zestimochaz Archive

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2	What did you learn in your day game this week? That I make a lot of excuses as to not approaching a particular girl. I'm working on this...	/r/seduction	06/09/13 04:17 PM
3	Sexual Assassin: The "83 Insights" That Have Helped Me Sleep With 200+ Women @ReturnOfKings (Blog) @RationalMale (Rollo Tomassi/Blog) @NoWomanIsRight (Black Twitter) @liesandlipserv @0 ("Success & Motivation") @YouSoWould @RedPillWifey (Female Perspective) @EpicHustle (Highly Recommend) @ItsHimMichael (Black Twitter) @LaidNYC (Highly Recommend) @WallStPlaygirl (Female Perspective) @Rooshv (Roosh/Blog) @WallStPlayboys (Highly Highly Recommend, one of my first tastes of the manosphere and haven't found much better.) @SimplePickup (YouTubers) Honorable Mention: @EckTOLLEQuo…	/r/seduction	01/09/13 12:49 AM
1	Sexual Assassin: The "83 Insights" That Have Helped Me Sleep With 200+ Women What twitter handle? I think he changed from @FuckMedicrity to something else as my search isn't picking it up. Asking because I love my feed being filled with motivational gamers.	/r/seduction	30/08/13 01:53 AM
1	Is the "he's just not that into you" explanation a hard and fast rule or merely an excuse to quit the pursuit? Dunno, I'd say that 90-99% of guys attracted to a particular girl will do nothing about it. Shyness, "I doubt she would like me"-ness, doesn't know what to do/how to progress. Show interest in a guy? Find a reason to touch his arms and be smiley/cheerful (feminine) when around him.	/r/seduction	29/08/13 04:54 PM
3	I feel as if I have a false sense of confidence. I would like some insight from others Seems like you're worried that your confidence is externally referenced. This isn't too much of a problem as you can and will begin to internalize this confidence. LeBron James for sure has confidence in his basketball skills internally. But he accumulated this confidence through a lifetime of external events i.e. making tough shots, winning MVP awards, objectively realizing he is better than most other players around him.	/r/seduction	28/08/13 12:02 AM
3	Smoking Weed and Game. Third year college here. Everyday smoker (pretty much). I'm planning on not smoking during the week and not smoking within 5-6 hours of going out for the night. Weed is great but it puts back my game for several reasons: 1) Kills my aggressiveness towards women, I just simply don't want the pussy that bad if I'm high (because I'm already feeling good) 2) Jumbles up my lexicon (words I know) making it hard for me to recall words (usually bigger ones) when necessary. This sucks because I have a na…	/r/seduction	27/08/13 04:47 PM
1	Tinder the phone app In cali there are some cam girls that use it to find new customers. They will open with "Hi, 24 F, you?" or some bs (it's bs because everyone knows each other's age/gender) then they will converse on and say that they want to see you face to face aaaaaaand it turns out to be a cam show lol.	/r/seduction	01/08/13 01:34 AM
2	Went from a cheating 4/10, to a perfect 10/10. Thank you The Red Pill community. To me a 10 is a 9 that has specific features you particularly like for whatever reason	/r/TheRedPill	30/07/13 01:55 AM
35	[FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approach I really like your idea of the girl 'meeting you half way' as an IOI, because it's totally true. A girl can easily make it hard for you/someone to approach her by doing fairly simple things. More evidence of meeting half way: 1) You text her, she text's back (did she have to?) 2) She takes a route in front of you that lets you check her out from behind (small/mid-size college thing i've noticed, did she have to?) 3) She smiles and laughs at your joke (did she have to?) 4) She pointedly keeps the…	/r/seduction	25/07/13 02:00 AM
1	Porn is a double edged sword, it's danger lies in the fact that it's a tolerable alternative to having a woman in your life. It is tough. There are so many things that can cause you to slip up, the internet is literally litered with titties and nudity. And no you can't just 'only look at pictures' or 'only use 1 video' or anything like that because the stimulation will literally drive you to go all the way, that's just the way it is for me at least. My latest fuck up was using porn to help me get a girl out of my head which had been tormenting me all that day. I think the main thing is to not think about it as a 'stre…	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 06:59 AM
2	Porn is a double edged sword, it's danger lies in the fact that it's a tolerable alternative to having a woman in your life. Very specific case you have there. Seems like everyone is winning in that situation, works for me.	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 04:04 AM
