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Since askTrp is dead. Just a offtopic question for whoever sees this. Is there a resource (youtube/forums/website etc) where someone analysis amateurs' pickup attempts and gives feedback to learn about the common loopholes? Or more importantly what is the fastest way you have found to improve your results in the field?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/22 10:04 AM
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If they are following you on snapchat, try posting a few cool stories. If they are interested they might hit you up. If that doesn't work try commenting something mundane and non sexual on their snapchat stories. If they are interested they will continue the conversation and then ask them out. You can't directly plate a chick from a text unless you are a Greek god and one of a kind.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 01:56 PM
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And we saved a brother... Cheers everyone!!
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 01:35 PM
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Well I guess if you can see all the progress in one place in a app... I might work the same way... But I prefer paper... Makes it more tangible
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 05:02 PM
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Next time push it to 6
/r/askTRP18/06/18 11:35 AM
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For anyone who want to have that high rush... Keeping a notebook and checking off or writing things you do (better self improvement things) down... Does give you a small high... It's the same as getting a small Xp in games!! Try it
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 06:01 AM
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Breathe
/r/askTRP13/06/18 08:07 AM
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The underlying concept is very psychological and simple. The more you invest the harder it is for you to move away from that investment. I think it's also called the slot machine syndrome. Plus it requires admitting that you made a mistake. Your mind and ego are surprisingly against it, and convinces you to stay.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 05:31 AM
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I would say she want you to end it, so that she can move on quickly without any social obligation by justifying you are the ass hole who left her when her mom is sick and she is going through a bad time.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 12:09 PM
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Okay so lets assume you dont invite chicks över to bust a nut in 20 second. Whats the plan, waiting for god or your hand to give you superpower to last 20 mins. Everyone is inexperienced at some point of time. Just do it and dont even mention it. If you dont seem concerned about it she won't mind it . Worst comes to worst, say damn you are too hot, I didnt think I would come too soon, and if she is the one who starts makes a big deal, throw a tantrum, "i think it would take a right girl to learn…
/r/seduction26/02/18 02:51 PM
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The best response to similar type of crap message is. "Oh Thank God. I was thinking the same, didnt know how to say it. So glad you said it. All the best"
/r/askTRP19/02/18 11:08 AM
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I can understand where you are going with this. It does seems appealing. And yes its very time consuming, but i am sure you will obviously extract more by this. But most people feel the anxiety of being stuck at the same thing for a long time. I have tried a little different approach. 1) To mark all the main points i find in the book while reading. 2) And after finishing a section, try to explain out loud (as if to a child) what the section said in very basic form. 3) And also when picking up th…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 04:08 PM
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https://youtu.be/vOvwTWhVT24 There you go. Watch till the end. Which one do you wanna be
/r/askTRP24/01/18 08:58 AM
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Imagine her sucking some chads dick while complaining how much of a pussy her ex was. Anger will keep you warm at night and wounded pride can spur a man to wonderous things!!
/r/askTRP08/01/18 02:58 AM
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hey can you share it again. I guess you removed the book.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 04:34 PM
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One word : youtube
/r/askTRP30/12/17 06:32 PM
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Your move "kick her out" as soon as you think you have tried every move and she is not budging. It has the most chance of working. Dont show her to the gate, good bye kisses etc. Just take all the attention away. Then ghost her. If she has to come back she will else move on.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 06:23 PM
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Yeah i know. And logic is i understand pushing it a little bit. Just want to confirm the underlying RP principles.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 04:23 PM
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Call me daddy little girl !
/r/askTRP06/12/17 12:08 PM
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I think the fact that she was a virgin when they met, gave it all a unicorn appeal in the eyes of Elon. That kind of thing is hard to shake off specially when you are too focused on making the world a better place and dont have enough time to learn and see for yourself the real face of women.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 09:54 AM
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Been there long time ago. Only happens when you are too much invested in one thing. "Never keep all your eggs in one basket" they say. Have some hobbies passions friends and goals. Send a text once and forget it. Believe me it gets much easier(totally effortless) if you have other things going on for you.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 05:05 PM
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1) I think it can only work if you have high SMV and she can see you gaming all the other hotter chicks and feel left out. But if that was the case you wouldn't be interested in her now would you 2) if it's not the case it's very unlikely it will work and is not worth the investment. Cancel the date. If asked later by your friend or her, tell her you are not interested in wasting time with girls who have boyfriends. Or don't say anything at all. Game other girls and build your SMV. So these thou…
/r/askTRP28/11/17 11:13 AM
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I agree. And it's really difficult. And by no mean imply shoving the red pill into your friends. But to be there if they need you. The problem also comes when all you friends are blue pilled and every time you are shot down the only way you were told forward is to get up and just try again. No change in techniques, no looking at different angles. So you are the just ready to face the same consequences but with a different woman. And yes I also I like to imagine a world where next generation star…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 04:34 AM
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I am glad that you were blessed to be with good friends and had as you say common sense to figure it out. But I look on myself and try to compare, what were we doing wrong? The only answer I could come up with if someone would have even pointed out in the direction, the truth would have been easier to find. So that it just doesn't depend totally hard core on fate.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 04:26 AM
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1) Get rid of both 2) unless you have told any of plates that you are exclusive. Maintain frame. 3) work on yourself and get more options
/r/askTRP27/11/17 02:44 PM
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If I would have to use your analogies, I am asking to 1) Make sure more people know where to find Jesus if they need answers. 2) Have more monasteries or atleast more paths to the same monastery or more people to tell where the monastery is. 3) Not to have a mass movement out of the cave, but to make sure the future kids are born either outside the cave or atleast on the boundary of it to see some light. And i think using the default assumption that everyone has to suffer and find out the hard t…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 01:41 PM
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I agree totally. And i would say the way one is raised defines how bluepilled he is and if we had someone teaching a few red rules (not even the hardcore ones) here and there TRP would not come off as a huge shock as it does to today's man. Its all about what we have been told our whole life, and changing that would make swallowing easier(and quicker).
