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So it was perfectly fine for him to stand in front of my car while I was on my phone and wave his hands to get my attention? Sure, he didn't knock on my window, but that's happened to me before too. Fine. He looked inside of my car. Does this give him the right to interrupt what I'm doing to ask me out with no prior signals or interaction? Please tell me: Is there anywhere in public that I'm allowed to be without being fair game to be cold approached? I'm serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:43 PM
0

Good for them! I am childless by choice, yes. Not sure where you get the man hater from, but eh. Not my problem. If you think I'm bothered by that, I have some oceanfront property in Arkansas to sell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:32 PM
5

I've said this before in another sub, but if my bf (as adorable and attractive to me as he is) had approached me cold in the supermarket? I would've turned him down. I don't want to be with a guy who thinks that bothering me when I'm running errands is cool. It reeks of entitlement. These guys won't believe me, but IDAGF.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:28 PM
1

Women are making their own problem. What problem is that, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:18 PM
2

The childless man hater telling women not to have babies Who is telling women not to have babies? What are you smoking? Most of the childfree women I know (myself included) do not try to tell other women not to have children, but rather we support younger women who feel pressured to have kids, but deep down don't have the desire to do so. No child deserves an indifferent parent. If it's not a "hell yes", it should be a "no".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:16 PM
1

Not just in 2023 though. Rom-coms have been around for quite some time. In reality "meet cute" is not the norm, but people have it in their heads that this is how it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:12 PM
1

Ah, yes. Another enlightened man, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:05 PM
3

This is it, 100%. Thank you for spreading the word to your fellow brethren (because they don't believe women when we say the same thing). Unfortunately it will fall on deaf ears, but I appreciate you nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:03 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:55 PM
6

But … but … we’re supposed to give them all a chaaaaance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:30 PM
1

That’s my opinion and I stand by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:15 PM
1

That’s my opinion and I stand by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:15 PM
1

What?! Women are not a monolith? Get out outta here!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:39 PM
5

Lots of liberal guys are quite masculine. Can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:06 PM
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I'm too lazy to type it all out again. Here you go: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/17ko9zn/comment/k7b442z/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:01 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:57 PM
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Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:55 PM
1

It was /s Yeah, I want men at work to actually talk to me about work. Am I friendly with coworkers that I work with regularly? Of course. Do I want to date them? No. Don't shit where you eat. I thought this was common knowledge. This reminded me of an occurrence where I was required to have an auditor shadow me for a full week. Sure, I was polite. Professional, but not overly polite. After all, I was going to have to spend the entire week with this guy. He also had the power to make my work life…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:47 PM
1

Words are hard!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:32 PM
1

I'm sure he's a chick magnet!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:31 PM
4

They feel entitled to "shoot their shot".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:30 PM
3

Yeah, I can smell it through the screen. He's another good candidate for a Real DollTM.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:28 PM
4

And I get crucified when I say that it feels like being objectified, because that's only thing you're going by when you cold approach are my looks. (generic you)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:26 PM
3

I mean, I've come to expect no less in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:11 PM
3

Yeah, I'm not long for this sub anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:10 PM
6

They think all liberal men are "soy boys".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:01 PM
3

That's what the Red Pill guys think. Not what most women believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:57 PM
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You’re literally talking about women as if they are cattle that need to be trained to your liking & benefit. I mean, you're not that far off. Typical Red Pill attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:55 PM
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That's really easy for you to say since you haven't been cold approached. Once it happens to you on a regular basis, get back to me. And for love of all that is holy, please DO NOT encourage men to hit on us at the gym. I'm there to work out, not get hit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:46 PM
1

Nah. You're not going to believe me anyway. Why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:34 PM
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You are wasting your breath in here. We're all liars. Now I'm being told that I fabricated my rapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:33 PM
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IDGAF anymore about the "studies" you guys quote. I've been living in this body for over 50 years and I know what's true for me and what isn't. No. I don't decide within 3 seconds if I would sleep with a man or not. But you're going to tell me I'm wrong. LOL Whatever. You're going to believe whatever suits you. Confirmation bias. Nothing is going to change you guys' minds in here. Nothing. It's just one big circle jerk. One guy in this sub is a fvcking rape apologist who should be on a watchlist…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:20 PM
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THIS! Exactly this. I really don't know why it's so hard to comprehend. Thank you. They might revoke your man card, though. I'm not cool with being approached when I'm sitting in my car in the parking lot reading messages on my phone. (Which is what happened to me yesterday)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:08 PM
1

Yeah, that's not the one I was referencing, but nice try. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:05 PM
1

