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As far as I know, r/Seduction is about getting girls, keeping them belongs to the realm of r/relationships
/r/seduction28/07/20 02:08 AM
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Even if it was noon, if you spent 10+min lurking a girl you look like a creep. Don't waste time 'analyzing' , just act on the spot or let it go
/r/seduction26/07/20 05:52 PM
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Some sidebar material here, the first thing any aspiring PUA must do is to work on himself: Hit the gym, go to the dentist/orthodontist if you have to, learn to dress well (Nothing fancy, just something that fits you well and according to your social circle) and it can bring you a long way. You may not become every girl's dream but sure they will notice you. Add some game and learn to read when a girl is interested and you're set. Anyone who thinks he can compensate being neglected and his lack …
/r/seduction26/07/20 12:32 AM
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As with any other thing in your life, the best thing to do is not to take it personally, IDK when the consensus was different than that. Either OP remember the advice that echoed with him or he mixed the bad rep the community has with what the real thing is.
/r/seduction06/07/20 12:20 AM
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Lost me at 'high value women', not putting them at a pedestal is Seduction 101
/r/seduction30/06/20 07:00 PM
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I agree that saying straightforward to a girl she's pretty is not the best way to approach, but please notice the guys who succeeded had the same intent as the guys who didn't, the difference was they made her feel there were something else besides looks in the interaction (which is not necessarily a bad thing, btw), in short, their game was better and she was played. Same with approaching someone who is in her way to work, college, etc. Theoretically, it's a nuisance, but if your game is good, …
/r/seduction26/06/20 03:36 AM
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Bravo, long time since someone actually shared useful information. Keep the good work buddy!
/r/seduction25/06/20 06:32 AM
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This, every time I see a post asking 'what to do with this girl', I just want to scream 'Stay the fuck at home' This is serious shit, leave your tiny weenie in peace, and since you're there, work in other aspects of yourself, life is more than fucking girls
/r/seduction18/04/20 02:56 PM
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Looks like you had very shitty friends, good you cut them
/r/seduction15/04/20 09:35 PM
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Ok, I'll repeat it again just because I'm locked down at home: Text girls for logistics only, it's an uphill battle and you will lose all the good raport you get from your initial live interaction. Don't waste time and energy being another distraction on her phone.
/r/seduction03/04/20 05:26 PM
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Reported
/r/seduction01/04/20 06:28 PM
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Actually, you learn more from your mistakes than from your successes. There should be more field reports like yours.
/r/seduction20/03/20 07:12 PM
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In other news, water is wet
/r/seduction18/03/20 06:29 AM
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The difference is you know for sure now you fucked it up and can think how to fix it, you'll eventually get over it and even learn from your mistakes. When you don't do anything it's harder to get over it because you can't tell if it had worked out or not and attach to a possible success that didn't happen.
/r/seduction10/03/20 07:14 PM
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Downvoted and reported
/r/seduction07/03/20 03:12 PM
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This is a very controversial topic because it often overlaps with politics, but the bottom line of the high/low value thing doesn't come from resentment towards women or trying to artificially grow your ego. It's true many people adopt the high value mindset for those reasons but they are wrong and they will never really be HV thinking that way. Why do High Value demonstrations work? Because they take account of the highly disputed fact we live in a hierarchy, and women are naturally attracted t…
/r/seduction16/01/20 02:14 AM
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This, 'Models' is the origin of all the modern 'Be yourself' bullshit that is around here. The first time I read it, I just couldn't believe it because of all the reasons you gave, it simply doesn't sum up.
/r/seduction24/12/19 06:02 AM
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Every Seduction student starts being akward/creepy, just practice until you got it right. Worrying too much is the worst thing you can do
/r/seduction18/12/19 03:08 AM
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If you think Seduction only depends on your looks, I don't know what the hell you're doing here
/r/seduction18/12/19 03:03 AM
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Great job, the girl suggesting herself a site is a good signal. Just for the record, please everybody notice she didn't suggest anything fancy. Again, expensive first dates are a big no.
