zerolifez Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Guys with a lot of female friends — did you actively try to befriend women, or did it just happen? How did you go about building those friendships? This. I don't really clasify them as male or female friend. They are just my friends.	/r/seduction	20/07/25 10:45 AM
3	Mark Manson's old article "Does game ruin you as a potential husband" Basically the difference of a person that genuinely changes to be a better person and someone that pretends just to get laid.	/r/seduction	16/07/25 02:49 AM
3	Simple but Weird Technique to Stop Putting Girls On a Pedestal By focusing on yourself. You can't fake confidence, and you can't fake an abundance mentality. Like a truly secure man won't really care about the outcome that much when pursuing a woman. Just better yourself. Focus on your work or education. Socialize for socializing sake and not for sleeping around. Maybe go to the gym to improve yourself.	/r/seduction	17/02/25 05:48 AM
2	Simple but Weird Technique to Stop Putting Girls On a Pedestal Nope. Like if I said most of my days consist of just work, play video games, and spend time with family would it help you to achieve that? I don't think so. Like do you really think people that like this have the same day to day routine?	/r/seduction	17/02/25 01:46 AM
3	Simple but Weird Technique to Stop Putting Girls On a Pedestal Your day routine has no relevance to what he said. It's a state of mind.	/r/seduction	17/02/25 12:02 AM
3	Simple but Weird Technique to Stop Putting Girls On a Pedestal Not that weird. It's rationalizing that hot girls are still human, they poop and fart like normal people do.	/r/seduction	17/02/25 12:00 AM
1	Shit-test She gets mad Life too short for spending time with a girl that do this shit.	/r/seduction	14/02/25 12:02 PM
31	I like a girl in my uni class but she's in a relationship. Don't want to be friend zoned. Friend Zone is a state of mind, it does not exist. You can be friendly with her and later dating her without problem. Usually the biggest problem people have is they not presenting themself as a potential partner and be an overtly "nice guy" for her.	/r/seduction	22/01/25 11:33 AM
17	Everyone thinks I’m a player but its the total opposite. Yep this is it. Just tease them with any variation of "want to find out the truth?" or something. They will eat that shit right up.	/r/seduction	10/01/25 01:59 AM
4	Want to ask out barista but also don’t want to loose my regular cafe? Bad. DM or message is not where you want to have a convo or asking for the first time. This shows that you are not confident which is bad.	/r/seduction	31/12/24 05:49 AM
1	How do you respond to rejection texts? You sort out your emotion first lol. Just from the post I can see that you took it hard, agonizing on reply or not. The simplest answer is just do whatever. It doesn't matter anyway.	/r/seduction	21/11/24 01:47 AM
43	Most couples you see are together because of circumstances. Not "only" for girls of course. It's a self investment for your career, but if you got a girls too that's a bonus. And also a good thing to know is that doing activities ensures that you have some commonality with her. For example I will never go to the bar or nightlife to pick up girls because those kinds of things are not my jam.	/r/seduction	20/10/24 07:35 AM
112	Most couples you see are together because of circumstances. Yep this is why my best advice to my single friends is not seduction related but to socialize instead. Join a sports group, take a master's degree, join your hobby community, etc. Anything that helps you meet new person. I'm not a believer of "cold approach", I think it's just not natural compared to circumstances.	/r/seduction	20/10/24 06:03 AM
2	Why are so many guys putting looks on piedestal? Are you saying woman don't because they certainly did too.	/r/seduction	28/08/24 08:05 AM
6	Has being super obvious about your interest ever worked? Yep that's the core of my game. But look, showing interest doesn't mean I will be on my knees. That's something you do for your SO, not someone you approaching.	/r/seduction	11/08/24 02:33 AM
2	Talking to a girl and boyfriend comes in.. And them being mad when told that the way to do that is to stop thinking with their dick. Seduction is really weird in a sense that the answer seems backward to the logic of someone that doesn't get it yet. "I'm willing to do anything for the women, why can't I get a single one of them?". That kind of question always pops up and being told to not do that and having self respect is an alien concept to them.	/r/seduction	09/07/24 07:47 AM
1	average looking guys who have had success dating, what did you do? Take care of myself, gym, nice haircut, dress well and all that jazz. Making friends with plenty of women which helps me not to put them on a pedestal no matter how pretty they are. And also gets me to learn more in how to communicate well.	/r/seduction	02/03/24 04:22 AM
17	If A Woman Thinks You are A Player, Do Not Tell Her Otherwise I usually disagree with exaggerated example like I'm shaking when talking to woman or something. They usually eats that up. Maybe this falls to your playful answer? Technically I did say otherwise.	/r/seduction	29/02/24 04:40 PM
