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Funny because I've spoken to a leading reaearcher/MD at a top medical school who said they dont even know why people get MPH'S and the like. Medical knowledge = MD/DO. Denstists of course, and PA's, Pharmacists, and CRNA's to support the physicians
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 11:33 PM
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Not the same. I know one woman who is extremely successful and never had a boyfriend. She is a diamond imo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:13 PM
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Broke women largely and some broke men dont understand this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:51 PM
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This is wrong to an extent. I don't care which degrees a woman has. I care that she has some technical skills, can understand my humor and have interesting conversations, and has a long history of gainful employment. If she went to an ivy league but has a bs degree in marketing or whatever, works in social media/etc, and has no technical skills, I have zero interest in getting to know her. Even if she has graduate degrees, it really depends what they're in. A woman with an undergrad degree in ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:25 PM
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The crazy thing for me is when broke people use the word settle
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:19 PM
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George floyd 5 years drug free
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:59 AM
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This wasnt funny nor clever. Boomer humor lolz
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:19 AM
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Yes it does. He opens the jars but what if you had to buy them? What if he doesnt have any money left over to fill up the gas in your car or handle other maintenance. A man cant "spoil" anyone unless he is in minimum a comfortable financial position.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:50 AM
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Can you change "spoils me" to financially well off It isnt feasible for a guy making 60k a year to spoil his wife. Leaving notes and getting flowers only goes so far lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:07 AM
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Yeah you like to bake. Or at least have an interest/skill in baking. Unless a guy is into flowers hes not gonna be passionate about what flowers to get you. Literally every flower is the same to us we csn hsrdly differentiate. It can be different if its a specific interest of his. How is a man who has to google what a flower is called gonna be passionate about getting you flowers? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 06:42 PM
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Yeah youre asking for too much. No one wakes up thinking "i would really love to buy my girl flowers today" men just dont think like that lol its not a disney movie. We wake up and are thinking about our own motivations and what we want you to do, just the same way youre thinking about what you want us to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 06:26 PM
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I (and many men) expect beauty, peace, loyalty, support, and sex becsuse we provide the same. So if every woman I've been with has wanted sex as much as I do or more, why would I look at it as her rewarding me with access to her body? She wants it more than I do! Why would I date a woman who doesnt have a nice body, when I've worked on mine for over a decade and sacrificed constsntly for it. I hate this narrative that women dont enjoy sex and its a reward for men in return for providing the woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 10:16 PM
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I have dated several women who are afraid of driving and cite their anxiety as why they cant drive in the city. This is not a turn off at all for me. Seema like a double standard
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:26 PM
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So what if a 23 year old who has travelled the world and done many interesting thing dates a 25 year old who has just made it out of poverty and never been out of their honetown? Is that abuse? Is that taking advantage of someone immature with no life experience who is amazed by anything new? All of these conversations are stupid. Society agrees that children and adults having sex is wrong. There is no clear way to demarcate this because of the infinite complexity humans are, so for better or wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:51 PM
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Funny. Im rich and dont care about status and havent screwed anyone over in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 06:08 PM
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Itsnot just hot. Itshot and agreeable/supportive. Those are the 2 most important traits
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:38 PM
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Imagine caring that someone with less monetizable skills/talent/intelligence mocks you because their great-grandfather drilled into the ground and black loquid came out LOL Not that any actual rich person spends their time thknking about newly rich people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 01:06 PM
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Imagine caring that someone with less monetizable skills/talent/intelligence mocks you because their great-grandfather drilled into the ground and black loquid came out LOL Not that any actual rich person spends their time thknking about newly rich people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 01:02 PM
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Needsmor specificity and logic. If you're talking about a nepotism beneficiary whose parents are old money and who is rich solely because of them, you might be right. Although this man will also easily date a poor woman if she is attractive. If you're talking about men who started poor/middle class and built their way to wealth through skills, intelligence, and self reliance, then you are absolutely wrong and 9/10 times they will pick the attractive woman over the less attractive but wealthy one…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 12:57 PM
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It's feminine to look at a man and attempt to judge him in this way. I dont know his money/strengths/connections/traits and I dont care to. It's also feminine to judge a man on his looks. So this doesnt apply to men because its impossible for a logical man to look at another man and say he's "below his girlfriends league" unless I know him well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:33 AM
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If someone claims they were "socialized" to believe women are just stay at home nurturers they are delusional. What about society today reinforces that belief?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:07 PM
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Women being purely "nurturers" is an economic impossibility for 90% of men, so I dont see much productivity in discussing this in generalized conversations about the populace. I believe that men and women are different and etc., as do my parents who are traditional. Yet my mom looked at me crazy when I asked her thoughts on me dating/marrying a woman who doesnt work. Its simply not an economic possibility and also spreads the lie that traditional women didnt work. Many had part time jobs and con…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:06 PM