/r/seduction16/12/19 03:09 AM
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The most basic display of courage is facing the chance of failure, this is true either if you're a kid throwing the ball into the basket for the first time or a pilot testing a prototype. The bad behaviors described above, besides being shitty and rapey, are bullying and the bully acts the way he does because he knows he can, he totally missed the point of displaying courage or strength and it's a huge turn off. So, how does this apply to Seduction? Let the woman to keep the power of saying no. …
/r/seduction06/12/19 06:02 PM
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Damn, you got me xD
/r/seduction04/12/19 11:26 PM
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I searched in YouTube before getting the book, but I only found extracts from other people who already predigested and threw back his content, no videos from the man himself. Any link to good videos about NSTD? Upvoted for the reference to Jordan Peterson
/r/seduction03/12/19 03:23 PM
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Can I suggest you to read 'Never Split the Difference' by Chris Voss? It's about negotiation but it teachs you a lot about how to create empathy from the other person towards you. A couple of 'Jedi Mind Tricks' that seem silly but do wonders: Always use a neutral tone of voice. Mirror the other person: Use the same words the other does, specially the more important as part of your answer and SHUT UP after doing it, that's when the magic happens and people start talking about themselves without y…
/r/seduction03/12/19 07:10 AM
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Kudos, glad people start posting field reports more often
/r/seduction29/11/19 02:23 AM
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The vendor saved the day, but I should have been able to keep her interest only with the conversation, my mistake.
/r/seduction23/11/19 07:57 AM
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Gye?
/r/seduction22/11/19 11:38 PM
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I agree, but it's up to you to move from scarcity to abundance like OP did. First, you ask a lot of girls (is there anything that stops you from doing it right now?) and stop worrying about rejections, you also start to think, 'it didn't work this time, but next one will' and you'll eventually become successful.
/r/seduction22/11/19 03:27 PM
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Have a lot of plates, if you have to start with Asian, Latinas, etc, do it. Eventually, you'll get an abundance mentality and stop idolizing girls, no matter her race.
/r/seduction22/11/19 06:31 AM
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In fact, if you talk a lot to a woman without making a move, she starts to see you as a friend and we all know where this ends. So not talking to her could be a good thing. If the study group thing works for you, go ahead with it
/r/seduction22/11/19 06:26 AM
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Creep is a word women use for guys they don't like that try to seduce them. I'm not saying being a creep is ok but its definition changes from girl to girl. In the end of the day, it only matters to the two people involved and if you don't mind, 50% of the problem is already solved. It's not creepy to make a move on a girl and then move away if she's not interested
/r/seduction22/11/19 06:20 AM
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It's a word https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=FIA
/r/seduction21/11/19 08:05 PM
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I'm 30 A fia is a girl who is always in good mood and lifts everybody's spirits. Not sure if it's because she's hot or it's actually her good humour
/r/seduction21/11/19 07:22 PM
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Thanks bro, that's the kind of insight I was looking for!
/r/seduction21/11/19 06:50 PM
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Tbf, it wasn't at peak hours but that's irrelevant. First you must have the right mindset, always. Second, if you want to try to do the same, you could do it at another not so crowded place
/r/seduction21/11/19 05:56 PM
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Just checked the profile of this moron, only two posts, both of them in this sub and AGAINST everything is taught here. Since mods don't do anything at least I'll block the user.
/r/seduction21/11/19 03:05 PM
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One of the basics of r/Seduction is being successful or moving on. I don't know why this shit post was accepted, it's totally irrelevant.
/r/seduction21/11/19 03:00 PM
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Being in good shape helps, being well groomed helps, but there are subs for those things. If you think r/getmotivated or r/fitness don't deliver, discuss the problem there or start your own sub with better rules (and blackjack and hookers 😆) I'm not saying the message is wrong, but it's off topic
/r/seduction14/11/19 06:12 PM
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Can we stop the feel-good bullshit and go back to how to seduce?
/r/seduction14/11/19 04:41 PM
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She texted back and we set a date, Everything went smooth from there
/r/seduction14/11/19 07:13 AM
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I noticed cold approach works better when both parts are very young, I mean teens / early twenties because at that age people are more receptive to love and sex, it's just the way nature works, I bet my PUA ID that OP is older than 25. Cold approach is not only about knowing girls, it's about building confidence and the skills you use all the time at pickup. If there it's something ALL WOMEN love is a man who knows how to behave under any circumstances and cold approaches are a great way to put …
/r/seduction14/11/19 03:51 AM
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Even the clothes were the same, he could make the girl to wear a wig and put off the raincoat. From that distance, it would be hard to tell if it's the same girl and he could say he recorded multiple approaches the same day, but the lazy fuck just posts and eliminates the videos, hoping none will catch him. Dude really underestimates the amount of time people spend with their phones.
/r/seduction14/11/19 01:10 AM
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I'm pretty sure I saw another video with the same girl in the same place but with a different outcome earlier today. Looks staged, but who would bother to stage 2 different videos and post them one after another?
