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| 4 | If having sex is supposed to be an evolutionary and biological need, why is it so damn hard to get laid?!A better way to look at it, is that its become way harder for low value men in terms of relationships. Women aren't having to choose between the physically abusive banker or vaguely pedophilic neighbor at age 14 as to who they think they should have kids with (this is a grim example, but fact is they wouldn't even of gotten that choice). If you are 10% a piece of shit, then they aren't threatened with existential spinsterhood for not putting up with the mens bullshit. The bars been raised yeah, … | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 03:04 PM |
| 7 | If having sex is supposed to be an evolutionary and biological need, why is it so damn hard to get laid?!Cause none of your ancestors had Instagram or human rights for thousands of years. You're living in what might be the period of time where women have the most control over choosing their partners, while being able to inflate their value and shop the largest market. Your great great nan had three choices, Your great great granddad, dave the butcher, and steve the drunk. Sue's got eyes for dave, so thats that. Women nowdays can pick up their phone and have a queue of 1000s of men to choose from so… | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Stop using cheap generalizations about women to justify your lack of actionEverytime you try to make somebody do something you suspect they would not be willing to do without your intervention, you are trying to manipulate them. This just isn't true, and its one of those things where the semantics really matter. Using the word ''manipulation'' as the umbrella term for rhetoric fucks this conversation, as manipulation is typically just the negative term people use for the words ''convince'' . The very definition of the word implies the use of ''clever or unscrupulous'' … | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 10:20 AM |
| 2 | Stop using cheap generalizations about women to justify your lack of actionhonestly, googling freestyle walking is what shook me the most about this post. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Got the let's be friends text...If your only down for the hook up then just give something non comital or just ghost it, take your ball, and go home is the name of the game on that. Otherwise, congratulations on making a new friend. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 09:53 AM |
| 3 | What’s the best seduction advice you learned?Maybe don't use the "killer" instinct... Save that for like a bear or something Bundy | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 08:00 AM |
| 5 | What’s the best seduction advice you learned?Don't worry about it, cats are assholes. They basically only show you affection as long as you're dishing out treats and free food | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 07:58 AM |
| 6 | What’s the best seduction advice you learned?"When it comes to sex and relationship, the one who cares the least has all the power . So stop giving so much of a fuck." "Everything in this world is about sex, except sex, sex is about power" "For every absolute 10 out there, there's a guy who's sick of fucking her" - this helped me stop putting the super hot women on a pedestal and led to alot of my success afterwards. Honestly the biggest advice I got was from growing up in my mom's hairdressing salon and overhearing a decade of girl talk. … | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 07:56 AM |
| 5 | Stop putting pussy on a pedestal.Pole dance class, you'll meet some of the hottest women of your life, in their underwear upside down... down side is, you will get abs like a Greek Adonis whether you like it or not cause fuck me is pole dance a workout. | /r/seduction | 22/02/20 11:10 PM |
| 44 | I can see why sliding into dm’s barley work. Too many options and plus guys, 90% of the time you’re boring.Did you get disney plus though? you watch mandalorian? | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Do girls need 'game' and if so, how do you characterize it?To be honest I'd recommend pole to men too. It's a great way to learn how to be comfortable around women (being around a bunch of 10s in thongs doing the splits does wonders for your approach anxiety) as well as a workout it's essentially just hardcore calisthenics, you want abs? Go pole. Men can do make up too but can't do the full 6 to 10 transformation a full coverage face full of Mac products can pull off (unless you a drag queen but I digress). But small things like concealer to cover up ac… | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Do girls need 'game' and if so, how do you characterize it?Make up, gym n diet, few dance classes (I'd recommend pole class, super fun n great for developing a sexy aura) can literally take a girl who's a 5 to a 9 in a year or two. Nothing, barr physical is stopping any girls from playing the looks game. | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 05:52 PM |
| 1 | [Shower thought] If we had to select a group of 100 people to populate a new planet, the optimal distribution would be 20 men and 80 women, not 50/50Yeah you right , I worked that out like 10 mi unites after I posted that. 80/20 would still only have kids with genes from 20 fathers. I think it's cause I was playing freiza earlier and was thinking aboit how the xenomorphs or zerg do in that department when they take over planets. Tbh I think it's a non issue, cause by the time people can colonise other world's whatever genetic downsides produced by a lack of biodiversity will be able to be worked around, space vacines n gene tech n all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/18 01:43 AM |
| 3 | [Shower thought] If we had to select a group of 100 people to populate a new planet, the optimal distribution would be 20 men and 80 women, not 50/50That's the trick, the suffragettes didn't plan this far ahead, women still can't vote on Mars | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/18 11:10 PM |
| 1 | [Shower thought] If we had to select a group of 100 people to populate a new planet, the optimal distribution would be 20 men and 80 women, not 50/50Gender wouldn't come I to it. The problem would be biodiversity. The issue is that with just a 100 people, odds are in 1 or 2 generations you are fucking your cousins. Not that big deal, most of the issues with incest are just stigma. But with the smaller group you can't really risk bringing in someone with heriditary conditions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/18 11:04 PM |
| 2 | CMV: During sex, men commit to the possibility of a child. Women commit to the possibility of pregnancy. So men who regret impregnating a woman only have themselves to blame.I mean its just wording for the sake of making its a damnable offence, if you did something wrong you are to be held responcable right? He is to blame, its his fault, he caused this, its his problem. That's just not the reality of the situation. Nothing wrong happened, infact this wording is really odd when it comes to pregnancy cause it basically sets babys up to all be horrific mistakes that are to be atoned for. Rather than what they are, little people that older people are responsible for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/18 01:51 AM |
| 1 | CMV: During sex, men commit to the possibility of a child. Women commit to the possibility of pregnancy. So men who regret impregnating a woman only have themselves to blame.Isnt she also aware of that? if anything, isnt she more aware of that seeing as she has better insights into how her own body may or may not react in a hormonal state. And isnt she responsible for her own choices regardless of hormonal state? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/18 01:48 AM |
| 0 | CMV: During sex, men commit to the possibility of a child. Women commit to the possibility of pregnancy. So men who regret impregnating a woman only have themselves to blame.Yes, i think its equal. They both had sex knowing the risk of what could happen. To be honest, in all of this i think the word ''to blame'' is being misused, i dont think anyone is ''to blame'' , despite the fact that it is in fact a tragedy if a women dies in child birth neither her or the man who she had sex with did anything morally wrong, no one is at fault. The term ''To blame'' insinuates that someone has done something reprehensible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/18 12:00 AM |
| -2 | CMV: During sex, men commit to the possibility of a child. Women commit to the possibility of pregnancy. So men who regret impregnating a woman only have themselves to blame.I mean, that's assuming the women removes the man from the choice fully. Men are committing to the idea of pregnancy too, he just has less control over where that goes and most reasonable people at least make that a somewhat joint choice. However, you still remove all blame from the women party. Isnt she fully aware that he might not like the idea of being tricked/forced into fatherhood? and should take responsibility due to knowing the risk beforehand? Your bias towards the women in this case i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/18 11:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: During sex, men commit to the possibility of a child. Women commit to the possibility of pregnancy. So men who regret impregnating a woman only have themselves to blame.how can a man who impregnated a woman he regrets blame anyone but himself? Cause just like in the title, BOTH people are aware of the risk and possibility therefor BOTH people are to ''blame'' The idea that you just remove all blame from the female party due to the male having responsibility too is psychotic. Both people are equally to blame and have equal responsibility. Also, if he has been told she is on birth control, he has infact been misslead to belive its not a possibility while the fema… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/18 11:35 PM |
| 1 | If AWALT is true why bother becoming high value?Cause it's only true for some things, and not true 100% of the time there are always exceptions to rules. Not only that, some men don't care if all women are like one way, they still wanna fuck so there is gain to be had in upping your value, as well as the increase in value and confidence such value brings sets you up for finding a woman who isn't like the others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/18 06:22 PM |
| 5 | No Means No Works When Women Back It Up and Refuse To Entertain Further NegotiationNothing, I think that would be a fine thing to say as long as the body language matched it. Unfortunately that's not what is said or acted. What happens is they verbally communicate the "I don't want to have sex" part, and then physically communicate the "but I want to hang out and get to know you" Leading to massive mixed signals and the type of "wait I thought she said no, whys she still here" confusion op is chatting about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/18 09:40 PM |
| 6 | No Means No Works When Women Back It Up and Refuse To Entertain Further NegotiationIf only there was some magic way to communicate that, maybe audibly , with your mouth. No one is saying you can't say that, what you can't do is give a no with words n a maybe with everything else n hope he unpacks that the right way. If you don't want something, say so and communicate it clearly, if you do want something, say so and communicate it clearly. If you want something specific that's kinda in the middle , say so and communicate it clearly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/18 05:53 PM |
| 3 | [CMV] Porn and sexual repression lead to MTF and Autogynephiliacause a large amount of the MTF on tumblr are outed as not being genuine by their feeds. No one fakes being a FTM cause its not sexy, where as crossdressing, acting femme, and sexual role play in a female role is far more prevalent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/18 06:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women have a much more comparative sexuality than men do, the taller, muscular, and richer a man is the more potential women he will getwell thats sort of the point, bradley threw things like shape and proportion out the window for the sake of size, he took it to far and focused on more is more, rather than details. Much like in the same way that some women over do make up, or surgery ect ect. Maybe not the best comparison, but still highlights the fact that there is such a thing as 'too much' when it comes to things men consider qualitative for attractiveness.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/18 11:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women have a much more comparative sexuality than men do, the taller, muscular, and richer a man is the more potential women he will getI didnt know that, and im somewhat familiar with football, just asked my brother who is somewhat obbsessed with it, as well as a FIFA player (a game where the guys height is literally listed on the screen a tonne of times) and he didnt know. MOST people don't know that at all, and when you fantasise about people you tend to give them a few extras in your imagination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/18 03:50 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Women have a much more comparative sexuality than men do, the taller, muscular, and richer a man is the more potential women he will getHeres the video Obviously Bradly gets some attention, but the overwhelming majority of women prefer the smaller jacked guy. Its better to be jacked than nothing at all clearly, but women do seem to have a cutt off point on average as to who muscular they like men to be, as well as most women not really caring about muscles as much as they like size in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/18 02:25 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women have a much more comparative sexuality than men do, the taller, muscular, and richer a man is the more potential women he will getWe literally agree on all those points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/18 01:20 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women have a much more comparative sexuality than men do, the taller, muscular, and richer a man is the more potential women he will getNot sure what your point is? Height matters, its literally women's no1 physical feature that they find attractive in a man, does that mean that ALL women think that, no does that mean that women that do think that ONLY date the tallest man available, no. You are right, it is fine to be short. But its better to be tall. Wouldn't she able to pick a tall actor if height is that important? Maybe, but she chose him for a long list of reasons, they probably have a connection or she finds him funny, or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/18 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Would you be ok if your SO asked for nude pictures or would this strain the relationship?its my dick, i am proud of my dick not ashamed. And i think a big part of good parenting is teaching your kids the same thing. Especially with girls who are basically taught to be ashamed of their private parts before they even know what they are for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/18 10:24 AM |
