zephyrwastaken Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Is dating younger college girls worth it ? If you're looking for a mature adult relationship then I'd say the odds are not really in your favor. If you're looking to get laid and do stuff then it's a great demographic to filter through.	/r/seduction	17/08/25 11:15 PM
2	Girl at the pool Smile and say what's up. Ask her name. Ask her about herself a little. Shit you wanna know. Age, what she does for fun, if she lives in the area. Whatever's natural and light. Keep it pretty brief unless she's just fully absorbed. Idc what people say, you don't need to arbitrarily cut it short if you're both having fun talking. If vibes stay high just tell her "we should hang out some time". Maybe ask if she wants to go for a walk on a day you're both off, or grab a coffee or if she knows any go…	/r/seduction	15/08/25 08:24 AM
4	Has directly asking women you have known for a while to fuck actually work? Horrible strategy. Even the most open minded hyper sexual women would be extremely caught off guard by this. The risk to reward is so atrociously off balance, this is an insane thought process to have. Best case scenario they politely decline, worst case youre in a sexual misconduct case.	/r/seduction	09/08/25 12:27 PM
1	How to know if the girl you're texting not into you or just playing hard to get or do not wanna be perceived as despo? At a certain point in a man's life he's gotta ask himself if playing inauthentic games and settling for less than he wants is the standard he accepts for himself. That's just advice from one stranger to another. If you still need an answer to your question beyond that, trust your intuition. If she's never messaging you first it's a pretty distinct indicator that you're not an object of excitement to her.	/r/seduction	04/08/25 10:44 PM
1	Women will try to get you to qualify yourself to them, your job is to play by your own rules, not hers. Your comments really just a redundant blow. It's kinda obvious it's a desperate cry for help from a man who hates his situation and feels hopeless. Not saying he deserves pity but sinking the nail deeper doesn't help either. Some pragmatic advice whether it's stating the obvious or not just seems like the better way to waste time responding.	/r/seduction	25/06/25 04:51 PM
1	Women will try to get you to qualify yourself to them, your job is to play by your own rules, not hers. The reality is dude, you've created that life. And if you want better from a woman or yourself you have to do something about it. If you can't or wont - whatever. But it is what it is. Now on the other side of that coin, you also gotta remember - there's women out there who don't have their shit together. Is it gonna be an Instagram model in a BMW with her own mortgage? Obviously not but somewhere there's a female version of you. If you can't find yourself attracted to her and willing to accept …	/r/seduction	25/06/25 04:47 PM
2	Don't take steroids as a quick fix. Today I learned that steroids suppress sex drive. /sarcasm With all due respect this post is fear mongering. To each their own, and mileage may vary. But the reality is most men will do nothing but benefit from supplementing their testosterone levels. Do most men need to? Should most men? Not really the topic here. But point blank it will help most men in most aspects of their life. Not a doctor.	/r/seduction	28/05/25 03:48 PM
7	You’re Not Bad at Flirting - You’re Just Learning It the Wrong Way The biggest lightbulb moment I ever had about flirting was "either this chicks gonna be into me or not". Like I could drop some crazy unheard of line or I could literally just say hey what's going on, and either that chicks gonna have anything from a mild curiousity to her heart skipping a beat and I can't change that with a few words. Obviously some wit and charm and humor and originality helps along the way, but girls are humans too. Some want to find a guy, and some want that guy to be you, l…	/r/seduction	04/05/25 01:38 PM
1	What percentage of guys have actually picked up a girl in a bar at night and close the deal at the same night? I have done it many times in my youth. I have failed probably 10x more often than I succeeded. The old saying is true, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take - Michael something.	/r/seduction	21/02/25 02:00 PM
12	Most of the female attention you get happens when you are talking to people. Or because you're speaking and they are listening / paying attention politely lol. That is just human nature not some epiphany exclusive to male/female connection	/r/seduction	02/04/23 06:18 PM
2	Becoming more physically attractive has made me realize I’m def gonna be single forever Everytime you sit there and wallow and debate, ask yourself where you want to be in 5 years. Miserably bitter and alone, or balls deep (pun intended) in a new friendship / relationship with highs and lows, laughs and memories. Everytime you get nervous about making an attempt at that its really just a fork in the road. You either say "hey want to catch a movie" or you perpetuate your loneliness and contempt. Prove yourself wrong, be brave, be the hero of your own story.	/r/seduction	21/03/21 07:50 AM
13	I approached a girl today The good part is you can redo it. Next time you see someone, you know the first step, just commit to the second one. Eventually you'll end up with a number.	/r/seduction	13/03/21 06:32 AM