Just stop. Seriously. Stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:00 PM
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If that makes you sleep better at night, go ahead and think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:24 PM
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A woman noticed that men in public places are even avoiding looking at her. Like she is invisible. And of course no one approached. Good. Maybe you guys are finally learning. Yes to your takeaways 1, 2, 3, and 5. No to the 4th (although your wording could use some help on that point wrt to clarification).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:23 PM
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#whataboutism
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:17 PM
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I've read several reports and studies on that based on raped women testimonies and experiences on women. It's a well established fact that raped women get wet. Well, damn! I must've missed that memo. The 3 times I was raped, I was as dry as a bone and it hurt like hell. Even had tears in my vaginal wall and I bled (and before you say it, no, it was not menstrual blood). Hmm. I must be a magical unicorn!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:16 PM
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Some studies say that women prefer other types of men depending if they are on menstruation or not. Even if this study holds water, it says during ovulation, not menstruation. Do you even know the difference? This is some /r/badwomensanatomy fodder right here!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:01 PM
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OP, please do not listen to this hogwash!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:30 AM
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Oooooh, I see! That makes perfect sense now! And how many times have you been raped? Or are you staying that you've raped women and they all got wet for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:22 AM
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So sitting in my car in the parking lot reading messages on my phone is an open invitation to look into my car and then get my attention to ask me out?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:53 AM
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Yes, I meant professionally. Even when it was ridiculously cold outside. If you worked downtown, you had to add extra time in the morning to change clothes in the bathroom or freeze your legs off walking 5 blocks from the parking garage to the office building. Yeah, easy mode. 😂 (not directed at you personally)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:50 AM
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Oh, boy. If you know it will happen [knowing you'll get raped], it gets wet? Seriously? I … can’t with you anymore. HEY, ARE YOU GUYS READING THIS SHIT? And you fvcking wonder why women are wary of men in general? Here's one of the many reasons why. A rape apologist in your midst. I rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:45 AM
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You asked me questions, I answered, and now you don’t want to read it. 😂 You could just answer the very first question. But that’s too much to ask, apparently. Sorry if you can only handle reading one paragraph a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:12 AM
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I don’t understand how you think it’s acceptable to approach a woman without making direct eye contact first. If I’m sitting in the dealership with my big ass headphones on, reading my Kindle, that should be a clear sign that I don’t want to be bothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:04 AM
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Dude, you don’t shit about my relationship with this man. I assure you he does not do all the work. LOL I do use my words when I want something and so does he. People are allowed to have relationships that don’t conform to your norms. Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:51 AM
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You missed the (generic you) part. BTW, we were still expected to wear skirts or dresses with heels in the 80s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:39 AM
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Aw, thank you for policing my comments! I’m such a helpless feeemale who needs to be told what to do! Whatever would I do without your oh-so-helpful guidance? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:26 AM
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Oh, ghod. It’s you again. If you read further down, you’ll have your answer. I make him feel plenty desired and I’m not going to explain this to you in detail. We’re adults and we can “use our words” when we want things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:20 AM
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How often do you get cold approached? It happens to me about 3-4 times a month. Quite a bit more often when I was younger. In my 20s and 30s several times a week. I should be able to go about my business running errands, going to the gym, going to the grocery store, picking up my prescription at the drug store, hell … last time I pulled into the airport parking garage, I scanned my QR code to verify my reservation, my name pops up on the screen and the attendant starts asking me about my first n…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:47 AM
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I don’t know which country you live in, but in the US, that’s considered sexual assault. If you don’t report it, it will continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:42 AM
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Yeah, guess I’m strange. I don’t want the men I work with asking me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:39 AM
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If she is on menstruation? WTF? You are something else, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:13 AM
2

You let your guard down for one minute and then …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:08 AM
2

Que?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:05 AM
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Just a little?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:01 AM
2

Whatever floats your boat, dude. If my partner wanted me to initiate, he knows how to use his words like an adult. We’ve talked about it and he prefers it this way. I don’t want him to feel pressured, because I would jump his bones whenever he’s in my vicinity. He doesn’t always feel like it, which is cool. This arrangement work for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:50 AM
1

Sounds like paradise for men!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:28 AM
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It doesn’t matter how much she earns until she divorces your ass and then you’re all like oh, she’s raping me financially! Y’all can’t put 2+2 together. Lol Not my circus, not my monkeys. Enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:58 AM
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Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:15 AM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:15 AM
1

Being approached while I’m going about my day minding my own business? Yeah, annoying. First of all, you have no idea whether I’m single, married, gay, or anything else. Second, you’re approaching me based on my physical appearance, and nothing else. You have no clue about the many other things that make me a person. You don’t know anything about me except you find the outer shell attractive. It’s objectifying. Plain and simple. That’s a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:14 AM
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I was sitting in my car looking at my phone before getting out and I barely saw a figure walk by on the passenger side. Next thing I know this guy is standing right in front of my car making hand motions. It looked like he was typing on an invisible keyboard. I gestured to him twice in a “WTF are you taking about?” Then I got out of my car and said: Is there a problem? What’s the issue? He asked if I played the piano and I had a puzzled look on my face. Then he pointed to my passenger side and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:08 AM
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Because I always want it, so I don’t want to put pressure on him. Trust me, he knows. Lol This is what happens when couples communicate. If he wanted me to initiate, he could say something like: Hey, I’d really like it if you initiated sometimes. And I would. But that’s not the agreement that we have.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:30 AM
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Disallowed sex? You mean a man forcing himself on a woman? Even under Medieval law, rape was punished by castration, blinding, or hanging. What is consent? Are you for real? How about when a woman says “no”?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:28 AM
1

And you’re how old? We’re you in the workforce when women were expected to wear dresses/skirts and heels every day at the office? If y’all don’t stand up like feminists did in the 60s and 70s, I don’t want to hear your (generic you) whinging.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:01 AM
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All he has to do is touch me the way he knows how or kiss me. Immediate Niagara Falls.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:56 PM
1