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 01:12 PM
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Thanks man. Will consider that. But its macallan 12 and i dont give a shit about sportsball. The only other problem with this is all my friends sit with their gfs and take the same shit from them that makes me sick to the stomach and is one of the reasons i was venting here. But maybe you are right and i dont understand the sidebar to the extent you do, after all you have been here very long and are quite respected in the manosphere by everyone (including me .. keeping your condescending tone as…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 01:05 PM
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Moving the discussion to RedPill
/r/askTRP27/11/17 12:00 PM
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Place to find older women - Bars and nightclubs, on weekends. You will be surprised how many older women(29+) are present there. Not all clubs, you will have to go to a few of them to find out which one have higher number of older women. They have very less shields up. You can be more direct with them, since they dont want you to woo them off their feet and have seen all the crap 18 yr old are looking for. And in bed, you should try to take control and if you fail just be upfront and tell them '…
/r/seduction26/11/17 10:45 AM
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Start the party as soon as you step outside. Talk to people. Make some friends as soon as you reach the club. That's your home base. Keep your phone in your pocket. Have drinks but don't get drunk. Approach without thinking. Don't give a fuck what people think of you. Maintain attitude and approach. Don't look needy. Have fun
/r/seduction25/11/17 09:48 PM
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"It was good meeting you yesterday. Would you be interested in meeting in the future? YourName"... you lost it there. Errors : 1) "it was good meeting you yesterday". Said it twice in two days... What are you trying to get her to buy. Too needy. 2) "Would you be interested in meeting in future?". Low self confidence. Inability to lead. Needs reassurance. Specially when she already said she wanna hang out. 3) YourName : Same thing as both of the above. She obviously have your number and name. If …
/r/seduction24/11/17 09:00 PM
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Dont make any plans yet, its too needy. Just message something along the lines of. "Christmas is far away. But text me after christmas. Will see if we can work something out" Move on. If she gets back pick it up from there.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 11:51 AM
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Instead of whining, change your perspective. If you work on yourself and manage to raise your SMV enough to command attention in this setting (you being always blocked by a chad) . Imagine how easy life will be when you move to a setting later without a chad. Toughest times give brings the best in us. And yes, don't imitate him, but still learn what works what doesn't.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 10:35 AM
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'Its not age its SMV' You could always be opened by a girl, given compliments, showered with gifts. The main factor at play in those scenarios is the SMV. If your SMV is higher than that of woman, atleast in her eyes, they are always willing to open you. SMV could be affected by a lot of things, you build, your face, social proof. In your case the SMV is affected by the age.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 10:26 AM
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Were you getting consistent sex before this? If not... Now you know the answer
/r/askTRP22/11/17 07:43 AM
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The best response is no response or something that is equivalent to that, i.e. no emotional response and very brief. If you get angry and send some angry shit, they use it to rationalize that they made the right decision. And isn't that waste of a precious opportunity.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 11:01 PM
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Gentlemen we found a problem.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 10:56 PM
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First of all Raj is banging one of the hottest chicks around. Go figure. Secondly putting all the energy into a girl forms a cosmic balloon that can enter your ass and destroy your life (and your asshole). Go talk to other women, learn social skills, learn game, read the sidebar. Thats the only sure shot way to build your life and social proof and to get idea whether this special unicorn is yours is even worth your time. And all the thing you listed ... do that. Build yourself into a better man …
/r/askTRP21/11/17 10:49 PM
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Firstly the only way that you want me to say how it works .... is if you have opened up and they are in equal opportunity to judge you. But lets face it ... its stupid to do that just for her to believe in you. Because mostly what they will tell you is a stupid thing like her best friend getting fired over something she accidentally supported her on. And what you will say will be something on the lines of you fucking your neighbor raw and having her abort your child. I would say them, 'i wont ju…
/r/askTRP21/11/17 10:43 PM
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Told you she will come around. Now fuck her brains out... She will be craving for that
/r/askTRP20/11/17 12:03 AM
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Depends on how badly you want pussy and how much hit you can take on your pride. Still there is nothing wrong with holding the purse etc, but it's in the tone of the request, the status of your relationship and your situational awareness. And I am pretty sure all women restroom have places to hang purse/ coats. And as OP cleared it was not polite request. Should you do that for your wife, sure. For a 22 yr old brat on your first date... Come on... Really? Your actions in the first few dates sets…
/r/askTRP20/11/17 12:01 AM
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I get a feeling she would come back... Give it a couple of days... But if not... Move on. She is most probably a spoiled bitch... Who has never faced such rejection before. So it's a slap in the face And I think everyone admire a person for talking a stand... So kudos
/r/askTRP19/11/17 02:17 PM
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If you are getting a number. Just ask there and then about a meetup... Even coffee would do. If not text them the same night... And not just hi it's john etc... Text them a plan.... Be very straight forward.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 02:14 PM
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These are very little details to go on. No mention of How the relationship was? What was the argument about? Were you guys alone at the club? What time did she leave the club? Did she think you were cheating? Were you a beta pussy? As all suggested ghosting is the best approach here. If that's what actually happened. But I would suggest to atleast check what the location was where she stayed. Is it one of her girlfriends or just random dudes house. Am Not in yours or her favour at this point. Bu…
/r/askTRP18/11/17 10:59 AM
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You have no other options so you are sticking with her. It's a downward spiral. Because it will stop you from having other options. Try focusing on other things and try going out with friends. More outgoing equals more opportunities
/r/askTRP18/11/17 02:04 AM
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You see what you think. It's like a mirror. Change your perception, change your reality.
/r/seduction16/11/17 05:24 PM
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This. Now you dictate the term (ie the time). If she comes by well and good. Else hard next. Also reply should be straight forward. "Not tonight. Thursday. Are you up for it?"
/r/askTRP16/11/17 02:51 PM
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Introduce him to TRP. Start with the sidebar. You should be a model as much as you can be and should be there for him when he needs you. You can discuss important topics sometimes together if you are comfortable having a drink or so with him. Pushing him wont work, it backfires. Have patience. He will get around. Also. Maintain your self respect around him. If he doesn't respect you, doesnt matter what you do he will never listen.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 12:12 PM
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This !! Read. Dont get butthurt. Learn
/r/askTRP15/11/17 09:38 AM
