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| 37 | Moves to flirt with a guy | Conversation | zeliew | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 10:28 PM |
| 23 | How to make a guy understand I’m interested in him | Conversation | zeliew | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 12:14 AM |
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| 2 | What to talk about on a date?Talk about things you would like her to talk about. Ask questions you would like to answer to. Compliment them. Also questions about dating is cool. It can lead to flirting. I get that it’s hard to find questions to ask that aren’t just out of the blue. Here are some : - biggest pet peeve - best date they could have - are they a romantic person - what’s their type - what are they looking for in a relationship - what do they think about dating apps - what do they think about blind dates - do they… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:38 AM |
| 1 | I always see stuff about how guys are used as validationIt’s not about girls or guys. It’s about who you feel inferior to, who you think has a better judgment than you on yourself. You’ll do anything to get their attention, to be liked by them. You’ll feel great when they compliment you or smile at you. Because them thinking you’re great matters more than you thinking you’re great. If you wanna fix this you need to remind yourself that no one is superior to you and especially not when it comes to an opinion about your own self. It’s hard, it requires… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Do you call woman cute?If she’s obviously cute, try to opt for another word. He’s heard it. A lot. Because it’s literally the only thing people tell her. If you tell her she’s beautiful or mysterious, she’ll feel good | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interestedYeh it works. All of my crushes start with doubt and overthinking | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:20 AM |
| 1 | I f***king love rejection.Ahah i always say I have a boyfriend even if I don’t because I can’t bear saying to someone’s face that they’e unattractive | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:19 AM |
| 4 | Why so many rules when it comes to approaching girls? Like “oh don’t approach them at the gym” “don’t approach them in the streets” why so many rules?I think something men dont realise is how much they can (unconsciously) make us feel uncomfortable. I’ve observed that some men don’t really get the hint when a girl is uncomfortable, and keep on digging their own grave instead of leaving them alone, or changing their attitude. This video https://youtu.be/otYupxFlQpE is a perfect example of it. If you’re a guy, you should really watch it. The guy in the video is nice and doesn’t have bad intentions, but he can’t read the girl and keeps on acting… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general?As a girl, I see men hit on women. I think something they dont realise is how much they can (unconsciously) make us feel uncomfortable. I’ve observed that some men don’t really get the hint when a girl is uncomfortable, and keep on digging their own grave instead of leaving them alone, or changing their attitude. This video https://youtu.be/otYupxFlQpE is a perfect example of it. If you’re a guy, you should really watch it. The guy in the video is nice and doesn’t have bad intentions, but he can… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach "rejections" can actually be a win-win for both partiesNo maybe don’t mention directly the number thing. And attractive is too general. Find a compliment that feels special and genuine, not a pick up line. Don’t make it seem like the only reason you’re saying that is to get the number, commit to the compliment. I’d say « Hey I just wanna say I love the way you dress like your fit is fire », let the person respond and then be like alr have a good day and unless I can give you my number… | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 06:12 PM |
| 1 | How to make a guy understand I’m interested in himJe pense que c’est parce que moi quand un gars me drague tel que tu l’a présente et que je suis pas intéressée ça m’embarrasse terriblement. Donc j’ai pas envie d’infliger ça à quelqu’un et je préfère savoir que je lui plait un peu en premier avant de foncer. | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Can someone explain Jack Harlow's flirt style to me?Calm, confident, does not show any excessive emotions, compliments, unexpected answers, deep voice, eye contact, nice smile | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Moves to flirt with a guyUr right it won’t, I actually am really scared to ask out and hit on men because I don’t want to make them uncomfortable so I never do it but I wish to try it out more often, shoot my shot as they say | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 10:27 AM |
| 3 | Does holding eye contact with a girl make them horny?Depends. Works for me tho. But it gotta be a great eye contact, stare into my soul and undress me with you eyes : that could make a cow horny. But it can also very easily be creepy. Tbh only works if the guy is astonishingly hot | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 09:54 PM |
| 2 | If girls see that other girls they know/associate with are interested in a guy then they themselves will be interested in that guy (not always but I’d say frequently) even if they initially did not think that guy was attractive themselvesOk so 2 things here : First of all, if her friend told the girl she found you attractive it’s normal she’s checking you out too. We girls have this kind of little game called stalking : we (friends of the girl who likes you) look at you to see if you’re looking at her. Idk how to explain it but it’s really entertaining. Because obviously the girl that likes you can’t look at you all the time that would be awkward but we ( friends of her) can, and report everything you do. But it’s not in a creep… | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Moves to flirt with a guythis was a nice story I’m so into it. I’ll update you if I ever pull of one of those moves | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Moves to flirt with a guyHAHAHA I’ve done the phone thing it’s such a nice technique to get close and build a bit of tension | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 08:57 AM |