That still doesn’t narrow it down for me. Give me an approximate year. 4th Century?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:35 PM
2

Safest bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:31 PM
4

I do carry pepper spray. I never said I was terrified of men, I said we have to be cautious. JFC you people are something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:30 PM
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Ok, fine. Do nothing. In the 50s it was commonplace for men to pinch their secretary’s ass at the office and they couldn’t say a peep. That’s “just how it was”. Boys will be boys. Clearly, that’s not acceptable anymore. How do you think that attitude changed? Did it happen by some miracle or fairy dust?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:25 PM
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It is creepy and weird. Don’t get me started.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:22 PM
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What am I supposed to be worried about? Also, were you the one that said your aunt still got hit on in her 60s and 70s? What is your definition of too old?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:05 PM
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Just let them keep believing that. It makes them sleep better at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:43 PM
2

Ah, yes. Reducing women down to a warm, wet hole. Nothing more than a Real Doll™ with a pulse. So refreshing!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:34 PM
1

Please don’t listen to these chuckleheads.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:25 PM
1

Current culture? Define, please?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:16 PM
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In any case, that is the point of commitment... some sexual and romantic exclusivity, and pooling resources. So, then it is worth it to them. Again with the contradictions. It's either categorically worth it or not worth it. Which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:58 PM
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I'm not going to compliment something I don't like. Whatever it is I'm complimenting them on is usually the reason I notice them in the first place. "Hey, that haircut really suits you!" Not faking. "Hey, that's some cool ink you got there!" Not faking. "Hey, love the boots! Do you mind telling me where you got them?" Not faking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:54 PM
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I ... what? If commitment with women is not worth it, why do so many men pursue it? "We" cannot win? Are you a woman? I thought you were a guy. Nevermind, I have a Hallowe'en party to go to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:46 PM
2

Men feel attracted to attractive women... the horror. Which is it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:41 PM
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Oh, it's you. Wait, I thought you didn't have any friends? You just make shit up as it suits your narrative. I don't believe a word you say anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:39 PM
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Commitment with women is not worth it, you are basically scammed out of your money and social life and patience for a woman that gets fat, old, and too mentally unstable. Yet so many guys whine that they can't find a partner. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:34 PM
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I wanna know where y'all live! I get cold approached 3-4 times a month (just today, even, getting out of my car at the gym) and I'm in my 50s. It boggles my mind. I thought this shit would stop once I turned 40. Hell, don't these Red Pillers always say that we "hit the wall" at 30? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:29 PM
4

I don't have to fake a reason. A simple "Hey! Nice (fill in the blank)!" works just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:26 PM
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I was searching for the "Is this flirting?" butterfly meme, but eh .. no time rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:23 PM
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This is kinda bizarre to me. I don't feel attracted to every attractive man I meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:21 PM
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He's apparently serious. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:20 PM
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Those things you mentioned are NOT interpreted as flirting. That's just ... I don't know where you're getting these ideas from.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:19 PM
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Most complains seem to be that the guy precisely only talks about work and does not invite girls outside of office. Ghods, no! Who are these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:03 PM
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Insert "Is this flirting?" butterfly meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:00 PM
1

I see what you're getting at, now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:53 PM
1

Oh, you're funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:42 PM
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Yeah, those examples do not count as getting hit on. Sorry to burst your bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:36 PM
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Didn't say that, but it's certainly not "uncommon". You are extremely lucky if you've never been been harrassed and I wish I lived wherever you are. Less than 3 hours ago I was cold approached by a man as I was getting out of my car at the gym. This shit happens to me at least 3-4 times month. You never know what's going to happen. At least it was in the parking lot in broad daylight; not that I go out much when it's dark unless it's to a friends house or someplace I feel safe. There's a whole s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:34 PM
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Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:23 PM
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Yeah, that's not what procreate means, but OK, I'll run with it. You can survive without sex. Is it fun and (hopefully) satisfying? Of course. Is it even better with the right partner? Abso-fucking-lutely. I was celibate for 5 years (by choice) and you know what? I didn't die. Sexual desire that is the impulse to procreate = horny. Don't have to be so fancy about it. Welcome to the human condition. WRT porn, I have no leg to stand on. I watch porn myself. LOL Porn for everybody who wants it! I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:17 PM
3

