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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	According to feminists, the fact that women still aren't allowed to talk about their periods at large is a sign we live in a misogynistic society, where are feminists then fighting to take the stigma off of men having erections in public or being open about their sex drives then? Comparing a period to an erection is so beyond stupid I need to believe you're a troll. A period is something that happens to healthy women every month is a distict period of pain and discomfort. Erections are (not always but at least mostly) a sign of sexual arousal. Women broadly are on the receiving end of enough sexual harassment as is, we don't need a movement of men drawing attention to, and talking about, random erections in inappropriate spaces. To even draw this analogy is ridiculous.	/r/MensRights	09/11/23 08:44 AM
-7	India Plans To Criminalize Marital Rape, So Some Men Are Boycotting Marriage What the fuck is this thread and what the fuck are the arguments in that article. If not being allowed to repeatedly rape your wife makes you not want to get married, then good, you shouldn't be getting married, or allowed within 500 feet of another human being. And what is with all of the pro-marital rape comments in this thread? I thought we all agreed rape was bad guys? People saying if you can't rape with your wife you should kick her out and withhold money and shelter? PSA: Abuse bad. Can't…	/r/MensRights	06/07/23 02:33 PM
1	Average feminist interaction: God this is so braindead. Both men and women have certain privaleges due to sex. How we perceive these, or try to mitigate them is the real issue. Stop saying men have no sex-based benefits, people will ignore everything else you have to say, because you'll sound like a deluded moron. You're gonna give more normal MRAs a bad look, and alienate yourself.	/r/MensRights	21/11/22 03:19 AM
1	"Not all men but enough to make women feel unsafe." I think there's been some misunderstanding here because your reply has almost nothing to do with what I said at all.	/r/MensRights	27/05/21 12:21 PM
3	"Not all men but enough to make women feel unsafe." If you believe that then no doubt you also believe 97% of men are sexual offenders... Highly unlikely. Even if you assumed that the 97% assault stat was true and took it at face value, it could be down to only a minute portion men being serial assaulters. Murders, rapes, and robberies aren't 1:1 perpetrator to victim, why would this be?	/r/MensRights	26/05/21 03:53 PM
-2	My sisters are sexist and it’s really bugging me we just don't bother because no one listens This is kind of what they mean though. Men are conditioned not to share their feelings, society is indirectly teaching us that either nobody cares, or we're looked down on for needing emotional help. By putting men, usually straight men, in less than stellar social circles, the big ol' patriarchy is teaching men not to share their feelings. They don't mean that it's a literal lesson. It's the same sort of teaching and conditioning western men go throug…	/r/MensRights	10/03/21 11:45 AM
8	Yo fam....Did she just...speak the truth Or that they like tattoos. Granted I've only met four women who have had tattoos, but three of them are fine, and the fourth is only broke because she's sending all her spare money back to brasil to help get the rest of her family out.	/r/MensRights	18/08/20 10:11 PM
2	So my teacher is a bit pissed at me, what are some good ways to respond? Your prof made a few hilariously incorrect points, which are thankfully provably incorrect. Other comments have done it perfect justice already, but you can have a field day with your response email. The absolute most important thing here though is to be polite in your response. You can't give them anything with which to dismiss your email. You have to be professional and cordial the whole time, and cannot put anything in there that makes you come off as a smug arsehole. The behaviour rules at m…	/r/MensRights	21/04/20 02:09 AM
4	Landlord gender discrimination Landlords can't discriminate, but current tenants can. If you're to be moving in to an empty flat then there shouldn't be any issues, but if you're looking to rent a room then it's at the discretion of the people you'll be moving in with. Especially since they can more than likely argue that when they held interviews that your vibes didn't match, so even if gender discrimination in that case was illegal, then there's nothing you can do about it. Personally I feel like that's an ok ground to sett…	/r/MensRights	15/04/20 01:39 AM
1	Another example of women berating men on Facebook Yet another person who doesn't realise that the answer to the question "where are all the good men?" is "married to the good women", oh but you're still single? Did I stutter?	/r/MensRights	14/04/20 10:25 PM
1	Hypergamy is the root cause of both the wage gap and the child care gap. It doesn't just harm men, but also harms women. Up to 1 in 3 men are required to pay for children that aren't even their own. The ~33% figure came from one particular study of paternity tests where there was probable cause for the man to think the kid wasn't his. Using this figure as a blanket is misleading at best, and malicious at worst. The headline there isn't the implied "one in three kids are borne of infidelity and you don't even know it", it's "one in three men who had evidence to suggest their spouse was cheating on them, found out t…	/r/MensRights	14/04/20 12:04 AM
2	Hypergamy is the root cause of both the wage gap and the child care gap. It doesn't just harm men, but also harms women. I don't think that would impact hypergamy. If we're talking about the idea that women try to marry across or up, then I don't see how divorce law or child custody/support reform would change anything. The idea is that women go for those men before they get married/have kids because they want that man's resources and genetic material. I do support divorce and family court reform anyway, but I don't see how it's relevant to hypergamy	/r/MensRights	13/04/20 07:21 PM