| 3 | Would you be ok if your SO asked for nude pictures or would this strain the relationship?I was taught the same way however am narcissistic as hell, the idea that my nudes would make front page sounds awesome. I'm proud of my body, and wouldn't be ashamed if people saw me nude, being seen doing some sex acts might be a little embarrassing however arent something to be ashamed about if done in a healthy manner. What i advice people is to not do things you feel you would be ashamed of if everyone knew, its better to work through why you are ashamed in private before you start being ope… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/18 10:22 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Women have a much more comparative sexuality than men do, the taller, muscular, and richer a man is the more potential women he will getover-confidence that dosent crack is just confidence. It's literally one of those things where its good until it isnt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/18 10:14 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Women have a much more comparative sexuality than men do, the taller, muscular, and richer a man is the more potential women he will getthere absolutely is a ceiling for all of those things. Bradly martin has a cool video on this, where he demonstrates that women are less attracted to his body type than one of his smaller, less muscular cross fit friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/18 10:09 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Women have a much more comparative sexuality than men do, the taller, muscular, and richer a man is the more potential women he will getWomen dont see or notice their heights cause you only see those men on TV. If you ask most women how tall they think those men are they often over exaggerate it by quite a bit. Not only that, there are women who would meet those men, tower over them in heels and find them less attractive cause of that fact. Probably still fuck them though, cause money> height | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/18 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Would you be upset if going into a marriage your SO asked you to sign a prenuptial agreement agreement to protect both of you?For existing debt Can get messy, due to the fact that people lie about their spending and debts a whole bunch to partners. Plenty of storys out there of people getting married, protecting themselves with a prenup only to find their partner has 100k of debt they didn't care to mention and is now effectively trapped with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/18 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Can we all agree it's safe to assume a woman is an AWALT, and that TRP probably applies/works on her if she smokes, drinks, does drugs, or goes clubbing constantly?The best you can get is a ''good indicator'' You'll obviously have better success with some groups than others and you can profile them pretty well, but there will always be exceptions. I'd say less so on cigarettes (at least for older people) than drugs , you have to bare in mind that tobaco wassnt that big a deal even as short as 10 years ago, so a 30 year old women smoking isnt really that big an indicator of much other than she made one poor choice once about smoking, and you cant really say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/18 09:55 AM |
| 8 | Misfits and LeftoversEnd of the day, not all 20-29 year old women wanna date a man who is 35+. So yeah, the older you get the smaller your pool regardless of what situation you are in. The illusion comes from the fact that some guys can sort themselves out to a point where they do have more options at 35 than they did at 25 cause at 25 they was about as datable a brick and at 35 are genuinely good men. The trick in the age bracket you specified is picking out the good ones, not everyone is what they seem and there a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/18 09:42 AM |
| 3 | what should women write on dating profiles?I think they should write something that conveys something to me other than "I couldn't be bothered to write anything, don't have anything to say, and (to some extent, rightly) think that I will largely be judged on my looks". Pretty much this 100%, i dont mind the ''dont msg me if under 6ft'' or much anything that a women writes about herself, as long as she writes ANYTHING about herself. The sort of copy paste ''Hey for freidns and laugths, looking for banter and ext ect'' just isnt good enoug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/17 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Questions for Low Libido People of PPDbut enough that it's a bit annoying See thats not an issue. Im patient, or at least im more willing to wait for something i want than ''make do'' with some shitty filler. If it is the case that her sexual desire for me is so low that its a genuine issue, than we arent a couple we are friends. I dont enjoy sex with people that dont want to have sex with me, if i wanted a flesh hole to slam myself into mindlessly i'd buy one. Also ive found in the past that women who just ''Do it for his sake'' do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/17 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Questions for Low Libido People of PPDnot even that extreme, just any form of desire or evidence that she is enjoying herself. I want my women to enjoy her time with me, not treat my dick as a burden. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Questions for Low Libido People of PPDYes, its about 3 inches back from the tongue, its called the brain. Sexual pleasure is about more than nerve endings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Questions for Low Libido People of PPDLike if you asked someone to go out on a date with you, and their responce was ''Urgh, fine. I dont want to but i guess i'll go'' Most self respecting people would tell them not to fucking bother. If i wanted a reluctant fleshy hole to use as a masturbatory aid, id fucking go buy one. The idea that someone that i either love, or care for, am in a relationship with, treats sex or physical contact with me like some sort of chore or that they are martyring themselves by getting close to me makes me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Questions for Low Libido People of PPDThats just weird to me The idea that as a grown adult id be desperate enough for physical contact that id make do with someone reluctantly tugging on me for a few minuites is weird. You dont get to be in an equal relationship with me, and then reduce yourself to a glorified masturbatory aid when you think its required of you. No one is obligated to please me, im not entitled to blowjobs, if you dont want to fuck me don't, lets just be friends or wait until you are in the mood for it, that's a pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 06:01 PM |
| 3 | Questions for Low Libido People of PPDSucking your dick specifically is one sided. Not true, ask the gays, they love that shit. Sex is more than just slamming your cock into what ever flesh receptacle you can find (at least when you get a bit older it is) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Questions for Low Libido People of PPDthey dont live to please you. Not saying they do, i just find it a major turn off when a women approaches sex like some kinda chore. If you dont want to touch me, dont fucking touch me. The idea that the women im with has to force herself due to some obligation or job requirement to be intimate with me makes me feel like im repulsive or that im taking advantage. not many women are gonna beg to suck your cock Dont have to beg, or put on some pornstar show. But enjoy it? maybe a little? tiny bit o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 05:08 PM |
| 5 | Questions for Low Libido People of PPDI suppose I would be okay with fellating them to satisfy their need. Ive always found it a major turn off when women talk to me about sex like this. It comes across as they are just doing it out of some sense of duty rather than desire. If someone said to me ''suppose I would be okay with fellating you to satisfy your need.'' I'd tell them not to bother, if you dont want to suck my cock, dont. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 03:17 AM |
| 3 | Questions for Low Libido People of PPD...really? Its more that if ''how often she puts out'' is the major thing that is deterring a guy from getting serious with a girl (this is more a younger guy thing ive seen 16-25) That tends to be a red flag for them not having the healthiest mindset about sex. The typical story being a guy jump ship on what is 100% wife material cause she only has sex maybe once a week, in favour of an absolute mess of a women who (due to also having an unhealthy relationship with their sexuality) does anythin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 02:58 AM |
| 3 | Questions for Low Libido People of PPDIm probably not the person to answer this as i have a pretty agro sex drive. But i do have major turn offs, and those moments where the women has ''turned me off'' have alot of times completely shut down any chance of progress with them as they see it as me having a low sex drive or not being attracted to them. My high sex drive has never been a dealbreaker though, im adult enough to manage that kinda thing and if ''how often she puts out'' is a huge issue for a guy id suggest that he isnt in a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 01:50 AM |
| 5 | If it's okay for women to enjoy media showing women in a degrading or unflattering light then it is perfectly okay for men to do so as wellLike i understand owning birds, i want one they are cool, and im sure they appreciative the free food and the fact that you don't eat them, those are pretty much birds fave things eating, and not being nuggets. But its a bird, they fly... its like their whole thing. If you want a pet that you can cage and keep indoors thats happy about it buy a rabbit or a hamster or a guinny pig they fucking love that life. Birds are literally a metaphor for freedom and majesty and people keep them locked in ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 01:34 AM |
| 5 | If it's okay for women to enjoy media showing women in a degrading or unflattering light then it is perfectly okay for men to do so as wellI dont think that's what qualifys something as degrading. Maybe my mom likes getting fucked in the ass with a rubber fist, shes not going to tell me about it, and i dont wanna hear about it. But it has no effect on how fucking awesome she is regardless. This shame tactic is fucking archaic, people fuck, and some people fuck in different ways that might seem weird to you. The idea that something like that can literally degrade someones worth based on what you subjectively find shamfull or gross o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/17 08:40 PM |
| 3 | If it's okay for women to enjoy media showing women in a degrading or unflattering light then it is perfectly okay for men to do so as wellBut i like fetish stuff though, its not degrading. If you see sex in any form as something that can subtract from someones value or worth then thats on you. Everyone earns my respect the same way, regardless of what you do or dont do with penises. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/17 06:44 PM |
| 2 | PSA: "gender is a social construct" is not the same as "a persons gender is entirely socially constructed"Gravity Pain pleasure Hunger Magnetism Light waves Mass and weight (kinda the same as gravity tbh) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/17 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What do you think about high N men?Yeah but its not as simple as once you are over X number you are this, and as long as you are below X number you are all clear. There are people who only have sex twice a year with N-counts around 17-23 And there are people who have extremely unhealthy sexual relationships with numbers in the single digits. N-count alone is just a poor metric, by itself it tells you very little about the person, and as people get older it means less and less. A women in her 40s having a N-count of 20 means she o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/17 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Sexbots. Just another form of masturbation, nobody cares.What the fuck are you talking about. So many people cared, about all those things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What do you think about high N men?I always just take it on a case by case basis. Ive met people with single digit N counts that i would classify as having extremely unhealthy sexual relationships. One girl as bad as to have only even slept with one man, but by all definitions was a category A slutbag that i wouldnt touch with a 10 yard pole. On the other hand ive met women with numbers closer to 25-30 who are well leveled, stable adult women who just happen to have taken to jumping to a new relationship rather than re'visiting o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What do you think about high N men?If i only have sex twice a year for ten years. So from the ages of 20 to 30. And each of those people was new, healthy relationships, that just didnt turn out right. Id have an N-count in the 20s, that some people might consider high. On the flip side, there are people that maintain the same 3 fuckbuddys for years. And have extremely unhealthy sexual relationships with them, but only have an N count around 3-5. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What do you think about high N men?N-count is the best indicator. Or you know. Talking to them, getting to know them. ??? The idea that you peace out the moment the number ticks over 10 with asking a single follow up question is insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 09:36 AM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What do you think about high N men?The bit that fucks me up the most is the math of it all. A women can have a rule not to sleep with a man until 3 months in, take 3 months off between relationship attempts. Given a decade or so, by the time she is nearing 30 she will have an N count easily in the double digits. Yet has maybe had sex twice a year tops. Yet there are girls who will get drunk out of their face, and D-dail a fuck buddy at least twice a month cause they are lonely, but as longs as its an Ex that shes been doing this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/17 03:48 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: What do you think about high N men?Thats where its fucked up. The options arent ''sex with an ex'' vs ''sex with strangers'' A women can get fucked 3 times a week by different guys ( i knew a girl like this, didnt miss a sataday where she would go out, get drunk and end up in someones bed) but as long as you keep refreshing the same ex's over n over you can keep saying ''Ive only slept with 4 guys'' Where as a women can have a hard rule on not sleeping with a guy until 3 months in, and by the time she is late 20s easily have a N … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/17 03:41 PM |
