zeroff89 Archive

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1	It’s not her. It’s you bro. You know I was given the name Chad 31 years ago when I came into this world and I’d never heard my name used on the internet until earlier this year. Earlier today i saw a video on ToddVDating on YouTube and the video said “why hot girls love Chad”. And in the comments various snow flakes had taken the liberty to slander my name and the name of everyone named Chad in the world. For what? I don’t get it. So I just googled my name and this is what the it says; Meeks - The term is like “chad” on st…	/r/seduction	10/05/21 01:18 AM
1	It’s not her. It’s you bro. u/Bizarro- was that one chick that was in here trying to pick a fight with everyone?	/r/seduction	09/05/21 11:30 PM
2	It’s not her. It’s you bro. 8 is a solid number. You have a lot of confidence in yourself and that’s a beautiful thing. Today I feel like I’m a 7.2 Many here might disagree with me, which isn’t a bad things. (Everyone should have their own opinion and be able to express it. That’s what leads to progress) I think labeling people 1-10 based on their physical appearance is dumb. When I see a woman I’m attracted to. I don’t number her. I try to talk to her. I’m probably weird and I accept it if I am, when I approach a woman an…	/r/seduction	09/05/21 11:00 PM
1	It’s not her. It’s you bro. I only ask because my name is Chad. I’ve been seeing it used more and more recently in context that shines a very negative light on it. When people use my name in these types of context they’re trying to define all of us Chad’s’ all over the world	/r/seduction	09/05/21 10:29 PM
2	How to accept that straight men's sexuality depends only on the sexual availability of women but straight women's sexuality depends on more than the sexual availability of men? Men in Muslim countries have sex with men due to gender segregation & sexual repression & the women don't with women Not cool man. Maybe you haven’t noticed from all the negative responses but no one wants this shit in here. To be honest, it doesn’t really matter whether that shit is true or false. This is not the sub for that.	/r/seduction	09/05/21 05:53 PM
1	I keep accidentally friendzoning girls and I don't know how to stop? If you’re making friends with them, that says your comfortable talking to them. Do you find any of them attractive? When ever I meet a chick there’s always a point where an opportunity presents itself where I’m able to isolate her from her group briefly, but just enough time to find out if the sexual tension is mutual. Did you notice any sexual tension with these girls?	/r/seduction	09/05/21 03:17 PM
2	It’s not her. It’s you bro. The power dynamic I’m referring to is the power struggle between men and women. This needs to be maintained because it’s like a teeter totter. It does NOT remain static. Breaking down the power dynamic gives us emotional and logical. Emotional = your value logical = girlfriends comfort Emotional Scary + logically safe = your power (she requires little from you; she feels safe) Emotional safe + logically safe = her power (lost value, she demands more from you; she feels safe) Emotional safe + log…	/r/seduction	09/05/21 02:44 PM
1	It’s not her. It’s you bro. You’ve got the right idea, they typically do want masculinity and dominance. They need to feel security and safety. What I was saying in the above post was that women will gravitate to the leader of the pack	/r/seduction	09/05/21 03:00 AM
1	It’s not her. It’s you bro. “Push/pull” happens when you’re talking and interacting with them. It doesn’t necessarily gravitate them to you, but if used right it lowers their guard and puts the power dynamic in your favor requiring them to seek your approval. If you want women to gravitate towards you, its not about appearance or money. They’re basically drawn to “a man’s man”. (like from the movie “what women want” with Mel Gibson) a guy that presents himself as the leader of the pack (Social status). It’s the way you car…	/r/seduction	09/05/21 12:54 AM
3	It’s not her. It’s you bro. Most of the time when a guy makes the statement blaming the female and refusing to take ownership of his own short comings its due to his insecurities and emotional immaturity. In long term relationships there’s a power dynamic that needs to be maintained I watched a video by Todd V dating earlier today describing this power dynamic and he went a bit further to introduce another dynamic balance between “emotional” and “logical” It is important to remember that the system is set up for you to get…	/r/seduction	09/05/21 12:24 AM
1	It’s not her. It’s you bro. What does that mean? A bunch of ‘Chad’ like guys...I’d like you to elaborate on the meaning of ‘Chad’ in this context	/r/seduction	08/05/21 11:50 PM
1	In need of advice and a pep talk I feel you player. Don’t give up and don’t sell yourself short. You know what you want, keep aiming for that. That love and that connection you want are out there. Project yourself as what you want in a girl and in a relationship and ideally (not always, there is room for error) you will attract that. I just watched a video on YouTube by Todd V Dating about the power struggle between men and women. This might be something you may want to look into	/r/seduction	07/05/21 10:49 PM
2	From Zero to Hero: How I’m getting over my ex with new girls For me, one night stands, approaching or talking to woman and building their interest in me has never been much of an issue. I feel like maybe I’m one of the lucky ones because even at 31 woman will still approach me a lot of the times. You said this was about getting over your ex. I’m having a very difficult time getting over my ex. It’s been affecting my sex life to the point where I can’t bring myself to fuck any of the women I get naked in front of me. Even when they’re asking me to take the…	/r/seduction	07/05/21 10:26 PM
1	Does anyone else feel that the book, "How to win friends and influence people", advices people to be overly kind and fake which comes across as extremely inauthentic? Why do you think that is being fake?	/r/seduction	07/05/21 10:11 PM
2	3 ways to overcome anxiety with women Great post, I still have some social anxiety about approaching women that I feel are out of my league. The best way I’ve found to overcome this kind of anxiety is through trial and error. Of course I also believe that rejection is the best teacher because when you learn to over come it in all of its forms the becomes wide open	/r/seduction	07/05/21 09:57 PM
1	Does anyone else feel that the book, "How to win friends and influence people", advices people to be overly kind and fake which comes across as extremely inauthentic? It’s not about the emotional stuff. Making an emotional connection with another person is not about love or feelings. It’s about speaking to the the wants or desires they have and then selling those back to them. In dating when you make this connection it makes the person interested in you.	/r/seduction	07/05/21 09:43 PM
