this i would want other scientists to run the same experiment on a much larger scale and all come to the same results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 07:21 PM |
| 3 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.Accolades? Virtue credits? Your living in your own world man. This isn’t how normal people think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.Lol no worries! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 07:14 PM |
| 8 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.Sorry virtue credits? Ive only ever heard men use this concept. In my experience women aren’t calculating how many good boy points they earn so they can cash it in for friendship or whatever your implying here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 06:12 PM |
| 1 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.Ah i see your point. let me re word my statement to make what your saying clear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.My post was satire. If your joking off of my joke I’m sorry I don’t get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 05:46 PM |
| 2 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.Yes i second this online dating SUCKS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 04:42 PM |
| 3 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.Ive thought about this a lot and i think it also relates to male relationships. The vast majority offer little to know emotional openness and space to discuss difficult confusing emotions. So when they meet a girl who (for the most part) are more aware of their emotions and the space they create to allow for that expression. The man is like holy shit I’ve never been this supported in my life i NEED it. So men form really unhealthy attachments to women they barely know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 04:39 PM |
| 1 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.This is a great explanation of how this goes. And all the same is true of women! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 04:35 PM |
| 0 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.Have you, ever spoken to a woman about this? Or are you making an assumption based on anecdotal evidence? The reason I ask is because the women I’ve spoken to, that are interested in a man they consider attractive, have said they would like a committed relationship. Edit: clarified this applies to women who think the person they’re interested in is attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 04:33 PM |
| 0 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.Duh they get sex and an LTR the only two things women have ever wanted and nothing else. /J To clarify this is satirical and a joke not to be taken as serious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 04:30 PM |
| 28 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.Excuse you bro women absolutely offer those things. Either you’ve had incredibly poor luck with female friends, or have never had a female friend. Either way though even if this has been your experience, this is not the case with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 04:23 PM |
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