| 7 | Q4Women: What do you think about high N men?This is pretty true, i find that women who have crept into the higher numbers in a healthy way have alot more to offer when it comes to talking about that kind of stuff. Rather then my options being either lying or sugar coating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/17 11:45 AM |
| 3 | Q4Women: What do you think about high N men?I honestly dont get this mindset at all. High number counts are deal breakers But its 100% okay to hook up casually with the same person over and over with no intent for commitment? Women pulling this nonsense by backpocketing Ex's and keeping fuckbuddys, just for the sake of retaining the moral superiority of a low N count is so backwards and sexist it boggles the mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/17 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: How true do you think the statement "it's only creepy if they are unattractive" is?I mean thats sorta my whole point. I find myself attracted to someone, I've already determined they're not a creep. Some people find people attractive before they even meet them, backround info on them influencing their personal judgment and so on Eg: seeing someone being the centre of laughs at the party from accross the room, seeing someone playing with kids and having a great time. Or even if its just a case that the person saves that stuff for later on when you know them better. There are lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/17 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Q4all: How true do you think the statement "it's only creepy if they are unattractive" is?Not saying those people dont exist. But there are women out there that even chris brown would creep out. Not every women has the same view on what is and isnt creepy. My fave one at the moment is i have a clown nose in my pocket most days (For reasons) and sometimes when im on the bus and there is a kid i pull faces or juggle or make a baloon animal at the kid to make them laugh. Sometimes people see this as creepy, others find it harmless, and ive even gotten a few dates out of it. The factors … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/17 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Q4all: How true do you think the statement "it's only creepy if they are unattractive" is?I mean its more a case of there being more variables than just ''The persons physical attractiveness'' determining weather or not an act is creepy or not. Some people find me attractive for various reasons (Not just my looks) , and others find me unattractive for those same reasons. So to some people stuff i do comes across as creepy and to others not so much. As well as different people having different thresholds on what they consider creepy to start off with. Someone may not find me physicall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/17 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Q4all: How true do you think the statement "it's only creepy if they are unattractive" is?physically attractive i think the statment applys to just how attractive you fine the person, not just their physical attractiveness. Like it stems from women just being more comfortable around guys they like, is how i see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/17 06:46 AM |
| 11 | Q4all: How true do you think the statement "it's only creepy if they are unattractive" is?Something to note on this is that there are more variables at play. Like i can get away with some stuff with some women, but not that same stuff with others. And that nay be a mix of factors to how attractive the women finds me, her tolerance for that kinda behaviour, what mood she's in that day ect ect.. its not just a sliding scale of ''once you are this hot, you can get away with all this'' there are plenty of women that would slap (insert hot guy celebrity name here) for saying/doing creepy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/17 06:41 AM |
| 3 | Lets discuss female body hairYes and even Sophia Loren is plucked and smooth. Obvcourse a few hairy pits slip though, however its never been the norm or the status quo, at best has been a passing fad for a summer. Your best was this A women making a statement about airpit hair while shaving and waxing her forarms and legs. A women whos complexion was near genetically flawless as to give her near zero body hair to begin with. Still does little to support your outlandish statement of ''It's been fashionable only for a few dec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 07:47 PM |
| 4 | Lets discuss female body hairNever said it was. Just that saying ''It's been fashionable only for a few decades'' isnt true. As its been fashionable for many decades. Its been ''fashionable'' since the 40s as far as we know, you can pop out with something about the 60s n 70s, but the fact of the mater is the unshaved hippy moments didn't encompass all worldwide fashion. To say hairy unshaved women have ever been ''In fashion'' in the modern age just isnt the case. The best front for unshaved women in fashion in the last 100… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 05:30 PM |
| 10 | Lets discuss female body hairI was refering to your It's been fashionable only for a few decades That's not true, its been fashionable for 1000s of years (on and off sure) but to say a practice thats been about since the stone age has only been fashionable for a few decades, and that '' there isnt anything natural about being attracted only to hairless women. '' is just silly. Humans are attracted to hygiene and the hairless women have historically been the most hygienic (as far as men at the time could tell) So its perfect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 04:30 PM |
| 7 | Lets discuss female body hairHairlessness being sexy goes back 1000s of years. Even the greeks did this shit you dont see aphoditie with a bush full do you?, its just a form of grooming thats been part of human culture for a long while. The rich beautiful women where hairless, and the grubby poor women couldn't afford to be. It's been fashionable only for a few decades Is just objectively wrong. http://bfy.tw/D6yD here you go. Simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 08:00 AM |
| 3 | Why don't men want to protect women in public anymore?To be fair, they did rape and kill women of their own ethnicity too as much as society would allow at the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Why don't men want to protect women in public anymore?If i get up and stop a man from masterbating on a bus im at risk of getting killed getting injured getting jizz on me getting charged with assault getting charged with sexual indecency Getting charged with sexual assault Literally everything from the police that show up to the guy doing the jacking off is against me in that situation. And why am i helping you again? Do i know you? Do you know me? If i wasn't actively being a hero for you in that moment would you even consider my existence? Its n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What common things that are said on this sub make you sad?That works too. :) I find that mindset is only effective short term, but whatever works me may not work for you. Eg: there are plenty of people out there living it up having the best time of their lives in their 30s, that was kick started by that breakdown at 29 that caused them to get to working on themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/17 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: What common things that are said on this sub make you sad?As a guy who lost his virginity at 13-14 to other 13-14 year olds. Dw about high school is when you have access to the youngest pussy you ever will in the highest quantities. You really really really regret most of it. The idea of accepting lost opportunitys is basically people making up hypothetical situations of what ''could of'' been. No reason not to look at the past as more deterministic, odds are you didnt have the options you think you 'could of' had. Me at 15 was a shit, the idea that he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 11:28 PM |
| 4 | Q4ALL: What common things that are said on this sub make you sad?Sitting there and dwelling on ''If i was 10, if i was 20 again, if was 30, if i only started when i was 40'' is just stupid no matter how you word it. If you are 29 looking at being 30 dreaming of all the ''Things I missed out on in my 20s'' Then you are a moron in the eyes of your 60 year old self that can see you with 30 years ahead of you looking back at last week Dont bitch about not being 25 and stupid, look forward to being 45 and awesome. Its a much better way to do this life thing trust … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 10:31 PM |
| 5 | Q4ALL: What common things that are said on this sub make you sad?But i had the same thoughts at 25, as did you. And the same thoughts at 19 as did you. And i bet when you are 40 looking back at now you will be thinking the same thing you think now about your 20 year old self. The facts stack up against this way of thinking, ask anyone in their 60s when it was game over for them and they will say their late 50s. Ask someone who is 70 and they will say '' i wish i had started when i was 60'' Being bitter is a choice you can make, its literally a pointless exerc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 03:25 PM |
| 2 | What's the worst thing a man has done to you while you were with them?If you had made me, or any guy i know a homemade chocolate cheese cake, that would literally result in me sitting at the table a face full of chocolate considering marriage. Im not sure whats up with your Ex, unless he is a closeted homosexual/diabetic im really not sure what was going on there might have been my mistake. Nah, dosent sound like you made any mistakes other then putting in effort into someone that really wasn't entitled to such treatment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: What common things that are said on this sub make you sad?Im not too keen on seeing 'autistic' used as an insult Meh wait it out. Its just a filler cause we cant call people downey's anymore, or just flat out call them spaztics or brain damaged. Give it a few years and autistic with get replaced by the next slur | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What common things that are said on this sub make you sad?Ive met men who are now peaking in their late 60s. Seriously, never. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 03:05 PM |
| 10 | Q4ALL: What common things that are said on this sub make you sad?You dont seem to understand that the people that call 19 year olds out on this, DO understand. Lots of people feel that way at 19, but then quickly realise they was full of shit by the time they are 27-29. You have men peaking in their 40s looking at 29 year olds having breakdowns laughing. With the right perspective and attitude being happy really dosnet have an age limit. And the older you get the easier that gets to grasp once you are over your 5th ''Oh no im getting old'' episode. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 03:04 PM |
| 2 | What's the worst thing a man has done to you while you were with them?Did you make the cake or buy it? What kinda cheese cake? Can i have some cake if there is some left? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 02:49 PM |
| 4 | What's the worst thing a man has done to you while you were with them?my cake what kinda cake? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 03:32 AM |
| 2 | The defeatism on Reddit among men has went too far. It is ridiculous.Yeah you are right. The issue i find with people in this mindset is they also put outward attractiveness on a pedestal. And try after men or women who may be a 2-3 in everything else and either get turned down, which shakes their confidence, or end up with someone who isnt that great for them. Or, another thing they do is they over hype their qualitys and downplay their lack of outward attractiveness. To accentuate how rigged the game is in favour of outwardly attractive people. Their logic me '… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/17 11:45 AM |
| 2 | The defeatism on Reddit among men has went too far. It is ridiculous.No what im saying is a description of the perspective. I dont advocate this way of thinking cause it is as you say, hypocritical. Outward attractiveness trumps all other qualitys. So you get people who are 9s being told they should just make do with (what they perceive to be) 3-4s . And without checking each one there really is no way to get out of this way of thinking. I advocate giving anyone who shows genuine interest in you a full chance before you judge them, as a grown adult i have the lux… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/17 11:28 AM |
| 1 | The defeatism on Reddit among men has went too far. It is ridiculous.Thats literally the opposite of what i said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/17 11:05 AM |
