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Got sufficiently tipsy so I was really trying to hit on girls the whole night Drunk and desperate? And you're supprised women are not attracted to you?
/r/seduction21/10/17 12:00 PM
1

Yes. She sees who you are. Change who you are. You're the kind of guy who has nothing better to do than to pretend to be friends with a girl he wants to sleep with but won't.
/r/seduction07/10/17 07:42 AM
1

Then don't hug. What's a hug anyway, something where you tried to kiss her and failed?
/r/askTRP15/06/17 08:08 AM
1

"All women communicate covertly" "All men are rapists" "You never do anything for me" Generalizations are very bad communication. If you want to talk about a subject (and I'm not suggesting you do this in your sociology class) give an example, "Mary did X", "X is covert communication", "In my experience women do X more than men" or "I have never seen a man do X". That leaves a lot of room for discussion.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 01:57 PM
5

You have to realize that those classes don't exist to talk about facts or truths. They exist to manipulate people into behaving in a certain way. Almost anything you can read on this sub will go against what you're supposed to learn in that class. Also, statements like "women communicate covertly" are meaningless generalizations, they are not very useful.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 01:41 PM
12

Sensible people don't get sucked into drama.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 10:10 AM
2

If they hit you up, why not simply invite them for dinner or some other "harmless" fun at your place? Then do your thing, and go out after it.
/r/seduction19/03/17 07:33 PM
1

What's actually your goal?
/r/seduction19/03/17 06:18 PM
2

Um, so have you just started looking up, or what? It's completely normal.
/r/seduction18/03/17 10:17 PM
2

To deconstruct that we need to know why he thinks it...
/r/seduction18/03/17 04:59 PM
5

What mental model should a bottom-of-the-barrel guy use You really perform a lot of mental gymnastics before getting to your point. Describe why you think you are at the bottom.
/r/seduction18/03/17 03:56 PM
3

"the type of guy they wanna marry." I feel like this is a good thing It's the same as "you're a nice guy".
/r/seduction13/03/17 11:05 PM
2

Is it legal for a minor to be at starbucks?
/r/seduction06/03/17 05:56 AM
1

ID her, doh.
/r/seduction06/03/17 05:48 AM
3

I cringed at every sentence you wrote. there is this girl Next. There are many other girls. a couple months ago So you've been sitting on your ass for months. started chatting a lot on facebook You mean you tried to entertain her. i decided to go slow and not to rush things with her Yo, months of doing nothing wasn't enough yet? she miss me and told me to stop playing games with her You do something that generates interest in her, but then fall for the most simple test. started texting her on a …
/r/seduction03/03/17 12:14 PM
2

How needy. If this video gets enough likes I'll make another part. For real?
/r/seduction03/03/17 09:59 AM
1

What happens when you contact them? Thoughts? Yeah, build more attraction, give them your number and kick up your heels.
/r/seduction02/03/17 02:46 PM
1

If you're not that guy, sure.
/r/seduction02/03/17 08:52 AM
1

What are you talking about?
/r/seduction02/03/17 08:51 AM
3

how you might try to conceive your "intentions" Why the fuck would you do that, if you deny being a man you already lost. Girls know what a "pick up" scenery looks like They can also recognize a social guy who is showing everybody a good time and is probably fucking some woman she can't possibly compete with.
/r/seduction02/03/17 07:32 AM
16

I don't even need to call, when they hear me shaking the dry food box they come running.
/r/seduction28/02/17 08:56 PM
1

As a child, what did you want to be when you grow up? As a teenager? How did your path to "software" look like, what was the first step, why did you take it, and why did it fascinate you so much that it could become your job? You can build a story of several minutes like this, answer the questions for more pointers. And AFTER you have sold yourself as a passionate human being you can still sell your current job.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 08:54 PM
1

You're 15. No need to worry about that yet.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 05:37 PM
1

A marriage is a contract, it has nothing to do with LTRs.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 05:29 PM
2

Marriage is something that benefits the state primarily and women incidentally, there's really not much good in it for men.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 05:27 PM
2

There are no worthless degrees either, it's about what you make of them. Hot doctor fresh out of university with student debt is not good enough? And "feminists" can be great, just stay away from the man-hating variety.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 05:16 PM
9

Why should she lose her job, if flashing illegal in the uk?
/r/PussyPass30/01/17 09:27 PM
40

Some women should always be accompanied by a male relative.
/r/PussyPass17/09/16 07:13 AM
1

If you think your doctor isn't helping you, find a different doctor.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 07:54 AM
1

