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Thanks, that's what I was wondering. (I know who he is.)
/r/seduction10/01/11 02:33 AM
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OP, thanks for demolishing the oversimplified caricature of pickup you invented in your head, based (it seems) on the experience of a couple of your friends. Everyone, undergraduate tripe like this is what happens when people try to understand a large, diverse, complicated community in 5-10 minutes.
/r/seduction09/01/11 11:14 PM
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thanks tofutofu wat
/r/seduction09/01/11 10:50 PM
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No offense, but I'm not "white knighting" – i.e. I don't care whether you specifically like me – I just think seddit and pickup in general will be more interesting if people beyond straight cismales feel comfortable being part of the discussion.
/r/seduction09/01/11 10:41 PM
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Pretty common among dudes, sadly, but definitely not universal.
/r/seduction08/01/11 04:24 PM
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It seems to me like attention whoring and manipulation. WTF? This is exactly the kind of shit we try to do, and it's awesome when we do it; calling it "attention whoring and manipulation" just because it's a chick doing it is a double standard. And suggests that you feel intimidated by a girl with a little initiative and personality.
/r/seduction08/01/11 04:24 PM
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Okay, I'm just some ugly, disgusting old guy who used to be an ugly, disgusting young guy, so my viewpoint on "alpha females" and their "seduction techniques" probably doesn't mean a lot. Don't be so hard on yourself! But I think you've answered your own question: this is a <HG5 perspective, basically. HG8s and 9s (or hell, ugly but good PUAs) aren't necessarily going to sleep with literally any pretty girl that says hello.
/r/seduction08/01/11 04:21 PM
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And Boston.
/r/seduction08/01/11 12:01 AM
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That's fair – some people whine just to whine – but speaking as the brother of a trans woman, let me assure you, trans people are not whining just to whine. There is pretty much no demographic with greater struggles than trans people, transwomen especially. (And before someone says "What about African refugees??" I'll just say there are trans people everywhere around the world, just like there are gays all around the world.) Edit: Upvoted for the apology. It's rare on the internet for people to …
/r/MensRights05/01/11 09:11 PM
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Word. Mini-FR that backs up what you're saying: My mom recently died, so on NYE I was in no condition to try very hard, but I did make an effort to be more aloof and disinterested than usual – not always maintaining eye contact, looking around, leaving earlier, etc. And that "how" factor alone seemed to be driving some girls to actively try to get/keep my attention, despite the fact that I was talking about a lot of stupid rambling shit (the "what" factor).
/r/seduction02/01/11 11:44 PM
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Good answer. Upvote. I think the female thing is BS. Pickup will always be a pretty hetero scene for obvious reasons, but I think it's awesome to hear insight from lesbians.
/r/seduction17/12/10 09:33 PM
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I find LesbianPUA's comments among the best here, hands down. But I'm opposed to her nomination, not because she's a female, but precisely because she's seeking to be a mod. I don't trust anyone who seeks to become a mod.
/r/seduction17/12/10 07:46 PM
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I think you're making it too black and white, like it was completely obvious what the perfect balance of Mr. Sensitive and Mr. Badass was, when in reality that's rarely completely obvious.
/r/seduction07/12/10 04:25 AM
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I've actually been forced to read up on better self-control techniques to compensate.... Anyone else have good tips? My roommate suggests picturing Margaret Thatcher naked, but I feel like this almost defeats the purpose.
/r/seduction07/12/10 12:47 AM
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Hooray! I'm really happy for you. I started to make sure she understood that flirting didn't mean I expected sex immediately. I think this is huge. It gives her more space to be sexual at her own pace, and is a DHV for you, because it shows you're in control of your own impulses, not the other way around.
/r/seduction07/12/10 12:45 AM
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This is one thing I like about David DeAngelo – he emphasizes that his material is meant to be about attraction in general, which you can use for whatever purpose you want, not necessarily being a PUA in the mass quantity sense of the term.
/r/seduction07/12/10 12:41 AM
6

If you're keeping your girl happy, she won't be very susceptible to being snatched up. All's fair in love and war (or love anyway)...
/r/seduction01/12/10 03:28 AM
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But why? She sounds like a moody, slightly frigid pain in the ass, honestly. I'm playing devil's advocate here because I think this desperation is really holding back your game. Nobody is turned on by that. If you got more comfortable with your other options – the fact that, for example, you could, if you so chose, dump her annoying ass, and then use your increasingly awesome powers to meet and marry someone who would rock your world even more than she does – it might translate into more confide…
/r/seduction27/11/10 06:28 AM
2