-1	Hypergamy is the root cause of both the wage gap and the child care gap. It doesn't just harm men, but also harms women. I have numerous problems. Extensive population growth is not a good thing, nor is guaranteeing every member of society reproduces. Economic growth by means of population is an awful strategy, and you don't need much understanding to realise that. Men will not reduce in competitiveness just because they've got a wife. I understand that men seeking status is a product of the biological desire to procreate, and higher status equals higher chances, but that desire will not go away just because he's …	/r/MensRights	13/04/20 07:14 PM
2	Hypergamy is the root cause of both the wage gap and the child care gap. It doesn't just harm men, but also harms women. If it's bad for the people who make up the society, why would it be good for society? Marriage enforcement is bad all round. Human mating instincts run on a ~20 year time frame as well, so even if enforced marriage/monogamy was a good idea, it would need a 15-20 year time limit anyway.	/r/MensRights	13/04/20 03:58 PM
5	Hypergamy is the root cause of both the wage gap and the child care gap. It doesn't just harm men, but also harms women. How would you address hypergamy, and would it even be a good thing to do so? If it is something that is real and a biological fact, how can we address it in any way that would be beneficial or meaningful?	/r/MensRights	13/04/20 12:47 PM
1	So this is a hate sub I'm part of this community, there shouldn't need to be a distinction made to exclude me from your we. If the goal here is to make progress then we need to be able to work with other people, who have other views. A key component to building and maintaining a healthy dialogue is the ability to see things from the perspective of the other side. That little side-comment at the bottom is simply showing how the comment I responded to works just as well when said by a feminist. It's an important to rea…	/r/MensRights	11/04/20 05:21 PM
-3	So this is a hate sub This is seen as a hate sub towards women, and if you look at some of the threads it's not super shocking. Unfortunately it's another case of a vocal minority ruining the representation of the wider group. It's also to be expected. Due to how the two side of the debate are presented in mainstream media, people tend to come to feminist activism due to being misled, whereas people tend to end up as MRAs after getting personally hurt/screwed. Obviously people end up in both camps for both reasons,…	/r/MensRights	11/04/20 03:34 AM
10	So this is a hate sub To be fair, a lot of the comments here are pretty salty and unpleasant. It's borderline impossible to have proper discussions almost anywhere on the internet these days. I've had some nice discussions here, as I have on r/feminism, r/twoxchromosomes, and r/breadtube, but they're more the exception than the rule. Everything political is a hate sub at this point.	/r/MensRights	11/04/20 03:23 AM
5	a very ironical ban The thing that gets me is that r/feminism is actually a fine sub for talking about issues, so long as you're not being a dick about anything. A couple of mods are just so happy to drop the banhammer than some threads get locked down for almost no reason. Whether or not you get banned or have a nice chat is essentially all down to which mod is awake at the time.	/r/MensRights	15/11/19 10:34 AM
8	a very ironical ban Yeah, there's no way to have a chat in some places. I got banned from r/feminism for doing nothing but saying that we should refrain from using unreliable sources during discussions. I'm not joking, this is my comment, and I've been permanently banned, despite having several very productive and amicable discussions previously. Some mods just powertrip you know.	/r/MensRights	15/11/19 10:28 AM
7	Female comment outlines the double standards and hypocrisy that exists in today’s social structure in regards to what women want and how they want to be treated. No wonder men have no idea what’s okay and what’s not anymore. Dating inside the workplace in Scotland is fine. Issues do arise, obviously, if party A is a direct boss of party B and can affect their career. Often you'll find that couples in one office exist quite commonly, but all the successful relationships have been between people on different teams. Usually not a problem, but my dad was asked to assess the performance of his girlfriend and he did have to disclose that he couldn't make an unbiased assessment. Which annoyed him greatly because the two of…	/r/MensRights	16/09/19 10:31 AM
1	Imagine what people would say if the genders were reversed. “AITA for cutting out my daughter for not wanting to raise a child” I don't think this is real either, if the 22yo lives at home, how in god's name did nothing/nobody come to the house in the whole greater than 9 months this situation has been going on. Honestly I would have a similar reaction, and I guarantee that the 22yo would end up giving in eventually anyway. You have to take responsibility for your actions, and in this way men are disadvantaged by our own biology. At the end of the day, if you aren't old enough for a kid, buy a fleshlight and leave women …	/r/MensRights	21/08/19 04:05 PM
8	I posted this to r/Feminism and I got banned. It's because this doesn't have much to do with their arguments. Many will argue that the rate is only as low as it appears to be because: As most rapes are committed by someone the victim knows, the victim often does not report a rape to the police. And if the report is made days/weeks/months later, the evidence is gone, and the case is dismissed. These stats only count the "proven" rapes, not the actual number of rapes. There is evidence to suggest that due to a number of issues in the way we c…	/r/MensRights	21/08/19 03:58 PM
1	Welp I did it and I got banned Hey I really appreciate that, maybe I'll look at fleshing it out over the weekend :)	/r/MensRights	21/08/19 01:16 PM