Um, why do you ask? Do you never get laid, or...? Maybe you should try to smile.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 08:12 AM
2

I bite off the skin of my lips That doesn't sound healthy, have you ever talked to a doctor about it?
/r/askTRP22/08/16 05:15 AM
7

if you're not willing to defend your political views don't get involved in political discussions. Simple, isn't it?
/r/askTRP20/08/16 08:33 AM
5

she spoilt the dinner for me, saying that I was a killer You should have left then and there. She obviously has no respect for you, or for common courtesy.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:47 PM
3

I snapped like a fool There you said it, you can apologize for that, not for being right. And think about why you snapped, and how to avoid it in the future.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 12:08 PM
1

I have been slacking on my workouts, drinking to excess. You know what your first step has to be. Work out, stay sober, one day at a time. I don't know if my standing will continue, am currently very depressed You know what your second step has to be. Get help for your depression, and go to your counselor about the grades. I feel as though I would need to go somewhere Running away doesn't solve problems.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 04:31 PM
1

SJW doesn't really have a specific meaning, there is no SJW association, manifesto or rulebook. SJWs haven't accomplished anything because they are not a group or organized in any way. But yeah, AWALT is often used here on a level that's equally stupid as saying that all men are rapists. What can you do, insecure guys arrive here and overcompensate. It always depends on context.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 10:35 AM
13

It doesn't work. Also, trp thinks that proper women shouldn't fuck around.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 04:45 PM
4

But the whole point of telling her you "like" her, just screams beta to me I like steaks. I like it when the sun is shining. I like watching a good movie. I like working out. I like this chick. Big deal.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 02:22 PM
1

Start lifting. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 11:41 PM
2

If you say so. I'd rather not have to scroll to read a short text.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 01:29 PM
5

Try to make it so that your post is readable.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 01:23 PM
0

Send her a pic of a horse dick.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 09:17 AM
16

Dude, she's controlling, withholding sex and disrespecting you. What is there to ask... next.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 10:30 AM
1

might want to beat me up Pff, just let him, have witnesses, and press charges. Also, don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 10:48 AM
1

It was obvious where this would go when he touched her shoulder. Hoverhand in recovery I guess.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 03:50 PM
3

That was delightful to watch.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 11:32 AM
1

If you're in a relationship with a woman who physically abuses you it's your fault, get the fuck out and improve your screening skills.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 03:01 PM
1

He didn't even ask for anything. "I need a new car" - did I just ask you for a car? So why not simply reply with "Do you need my help with that?" Then he's already admitting he needs your help. If he replies with "Yes, make <bla>" you can tell him that you'd appreciate some common courtesy.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 10:03 AM
2

Stop trying so hard to be "dominant". This is work, get shit done. What, are words in an emails going to hurt your status? Why do you even think that's rude?
/r/askTRP02/08/16 09:02 AM
1

So you never fought with your lover before? Actually, no, I don't deal with people who have the need to fight. I'm an adult and can solve problems like an adult.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 12:51 PM
1

Seriously, I could tell a six year old that I don't have time because I have to do X. If you know that she's really that argumentative you should have cut her off sooner.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 12:48 PM
3

She asks for an explanation and i repeat "because i say so". I didnt want to spend an hour explaining my reasoning is because i have to cram, and its really important. Dude, wtf. You just said it in one sentence. At least give her that. If she's not happy with that, ignore her.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 12:05 PM
3

My girlfriend is really really stubborn. As am i. Gee, are you both 13 or what? Sounds like you two are perfect for each other. Also, start reading the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 11:57 AM
16

saying I took advantage Talk about not taking responsibility for your actions. Never be alone with her in private again.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 08:19 AM
5

take her out to dinner What do you mean, you pay dinner for women you're not fucking?!?
/r/askTRP31/07/16 08:57 AM
1

Start by realizing that "falling in love" is something that has no basis in reality. You "fall in love" all on your own, by thinking about somebody and imagining beautiful things. Those warm and fuzzy feelings are just your hormones and thoughts going crazy. So, enjoy the ride but don't let it cloud your judgement.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 08:54 AM
1

Usually I just ignore it or carry on as if I don't give a shit about it I prefer to get creative. Q: Was he hot? R: No Cute, he thought he had a shot. R: Yes How much did he turn you on? (More dirty talk and begin fondling her)
/r/askTRP31/07/16 05:31 AM
6

Remove them from your life. No time for toxic people.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 10:11 PM
3

Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 10:36 AM
11

When women start to cry, to me it usually just means they don't want to / aren't able to have a conversation any more. I know that their emotions can overwhelm them, but I'm still mildly annoyed. I emphasize though, I'll get them a tissue. I assume you're talking about a relationship kind of talk, not when something seriously upsetting happened. I'll talk about relationships all day, but I won't have any of this drama.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 04:02 PM
1

it removes friction
/r/askTRP27/07/16 07:53 AM
1

Masturbate. Of course lube makes coming harder, it removes friction. Why would you use lube, a pussy should usually get wet. Your girl can also do kegel exercises.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:14 PM
1

Seriously, as long as you're out there and trying things you're doing better than any bitter guy who has nothing better to do than to insult you on the internet. You sound like you're doing fine.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 02:20 PM
1

"You just feel way too good, maybe if you made your vagina a bit looser haha" Have you seen her again since this? Anyway, if you can't get her off with your dick use your mouth or your fingers, if getting off is even important to her.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 12:18 PM
6

Is this white knight conditioned thinking to have these thoughts? Sounds more like envy than white knighting. Oh wait, they often are the same. Yes, just ignore it.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 09:46 AM
24

Start to eat healthy and to work out.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 09:35 PM
7

Nothing against it, but i find no appeal in pure exercise. That sounds like an excuse. Do it for six months before you decide.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 10:19 PM
2

She was pretty hot [...] since the alpha only goes for the best This is where all the theory fucks you up. If you think a chubby girl is fuckable, the "alpha" thing to do is whatever the fuck you want. I warned her [...] I was here for advice So you care for her, you think she's hot, yet you don't fuck her. Totally non-alpha.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 05:56 PM
4

Delete her number. Do not reply.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 05:34 PM
3

Right on. You don't have to tell somebody who squats to walk slowly either. Or somebody who just spent two hours fucking somebody's brains out.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 02:10 PM
1

How do you deal with people like that? I love them. They attract all the trashy girls I don't want.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 05:51 PM
1

I disagree about the anxiety, some of those lines are playful, others are obvious bullshit. But of course you're right that some women will tell themselves this the next morning, but the problem isn't the close, it's taking her or him home in the first place. If you don't want a ONS without any consequences, don't get into somebody's bed as soon as you can (doh). But it sounded like OP wanted to be a slut.
/r/seduction17/10/15 04:34 PM
14

These are women that I've met briefly through friends Um, so they are from your social circle. Yeah, not really surprising they don't want a one night stand ALL OF THEIR FRIENDS will know about. Besides, the usual counter is "Yeah, you're right.. this is going too fast.. oh my, you're turning me on too much.. This is so wrong.. I can't resist it any more.. I'm going to explode if you don't rescue me.. save me!".. yadda
/r/seduction17/10/15 01:14 PM
147

Thank you. Do you ever go out for coffee?
/r/seduction13/10/15 03:57 PM
2

If you want to close them immediately suggest a change of venue, something off campus, closer to your place, to grab a bite, have a drink, or do something fun.
/r/seduction08/10/15 09:51 AM
3

without making it seem awkward and obvious? That's a problem in how you see it. Women like sex, it's not awkward to want them, it's in our biology, that's also why it's ok to make it obvious. And you close like any other, less attractive guy. By the way, if women come up to you and then you only talk, they never initiate physical contact, you are probably not as great at flirting as you think. Women who are into you will usually start to touch you.
/r/seduction08/10/15 08:42 AM
2

What's your point?
/r/seduction08/10/15 08:36 AM
5

You sound bitter.
/r/seduction08/10/15 07:23 AM
0

It's definitely not a stupid question, but not one you should be asking yourself. A better one would be "When should I ask for her number".
/r/seduction06/10/15 08:08 AM
1

How can you do what?
/r/seduction30/09/15 09:32 AM
1

You think too much.
/r/seduction30/09/15 09:31 AM
7

If you want useful feedback, write a useful FR.
/r/seduction30/09/15 08:45 AM
2

Ask her to hang out?
/r/seduction29/09/15 12:33 PM
2

should I try You have known her for three weeks and don't know yet what she expects from a man, what creates attraction, what turns her on?
/r/seduction29/09/15 12:27 PM
0

Who knows if the facebook info is even up to date. Just go ahead, and ask her about it.
/r/seduction29/09/15 08:04 AM
2

Take her hand and lead her.
/r/seduction28/09/15 09:07 PM
1

how do I get her to say it Don't, words are useless. When you two talk take her hand, squeeze it slightly, if she squeezes back she's into you.
/r/seduction25/09/15 11:00 AM
2