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Fuck her brains out. Lot of dirty talk. Use lube if she gets dry. After orgasm tell her she is beautiful. Problem solved. PS: She might fall in love with you. Be careful !!
/r/askTRP15/11/17 09:33 AM
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If you can pull them off with confidence go for it. Key word is confidence. You don't need anyones opinion for this. Look up Corey Worthington on you tube and rollos blog. You will know what I mean.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 07:47 AM
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seriously what ? Oh god Are we in the matrix ? Or is it the 4th level of inception ? Oh oh oh ... I am so excited. Tell me more about this dream world. Now that is out of the way. Lets start with the basics. Grow the fuck up. Think logically ... if someone dreams really tells something about the person in the dream or the person having it. You have deep personal issues. Maybe its about you cheating yourself and karma coming to bite you in the ass. Or just getting over the fact that you are going…
/r/askTRP14/11/17 12:20 PM
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Bad Breath could kill everything, make sure you have a mint at disposal. And for other odors it's good to invest in a cologne. They work. Other thing could be you are coming on a little too strong while kissing. Eg: directly sticking the tongue down her throat. That should be easily fixable.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 03:59 PM
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Just wondering, could it be breath issues, or other hygiene issues ? After kissing kino shouldn't be a problem. ... unless ofcourse you are grabbing them by the p**sy
/r/askTRP13/11/17 03:48 PM
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What i always do is focus on breathing when i think i am close to cumming. It looses the erection a little bit. I stop for a sec or two and then continue. The other thing that helped was practicing to know my point of no return.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 03:28 PM
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If you are looking for someone to give you a formula to magiacally fix everything it doesnt exist. Thats the reality. Face it. That being said. I would say you are more in your head than you should be. I went from a very conservative introvert with no connection to girl and 2-3 friends (spending my entire youth on games and tv), no confidence, decent amount of bullying, and virgin till 26, hb5, .... to a fully grown man, with good amount of confidence, hb7 now, 1 really hot ex gf, good physique,…
/r/askTRP13/11/17 03:16 PM
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This. Damn you nailed it. It's a good read and very well written. The idea is to show you clearly have (or can have) options and wouldn't have problem moving on the minute she fucks up, without even breaking a sweat. Do that and you are golden for life. The other aspect is to have some mystery and not be boring. Especially in bed. Keep changing things even by a little. Fuck her hard one day, soft the other. Fuck her in the kitchen when she is cooking. Jump into the shower when she doesn't expect…
/r/askTRP13/11/17 10:10 AM
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What supplement were we talking about here. Since then comment is removed. Curious because I have also started taking supplements. Want to know if I am on the right track
/r/seduction12/11/17 02:31 PM
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Well SMV is something that is built over time. But the basic gist is to act non needy and ready to walk away any time.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 08:01 PM
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Thats a lot to go through and i cant imagine how you got by it. But the fact that you did would give great hope to a lot of people. Salute to you brother !!
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 02:05 PM
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I had a good time. You are fun. I will text you later. Have a good day.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 01:33 PM
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It's just your type. And if they look like you ex. It can trigger confusion. But realise it's perfectly normal, its like saying I like white girls. Instead think how great it will be to fuck her. However if you saw red flags in your ex and new girl is like her... Make sure to check if those overlap as well.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 01:19 PM
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Have to ask... During those several hours do you even play or learn music or just mental mastubrate. I would use it as a passion and turn the wheels in my favour.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 01:15 PM
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Get her comfortable and escalate. But considering she has a boyfriend you will have to display very high SMV and play it really cool. And it's likely you will get a lot of resistance. Imo not worth the time but give it a shot and move on if it doesn't happen.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 01:13 PM
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I used to be the same. Until i accepted that there are changes that needs to be made. I kept it simple. Hit gym 3 times a week. Do cardio for 1 km as warmup and then 5 exercises of 3x8 (chest,bicep,tricep,back,shoulder depending on mood and day) . Regarding diet. I take 500 calories extra per day. Mostly during breakfast and i consume protein equal to my weight. Gained 2.5-3 kgs in 1-1.5 month, mostly muscle . PS: I am lousy at making breakfast. So i use Huel ( google it. not sure if the communi…
/r/askTRP10/11/17 04:17 PM
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A question first... How did you find TRP? I am curious
/r/askTRP10/11/17 03:21 PM
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Why the fuck are you helping her in the first place? For gods sake have some self respect. She disrespected you and you are finding ways to help her. Read the fucking sidebar !!
/r/askTRP10/11/17 03:05 PM
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If you are deciding between people to have a LTR ... you are not ready for a LTR. You are just kidding yourself. That being said, continue with both. Until one of them shows her true color and screws up. Its better than you choosing the wrong one and then she shows that while being in LTR.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 01:50 PM
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All parents need time to forgive their kids. The more severe the circumstances the more time it will take. And considering you are from conservative household, it will take some time. But the thing you should be focusing on is giving up the drugs and alcohol. That is how you show you are not amused by your current choices. PS: if she still doesnt talk to you after a week. Tell her 'I told you all this because i need your help, you can hate me but help me please'. In the process she will forgive …
/r/askTRP10/11/17 01:45 PM
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Dude she would have called the yacht guy to pick her up and fuck her even for more time and less(still some) money, maybe even just an accommodation till yacht party starts !! But i get it what you did and why you did it. And i think its still noble in a way.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 09:59 AM
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I made some friends. But it helps in so many other ways. One good for socialising and maybe practicing game. Secondly fun activities give you cool stories and general enjoyment and productive meetups improve your skills. Third you get to know a lot of people, expand your circle, get invited to further parties, and have excuses not to sit at home.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 09:19 PM
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Just curious ... since i am on the same path ... Did you cut off masturbation totally as well ?
/r/askTRP09/11/17 04:30 PM
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I allow myself to mastrubate once a week and do that without porn. I try to get myself to full erection just by sensation and then imagine real world scenarios(not porn world) to get the job done. Its healthy. Plus having a belief that my dick needs pussy more than my hand helps keep it in check.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 04:29 PM
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I don't think it affect cold approach directly. But what it can affect is your will to go out and look for sex because your brain has already gotten sex. And it can definitely affect your performance in bed. I would suggest totally cut off porn and limit mastubration to once a week. You will have much more motivation to go out and approach and you will give much more sexual vibe.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 03:47 PM
