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| 1 | Is it still plausible to pick up women in my current living condition?I used to have a similar fear at university, what would girls say if I brought them back to my dilapidated dorm room with my bed on risers? Eventually I figured out that if they're going back with you, they've already committed, and it'll take something much more significant to get them to change their mind. If you make a big deal about it they might see it as a big deal, but if you own it they won't think twice about your living arrangements. | /r/seduction | 30/11/14 06:51 AM |
| 35 | How to talk to girls that you've known for years that you've never talked to?I had to get over this fear too. No one is going to bring up how awkward or stupid you were in high school, and if they do: A) They are trying to belittle you, or B) They are saying how much you've changed since then. If A, I'd personally throw a sarcastic yet nonchalant "I see you haven't grown up since high school; it must be nice to be perpetually 16" to assert your control over the situation, simultaneously showing that you are capable of a somewhat witty comeback and that their sophomoric a… | /r/seduction | 25/07/14 05:16 PM |
| 4 | Is there an appropriate response from being told "You're too young"?I've used something similar on (F-25), I'm a University student (M-20). She was really impressed with my confidence, which is what won her over in the end. Just play the age thing off like it's not a big deal, and she'll eventually come to think the same way. | /r/seduction | 07/12/13 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Is it creepy to go to the city just to approach women?Only if you do it poorly. Really though, if you do it right there's really nothing wrong with this. it's just talking to people. Of course New Yorkers don't always like to be spoken to, so choose carefully. | /r/seduction | 28/06/13 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Simple - How do you deal with groups in which there is another single guy (as a guy)Play it civil is definitely the best idea. One-upping can only get so discreet, and that and looking competitive (desperate) are two very easy ways to cause women to lose interest. It makes it look like you're threatened, and week. Do. Not. Be. Threatened. I find myself using any other men in the group to boost myself up. All guys try to make girls like them, but if you try to make the guys in the group like you too, you're going to look a lot better to everyone in the group. I'm not saying go o… | /r/seduction | 05/06/13 04:44 AM |
| 2 | Females may be attracted towards promiscuous males because that would increase her sons' future breeding successes, a phenomenon known as the Sexy Son Hypothesis. (crosspost from TIL)How freudian..... | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 07:05 AM |
| 5 | What was your big breakthrough moment?I realized that I could sit around, look cool, drink a few, and only talk to the girls who seemed interested in me. This may or may not work out, such is life. Then I looked around and saw 40 other guys doing exactly as I did, and this got them nowhere either. By the irony of it, we were all the same by not trying at all. Now I try. It works. Get off your ass and impress someone by being yourself. | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 09:49 PM |
| 33 | Cold ApproachesStarting with a funny comment about your surroundings is usually a good way to do it too. Gives them a chance to comment as well without feeling forced. | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 06:59 AM |
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