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60% of men are in a relationship while 30% of men are sexually inactive. Idk where you’re getting your data from.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 11:39 AM
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No I agree some women love teddy bears and men who are fat especially if they’re tall. The thing is there are no spaces for fat men to find these women who love fat men the same way gays have spaces for certain types like bears. This is why I said the problem is the two finding each other not that one don’t exist because they certainly do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:52 AM
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On one hand I agree on the other I don’t. The thing is gay culture and straight culture are vastly different. Gay culture is riddled with types unlike straight culture which has types but more centered around the “norm”. For example a gay fat dude won’t have a hard time dating or having sex if he’s not ugly because he’s a bear and a lot of gays are into bears. While a fat straight man might be desired by some women the majority want a normal average man. Being fat isn’t a type in straight cultur…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:47 AM
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My problem with hijab and Islam in general is that it’s a cult. Sure religion but basically if you take it at face value it’s a cult, not that much different. And women wearing hijab is just another cultish ritual that make no sense to anyone outside that cult. The problem with hijab is that it’s really done out of free will and even if it did, can she take it off? There’s a difference between hijabi in west and in the Middle East. A lot of women in the Middle East west hijab on their own free w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:24 AM
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And men don’t? A lot of fat women complain how they be seeing a guy and sleeping with him but he never introduce her to his friends because she’s fat and he’s ashamed of that. Or literal chubby chasers complaining how it’s hard for them to tell their friends what type of women they’re into because they will be judged. I think in general men care less that’s true but there’s still stigma and they still care what their friends think too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:25 AM
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.. because she wants to work?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 10:35 AM
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Out of her 9 million followers why would she pick you? genuinely asking not being mean
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 10:49 PM
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but doesn't some men do this too? have sex with a woman but "she's not relationship material" and he'll just "use her" for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:44 PM
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Women don't tolerate BS. so they leave the relationship if they're not happy. frankly i feel like that's fair and everyone is allowed to do that. you don't have to be in a relationship if you don't wanna. The whole "you have to be perfect" and "women always leave" sound very weird and biased to me tbh. because most women don't have the energy to spend years being with a guy just to leave years later unless something is off. YOU have to believe you're perfect and enough. Otherwise others can sens…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:14 AM
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Now you'll watch men bend over backwards just to avoid accountability and dump all the house work on the wife even if she works too "but she works a couple of hours less therefore i don't have to hold my baby"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:42 PM
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especially when he exhibits as much as slight frustration about his rejection you mean when he call her a fat whore after she reject him? have you not seen the countless screenshot of self proclaimed nice guys having rants to women on dating apps about how nice they're and women are bitches for saying no to them. you're putting nice guys on a pedestal idky when the percentage of actual nice guys among nice guys is low. and still women are allowed to say no to anyone for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:31 PM
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Beats giving money to the pastor while he diddles little boys and telling me to wait for marriage to have sex in a failing economy. I'll take athiest edge lord any day over being in a cult, amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:14 PM
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do men face any accountability for their sexual past if they had one? and if so what is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:58 PM
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following a faith is a red flag in of itself imo. i guess people who are not virgins should stay clear of people certian faiths that are not compatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:49 PM
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Well for one im glad the good old days are behind and this way of life will never come back. building "better situation than the current one for society and families in general" over women choices is not it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:17 AM
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there's no hypocrisy here. men dont have to date fat women and women don't have to date ugly men. the whole body positivity thing is just against bullying and social stigma but when it comes to dating people can do whatever they want. if men were being bullied for their looks im pretty sure there would be a movement for that. but all is happening is that women won't date them and they have to work on it same way fat women should.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:14 AM
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I remember in to “catch a predator” Chris hansen said there was not a single woman during their entire investigation that was interested in little boys. Not a single one. I think because mostly women who are predators must have some kind of personal relationship with their victims and they use their victims as a way to unload their issues of create the perfect companion or something. The thing is the reasons male and female predators prey on victims have very very different reasons. For men it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:56 AM
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But then why so many men are afraid of being settled for then? Because it doesn’t sound bad. It sound more like the guy is jealous and envious that the woman had an active social and sexual life before him and he never got to experience that so he fear she’s settling when in fact what she’s doing is the normal progress of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:32 AM