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Hope it helps : Coming from a person who had 3 oneitis ( back to back ) each lasting around 3 years (last one ended this July) and with the same destructive tendencies at the end. What i have learned (overall , but mostly after my last breakup, so yes the reality was always there, I was just not accepting it) : 1) There is no one. Coming from Tomassi and yes my own perception. If I could have 3 oneitis back to back (that clearly means there is no one). Plus the very idea of having a oneitis is o…
/r/askTRP09/11/17 11:45 AM
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If you had clinginess ever mentioned in a conversation, 99% of the time you were clingy. And there is no going back to from this. So move on. And it says ex för a reason. And if your ex is the reason you found TRP. Count it a blessing. That being said. It's time to undergo transformation. Read the whole fucking side bar. Then do it again two more times till you have a mindset which tells you 'how stupid it was to ask the question you asked'. You will thank each one of us later.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 09:16 AM
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Way to go !! ... Now keep complete ghost mode and avoid falling into guilt (sometimes people are tempted). Its time to start working on yourself and slay other pussies. All the best !! PS: Now that you have time .. read the whole sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 12:39 PM
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Exercise(gym, if at work), kegels(at desk), audiobooks, online courses, indoor sports (if at work), writing, managing finances, stocks , weekend planning, diet management, vacation/bucket list planning, study for certifications, tinder/online dating management,, get some sleep(short nap), meditation of the top of my head
/r/askTRP08/11/17 11:55 AM
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Man was born to achieve great heights. Anyone who doesn't do that is not using his life properly. It's your destiny... And you start moving towards it the minute you start working on yourself. Everything else you receive is just bonus.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 07:36 AM
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Its possible your pics and that of your dick are now being used to scam 80 year old grannies.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 03:11 PM
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I agree. And the reason is because most of the time lifting is a 'keystone habit', the one which give a person enough courage/motivation to develop other successful habits.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 12:52 PM
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Try Max!! Especially the Natural. ... Even I don't like Tyler or even Julien for that matter (though he has some videos which are really eye opening). The key is to extract the maximum out of it and not blindly follow.
/r/seduction07/11/17 12:18 PM
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The problem is not that you look like a 40 year old pedophile. It's that you carry yourself as one. Get a makeover. Try different shape and sizes of beard. And do something about your hair. Style it, cut it, color it. And have some sense of fashion. Follow Antonio cent something and alpha m on youtube. Get collared tshirts or shirts. Even a blazer. Use trousers instead of jeans. Get shades. Get a sexy pair of shoes. And I don't mean sneakers And improve your posture. It says a lot. And hit the g…
/r/seduction07/11/17 09:11 AM
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Similar post here, someone posted, it should help with increasing libido as well. https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/7ax9op/better_erections_lifestyle_changes/
/r/askTRP06/11/17 11:48 AM
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If you sex life is good and you can rock her world in bed, I don't see any problem with porn. However if that's not the case, porn is and will be a problem. So fade it out slowly. From a few minutes every time to completely cutting it out. And you should have better things to work on if you are getting enough sex anyways.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 10:39 AM
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Haha ... you should have texted that plan of yours to her ... if you really wanted to see the sparks fly . The bitch would not have her ass calmed for a month. Women go absolutely bonkers if they knew they accidentally threw away her man to other women.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 02:06 PM
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thinking about it after the fact and worrying about how you acted ... is caring. The only thing you did was show her you didn't care. What everyone is telling you is to actually not care at all.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 01:59 PM
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Two questions/points ? 1) You need to give some tips on dance. Not detailed just a basic overview 2) Please provide some more details on progression once you already have her dancing with you ? From what i have tried. Its better if you keep dancing for sometime and escalating to see where she is comfortable touching before trying to talk to her. If at some point she is allowing you to grab her ass , take her out of the dance floor, saying i need(let's get) a drink/water/some air (note : lead her…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 09:23 AM
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Just wondering do you jump into cold showers or you start with warm and then turn to cold ?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 09:13 AM
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She fucked an alpha , who left her after using ... now she doesn't have anyone and can see if the old sweet beta you will still be around to give her some validation ... Now ask yourself ... do you really feel bad for your girlfriend being fucked by a stud and feeling helpless after he left her ?
/r/askTRP04/11/17 06:35 PM
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Get her to masturbrate infront of you and then come. If she cant do it infront of you while just touching herself, then you got nothing to worry about. Otherwise learn how she did it, go for regular fucking, make yourself cum without worrying about her, and then finger her to get her to cum. Also needless to say keep improvising a little bit with position and domination/dirty talk to see what works better for it.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 09:00 AM
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I lost my virginity at 26. And found game, seduction and pickup 3 months ago at 30. You are 5 years ahead of me. It's never late. Read the sidebar. Lift, have a sense of style, correct your posture. Develop an attitude. Learn not to give a fuck. Get out of your comfort zone. Stop video games and TV. Learn game and find a wing. Go out and approach. Become more social. Read improvement and game books. Follow Trp. Do this and see the world unfold before you eyes.
/r/seduction02/11/17 03:29 PM
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Oh the moment when you realize you could have lived the life so fucking differently ... Huge eye opener ... Good going brother !!
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 10:24 AM
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How about wipped cream on me. If you lick it quickly you get an additional cookie.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 09:25 AM
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Okay here is the deal. Just assume you are going to loose her. It's going to happen eventually. Now you can decide if you want to give it a shot and loose her with respect like a man or play safe and loose her being a pussy. The choice is yours. The other point you should understand is that if you make a move and she rejects you somehow, it's her that is acting differently not you. You are acting according to your biological urges. If that happen don't apologise, play along, if the rejection was…
/r/askTRP02/11/17 09:20 AM
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I was told "Models" and the "Subtle art of not giving a fuck" are also good. But maybe they are not totally red pill books. What do you guys think?
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 01:50 PM
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Ask her to your place(only this, nothing else ) and escalate. If you still wanna bang her. If there is drama, ghost and next.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 11:08 AM
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Most probably she is fucking other guys, maybe more alpha than you, and if she gets pregnant... She wants to know where it came from. Secondly she could be playing mind games to turn you into beta (get to commit more, assure her it's not the case)
/r/askTRP01/11/17 08:19 AM
2