I'm ... not? Who are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:08 PM
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I'm probably going to be the outlier here, but with a trusted partner, I have a "free use" rule. He knows that I'm HL and am ready to go whenever he wants. So there's no need for me to initiate, it's implied 24x7.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:06 PM
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:cough: bullshit :cough: A+ for creative trolling, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:01 PM
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And then men complain: "Why do women treat us like we're predators? It's not fair!" Because we have to for our own safety. Until we get to know you and establish that you don't have bad intentions, you are Schrödinger's Rapist. We really can't afford to trust all men until they prove otherwise. Those days are long gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:59 PM
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How many examples do you want me to give just from my own personal experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:56 PM
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/r/whenwomenrefuse
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:55 PM
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If you don't call it out, attitudes will not change. Stand up for yourselves, dammit. That's what women did. You can (and should) too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:53 PM
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This is exactly why you don't ask people out in the workplace. Don't eat where you shit. This used to be common knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:51 PM
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It was indeed sexual assault. Why not report it? Set an example; they'll learn to keep their hands to themselves. Touching strangers without consent is not acceptable. Period. End of story. This shit needs to stop, but if you guys aren't following through and putting your foot down, it won't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:50 PM
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How does procreating affect your life quality? Or are you (as the other commenter did) defining "procreation" as having sex rather than having kids? Where am I demonizing porn usage exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:41 PM
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I'm going to agree with this too. On OLD, the shirtless pics and gym selfies are :yawn:
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:33 PM
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Mark this day on the calendar! I'm agreeing with a Red Piller on something! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:31 PM
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It doesn't make you interesting at all, but it tells me that you care about your health (if you're taking it seriously), which is attractive to someone like me. Working out doesn't have to take more than 30-60 minutes a day. Hardly a huge time commitment. If a guy is just lifting to get laid and then gets lazy and stops once he "gets the girl"? Poser.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:30 PM
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As a woman I suppose my goals are slightly different. I don't find it boring at all. I enjoy challenging my body and feeling a little chuffed when I add another 10lbs to the bar or eek out one more pullup than before. I get a sense of accomplishment, not to mention being able to justify that second slice of pizza and not feel guilty about it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:25 PM
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The whole purpose of lifting weights is for functional strength which is good and being healthy and in shape which is also good lol who cares if it’s more interesting. All that matters is if it’s good for you and you enjoy it then do it. Yup. My top 3 reasons for lifting are: Bone density, functional fitness/strength, and stress relief. If I happen to get toned AF, I'm not really complaining, yannow?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:17 PM
1

Oh, this I gotta hear! Can you elaborate, please? <insert Willy Wonka meme>
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:07 PM
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Gen x always has the best stories cause we grew up with no supervision And thank $deity cell phones with cameras weren't around then! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:05 PM
0

Women also love blaming men for everything Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:03 PM
1

Men with distasteful sexual interests, even if they're vanilla, are frequently considered to be, or likened to, the worst kind of criminals the law is equipped to punish - women are not, regardless of how perverted their tastes and proclivities are, and this is reflected in attitudes to sex toys too Examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:01 PM
1

I wish they hadn't gotten rid of coins, because I would've given you gold for this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:57 PM
1

A lot of people I socialize with hold clearances (including myself). Not jeopardizing my career for that shit. Can't even risk being in the presence of illegal drugs or fraternize with people who do and certainly not date anyone with a shady background. Nope. Not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:46 PM
2

Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:15 PM
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I’m listening and I hear you. If the spirit moves you, feel free to DM me if you want to chat about some suggestions. My Google-fu is pretty strong. I’d love to help if you’d like, but I don’t want to clutter up this thread with that conversation. I’m off to the gym right now, but I should be back in 90 minutes or so. Not being in a somewhat metropolitan area can pose difficulties with regards to finding opportunities to socialize, I get that. Because of my job, I have to be within a reasonable …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:25 PM
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So what's the prescription, doc? Where am I supposed to find people who believe as you do that I should be a relevant presence in their lives, even if they have more important things to be worrying about? I don't know where you live, your background, or your hobbies, but I can assure you that other adults are able to form new friendships in their 20s, 30s, and beyond. Whenever I've moved to a new city, meetup.com has been a good resource for me. My two best friends are both married, both work, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:06 PM
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No, the question was "Why do you think women are the main welfare beneficiaries?" I'm not talking about the statistics. I'm asking about what you think the root cause is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:43 PM
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Dommy mommy? LOL You're an ... odd fella. I'm not looking to prohibit it, I simply choose not to be in relationships with men who feel the need to prove via outward expressions that they're some kind of macho manly man. I prefer a man who doesn't need to engage in posturing to prove something. If that's the kind of woman you want to attract? By all means.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:41 PM
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That's where a lot of guys feel they are, especially those of us who used to have friends but they all moved on with partners to build families. I would posit that friends who abandon you once they've partnered up and have kids aren't very good friends. you need to procreate, you're not achieving basic biological imperatives You don't really need to procreate. Childfree people don't shrivel up and die once they are not biologically capable of having kids anymore. This mindset causes many people …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:26 PM
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What does government support have to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:02 PM
2

Hmm why do you think that is? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:01 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to write all this out, so I didn’t have to. Lol I agree 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:38 PM
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playing contact sports like football (gridiron or rugby), riding a motorcycle, even drinking or social drug use was complained about on a recent post. Anything that would make them the slightest bit more interesting Those things do not make a man "interesting". Why would women want any kind of man that is so risk averse and afraid of the fact that they might get hurt? Example: A motorcycle is an immediate NOPE for me. If you've spent any time in a trauma ER and see patients being wheeled in afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:11 PM
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Getting some low-key creepy vibes from this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:03 PM
3

Divorce rates are now even lower when looking at 2000’s couples. Curious, is that by percentage or numbers? Wondering if it coincides with the decline in marriages. (Of course, we're US-centric here, so those are the stats I'm looking at.)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:54 PM
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Concur. But I only have anecdotal evidence. The women I know who divorced took their time getting into another relationship (if at all). Working in a male-dominated field, I get to (over)hear all kinds of divorce stories from men. I was especially amused at one guy who cheated on his wife of 20+ years repeatedly while she stayed home and raised the kids. He was livid that he had to split the marital assets 50/50 and pay her alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:44 PM
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Sorry, I’ll go get another cup of coffee 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:35 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:24 PM
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What is a natural response? Too loose in their opinions? Women just discard option? What options? I’m really struggling to understand what you’re trying to convey here. What does horniness have to do with it? I have so many questions! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:14 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:11 PM
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Dude. You’re not making any sense. What are you going on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:08 PM
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It’s not that simple when it comes to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:08 PM
1

Wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:06 PM
1

*YOU’RE WHAT’S YOUR POINT? 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:05 PM
3

Stop beating around the bush about what???
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:58 PM
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Focusing on the negative is human nature. If I tell you 9 positive things about you and 1 negative thing, you’ll focus on the 1 negative thing. Psychology 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:55 PM
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Most people (men and women) have a type. I can’t imagine any situation where I would find him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:45 AM
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What women date men they’re not attracted to? The only ones I can think of are the golddiggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:39 AM
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It means that men don’t want to pay child support if they don’t want to be a father but the woman chooses not to terminate the pregnancy. His choice ended when he decided where to deposit his load. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:23 AM
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LOL I’m probably twice your age, so yes, I’ve been in the workforce for quite some time. Before 1978 women could get fired for getting pregnant. If you talk to some older Boomer women, they’ll tell you that when they got pregnant, it was simply expected and customary that you quit your job. I especially heard this from women who were teachers. Even now that it’s against the law to discriminate on the basis of pregnancy, I’ve seen women get demoted when they came back from maternity leave. It’s s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:41 AM
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I don’t see anyone getting “triggered” here. I just don’t understand where you’re coming from with this. It really seems to me that men put much more emphasis on inches than women. To me there are also three categories: 1) Um. Is it in? 2) Ouch, it hurts 3) Nice dick If you say you have a 5” dick, that only tells me that it will probably not fall into 1) or 2) (unless you have some massive girth going on). So whether a woman can gauge how many inches is kinda irrelevant IMO. One woman’s “average…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:08 AM
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You can’t read, obviously. I was asking about good companies for short term contacts so I can quit my micromanaging boss and give me a few months wiggle room to get the cert I need to land an even better job with even better pay. I could quit tomorrow, but I don’t want to use my savings if I don’t have to in the couple of months I need to finish studying for the cert. I mean, my only debt is my mortgage, but if I can make some income while I’m waiting? Why not? Also, it was a question in one spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:16 AM
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Stay mad, bro. I laugh all the way to the bank. I don’t hate my job, I don’t like the new manager. And I have enough skills to not have to put up with it. That’s freedom, baby! Sucks to be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:58 AM
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His source is #trustmebro
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:47 AM
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Just go over to the divorced men sub. Jaded to the nth. It’s not exclusive to any gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:42 AM
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Yeah, about those happiness scores? Single, childfree women are happier than married women. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202102/why-so-many-single-women-without-children-are-happy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:40 AM
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Just your run of the mill victim blaming. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:34 AM
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Men become bitter about women as they fail to experience women? ORLY? Have you looked at any of the divorce or men’s rights subs?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:32 AM
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https://letmegooglethat.com/?q=being+angry+all+the+time+takes+years+off+your+life Just facts, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:23 AM
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So, by your own logic, you don’t “deserve” a … what did you call it? Chaste good girl? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:17 AM
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Good luck out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:11 AM
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Quote from another user elsewhere: “Red heads are a preference. Height is a preference. Wealth is a preference. A preference is not a condition, they are not the same thing. You can compromise on a preference. Conditions are absolute. Anybody who says they "prefer" a low body count isn't going to fuck someone with 100 lovers under their belt because it's not a preference theyre peddeling — it is a condition. That condition comes from somewhere, there's source, there's a reason they won't comprom…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:51 AM
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“That’s all they ever knew.” Exactly. Perfect example of “ignorance is bliss”.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:37 AM
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Oh, ghod. The fucking beards! Can this trend die already? It’s like they stopped shaving during COVID and never went back to normal? Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:27 AM
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Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:25 AM
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Well then, if you’re dating life is “fine”, I really don’t understand why you give a rat’s ass about other people’s dating habits? What of it? If your dating life isn’t affected, why can’t you just go on your merry way? This is really bizarre. How does this supposed “anti-men sentiment” affect you personally? You know what? Let it bother you all you want. IDGAF. This is a you problem. Speaking of taking care of yourself, letting petty bullshit irk you so much is bad for your health. Hopefully yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:25 AM
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It’s easy! If you have sex right away, you’re a slut. If you wait, you’re a prude and the man goes and has sex with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:11 AM
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Most of the men who say that they want a woman with “low body count” will also say that if the women is willing to have sex on the first date, even if they’re the initiator/pressuring her for it, they immediate discount her as relationship material. Some even use it as a shit test. It’s stupid, if you ask me, but they’re out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:06 AM
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In the infamous words of George Michael: Sex is natural, sex is fun. (As long as it’s safe, sane, and consensual.)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:00 AM
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Like men who care about “body counts”. The only man who ever seriously asked me that question turned out to be an insecure asshole. It’s a red flag to even ask if you’re past college age.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:49 AM
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Do pussies have an odometer somewhere? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:47 AM
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Correct on all counts. At least now we can get a credit card in our own name, not get fired just for getting pregnant (although I’m sure they find a way if they can), serve on a jury, have a legal standing wrt marital rape, have access to the birth control pill and be able have some control over pregnancy. Ah, yes, the “good old days”! The types that want us to go back in time a mere 60 years ago when they had all of the control over women. That’s what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:34 AM
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Bro, why do you care? How is how other people handle their relationships your business? Speaking of reflection, I doubt the reason you’re not getting dates is because “women are sooo cynical”. Maybe it’s your attitude that’s off putting. HTH
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:22 AM
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Not all, but most IME. I don't have exact numbers, but from the last time I was on Tinder or Bumble, the ratio of men stating they were looking for a relationship vs. casual was about 1 in 10, and that's being generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:55 AM
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Thank you for the confirmation. I was reaching that conclusion in the last hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:32 AM
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Ah, so you're only talking about the execution, not the desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:30 AM
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Seriously. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:20 AM
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Because it's true for me? I don't know what to tell ya, there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:18 AM
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Then they are welcome to have the relationship they deserve. It's a shame, but their life is not mine to live. I prefer something with substance. :shrug:
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:17 AM
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Which is such a healthy relationship dynamic. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:08 AM
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A lot of men feel weirdly emasculated if the woman makes more than he does. I ordered a second AMEX card on my account for one live in boyfriend because it made him feel better that it appeared he was picking up the check at the restaurant. Even though I was paying for everything. Some kind of ego thing. Believe me, he had absolutely no problem spending my money as long as it looked like he was the one paying for it. LOL at the downvotes 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:03 AM
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For most men this is not a consideration bc even when women have money they often will not spend it on men outside of a few gifts here and there. What point are you trying to make here?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:01 AM
