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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
174	Complaining about the patriarchy is actually just complaining about the aristocracy & usually a sign of deep set mental illness resulting from indoctrination into a misandrist cult that is so common now that no one can see it is a cult (more inside)	discussion	zero-fool	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/04/21 12:40 PM
105	If women vote in a higher number in the west (as they have over & over again) how can we be in a patriarchy?	discussion	zero-fool	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/11/20 09:54 PM

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2	How to explain to a feminist that 'kill all men' is disgusting So what you’re saying is that OP’s friend is WORSE than DTJ? Ok	/r/MensRights	12/11/21 04:30 AM
10	Not a single mention of what the woman is scared of but of course it's a man. More over attempt to point that out and suddenly hostility comes from out of the wood works This is so clearly staged it’s not even funny anymore. A) No one is forcing her to be afraid except her. That’s her choice. B) Who tf is taking this photo? Gotta be someone based on the angle (or what she brought a tripod so she could take this photo with a timer? Fucking bullshit.) C) Can you imagine being so mentally unhinged that you would brandish a firearm in public to score some points on social media? This is some next level mental illness, I don’t even know where to begin with this shit.…	/r/MensRights	14/06/21 10:29 AM
1	The average woman is more attractive than the average man I don’t think you’re being honest with yourself about the women’s interest in your life. I think you don’t want to believe what is a well verified fact because it triggers cognitive dissonance in you. & even if it somehow magically was true that the women in your life weren’t that way that anecdotal evidence doesn’t do anything to dismiss the well studied fact that women use social status (including earning potential) to evaluate potential mates. Maybe you female friends & family saw you as bein…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 11:42 PM
0	People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes. Yeah. Being entitled, uncompromising, deluded, & nitpicky is really helping people. People are allowed to do whatever they want. That doesn’t make it good for them & it certainly doesn’t make it good for society. It also is a sign of a narcissistic personality but that’s not a subject I’m willing to touch here. TLDR: good luck with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 11:00 PM
2	The average woman is more attractive than the average man Your female friends have never asked about his job or “so what’s he do”? You’re right, I don’t believe this. It’s literally the first question most people in America ask when they meet someone new, to such an absurd degree that it is the topic of standup jokes. Is it because you’re introducing him with his career or profession already announced? “Oh this is Jim, he’s a dentist. Gross, right??” Perhaps you are the exception to the rule but if you know anything about how we as humans study trends …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 08:24 PM
1	The average woman is more attractive than the average man No. YOU weren’t talking about displays of wealth because YOU are uneducated about how cars are displays of wealth. However we absolutely are talking about displays of wealth because cars are one of the biggest ways that people use to display their wealth. Just because you are uneducated on that fact doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. As to your ad hominem attack where you assert that I care about this because I “don’t make the cut financially” all I can do is laugh & laugh. You’re embarrassing yours…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 03:49 AM
1	The average woman is more attractive than the average man I don’t think you’re educated enough to continue to have this conversation. You should really think more deeply about what displays of wealth mean, why women use them as ways to discern things like “six figure income minimums for their interest.” Yes, I obviously understand that you may be able to be pleased with your choice of mate that has a high salary & a cheap car but you are ignoring that owning an expensive car is a way to display that one is capable of affording said car & is likely to h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 03:04 AM
1	The average woman is more attractive than the average man Ehhh you’ve got a lot of misinformation here. No human groups can be thought of as purely patriarchal or matriarchal because of the need for the opposite sex to at least in some form consent to being governed. What we find in the situations where one gender appears more powerful is that there is often a quiet power being exercised behind the scenes through social manipulation. An example of this might be that only men are allowed to vote however when the men are in private at home they are subje…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 02:56 AM
1	The average woman is more attractive than the average man You don’t see that cars are a measure of wealth & that women use that measure to judge a man’s wealth? How fascinating. You really don’t see the connection despite literally spelling it out yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 02:41 AM