Can't I pick up women without becoming what some call a douchebag? You can pick up women however you like, you don't have to be a douche, just be the confident person YOU want to be.
/r/seduction25/09/15 05:26 AM
1

Tell them you're a producer.
/r/seduction25/09/15 05:14 AM
2

Well, either you or your friends are sucky people. You should either change or find decent friends.
/r/seduction23/09/15 03:36 PM
2

It's a pretty normal reaction to anything that goes against a woman's values. I assume you didn't elicite her values before?
/r/seduction23/09/15 01:47 PM
4

I can't read her mind any more than op can.
/r/seduction23/09/15 01:46 PM
1

So what.. move on!
/r/seduction23/09/15 12:43 PM
0

I'm not sure what you're asking, seduce them? Are they never going to have sex again before Mr. Right comes by?
/r/seduction23/09/15 08:51 AM
2

I wouldn't, I want kids. "Yes, absolutely. I need to find the right woman." Figuring out if they are a contender includes sexing them.
/r/seduction23/09/15 08:12 AM
3

tell them I'm not looking for anything serious right now That's what you say, they hear "I only want to fuck". You do this before having any comfort, trust, value or attraction. Of course even women who are only looking for something casual will walk, if they agreed, what would your next line be, "your place or mine?", "want sum fuk?".
/r/seduction23/09/15 07:31 AM
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It sounds like you're a little too pushy and rush things, too focused on kissing the girl. Kissing isn't an achievement to unlock, it's something that should happen when she is ready. Anyway, simply ASK the girls when they reject you, what do you think how our meeting went, did I go for the kiss too early, I'm really into you and wonder what you think, do you like kissing, what would the perfect kiss be like, etc...
/r/seduction22/09/15 11:30 AM
5

To me it sounds like you escalated to sexual stuff without having a connection first, and then you blew it by wanting to go to a club and not bring her right home. Personally, I prefer to take things more slowly, to know the girl before making it sexual, but if you rush things, in my experience any pause will just give her time to re-consider, and not all girls are comfortable with quick sex once they think about it. Anyway, not necessarily anything wrong with this, just meet her again, and ask …
/r/seduction22/09/15 11:21 AM
1

Loses points for potato quality and pouting though.
/r/seduction21/09/15 06:58 PM
1

Smile! You look alright, but if your mouth always looks like in that pic you probably give off a cold, distant, dismissive vibe.
/r/seduction21/09/15 06:48 PM
6

If she likes you she'll make time.
/r/seduction21/09/15 10:38 AM
5

Smile at them. If you're courageous say hi.
/r/seduction21/09/15 08:04 AM
2

I don't know whether my first time should be meaningless, meaningful, or whether I should wait until I'm married So you would marry somebody without knowing if you're sexually compatible? /r/seduction is about getting women in general.. see also the very first quesiton in the faq
/r/seduction21/09/15 06:43 AM
1

Apparently Penny is attracted to hot guys, not guys who put her down. Not HSE, but not LSE either. Leonard seems like a good provider.
/r/seduction20/09/15 11:03 PM
2

There's a lot of teasing and giggling etc. I think that if women are giggling you're basically entertaining them. That only works on a subset of younger women, and that subset gets smaller as they get older. Most women don't want an entertainer, they want a man, they probably realize this as they get older.
/r/seduction19/09/15 08:23 PM
5

Also, how do I introduce myself to her? Treat her like one of the guests? Or what did you say in your invitation? Anyway, don't comment on her looks, nothing good can come from that. And don't grope her in front of everybody. Just another guest. Then spend some time with her in a social setting. You know, like you'd do with anybody else.
/r/seduction19/09/15 07:47 PM
7

Why would you do small talk? Talk about her values, emotions, desires, what drives her, yadda.
/r/seduction19/09/15 06:30 PM
2

By the end of the night she said "I love you" like 3x. Girl is a crazy drama queen. Just be friendly, but don't let her get too close.
/r/seduction19/09/15 06:36 AM
1

I think you shouldn't link to a website with ads to ask a simple question.
/r/seduction18/09/15 10:44 AM
1

A FR would tell me what you think is important. If you haven't gotten laid after 5000 (or whatever it was) approaches your state of mind is wrong, and whatever errors you make come from that. It's nice that you have opinioins and stand by them, but telling me how I can best help you is one of those things that's off. Just saying, that attitude wouldn't help you to get laid. Do you also tell women why they should be attracted to you?
/r/seduction17/09/15 03:09 PM
3