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This is such a generalization I never understood. Humans aren’t binary like this where you’re either sexy and broke or ugly and rich. It sound like such a cope and weird mental gymnastics to justify a viewpoint. People can be cute and hot and interesting while also financially good (doesn’t have to be rich) and people can be ugly and broke and boring. I think men misunderstand settling with women just marrying a guy who’s suitable for her age at that moment in her life. Because let’s say women s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:22 AM
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Not really. And depend on what you mean by expendable. Maybe the girl leave to be with another guy but that doesn’t mean the next guy is better. Does this mean the first guy was expendable or the girl didn’t know his worth? Same with girls they’re literally just a walking fleshlight for a lot of guys so the same may apply here. All girls are the same therefore expendable. You just feel like men are more expendable because the girl has more options but that doesn’t necessarily mean the other opti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:43 AM
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No it’s not a burden only men carry. EVERYONE is expendable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:34 AM
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This is something i've always noticed in men especially red pillers. they find girlfriends and wifes and they get in a relationship that's not bad and think "hey.. ive made it.. now im high value and maybe i can do better. i want to experience what else is out there and maybe there's better" and i fail to understand how is this any diffrent than hypergamy? yall accuse women left and right of being hypergamous and not good for ltr and THE MOMENT yall think you have value you do the exact same and…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:57 PM
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i think the problem in men acting like the sex just happened to them and like they didnt expect the girl to get pregnant. when women find out they're pregnant they act accordinally weither they get an abortion or keep the baby where both are very taxing on her. but when women get pregnant men act as if she had sex alone without him there and without him knowing the risk. like he know she might get pregnant and he know it'll be out of his power after that. women also know this and live with the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:16 PM
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im not really understanding what you're saying. i think the only thing in common between strange women and wife when it comes to sex is consent. you cant ask random women for sex but you can ask your wife. you can flirt with wife but random women not as much so no these two arent the same. you're confusing consent with wanting sex. because if a random woman said no to sex then its a no forever but a no from wife cant be forever. wife is special because the no from her isnt forever. you love her …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:08 PM
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The way ya'll talk about sex make it sound exhausting and not fun to have it with you. Like it's totally normal to turn it down every once in a while because life but if you're not getting any sex there's a bigger problem here. And if a woman reject her husband everytime then same thing, ya'll have a bigger problem. But the way you're talking about sex makes it sound like something wife gives to her huband than something they do together which is really off putting and make it sound like the pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:40 PM
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When it comes to relationships there’s no such thing as being shallow because attraction is a requirement and has to be there in the relationship to work. Of course adults shouldn’t bully each other or make friends based on looks. But sex is one of the components of a relationship so attraction has to exist and it’s not shallow if someone is not my type or I don’t see them as attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:38 PM
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Yea the whole settling thing never made sense to me. Like on one point all women are bad and manipulative because they settle. But women should lower their standards and be with men who are “nice” but not attracted to, and for some reason that’s not settling? So women should settle but not really settle but also somewhat settle but don’t call it settle…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:46 PM
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I mean sometimes the bus is convenient because maybe you don’t like to drive or not good with cars and their parts and maintenance. And having a Ferrari isn’t what everyone want because they’re expensive as hell to maintain and a very acquired taste. So IT IS different because not everyone is mad riding the bus and not everyone’s dream to ride a Ferrari.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:29 PM
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ah yes men as always dodging accountability. if she get raped it's her fault for choosing this man. but if a man marry a woman and she take half their stuff then all women are gold diggers and a poor man was duped.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:08 AM
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if a woman ignored a question the guy would not care and move on to the next one. because the guy wants the date with the girl and his criteria isnt the same as her's. why do you care what women would tell the man online? you asked how to fix a problem you get and i told you how. also i don't think vague is the right word, more like "broad"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:20 AM
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I'm literally struggling to say anything but that "it's just a question" lol but i get your point. the thing is ignoring her question or lying is weird. and it'll make your job even more of a subject of discussion. what i think you should do is probably say something vague but legit. like instead of saying you own saying you own a fucking school you could say you work in education and with young children at school. idk but not answering such a simple question is weird. better to answer it and mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 11:57 PM
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And the average woman. Women don’t hate average guys they just assume there are better ones out there because they got options. And the same thing high demand guys do. They don’t settle for average women they take the top hottest woman there is for relationships and the average woman is a good shag.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:56 AM
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its literally just money. you're a walking atm to them and a way out and thats okay. but dont talk about respect and how they feel protected and need protection and how you feel appreciated. its literally just money and status and a green card. youre going to places where even the men are looking for a way out. i doubt youre talking about europe or even east europe. more likely third world countires where women have no better option. personally i wouldnt brag about how if the other gender had no…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:15 AM