3	The average woman is more attractive than the average man Which is the exception that proves the rule. There isn’t a term for this with men because it is always present. It is intrinsic to what men have to offer. There is no need to call men trophies or to call out being treated as way to gauge value because it is literally the de facto. Think about this the next time two women are discussing some new man one is interested. Listen to the questions asked about him. Note how his value will be picked apart as it relates to being able to elevate her social…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 02:37 AM
1	Why aren't gender diversity quotas by companies sexist? This is a correlation not a causation. It could also be said that if more women spent more time playing video games then they would have less issue using VR headsets & getting disoriented. & that also might not be the cause. It’s just another correlation based on assumption. Or to put it another way: it’s likely that women who worked as computer programmers would also have whatever cognitive training allowed the other programmers (the men) to not suffer this ill effect & so hiring more women doe…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/06/21 02:19 AM
2	Apparently EXplaining is now MANsplaining if you have a penis! Man speaking when not spoken to now equals mansplaining & is tantamount to assault. Haven’t you heard?	/r/MensRights	30/05/21 11:09 PM
6	Question to you folks: How young were you when you were told it's always ladies' first or that you had to put your needs below a women's for being male? What’s funny about this is that I think it is good to instill in people politeness & the idea that there’s always room in life to go a bit slower & show other people kindness & respect. That said the fact that it is gendered (women & children to th life boats first!) is obviously complicated. It makes sense from an evolutionary psychology perspective, in the sense that men ARE more expendable in a tribal setting since conceivably one male is enough to reasonable repopulate no matter how many fem…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/05/21 05:14 AM
1	Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones. Reading social cues & body language is literally expecting someone to read your mind because you refuse to clearly communicate VERBALLY.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 10:00 PM
1	Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones. u/DREADC0RSAIR: "Mind reading is literally what you expect out of men. Women need to develop communication for what they like and consent to.." You: "What I said is that OP is conflating that a woman expecting anything at any time is the same as a woman wanting him to mind read." You really REALLY need to work on yourself. I am not interested in any of your other baits, you've introduced time & again a bunch of things from YOUR experience into a conversation regarding consent / communication. Wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 09:58 PM
1	Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones. Again: you responded to a post where someone pointed out women expect men to read their minds. In that response YOU said they do not. I pointed out that you are wrong. Then YOU conflated mind reading with minimum standard. Everything else is just straight up baiting. You know exactly what you’re doing deep down. You ARE painting men with a broad brush inserting your own projected pain from your past into a discussion that is about something else. Get help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 09:40 PM
1	Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones. Ahh, yes, a woman who publicly describes themselves as a queen in a space reserved largely for discussing male issues asserting that a) men's experiences are wrong, b) that her experience is correct, while c) ignoring her own documented conflating of two things that are not connected so she can advance her misandry. God, what is it like lacking in the ability to see the way you act? It must be really hard. No one here – except you – is talking about "basic things." WE, as in everyone else here, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 09:14 PM
0	Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones. You might want to reread this thread. u/DREADC0RSAIR said: Women literally expect men to read their minds. Then you stated that they do not. I then disagreed with you because they literally do. Then YOU – not me – equivocated that there was some connection between the bare minimum standard & your previous comments which again just to reiterate are connect reading women's minds with the minimum standard. Like, I have no interest in discussing with you your idea or your history with the bare minim…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 08:54 PM
1	Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones. I know an ass ton of women who I have experienced literally expecting me to read their mind. They expect you to interpret body language. They expect you understand the difference between a text ends in a period & one that doesn’t. They expect to able to hint at things they want & for you to pick up on it. If your idea of minimal standards is expecting mind reading then well, that says a lot about you. The fact that you call mind reading “perfection” in the same breath says even more about your s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 07:39 PM