I get it... This could be two things... Attitude and appearance ... Attitude will come by lifting, getting hobbies, having your shit together. Appearance can be improved by changing things... Change your hair style. Get new clothes. Improve your posture. Basically going a little out of your comfort zone.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 08:15 AM
2

I would advise against going to an escort. Because even though it takes away your need for sex(which you are mistaking for abundance mentality) ... It also takes away your reasons to game... To go out and hunt for pussy... Because your mind and body doesn't put too much effort into it... Since you can just go home and order a pussy. The max you can do... if you really are desperate... Trying going to a masseuse and gaming her.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 07:55 AM
3

I agree to the above. Also keep in mind to not show that you put too much time/effort into doing this. The thought into the gift is not alpha or beta. Its good and you should have it and she will definitely know it. But if she knows you are putting TOO much time into the thing. Going to 4 different places, contacting 2 different vendors, taking a trip to visit the store 40 miles away... that screams beta. In your case dont tell her stuff like oh i spent 4 days thinking about what i love about yo…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 09:05 AM
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It could be a shit test or it could be that she gave the number without thinking too much. I would just wait for atleast 6-12 hours or so... And text Yeah I know. Coffee with a stranger. Jesus what will the world say ;) How about a walk in the park? If she is at all interested she will laugh it off and reply to continue the conversation. Else you should move on and not waste any more time.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 07:51 AM
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Depends on three things : 1) how far away are the bedrooms 2) how cool/nosy is the roomate 3) how much getting reminded of your grandmother will affect your sex life
/r/askTRP30/10/17 12:17 PM
1

