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| 12 | Why do some girls keep going out with me but don't want anything more than friendship? | Escalation & Calibration | zeklux10012 | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 11:17 PM |
| 2 | I approached a girl at the gym today and we exchanged contacts. What now? | Escalation & Calibration | zeklux10012 | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 10:33 PM |
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| -1 | How to flirt without being too direct1 I'd love to get complimented on how much money I make lol. That's literally in top 3 compliments. 2 I don't care what girls say, I have tried and seen what works. Things girls say they want aren't the ones that actually attract them. Being direct BUT dismissive is not what girls would say they want but I've seen it and felt it work. | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 01:16 PM |
| 3 | How to flirt without being too directAll the other comments are begginer stuff. You compliment by saying what you actually think (even if it's her face, legs whatever) but saying it in a very calm, slow and almost drowsy tone. You should be leaning away from her and have your whole body facing away from her. She might give you a wtf look and that's a shit test, you say "maaan whatever you're still hot, where you from?". If she has a huge ass and is walkin in leggings, and you compliment her hair, it's very obvious what you were act… | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 05:35 PM |
| 9 | Gym approachDefinitely wait to see her again, never follow her without her consent. When you see her again, have a convo again and ask her for IG then. I'd even say if you see her again, have another convo and let it go, then ask her for her IG the 3. time you see her. Will make you look chill and will lower her anxiety about you. | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 12:23 AM |
| 2 | I feel my game has been trash with my GF lately; how do I fix this?But you have to pull back bro, don't overlook those words. | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 08:08 PM |
| 3 | When Im drunk Im very good at online gameYou're my best friend :) | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 01:37 PM |
| 3 | How to stop obsessing over one girl?Listen to Future, you need some of that toxic abundance. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 09:38 AM |
| 1 | I approached a girl at the gym today and we exchanged contacts. What now?In the gym or over ig? | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 10:58 PM |
| 1 | I approached a girl at the gym today and we exchanged contacts. What now?So i should hit her up over ig or? | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Why do some girls keep going out with me but don't want anything more than friendship?Actually turned out to be true with this girl and i was sure it was over a few days ago | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Why do some girls keep going out with me but don't want anything more than friendship?6$ max, we go for a drink or a coffee | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Why do some girls keep going out with me but don't want anything more than friendship?Yes that's true, how do i change it. Maybe i was supposed to get flirty in the first 10 minutes of seeing her. The problem is, the stuff we talked about didn't spark my flirty creativeness at all. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do some girls keep going out with me but don't want anything more than friendship?I know about the imagination technique and we frequently talked about going on trips and vacations together, we shared experiences (which makes you remember those places and see yourself in them) and usually came to a conclusion that we should go together. The line i said was supposed to be a funny, flirty line, which was understood by her too. The problem is it didn't move us anymore out of the friendzone. She laughed and went back to the regular friendly talk. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do some girls keep going out with me but don't want anything more than friendship?Thats the thing, usually im a goof, but with this girl (and the ones like her) i get stuck because they keep talking about normal (and slightly boring) stuff that her girlfriends talk about. It really doesn't spark my imagination at all and i come off as more boring dude than usual. The jokes that i do manage to pull out of my head get that flirty vibe going (and i stack it up as much as i can) but after its over she just keeps talking about dum shit. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Why do some girls keep going out with me but don't want anything more than friendship?Very well said, but how to work it with girls that are just super hard to create tension with? The ones that go into friendly mode by default. I tried a few (appropriate and smooth) flirty lines which made her laugh but she didn't really add anything on it and basically went back to friendly talk . | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do some girls keep going out with me but don't want anything more than friendship?I'm 19, still with my parents, she's alone but she never proposed to go to her place. That's a pretty lengthy investment from a woman. Or maybe you just felt it wasn't going anywhere The convo was good and she was 100% invested, we even talked about funny experiences we had with the opposite gender (in bed or dating in general), but it never escalated to anything that would creat tension between us. She talked about how she doesn't like to wash dishes and i said " so im supposed to watch the kid… | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Why do some girls keep going out with me but don't want anything more than friendship?Oh trust me, i was listening. She was actually interesting when she talked, i would give a response every time. Idk if you saw it, but we were together for 6 hours and i was the one that ended the date because it was late. I think that there was nothing she didnt like about me, but also nothing she liked in a romantic way. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 09:29 AM |
| 2 | Why do some girls keep going out with me but don't want anything more than friendship?Most people here say its too slow lol. They say i should go for a kiss on the first date... Idk | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Why do some girls keep going out with me but don't want anything more than friendship?Probably the best response yet. One more thing. Anytime i made her laugh she would keep talking about something related and the fun and laughing would instantly stop. Most of the time, in general, she would talk about the stuff she did/saw, her freinds did, the people she had to deal with. She almost never asked me anything. When you take these things in consideration, do you think physical contact can feel natural with this girl? I feel the only time i could touch her is when i said something t… | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Why do some girls keep going out with me but don't want anything more than friendship?Yes, well said. Just one more thing, on both "dates" we spent about 6-7 hours together, just talking (with her talking much more). Could this come down to her just being bored, recognizing that im a normal guy and going out for fun and nothing else? Keep in mind we matched on tinder. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 01:07 AM |
| 3 | Why do some girls keep going out with me but don't want anything more than friendship?I agree with the last statement, well said, but i did pay for drinks the first time, second time she said "cmon no way" and gave the cash to the waiter. Tnx anyway. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Why do some girls keep going out with me but don't want anything more than friendship?I did take the time to respond, she was the one that responded very quickly. I know about the mistery part, but she genuinely keeps talking about stuff that happened to her, her friends etc. She never asked me anything tbh. The part about being funny, i usually am, but some girls just dont give any space for it. Anytime i made her laugh she would keep talking about something related and the fun and laughing would instantly stop. When you take these things in consideration, do you think physical … | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Why do some girls keep going out with me but don't want anything more than friendship?I pay for a drink here and there (always on a first date) but the guy above thought that they go out with me for free stuff. I spend about 6 bucks per date at most. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Why do some girls keep going out with me but don't want anything more than friendship?I usually say lets go for a drink | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 12:25 AM |
| 4 | Why do some girls keep going out with me but don't want anything more than friendship?Im talking about the last date, the one that inspired me to write this. We matched on tinder at 2 am, in the pm of the same day i asked her out and she said yes. We texted for 2 days and went out. I did escalate the physical contact, i touched her legs (complimented the shaving)... I put my arm around her which she looked at slightly weird, but she sat there still and i went for a kiss which she rejected. We didn't have a proper convo about her wanting me as a friend. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 12:03 AM |
| 5 | Why do some girls keep going out with me but don't want anything more than friendship?Im not paying. I would say i went for a kiss on the 2nd date 80% of the time. Lets say i did it all the time, whats the problem still? | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 11:56 PM |
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