3	Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones. The same preoccupation doesn’t exist because our culture is currently obsessed with tales of males abusing women. That is the origin of the preoccupation. That is why we talk about it so much. If that wasn’t there the discussion would die down. It’s not actively a choice to burden women with scrutiny coming from men, it’s that women actively chose to foist this discussion into the mainstream front & center so now people are forced to go through analyzing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 07:25 PM
2	Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones. Yeah, no, women definitely do. Maybe YOU don’t but LOTS of women do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 07:22 PM
1	Q4all: Do men have a moral obligation to physically protect women in dangerous situations? Many societies have a Good Samaritan law that insists that failure to act when given the chance (for example failing to provide medical aid to a customer in an emergency in your place of business) & generally speaking this has social value. It’s worth noting that this is rarely enforced (if ever) & exists more broadly for civil lawsuits where someone was harmed by said negligence. I realize that doesn’t answer your question directly but perhaps it should. Whatever your argument’s intention is he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/21 02:02 PM
11	A quick look at the dictionary definition of radical feminism: "the belief that society functions as a patriarchy in which men oppress women" The issue is class, not race or gender (though there are issues within those areas they are just far smaller in their overall effect). This is especially apparent if you zoom out of the American mindset & get a broader understanding of the world, its history, etc. The entire concept of race / civil rights being focused on the struggle of descendants of African American slaves is based on the myopia of Americans & is the underlying core of the bulwark used to prevent analysis of class oppression.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/05/21 01:57 PM
1	CMV: The woke crowd is doing little to nothing to address the legitimate grievances of men. They can't expect acceptance and support in return. The idea that there must be “something in it for you” to support someone else is both ironically & unironically why we are in this mess. Everyone needs to get a LOT more sympathetic & empathic instead of operating from their entitled child mind. Anyway not you asked but the problems most people face are largely due to class not to gender. Looking at those you mentioned for example incarceration is an issue for poor / lower class men, not upper or even middle class. Use this frame & you’ll start …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/21 11:22 AM
2	Complaining about the patriarchy is actually just complaining about the aristocracy & usually a sign of deep set mental illness resulting from indoctrination into a misandrist cult that is so common now that no one can see it is a cult (more inside) What’s interesting to me about the idea of patriarchy is the sort of willful ignorance at its core. Like, being forced to work, forced to go to war ... who thinks these are something to strive for? How can you not see that is just insanity? Men don’t occupy the better place in society for having to be the ones who till the land or die on the battlefield. I guess you could argue that factory work is better than that but if you look historically it’s worth noting that factory work especially at th…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/04/21 12:36 PM
2	Complaining about the patriarchy is actually just complaining about the aristocracy & usually a sign of deep set mental illness resulting from indoctrination into a misandrist cult that is so common now that no one can see it is a cult (more inside) I agree with your breakdown of formal & informal power. I might shift those terms in my own description but the laylines themselves there are good. Thanks for the input. I do want to take issue with a subtle insinuation you make that women don’t contribute however. I actually think (presuming here you’re referring to parenting / housework to some degree) that parenting is one of the most important & vital tasks that a society produces & that we should organize society such that we can ensure tha…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/04/21 12:21 PM
2	Complaining about the patriarchy is actually just complaining about the aristocracy & usually a sign of deep set mental illness resulting from indoctrination into a misandrist cult that is so common now that no one can see it is a cult (more inside) It’s definitely not from a 50s america view but I do understand the point you’re making. I can look at my own life & growing up in the 80s I knew many people who had a stay at home parent. They weren’t wealthy or even remotely close to upper middle class (I grew up in an area of California with a lot of navy families). That was probably as much of a choice of lifestyle then as it would be today but it is interesting to me that even in just forty years the lower / middle classes have significantl…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/04/21 12:11 PM
1	Complaining about the patriarchy is actually just complaining about the aristocracy & usually a sign of deep set mental illness resulting from indoctrination into a misandrist cult that is so common now that no one can see it is a cult (more inside) Ah yes, the tried & true as hominem attack. Police my tone. Police my language. Don’t engage with my points, don’t make an argument. Yes, you have learned much from the double speak engine. Call it a conspiracy if you want, I don’t like that term. Go read 1984 again & get back to me when you see where Orwell was in his day & how we have come to today. Also I’m not just unhappy with MY life, I’m unhappy with how people are being used to further the agenda of the few for their own gain. I’m frustr…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/04/21 11:54 AM
