zabts Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Are men approaching me for my body or? Bar none men approach you because they find you attractive especially when your in an environment where you can't speak very much to know the other guy. But beyond that just looking at your breast they are looking at your face, as a guy you don't just look at 1 thing and boom we are a horny mess, thats just not reality; if their plan is to go somewhere else with you they're going to have to look at your face...alot... we aren't going to approach someone we don't want to look at.	/r/seduction	24/10/22 01:41 PM
4	A girl Turing me off after showing interest Did she actually try to engage with you after making eye contact? If you are speaking it's only natural for literally anyone to look at you, eye contact from anyone should be the norm. Just because someone looked at you doesn't mean they are interested.	/r/seduction	21/07/22 11:08 PM
5	A girl Turing me off after showing interest You can't only be using eye contact as a signal right?? I mean literally everyone is going to look at you if you're there. What other signs of interest are you looking for?	/r/seduction	21/07/22 10:15 PM
5	How to stop being the joke? Stop thinking it's because your "better" but when you're to take into account your perspective see it from their perspective and you can see why you're "being made fun of". Change your attitude toward this situation and you change the situation. Change for the better.	/r/seduction	03/07/22 05:48 AM
13	Ex-GF hmu for sex but complication arose. How to handle? Honestly I wouldn't deal with any of that. If she want to bang sure but if it has to do with how fast I respond bump that shit, I'm not staring at my phone waiting for her to text me for the opportunity.	/r/seduction	28/06/22 04:18 AM
5	Dating a good friend or learn how to pick up women ?? (20M) If you like this girl back dont be disingenuous and just randomly try and pick up other girls. Like wtf "ive been bad a picking girls up my entire life and now that one is interested in me do yall think i should try going for a different girl" is literally what you're asking us. Go with what you got while you got it and go out with your friend, itll be more casual because presumably yall are already both comfortable around each other.	/r/seduction	23/06/21 04:30 PM
1	Is it a good thing to date in your 20s? Just trying to keep it real man. I know that type of thinking can be very popular especially in a business type of career alot of people who say their businessmen will type and flex that idealology on the people who have become so desprate they are willing to do anything to make money and "succeed"(1. They get paid for the seminar to tell those people that. 2. They reduce their own competition because now no one is doing anything with anyone else giving themselves an opportunity to step into a d…	/r/seduction	08/03/21 05:50 PM
0	Is it a good thing to date in your 20s? If your in a relationship the entire point of it(should be) is to support the other person. You think because of that book if something happens that if you cant do anything about it that no one can and thats just wrong. Yes you should be adult enough to be able to control your emotions in 95% of situations but that doesnt mean too stay focused you should stay in solitude because "you might get unfocused" if youve found someone good enough they will help you stay focused or for some reason enteri…	/r/seduction	08/03/21 05:04 PM
1	Is it a good thing to date in your 20s? if you cannot handle stress alone you can not handle it with someone's help.< What kind of fucked up logic is that? If you cant do it alone, you cant do it with help? You need perspective before anything else.	/r/seduction	08/03/21 04:35 PM
3	IF a girl doesn't follow you back on IG after she accepted your follow request, is escalating necessary? Lol your putting words in my mouth to rationalize your behavior. If you cant figure out how to start a conversation with someone your going to have a real shitty time in life. If you cant figure out how to get someone's attention without stalking all of their posts am I really the boring one? Find some way to make yourself valuable, you cant find some way to make yourself valuable by not talking to her so you kinda gotta talk to her, to talk to her you kinda gotta have something in common if thi…	/r/seduction	09/10/20 04:47 PM
2	IF a girl doesn't follow you back on IG after she accepted your follow request, is escalating necessary? "Resort to mass DM'ing and liking her posts" You kinda did. Dont harass people online because you dont have any reason to talk to this person or because you "cant" talk to this person in person.	/r/seduction	09/10/20 04:39 PM
7	IF a girl doesn't follow you back on IG after she accepted your follow request, is escalating necessary? Bro thats creepy, dont stalk people on social media.	/r/seduction	09/10/20 04:20 PM
2	17 yo, I think I messed it up. Regaining frame? We all do it from time to time.	/r/seduction	24/09/20 06:25 PM
2	17 yo, I think I messed it up. Regaining frame? I literally had a stroke trying to read this body text.	/r/seduction	24/09/20 05:36 PM
0	Is it just me or is it sometimes better to treat girls like crap? They tend to have more respect and interest towards me. Being respectful and attentive only pushed them away... Lol you are that guy apparently. Get that "Lol its just a joke" bullshit out of our faces and go find a puppers lonely boi	/r/seduction	21/08/20 10:53 PM
3	Is it just me or is it sometimes better to treat girls like crap? They tend to have more respect and interest towards me. Being respectful and attentive only pushed them away... Dont be that guy. Women are people too. If you cant get laid without being a decent person you shouldnt be getting laid bud. Sure it may be fun to poke fun at something but im sure you're that guy that takes it to heart from the nature of your post. Dont be a brat, stand the fuck up and have a conversation with someone and stop trying to manipulate people into sleeping with you. Seduction isnt just about how much sex you have, sex is a by product of the seduction. You shouldnt treat someone like…	/r/seduction	21/08/20 06:15 PM