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so men are so emotional they start wars and yet women are the emotional ones? lol being angry and having dick fight is emotional and men have been doing that for decades and are the literal reasons we had wars. dont act just because men started a war and women dont wanna participate in it that means women are emotional and weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:11 AM
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it depends by what you mean "casual sex" i think women love hook ups with fwb or with guys she knew before from friends groups and stuff. but when it comes to ONS and random hook ups yea its less enjoyable and more risky. but i think single women who may want just sexs seek it from places other than dating apps and random men, and rely more on friends and social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:49 AM
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well for this to work you also need to be good looking. but if you are good looking and handsome why not just be in a healthy relationship? i mean if they stay with you while youre toxic theyll probably love you even more if youre nice and handsome. but you cant be toxic and also undesirable. thats why most people cant be toxic. it's not that they choice they make its that they have to be nice or they get nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:34 AM
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feeling safe and getting an orgasm from a hook up is unrealistic standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:11 PM
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they could pump and dump with no consequences not even social ones. i mean when it comes to sexual culture and hook ups and one night stands yea men benifit just as women. maybe slightly more since they get less stigma if they did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 03:54 PM
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to be fair both genders dont care about the smart trait. men have time and time again said they dont care about women education or status and that it doesnt impress men when women are successfull. so this isnt a women only thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:25 PM
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nah that's weird man. parents shouldn't have a say on who you date. sure they can advice you but more than that is stepping the line. and whos going to regulate that the parent wont get too enolved and it turn from assist marrage to arranged marrage? youre saying theres no counter arguments to your point but theres also no data to support your point that arent screwed or from a third world country where women are objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:28 AM
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so it's up to women to help men get laid? be for real right now what are women expected to do? offer free pussy so men "get better at relationships in the future"? either it's on men or no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:05 AM
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"Men would focus more on relationships too over sex if they had more access to sex and were able to move on from it more" okay? i somewhat agree but that's for men to work out. i mean sex workers are an option but if they're looking for sex with people who genuinly want them thats on men to work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:48 AM
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yes women love and look for sex but is it 90% of women? also it's completely fair for someone whos looking for a hook up to look for somone theyre attracted to. i mean come on we're talking about getting laid here, being good in bed and being decent looking are literally the only requirment. if we're talking about women who want to get laid should they look for gamers or nerds or good looking players?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:37 AM
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I mean that’s quite sad but yes women will not want to be with a guy they’re not attracted to. I wouldn’t say you’re unattractive you just haven’t found the right person. I think the point is women want to be with someone who they’re attracted to, not just attractive. Because what’s attractive is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:11 AM
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The reason the women are after the man is also important. You mentioned an unattractive guy with good qualities. Let’s say he have money and he has gold diggers after him. That’s not what every woman is after so the guy won’t get the right girl for him. And if the good quality is nice, no women are after nice guys. So I don’t see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:06 AM
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And? Your criteria is getting laid which is something only men are after in dating not women. So it’s meaningless to say to women well it’s easier for you to get laid. Because yes and? That’s not what they’re looking for tho. It’s like telling someone who’s looking for a job in science that they look sexy with glasses. How is that gonna help them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:50 AM
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Her being attracted to him is what makes him high quality. You can’t say “just be with this guy you’re not attracted to because he’s husband material” and then complain about women settling. That’s not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:48 AM
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Hmmm interesting question. The thing is what people are looking for in their 20s is different than what they’re looking for in their 30s. So the women who gave you a chance in your 20s might not in your 30s and vice versa. Personally I don’t think think so. Not really. Because yes it’s shitty that the same people who rejected you in your 20s are accepting you in your 30s but is it the same people? If it’s the exact same people then yes you should take it personally. But if it’s women in general …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 11:09 PM
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maybe older women are talking from experience? i mean they were 20 too once.. they know how things go and it's all a pattern. so they warn other women because they know the end results, it rarely is because the older woman want the man for herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:50 PM
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so women should do whatever.. men want? i don't get what you're saying. women should do whatever they want meaning they can be a stay at home mom or be a working mom. there's no right way to be a woman thats the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:34 PM
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"This lovely romantic idea is for the religious and the foreign. The idea is that you love someone so much, you will train them up to please you and love will make it all OK" Do you think in foreight and religious countries they do this? what happen is women siffer years of bad sex because lack of sexual education or the man ego being too big to thik he miight be bad "she's just too loose bro" reminds me of a white woman from 90 days fiance where her middle easten wasnt making her orgasm and she…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:27 PM