Here's my basic question for you. What are your other options? Are you contemplating them? Comfortable with them? I'm not saying give up. I'm not saying you're not doing a noble thing here. But it feels like you're negotiating from a position of weakness here, because she can sense – or at least, you seem to be communicating, intentionally or not – that you're desperate to make this work.
/r/seduction26/11/10 09:39 PM
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It seems like you take two steps forward, then three steps back. Seriously. Why would you apologize? You had a very good reason to be cool to her – she was being cool to you. I would've said something more like, "I'm sorry if that was hard for you, but you can't be cold to me and expect me to pay attention to you all the time." (Someone else may have a more kung-fu answer, but mine would at least have avoiding totally ceding power and accepting blame.)
/r/seduction26/11/10 09:35 PM
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but if you can't seal this deal, just pack it in. Meaning what exactly?
/r/seduction20/11/10 12:36 AM
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Stay classy, seddit.
/r/seduction19/11/10 07:36 PM
1

Well that's better. On your actual question, IMHO, when in doubt, don't – she'll take time and energy (and possibly reputation) that could be put to better use with someone/something else.
/r/seduction12/11/10 03:50 PM
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Whatever you do, don't pick up the jacket. People usually overestimate how good it looks on them, and get patterns that are too loud and "HEYLOOKIMWEARINGTWEED"-y. And elbow patches are the worst. I realize this is not helpful for your actual question.
/r/seduction12/11/10 03:36 PM
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Seddit is about learning to take charge, make decisions, and be a confident leader(while getting the desired females). Right, which is a pretty widespread male concern, which is why I think it's highly relevant to any male-themed subreddit, including OneY. But I think that's completely compatible with not being a sexist asshole who makes comments like this: I would give plenty of credit to women if all I had to do is slap on some makeup, stay skinny and get hit on all day long. That's the kind o…
/r/seduction10/11/10 06:01 AM
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Why? (the latter)
/r/seduction10/11/10 05:52 AM
0

Because I don't think seduction should have the bad rap that it does, which is the reason why people there are against it.
/r/seduction10/11/10 05:52 AM
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Sup
/r/seduction10/11/10 04:03 AM
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Not to be the language police, but for the record, do we have to say "gaming"? That makes seduction sound sleazy, like we're doing something wrong, when we're not. (Right?)
/r/seduction09/11/10 04:39 AM
1

I should clarify, is this fitting existing shirts, or making fitted shirts from scratch? I thought you meant the latter.
/r/seduction09/11/10 04:37 AM
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$25 for shirts?? Amazing. Everywhere in person I've come across is way more, which is why I use jantzentailor.com (about $35, but you have to wait for weeks and weeks, and the customer service is spotty)
/r/seduction09/11/10 04:21 AM
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I like my black Swatch, and it gets compliments all the time. Depends on the rest of your wardrobe though.
/r/seduction09/11/10 04:20 AM
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1-set Aka, a single person? Why call her a set? :)
/r/seduction09/11/10 02:16 AM
1

I figured, and the OP did the same thing
/r/seduction09/11/10 12:00 AM
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I'm making a serious point here, not just being a grammar nazi – seddit/seduction often ends up depersonalizing people, and I think we should resist this tendency whenever we can.
/r/seduction08/11/10 05:22 PM
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Uh, it's simple – you don't want to meet him at his place first (totally valid, it's probably a tactic of some kind), so you say, "I'll just meet you at the bar/restaurant/whatever."
/r/seduction08/11/10 04:54 PM
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No, a thousand times no! Everyone benefits from more discussion about this stuff.
/r/seduction08/11/10 04:51 PM
1

you might end up being in a FR FTFY
/r/seduction08/11/10 04:50 PM
3

How do PUAs react to people in the LBGT group? If you're an "alpha male", is (male) homosexuality a threat to your masculinity? Further to that, any bisexual or gay sedditors here? Bi dude here, and no, male homosexuality is not a threat to my masculinity, it's bros with my masculinity :) I only browse here occasionally, but in general I find pickup advice to often be gender- and orientation-inclusive -- most people like alpha people, by definition. Confidence is sexy.
/r/seduction06/11/10 04:56 PM
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Seriously. I was pleasantly surprised to see all these "Um, this is not OK" comments in this subreddit. I see no reason why we should be checking our ethics at the door, or walking on eggshells when other posters talk about doing shady things.
/r/seduction03/11/10 01:25 AM
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