14	What I noticed about men that have a hot girlfriend. Our mindset is we trust that you know that we are exclusive and you will not do anything that go against that. If you do then we are not compatible and I will just find other more compatible woman.	/r/seduction	06/09/23 02:32 AM
7	Ladies: Asking for consent before a kiss or just by reading non verbal cues? Rule or preference? That's the conundrum is it. If you ask for consent you look not confident enough. Not asking consent will be a problem if she didn't want it.	/r/seduction	25/08/22 02:27 AM
1	What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you? I don't know man artifically making it so seems kind of needy to me. It's still you pursuing them with a different way. Echoing what other people said is that don't really "pursue" her in the first place. Instead of "I really want to date you so please date me" change the mindset to something like" "You kinda cool, wanna date? If no then that's ok I'll just find somebody else". If you're high value they may will pursue you but if no then that's fine too.	/r/seduction	17/08/22 03:17 AM
5	how come most people get pretty girlfriends without knowing anything about "game" or all the psychological stuff, just being a random joe? Is game for hookups or low-value men only? IMO "game" is just a way for people to logically explain the process. At the core it's just improving yourself, have a good life, and be interesting socially. Those people you told us? They already have those naturally. In a sense you're right that game is for low value man.	/r/seduction	20/04/22 06:38 AM
7	Cold approaching is really insane No man. At college parties even if you don't know her both of you are at least in the same college, same area, close age, and probably have a mutual friends. Also parties is a place where you get social anyways. Cold approach you really approach an actual stranger in non social situation like in coffee shop, on the road, or while commuting by train/bus or something.	/r/seduction	17/04/22 12:14 PM
1	Do girls talk to each other about a guy they think is hot? Waay too specific man.	/r/seduction	08/04/22 09:52 AM
2	How long should you wait to reach out to a girl after you had sex with them the first night without coming off as desperate? I dunno about you but I don't like to play games. I probably text her the day after and if she ghost me or whatever then just go next girl. Save me the headache of your question, why should I care if I come off as desperate or not.	/r/seduction	06/04/22 08:37 AM
2	Successfully cured my oneitis, and now instead I can't commit and get bored of people easily Well then the other solution is to focus on yourself. Busy yourself with your study, work, or hobby. Socialize with all your friends or make new one. But make your mindset that you do it for yourself, not for forgetting her but solely for yourselves.	/r/seduction	29/03/22 12:08 PM
3	Successfully cured my oneitis, and now instead I can't commit and get bored of people easily It's less oneitis and more you haven't moved on yet I think. Oneitis is more where you already imagine yourself dating with that one girl in your mind while in reality you haven't even started yet. Just date and socialize more to help you move on.	/r/seduction	29/03/22 03:28 AM
1	After trying this stuff for 4 months I concluded that nothing works unless the woman is already attracted to you from the start and everything here is basically bullshit Because he's attractive in other way. Social skill, charisma, good career, etc. Attractiveness is doesn't only come from their face.	/r/seduction	01/03/22 02:34 AM
25	Stop begging for girls attention, be abundant. Yeah but there's one thing that you have to think, what's the reason for rejection. Because maybe the reason is a valid one that can actually improve yourself, maybe you're not clean or whatever. But of course once again it's for yourself, you don't improve yourself for that one girl but solely to increase your value and confidence for the next.	/r/seduction	01/02/22 02:31 PM
1	So basically you have to act all distant and not-care-ish for women to like you? I think you're overcomplicating things. The way I see it the important things is not being needy. It's not acting like you are not but you need to be truly not needy. I never play weird games like your example, I compliment when I want to. I will reply or not when I want to. The fact that you thought about will she think this and that depending on your action is very needy IMO. Being in need is not good because that means you don't have value without a woman. I suggest getting comfortable and co…	/r/seduction	22/01/22 07:06 PM
1	Went from a girl telling me I look like her little brother’s friend to hooking up with her in her apartment You know all those step siblings porn? "What are you doing step brother?". That's the joke.	/r/seduction	20/01/21 07:25 PM
46	Went from a girl telling me I look like her little brother’s friend to hooking up with her in her apartment You missed the joke	/r/seduction	18/01/21 07:51 AM
