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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Remember, men have no problem using you for relationship benefits until they find someone better this is such a scary thought, maintaining a relationship for no reason other than having someone and just stringing them along	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/06/21 10:46 PM
1	Men get their nice guy ideas from high school movies and the anime harem genre. This speaks to the difference between the female gaze, and what men think the female gaze is. There's a trope, men written by women, Mr. Darcy (Jane Austen) type which I think perfectly personifies the female gaze. Hot, rich, stoic yet charismatic and respected guy falls hopelessly in love with a girl, and continues to pursue her (respectfully) after being rejected once-- what women think the ideal man is. Then, there's the trope of what men think women think the ideal man is. Think Marvel, Tara…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 04:22 AM
155	At FDS, we are not SWERFS. In fact, our goal is to help as many women as possible escape the industry. Here's why. It makes me sick to my stomach when I see youtubers and women on tiktok talking about how much money they make from OF. Fourteen year old girls hear that and internalize it, twelve year old girls hear that and internalize it. All you need to enter the SW industry is a phone. You’re right— it’s not empowering, it’s not normal and it shouldn’t be a respected career. Sex workers themselves are the victims in all of this, most have been groomed and coerced into their line of work. I’ll never underst…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/21 01:43 PM
6	What's something that always bothered you/felt weird while growing up, but you could never place why until you realized it was misogyny? My mother was vehemently pickme, but not the insufferable, attention seeking type. She’s a self proclaimed tomboy, and always encouraged us to stay away from typically “girly” behaviour, attire, and even interests because she wanted to prepare us for the very male-dominated world she lived in. My brother and I used to call each other “lady” as an insult and invented the “lady touch” (like the cooties or cheese touch, a very bad thing). It really messed with me growing up and going through pubert…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/21 04:26 AM
36	There is no obligation for you to stay with an unaffectionate man. "only SO by title" well said	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/21 05:35 AM
15	Are you doing the Pickme Backslide? That's so funny-- I never correlated this kinda behaviour with my ovulation before but now that you mention it...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/21 04:50 AM

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