2	Welp I did it and I got banned Don't enter as an anti-feminist, and generally don't make a post, at least not in the main feminism subreddit, the ask feminism subreddit is better for entertaining a full length discussion, provided you don't get too rude/heated. The main feminism subreddit is there for informed discussion from the feminist perspective, and it's pretty easy to spot someone who doesn't actually know what they're talking about from the lens of feminist theory. I would recommend reading some, they are genuinely in…	/r/MensRights	21/08/19 01:14 PM
1	Welp I did it and I got banned Brigading is highly unlikely to be effective in any fashion, and is more likely to cement them in place than show them the other side of the coin. Most people don't like to debate in general, and it's often worse online, where people tend to forget the person on the other end of the screen. It must be a calm discussion, allowing reasonable time to all points, rather than a combative one, if it's actually going to make any progress. If what you're doing can be seen as a personal attack, or that y…	/r/MensRights	21/08/19 12:51 PM
7	Welp I did it and I got banned I think you're being a bit dismissive. Women do still face issues in western society, and the real grating point is that men face different issues. The youtuber Lindybeige put it quite succinctly in his video on the topic. Consider two people, identical in every way except one is tall and the other short. When you're tall, you do things that are natural to you without thinking about it, you can always see the stage at concerts, you have no issues reaching things off of high shelves, tall men hav…	/r/MensRights	21/08/19 12:45 PM
15	Reminder that women don't want to debate about male rights because they can't stand to be proven wrong. You know, some people just don't like to debate/discuss issues like these. In my experience, most people are willing to discuss most things, until you start being a bit of a pest, or act really arrogantly. For example, my communist-feminist friend Ellie actually quite enjoys discussing ideas, just not with Jack. Me and Jack have a lot of points of agreement, and often the discussions me and Ellie have, I agree with Jack's position. Jack's a dick, discussing anything with him where you don't agre…	/r/MensRights	17/07/19 03:00 PM
20	tattoo artist only serves females because “ men have everything “ I thought tattoos were prohibited in Islam as they are a desecration of Allah's creation?	/r/MensRights	05/07/19 10:04 AM
30	Found this on the door of a hair salon in Cape Town, this is horrible, I haven’t seen a single barber shop that says “No women allowed for security reasons” From what my girlfriend has told me about life in SA (she's from Joburg), as much as this is discriminatory, there's realistically a good reason for it. You've got to think about what made these people to feel the need to put a sign like this up, it's possible that they've been rabid man-haters since they opened the store, but I'd like to find out more from the owners.	/r/MensRights	26/04/19 12:53 PM
-6	Yale: Fugly Feminists Sue School: Fraternities Won't Invite Them to Their Parties Let's be honest, sexual assault and groping will be happening at these frats. I was in mixed accommodation when I started uni, and it happened there too, surely it would only get worse when mixing in the stereotypical fratbro culture. It is a problem, and we should address it, is this the to do so? Maybe not, perhaps lowering the legal drinking age to the 18 would help. Then frathouses wouldn't be able to dominate the social scene during those first few years as much as they do. I can only offer…	/r/MensRights	23/04/19 10:02 AM
3	What Facebook considers "hate speech" You could have made your point in nicer terms. Coming out swinging like that get's nobody on your side. When was the last time someone changed a mind, or won a debate with rhetoric like this? I'm not saying you should have been suspended, but there is a better way to say it. As a side note, facebook define hate speech as anything that negatively stereotypes any group of people for immutable characteristics. So it could have been that they thought you were describing men as evil or women as hom…	/r/MensRights	23/01/19 12:05 PM
8	Pension age for women to finally be EQUAL to that of men. I really hope you're in the lower end of your teenage years, these comments are so cringey	/r/PussyPassDenied	06/11/18 08:10 PM
2	Female attorney is told her photo is "stunning". She erupts in outrage, he apologizes, she decides the apology wasn't enough and decides to publically shame him on social media because "He hasn’t in my view accepted the fact that his actions were incredibly sexist" I suppose so, but I don't see the small chance of meeting a malicious woman as a threat worthy of writing off half the species over. I don't like eclairs but that's no reason not to buy a box of heroes you know? Whatever your trauma brought you to this decision, I'm sorry, and I hope you can find happiness one day.	/r/MensRights	13/12/17 05:48 AM
13	Female attorney is told her photo is "stunning". She erupts in outrage, he apologizes, she decides the apology wasn't enough and decides to publically shame him on social media because "He hasn’t in my view accepted the fact that his actions were incredibly sexist" I feel like this is probably an overreaction, I've never had any problems with female colleagues. But I suppose it depends on the workplace.	/r/MensRights	12/12/17 05:15 PM
2	Seems that teaching students "Men are guilty until proven innocent" is now a priority Did you just assume someone's gender? You're a fucking monster.	/r/MensRights	23/06/17 10:54 PM
1	Paternity tests should be mandatory before listing the father's name on a birth certificate. I think a simpler solution would be to not list the father's name on the birth certificate at all, and then require them as mandatory in cases of suing for child support, custody, etc. Then you only spend the time and money on the cases where it's actually needed.	/r/MensRights	22/06/17 02:28 PM