-1	Is there a way to not sound desperate when you ARE actually desperate Stop being desperate is one method.	/r/seduction	03/12/20 09:14 AM
2	What's the best way to deal with being thirsty and not coming off desperate? Drink water if you're thirsty /s	/r/seduction	04/07/20 07:54 PM
2	Weird breakthrough on rejection Seduction is basically sales jobs man. If the product (you ins this case) is what the client (the girl) wants then you don't need many sales pitch to sell the product. But if not you really need to convince her to buy right?	/r/seduction	21/03/20 03:54 AM
2	How many of you would respect a girl/woman saying ANY of this to you - in order to turn you down - and you wouldnt turn into a "nice guy"??? Sure. It's their right to do that	/r/seduction	21/11/19 03:17 PM
2	How many of you would respect a girl/woman saying ANY of this to you - in order to turn you down - and you wouldnt turn into a "nice guy"??? No it's different. She just don't want to take a risk in case you are xyz. It has nothing to do with generalizing, it's just a self defense measure.	/r/seduction	21/11/19 02:10 PM
5	I asked a girl I liked out and she said yes, but later she said no. Preach brother. That's the spirit.	/r/seduction	13/09/19 09:30 AM
34	I asked a girl I liked out and she said yes, but later she said no. You're completely missing the point. What he's trying to say is MOVE ON. You can't be friendzoned when all you want is to be friends.	/r/seduction	13/09/19 07:42 AM
7	Girl wants me to eat her pussy this weekend but I really don’t want to... I love how it please my girl. Her moaning just makes me turned on even more. But it's ok if you don't like it but don't expect a bj if you don't.	/r/seduction	19/07/19 05:28 PM
3	No sex after 4 date. Anti Slut Defense. Basically she don't want to be viewed as slutty by giving sex early	/r/askTRP	17/05/19 07:21 AM
5	Day 4 - How to never run out of things to say to a girl I often just smile and keep eye contact. One time a girl ask me why I do that and I admit I've run out of things to say and it actually broke the ice.	/r/seduction	19/01/19 04:34 AM
1	How do you engage/initiate holding hands with the girl youre seeing? In someplace watching a cinema is a common first date destination	/r/seduction	25/08/18 01:41 PM
1	She comes up with meetings, but we never meet! Help? You're clingy and needy as fuck. No wonder she flakes on you. Why would she still head over heels for you when you're this easy. Freaking fix yourself man.	/r/seduction	10/06/18 03:41 PM
3	She comes up with meetings, but we never meet! Help? The fuck man why are you such a pussy. Why do you even want to talk with people who doesn't respect you at all.	/r/seduction	10/06/18 12:33 PM
4	She comes up with meetings, but we never meet! Help? What to help? Just leave her and move on	/r/seduction	10/06/18 11:33 AM
5	This is my first time saying "no" after a girl acted like a bitch to me two weeks earlier and then reached out - old me would have gone for it anyway, I'm proud of my progress Are you dense?? He literally said he don't care about whether she likes that or not. He doesn't play games with her. Free sex is free.	/r/seduction	08/06/18 09:49 PM
2	How do I step my game up, stop being jealous/insecure, cure my gaming addiction and learn how to take women out on a date without shying away? Do you know that you can be a gamer and still get laid? Don't use that as an excuse, man needs a hobby and gaming is completely fine. In fact if you can talk about it with passion girls will think that you're interesting. Now for the tips, socialize. On class sit nowhere near your usual friend and try to talk to anybody near you. It doesn't even have to be a girl. Just get use to talk with people. And don't be scared of rejection. See that cute girl? Talk to her. If she's not interested then go …	/r/seduction	16/11/17 01:58 PM
2	Was there a way I could have escalated things with my professor? I'm in a relationship with my admin at same office section. Am I screwed?	/r/seduction	01/05/17 06:50 AM
1	Why do I care so much about my non-existent sex life? I play game. Play some OW and raiding in mmo. I still got laid though. Your gaming is not the problem.	/r/seduction	10/01/17 05:14 PM
-5	How To Get A Girl To Like You - Why Emotional Investment Will Always Beat Logic Tried to respect girl once. Never again.	/r/seduction	05/10/16 05:32 AM
4	About to lose my virginity, need advice My first time I just go with my lust and savor every inch of her body and she said I'm really good at foreplay. Just follow your instinct and lust, don't just put it in.	/r/seduction	20/01/16 02:52 PM
1	My 1# tip for One-itis. Is devoted to your SO without searching alternative considered as oneitis?	/r/seduction	12/10/15 03:28 PM
1	She's got a long distance BF Just like /u/milestea says, if your moral compass is fine with it and you just want to hook up than by any means just go. But don't go looking for something serious. You might also want to check their relationship condition, don't go wreck their relationship if it's good but you may go for it if it was strained.	/r/seduction	30/08/15 07:08 AM
6	She's got a long distance BF If she's willing to cheat/dump her bf for other guy, she will do the same to you	/r/seduction	30/08/15 05:23 AM