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| 53 | I was forced by society (women & men) to act like a "man" | General | zebra0011 | /r/MensRights | 26/05/25 10:28 PM |
| 1 | You want your Bloodpressure to rise? just read the comments. | Anti-MRM | zebra0011 | /r/MensRights | 28/10/22 11:27 AM |
| 0 | Why are men so violent? | mental health | zebra0011 | /r/MensRights | 07/08/24 03:12 AM |
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| 1 | I was forced by society (women & men) to act like a "man"Yes, i have no problem with "masculine only" men or "feminine only" women. I just think if we wouldnt be forced, most men & women would be alot more "mixed" or neutral than they are right now & (possibly) feel more like their true self. I knew alot of men that were so worried about "image" and fitting their "role" that would start attacking all men that dont. I've had this all my life, that others tried mocking me or even like physically attack me, because i was "different" and i think the main … | /r/MensRights | 27/05/25 07:06 PM |
| 1 | I was forced by society (women & men) to act like a "man"I'm agnostic-atheist, you could say "ex-muslim" I'm not brown, but i never feel home, i dont feel home with my family & their ethnicity, but i also dont feel swiss despite having a swiss passport, especially since swiss people can sometimes be quite reserved or even xenophobic | /r/MensRights | 27/05/25 02:30 AM |
| 0 | I was forced by society (women & men) to act like a "man"like a invisible prison, that doesnt allow you to experience the full spectrum of your personality | /r/MensRights | 27/05/25 02:27 AM |
| 0 | I was forced by society (women & men) to act like a "man"It isnt, cause Switzerland is not a muslim country Edit: And most of the "man up" stuff i experienced was in social circles (non-muslim, or atleast not exclusive), from school till now as an adult | /r/MensRights | 27/05/25 02:25 AM |
| 3 | I was forced by society (women & men) to act like a "man"I dont know, i'm 27 years old, i live in switzerland & most of my generation and older are still pushing me to become more "man like" Maybe it depends on where you live. I also come from muslim family & in europe we have imported alot of men from muslim regions, which has made it worse for man like myself. The thing is: i worked on motorcycles, i love tech, from computers to heavy machinery, but i also love to have semi long hair & like "eyeliner" like johnny depp in pirate of the caribbean. I a… | /r/MensRights | 26/05/25 11:01 PM |
| 1 | imagine a baby girl is born and i know i talk a lot about this topic so i will try to make this the last thing i say about it for a while.The irony. You call me misandrist while claiming that no definiton/attribute of masculinity can be harmful, ohhh the irony. I'm not a "misandrist" you are just sexist to begin with, i can smell it from here. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/25 08:43 AM |
| 1 | imagine a baby girl is born and i know i talk a lot about this topic so i will try to make this the last thing i say about it for a while.You dont seem to understand that MASCULINITY is a social construct, and ideology. Its not a fixed thing, like sex (biology) Its a made up term to begin with, to describe certain things, that have been evolving with society. The definition is not useless, cause alot of people think its "masculine" to not get help, to not talk about feelings, to always act like a machine/robot "stoic", these are harmful things, every psychologist knows how many men suffer from this idea of masculinity. You cant ju… | /r/MensRights | 11/04/25 08:41 AM |
| 1 | imagine a baby girl is born and i know i talk a lot about this topic so i will try to make this the last thing i say about it for a while.You know that "masculinity" is just a word created to name certain attributes, stereotypes & social standarts? A few hundreds years ago it was "masculine" to wear heels, stockings & makeup. It always depends on what people think of as "masculinity" It can be harmful, just like every stereotype. You are one of those guys that just yells/attacks people, just like you did with me, its extremely disrespectful & childish. And if you think of yourself as "masculine" then you just proved how certain "m… | /r/MensRights | 11/04/25 08:18 AM |
| 1 | imagine a baby girl is born and i know i talk a lot about this topic so i will try to make this the last thing i say about it for a while.Bro you seem insufferable. I was talking from the BEGINNING about the ORIGINAL DEFINITION. Your definition of toxic-masculinity is wrong, because its they misused version that has been used in social media. You didnt do research, just like other people that just pick up "buzz words" from social media or youtube shorts. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/25 08:12 AM |
| 0 | imagine a baby girl is born and i know i talk a lot about this topic so i will try to make this the last thing i say about it for a while.And i said that we can talk about giving the concept a DIFFERENT NAME/WORD. I actually tried to find a common agreement, by saying that we can change it & call it something else. We can call it everything you want. I dont understand why you are argueing with me, if i told you two comments ago, that we can change the word for it. But for some weird reason you just continue to argue with me, is it my fault, that certain people use the term wrongfully? Or imply that masculinity/man are bad? Is it m… | /r/MensRights | 11/04/25 12:02 AM |