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I can't think of anyone but Kim K my brain is blanking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:19 PM
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if you're going to judge women then women are going to judge back. it's so funny because all men do in these subs is complain women judge them based on looks, height weight and yet men themselves also judge. meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:44 PM
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Dude it’s irrelevant if it’s something you can change or not that’s the point. If a person can change something in themselves and ONLY THEN their partner acknowledge them publicly that’s a shitty relationship and they should leave it not stay. You shouldn’t change something about yourself in order to be public in a relationship no matter the thing. So the fact that the flaw is changeable or not is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:10 PM
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That’s irrelevant. We’re talking about shame over a partner, that could range from height to weight to occupation. But the reason is irrelevant because the shame is always the same and it doesn’t feel good to the shamed party. Also I brought fat women as an example but men don’t show off the women they’re with for multiple reasons not just weight. So my point still stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:57 PM
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You do realize this isn’t a women exclusive thing right? Women face the exact same problem especially fat women who men that date them refuse to acknowledge publicly that they’re together. This is entirely a social thing that everyone face not just men and isn’t directly red pill only. This is a problem well known in women’s circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:46 PM
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What you're saying is logical, but some men even if virgins want a girl who is a virgin BECAUSE she and he is inexperienced. it make them feel better that the girl won't know if the sex is good or not and she literally won't know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:56 PM
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succeeding? having sex and popping out babies isnt success. they're third world countries for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 11:57 AM
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May I ask push back to what? What action did men take? And what extreme actions did women take to counter men’s? Genuinely asking because I want examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:11 PM
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"Lets ignore the morality of the situation for a moment" Imma stop you right there. NO, the goverment should not issue mandated girlfriends to all loser men so that society can have more babies. no one cares and they shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:45 PM
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“When men had the authority over the dating market this is overwhelmingly not how they behaved” This is literally how they behaved. Back in the day men would cheat on their wives with waitresses while the woman is at home making dinner. Back then women couldn’t pick their partners freely and they were restricted by society when it came to being independent and men definitely abused that. Give any gender a little more power and they’ll abuse the shit out of it that’s human nature. Don’t act like …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:30 PM
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"Live a little" does this alsp apply to women who want an open relationship too? would you yourself "live a little" as well and let your girl screw other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:01 AM
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YOU DID NOT JUST SAY PENIS LIKE IT HAS SOME VALUE!!! Dude men would literally pay to see a woman’s vajayjay, how many women would pay to see a man’s penis? It’s like you’re saying “oh yea? women bring chicken and steak to dinner? Will I bring candy corn..”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:24 AM
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do you think women caring about money is bad? i think is the question. because yes i agree women care more, and i don't think that's a bad thing. the same way men may care about stuff more than women does. i don't see the point in pointing out all of this tho is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:01 AM
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I love it when men put down women who make them wait for sex but also in the same breath call women promiscuous and high body count girls don’t deserve commitment. Which one is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:29 AM
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and all of the women from these countries want a tall guy. i think there are some general stuff both genders want no matter the nationality but other stuff may differ. but i don't think all women and men are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:47 PM
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Dude you’re ignoring the whole safety notion of it all. I think dating irl through your social circles is better, but dating apps have one purpose and only the one. You match with people who you might be interested in romantically. If y’all match through text then you can take on to real life and go on a date AND THEN you can make up your mind about them in real life. I don’t understand what exactly is you want to change about this? That poeple already have an idea of who they want? What’s wrong…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:37 PM
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Nah I don’t agree with this. Relationships and dating are a big deal not just something you try out or force. Getting out of your comfort zone is trying a new activity, not dating someone you’re not really into hoping they’ll grow on you. If the vibe and attraction isn’t there from the beginning then it can’t be created. And it’s a risk to try and force it. You’re literally advocating for people to string along other people for the purpose of “trying something new” and isn’t that a whole other i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:20 PM
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Fair enough thanx for answering
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:08 PM
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Sure men use dating apps more than women but that doesn’t mean a small percentage of women use them, it just mean less than men. Also his requirement is “didn’t use” dating apps. So even if she used them in college or out of curiosity or because she’s new in a place and wanna meet people then she’s not his taste, in my opinion that’s fine. But to turn to the side and say women have high standards when he does as well isn’t a good look. My question to him still remain the same. Does he own the fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:55 PM