1	Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women? That sounds like it smarts, but since you missed the mart it must have ss instead	/r/seduction	06/05/21 08:01 PM
1	Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women? Like this homie: puppy I came across the lil guy. We felt it wouldn’t be right if we didn’t send you a message and say hey 🥸 it’s nice to meet you	/r/seduction	06/05/21 05:26 PM
2	Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women? I saw a real special woman yesterday. I even felt the need to bring her flowers and card. Sometimes you just gotta go old school. Yea...she even gave me a kiss. Those flowers made her real happy. And I wrote the card myself so it was custom. Probably shouldn’t have gotten her a sympathy card but I was in a hurry. I made it work though. I wrote, “I’m sorry for your loss. I know you two were close. I know you’ll get through this without your appendix this year.” ~Happy Birthday Mom	/r/seduction	06/05/21 03:01 PM
3	Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women? Bon fires!! I guess during the day I often pull up next to women and we exchange looks without ever saying a word. The only sound comes from the radio while we wait for the signal from the stoplight to turn green. It’s intimate in its own special way. We never exchange names or words just eye contact	/r/seduction	06/05/21 02:51 PM
1	Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women? Haha I was gonna say that too	/r/seduction	06/05/21 02:46 PM
1	Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women? I’m new to this online approach to dating. Do you have any tips or tricks for success on these stupid apps and stuff?	/r/seduction	06/05/21 02:45 PM
1	Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women? I’m guessing everyone else already called all the good spots. Fuck, that’s what I get for being late to the party. I usually just go over to the chicks houses. Plus I give guitar lessons here and there so that kinda gets me in the door haha	/r/seduction	06/05/21 02:40 PM
1	Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women? So true. Good call	/r/seduction	06/05/21 02:38 PM
1	Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women? Use Gif’s I always send funny gifs or extremely adorable gifs like a basket of puppies or kittens and then send a message telling them, “I saw this gif and couldn’t resist sharing it with you”	/r/seduction	06/05/21 02:37 PM
2	Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women? There’s always the black market 🤔	/r/seduction	06/05/21 02:33 PM
1	Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women? I’m a contractor. I feel your pain	/r/seduction	06/05/21 02:31 PM
0	Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women? Preach!!! You could hit up Walmart 😱 it’s definitely night and day between those stores	/r/seduction	06/05/21 02:29 PM
1	How to Cold Approach? Come on man. No one chooses to be miserable. None of us actually know what you have to deal with. I looked it up and I’m sorry that you’re living with those issues. Just having one of those conditions would be bad enough. I can’t pretend to know how badly those issues have actually effected you. Idk if anyone here is an orthodontic surgeon but I did see that there are surgery’s for both medical issues and it looks like they both require implants. I can only guess the surgeries aren’t cheap and t…	/r/seduction	06/05/21 09:38 AM
4	I changed 3 things and noticed a difference almost instantly, here’s what I did Alright bud, for some reason you’re concerned about your appearance. Don’t feel like you have to share why that is if you’re not comfortable doing so. If it’s something like bad acne or a skin condition you can see a dermatologist about getting that cleared up How you feel about yourself honestly has a major impact on your interactions with women. If you walk up to a woman and you’re thinking negative thoughts, such as; I’m ugly, I’m not attractive enough, she won’t talk to me, or even doubting …	/r/seduction	06/05/21 08:03 AM
1	I changed 3 things and noticed a difference almost instantly, here’s what I did Both men and women are initially. You definitely have your power couples out there in the world but let’s be honest. Appearance might get the girls to notice you, but it won’t approach or talk to them. If you talk your way into a 1-night-stand both people are going to have to drop the appearances	/r/seduction	06/05/21 02:38 AM
2	Does anyone else feel that the book, "How to win friends and influence people", advices people to be overly kind and fake which comes across as extremely inauthentic? Why do you say seduction is about being fake? Seduction requires you to create an emotional connection with another person. That connection stimulates their desire to know more about you. You empower them by being aware of their neglected needs and feed those building them up. Play a flirty game of cat and mouse to increase sexual tension and giggidy! “In bed by 8. Home by 11” Seduction requires you to pay attention to the person, create a connection with them, build them up, and then make a sub…	/r/seduction	06/05/21 12:23 AM
1	Does anyone else feel that the book, "How to win friends and influence people", advices people to be overly kind and fake which comes across as extremely inauthentic? Thank you	/r/seduction	05/05/21 11:09 PM
3	I changed 3 things and noticed a difference almost instantly, here’s what I did I don’t think your wrong, you definitely have the right idea. Changing your appearance is a good idea. Renovate your look. Wear clothes that fit you when you go out. Clean up the scruff. It’s a good idea to have at least one close friend that’s a girl. For starters, having a friend that’s a chick will help you learn how to talk to girls. Plus they’re a great source for advice on dating and relationships. Your mom, sisters, aunts, grandmothers are all good sources too. They know what’s up. Person…	/r/seduction	05/05/21 04:43 PM
3	Does anyone else feel that the book, "How to win friends and influence people", advices people to be overly kind and fake which comes across as extremely inauthentic? I see many valid arguments have already been posted here. There’s another old saying: “it’s not what you say, it’s how you say it.” A perfect example of this is constructive criticism. During a social interaction you make the person or people you’re interacting with feel important by empowering them with your attention and body language. Facing the person talking and making eye contact while they talk makes them feel heard and validated. You don’t have to agree with what they say. You could have…	/r/seduction	05/05/21 03:48 PM