Not judging here... But it feels like this has happened to you in the past and you thought you would want someone to tell you, or you thought it was happening to you (mind is a mysterious place). But still either way you are not accepting a woman's true behavior. You telling or not telling doesn't change much for her or even for the guy. I would personally prefer to introduce the guy to redpill and see if he can figure it out and I leave the woman after some time or already when I am done with h…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 10:15 AM
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Yeah I agree that it's default state. But still night game in clubs is an open buffet(if you got the skills). I think one should still learn to improve there as well. And in compliance with Red pill thinking I only pay for the clothes checkin and never buy the girl a drink first !!
/r/askTRP28/10/17 07:35 PM
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Ironically I got that response from some bitches as well... Did I hit on you last week ?
/r/askTRP28/10/17 04:15 PM
1

Did you escalate too much too soon? Were her friends nearby?
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:47 PM
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Use statements of empathy : Oh I know this is so out of the blue. I know kinda sounds crazy. I am not crazy and this kinda of new for me as well. I am so nervous to talk to you Show them your hands (don't keep them in pockets) If they look in a defensive stand...move a step back and recalibrate Avoid keno until they are comfortable.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:45 PM
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Good job !! Keep them coming !! We definitely need a channel for red pill content . I dont mind reading the long posts. But sometimes its good to listen to bullet points, to let it sink completely. And I agree ... 12 minutes is a bit too long. After a couple of minutes you start loosing the grasp of the main idea. Keep them around 7-8 mins and do bullets well.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 08:06 AM
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Its just a hurdle. Think about it this way. The sooner you get it over with, the sooner you will have a line of pussies ready to be rammed. Ain't that a pretty picture.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 09:24 PM
1

Do you like her? Wanna bang her? Something...
/r/askTRP26/10/17 09:42 AM
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Define acted like? And what's the likelihood she knows you know her? And from what I think ... It's much easier to fake you don't care (although still hard)... Than to act you don't know someone. Women can sense it very quick... Did you look back when she said hi... Before replying back... There you are caught And stop obsessing over minor details like this. Recognizing someone doesn't make you BP male.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 09:29 AM
1