| 0 | imagine a baby girl is born and i know i talk a lot about this topic so i will try to make this the last thing i say about it for a while.I just googled: "the original definition of toxic masculinity" First result from Wikipedia came up: Toxic masculinity is thus defined by adherence to traditional male gender roles that consequently stigmatize and limit the emotions boys and men may comfortably express while elevating other emotions such as anger. It is marked by economic, political, and social expectations that men seek and achieve dominance. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/25 11:47 PM |
| -1 | imagine a baby girl is born and i know i talk a lot about this topic so i will try to make this the last thing i say about it for a while.Dont you think we men deserve the same amount of empathy, love & care? Dont you think we should be allowed to talk about our feelings without being judged? Again, toxic-masculinity refers to the idea, that man are never victims, which makes it difficult to help men in general. When a person says, for example, „men cant be raped” that was considered toxic-masculinity by the ORIGINAL interpretation. We can argue about changing the word, i would understand that. If your problem is just the naming o… | /r/MensRights | 10/04/25 09:05 PM |
| 1 | imagine a baby girl is born and i know i talk a lot about this topic so i will try to make this the last thing i say about it for a while.I never said that the naming of the issue was ideal, i just wanted to tell you where the term actually comes from. My claims are actually supported by evidence which you can easily google, so i dont understand why you, again, attack me for no logical reason. I know there are self claimed "feminists" that misuse that word to blame men, but that has nothing to do with the original meaning. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/25 08:56 PM |
| -1 | imagine a baby girl is born and i know i talk a lot about this topic so i will try to make this the last thing i say about it for a while.Bro, you completely misunderstand the term toxic masculinity, toxic masculinity doesnt mean that masculinity is toxic in itself! Read properly! It refers to toxic "masculine ideas" like my family telling me to stop crying during circumcision because "you are a man" Toxic masculinity refers to ideas that are unhealthy for boys & men, like "a real man doesnt go to the doctor" or "real men drink beer & eat bacon all day till heart failure" Please do your research before attacking me for no logicall… | /r/MensRights | 10/04/25 07:08 PM |
| 1 | imagine a baby girl is born and i know i talk a lot about this topic so i will try to make this the last thing i say about it for a while.toxic masculinity is the idea that man "should man up" "that they have to be strong and not admit that they are victims" and so on. So a women can contribute to toxic masculinity too. Alot of men dont actually research the term "toxic masculinity" they think its a man acting toxic but thats not the case. The term toxic-masculinity is a concept that the first mans rights activist inventend to protect boys from this idea that man should not cry, that man shouldnt be protected and so on. So yes tox… | /r/MensRights | 10/04/25 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Why are men so violent?So is this sub about pushing people back and not giving a voice to people that are emotionally suffering? Im leaving this sub together with a bunch of others. Just because you have a following on reddit that upvotes doesnt mean your comments made sense You didnt read all the links & your * simple question* was just a trap to try invalid every source without even reading them, you even admit that you didnt read cause you just ASUMED every link is not going to be enough for YOU (a superior being a… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/24 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Why are men so violent?So is this sub about pushing people back and not giving a voice to people that are emotionally suffering? You didnt read all the links & your * simple question* was just a trap to try invalid every source without even reading them, you even admit that you didnt read cause you just asumed every link is not going to be enough for you to be satisified with the idea that torturing children leads to increased violence. And then you again gaslight me by telling me if you cant handle this treatment jus… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/24 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Why are men so violent?Old guy with an attitude, your name fits perfectly. Guys like you are the reason why women (& some men) say these subs are filled with a bunch of old ugly incels that just want to be someone on the internet, because there are nothing in real life. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/24 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Why are men so violent?Its literally a fact that these mental issues increases violence & selfharm, but for some fucked up reason you are doing mental gymnastic to evade the truth. How is it focusing on one study & ignoring everything "logical" & then you guys claim my logic is flawed. Im allowed to be emotional if you avoid my points & just gaslight. I understand now why my other male & female friends told me to leave this sub. Its your loss in the long run, ive seen multiple posts & comments of guys leaving due to t… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/24 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Why are men so violent?AGAIN. Isnt PTSD linked to selfharm & violence? | /r/MensRights | 11/08/24 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Why are men so violent?Thats exactly the point! Its known that traumatic experience to the body leads to misfires in the brain which increase risk for ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, OCD and so on. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/24 09:12 AM |