2	Complaining about the patriarchy is actually just complaining about the aristocracy & usually a sign of deep set mental illness resulting from indoctrination into a misandrist cult that is so common now that no one can see it is a cult (more inside) The choice to become stuck in the hut is a choice of social isolation brought on by factors unrelated to patriarchy as a concept. Children, with perhaps the exception of recent generations brought up on screen, have very little interest in being alone in a home when they have the option to go outside be with other children. Imagine if parents (Note I am referring to both parents, not mothers) spent time with their children in parks instead of locked inside their homes. I’m talking LOTS of time, …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/04/21 11:46 AM
1	Complaining about the patriarchy is actually just complaining about the aristocracy & usually a sign of deep set mental illness resulting from indoctrination into a misandrist cult that is so common now that no one can see it is a cult (more inside) All of this is based on propaganda. All of this is trying to advance the idea that two parents working is better for the child & if you read it again with a specific eye noting this you’ll see it. All of their points basically amount to “psychologically well parents lead to better outcomes” then they falsely correlate that having a successful career is what leads to psychological wellness. They even go so far as to say that IF mothers make time for their wellness then they will be good mothers, …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/04/21 04:09 PM
5	Complaining about the patriarchy is actually just complaining about the aristocracy & usually a sign of deep set mental illness resulting from indoctrination into a misandrist cult that is so common now that no one can see it is a cult (more inside) It’s worth noting that in addition to what you mention the whole concept of class inherently benefits women because women are (historically & contemporaneously) socialized to control politeness, social norms, & other measures that can exclude men from the higher classes. Radfem itself is a mechanism for this, & so is idpol in general. It is a system that exists to ensure that if you do not fit into the system you will be punished. Look at it another way, through the cult lens. Women who buy into…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/04/21 03:58 PM
1	Complaining about the patriarchy is actually just complaining about the aristocracy & usually a sign of deep set mental illness resulting from indoctrination into a misandrist cult that is so common now that no one can see it is a cult (more inside) Can you dm me a pdf or something? I’d love to check it out.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/04/21 03:41 PM
2	Complaining about the patriarchy is actually just complaining about the aristocracy & usually a sign of deep set mental illness resulting from indoctrination into a misandrist cult that is so common now that no one can see it is a cult (more inside) You’re so close to getting it but fail right at the outset. The “two tier justice system” is what needs to be dismantled because it is just a part of the aristocratic privilege system. We don’t need cancel culture, we need society to treat everyone equally. It’s worth noting that even outside the aristocracy there are multiple tiers in our justice system. Men & women of all races face vastly different outcomes. Minorities face far worse outcomes. There are far more tiers that just class. Nothing…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/04/21 03:36 PM
42	"Men get assaulted and murdered more than women because they beat each other up." Men are more likely to commit violent crime because men are more widely disadvantaged by society, men have less access to support in their social circle & social services, men have more pressure on them to succeed resulting in an increased propensity to have a debilitating mental breakdown that results in violent behavior. Rape is obviously horrible but being murdered is worse. People don’t care about crime & it’s causes, they care about themselves & things that could improve their social status…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/04/21 02:01 PM
1	Complaining about the patriarchy is actually just complaining about the aristocracy & usually a sign of deep set mental illness resulting from indoctrination into a misandrist cult that is so common now that no one can see it is a cult (more inside) Check some of my other comments for better responses specifically but I’m going to hit your main points I want to discuss as quickly as possible (time crunched sorry). In other comments I’ve made I point out that our psychological desire to succeed in a career is broadly speaking tied to our having been indoctrinated into the cult of being workers first. That our idea of self is wrapped up in this is SO hard for people to heal from that even suggesting it as I have is too big for people to under…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/04/21 11:12 AM