You don't know whats out there until you stepped into it. You can ask for all the advice and keep postponing it all you want. Change will start once you fucking do it. Take it from a guy who spent a lot of time procrastinating. You will always be afraid, there will always be reason to start looking for they best thing before you do it. But it's all nonsense. Start acting... You are a man... You are made to face adversities... Accept your destiny!!!
/r/askTRP26/10/17 09:26 AM
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Use there lines on them... "we are having so much fun. But I am not ready to make anything serious yet. I need more time. And it should happen naturally. If you keep pushing it would destroy everything." These are classic lines women use to keep men on leash... I think it would work other way around as well. But I am not sure... Maybe others can comment on this.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 07:21 AM
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Lol... I read it as DanBrazilian expression !!
/r/askTRP26/10/17 07:12 AM
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this is interesting
/r/askTRP25/10/17 06:39 PM
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Might be she is not broken yet and that what you hit. Not sure though. It will always be painful and you have to get it over with. Try a lot of short in and out with the tip and when ready go for a big push. Make sure she is comfortable (missionary) and keep kissing her. Make it a surprise else she will always resist.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 03:59 PM
3

Get her comfortable, use Lot of foreplay, and apply lube.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 03:52 PM
1

Why the hell it would be a mistake. If she is up for it go for it. But don't get emotionally involved and look out for red flags.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 02:08 PM
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To answer your questions Yes No. Yes you are still a tampon (although you are starting to itch now) No it never happen. If it ever does (1 in 100000) it never worth it No you are starting to drift away and she want to get you back the way you were. Btw, why the hell are you still thinking about her? Ghost her hard.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 01:18 PM
1

Be assertive. She wants you to lead. "8 pm. Be on time. And bring strawberries/chocolate. See you there" Don't reply after this. Unless she is asking for directions
/r/askTRP25/10/17 12:23 PM
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You know the answer you are just not accepting it. The sooner you learn to do that. The sooner you will be a man.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 11:23 AM
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The subtle art of not giving a fuck. Thanks for the input. But I have already started models and have to order NMMNG via Amazon which will take a few days. Besides I can read pretty fast if I have focus.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 11:13 AM
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Thats one of the most beautiful posts i have ever read. Thanks a lot for the time and effort. And i think it will help a lot of people swallow this particular pill. And Yeah its a hard one to swallow .
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 08:42 AM
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No not yet... working on the rational male for the time being... That's next on the list after models, TSAONGAF
/r/askTRP25/10/17 08:02 AM
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Thanks for the response. But am not looking for responses to deal with this particular situation It's already taken care of. Wanted to hear how people reply in similar situations ( with both crazy and non crazy chicks)
/r/askTRP25/10/17 06:43 AM
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This. Actions speaks louder than words. Have you ever seen an alpha roaring to the pack the he can go fuck other females. Just show its possible. If you are good looking, just talk to someone prettier in front of her. If the other woman gives even a little sign of being into you ( laughs , touches you ), your girl will get the message. No need to verbally abuse her ( its weak and pathetic ) .
/r/askTRP24/10/17 11:53 AM
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Okay here is the hidden commandment : Any girl who uses the word 'Friendzone' on you is not even worth fucking being the last pussy in this world. Let her die wet. The point being any girl who think you are just her friend ( in true sense ), would just avoid sexual topics and not shit on you by saying ' you will not get my pussy but we can talk ' Ghost her as in you can see through her even when she is standing in front of you. Revenge mode : Teach yourself some game and fuck her best friend whi…
/r/askTRP24/10/17 09:11 AM
1

People overthink this stuff try to act cool. If you want her to think manly of you. Next time text this. I might only if you have 'black lingerie'. If she says yes. 'Be ready!! will be there in x minutes' or 'sleep well Beauty .. Beast will wake you up'. If she don't. Stay put. If she is wet enough believe me she will play along.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 09:01 AM
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Do good deeds and die. You will have dozens of virgins waiting for you in heaven. Not sure if they will be female virgins though !! On a practical side... Try hitting up women as close to legal sex age as possible, its a numbers game you will find one. :)
/r/askTRP24/10/17 08:30 AM
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Also to be kept in mind that the list is made after the deed is done. Also the confirmation of how women backward rationalize stuff. If she is pounded well, face, body, sex, penis all goes up, and 'occ and misc' vanishes !!
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 08:21 AM
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2+3+4. What to do about it Different Levels : 1) Joke about it. Tell her you used to do it as well, and cashiers are easy targets ( lower her SMV ). 2) If she keeps bringing it up, tell her to go out with someone, even if she says they are not hot, still continue they maybe really rich or have a wonderful personality. 3) If it still happens, try ghosting for some time, and being a little distant, showing more interest in other girls in front of her. 4) still does stop. Next her.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 09:14 AM
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I understand your situation man. But you cant save everyone. However if you want to talk to him. Tell him you are not judging or trying to change anything, but this is what you think is happening or is going to happen ... then describe what she is doing and will do in the future. Tell him if he can come talk to you about this whenever he wants. What this does is gives him an impression that you knew the situation better ( and you were not judgmental about him) and he will come back when he start…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 09:06 AM
1