| 2 | The defeatism on Reddit among men has went too far. It is ridiculous.I never specidied gender or sex. and infact stated in a later comment that that was intentional due to the fact of what you just said. It works both ways, plenty of 9 women get stuck with 5-6 men, and told they are lucky, cause he guy is a 8 in attractiveness and she is a 3. When she deserves better. People who are a 10 in looks, and a 2 in everything else have an unfair advantage when it comes to finding partners, regardless of other shortcomings. And people who are a 2-3 in outward attractiven… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/17 11:04 AM |
| 1 | The defeatism on Reddit among men has went too far. It is ridiculous.honest and loyal are literally the two most sought after quality's in most mature people looking for a relationship, behind only the No1 being sense of humour. They are very much attractive quality's, however as you said. You cant know that about someone after a while, so when it comes to picking up those quality's are effectively pointless. Thats the issue. Redeeming qualitys take time to surface and demonstrate so the dating game is very much rigged in favour of people who have surface level q… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/17 02:31 AM |
| 1 | The defeatism on Reddit among men has went too far. It is ridiculous.I ment its ironic that a group of people who are supposedly virgins are all jerking each other off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/17 02:18 AM |
| 3 | The defeatism on Reddit among men has went too far. It is ridiculous.That's assuming that unattractive men are kind and loyal, but unattractive women are not. Actually i didnt specify gender or sex for that very reason. It works both ways. There are plenty of women who by all means are solid 7s or 8s but get passed up, or treated poorly. Or set up with/ told that they should go for men that honestly shouldnt be aiming for them considering their value. If an unattractive guy feels like he's too good for unattractive women... The issue is with the linking of attrac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/17 02:16 AM |
| 1 | The defeatism on Reddit among men has went too far. It is ridiculous.ironic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/17 01:29 AM |
| 5 | The defeatism on Reddit among men has went too far. It is ridiculous.Thats what they complain about mostly. Being told ''You only deserve the bottom of the barrel'' Is insulting to anyone who has any sense of self respect. You can be kind, honest, loyal, and any number of great quality's and yet a night out on the town will only net you fat or just low class partners due to the nature of your great quality's. And then when you point this out you are told ''No thats what you deserve'' There are people out there who if all info was on the table would score as solid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/17 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: What age did you lose your virginity? How do you feel this effected your confidence/success with women?The acne had more of a effect on my back, the cyst n stuff stopped me wearing shirts or inviting women home cause no one really wnts to sleep in a puddle of pus. The thing the acne did to fuck my face was the acutane, it dried my already damaged eye out even further, so the skin is basicly ruined now. As well as having the socket broken multiple times as a kid. Surgery to fix it is an option but meh. I dont really like the idea of looking in the mirror and seeing a face that isnt mine. Also i do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What age did you lose your virginity? How do you feel this effected your confidence/success with women?Im at a point in my life where im comfortable with both. As far as my looks go i have severe scaring on my face and torso. The most cosmetic damage being around my eye. A mixture of cystic acne, eczema, reeealy shitty sleep, childhood abuse, and the most recent course of isotretinoin making the dryness worse. Has all combined to make a large part of my faces skin so damaged i look like ive had a stroke. When it was at its worst i did resort to wearing an eyepatch that my GP recommended. Rather t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: What age did you lose your virginity? How do you feel this effected your confidence/success with women?Yeah im aware, i literally have half a face. You dont have to explain this shit to me ive done it. But i dont have an ''ugly personality'' im nice, im one of the nicest men people meet after they get to know me, and i have sex on a regular basis with girls n women i never thought would look at me twice Cause i made a point not to be that cunt who sits around moping cause shit isnt easy or that ''statistically there is no reason for anyone to like me so why bother'' Or that ''thats just the way t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What age did you lose your virginity? How do you feel this effected your confidence/success with women?basically, become a different person A different version of yourself doesn't have to be a ''new you'', you said yourself you arent happy with shit as it is. So why you would hold onto that version of yourself would be what constitutes one of those bad habbits. So one of those ''better'' habbits would be to be less uptight and resistant to change. You sound the same as 1000s of other people that get into that slump. Im just saying you dont have to bed that guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What age did you lose your virginity? How do you feel this effected your confidence/success with women?Motivation isnt what changes most people. Lots of people are motivated enough to go to the gym, very few have the discipline to keep going. So you can ignore the lack of motivation and just work on discipline :) Just be miserable while forcing yourself to form better habits. going to the gym and maintaining a couple of asocial hobbies You are going to the gym, but you aren't making progress are you, and your hobbies aren't really going anywhere are they? So spend your time better, form better ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: What age did you lose your virginity? How do you feel this effected your confidence/success with women?as lazy and asocial as me. You make it sound like you would like a change though. Im all for letting whoever do whatever they like, but you don't come across as happy with the choice, you sound defeated. Maybe you are defeated, but doesn't have to stay that way if you are motivated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: What age did you lose your virginity? How do you feel this effected your confidence/success with women?Being open to the idea that someone might fuck you eventually takes less effort than the negative ''i quit'' attitude. Chin up dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: What age did you lose your virginity? How do you feel this effected your confidence/success with women?13-14 yeah im happy, and im old enough now that i can look bad at shit sex and learn and have had enough good times to counter act the bad ones. Fuck no, Put me off of women for a long time. The way i went about it, the way i was treated after, the way it effected my freindships. Had a really unhealthy relationship with women after that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 07:34 AM |
| 1 | N-CountThanks i do my best :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/17 10:22 PM |
| 3 | N-CountCool well in that case my N-count = Men in white coats furiously scribbling down notes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/17 07:56 PM |
| 4 | N-CountWell fuck... i have a history with BDSM so what counts as a "sexual partner'' is vague as fuck. I once made a girl cum buy rigging her to a wooden cross and shouting at her, How many N points does that net me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/17 07:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Legalized prostitutes are not victims, they are making some of the top salaries in their areas.The question is aimed at Legalized prostitutes so most of them But this fact still rings true for alot of moden day prostitutes. Plenty of girls out there selling themselves online without walking the streets making more than most anyone else could hope too for what is essentially 5 hour work weeks. Women on Adultwork.com and escort agencys dont may start off poor and worse off, however thats not true after a few months. Outside of people with crippling addictions and just flat out poor money sk… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/17 07:48 PM |
| 1 | N-CountIma just out myself as ignorant here. But i don't know what ''N-Count'' actually means. Like i get its something to do with the amount of sex you've had. But like, what does the N stand for? is it how many people or how many times? Does sex i didnt enjoy or regretted afterwards count? what about times i turned down sex? do i get half a point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/17 07:41 PM |
| 1 | why is r/incel wrong?inexperienced, desperate for affection, introverted clingy guys who tend to be younger. So get better. Improve, grow, live a life. Dont opt to stay weak on the basis that love might hurt. This throw your toys out the pram style of ''I dont wanna play no more'' isnt a long term fix and men owe it to themselves to get up and try again. Also the stress inventory isnt a gauge on what hurts the most. Its a gauge to show what is more likely to induce a life change or stress induced breakdown. Loneline… | /r/MGTOW | 02/07/17 04:04 PM |
| 1 | why is r/incel wrong?Yo, points for using psychosomatically In a sentence. Work that lexicon. | /r/MGTOW | 02/07/17 05:17 AM |
| 1 | why is r/incel wrong?Sorry but as an adult human im just going to say you are full of shit. family member died because that is how you will feel when your relationship ends. Nope, just no dude. Ive been broken up with, ive broken up with others and ive had the full spectrum of ''mutual parting of ways'' to full on ww3 messy. You get over it, and the emotional pain of a break up hurts, but its worth it. You grow and shit you know? Love sometimes dosent last forever and that sucks im not about to dehuminize every fema… | /r/MGTOW | 02/07/17 05:13 AM |
| 1 | why is r/incel wrong?lay down and rot aspect This is typicaly why i dont defend adult virgins when they go off on their tyrades. Its not only that they have chosen to be that way, that REFUSE to even try sex. The effort necessary to get some action is minimal to the vast majority of humans and they refuse to acknolage this on the basis that they would rather lay down and quit and whine then try to play a game they dont like. I dont have an issue with incells or mgtow's dudes doing their own thing and playing their o… | /r/MGTOW | 02/07/17 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Is altruism/selflessness sexy?i always found it had more to do with perception. Ive had girls give me possitve reations for verbily navigating situations like that. However ive seen other guys try to do the same thing and the girls berate him for it. The difference being what side the girl was on, if the man was defusing a situation vs ''her man'' he was a pussy trying to back out of it that could stand up for himself, However if it was me defusing the same situation in reverse i get commended for being ''cool headed and in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/17 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Is altruism/selflessness sexy?Id say that Niceness to avid confrontation is unsexy Depends wholly on the womens previous view of you, i cant defuse situations to stop confrontations and it not count against me cause in her head ''he would of won if it had of come to that'' women like to put men they like on pedistals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/17 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Is altruism/selflessness sexy?The highest success rate ive had with getting a girls number and meeting her afterwards has always happened imidiately after she has witnessed me being nice. Eg: taking care of an elderly person, being kind to a wandering kid, helping a drunk freind. Being kind is high on most womens list of things they want in a guy, however being the dude who gets called at 4am to do a drive around to pick her up, isnt sexy. Once you commodify your kindness it stops being sexy and sets you up to be used. Outwa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/17 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP Explain how RP is immoral.Dread: making someone insecure to make them more receptive to your sexual advances is immoral. Agreed. I disagree with this. Cunty, mean and manipulative yes, immoral? no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/17 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: What Are Women Supposed To DoNot directly no. However i do think that communication skills when it comes to sex are an important enough life skill that that should be taught. To many people have been physiologically fucked up by sex, when it all could of been avoid by just one conversation. As well as with the advent of the internet and free extreme porn for all, there NEEDS to be debunking lessons around. Boys are clueless and being abused for it, as well as girls growing up confused cause sex isnt like that for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/17 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What Are Women Supposed To DoThe fuck i was expecting some guru shit, what is this teen pamphlet handout bullshit. Cutt your nails, dont be basic, and always remember that each pussy is different you gotta start fresh with each one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/17 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What Are Women Supposed To DoI worked that one out a while back, as well as the fact that some women do. Everyone likes different stuff. The only hard rule ive found with sex is that everyone is different and everyone has their own rules that you need to learn. it never occurred to you women arent reverse men who dont like things jammed down their throats? Most guys do think to themselves .''she cant really enjoy that'' however they are repeatedly told by women faking it that they do like it, So what are men supposed to do?