-5	Porn is a double edged sword, it's danger lies in the fact that it's a tolerable alternative to having a woman in your life. You call his post beta then advocate paying women directly for sex? How can you get off without having to struggle or face challenge to get what you want? To me the most rewarding thing about sex is my high standards and how hard it is to get. Kind of like working hard all semester for a grade then finally getting an A. YES and A!!!! If I paid $2,000 for an A it would have 5% of the gratification attached to it. And I don't think that a 'majority' of women out there are out to get you. If you ha…	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 03:47 AM
8	Porn is a double edged sword, it's danger lies in the fact that it's a tolerable alternative to having a woman in your life. Dunno why this is being downvoted. In real life you can be a man and direct the sexual interaction towards what you desire. In porn you just get disappointed and close the tab when it isn't EXACTLY what you're looking for. Also in porn you can't enjoy the little things that real sex has to offer like skin contact, kissing, talking, intimacy, pain etc. Keep having hot sex my friend.	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 03:35 AM
-3	Porn is a double edged sword, it's danger lies in the fact that it's a tolerable alternative to having a woman in your life. 1) Porn is bad for your mental health, this is proven. We weren't designed to view 1,000-10,000 naked female bodies in an hour, just think about it. There is a very good ted talk about it, look it up on youtube if you're interested. 2) Related to 1) and most likely what the Op is actually talking about: it fucks up your reward systems. How are you supposed to have the motivation to approach a girl who is a 7-8 if you literally fried your brain recently? You wont, you wont approach her and will i…	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 03:31 AM
3	Wife filmed laughing while hiring hit man to kill husband. (Prefers to have him killed outside because inside it might be "messy".) yeah he was, disappointingly, a fokin idiot. edit: Because if she goes on and does this to a next husband then it's his fault for not prosecuting her like a proper criminal (which she is.)	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 03:12 AM
3	The importance of engaging immediately (Semi-FR) My takeaway is that if you act as if you are in your house Brilliant, I like this idea. I had a similar experience yesterday but it was actually in my house. The 'it's my house' mindset made me feel like I had to engage this girl and it worked out wonderfully.	/r/seduction	11/07/13 03:05 AM
5	I'm looking for tips on how to "get out of my head" more often and more easily. Just think of yourself as a Mountain and your thoughts as the clouds that pass you by. When you feel like getting out of your thoughts remind yourself that you are the Mountain and not a man floating on the clouds... come down to earth and be 'here'. Two extra tips: 1) Read Eckheart Tolle's "The Power Of Now", fantastic read and it pretty much talks about getting out of your head (which you learn is the ego) and into the Now which is the current moment. 2) Have a hand motion/physical action that…	/r/seduction	09/07/13 08:21 AM
4	(Body Language) I Present To You the Amazing "Underlook" I second this, thank also for giving a fuck about formatting; your post was actually pleasant to the eye and easy to read (and re-read).	/r/seduction	08/07/13 05:44 AM
1	Whenever i go out, i feel... Insufficient. Incomplete... I've heard very good things about "The Power of Now"	/r/seduction	06/04/13 12:23 AM
-5	The 'Are you asking me on a date?' reply "Of course, look at you" But it seems like you are cold asking her, the offer to hang out should follow something that actually makes sense, she seems to be double checking because you are asking out of the blue (your intentions are not clear)	/r/seduction	29/03/13 06:33 AM
3	THE MOST important advice to get over approach anxiety and fear of rejection I incorporate this into my outings. I just tell myself "zestimochaz, just think with your dick man, you are the most recent link in millions of years of successful mating. Your dick is designed to get you laid so just let it do it's thing!" We are our own inhibition, it is the superego dominating over the animalistic instinctual side that really screws us up/makes things harder for ourselves.	/r/seduction	25/03/13 05:49 AM