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Dude I never said you’re wrong I just said I’ll never understand the reason. Also I’m asking you do you own the standards that you have and think women are also allowed to have unrealistic standards as well or do you think women who only date men who are above 6 foot have unrealistic standards? It’s a simple question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:36 PM
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It’s not that I would reject the reason, it’s that I’ll probably never understand it. But don’t you feel like this is a tough requirement to reach? Never used dating apps in 2023? And yet women are called out for having “high unrealistic standards”? Isn’t this kinda the same or do you think both should and could have unrealistic standards and it’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:21 PM
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Why? i mean "on" is diffrent than "was" so if she used dating apps before you wouldn't date her?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:39 PM
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Dude your post is literally spiraling.. Women can be horny, that doesn’t mean they’re horny for ugly guys. I could have a high sex drive but doesn’t mean I’ll fuck people I’m not interested in, that doesn’t make me less horny. Women complain about dick pix because they’re not sexy. Being horny doesn’t mean you blackout and hump the first thing you see the moment you see a sexy thing. Also women would rather fuck a dildo than an average guy because they’re horny. The dildo literally guarantees an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:55 PM
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so we have inflation and global warming because women refuse to fuck ugly guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:53 AM
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Because men keep complaining they’re not finding dates. And whenever someone tell them stay single they refuse so their best option is okay date promiscuous women. Also men have the option to stay single it’s not like they’re waiting for women to tell them to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:00 AM
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So after all of this what women get in return is they feel like they did a good deed? Hmmm How about another suggestion! Go date fat women and single mothers! They’re in great need of help. In this exchange you get to have sex and they get help in their life and out of all of this you also did a good deed. Plz do it right now. Go.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:57 AM
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Yes variety of traits. What are the traits that make you datable other than looks, status, money, rizz. Being into those is completely valid. Or are women only allowed to judge men who date based on how “nice” they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:56 AM
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So basically women are attracted to a variety of traits in men. If you’re not masculine you can have rizz like pete, or if you’re not tall you can have status and women love that. Isn’t that how normal humans operate tho? Each person is interested in some type of trait and love that. Or are men sweet little angels who ‏‎don’t fuck women for looks and status and only care about women’s personality? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:51 AM
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Pete Davidson?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:41 AM
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"Do you think your grandma in the 1950s cared if her man was above six foot tall or had six pack abs and a sharp jawline?" my grandma didn't have an option. she could barely read and was 18 and her father made her marry a widowed guy with two kids. I'm sorry that society gave women freedom and an option and they didn't choose you, but that's still your problem, not society's.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:24 PM
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WAP wasn't made for men tho. it's a female song for female audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:42 PM
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It’s a front. They think this will make them cool with god. Also they’re not any different than Christian religious women who are virgins. Just propaganda and cult brainwashing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:26 PM
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Oh please it’s just propaganda and brain washing. Who in their right mind see this image and think “wow looks cool!” Literally a cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:23 PM
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Islamic countries force purity. You can’t count someone who’s forced to do something as part of a data cause there’s literally no free will in the Middle East.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:06 PM
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I don't think most men are like that but enough of them are. to a point where women are always weary when cold approached or how hard to filter her matches on dating apps cause alot of men will go sexual from the get go or waste her time till he turn sexual for no reason. i think there's enough of these men to a point where they made it harder for men who aren't like this and women always need their guard up because "just in case"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:07 AM
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I mean the only reason men are told to lower their standards is cause they keep saying they’re in a crisis and finding matches is hard. If you don’t wanna lower your standards and can’t find a match in your league you still have the option to stay alone. Which is most what people do until they find someone. So okay ‏‎don’t lower your standards and stay alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:54 AM
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Dude are you getting your info from Instagram reels? Dude even tiktok is a more reliable source and that’s saying something..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 11:51 PM
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Dude the post she made was in a subreddit called sex. If they’re going to shame everyone and anyone who post ABOUT sex they might as well just delete the whole subreddit. People irl will judge her. Female friends will ostracise her and men will look at her as a hoe so yea she will be judged. The post you referenced isn’t a good example at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:35 PM
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"I personally think that sleeping with your professor for grades is absolute lowest of the low level behavior" LMAO at the fact you did not even mention the man in this scene or even shame him a little for the affair but expect women to take all the blame. you do realize HE'S the one married and cheating? what are we gonna treat all men as underage children who can't say no to sex and it's always the women fault because she said okay? you don't care about morality you just want only WOMEN to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:19 PM