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Not true. IDGAF what a man makes as long as he has his shit together and lives within his means. I'd care more about his credit score. Now, finding a man who doesn't care that I make 4x what he does ... that's another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:59 AM
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Yes, definitely look into it. Only found out about this in the last year or so and it makes a lot of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:57 AM
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whether she had any qualities (physical, emotional) that she could improve I mean, sure she could, but that's up to her. You can't dictate that to her. Personally, I finally found the right therapist who made me realize what my "bad choices" in the past were rooted in. As far as physical? I want a partner to like me as I am. Recently one guy on a first date told me that my arms are already defined enough and I should stop lifting weights because he thinks it would eventually look "too manly" in …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:49 AM
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Because attractiveness is highly subjective. One person's yuck is another person's yum. Rating people with an arbitrary number is silly. Apparently some women swoon over this Tom Hiddleston guy (had to google him). He does nothing for me personally. I don't get it. But to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:31 AM
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Maybe (just maybe) some attractive women want to be in a relationship with a man who sees her as more than just a pretty face. Just spitballin' here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:25 AM
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Shhhh ... don't tell them that. They won't believe you. It goes against the "women only date men in the top 10%, 5%, or 1%" or whatever the number du jour is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:23 AM
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So yeah, you see people who repeat the same mistakes ... not until they accept responsibility will that stop for some. People don't always realize why they're repeating the same mistakes. Some of it can be rooted in how they were raised or childhood trauma and not being able to make the connection. It took me finding the right therapist to point out the "why". Now that I know and am aware, it makes perfect sense and I certainly won't make the same mistakes again. Knowledge is power.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:17 AM
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Women loooove to cancel men while it seems that women can do no wrong. Who's canceling what?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:14 AM
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What if the variable was the town where she lives? Heck, what if she was the common denominator? Who pissed in your cornflakes this morning? LOL Maybe it's a location thing, maybe it's her. Can't really make a call on that; not enough info and I don't live her life. You are arguing her experience. She didn't say all men in their 30s are jaded. That's what you said: "the lesson she learned was that "literally" (🙄) all men in their 30s are jaded" Where did she say that? She said that all the men i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:03 AM
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That was her experience. She learned it didn't necessarily work for her. Always love it when men try to argue our own lived experiences. What is it exactly that you are suggesting she should have done? Be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:41 PM
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I mean, I can google that, but I don't get out a measuring tape as soon as the guy drops trou. Don't know about you, but when I'm in the throes, I'm not thinking about how many inches he is. I can kinda guesstimate whether I'm going to reach for the regular size condom or the large size, that's all I really care about in that moment. LOL I can tell by feel or looking whether it's going to be too big. And I can definitely tell you afterward how it fit inside of me and/or my mouth. I can also tell…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:38 PM
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But women should LoWeR ThEiR StAnDaRdS!!! (Every dating sub on Reddit every damn day.)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:26 PM
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Originally you said: How would a virgin know what's small, average and big for penis size? I don't see why it would matter. If it feels good and you like the life support system attached to said dick, the woman isn't going to care what "category" it falls in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:25 PM
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It's gone way downhill the last two years or so. Bumble is just Tinder where the women have to message first. :shrug:
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:19 PM
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I went on a coffee date with a guy once and he walked me out to my car afterwards. What a gentleman! Right? Wrong. He did that in order to take down my license plate number. When I politely turned down a 2nd date, he tracked down my address and stalked me. Fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:58 PM
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if they insult you after you reject them, wouldn't you consider that a bullet dodged? /r/whenwomenrefuse Definitely! If only it was just insults. We have to be super careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:56 PM
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Not at all. Her aunt suggested it to her (dating men in their 30s when she was in her 20s) and she tried it for 6 months. Didn't work for her, so she stopped doing it and moved on. She learned from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:54 PM
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Wow. That's some Olympic level mental gymnastics! Condoning misandry? Wut? You learn at least one thing from every relationship; good or bad. You learn what you will and won't put up with. You learn to detect the red flags earlier. You learn to enforce your boundaries. Honestly, I've never met a woman who "hates men". They might be wary or cautious based on past experiences, but that doesn't translate to hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:46 PM
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Because they can be very charming when they're trying to woo you, then once you're in the trap, their tune changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:40 PM
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That's how she got her experience. It's trial and error sometimes. Then you learn and get smarter about relationships. It really is that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:39 PM
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Yes, I'm agreeing with you. The comment is directed at the people ITT who say that women are having more casual sex than men. I'll fix it. Better? I don't see what was mocking about it, but it wasn't directed towards you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:27 PM
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I realize it's hard for a lot of people to wrap their brains around how someone can have romantic feelings for more than one person at a time and the concept of compersion. Personally, I label myself poly-capable although the majority of my relationships have been mono. Just because I'm poly doesn't mean I have to have more than one partner. I just happen to not get jealous if he sees someone else. It doesn't take anything away from me and I can be genuinely happy for other people's happiness. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:19 PM
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Typical "damned if you do, damned if you don't".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:02 PM
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All you are doing is describing the arms race between men wanting casual sex and women wanting commitment. According to some ITT it's women who have more casual sex than men??? LOL WUT? Truly mind boggling. The people claiming that should spend a day on Tinder as a woman and see how many guys want a real relationship vs. casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:01 PM
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Um. Source? The dating apps would beg to differ. My experience is vastly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:54 PM
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What accountability are they shirking, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:47 PM
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Exactly. We're different. Some women are size queens. Some love average dick. So you're whole "how would a virgin know what's small, average, and big" thing?. It doesn't matter as long as it feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:38 PM
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I would be hyper-aware of it because one of my ex-boyfriends used to love to "tease" me. He thought it was sooo funny. "Aw, I'm just having some fun!" I don't think "teasing" is funny and I call it out whenever I see or hear it. Oh, you have a fear of knives being held to your throat? Let me sneak up behind you while you're doing the dishes and hold a butter knife to your throat. So funny! Why are you upset? It was just a butter knife! I wasn't going to hurt you! You don't like being startled? L…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:32 PM
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Those are shit women plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:48 PM
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The women who "neg" are just as bad as the men who do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:36 PM
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How would a virgin know what's small, average and big for penis size? We have nerve endings at the entrance of our vagina and hitting the cervix is painful for most women. We'll know once it's in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:34 PM
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Men who sleep around are a small demography of men Have you heard of Tinder? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:19 PM
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He calls it being cynical. I call it being a lot more picky based on past experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:17 PM
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Whores Gold diggers suck!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:12 PM
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Wait, are you saying there are more women having casual sex than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:09 PM
2