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We haven't been socialized to that lol. Maybe guys born in the 50s were socialized to that, but no ones parents now are telling them to find a wife who just stays at gome with the kids
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:14 PM
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No george floyd is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:42 PM
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My apologies I just thought those were the metrics you were talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:12 PM
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Waist and bust size?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:07 PM
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You're already protected from having to be a net positive value contributor. That's the greatest protection any worker can have
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:37 PM
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If you work for a private employer, i dont care if you wear your pronouns on a shirt or tattoo them on your forehead
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:22 PM
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You're not entitled to get paid off my tax money to sit on your ass and promote "pronouns" Every citizen has protections against discrimination in hiring/firing, and firing me because a certain amount of people find something I said distasteful is absolutely discrimination. Seriously, people need some sort of basic legal education before running around and screaming free speech is violated only if someone is thrown in a cell LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:17 PM
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It means you shouldnt lose your job and it means people shouldnt be put off from hiring you because you said something on the internet. Pretty retarded when people say "hurdur you're not getting thrown in a cell so your free speech is protected hurdur"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:28 PM
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How come whenever guys bring up equality women always shift the argument to the extreme traditionalist scenario which isnt possible for 95% of earners today? OP's point isnt that he wants a woman to sit at home tending to everything while he makes money, he's saying that if equality is the standard today, why cant we have equality? Why cant the woman cover the first date and the man the second. Why cant the woman offer to pick us up and we'll drive her the next time? The point is that women dont…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:05 PM
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How about if theyre attracted to someone who posseses positive traits which they dont have. This does not diminish any weight behind the idea A fat woman seeking a guy with a six pack, or a woman who is a casual chess player going after someone who is nationally rankes top 100 is absolutely hypergamous. Way to try and trivialize it with the "bottle flick trick" example though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 07:15 PM
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Not true. I prioritize the girl being "down", fun, flirty, etc. Not objectively attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:51 PM
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Its not about "wanting to date." Women will actually shame men they consider low tier for hitting on them. Make ticktoks about them, laugh about them to their friends, try to excommunucate them out of social/work circles. Men will never shame a woman for showing interest in them, even if she isnt up to par.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:43 PM
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Ya missed the point, sweetie
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:38 PM
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The problem is you can't make even a half intelligent argument using evolutionary biology towards dating because it requires infinite assumptions/suppositions and has zero proof behind it. How do you know who procreated 1000 years ago? LOL And i'm red/black pill! But still consider these "evolutionary psych meets dating" arguments to be a sign of low IQ
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:20 AM
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Your apology implies my argument is nitpicking a subset of men and women. When in reality, the childhood point you brought up is moot because men experience the same or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:40 PM
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See my comment below
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:34 PM
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Most autistic kids are bullied regardless of gender. Now that we got that out of the way, can we talk about how autistic men have to mask more often and more successfully in adulthood to get by/procreate?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:33 PM
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I am not talking about school. Autistic boys are also bullied, often moreso. I'm talking about the adult world and dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:44 PM
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This is absolutely false. People develop skills more often than not when they are required to develop this skills. This is why ugly/overweight people generally are funnier than very attractive people. (There are other factors of course) Autistic women are not required to mask in order for men to like them, or for other people to not be put off by them. The same is not true for men. 99% of autistic men who get laid have had to mask to some degree. And not only mask, but mask successfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:50 PM
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Love the cope "these arent studies" um last time I checked? Harvard isnt going to devote resources to questioning thousands of women nationwide on what they believe to be the median salary/height for men LOL The truth is women are unaware that their preferences are exclusionary, because they are unaware of the numbers behind them. So the first part of your point is off. And would it serve women? There are definitely some women who would be well served, who would end up with a decent guy and a fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:40 PM
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They are unaware of it. This evidenced by countless shows which ask women what percentile a hypothetical guy falls into, and they will guess that a 6 foot tall man who makes 100k is something like 60th or 70th percentile. When in fact there is less than 5% of men who are both 6' plus and make 100k
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:20 PM
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You lost me at submissive and 5'10 and below. A relationship with a woman at the helm is bound to fail
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:02 AM
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Blame your fellow women for this. Because for 4/5 women, if you do not make it flirty and lightly sexual within the first 10 or so messages, they will lose interest/not want to meet up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:55 PM
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Been with women who were absolute freaks in bed. Would GLADLY "settle" for one who isnt, if she is supportive, doesn't have mental illness, and is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:54 PM