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/17 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What Are Women Supposed To DoMost young men have a warped sense of '' authentic female enjoyment.'' Its already been stated that most women such when it comes to communicating what they do and dont like in bed. So that dosnt help the issue either. Men 13 to 23 grow up watching porn, having sex with girls who dont know how to communicate and then are expected to have a clue as to what '' authentic female enjoyment.'' looks like. Go look, find a source, find anything out their in the public that would give a young man a good … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/17 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What Are Women Supposed To DoCause men don't want fake. They will take fake when its all thats on the table or in most cases they cant tell the difference, but all men want the real thing. Men don't want sex with a women that isn't enjoying herself and is just faking it. Your point of ''men deep down dont care'' is false. Cause men do care if the women is enjoying it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/17 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What Are Women Supposed To Domy lesbian friends lectures rarely steer off of the topic of why women comedians suck, and why gay men are ruining clubbing. Last thing they wanna talk about with me is their sex life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/17 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What Are Women Supposed To DoBut women do get off during sex. The fact that men miss-associate their sexual success with their cocks is irrelevant to the point. Like you say, it is often younger guys that do this, before they are actualy clued into what is causing the pleasure. Women dont help this either, plenty of younger girls simply go down the ''your cocks so big, your cock feels so good'' easy way out when it comes to ego boosting their partner and when mad jumping on the ''Your cock is so small it felt bad'' when try… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/17 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What Are Women Supposed To DoWhat do you think men use to please women? Their dick. If i was wondering how best to put up a shelve, i'd look at my hammer. That and the burden of sexual performance is typically place 100% on the males shoulders. If the sex is bad its the mans fault for doing it wrong and he is made to feel inadequate. There is a much bigger culture of ''Your cock isnt big/thick/long enough'' than the female equivalent. You cant shame a women for a shallow pussy, but can shame a man for having a small cock. N… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/17 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Q4RP: What Are Women Supposed To DoLiterally explained that in the comment. So i dunno, read it again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/17 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What Are Women Supposed To DoAnd what men jerk off too and what they like in bed are two very different things. Even men into BDSM and shit are constantly thinking ''am i doing this right?, is she liking this? should i keep going or swap?'' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/17 01:34 AM |
| 3 | Q4RP: What Are Women Supposed To DoMost men at some stage in their lives care about their dicks, normally thinking along the lines of ''is it good enough'' Like men feeling inadequate about their sexual performance skills is basicly a cliche at this point, so the idea that men dont care about a womens pleasure during sex is stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/17 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What Are Women Supposed To Doit just isnt a factor Yes it is. For most men. Be it for different reasons, ranging from you're own ego about performance or some form of altruism. Obviously there are extreme cases where its not the case, but those are just that, extreme cases that really shouldnt be taken into account when making sweeping generalisations about ''what men want and enjoy'' If i have sex with a women, i have that little voice in the back of my head telling me she is going to go tell her friends about how good/bad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/17 11:47 PM |
| 7 | Q4RP: What Are Women Supposed To DoHell the best argument i could put out on this subject would be the fact that the best sex workers, being those ones who are the highest paid get the most clients, are ones who are selling that ego boost experience GFE PSE MLE rather than just taking a wad of cash to put out. Men in general want to pleasure women, fuck why else would we all be so obsessed over our cock sizes. The idea that ''My dick isnt enough to pleasure a women'' has driven some men as far as suicide so i find the whole conce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/17 10:17 PM |
| 8 | Q4RP: What Are Women Supposed To Doima 2nd this. Women suck at telling men what they want in bed. Everyone can google top 1000 tips on how to give a good blow job, cause there is few things men would rather talk about than how you can go about sucking their cocks. However eating pussy to a good standard remains a mythic slept on secret only few men lucky enough to snag the right LTR, are privy too. Women get advice on how to suck a cock from a boyfreind then at bacholete partys all share the info, however i find that even when wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/17 09:24 PM |
| 3 | Q4RP: What Are Women Supposed To DoWhat Are Women Supposed To Do Whatever they want. Cause you know, they are people too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/17 09:14 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Will you support a beta sexodus to robots?i cant afford a sex bot either way so fuckit i dont care either haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/17 07:55 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Will you support a beta sexodus to robots?Meh its the same thing. In the same way there is no such thing as an issue with male masturbation, there is no rape culture. In that, both those things are true outside of the obvious extremes that are held up as examples by the people against those thing. In extreme places ''rape culture'' is a thing, and in extreme cases those sex bots will ruin some lives. However history shows that things tend to lead to what things do for the majority rather than the loud minority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/17 07:50 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Will you support a beta sexodus to robots?If they do, it will really harm progress imo. Only as much as the people who are against male sex toys, videogames, hair and beauty related hobbies n jobs. The ''Real men dont do this'' camp will always be a thing, but theres really no progress left to be made on the 'mens rights' front when it comes to what they can go out and enjoy. You always ''will'' be able to do something, its just how comfortable you are with a few immature snickers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/17 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Are girls who fall for PUA techniques naive? Or are red pillers just smart?Not my thing, never been one to get pissed to the point where im regreting shit the next day. However did google ''wyborowa'' and its cheaper than i expected, (thought you was on about some hoity toity shit) I'll give it a go next time vodka is on the cards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/17 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Are girls who fall for PUA techniques naive? Or are red pillers just smart?not that much of a nonce when it comes to drinks tbh, Smirnoff taste just fine to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/17 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Are girls who fall for PUA techniques naive? Or are red pillers just smart?...I wasnt using a metaphor. Like i legit like the taste of vodka, i didnt know about the water taste thing, i just thought all vodka taste like vodka. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/17 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Are girls who fall for PUA techniques naive? Or are red pillers just smart?I like stealing this line, cause its so on the nose for this issue. ''Women get to be horny, Men HAVE to be, Women are a tourist when its comes to sexual perversion, I am a prisoner here.'' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/17 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Are girls who fall for PUA techniques naive? Or are red pillers just smart?but i like how vodka taste? should i not buy ''good vodka''? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/17 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Would women be attracted to men if all men are equal?i think its more a case if men where in a sea of 10s, they would eventually start looking for 11s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/17 03:37 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Will you support a beta sexodus to robots?while you are right in that those women will defo be a thing. Im pretty sure it will be a loud minority, Not the consensus. There already is a bit of a stigma around mens sex toys, so a little ''ew, he does what with what?'' is bound to be expected. But the majority of women wont really give a shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/17 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Sexual strategy is amoral... so why does TRP teach game?still counts. Altruism dosnt really have a fixed definition its somewhat subjective depending on what you are defining. For example some people (philosopher Immanuel Kant if you fancy a google) would suggest that there is no such thing as an unselfish act, and thus all Altruism is an illusion. Whereas Zoooligist would call pretty much any act that an animal dose that isnt directly selfish and helps another ''altruistic'' Dolphins and monkeys and otters have a tonne of papers written about them a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/17 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Sexual strategy is amoral... so why does TRP teach game?Time and emotional investment are offten site as the ''expense'' Monkeys dont have to pick at each other, but put the time and effort in. Wether or not that expense is rewarded (most altruism is, see humans and other such domesticated animals) is irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/17 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Since women are looking for commitment not sex, if I advertise myself as a guy offering commitment, will I get a girlfriend?Sorta, Displaying your intent is pretty much what i use as the first line when it comes to picking up women. You need to let them know from your first interaction what you want, be it sex, friendship or a relationship. Or you just arent going to get anywhere. I'd advise against, ''advertising yourself'' and make it more of a ''acticly seeking'' type of gig if you genuinely want some success, otherwise you might just find yourself sitting around being passed up for guys who went out n put the foo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/17 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Broken Sexually2 The woman who believes the only thing she has to offer a relationship or man is her beauty and sexuality. She basically is boring in every other aspect of her relationship but considers her beauty and her sexuality to be God's gift to man and she doesn't need to offer anything else. Sex with her becomes the main focus of the relationship and she knowingly or unknowingly puts pressure on the man to out perform himself every time they are together. Every encounter is the Super Bowl. Ive only had… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/17 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Sexual strategy is amoral... so why does TRP teach game?it is as much as bug picking would be. The question is ''so why does TRP teach game?'' and the answer is probably altruism due to most mens innate human empathy. Or you know, kantianism is a thing if you are into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/17 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Sexual strategy is amoral... so why does TRP teach game?that's literally the definition of altruism? ''behaviour of an animal that benefits another at its own expense.'' In the case of the monkeys, time spent bug picking. In the case of reddit n such, time spent writing all this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/17 12:42 PM |
| 9 | Men Legally Allowed to Finish Sex Even If Woman Revokes Consent, NC Law States''sudden unexpected anal'' tends to lead to most people revoking consent real quick. Don't fuck em if youre nit sure. Don't eat that if you arent sure you'll like it. Dont go their if you're not sure you will enjoy the place Don't talk to that person if you are not sure they are cool. People try stuff out to see if they like it or not, and make mistakes sometimes, its perfectly reasonable to get up and say ''You know what, this isnt my cup of tea'' Take BDSM and safewords for a more literal exam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/17 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Sexual strategy is amoral... so why does TRP teach game?its still altruism Just cause something isnt derectly intended to be a ''nice athing to make us feel good'' Dosnt mean its not altruism. Monkeys picking out bugs from each other being a good example. They pick bugs cause, woo free bugs plus its sorta relaxing. But is still an altruistic action. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/17 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Why is everyone here obsessed with intercourse? Let's debate emotional attachment and consequences.sluts and fuck boys (neither exist btw) They do. As much as any descriptor of someone does. Everyone has their own definitions of both and varying degrees on the connotations . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/17 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Insights from Hollywood Men male strippers:O Woah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/17 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Insights from Hollywood Men male strippersWas that a haiku? Im pretty sure you stole that from a poem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/17 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Insights from Hollywood Men male strippersI mean im strong and masculine, i'm just not equipped for big term investments in the emotional department at the moment. Like shit, i was being flippant and you come at me. To be real id recommend buying a dog over KFC, less expensive in the long run , less mess and they kinda force you to get outside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/17 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Insights from Hollywood Men male strippersIm a straight guy so no. find a man to be your rock Is a bit more homoerotic than im willing to get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/17 01:27 AM |