2	Complaining about the patriarchy is actually just complaining about the aristocracy & usually a sign of deep set mental illness resulting from indoctrination into a misandrist cult that is so common now that no one can see it is a cult (more inside) I’m just going to add one thing: I’m saying this because I long to be a stay at home parent & can not. I can’t as a worker because I’m not wealthy. I can’t as a male because it lowers my social status. I lack that privilege because society is so fundamentally broken. I don’t want to not work either. Again I’m a workaholic & creating things (writer & artist here) brings me great joy. However I think I desire to do this with my child(ren) not in isolation from them. Or perhaps in some limited quan…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/04/21 10:41 AM
1	Complaining about the patriarchy is actually just complaining about the aristocracy & usually a sign of deep set mental illness resulting from indoctrination into a misandrist cult that is so common now that no one can see it is a cult (more inside) I appreciate this & I was / am prepared for this criticism. I’m a total workaholic so it’s far from lost on me. However I think the whole basis of seeking emotional / psychological validation from “having an impact on the larger adult world” is actually a form of narcissism related – again – to the worker basis world plan we are all conditioned to exist in. I think fundamentally humans want to feel important to the group & I think many people aren’t satisfied with the family unit as that place, …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/04/21 10:36 AM
2	Complaining about the patriarchy is actually just complaining about the aristocracy & usually a sign of deep set mental illness resulting from indoctrination into a misandrist cult that is so common now that no one can see it is a cult (more inside) I appreciate this & I was / am prepared for this criticism. I’m a total workaholic so it’s far from lost on me. However I think the whole basis of seeking emotional / psychological validation from “having an impact on the larger adult world” is actually a form of narcissism related – again – to the worker basis world plan we are all conditioned to exist in. I think fundamentally humans want to feel important to the group & I think many people aren’t satisfied with the family unit as that place, …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/04/21 10:33 AM
7	Complaining about the patriarchy is actually just complaining about the aristocracy & usually a sign of deep set mental illness resulting from indoctrination into a misandrist cult that is so common now that no one can see it is a cult (more inside) I just want to use one little example to show you stupid this metric is: the leader of the world’s aristocracy is a queen. She lives in England. By definition the aristocracy is run by a woman & thus is a matriarchy. Feel manipulated yet? That’s because this is NOT how you measure who is in charge & this whole concept of patriarchy / matriarchy is a smoke screen for keeping the aristocracy hidden. When was the last time anyone even used the word aristocracy to you! Think about it. Think deeply a…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/04/21 09:24 PM
5	Complaining about the patriarchy is actually just complaining about the aristocracy & usually a sign of deep set mental illness resulting from indoctrination into a misandrist cult that is so common now that no one can see it is a cult (more inside) I’m replying here because I want to dive into your very thoughtful response in detail when I have a few more minutes. I did want to say one thing though which is that I personally think that to be susceptible to cults one must by definition have at least one kind of mental illness for them to capitalize on. There’s far too many mental illnesses that are useful keys into people’s psyches for me to list though perhaps that should be a focus of my argument if I plan to make that point so I do want …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/04/21 09:20 PM
2	Complaining about the patriarchy is actually just complaining about the aristocracy & usually a sign of deep set mental illness resulting from indoctrination into a misandrist cult that is so common now that no one can see it is a cult (more inside) This is exactly what I meant when I said cult. I don’t equate it to canceling because I actually think that cancel culture is a whole other quagmire that is essentially eroding our fundamental right to a fair trial etc. This should be deeply concerned because this is the first step to true fascism. Once the state (as a tool of the oppressive aristocracy) is able to remove your ability to function in society without a trial then anyone who even blinks incorrectly can be gulaged. This is THE most …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/04/21 09:07 PM
4	Complaining about the patriarchy is actually just complaining about the aristocracy & usually a sign of deep set mental illness resulting from indoctrination into a misandrist cult that is so common now that no one can see it is a cult (more inside) Radicalism of any stripe is a danger to everyone & will pervert any ideology to the point it becomes useless. I hate the term center & what it stands for but I think the broadest principles tend to be the easiest to get the majority of people to agree with. It is the details that are used to wedge us away from each other. That’s what the OP is about: that even though the concept behind intersectionalism is good, in practice it is resulting in more single issue thought paradigms that just make pe…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/04/21 08:58 PM