| -1 | Why are men so violent?prime example of whataboutism The fact that other problems exist doesnt reduce the harm of MGM & FGM. | /r/MensRights | 08/08/24 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Why are men so violent?Well, to have 100% proof causality, we would need to grab a few thousand new born babys, from different cultures, mutilate half of them, keep the other half as a control group, lock them up in a controlled enviroment (to exclude other factors) for like 3-4 decades & do psychological evaluation on them. Just so some people can have their proof causation about mutilating non-consenting new borns & children | /r/MensRights | 08/08/24 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Why are men so violent?op is hyper fixatet on the penis for some reason When i was 6 years old, i witnessed my cousin who was 10 years old, being forcefully circumcised, he cried & looked over at me, i just stood there, between adults cheering enjoying all of it. I felt like in a different reality. I couldnt help him, i was just there 2 years later my father passed away, which was bad, cause he protected me from religion. At age 12, my family broke the door i had locked myself in, grabbed me & brought me to the doctor… | /r/MensRights | 08/08/24 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Why are men so violent?Oh thanks, i read it now. The problem is as i stated in my other comment here. We have to compare intact & cut men WITHIN a culture. Otherwise we cant exclude cultural influence. :) | /r/MensRights | 08/08/24 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Why are men so violent?Agree 100% | /r/MensRights | 08/08/24 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Why are men so violent?Already there, i just thought it would be good to raise awareness in this sub, cause the opinions here seem to be split.. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/24 10:54 AM |
| 0 | Why are men so violent?If thats true, that still doesnt mean that its a womans fault, i mean its biology/nature. And i talk about the enhanced selfharm & violence caused by longterm effects of MGM. Wish you the best:) | /r/MensRights | 07/08/24 10:50 AM |
| 0 | Why are men so violent?Thank you i'm trying, i should've prepared better & only use specific data that supports my argument the most, which i didnt want to do, but now these other guys here are nitpicking & using that as an argument. Literally pain in the ass. But its ok, i hope one day we can end this barbaric treatment that happens to non-consenting children. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/24 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Why are men so violent?So my mystake was to NOT filter out certain data/publications, to strengthen my base, to manipulate/basically lying? I provided all the weak & strong data, not in a specific order & not all of it thats available, cause you can litteraly do research yourself (which you won't), i quickly searched for the ones i could remember of the last 3 years that ive researched it & if you dont read further into it, without having any data that disproves my hypothesis, the entire argument from you both just se… | /r/MensRights | 07/08/24 10:39 AM |
| 0 | Why are men so violent?Yes it was on a small group & yes it would be better to have larger samples, but thats why i provided multiple links with different papers/studys but you seem to stubborn to read further into it, you seem to be one of those people that ignore every other factor/data just because you want to be right with something. I dont give a **** if i win an argument, i just want genital mutilation to end because the EVIDENCE shows its barbaric & has a big impact on society in general. For the sake of my san… | /r/MensRights | 07/08/24 06:51 AM |
| 2 | Why are men so violent?🤍 | /r/MensRights | 07/08/24 06:39 AM |
| -1 | Why are men so violent?Isnt PTSD linked to violence & selfharm? If you read the studies, you'll see that enfant circumcision is a risk factor for depression, anxiety, PTSD, ADHD and many more things. And we know that men that suffer from these issues have higher incidence of violence, selfharm & general destructive behavior. My idea/argument of circumcised men having higher incidence of being violent is based on facts. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/24 06:37 AM |
| 4 | Why are men so violent?My argument doesnt support the idea that men are generally violent, it supports that men that have experienced traumatic events to their body as children act more violently towards others and themselfs. Why? Because of higher incidence of mental disorders caused by rewiring of the brain during childhood which is the timeperiod where the human brain is the most plastic "neuroplasticity" And ofcourse not every cut men will act violently or have more mental issues. But the problem with your argumen… | /r/MensRights | 07/08/24 06:29 AM |
| 0 | Why are men so violent?Ok so are you going to mutilate 10'000 children & then keep another 10'000 children as placebo group in a CONTROLLED enviroment. And do psychological exams on all of them over the period of many decades? Because thats the only way to prove causation. Or we can ask & do tests on people in general & see the difference between cut men & intact men, which would show strong correlation. Strong correlation was the only thing we had in knowledge about cancer & smoking for a very long time. By your logi… | /r/MensRights | 07/08/24 06:20 AM |