| 3 | Insights from Hollywood Men male strippersFuck you feelings are scary. KFC delivers now so its dulling the pain tbh. With fried chicken on call i might be stable enough for a LTR who knows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 04:23 AM |
| 4 | With so many single / unhappy people on PPD of both sexes why don't y'all date eachother?Did you just say free beer? Urm yeah, im totally a shut in man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 11:47 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Women are most attracted to physical qualities that CANNOT be changed.Why did you have to come barging in and bringing up your scarring as an issue ? I just felt the need to throw my story into the mix considering the subject here. Obviously women like men with good looks, but as ive demonstrated you can be straight up disfigured and still out perform others with personality and abusing situations. While yes, the physical attributes women like are stuff men can really change, its not that big a deal cause women can look past those attributes much easier than men c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 10:03 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Women are most attracted to physical qualities that CANNOT be changed.a pretty boy route, or a nerdy cool guy route. It's not going to be a hinderance going a masculine "risk taker" route. That would all be well and good should you live in a 90s sit-com However i live in london in 2017 so this isnt the case. You seem to have got the wrong impression firstly. I have no issue getting women. My scaring plays a role sure, but im not that bothered by the few that scamper off. As for The cookies and kids things won't. You are just objectively wrong there, im 27 and if i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 09:32 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Women are most attracted to physical qualities that CANNOT be changed.Just gunna call this advice bullshit for anyone with the same issue as me. If you wanna date danny zuko then sure, grab a leather jacket and buy a pack of cigarettes. But unless you are dating 14 year olds with a type or are in the movie grease I dont recommend Buy a motorbike, get some tats, buy a big bag of drugs and become a badass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 08:59 PM |
| 1 | How much does someone's voice factor into their attractiveness?Depending on what ive drunk and what time of day it is i sound like barry white or spongebob | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 11:54 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] Women are most attracted to physical qualities that CANNOT be changed.My face is scarred up and im British, so i basically look like a bond villain. However i can crack you up with jokes and bake brownies, and im good with kids. So im basically a 10/10 in attractiveness. Please form an orderly queue lady's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Bro jobs - straight men who have sex with other menFor the straight woman who only licks one pussy per year, i suggest postmodern straight with bisexual tendencies Heteroflexible i think is the word used in those situations. Also postmodern? you know women have been enjoying pussy for like all of time not just in that era. If you only like the same sex that you are, you're gay. If you like both you're bi, and if you like the opposite sex you are straight. Its simply not that black and white, there are people who perform the same sexual acts and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Bro jobs - straight men who have sex with other menMurder one person however, and you are no longer considered a good person. You can kill someone and be a good person, but thats a whole diferent argument. Its not the same, being a murderer is a definition of something you have done, being gay is a definition of who you are. Consider a boy who was sexually abused as a teen, and uses being homosexual as a coping mechanism to deal with the trauma of what he went through. You could say these people are no longer 100% straight and have had their sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Bro jobs - straight men who have sex with other menYeah, tends to only be an issue for peoples self descriptions of themselves. People who are particulary repressed (homophopic or religous backrounds n stuff) have a huge issue here, cause they feel they ''might be something'' but have no way to confirm and basically have to live in that grey area. You get this issue alot in Iran, where gay men dont know what gay even is, have no way of checking in a safe way, and are forced into sexual reassignment surgery when they cant work it out n other such… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Bro jobs - straight men who have sex with other menjust waffling at this point tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Bro jobs - straight men who have sex with other menNot all men know that they are 100% straight. Not every gets a clear line draw for them as they are growing up, people get abused, life happens. Fact of the matter is, you dont get to choose your sexuality and that ''100% straightness'' can be effectively robbed from you from external sources. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/17 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Are you ugly?I'd hesitate to call myself ugly. I dont have any issues with how i look personally and i think quite highly of myself. However, i know for a fact people and women are disturbed by my appearance, i have quite severe scaring, both on my torso and quite badly on my face. A big give away on how females view how i look is that my sisters and mom (i have two sisters) have set me up on blind dates with women who have learning disability's or are mentally ill in some regard. This was a big wake up call… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/17 07:37 AM |
| 3 | Bro jobs - straight men who have sex with other menby default into which gender Sexuality they are Ftfy, gender is referring to whether or not a person is a boy or a chick (or something in between if you are that way inclined). Sexuality is what you mean, meaning what the person is sexually attracted too. And i yeah, for the most part i agree. But what im talking about is in that small percentage of people left out of the people usually know Some straight people don't know 100%, some examples being people who where sexually abused and didnt get … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/17 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Bro jobs - straight men who have sex with other menThe issue rest with the fact that people refer to ''bi-curious'' as a sexuality. Like i can be curious about food, try locust in thailand, eat a bowl and say, ''well fuck doing that ever again'' and go back about my day, nothing changed. However dick? try it once, like it or not and you have that badge on your chest. There is no path back from bi-curious back to being straight. You dont get to try cock a bit and then decide you dont like it without being marked as ''A bit on the Bi side'' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/17 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Bro jobs - straight men who have sex with other menYeah, its pretty much a gender natural ''Once you've tried dick you are tainted'' It goes all the way back to rome, where homosexuality wasn't as much of a social thing, however the concept of ''whoever takes the dick was the inferior party'' was still very much in effect. Women or man, you can drown in pussy for a lifetime, But dont take that dick, lest you be willing to lose a part of yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/17 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP: Would you be with a man who used prostitutes before?Yeah its a handicap. Hence why i dont say ''be honest all the time'' If you just wanna fuck by all means lie away, tell her you got a 10 inch cock that shoots M&Ms for all i care. But for long term shit, with someone you GENUINELY like, its going to fester. Cause you will know that you are effectively lying to that person about yourself and that takes its toll on your pride, you can do that for a few years but it will start to manifest bullshit subconsciously. We all know the cliche of the close… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/17 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP: Would you be with a man who used prostitutes before?If you have to lie to a girl about a fundamental part of who you are in order for her to like you. Or to word it differently, If you being honest about who you are as a person and the stuff you like would cause the girl to be disgusted or turned off by you. Then shes not for you. Im down with lying if you are just on about getting some short term shit going, but for LTR or anything serious. Be fucking honest about your sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/17 08:46 PM |
| 4 | Bro jobs - straight men who have sex with other menYou can be married for 40 years, sleep with 100 women and love it, have kids a family and so on. Suck one dick however, and you're no longer considered straight. Its an unfortunate phenomenon that comes from gay and BDSM cultures being on the outside of the norm. Its easy to leave the norm and join the outsiders, however going from the outside back in is basically impossible. Theres a reason why you dont see gay people turn around and go ''I was straight all along and was lying to myself'' that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/17 08:39 PM |
| 9 | Bro jobs - straight men who have sex with other menThis is false on some cases. Sexual arousal isnt always clear, and can come from sources outside of what sex the other person might be. As well as physiological conditioning being able to ''trick''' you into liking things you might not have otherwise. stockholm syndrome being an extreme case of this. The most obvious case being rape victims achieving orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/17 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Women, how often are often you flirted to by text by guys, especially by guys out of the blue? Men, how often are you flirted to by text by women?Outside of bootycalls that have already been set up. Literally never. Not once had a female who i haven't already been intimate with attempt to flirt via any medium. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/17 04:05 PM |
| 1 | With so many modern/strong/intelligent women in my life, is it possible for me to accept TRP even if I genuinely wanted to?Ima say no. You cant accept Red pill 100% as a rational human. Its by nature to extreme a view point to be functionaly workable I have a mom whos a legend two older sisters and three beast nieces. Where i can see female flaws, i cant get around the fact that these women in my life are amazing despite the inherent bullshit they have picked up being women. Thus i cant really turn around and demonise women behaviour the way alot of other RP dudes do. If my moms out getting sex from one dude while s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/17 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe TRP should be banned?Well yeah, most of anything isnt extreme. But like the idea that an extreme BP is literally just the caricature that's thrown around is sorta dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/17 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe TRP should be banned?ffs, is there any version of BP that dosnt end up with cuckolding or them just sucking cocks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/17 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe TRP should be banned?Wtf is poly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/17 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe TRP should be banned?I kinda want BP/RP to become like a cult tbh. I wanna read that bible, like what does an extremist BPer do to get laid? other than just sit at home with his fingers crossed. We already know what extreme RPers do. I wanna see the flip. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/17 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe TRP should be banned?Like a literal BP handbook. Would be an interesting read. Like imagine if TRP wrote a guide book. The opposite of that. But not an Anti-RP thing, just an opposite viewpoint kinda thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/17 02:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The easiest way for men (or women!) to get hotter is to lift and eat rightlook amazing when the shirt comes off. See this is where i think ive lost everyone. Im straight up ignoring the outliers here. 90% of people dont look ''amazing'' simply due to muscles n gym time. Complexion their face Height height again cause fuck their nails their teeth their breath sweatyness And to finsh off, the point i was putting out their level of dress Are all things that can be deal breakers regardless of your 22 inch pythons Im not suggesting that a fitter guy isnt better off than a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/17 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe TRP should be banned?Urgh, thats what i thought. Thats far less fun/interesting than what i was hoping for, where was more a darkside/jediside type deal going on. With purple being in the middle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/17 02:28 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The easiest way for men (or women!) to get hotter is to lift and eat rightMy incorrect correct has been corrected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/17 02:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The easiest way for men (or women!) to get hotter is to lift and eat rightObviously you can throw extremes on either end to prove whatever point you wanna make. Like you posted a picture of a model... like the man is literally so far in the upper percentile of human attractiveness that he does it for a living. The point im making is for the 90% of dudes. Not only that, that guys face does more for women than his arms do. Kinda throwing the whole ''you can wear whatever if you have muscles'' under the bus again. Average body guy, in stylish, not cheap, well taken care … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/17 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe TRP should be banned?I mean ideally id like to go