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everyone should be especially when it comes to serious relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:49 AM
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i feel like women acknowledge the hardships men have in dating, but the thing is there is nothing that can be done about it from the women side therefore they appear to you as they do not care. and to be fair they have a point, these specific hardships men face in dating nothing can be done about them, you cant force women to be with men they dont like and men cant transform into the perfect man in a day. so the issue here isn't that women don't acknowledge, it's that they don't really care, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:50 AM
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im sorry i don't uderstand what "blow up" mean. Like a school shooting?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:18 PM
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oh please. you know damn well half the reason male rape victims are not taken seriously are men saying to victims "give me a high five" and "wish that was me" to them instead of are you okay? but just as always men expecting women to do the job for them and for women to care about male rape victims when most men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:13 PM
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Self sabotaging because she isn't giving the ugly guy with zero social skills a chance? yea sure she's soooo gonna regret it later lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:08 PM
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I do agree both genders need to filter but let’s be real for women the safety concern are probably much greater than that of mens cause it’s literally meeting people from the internet. And while it’s not safe for anyone even men women are the biggest target. So when we’re talking about dating app women need to be much more vigilant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:07 AM
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The problem is probably with Americans rather than just American women. Each country has its own aesthetics regarding dating culture. So the same way you see women profiles as not so good the mens probably aren’t any better. So you might be more into the foreign ones. However that doesn’t mean the dating there is any easier or guarantees that you’ll get more matches there or something. Because the same way you view American women European women probably see you in the same light. And you’ll neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:05 AM
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No. You’ll just hear more about homo behaviour in women because it’s more tolerated socially but straight men indulge in homo activities just as much but they never speak about it and only on the down low. Ask any gay guy and he’ll tell you the amount of straight men he slept with. It’s just not shown on media cause lesbian is hotter and also male homo behaviour is less sexy socially so isn’t talked about as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:06 PM
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I’m not saying men who don’t send dick pics get dates. I’m saying the men who does make it harder for the one who doesn’t because it becomes a chore for women to vet men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:47 AM
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How about the obstacles that limit men are men themselves? The sending of dick pix, the sexual conversations the moment you match, the red flags. All these things make men have a harder time landing a women and yet happens every day in dating literally if you open any women dm rn this will be like 90% of what you’ll find. You’re asking women to talk and vent each and every one of these guys until she finds the “nice young man” who’s the average great guy and that’s impossible to ask of anyone. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:10 AM
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Just because women get matches on dating profiles doesn’t mean these are great matches. And it’s very hard to vent people you meet online so the same way men struggle with dating women struggle as well but in a different way. Think of safety issue. There have been countless men who get robbed by being catfished on tinder, now imagine how many times you have to multiply that for women. Both genders struggle in modern online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:03 AM
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Women can’t properly understand the problem because there is no problem. The fact that some men are having it very hard in dating isn’t a society problem it’s a personal issue. For people to say this is a problem mean that we need to find a solution. And there is no solution to such problem. You can’t tell women to lower their Standards and date men they’re not interested in, and men ‏‎don’t seem to be interested in bettering themselves to be a catch in the modern dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:00 AM
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It’s somewhat impossible to keep track of tho. Let’s say a guy has 3 wives, these three wives each has two husbands, now these husbands each have two wives and so on. How are we supposed to regulate and keep track of this family tree?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:43 PM
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Okay but is it wrong? I’m confused what am I supposed to say instead? “Times up ladies now gather around to be forced into relationships that aren’t fulfilling but hey, at least it’s a relationship! Now off you the breeding camp!”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:55 PM
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This is an issue that's happening in the dating world in general nowadays because of online dating and too many options. but it isn't only a women issue men do this as well just as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:23 PM
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so because im not the next tesla my individual life isn't important? and why would the relatioship hold that much power? it should make me happy not act like a job and just another thing i have to do. no one cares about the classic western style relationships. they're outdated and only men want them for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:56 AM
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why would a relationship be more important than self? are we the fucking royal family trying to prevent war by marriage? if the relationship isnt making myself happy then it isn't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:52 AM
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it worked out better for everyone yuh and women paid the price by sacrificing their own happiness for that. that's my whole point. no one should have to do that tho and there are other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:51 AM