/r/seduction14/11/19 12:04 AM
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Seduction is a skill and, like any skill, it's only right or wrong in the sense of succeeding or not. It also has a scope, which helps to define success itself. Seduction's scope is to attract the person you like and most advices go as far as getting a f-close. I've never heard Seduction advice about getting married or how to solve a couple's quarrel, this is not r/relationships If you feel seduction's goals fall short for your life plans or don't match with them, then you're in the wrong sub. I…
/r/seduction24/10/19 08:26 PM
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First of all, it works but of course neither it works with everybody nor it's a silver bullet. The first thing you must do for it to work is to be attractive 😂🤣😂. No really, I don't mean you must be a 10 but if you're the weird guy with whom nobody would want to get trapped in a broken elevator, women will feel relieved if you don't try to interact with them. Be funny, be interesting, mix with the group but stand out between them. If you manage to do both things, and the first one is not even ha…
/r/seduction20/10/19 05:43 PM
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We're walking a fine line here, women love drama but hate guys who care too much. If you act hurt, you care too much, if you act like you don't care, there is no drama. A blank response gives them a space to fill with as much drama as they like.
/r/seduction14/10/19 02:32 AM
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Seems fair
/r/seduction02/10/19 08:40 PM
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First, Seduction is a game of numbers, you approach a lot of girls and give follow up to the ones who react positively. That way, you practice your techniques and learn from their reactions, if logistics doesn't help you, don't worry and keep learning from anyone else, take the next chance if possible and don't make a big deal about it because you're learning. Second, a seductive man makes a girl to want him because you rock her world and make her feel like anybody else can, you do it by being d…
/r/seduction12/07/19 08:59 PM
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TBH, yesterday's question was the kind of thing you wouldn't be asking if read the basics
/r/seduction12/07/19 07:17 PM
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First, those posts are explicitly against the rules and people should read them before posting. Mods should delete those kinds of posts, too. The rules are very visible on the sidebar And talking about the sidebar, there were some links at it that covered the basics and that should be mandatory to read before posting, too. Bring the basics back.
/r/seduction12/07/19 05:46 PM
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Seduction is a skill, and like any skill, you must learn it and practice what you learned A LOT. Anyone who tells you "You're ok and can get what you want without effort" is trying to sell you something. BTW, did you notice the links to his YT Channel?
/r/seduction21/06/19 10:53 PM
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If you think at Game like the process of ''convincing' a girl, you're right, but good Game starts even before you meet the girl. It's also taking care of yourself, having a healthy, attractive attitude, entering a place like you own it, being confident, etc. Please notice all those things are things you can do even if you're not looking for girls and work better if they're already part of you and not some gimmick you pull at the last moment. ​ That's why the posts like 'Help me to get this girl'…
/r/seduction13/06/19 07:22 PM
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Taking a compliment is the hardest easy skill a man can learn. Just say thank you. Don't act as you don't deserve it, don't make fun of it, don't be cocky about it. Just say thank you, enjoy the moment, let it sink and continue whatever you were doing.
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:23 AM
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Taking a compliment is the hardest easy skill a man can learn. Just say thank you. Don't act as you don't deserve it, don't make fun of it, don't be cocky about it. Just say thank you, enjoy the moment, let it sink and continue whatever you were doing.
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:22 AM
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Taking a compliment is the hardest easy skill a man can learn. Just say thank you. Don't act as you don't deserve it, don't make fun of it, don't be cocky about it. Just say thank you, enjoy the moment, let it sink and continue whatever you were doing.
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:22 AM
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Basic stuff: 'Approach the friend, ignore the girl you want., if she tries to attract attention, make fun on her. Don't be mean, just downplay her a bit. She will go after you by herself.' I came back in my history to find it. The funny part is OP removed the question and I don't remember the context
/r/seduction10/05/19 08:11 AM
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I was called a sociopath once because I shared some sort of psychological trick, and it was an answer to a legit question some dude posted. If people think using techniques is wrong, fine, but don't visit these forums, what other thing do they expect to find here?
/r/seduction09/05/19 11:50 PM
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It's from a movie by Luc Bessom Angel-A https://g.co/kgs/rXyzKw
/r/seduction13/03/19 04:31 PM
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Karma, sweet karma, I guess
/r/seduction16/02/19 11:35 PM
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I think somebody posted it before, but here: https://pualib.com/
/r/seduction16/02/19 08:41 PM
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Because Human Nature 3.0 is a totally different software than 2.1
/r/seduction16/02/19 08:39 PM
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A feminist would say I don't care about what women think and she may be right but it's not because I'm a misogynistic macho but because I'm focused on my game
/r/seduction16/01/19 04:52 PM
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Be realistic, everybody screw their approaches when they're learning and that shouldn't keep you from trying. In fact, one of the first things you must avoid when approaching is to think will other people SPECIALLY THE GIRL think I'm a creep/weirdo? That scene is exactly the opposite to seduction.