The women you meet are crazy.
/r/seduction17/09/15 01:17 PM
1

Sure, I have skype, but I don't think it would be productive for me to look at hours of unedited video footage. A FR is much more informative because it tells me your thought process anyway.
/r/seduction17/09/15 05:41 AM
1

You entertained her for three minutes, ignored her friends, and were pushed away phyiscally by some random white knight. Ugh. Just ask her if she wants to do something fun with you.
/r/seduction17/09/15 05:40 AM
2

You have no idea what attraction is, if you had you would have gotten laid by now. All this PUA theory and social theory and what not in your head doesn't make you attractive, on the contrary, you seem to be overthinking everything and rationalize your failures. Anyway, write a field report and feel free to pm me when you do.
/r/seduction17/09/15 05:01 AM
2

Dude. I've just had a look at your post history. Don't you think that with your results, everything you think you "know" could be wrong?
/r/seduction17/09/15 04:29 AM
2

I think you have a misconception of what confidence is. Being a drunk loudmouth isn't being confident, neither is "acting alpha" anyway. If you don't like going to bars, don't go, do something you like instead. That's part of being confident. Besides, being sober will make you stand out.
/r/seduction17/09/15 02:59 AM
3

So what would you suggest doing instead, being a negative nancy is easy. Oh, and you should try different bars..
/r/seduction17/09/15 02:24 AM
0

Yup. I'd have deleted her number after the third plausible refusal, or the first implausible. Seriously, people who don't want to meet you in a public place aren't right in their head.
/r/seduction16/09/15 01:53 PM
2

You build rapport and trust. That's what should happen naturally as you get to know a person. Do girls feel threatened by you?
/r/seduction16/09/15 01:12 PM
2

Congrats! Yeah, that's all there is to it ;-)
/r/seduction15/09/15 01:09 PM
1

Ask her to hang out.
/r/seduction15/09/15 05:52 AM
1

Uh, yeah, probably too long, maybe she even lost all attraction she had after you decided not to spend time with her at the fun event she invited you to. Anyway, no need to guess, just contact her.
/r/seduction14/09/15 12:53 PM
2

I want to contact her now but don't know what to say. Just set up a coffee meeting. She was a serious 9/10. Yeah, get over that, it's nothing special.
/r/seduction14/09/15 11:42 AM
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not as high-quality/attractive Well, if you only go for looks, sure. To me, personality beats looks, beauty is nothing special. the girls that express their interest to you, probably can't do any better... Wow. That's sounds so low self-esteem, I don't even know where to begin.
/r/seduction11/09/15 09:24 AM
4

get anyone to like me enough to date me Don't try to make a girl like you, go for the girls who already like you because of your looks. Much easier.
/r/seduction11/09/15 07:36 AM
1

You sound depressed. See a doctor? Or start squatting again to get that testosterone flowing.
/r/seduction10/09/15 07:41 PM
0

You: We should do this again. Her: <anything positive> You: Maybe we should... Her: <however she wants to be contacted>
/r/seduction10/09/15 11:24 AM
6

"it was fine" Move on. You seeked approval, she gave you the minimum without being rude.
/r/seduction09/09/15 04:25 PM
3

Though I'm purely trying for a freidnship and nothing else. I simply want us to remain really good friends She's clearly into you, I'm pretty sure she doesn't want a friendship. Tell her she's not good enough for you, or you're heartbroken and not ready for a relationship, or gay, or something... or just take it one step further with her.
/r/seduction09/09/15 10:15 AM
36

Looking cute is a great start. If you want to look hot.. grow some facial hair and some muscle I guess. If you get hit on by gay guys you may be giving them too much eye contact.
/r/seduction09/09/15 09:58 AM
1

Fox sex, your place or hers. For texts, who cares. It's about her being interested in you.
/r/seduction09/09/15 07:23 AM
25

Hi.
/r/seduction09/09/15 07:10 AM
1

Eat healthy, work out. Toys if she's into that.
/r/seduction09/09/15 02:55 AM
5

There's nothing wrong with flirting with a woman and making it obvious that you are interested in her. Why do you think you need to be subtle?
/r/seduction07/09/15 07:11 PM
2

"Nono, that's not necessary" You probably won't get a different reply, but just ask again. Then ask ten other women out.
/r/seduction07/09/15 05:26 PM
21