read up on BP stuff in the same way i can go read up on RP stuff. Unfortunately all google gives me on blue pill stuff is viagra As for specific examples . Ive seen it said that using tried, tested and practiced strategys to pick up women is a predatory and immoral practice. But other than just being told ''thats wrong'' no counter point was made as to what other option there would be. What would the BP alternative be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/17 01:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The easiest way for men (or women!) to get hotter is to lift and eat rightThat's just functionally incorrect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/17 12:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The easiest way for men (or women!) to get hotter is to lift and eat rightPretty much any sane women in her late 20s early 30s takes their partners fanatical background into account, even subconsciously. They dont have to be after money in some money grubbing sense to respond positively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/17 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe TRP should be banned?So where are the the BP counter points then... Like ive never heard anything from the BP side of it at all other than Anti red pill stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/17 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe TRP should be banned?The blue pill And Blue pill Are different things... No cant say that makes a lick of sense tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/17 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe TRP should be banned?Ive just never heard the BP side of view, all i can find is counter arguments to red pill stuff with no real alternatives | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/17 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe TRP should be banned?Isn't TBP not actually a thing of itself and just an Anti red pill thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/17 03:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The easiest way for men (or women!) to get hotter is to lift and eat rightMy point is more that the set of clothes will get more mileage then the muscles. I don't think crocks are going to turn women off. It might be cause i live in a somewhat metro area, but women and men can clock a 3 dollar T-shirt from a mile off. That type of cheap shit gives off a very ''oh look his mom dressed him'' vibe, that tends to dry up pussys faster that a sex starved sandblaster Obviously you can throw extremes on either end to prove whatever point you wanna make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/17 03:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The easiest way for men (or women!) to get hotter is to lift and eat rightThats the night time safe look, so its a go too for pretty much anyone on a night out to a pub/club. Or just heading out in general. The look used to be a preppy one, but has trickled down into the working class. So now its literally just a case of the same outfits with different price tags. Obviously if you're headed to your weekly DnD meetup people are going to dress different but those people are out to hook up either. Men dressing outside of that majority have to servery compensate for havin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/17 11:53 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The easiest way for men (or women!) to get hotter is to lift and eat rightFor 18-23 years olds in london it sure is. The ralph polo The fred perry shoe cotton bomber. dark slim fit jean to go with brighter shirts. Blue jean inoffensive short back n sides your dads watch you cant afford but got for xmas Basically you start at joey essex/Steven bear and tone it down to be as inoffensive as possible. Mens clothing isnt only limited, its borderline regimented | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/17 11:16 AM |
| 4 | CMV: The easiest way for men (or women!) to get hotter is to lift and eat rightcalling bullshit. Women respond to ''well dressed'' men far better than they do men with nice bodys. The 6 pack in cargo shorts n crocks wont get nothing stood next to the man with the ironed shirt, pants and shoes that look more expensive than your fist car. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/17 10:17 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The easiest way for men (or women!) to get hotter is to lift and eat right''dressing right'' is basically a uniform at this point. Even down to the haircut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/17 10:15 AM |
| 1 | N count of 7 is "bad" compared to what?For some people sure. There is a reason things like NoFap came around. But men have been looking at sexy things and tugging themselves off to it since the beginning of time, internet porn is just the newest form of that. Before this it was that stash of german VHS's, before that it was a stack of naughty magazines. Fuck even the first cave paintings where of big boobs. Most men do just fine and manage to occasionally indulge in porn, but not all are so lucky to have that self control. Alot like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/17 12:56 PM |
| 1 | N count of 7 is "bad" compared to what?You know you can buy testosterone and give it a go for a while This shits built in, not only have our brains formed around the idea of ''can i eat it? fuck it? kill it?'' We basicly spend the later half of pubity swimming in hornyness hormones and get ZERO support for it other then beating each other senseless. We're told that wanking makes you a loser and everything you're feeling makes you gay. And the only way to counter any of this negativity is to fuck as many girls as possible. And then yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/17 10:39 AM |
| 1 | N count of 7 is "bad" compared to what?pirates - and before that the Vikings. God knows how much pussy they got. Its almost like rapist with guns n axes get laid more. Weird that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/17 10:36 AM |
| 1 | N count of 7 is "bad" compared to what?less STD's thats for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/17 10:35 AM |
| 1 | N count of 7 is "bad" compared to what?i'm my experience men who complain that 5-7ish is low are people who either arent having sex or have never had sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/17 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Rate 1-10 the following women based on how much you think men will like themSo you don't know for sure and are just reallly confident in what you've googled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/17 10:26 AM |
| 3 | Q4Women: Women of PPD, how often do you see a male FACE that stuns you? And what for you is the male equivalent of boobs?steals bones I'm doing my best kay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/17 10:13 AM |
| 3 | Q4Women: Women of PPD, how often do you see a male FACE that stuns you? And what for you is the male equivalent of boobs?...i forgot my name, and didn't realise i had made a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/17 10:11 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Rate 1-10 the following women based on how much you think men will like themit would if there was a shadow... Like i get what you are saying, but she could of just stood their because the light highlighted her that way. Or it could be shopped, im not an expert. Either way, neither of us know 100%. Unshopped shes like a 6, shopped shes a 0 . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/17 10:10 AM |
| 2 | Q4Women: Women of PPD, how often do you see a male FACE that stuns you? And what for you is the male equivalent of boobs?Oh sweet, il just go change my bones then... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/17 10:03 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Rate 1-10 the following women based on how much you think men will like themMost likely because of two separate light sources, meaning two different pictures. you know light can come from more than one place right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/17 09:56 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Rate 1-10 the following women based on how much you think men will like themthis is so true, legit the first thing i thought look at 2. Whos propping up that A cup for this pic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/17 09:53 AM |
| 8 | In the near futureits literally the oldest market in human history | /r/MGTOW | 30/05/17 03:09 PM |
| 3 | when you talk about "men getting laid easily", do you mean without going out, approaching trying and playing the numbers game?The idea of a ''day approach'' being anything other than opportunistic is silly for the average guy. Most guys are at work and that cheeky bit of flirting with your lunchtime barista dossnt count Going out twice a week again, isnt that far out the norm unless its constant. Friday Saturday binges are a regular thing, and 6-10 is fairy standard in terms of amount of intentfull approach on those nights. However going out every weekend for 6 months straight with the sole intent of picking up is lean… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/17 11:01 AM |
| 2 | when you talk about "men getting laid easily", do you mean without going out, approaching trying and playing the numbers game?I agree, this is why il always make a point to talk shit on people ''playing the numbers game'' It makes sense statistically sure, but logistically its a ridiculous concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/17 10:24 AM |
| 2 | when you talk about "men getting laid easily", do you mean without going out, approaching trying and playing the numbers game?When i say getting it down to one approach im talking about an approach that is explicitly you trying to pick them up, not just you out n about enjoying your evening. The guy who can accurately identify a target, then go and pick her up. Is an outlier for sure. Most guys are around the 6-10 id guess. And most arent trying to become that pick up expert that only needs 1-3 attempts to secure a shag. Of the guys ive seen that are like that there's two types. The guy who is as you described, just ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/17 04:58 AM |
| 1 | when you talk about "men getting laid easily", do you mean without going out, approaching trying and playing the numbers game?Im 26 now and ive been chatting to girls since i was around 13-14. And i'd fully recommend the advice ''just get out there and chat to as many as possible'' To a 13-18 year old just getting started. The whole thing about 100, is that the social skills you lacked that made it the best option, disappear within the first week. Week 2 you are cutting it down to 30, then down to around 10 (witch is where id say the average guy starts) Then as you get clued up that number drops to 1 a week if you happ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/17 04:17 AM |
| 3 | when you talk about "men getting laid easily", do you mean without going out, approaching trying and playing the numbers game?Like for the average guy, his social skills aren't that great I think this is a big misconception on reddit to be honest. The average guys social skills are average, because he is average. What more effort can he possibly put into it? well by not without even thinking it over First of just logistically, jumping from one girls side to the next gets you noticed. In a club or bar this is apparent and any guy whos done this has heard the good'ol line ''Urm wasn't you just talking to her?'' Which alr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/17 03:47 AM |
| 1 | when you talk about "men getting laid easily", do you mean without going out, approaching trying and playing the numbers game?meeting lots of people is more congruent with a casual frame, spending lots of time on particular approaches is more congruent with a relationship-seeking frame This is gibberish to me. lots of guys have little experience picking up and are still at that point where they need practice Going out and talking to tones of girls is fine if you need practice. But assuming that you are ''one of those guys'' the idea that any plan would work in such a way as to get you just as much success as someone wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/17 06:07 PM |
| 1 | when you talk about "men getting laid easily", do you mean without going out, approaching trying and playing the numbers game?Yeah but you cant compare someone learning, and someone making attempts. If i wanted to learn to shoot targets, yeah sure i want all day and 1000s of shots to practice. But if my goal was to hit the targets, taking my time with it and taking into account all the variables, 10 would yield better results. Its not a case of an idiot with a mini-gun firing blindly and a sharpshooter with a pistol. Its two people with pistols one just has more ammo and the other is more focused. The guy who fires bli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/17 05:41 PM |
| 0 | when you talk about "men getting laid easily", do you mean without going out, approaching trying and playing the numbers game?Not only that, people missunderstand ''the numbers game'' alot of the time and assume that its just about sheer mass of numbers. Its been proven quite a few times that targeting a small group and making your approach specific yields far greater success and quality than just casting the largest net possible. Realistically someone who hits on 100 people a week would have far less success in both terms of quality and quantity, than someone putting that same effort into 5. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/17 05:10 PM |
| 2 | What does a typical single man's sex life look like? An analysis''How many people have you slept with?'' Is legit the question women want to know most about you before getting involved. So it comes up fairly often | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/17 03:44 PM |