Don't trust a skinny chef. Yeah, but have you seen the Voltaggio brothers? :P
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:04 PM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:54 PM
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Or DVs you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:54 PM
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It's almost like people with more experience with something are more knowledgeable?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:53 PM
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We just realized that we had married for the wrong reason. We were ships in the night. Roommates with rings. I had a 9-5(ish) job and he was a gamer who stayed up until 5am and sometimes played 15 hours straight on the weekends. (He was NOT a slacker, though!) We had different priorities and yeah, the sex went away because the window of opportunity when we were both awake and at home together was so small. I'm HL, so it was super frustrating for me. We (unintentionally) made the judge very suspi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:44 PM
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By their tactics, I mean: negging, escalating touching too soon, overly charming, flirting with others to try and make you jealous, etc. It sets off alarm bells. Especially the overly charming and negging. It's one of the reasons I don't date men in sales/marketing anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:24 PM
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Unfortunately it's still pretty prevalent. Only once did I hear another guy admonishing the man who cat called me. "Hey, dude. That's not cool." Wish more men had the balls to do this. NYC is one of the worst and I think you'd call that area pretty liberal. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:17 PM
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Yeah, I wouldn't believe half of their "stories".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:32 PM
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They absolutely can. I'm still best friends with my ex-husband. We divorced 15 years ago (to be fair, we shouldn't have married in the first place, but we caved to peer pressure because we had lived together for 6 years), but we are each other's first phone call when we need to hash something out. I can't stand talking on the phone with anybody for more than 30 minutes, but we can chat for hours. We understand each other at a very deep level which makes it easy to talk. There is absolutely nothi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:23 PM
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There's a certain type of woman that falls for that crap. Most of us have wised up to these "tactics".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:15 PM
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Crazy, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:13 PM
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Do you think women's first impressions are more accurate, or even infallible? The amount of women who are abused by their partners is clear evidence of that not being the case. That being said, I don't think this is a men vs. women thing. I'll get back on topic though and say that there has been more than once when I met a guy and didn't feel instant attraction (a.k.a. tingling in my lady parts), but it evolved over time. More interactions and getting to know each other better. Then again, I ske…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:12 PM
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I would argue that if your sample size is limited to women who are fucking you, there's going to be some obvious bias there. If you'd ask the question of the same amount of women who wouldn't fuck you, then that would be valid research. Women and men love the way you make them feel. Not just when fucking, but in everyday interactions. It's universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:00 PM
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I've been raped 3 times, but I do enjoy "free use" with a partner that I trust implicitly. He's not "those guys" and I'm able to separate those feelings. But I totally understand and respect that you feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:47 PM
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Wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:42 PM
2