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Im tall. Would date a woman who isnt. (Prefer tall) Come from a solid family no divorces and parents financially well off. Its ok if she doesnt as long as she doesnt come from a shitshow. Make good money. Its ok if she makes 50% of what I do, sub 30% would probably be my cutoff. In shape and ripped. She doesnt have to be just want nice/thin legs and works out decent amount. Own property. She doesnt have to, just has to be able to cover herself and not live in a ghetto or with parents
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 10:28 PM
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Feeding into this lie that women don't want sex. 90% of the women I've dated have had a higher sex drive than myself. But on here "oh women don't like sex hurdur" Maybe the unhealthy/medicated ones don't want sex everyday, but the attractive healthy ones with nice bodies usually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:10 PM
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A lot of this manifests as debates, which is the last thing I want to do. I went out with this lawyer chick once and it felt like every other statement I made there was some pushback. I often hear my partner say things I don't fully agree with or think might be wrong, but I let it rock. I Expect the same. I'm not dogmatic with any of my thoughts but I like speaking freely without argument or debate. I've heard quite a few women say they actually enjoy debating and arguing with their partner, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:25 PM
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Yes. But I often hear this "challenging" narrative which is the opposite of what most men want and what puts a lot of men off from successful women. I work 60+ hours a week so I can have a nice future and present, I do not want to face any resistance when I come home.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:16 PM
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I agree with your point but not how you are arguing it. I want an intelligent woman. NOT so she can challenge me though, definitely not. Moreso that we can have interesting conversations and that she can understand my humor which would be lost on a dunce. Also so she can understand some of the technical things i'm interested in and maybe teach me about some stuff as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:41 PM
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I see both sides. I cannot be attracted to or be with a dumb woman. I don't care if she looks like Adriana Lima and is very caring and a great cook The problem is that any smart woman today who grew up in America will be a career woman. For someone to be born in the 90s in the U.S. and not have a career or education something has to be wrong with them. There are lots of women nowadays who were unable to hack it, and thus fall back on the "traditional" role when in reality they were lazy or had m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:37 PM
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So if i have a million dollars in the bank, then I get married, and then I use that million dollars which I accumulated brfore marriage to buy a million dollar house, my wife is entitled to half???!! F THAT YOU WASNT WIT ME SHOOTIN IN THE GYM
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:44 PM
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This this this. Its 2025, any person with a decent iq who isnt disabled has access to school and work in America. No adult should be supporting another full grown adult. We have moved past that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:42 PM
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Nah. Just the broke people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:38 PM
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From an evolutionary perspective the woman getting ostracized isnt important. Neither the woman nor the man are important. What's important is the woman having many kids and surviving to raise the kids
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:05 AM
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Women have terrible self control lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:54 AM
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Yes and I'm doing my part to stop the fascist Russian demons, who are literally trying to take over the world while everyone watches
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:21 PM
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Yes, I am. And the men who arent allowed to flee the country are as well. No such rules for thr women though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:19 PM
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If feminism is equal rights then go to Ukraine and fight, my good equal sister
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:15 PM
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Word there where weapons of mass destruction in iraq
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:14 PM
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"If you're not a conspiracy theorist in 2025 it's bacause drumroll you're not intelligent" - Candace Owens
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:13 PM
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Most of us who own our own places would absolutely not date a woman who lives with her parents. To be an exception she would have to be young and really hot/traditional
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:28 PM
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They don't want to be approached in order to form a relationship or go on a date/get to know a stranger. They want to be approached because they want the ego/attention spike. They will feel good being approached but still instantly dismiss the stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 01:47 PM
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I always come across these surveys of x amount of women want to be approached more in public. The problem is that wanting to be approached more =/= being receptive to approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:36 AM
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I dont do Anal and never have because I dont want to be responsible for hospital visits/untimely death of a woman I'm with
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:44 PM
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Of course they are. But a woman who puts another man before me is not gonna be my girlfriend/wife
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:11 PM
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You're not the brightest bulb. No one is saying "everything my girl did with her ex she has to do with me" what if she had mmf threesomes with her ex? I don't want that shiii pause. What we're aaying is if I want her to do something and she doesn't do it thats ok... but if she did that with another guy that's a big problem. Because it means she bent to another mans will but wont bend or compromise to yours, or maybe isnt attracted enough to you to want to do stuff with you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:04 AM
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You aren't getting it... people are already universally wary of men who are quiet and introverted. Yet women still get assaulted and abused by their partners. So there are more ways to pick better and different personalities/traits to be wary of as well. Lacking shame doesn't have much to do with introversion/extroversion idk why you're so focused on the introversion aspect