1	Well seeing the post the other day about "aloofness" I need a little help on how to respond to this. Sounds like you weren't flirting with her before this, if you just say something like that out of the blue she wont get it. Remember that she's in work mode. You were already being too forward imo. Maybe you should have said something like "Okay so the whole meal is free right?" with a tone of obviousness (so that she will 100% think you're just being playful). She's not just going to give you her number and a lapdance for forgetting your order.	/r/seduction	23/03/13 11:30 PM
27	I need a good response to "you're so tall!" "You should see me with my heels on" "Yeah the weather is great up here"	/r/seduction	18/03/13 12:20 AM
2	Ladies and gentlemen, i struck out this night. African sedditor gleefully accepting failure. I agree with this, I feel like I am not as attractively received as if I was full-white but the girls that do appreciate my looks LOVE them because they are so unique (low chance of finding someone that looks remotely like me).	/r/seduction	16/03/13 09:33 PM
3	How do I learn to tease/make fun? I want to learn this instead of just being super nice. "Would you rather have sex with batman or spiderman?" "... batman?? hehe" "Hmm, so you dig the underwear on the outside style, Ill keep that in mind..." I'm sure you can think of at least 5 more things to say to that response but maybe you get the picture. Note: This isn't really a rhetorical question.	/r/seduction	15/03/13 03:29 PM
2	How do you deal with a girl taller than you? Dunno, don't really need to bring it up. Imo the main issue is that girls tend to find shorter men less attractive, so by her shooting you an offer/expressing interest it's like you've gotten past the hardest thing to 'deal' with already. Also remember that she may be conscious of her height. I had a gal friend once that was 5'8" and she always wished she was shorter ( -.- ). So yeah, not too much attention has to be drawn to it. If she's wearing heels you could always be like "I know that you'r…	/r/seduction	15/03/13 03:25 PM
11	I have a tip for you. Before going, go to r/dirtypenpals and look at the female submissions there... Stay with me. His main point is correct, many men don't realize how sexually unfulfilled most women can be.	/r/seduction	13/03/13 06:12 AM
3	Throwaway but can you talk to girls on college campus when you don't go to that college? It's even easier, you just say it like it is. "... I don't go here, where is..." or something along those lines. It's interesting too because it makes you a rare commodity, you'll likely never see her again because you don't go to the place so she may be even more likely to give out her info etc.	/r/seduction	12/03/13 12:15 AM
2	I blush and I believe it strongly interferes with approaching women, thus, worsening my AA. Nah, redness in the cheeks is viewed as attractive to both genders, don't let it phase you it just makes you look sexy babay. But really, it'll help you more that it'll hurt you.	/r/seduction	10/03/13 11:11 PM
1	Whenever a girl is nice to me I mentally run through an entire life with her - marrying her, having kids with her, arguing with her, growing old with her, going through sickness with her and other crazy stuff. How do I stop this mental, insane, sick train of thought? Just focus on thinking/admiring her sexually?	/r/seduction	10/03/13 11:09 PM
1	In college, does style really matter? No, dress better and people will treat you differently (better).	/r/seduction	09/03/13 05:52 AM
4	"You should come to this cool afterparty" vs. "I want to take you home and fuck you" This place was cool but it's slowing down now.. lets get out of here. If you guys are in sync and hitting it off properly then you will both probably have the same feelings about wanting to leave the place. It's up to your game/knowledge of the area/style for what comes after. I'm a college student that lives off campus so offering up my pad for another drink/smoke is usually received well.	/r/seduction	08/03/13 08:35 PM
0	Seddit, I'm a black guy, and I feel like its messing with my game. Dude, there are plenty of girls out there with jungle fever, focus on them rather than the ones that can't/won't date you.	/r/seduction	06/03/13 07:48 PM
1	How does an overly literal intellectual become a natural conversationalist? i think that you think that you are a intellectual person so you convey that. This is okay. I know because I think the same thing. My situation lacks problems because I approach women with I am fun/interesting/exciting to be around in my mind and therefore convey that instead. Just be honest with what your current frame is and decide whether you need to shift your tone a bit so that what you are feeling on the inside is what you're giving off on the outside.	/r/seduction	05/03/13 12:13 AM
2	Gym approach: treadmill girl I got to agree with this guy, she is literally putting out distinct 'I'm here to focus on myself and what I gotta do' signs. (So basically she is not receptive to an approach most likely)	/r/seduction	01/03/13 07:46 PM