My question: Is it normal for a girl to be so touchy and so seductive after you just met? If she's into you, sure. You know, women are as horny and interested in sex as men, maybe even more so. If they like you they will usually start touching you. If they do, touch them as well.
/r/seduction07/09/15 03:08 PM
-1

You should always be as aggressive as the girl wants you to be. You could, you know, just ask her what turns her on.
/r/seduction07/09/15 02:27 PM
4

What did I do wrong? You look like you can be pushed around. You look weak because it took you hours to approach and you didn't get any action from the girls you approached before. You're desperate and are at last approaching his group, obviously with the intent of pulling girls, not to have fun with the guys or the entire group. He thought he could push you around, and he was right. Words aren't going to salvage this.
/r/seduction07/09/15 02:16 PM
7

If you've known her for a month and not made a move yet.. well.. move faster with the next girl.
/r/seduction07/09/15 12:34 PM
2

Talk to her and figure out if she's into it or not.
/r/seduction07/09/15 11:18 AM
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Hi.
/r/seduction07/09/15 08:37 AM
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she knows that I'll comfort her and she's right You're her girlfriend, she uses you as a dumping ground for her emotions. Just delete her number if you don't like that.
/r/seduction06/09/15 09:52 AM
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Overconfidence is just hidden insecurity, find out what she's insecure about. She never "really" gets attached to guys? So ask her who she got somewhat attached to, why, why it faded, yadda.
/r/seduction06/09/15 09:18 AM
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Start by figuring out what interests her. That means to ask her. If she can't give you an answer ask the right questions, what did guys in the past do she liked, what kept previous relationships alive, etc.
/r/seduction05/09/15 07:58 AM
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Why did she break up with you? If it's something you can improve about yourself, start by doing that.
/r/seduction04/09/15 03:11 PM
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it would be weird cause we're coworkers Dude, seriously, don't shit where you eat. If you can't even flirt/interact normally with a woman, don't practice it in a professional environment with people you might see for years and who will remember your awkward moves. she might've misunderstood me and say I thought she was joking about being mad Also this is just bad. Meta talk, too rational, telling her she was wrong, yadda.
/r/seduction04/09/15 09:13 AM
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I see. Well, that's really up to you, you have to make the decision. Whatever you want, I'd recommend to be honest with your girls, especially in a setting where you're guaranteed to run into them again.
/r/seduction04/09/15 07:10 AM
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saying all the right things what to do now You're not sure how to take it further from talking to them? Not really sure what you're asking. If you're into a girl, try touching her... playfully.
/r/seduction04/09/15 06:56 AM
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can only be conjugated with a women who has similar aspirations as me That sounds incredibly limiting to me. You don't need someone with similar aspirations, but someone who appreciates them, your art, and with a compatible lifestyle (if you'll be travelling a lot etc). Be a little more open, plenty of girls are into the fine arts.
/r/seduction03/09/15 12:31 PM
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Could this be incentive to just say something? No, it's just normal behavior. That being said.. you should approach anybody you find cute Right. There's no reason not to say hi.
/r/seduction03/09/15 12:11 AM
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and said she'd make up for it Ask her what she's willing to do.
/r/seduction02/09/15 06:31 PM
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without making it too obvious Don't be ashamed of being attracted. Just invite her to hang out with you and your cool friends.
/r/seduction02/09/15 06:30 PM
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What makes you think it would be harder than anywhere else?
/r/seduction02/09/15 03:49 PM
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No, your girlfriend is abusive, you just defended yourself. Her behavior is something that would make me want to end a relationship.
/r/MensRights02/09/15 08:25 AM
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Did you ask her? I don't see how a "traditional and proper" girl would wait for you to return.
/r/seduction30/08/15 09:51 PM
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If she's waiting for you... are you sure you had to break up? She might be ok with you seducing other girls...
/r/seduction30/08/15 06:07 PM
1

Or pick some hot model as your profile pic.
/r/seduction30/08/15 06:04 PM
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Well, how do you let girls know you want them?
/r/seduction30/08/15 12:37 PM
1

What?
/r/seduction30/08/15 12:36 PM
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because I don't want to develop a reputation as the guy who every girl has slept with but generally don't have penetrative sex That's... kinda.. funny. To an outsider it makes no difference at all if you stick it in her or not. As for the girls who ask for your number, ask them WHY it's important to them. Then either lie and tell them what they want to hear, or tell them the truth (which can be the number or that it's none of their business). how do I get to the stage where I have a lot of femal…
/r/seduction30/08/15 12:35 PM
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