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what are you even on about? I'm not saying people should be narcissistits in relationships, but at least not put the relationship over their own well being or happiness. and who are the normal people im poisoning the well for? men? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:36 AM
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They're barely adults. just cause you could doesn't mean you should. No one is saying it's unnatural, but be aware it's weird and not gonna paint you in the best light.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:05 AM
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being 28 and swooning over barely legal teens isn't an "age preference" it's just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:37 AM
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women can sympathize with men's problems but like be fr what can they do about it? they can't force themselves to be with these lonly men or give them sex for petty. the werewolf being out isn't the fault of women because again we cant force them to be with men and they can't force themselves to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:19 AM
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"I honestly think a lot of failed relationships and marriages could be saved if one or both parties actually took the time to compromise for the other" In most of history the person who did that was women. now that women don't put up with shit anymore marriages end and thats a good thing. better no marriage than a sad one. here's the problem with what youre saying, relationships should be a compliment to your life, not the main course. youre asking people to put the relationship over their own s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:13 AM
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Ah yes, men not being able to approach women in public is literally the worst thing to happen in humanity. be fucking for real we now have datings apps, social media, friend of a friend. if you fail at all of these options then that's on you not society. even cold approaching if you are a good fit with a woman it may work out but going in you must assume a huge risk of rejection and that's okay, but you're not owed anything, it's all in YOUR hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:02 PM
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Controlling means you want to change someone and that's bad and toxic. however you're free to persue any type of person you want to date, as long as they're already the type you like. if you want a girl who isn't a kardashian go to that, but you can't go to a kardashian and ask her to be less extravagant, at that point you become controlling. don't ask for an apple and be surprised it won't turn into a lemon.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:46 PM
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no it's not "diffrent for men" there are also few good men out there hince the whole "where are all the good men" thing going around. women also has to overlook some things if she find a good man who isnt perfect, maybe he isn't rich etc. it's the same for both genders don't try to dodge accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:18 PM
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i blame both men and women. i mean at the end it's probably better for them to divorce but i think the whole thing is on them both. i don't understand why you want to blame only one party..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:03 PM
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the original Female Delusion Calculator is weird as fuck. i literally asked for a guy between 20 and 40 includng obese cause i love them with highet like 5'11 and i got i have 1% chance of finding a guy within any race to fit my standards. yeah right this site is clearly by some basment dwelling incel who need to get a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:55 PM
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Women initiate 80 percent of divorces doesn’t say anything particular about women. I’ve seen a lot of people try to use this statistic as a way of showing “oh look women end marriages so easily compared to men!” But does it really say that? I mean if we’re talking about a marriage where a man cheated who’s gonna file for divorce? Or a marriage where the man is physically abusive who’s gonna file for divorce? Obviously the women. So does this say anything about men? Well obviously not all marriag…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:28 PM
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So we should listen to virgin women giving us reviews about how men are and act? Of course people with alot of experience in something are gonna have thoughts and opinions on the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:55 PM
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Lmao you ate with this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:26 PM
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they were thinking with their other head ig
/r/ExRedPill29/10/23 04:23 PM
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and yet it's not the women in here who are complaining 24/7 how dating is unfair and society is against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:12 PM
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but it's not the women who complain they're not getting any matches. you can't say will women have bad profiles too therefore i dont have to improve mine, oh wait! why am i getting no matches!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:33 PM
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lmao why would women lower their standards? it's the ugly men who want a relationship with women not the other way around. so men should work on themselves instead of asking women to lower their standards. take accountability men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:31 PM
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can't believe some people still use the term friendzone in 2023.. i can't
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:29 PM
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So what exactly does define a human if not his opinions passions and accomplishments?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:10 AM
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the sad thing is alot of men share your view and then wonder why they can't get a girlfriend when they cant admit they simply dont like women. how is she supposed to give you a chance when you don't even care about her as a human, not you just in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:03 AM
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she's so slay the house down boots tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:32 AM
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I’m not attacking you lol idk why you’re so hostile. My point is that women don’t really have control over what men like or want or go after. So we cant really analyse what men do by pointing at women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:47 AM
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I feel like your question is kinda framed wrong, men being into ai girlfriends more than real girlfriends says more about men than it does on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:43 AM
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