-1	The Ted Bundy approach You sound more like a loser than the other guy. Dont treat anyone with contempt or "like garbage" and maybe you wont be such a shit stained asshole who takes advice from people who take advice from serial murderers.	/r/seduction	21/12/19 06:20 PM
1	I have a problem Why would you feel shitty? Theyre the ones being shitty people to you, theyre literally leading you on by the sounds of it. Dont be the fool, their game is rigged whether they are aware of that or not. Find better people to hang around. Trust me theyre out there.	/r/seduction	04/12/19 06:33 PM
1	I have a problem You cant force someone to like you, and these people have done enough to lead you on. Its time to find better company.	/r/seduction	04/12/19 05:49 PM
1	I have a problem Move on dude.	/r/seduction	04/12/19 05:39 PM
1	When my FWB meet? How to handle? No they dont. You and your friends just dont go anywhere or try anything new. You keep telling yourself that, and keep getting into the same problems. Even still wheres the law that says you have to hang out with the same people as everyone else? Why do you have to go to the same bar, same school, same spots as everyone youve ever do anything with?	/r/seduction	31/10/19 05:26 PM
2	When my FWB meet? How to handle? Maybe start my not sleeping with so many of your day to day friends. Then proceed with your suddenly stress free life. That aside dont worry about your current situation unless problems arise. If problems arise youll know how to delegate and handle what you need to hanfle by the nature of the sutuation. That said dont cause a situation either.	/r/seduction	31/10/19 04:39 PM
1	What could this be? Maybe shes trying to talk to you more to give you more material to work with. Maybe try and organize a meet up to actually start spending time with this person, see where it goes.	/r/seduction	28/10/19 10:12 PM
2	Is this a weird first date? Came here to say what this guy is. Ive had MUCH stranger first dates that lead to relationships than what you described. Just take it easy, have something(anything) planned for after. Id suggest a movie and food. Or something that you normally wouldn't do but doesnt require effort.	/r/seduction	23/08/19 06:53 AM
3	How do you approach girl on the bus? I mean you can, but don't be surprised if you get maced if you get off at the same stop and happen to be going her way... Idk in my city you don't talk to people you don't know on the bus. Good way to lose all your shit.	/r/seduction	28/03/19 07:25 AM
3	How do you approach girl on the bus? Not gunna lie getting approached on the bus is kinda creepy... But you could always start a conversation about what book it is or books in general. But I can't stress how distressed I would be to have someone approach me in public transport... But the best you got is hoping she sits near you and striking up a conversation about the book... But don't be creepy bus guy.	/r/seduction	28/03/19 07:18 AM
1	How to regain a guy's interest? Maybe your trying too hard at trying then. Maybe talk to him like once a week and see how he's doing. You don't have to do something every day or every week that seems pushy. Like just talk to him and take it easy, your still putting in effort but if that's not enough for him massive he's being too ostintacious or pretentious. Maybe invite him to something you like to do next time you want to do something with him, that he seems even slightly interested in but don't try and invite him all the ti…	/r/seduction	24/03/19 07:42 AM
1	How to regain a guy's interest? Start planning activities to do something with him one on one,you have to talk to him regularly to do that. Find out what he likes to do and research it. Boom effort, if it's anymore than that and your looking for a relationship it'd be going a little to far	/r/seduction	24/03/19 07:03 AM
1	Quite the weird situation here. If she's not actually worth your roommate your fine, if she is actually your roommates SO I'd tell him cause she's triflin	/r/seduction	16/08/18 07:23 AM
1	This is going to sound kind of messed up, but if you want to have more "positive female attention" you'll do very well fitting an archetype/stereotype than being totally unique. It's all about perspective, all of these people trying it out are really looking to get someone other than themselves laid or they're on a one way ticket to a slap to the face and self pity when these girls realize that they literally just put on these clothes and read one buzz feed article on the subject 10mins before hand to get in this girl's pants. It may just be me but I feel as if the techniques described in this post however successful it may be is something that some guy does when he's '…	/r/seduction	23/07/18 06:24 PM
3	This is going to sound kind of messed up, but if you want to have more "positive female attention" you'll do very well fitting an archetype/stereotype than being totally unique. The thing is that'd be great if I'm looking for whomever just happens to really want to go home with "just some type of guy" instead of forming an actual connection with someone. Which I can do no matter how I look. Best believe I'm going to look good as fuck without trying to be something I'm not or wearing something I wouldn't ever wear just to get the chick that sits in the corner of the room waiting for "that guy" to walk through the door. But hey that's just my preference, I like getting to…	/r/seduction	22/07/18 09:58 PM
3	How do I own going bald at 21? Shave your head.	/r/seduction	24/12/16 03:51 PM
3	I'm desperate and scaring off girls left and right. Where to go from here? Just calm down dude. Your not dead yet friend.	/r/seduction	06/10/16 06:32 AM