| 5 | Why are men so violent?Its ok, most people dont know | /r/MensRights | 07/08/24 03:51 AM |
| 10 | Why are men so violent?Female genital mutilation basically circumcision but they changed it for women There are 7 main types of FMG There are 5 main types of MGM (male circumcision) Depending on the grade of the procedures you can have minor to severe issues with both FGM & MGM | /r/MensRights | 07/08/24 03:37 AM |
| 13 | Why are men so violent?Yes, there are books & studies about this but everybody ignores it. The same thing happens to women that experienced FGM, they become more violent towards themselves and/or towards other people. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/24 03:34 AM |
| 1 | War Shatters Dating Scene for Women in UkraineThis has to be satire.......................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................right? RIGHT?! | /r/MensRights | 04/08/24 10:03 PM |
| 12 | I won't be having kids because parental rights no longer exist for men in my countryItaly is rookie level, try spain | /r/MensRights | 03/08/24 05:31 PM |
| 1 | In many chronic illness groups (especially female-centric ones), the women get to vent hard about how severe they're having it, while the men are silenced and told to toughen up.No wonders nobody takes EDS seriously if these people represent us. I tried spending time in the EDS subreddit but its just to stupid. 99% are just women venting about the same little things over and over again. And i've read so many sexist posts/comments against men for no reason. And as you said, everytime i tried talking about male EDS issues i was silenced & harassed from every direction for no reason. Everytime i tried to talk about science and how we may be able to cure this or just make o… | /r/MensRights | 23/08/23 09:48 PM |
| 147 | Woman went on six dates a week to save on food: ‘I didn’t buy groceries for two years’Improvise, adapt, overcome. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/23 02:05 PM |
| 102 | Woman went on six dates a week to save on food: ‘I didn’t buy groceries for two years’the reason i switched to gay even tho i'm not a physically attracted to men: being able to split the bill without drama | /r/MensRights | 25/01/23 01:49 PM |
| 6 | When Women Can Get Abortions But Men Can’t Opt Out Of Paying Child Support We Should Call It “Abortion Privilege”Here in europe mothers can decide to have an abortion, give it for adoption & even circumcise without the knowledge of the father. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/22 08:45 PM |
| 1 | When Women Can Get Abortions But Men Can’t Opt Out Of Paying Child Support We Should Call It “Abortion Privilege”he didnt speak about you.. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/22 08:41 PM |
| 1 | When Women Can Get Abortions But Men Can’t Opt Out Of Paying Child Support We Should Call It “Abortion Privilege”He's not wrong, so why the downvotes? People just because you dont like to hear a fact, doesnt mean that he's wrong. We should only downvote false information, not just something that we dont like to hear. but ok this is reddit, what did i expect.. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/22 08:40 PM |
| 14 | Unpopular opinion: incels have a right to be angry"Women having self respect, standart & the ability to support themselves has meant men need to work to get women" But men have/do all those things too, so why do i need to work to get her? If she doesnt clean, cook & share her money? What do i get from this? Where is equality? I mean i would pay for everything & do everything, if i get a higher paycheck & if she does return the favor. But since i get the same paycheck & women dont give anything in return, why do i have to pay & work for women? I… | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 02:06 AM |
| 8 | Emptiness and loneliness as a manI agree. Stupid ideologies hold us back. | /r/MensRights | 22/10/22 04:32 PM |
| 12 | Help I think my mum is a feministWhere did i say my mom hates women? There is a difference between hating & disliking. And i said majority of young women, not all women. Stop putting words in my mouth, i fucking hate this. My mother see's now that MOST young women dont apreciate good men & dont support/care for men. First & partly second wave feminism, wanted women to be able to work, but not forced to. Third wave, forced women to work, which allowed companies to pay the same wages instead of rising them. Both sexes are forced … | /r/MensRights | 17/10/22 12:53 PM |
| 43 | Help I think my mum is a feministAs long as she doesnt abuse you, stay calm & respectful, but don't agree with things that are stupid. My mother was like this, but when i was 16 i started teaching her, my father passed away in childhood & i had two options. Either i'm going to be the man or i'm going to leave. She eventually started respecting me alot & now she dislikes feminists and majority of young women. Because i teached her the things from my view. You have to show that you're smart & that you dont accept bullshit, thats … | /r/MensRights | 17/10/22 08:48 AM |
| 18 | Tried to rent an Airbnb with 5 friends. Was told by the host “ she doesn’t rent to unrelated males” anymore. Isn’t this discrimination?Ok, but then it shouldnt be about your sex but about the amount of people. Otherwise it's just sexist.. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/22 02:31 PM |
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