Believe it or not, women do not view every man they encounter as a potential partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:40 PM
0

Anxious attachment style vs. avoidant attachment style.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:18 PM
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I love the "women are slaves to their immediate emotions" statement, as if men weren't controlled by their "little head" so very often. There's a reason the term "post nut clarity" exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:16 PM
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when I see people masse running around getting fucked unlubed and raw from consequences of their poor actions and feelings, to the point where its clearly affecting society and my life, I start getting a little irked. How is it affecting your life? Curious. I've found my life to be much more peaceful when I stopped micro-judgments of other people. Basically "live and let live". When you let yourself get "irked" by others, you're wasting your energy. Some examples: My step-brother lives 20 minute…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:11 PM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:47 PM
2

Like I said: Whatever floats your boat. Think what you will. :shrug: I've talked to a LOT of men who masturbate daily and then some.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:30 PM
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All you have to do is type "how often do you masturbate" in the search bar (all of Reddit) and you'll see plenty of men and women who do it daily, if not multiple times a day. But whatever floats your boat, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:21 PM
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Whatever floats your boat, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:15 PM
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I've fantasized about pegging my ex who raped me with the biggest Bad Dragon dildo and no lube. Doesn't mean I would actually do it if given the chance. Fantasies involve things and scenarios that are unlikely to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:13 PM
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So, so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:17 PM
5

Can confirm. No risk of pregnancy certainly raised my libido!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:16 PM
1

Sounds like you're a great candidate for Passport Bros. I'm sure you'll have better luck there. HTH
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:11 PM
1

Post "forever alone" comments on Reddit, apparently? If ever I've seen someone who needs to go "touch grass", this guy would be the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:08 PM
4

There's definitely some truth to this. We call it "Dick-matized".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:57 PM
1

Right. Just hie thee over to deadbedrooms , hl_women_only, hlcommunity, etc. Plenty of women (and men) with high libido want to stay in their relationship and make it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:46 PM
1

I'd say my libido is pretty normal, but I've met women that needed to masturbate daily. "Normal" is relative. Just because you don't masturbate daily doesn't mean it's not normal to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:42 PM
5

Why does there have to be something "wrong" with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:16 PM
1

You only have sex with men that have qualities you want in a potential relationship, that’s why. Negative Ghostrider! I certainly don't want LTRs with men half my age, but getting some D that can get hard a few times a night without popping a blue pill is nice sometimes!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:49 PM
1

LOL WUT? Some men can be fun for an hour or two, but there’s no sleepovers or cuddling. “Thanks for the orgasm(s), there’s the door.” 😆 If they were really good, maybe they’ll get a callback.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:42 PM
1

You know, the Chads and Tyrones. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:37 PM
1

Relationships are prostitution Until you get rid of this nonsense belief, you’ll never have a real relationship with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:36 PM
1

You do also know that fantasy does not necessarily mean one wants to realize it, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:25 PM
1

There are a fair amount of women into CNC (Consensual Non-Consent) and/or “free use”. But the premise of those kinks is that it’s with someone you trust and will respect your boundaries and safe word. Key word is “consensual” That’s what this guy doesn’t get.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:24 PM
1

CNC with a partner you trust is not rape. It’s a kink. A woman who fantasizes about being violently raped by some stranger behind a dumpster is exceedingly rare, IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:19 PM
2

Some men see women as a Real Doll™ with a pulse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:09 PM
3

Yeah, very strong case of “belief perseverance”, which is a subset of confirmation bias. He only hears what he wants to hear. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:00 PM
2

I always offer to split the bill. Always. If he insists on paying, I’ll pay next time (if there is a next time).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:53 PM
2

Beg to differ. There’s a whole sub dedicated to HL women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:45 PM
0

I just splorted my coffee! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:29 PM
1

My money is on the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:19 PM
5

Well, OP has said that women are only a “wet hole” to him, so I think that’s a textbook case of objectification.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:17 PM
0

When you call women “nothing but a warm, wet hole”, you shouldn’t be surprised women don’t want to even have coffee with you. Your attitude radiates through the screen. I can’t imagine how much worse you are in person. Until you see women as human beings and companions and not just Real Dolls™ with a pulse, you’re never find a woman who will want to be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:32 AM
3

Why can't it be both?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:50 AM
3

I agree. Women don't want to be seen as bang maids and/or baby incubators and men don't want to be just sperm donors and walking wallets.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:47 AM
1

Why the fuck should I care about the “cultural level”? It doesn’t pay my bills. The 3 F rule: Unless you’re financing me, feeding me, or fvcking me, you have no impact on my life. (That’s not what it means, numbnut. I’m not expecting anybody to provide for me. I make my own money. Thank you very much. It means that unless you are doing one of those things, your opinion doesn’t affect my life.)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:45 AM
0

JFC. You really are a judgmental twat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:33 AM
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