6	Complaining about the patriarchy is actually just complaining about the aristocracy & usually a sign of deep set mental illness resulting from indoctrination into a misandrist cult that is so common now that no one can see it is a cult (more inside) I really think we need a new movement, one outside of the tradition axis & language. One focused on establishing the core principles we all recognize are valid & true. We all get too lost in the minutiae of minor ideological points while the core of our rights are eroded.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/04/21 08:55 PM
10	Complaining about the patriarchy is actually just complaining about the aristocracy & usually a sign of deep set mental illness resulting from indoctrination into a misandrist cult that is so common now that no one can see it is a cult (more inside) Men always risk their lives for the betterment of others. Women very rarely do & usually do only for issues that exclusively effect them. & I actually am fine with being the part of society that is willing to put their body on the line to protect the freedom of others. But I’m tired of people acting like the freedoms we currently enjoy are a) trivial, b) not the direct result of literally thousands of generations of men dying to guarantee them. It’s ungrateful at best & damned short sighted beca…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/04/21 08:54 PM
5	Complaining about the patriarchy is actually just complaining about the aristocracy & usually a sign of deep set mental illness resulting from indoctrination into a misandrist cult that is so common now that no one can see it is a cult (more inside) It’s worth mentioning that just because men are doing the work of governance that doesn’t mean they are in charge. I’d wager that in fact the vast majority of men who hold power aren’t the masters of their own choices & answer to their (usually female) partner. Being the silent power behind the throne is often the MORE powerful position.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/04/21 08:47 PM
9	Complaining about the patriarchy is actually just complaining about the aristocracy & usually a sign of deep set mental illness resulting from indoctrination into a misandrist cult that is so common now that no one can see it is a cult (more inside) The majority of voters are women. By this metric it is female voters who are selecting men to do the work of leading while they can sit comfortably by & allow them to be blamed for society’s problems. But really that’s not the point. The definition of a patriarchy is NOT based on who holds the largest number of political offices. The definition is who by & large holds the most power & the answer to that is the aristocracy. The issues people face are not limited by men, they are limited by the up…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/04/21 08:43 PM
19	Complaining about the patriarchy is actually just complaining about the aristocracy & usually a sign of deep set mental illness resulting from indoctrination into a misandrist cult that is so common now that no one can see it is a cult (more inside) Which is ironic because THAT is reductionist just using a different denominator.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/04/21 01:51 PM
19	Complaining about the patriarchy is actually just complaining about the aristocracy & usually a sign of deep set mental illness resulting from indoctrination into a misandrist cult that is so common now that no one can see it is a cult (more inside) Yeah, I should’ve mentioned I didn’t really invent any of these ideas, I’m just trying to nutshell them into a cogent single argument.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/04/21 01:50 PM
14	"Mansplaining" and "manspreading" are sexist terms Condescending dick is itself gendered. You’re so brainwashed into the misandrist narrative that you don’t even see that. Some alternatives. Asshole. Jerk. Punknugget. Rude motherfucker.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/04/21 12:19 PM
14	"Mansplaining" and "manspreading" are sexist terms It’s almost like being conditioned to be angry all the time at your “oppressors” has some sort of reality warping effect where you see everything as some sort of attack on you.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/04/21 12:16 PM
7	"Mansplaining" and "manspreading" are sexist terms That story has always REEKED of “yeah that happened” since the first time I heard her tell it. It’s exactly the kind of hyperbolic unprovable anecdote at the core of femme superiority narratives. The majority of times I hear someone use the term now it isn’t referring to a man condescendingly explaining something to someone who may or may not know it already. Instead it is being used as “man explains anything (& I have an axe to grind about my own inferiority complex).” I suggest we return to a …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/04/21 12:15 PM
5	Well, r/feminismuncensored didn't really work out did it? You make some good points. A few things: 1) it’s across the aisle, referring to a two party congress where the two parties sit on opposite sides of the central aisle. It’s not an island one reaches across. Sorry if this seems pedantic but it’s too common of a mistake! 2) I’m having trouble digging up the link currently on my phone but there was a study done that seemed to pretty conclusively determine that women were not able to empathize with male protagonists as well as they were able to with …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/04/21 10:37 AM