| 1 | 4 ways to go for the first kissNo I totally get your point what I meant was that it kinda sounds like you’re bragging about what you have done to other women. Grotesque example : if you say « I made a lot of women cum » you think you’re saying « I can make you/women cum » but all I’m hearing is you saying you did something without any proof you can actually do it to me, to women that aren’t there and aren’t me. Plus that you’ve been with a lot of women and that’s not the most attractive thing (personally). I don’t think you s… | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 08:54 AM |
| -1 | Is me meeting up with dates 45-50 minutes ride away from my apartment bad for logistics of me bringing them back to my place?Nah the drive is too long it’d be awkward | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Help me understand the situation so I can learn from it.If I were talking to a guy and he didn’t want to show me his face id be annoyed too. I’m not going to go on a date with someone I don’t remember the face of. But you should probably drop it | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 08:40 AM |
| 2 | Moves to flirt with a guyIve been told a lot the hoodie thing. Where do I grab it tho? Collar, sleeve, bottoms of the shirt…? | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 01:43 PM |
| 2 | How do I know if a girl gives me the fuck me eyes or she is just casually looking up because Im taller?If it’s insistant and she smiles. If she blinks a lot too. When I look at someone who is tall, I tilt my head up. If I’m trying to give them the fuck me eyes, I don’t tilt it as much, making my eyes appear bigger. Women don’t usually look into your eyes when they talk, so if she does and it’s look and it looks like she’s staring into your soul, she knows what she’s doing. But be careful because tall guys make women really bold for some reason, so you might get those stares even tho the girl isn’… | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 09:57 AM |
| 1 | how do I stop being seen as a friend and more like someone they'd want to date.This!!! But be careful tho women get creeped out very easily | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 09:45 AM |
| 2 | how do I stop being seen as a friend and more like someone they'd want to date.First impression is really important. When I meet a guy, he always falls in one of 3 categories : 1. I’m attracted to him so I’ll probably flirt with him. 2. I’m not attracted to him but he did try to flirt with me or one of my friend so ik he’s confident and has game, so maybe I’ll flirt with him if his personality is great. 3. I’m not attracted to him and he doesnt show any interest in women, so I won’t bother. Basically you need to show people that you’re open and not afraid to hit on a girl.… | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 09:43 AM |
| 1 | 4 ways to go for the first kissI think talking about other women would throw me off a little. I think pulling her forward is enough, maybe add in “that’s cute/cool” or “now that i think about it your lips are beautiful” and pause to build the tension a little | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 09:16 AM |
| 6 | 4 ways to go for the first kissI’m a girl so it might be different but it works every.time. I say goodbye with a kiss on the cheek, and slooooowly pull back while giving eye contact and putting my hand somewhere on his body( usually shoulder BUT if one of his hands is already touching my body, I simply grab it) I then look at the lips and wait to see if he engages in a kiss or not. This can also work with a hug, all you gotta do is give a little peck. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 09:12 AM |
| 15 | Cold approach "rejections" can actually be a win-win for both partiesThis is so true! If a guy approached me in the street and asks for my number, I’ll 9/10 say no because I don’t give my number to strangers. But if he compliments me in my dress, my smile, something personal and genuine, I might consider it. Even if I’m not very attracted to him, I’ll either say yes to give him a chance, or simply to boost his ego a little. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 08:59 AM |
| 4 | Moves to flirt with a guyI feel like that’d be awkward if he doesn’t like me back. A little bit intrusive. Maybe just rest my arm on his thigh? Rather than grabbing it | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Moves to flirt with a guyhahaha yes I do that and it does work | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 08:38 AM |
| 1 | How do you fuck people you're not very attracted to?Honestly some people are just built like that. I (F) have a lot of physical standards and I don’t find a lot of guys attractive, no matter of handsome or fit they are. Sucks if you wanna have casual sex, but what’s the point if you’re regardless not enjoying it? 2 options here : sit your dick down, tell it you can’t fuck and go on with your life, or meet as much people as possible until you find your side chick. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 10:15 PM |
| 1 | A guide on how to stop giving a fuckWhat if I see that person again tho, I’m okay with pretending it’s not real but it is, they do remember what happened so what am I supposed to do | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 10:04 PM |
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