3	i don't flirt because i am not sure how to, can i have some advice on how to flirt? Because non-sexual girls are boring. Who wants a girl that isn't confident in her own body? A girl that loves and enjoys her sexual side will be 10x more fun to hang out with. Yes innuendos work, a casual, funny delivery is important but most girls will be excited that you choose to communicate in this way (more if you do it well). Be a sexual threat.	/r/seduction	01/03/13 07:42 PM
1	what to do when a girl keeps messaging you? I generally agree with waiting a couple minutes/finishing what you're doing then texting back. I have had success by shooting back a witty text immediately. There really isn't a rule.. but the op's question is more about dealing with a large volume of texts from a girl whist balancing 'playing it cool' with not making her feel forgotten etc.	/r/seduction	14/02/13 05:50 AM
1	This crap is easy once you get over yourself. Just say something. Could have opened with "leg day huh?" @ the squat racks. Nice fr	/r/seduction	14/02/13 05:07 AM
2	How can I teach myself to speak slower? Good start would be to pause for .5 seconds before you say anything. Essentially always giving yourself an extra bit of time before you open your mouth to respond. This will result in you needing less words to convey whatever thought you are trying to convey.	/r/seduction	09/02/13 05:35 AM
2	Bang With Friends This shit seems dumb, just talk to girls you like.	/r/seduction	07/02/13 05:22 PM
1	I feel like quite possibly the very best thing a guy could do to elevate his game gets completely discredited here (a.k.a. "Do you even lift?") I'd say that in the 6~ hours after I hit the gym my motivation to engage women is at 250%. Gaining even 5-10 pounds of muscle feels really good and does wonders for your confidence levels which will impact the way you walk and carry yourself around people. I was like 130 and went up to 140 (so not even 'buff' at all really) and I just felt like I was the incredible hulk when I walked around and to top it off I got a lot of compliments to my own surprise. So yeah, lift. TL;DR: Lifted, gained a bi…	/r/seduction	06/02/13 02:36 AM
9	Free eBook (.pdf) that everyone here should read! Very useful/helpful. I wanted to point out that the advice on handshakes is way off. If you shake another person's hand and turn their hand down this is the wrong kind of dominating motion to be doing, it is received very poorly by both men and women. In the scenario of handshakes a firm grip and either a 'equal' or 'slight palm' up motion with eye contact is the best approach. The palm up alone is semi-submissive, but combined with a confident grip and strong eye-contact you will instead be interpreted warmly and a…	/r/seduction	06/02/13 02:31 AM
0	Do you use affirmations? Let's hear them! 1) I imagine myself to be a silver back gorilla marching around the jungle, I am looking for the finest mate, I aint scared of a thing. 2) I'm just an animal in general, doing what animals do: try to meet other sex 3) I have a history of being successful, so despite what the doubtful side of my mind has to say just going in and meeting someone new almost always works out in my favor in one shape or another. i.e. maybe I don't get a number but she helps me get Gucci Mane tickets for 75% off via h…	/r/seduction	04/02/13 08:21 AM
0	If you're constantly flirting, busting chops, and being cool and kinoing women you've seen once in a while, is there at time when they just won't see you as lover potential? Details inside. I think if you don't get a number and actually date the girl she may lose interest. Maybe she liked you initially but lost confidence in her attractiveness towards you because you never asked her out & made a move. Just my 0.02c	/r/seduction	04/02/13 08:14 AM
1	How did you develop confidence? - women and dating Blind confidence; believing in yourself at all times even when there is no reason to do so (flipping a coin etc.)	/r/seduction	02/02/13 08:21 PM
2	Not that this is some big revelation or anything-a thread in /r/askwomen asked about how often they were complimented on a day to day basis. The response - a couple of times a year. Word to this, I asked a question about approaching women on their iPhones. The response was pretty much unanimous that women on their phones are busy and that an approach would not be welcome. I would personally think this is not the case as 90% of phone activity can be postponed a minute or two and 90% of the time people turn to their smartphones when they're bored. I think that when you are a 'charming' guy or a guy that really attracts women, you're going to do things that in print sound bad …	/r/seduction	28/01/13 04:15 AM