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:55 AM
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Everyone already assumes that about quiet/introverted men and is somewhat wary of them. The point of the thread is "picking better" and my point is many women have the blinders on like yourself. Lack of shame is a better predictor of psychopathy than introversion/extroversion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:00 AM
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Nice anecdote, very happy for you having a nice and bold husband. My point stands though. Lack of shame specifically is a huge predictor of psychopathy. No one is saying all bold, confident people are psychos.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:03 PM
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Nobody should get billions of dollars because their spouse cheated. That is asinine
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 09:08 PM
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There are numerous reasons for this but it is changing. Higher earners are more likely to want to start a family nowadays, which is the only potential use-case for marriage. Higher earners also tend to come from families that are traditional (not from single mom or loosely defined "families") and will blindly do what their parents did. But marriage is a thing of the past and carries many negatives for successful men. We are catching on now in 2025. Think of these 2 men in a vacuum: guy A who mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 09:05 PM
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Anecdote but my friend who does pretty well in dating went to a ballroom dancing class with his fwb. When he alternated and switched to other women he noted they kind of ignored him and seemed annoyed that he wasn't good at it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 08:57 PM
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Be wary of very bold people, especially men. What people type as "confidence" and many women find attractive is simply a person who lacks shame and has a grandiose view of themself. 2 traits that coincide heavily with psychopathy. I feel like this is never taught to people but if/when I have a daughter I would def mention this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:22 AM
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If you're this concerned about who pays on the first date you're probably not ready to date? He's not concerned about who pays. He's concerned about having to subsidize another fully grown adults meals/drinks LOL How about if you can't cover your own, tell the guy who asks you out "im sorry but i dont have money to pay for my dinner and drinks"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:38 AM
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Shut up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:16 PM
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Most of my life i've dated women my age or older. 2 weeks ago I went to the gym and saw this girl who must've been early 20s. When I say if you put her next to any supermodel they would look like bird droppings in comparison I am not exaggerating. She had the tightest legs and her body and skin was insane. I finally understood the appeal. And no, this is not cringeworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:01 PM
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I am sorry to break it to you but life isn't a fairy rale and no one is coming to save you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:29 PM
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Common is for them to date degenerates who traumatize them, and then try to latch on to the safe and successful option in their 30's, who they will divorce for no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:28 PM
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Thisthisthis. Have never in my life touched a woman who didn't want me to touch her. There is no way i'm listening to the sob stories of some 35 yo woman who was raped/has a bunch of traumatic experiences with past boyfriends and blames men for it. Yes i'm sympathetic but she should have been more vigilant/ better at selecting those she lets into her circle
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:26 PM
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My parents are a traditional couple and my mom worked part time jobs her entire life while always cooking/cleaning/and taking care of the kids. My father was the ultimate line of defense and never said no to work in his entire life. He would've worked 100 hours a week if he had the oppurtunity and often did. No one will convince me that "traditional" is the woman being home and just spending money. Most of the world has been poor throughout history and had to work hard and scrape to get by. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:03 PM
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Whether a relationship is "traditional" or "egalitarian", the man is expected to fill a masculine role. Ask people in an egalitarian relationship who walked up to who first and initiated. Ask them who proposed. Ask them who goes to the door if someone knocks at night or who does more of the driving/paying for dates. An exception would be a relationship where the woman outearns the man, but even in this exception the man is usually tasked with filling masculine roles outside of being the breadwin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:46 PM
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This doesnt mean we cant hold them accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:43 PM
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So you asked what accountability means in a thread that states women don't have accountability. You get several examples. And then you say everyone has accountability. Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:11 AM
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Yes. Especially when they have 60 unread messages on hinge, many from guys who are doing well/ are their looksmatch
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:09 AM
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I've said this many a time: for 95% of people (not accounting for late bloomers or people who put serious effforts into their looks/body afterwards) high school is.the last environment where there is an honest reality concerning people's looks and sexual value. 16 year olds are too dumb/underdeveloped to create facades over who is attractive who isn't. It's simple: the hot girls mostly know they're hot, and the ones who aren't know they aren't. What's happening in society now is that a bunch of …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:06 AM
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Accountability means if you fuck something up at work and your boss screams at you, you accept it. Because you made a mistake. You don't blame the boss or toxic culture or sexual harrassment. Accountability means if you shit talk someone and they punch you in the face you accept it, because actions have consequences. Accountability means if you fuck up your own life due to poor decision making, you don't lie to yourself and try to justify it or play the victim
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:58 AM
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Divorce rape divorce rape divorce rape divorce rape. Sorry, just felt like saying rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:12 PM
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This is true probably 25 years ago lulz
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:57 PM
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