/r/seduction16/01/19 04:38 PM
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This, the right thing to do with offensive comments is to report them first, and then rant all you want if needed. Mods are not omniscient. Call it harsh reality if you want, but people need to start taking care for themselves instead of expecting others to do it.
/r/seduction08/10/18 05:53 PM
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Suggest two activities like drinks and dancing, once both realize it's awkward to drive separately, offer yourself to drive
/r/seduction30/09/18 07:09 PM
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(See Maslow's pyramid https://static.vecteezy.com/system/resources/previews/000/091/591/non_2x/maslow-s-pyramid-vector.jpg ) After fullfilling your basic needs (and sex is at the very bottom of it) people seek to satisfy their self steem and get approval from others and giving sound advice about women is a great way to achieve it. So, the motivation to make a sincere effort to help others is real. If you're not sexually satisfied you may have petty thoughts like 'I must keep my tricks for myself…
/r/seduction31/05/18 04:16 PM
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Just a very general opinion: Picking up is a skill like any other, and at any field there are people that nails it almost every time, so yes, there must be guys out there getting a 90% or better success ratio. But think for a moment at the level of commitment these guys and any other top performer have, think about an elite athlete, for example: He trains all day, rests well before competences, reviews his mistakes with a coach, does it for a living so he doesn't have to worry about a 9 to 5 job…
/r/seduction31/05/18 04:06 PM
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Trust me, wanting to only fuck is normal, and your doubts are because you're growing up past it. The very fact you worry about it means you're not a psycho or there is something wrong with you, you're just going from one stage to another in your life but it's hard to change the way you think from one day to another. You will eventually find someone, start a LTR, realize it sucks and wonder why on earth did you give up your freedom. After that point, you'll value your peace of mind more than any …
/r/seduction31/05/18 03:32 PM
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Nope, frame is what you want since the beginning, without fear or excuses. The great thing about frame is that people with weaker frames i.e. their own wishes that may or may not match yours, will surrender their frames to yours if it's stronger
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 09:25 PM
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To be fair, anyone who suscribe to such subreddit is a judgemental asshole who wants to see blood dripping, like PC sharks
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 07:01 PM
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Silly question: How long to wait until double take? Do I keep staring her or continue with my business and hope to catch her if/when she looks back?
/r/seduction07/05/18 03:13 AM
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First, don't worry. Everybody sucks at 18 Second, if you feel like you need counseling, you need it. Third, consider what I call 'Monk Mode': No women, read a lot, work out and put your shit together in general terms. And remember, women are like alcohol and video games, they are fun but don't solve anything by themselves, if that's what you are looking for.
/r/seduction02/11/16 06:24 AM
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Congratulations! Some PUAs have the '3 second rule': Approach within first 3 secs after noticing her, if not, you'll look like a creep. Also, it kills approach anxiety. About looks, work out, man, dress well within your budget, if the look in your mirror can cheer you up, you'll be more confident and girls will notice and like it more than the looks (but looks help a lot, too) Good luck!
/r/seduction23/12/14 05:45 AM
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Thanks for the insight, many of us make the mistake to think money or looks must come first and you debunked that. About your issues, have you looked for professional help? and I don't mean a PUA coach but a psychogical one
/r/seduction11/11/14 02:00 AM
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This question sounds more for /r/Relationships than Red Pill but I'll drop a little piece of advice anyway: Ask, What we suppose is always worser than what it really is. And if she's jealous, feel flattered and keep in mind jealously is one of the most irrational feelings in the human heart. Hopefully there is no real reason for her behaviour and if you managed to make her understand it you'd avoid a fight and win a few points in your relationship.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 07:51 AM
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It looks like she's not interested in you romantically, but if you still want to give it a shoot, call her, you probably know her schedule enough not to interfere with her bf, and ask straightly to spend more time together, try not to make it look like you're asking her to cheat her bf but be firm about being more than a classmate. It's the best moment to do it. And if it happens she falls the 3 strikes rule, don't spend your time and feelings on her, friend. World is wide and who knows, she may…
/r/seduction06/11/14 08:44 AM
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If you like her, any friendship-only relationship between you would be a lie. Make clear your interest and if she declines, pass to the next girl
/r/seduction05/11/14 10:15 AM
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Just for the record, how many men and how many women visit pornhub? If the ratio isn't near 50/50 I can't consider the female group representative enough
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 07:14 AM
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What if I want to be assertive with a guy? for example, a client I want to sell something
/r/seduction31/08/14 07:20 AM
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If possible, befriend her in FB, after following her a few posts you'll learn her name and possibly more useful info
/r/seduction08/06/14 04:57 PM
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