4	The on-going battle against male sexuality: We need to address the elephant in the room There’s a lot of good here & I am all for academics when it comes to this stuff but I think sometimes this kind of language plays too much into the already established power structures you mention. Sometimes I think we (men) need to lean on our strengths & one of them is shooting straight, calling a spade a spade, etc. The point being: speak plainly. Here’s a fun premise to use that I think pushes some people to open their minds (it also relies on humor which is a great way to win at least an en…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/04/21 09:34 PM
8	High-school boys made to stand and apologise for being male Suffering leads to ... enlightenment? Wait, I’m mixing my warrior monk religions again. Shit.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/03/21 08:57 PM
23	High-school boys made to stand and apologise for being male Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/03/21 02:27 PM
8	High-school boys made to stand and apologise for being male Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/03/21 02:25 PM
4	My experience presenting as a woman on an online chat room. And how it affected my perceptions. Some men are over sexualized but trust me people do NOT like hearing about it. The narratives in western society fully dismiss the idea that men can be overtly sexualized (much less overly) & if you complain about it men will shame you & women will ridicule you or worse. Another interesting aspect is the social pressure related to be perceived as the most attractive male in a given social group. Most people will never understand it & most people will flat out deny it if you try to explain it to …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/02/21 10:24 AM
1	The problem with expressing your emotion isnt the backlash, it's that no one cares I don’t think it is negative to tell the OP they are not crazy for their feeling that society / people in their life will treat them poorly for not controlling their emotions 98% of the time & that even then it is largely not worth the risk. I think validating people’s feelings when they ask for it, especially when it is somewhat controversial, is being positive. Clearing you think anyone that disagrees with your way of doing things is being negative. Have you considered that you’re the one bein…	/r/ExRedPill	08/02/21 08:34 PM
1	The problem with expressing your emotion isnt the backlash, it's that no one cares So just so we are clear everyone: the argument against having healthy emotionally communicative relationships with your friends is that since you are not paying them you can not trust them to keep your secrets 100% of the time. Yeah. Ooook. We are truly living in some sort distopic ass timeline. I don’t even know where to begin with this shit.	/r/ExRedPill	08/02/21 08:18 PM
0	The problem with expressing your emotion isnt the backlash, it's that no one cares I went to find your thread in the interest of fair debate. I don’t see anything there that changes my view of the OP. Having a single panic attack doesn’t mean he needs therapy, not even going to go into how misguided this is. Anyway I’m once again asserting that therapists are not a replacement for friends. If you think this you have serious problems with your life. A therapist can & do help people with their issues but they are not a replacement for friends, full stop. This is the same tired a…	/r/ExRedPill	08/02/21 07:45 PM
0	The problem with expressing your emotion isnt the backlash, it's that no one cares I have not read every comment in the thread (including the one you cite) my advice is from the OP, trying to validate their feelings about their social circle. & not that it is any of your business & I absolutely wish you would stop bringing up anything to do with me to try to deflect from discussing the OP but I do have a therapist. That therapist does NOT negate the biological need for friends & the reality that expressing ones emotions is largely discouraged socially for lots of reasons. OP s…	/r/ExRedPill	08/02/21 07:11 PM
0	The problem with expressing your emotion isnt the backlash, it's that no one cares You really showed me.	/r/ExRedPill	08/02/21 07:00 PM
1	The problem with expressing your emotion isnt the backlash, it's that no one cares Therapists are not a replacement for friends. OP straight up is saying he wants to express himself to the people in his social life. OP does not say anything that would translate to “I believe I have mental health problems that need treatment & my friends won’t be my free therapist” & it is so SO shitty people are pushing that narrative when it isn’t needed. It’s actually the exact opposite of normalizing male emotional expression, & a continuation of the very same repression of vulnerability. A…	/r/ExRedPill	08/02/21 06:59 PM
0	The problem with expressing your emotion isnt the backlash, it's that no one cares Paraphrasing his actually comments is not speaking for him. Nor am I thread jacking. Please do not waste your time replying further. I am not interested in whatever argument you want to have with me about whatever you believe this “threadjack” says about me.	/r/ExRedPill	08/02/21 06:51 PM
1	The problem with expressing your emotion isnt the backlash, it's that no one cares Literally you are telling him to go to a therapist (a professional).	/r/ExRedPill	08/02/21 06:47 PM
