zesto_is_besto Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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-11	So, if I may ask, have you guys found feminism? I don't identify as a feminist. My take on feminism is that it's about brow beating men who are already sympathetic to the cause of feminism and punishing the weakest among it's enemies. While the ideas of feminism are noble, in practice the movement only has power over men who are already in certain progressive liberal demographics. So messages like "teach men not to rape" is well respected by men who are already feminists, but useless to men who aren't and so it accomplishes very little. Hound…	/r/ExRedPill	29/09/14 07:32 PM
1	Did you guys know that /r/TheRedPill cannot be mentioned in a /r/AskReddit comment, because they consider it a "hate site?" but the way some people use these to be a disgusting human being under the ruse >of thinking they're "being alpha" is not the same thing as actually being Alpha. Agreed. Being an "alpha" in the modern world's sexual market place is a pretty shallow, non-manly practice. I get the feeling that posters here are either faking it, or are successfully being "alpha" as defined here, which is the ying to feminism's yang. TRP may be a sexual strategy that works in this modern world, but I have a pretty l…	/r/TheRedPill	26/09/14 03:22 PM
4	Forbes fires columnist who points out that girls who get too drunk are irresponsible and that false rape accusations are real This article is incredible. I was the President of my fraternity in college and I wish I had read something like this. We were a local fraternity, so unfortunately we didn't have the support of a national organization. Time and time again I made the argument for lifting the ban on kegs at fraternity parties. My argument was always that the presence of kegs, with only one tapped at a time using a hand pump tap, slows the rate of consumption of alcohol at parties! Yet my college banned them from a…	/r/TheRedPill	25/09/14 04:45 PM
3	Beware the Advice of Old Men I got some interesting advice from a wife in that kind of a marriage. The industry I work in is dominated by women, for the most part. The company I used to work for was taking over the operation of another company, and my job was to travel to the site and oversee the acquisition of assets and make sure the new staff was qualified to do their jobs. I walked in to a meeting with my boss and the outgoing manager of the company we were replacing. She was an older lady. I introduced myself and was, …	/r/TheRedPill	24/09/14 04:49 PM
1	A child becomes a brat in the same manner a woman becomes a bitch. And you must not have young children.	/r/TheRedPill	23/09/14 02:26 AM
7	A child becomes a brat in the same manner a woman becomes a bitch. Good lord; I have a feeling you and a lot of people in this thread don't have children. Yes, children need boundaries. They often crave those boundaries and want to know exactly where they are. They test them to find out. But within those boundaries children need a lot of freedom. Not discipline, but freedom. The restrictions on a child's freedom these days are pretty unprecedented. I can't stand seeing a kid with a bunch of arbitrary rules forced on them to satisfy their parent's OCD and need t…	/r/TheRedPill	22/09/14 04:34 PM
14	Wife bragging about being hit on... didn't know how to react. Agreed. This is how I handle it. My wife also loves it when I say or do things that claim her, even if it's just that last sentence that you added, it makes her feel good and loved. The folks who are suggesting putting their wife down sound like insecure assholes. This is your wife for Christ's sake, not some bar floozy.	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/14 04:18 AM
4	43 percent of HS boys and college men reported an unwanted sexual experience; 95 percent said a female acquaintance was the aggressor According to the article's definitions I've experienced unwanted sexual seduction by sexual behaviors. It probably fit the definition of sexual assault in at least one case. I view such things in the light of biological gender differences. Much like the issue of women hitting men, there is a huge power differential between men and women that can't really be ignored. In my case of sexual assault, the woman was in my weight class, and I was extremely drunk. I was still able to physically push her …	/r/TheRedPill	26/03/14 04:17 PM
7	Some Betas Happy Being Betas? I don't 100% buy the alpha/beta argument as it's presented here. The two states are relative. And I think that they apply less to relationships between women and men and more to relationships between men. Humans are a highly social animal and we come in a variety of shapes, sizes, temperaments and personalities. This is a good thing as it lends itself to specialization within a society, community, tribe, etc. Not everyone is going to have an alpha personality; and that's okay. Any given communit…	/r/TheRedPill	21/01/14 04:45 PM
2	Girl laments loss of her beta male friend & tries to shame all men into staying in the "friend zone" So like I’d tell Ted, instead of texting your lady friend mean and angry > shit and ignoring her, which makes you appear childish and bitch-like, > spend that valuable time and energy reflecting and then conquering > instead. I don’t mean the ten minutes post-lifting you spend on > secret, selfie-action in the bathroom mirror. Her advice for him to work on self improvement is, at least, good. He might be a little bit heart broken and acting irrationally. The way forward is for him to shrug his s…	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/13 04:31 PM
9	Beta's GF wants an open relationship to fuck his best friend. Hates it, but may allow it because her "sexuality was trapped by the conventions of our monogamous relationship." Who are these dickhead "best friends" that even consider flirting, let alone screwing, their buddy's girlfriend? Seriously? What kind of men are these? In my younger days I had numerous opportunities to hook up with women with whom my closest friends were interested in having long term relationships. But I didn't. Because I know what it means to be a friend to someone and I'm not going to throw away my honor and my friendship for a lay. The guys in these stories need to surround themselves with …	/r/TheRedPill	16/11/13 06:26 PM
3	Has anyone here read the Taming of the Shrew? I can get on board with that explanation.	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/13 10:53 PM
3	Has anyone here read the Taming of the Shrew? An interesting interpretation of the play is that cruelty in general is a central theme, not merely cruelty between the sexes. If you're taking this treatment of a wife at face value as RP, then maybe you're confusing being masculine and alpha with being an asshole to your wife. You can be one without the other. "Some critics, such as Marvin Bennet Krims, believe that cruelty permeates the entire play, including the Induction, and is therefore a major theme. The Sly frame, with the Lord's spitef…	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/13 06:34 PM
12	"Nobody really wants to date a porn star, stripper or escort. Also the whole family thing and having kids, who's gonna have kids with an ex-porn star She doesn't wonder why, dude. She knows. Hence she said "Nobody really wants to date a porn star, stripper or escort. Also the whole family thing and having kids, I’m like ‘who’s gonna have kids with an ex-porn star." You know, like it says in the title?	/r/TheRedPill	25/10/13 08:47 PM
1	Working On Changing My Life, But according to Roosh V I'm not a real man. Money and women are two possible consequences of being a real man. I tend to follow Jack Donovan's definition in his book, The Way of Men. The way of men is about the tactical virtues of the gangster life: honor, strength, mastery, and courage. In other words, manliness is not about impressing females; it's about impressing other men. Do that and the women will follow as a consequence. Roosh V and pick up artists (if their lay counts are to be believed) are exploiting a historical anomaly where …	/r/askTRP	03/09/13 04:43 PM
1	As Bouncers See It The only time I had fun at a strip club was at my good friend's bachelor party. Just us dudes out having a good time together with naked chicks in the background. I've never even gotten a boner at a strip club.	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/13 08:23 PM