| 7 | when you talk about "men getting laid easily", do you mean without going out, approaching trying and playing the numbers game?the sheer logistics of 100 approaches a week is effort just to try n imagine. So like 7 days a week, 10+ girls a night. Its not like you could keep going to the same places too, otherwise you'll get a name for yourself for being that guy bugging every girl he see's. special sort of weirdo No, a guy doing half that would be straight up clinically obsessed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/17 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Women, what's your opinion on male bodybuildersAgain, literally zero evidence to support that. In fact there are more people out there alive and kicking BECAUSE of long term steroid use, deca's original use was to help with muscular atrophy in AID's patients. Men in their 70s would receive massive health boost, helping alleviate heart issues (No1 cause of death) , strokes and so on by using steroids to keep their test levels topped up. The thing people miss out with steroids is that all the so called symptoms listed are caused by a LACK of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/17 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Men, what's your opinion on muscular womenI think abs on a girl look super fucking hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/17 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Red-Pillers of PPD, what do you think about the "Dark Triad?" Is it not fundamentally immoral to celebrate psychopathy?If you take the worst of any group you can make them sound like monsters sure. ''punish her subtly'' is normally just establishing your role, or as 90% of the women on my pof refer to it ''Banter''. A bit of teasing when flirting isnt a new concept, and isnt one red pill men invented. 'treat her like a whore' - Also the worst way to word what is actualy one of the most important things when picking up a women, letting her know your intentions. If you act like a friend, she make you a friend and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/17 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Red-Pillers of PPD, what do you think about the "Dark Triad?" Is it not fundamentally immoral to celebrate psychopathy?Its not that simple. Method and motive are needed to state that anyone is actively doing anything. If i want sex, i know acting a way will get me sex. Am i immoral for acting that way? Not only that, men who use strategy to get sex dont always see the women he pursues as ''mentally vulnerable'', women who where vulnerable would be easy targets and wouldn't need a dedicated strategy to pick up, they would be easy pickins. Also, what is the alternative? just wing it? just go with the flow? You are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/17 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Red-Pillers of PPD, what do you think about the "Dark Triad?" Is it not fundamentally immoral to celebrate psychopathy?'' mentally vulnerable women'' can have their mental well-being impacted by alot of amoral stuff. Thats why they are called ''mentally vulnerable'' Strategy can be predatory sure, but it only really becomes immoral if you assume that every man has a personal responsibility to look after the vulnerable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/17 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Does the Average Man Have Sex with 2 New Women Per Month?Honestly i think every girl has been that one friend at some stage of their lives. Ive sat in salons and heard to many storys to assume that most girls only give it up after careful consideration 100% of the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/17 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Does the Average Man Have Sex with 2 New Women Per Month?2 a month just donst make sense considering most people dont spend too much of their time exclusivly hunting to get laid. And there is only 4 weekends in a month, so even if you are going out on the pull 100% of the time, you still need to be successful 50% of the time. Just mathematically 2 a month is silly to consider for ''the average guy'' as possible to pull off as it might be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/17 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Will virtual reality allow people to practice their social/sexual game in the future?those already exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/17 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Will virtual reality allow people to practice their social/sexual game in the future?Games like 3DXchat and second life already do this, however what happens more than most is that rather then working on socail skills to then use them in the real life, people just stay in the safe zone of the virtual world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/17 09:05 PM |
| 1 | The redpill talks about sex a lot. But not about the income of their prospective partners.Money tends to come up in the negative in redpill stuff. A women being financially unstable isnt attractive to anyone, however if you are just after sex then that can be worked around. Its sort of generaly assumed anyone going into a LTR would be aware of the money situation between the two of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/17 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Def: Desperate menits not that the desperate man falls short cause he is desperate. He is in a situation where he is desperate cause he falls short on what could literally be anything, the big contenders being self confidence, looks, and social status. If someones been out of the game long enough to consider themselves ''desperate'' id say that they may be a case of someone either unaware of their own shortcomings or a refusal to change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/17 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Women, what's your opinion on male bodybuildersYou have literally zero evidence on the ''15 years of your life'' statement. The symptoms you are describing are for people ABUSING steroids, not USING them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/17 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Women, what's your opinion on male bodybuildersId argue that those are not dad bods at all. Hell one of the guys link was thor, one of the worlds leading strongmen, Prince Fielder is another pro athlete. Id say these guys are more BearBod than dadbod | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/17 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you think you can fall in love with a woman WITHOUT sex?It's not like there isn't a middle ground between I mean this is basically the best course for most people is that middle space. Its only really extremes of people that either dont wait at all or make people wait. Most people either just go with it, or dont hold whatever rules they put in place in very high regard. The point i was trying to make was in the situations where the girl who makes a guy wait 9 months before holding hands, when she finds the guy willing to wait that long, she holds his… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/17 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you think you can fall in love with a woman WITHOUT sex?I would say frequent sex is necessary for most people for lasting, bonding, romantic love. Its a human issue, so you can never really ever say anything is anything for sure. There are always couples who dont have sex and manage just fine. Its not sex that needs to frequented rather its what sex brings to the relationship that is necessary for a ''lasting, bonding, romantic love'' I don't think I care about the people that wouldn't stick around. Thats sort of the issue, men who wont wait vs women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/17 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you think you can fall in love with a woman WITHOUT sex?that's universal then Yeah defiantly. The topic of ''can you fall in love without sex'' centers around that issue i find. The ''how long can i make him wait for sex'' vs ''how long am i willing to wait for sex'' The question is flawd just for the case that its vague as fuck, the answer like most vague questions about relationships being ''yeah, sure, i guess, everyone different'' ''Is having sex required to fall in love'' would be a better way to put it , cause while sex may not be what makes an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/17 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you think you can fall in love with a woman WITHOUT sex?that men see it that way. Seeing as there really isnt a situation where its not the case where providing an outward display of affection (even if its just saying ''you im into you, just hold up a bit while i sort this out for myself') Dosnt give the man a better understanding of his place. Id say its less '' that men see it that way. '' and just how it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/17 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you think you can fall in love with a woman WITHOUT sex?I mean if you think that women are honest and open about how they feel about men early on in relationships, then id say its not me being jaded and more you having a warped sense of how single women act. Girls withholding info intentionally and reacting to situations where they could of avoided the situation by just letting the man know is so play'd out its literally a clique joke at this point. ''Going with the flow'' basically just puts you at the womens mercy for her to fuck you around, most g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/17 04:57 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about males feeling like they deserve sex?Sex is an activity two people share. Not something thats traded from one person to the other. (in healthy cases at least) I dont understand saying ''i deserve sex'' it sounds along the lines of ''i deserve a meal out'' or ''Im entitled to this game of chess'' sure you could argue that everyone deserves a fair shot at human interaction, but as much as some people would like to make it one, sex isnt a commodity. Only time id say you deserve sex is if you paid for it and she declined to provide ser… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/17 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: Do you think you can fall in love with a woman WITHOUT sex?But i dont think women arent attracted, just approach sex with more trepidation. Not saying there arent women out there that are basicly asexual when it comes to relationships, but im optimistic in saying that most women want to have sex with guys they like. Women need to be more honest in both facets | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/17 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Do you think you can fall in love with a woman WITHOUT sex?I'd say jaded was probably the wrong word to use. I had a single mom, ive got two sisters and 3 nieces. I grew up with a beauty salon in my house that my mom and my sisters freinds and clients would filter through on a daily basis. Its safe to say ive heard it all. Ive seen too much behind the curtain of what goes on when a girl likes a guy, so i find the idea that any man would wait around for a girl who isnt even willing to throw out a ''look im interested in you'' absolutely ridiculous. Im ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/17 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Do you think you can fall in love with a woman WITHOUT sex?Yeah sex isnt a big thing for me, my sister is a midwife so all the stigma of a vagina 'getting used up due to excessive sex' has very much been debunk'd. Good people fuck up, thats just a fact of life so i make a point not to write anyone off for any singular reason, EG: did we have sex within 3 hours of meeting? Okay, maybe thats not something you normally do and i was just there at the right time and said the right thing. I never really understood the logic of dismissing people for stuff like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/17 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: Do you think you can fall in love with a woman WITHOUT sex?Oh defo, im 27 now so the creeping ''all my freinds are married with kids'' looms over me. When meeting girls or talking to them the thing in my head is ''can i bring her to moms house on xmas''. I just find that women who make rules and stipulations about who they have sex with to that degree are too neurotic to make good wife material, if the first thing sex was ever used for in our hypothetical LTR was as a dogtreat for chastity for X amount of months or weeks then it dosnt really bode well f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/17 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you think you can fall in love with a woman WITHOUT sex?Nine days sounds about right to know if you want to or are going to have sex with the person. Especially when you add in the fact that im in my 20s, if im talking to a girl that means my intent to have sex was suggested within like the first hour of meeting her. If she is still ''umm''ing and ''ahh''ing about wether or not she is that interested in me after that long then im just gunna go my own way and let her make her choice in her own time The issue i have with women withholding sex is that y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/17 02:10 PM |
| 4 | Q4Men: Do you think you can fall in love with a woman WITHOUT sex?won't even touch a man unless she loves him and would marry him This basicly means no relationships can form without some delusion from the female party then. Men dont want to marry women within the first year, and wouldn't wait that long for sex in most cases so you are stuck at a catch 22. I dont think women really use sex as that much of a gambling chip for marriage material unless they are particularly repressed about the act. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/17 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you think using escorts is overall better or worse for a guy's sex lifeI'd say over half the young men i know have tried prostitutes at least once in their lives. So id think its fair to say that most have at least considered the option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/17 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Do you think using escorts is overall better or worse for a guy's sex lifeIf i want love an affection il go to my moms house, her dog likes me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/17 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Absolutely amazing: How women react to handsome men.What i dont understand is the guys shock, if captain handsome caught his eye, then why wouldn't it catch the eye of the girls? This man was clearly good looking enough to garner a ''oh shit he is a good looking fellow'' but then our guy is flabbergasted when girls consider the same thing only with the added note of considering him a sexual option. Like wtf, why the outrage | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/17 05:15 AM |
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