0	The problem with expressing your emotion isnt the backlash, it's that no one cares I didn’t ask what you think about my behavior though? I think OP pretty clearly wants a certain kind of friendship style, isn’t finding that in life, & that’s led him to feel the way he does & that is valid. I’ve made it clear I think therapy IS a possible solution but I’m also trying to support the OP in his situation with wanting to have those kinds of friendships. Perhaps you don’t think that is a solution, or “enough” of a solution for whatever standard you have. I truly think OP is looking …	/r/ExRedPill	08/02/21 06:45 PM
0	The problem with expressing your emotion isnt the backlash, it's that no one cares I definitely did not ask tho?	/r/ExRedPill	08/02/21 06:33 PM
1	The problem with expressing your emotion isnt the backlash, it's that no one cares God this is so classically the problem. A man says “I’d like to be able to express my feelings!” & people respond “No! Maybe pay a professional because that’s is not allowed!”	/r/ExRedPill	08/02/21 06:32 PM
1	The problem with expressing your emotion isnt the backlash, it's that no one cares No. It’s literally saying “I want someone to hold my hand once in a while” then saying “lol go to a doctor”	/r/ExRedPill	08/02/21 06:31 PM
-1	The problem with expressing your emotion isnt the backlash, it's that no one cares Wow, just. Wow.	/r/ExRedPill	08/02/21 06:12 PM
0	The problem with expressing your emotion isnt the backlash, it's that no one cares This last paragraph especially says SO much about you it is kind of amazing. You sound like a really great person, one I definitely would want in my life. There’s a big fucking difference between treating your friends as free therapy & OP’s desire to have a good social circle of reliable friends he can be open with. Your ability to jump that far – to stretch shit so so easily – again says more about you than it does prove your point. Nowhere do I or the OP suggest using anyone as an emotional ta…	/r/ExRedPill	08/02/21 05:30 PM
1	The problem with expressing your emotion isnt the backlash, it's that no one cares You admit that therapy didn’t work for you in some case(s) with this sort of illogical “wrong fit” nomenclature. You’re just wrapping what I said in a different guise then using that to mischaracterize what I said. Not being the right fit IS therapy not working for someone’s problem. That doesn’t mean therapy NEVER works or whatever other words you are trying to put in my mouth?? I AGREE with you broadly speaking, especially that more people should be open to trying it & I said as much. The FACT…	/r/ExRedPill	08/02/21 04:14 PM
0	The problem with expressing your emotion isnt the backlash, it's that no one cares To be fair to the downvoters it is a bit like saying “get some exercise lol” to a suicidal person. Yes it is good advice but 99% of the time it is the wrong advice in the moment. OP doesn’t need to hear this when presenting their issue regarding finding empathetic friends who take care of his feelings.	/r/ExRedPill	08/02/21 02:02 PM
1	The problem with expressing your emotion isnt the backlash, it's that no one cares It’s important to note that talk therapy is NOT 100% effective or helpful for everyone regardless of gender. Some people even find the process of talk therapy to exacerbate their issues, for example those who find that revisiting something traumatic can cause them to re-experience the feelings associated with it often report release from this however a non zero number of people do not & some of them find that process to be retriggering. If talk therapy worked for everyone / for every problem the…	/r/ExRedPill	08/02/21 02:00 PM
1	The problem with expressing your emotion isnt the backlash, it's that no one cares It’s worse than no one caring – people straight up hate it. They don’t want to deal with you feelings, especially if they are aggressive (don’t even mean anger either, sadness can be aggressive if it is present constantly & comes out in your behavior). People strongly prefer all people to be enjoyable to be around because they are selfish assholes. Women get more of a pass on being emotional because men kiss their asses in a vain attempt to mate with them & other women put up with it because it …	/r/ExRedPill	08/02/21 01:04 PM
10	Why are MGTOWs so highly sensitive to things they disagree with? Your friend is an entitled narcissist with a victim mentality. They use tantrum tactics to shout down anyone who makes them feel threatened.	/r/ExRedPill	12/01/21 01:37 AM
2	If women vote in a higher number in the west (as they have over & over again) how can we be in a patriarchy? This! This! This!	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/11/20 10:32 PM
2	If women vote in a higher number in the west (as they have over & over again) how can we be in a patriarchy? True though! RE: we are all scum on the boots of the aristocracy!	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/11/20 10:24 PM
1	If women vote in a higher number in the west (as they have over & over again) how can we be in a patriarchy? Ding ding ding ! We have a winner. Someone has been reading my blog. Neofeudalism is so SO 21st century!	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/11/20 10:12 PM
2	If women vote in a higher number in the west (as they have over & over again) how can we be in a patriarchy? Ding ding ding ! We have a winner. Someone has been reading my blog. Neofeudalism is so SO 21st century!	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/11/20 10:12 PM