You dont find the red pill ... the red pill finds you. And it always comes after a big crash. Atleast that's how it happened with me. The crash is about to happen. Wait it out.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 08:40 AM
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Meetup.com is one way to go. Find activities you like and you will get to know more people. Then maybe arrange one on your own and invite people you met on different meetups, ask them to bring other friends if they want. It multiples so it should be easy. Keep in mind you won't like 80% of the people and you shouldn't. But be open minded and keep talking to them.
/r/seduction22/10/17 09:57 PM
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Cancel Monday. Say you got other plans and you have already seen the episode. Go out with friends. . Ghost her for a week or two and then pick it up from there. Don't explain. Say you were busy.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 08:22 AM
1

Eye contact, voice tonality and slow moments will do well for escalating the sexual tension. But eventually you will have to make the move. If you see her leaning in, hold strong eye contact and go for the kiss.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 08:02 AM
1

I think you lost the battle when you used the word 'favourite girl' before sleeping with her. Everything else that is wrong and needs fixing you can extrapolate from that.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 08:00 AM
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I get the lesson and understand the point. But for everyone else dont try this shit in asian/too Religious countries like India, Pakistan. This could get you killed. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V4akMaeZ0-k
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 11:50 AM
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Thanks that's interesting and really helpful.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 10:33 AM
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Two options : Either pick a time when your family is not at home ( out at movies, long shopping, relatives home ) or tell her that you want to spend time with her not with all her roomates. Else Try finding a buddy who can let you fuck at his place ( make excuse that plan changes bla bla) If nothing else works and she seems up for it, try a motel.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 09:07 AM
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It's better if it's your place. Go for that first. If not make sure she is alone at her place.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 08:58 AM
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I guess you really want to hear it. So here it goes... Get her somehow to your bed (leave the laptop there for example, let me show you pics of my childhood in bedroom and then sit on the bed ). Start touching, kissing(move it to the neck) and slowly undressing. If you are already on the bed, sex is unavoidable. See... easy... And for fucks sake relax... It's just sex..
/r/askTRP19/10/17 08:33 AM
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Give it one more day and then text the exact plan for the next date. You had a good time is implied if you are setting up next date.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 08:27 AM
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Use dread and a little ghosting at times. Try doing other stuff without her and be a little distant. If doesn't work reconsider the relationship.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 07:10 AM
2

Very Interesting read and thanks for sharing ! Its good you are learning so much at such a young age. The sooner it happens the stronger it makes you. Keep working on yourself and all the best in life !
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 10:47 AM
1

Any tips on bringing 19 years old home? I am 31 and 19 years Olds lose interest soon and never get to close. A field report or general outline would be highly appreciated. Thanks!
/r/askTRP17/10/17 11:51 AM
1

This. Summary of how police and social dynamics works in India. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 10:54 AM
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That shit could get you killed in India if applied without improvising. Share the experiences man
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 10:51 AM
1

very true indeed !! And to be honest I still encourage him to lift though.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 10:49 AM
1

He is just charismatic in talking and making friends. The family didn't approve because they didn't know the guys all that well. Here Its always the case when the guys are not from school and they don't live nearby. The all of sudden part happened when he adopted a very different hairstyle which got him noticed way too much (imagine a very conservative society). More attention from women triggered the good looking part.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 09:07 AM
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Good work man!! If you ever make a wallpaper of this let me know :)
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 07:03 PM
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Move on !! She is fucking the other guy and want to keep you as a backup to cry about/ get dinner ;) Not worth playing the games and oh don't reply to her messages, cut her off completely. Very dangerous friendzone/shitlife territory.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 06:46 PM
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Thats the normal way. I think i would be shaking for quite some time in similar situation. But i have seen him, he is always so calm, and one good thing he knows his flaws very well and doesnt act against them.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 06:12 PM
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What are you a kid, sitting in your moms basement, wearing pink jamies, unicorn horn and calling yourself princess ? Have you ever been in a fight ?
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 05:54 PM
1

Yeah that was the whole point. What i wanted to convey is that he didn't have any reason to be confident in the first place when he started. But he held the belief. I think the rest of his life was build on that belief. I have seen him so many time where he would hold his ground when anyone else i know would have pissed his pants. Being confident in those situation is easier said than done. He is not alpha but on the way to be alpha. I keep pressuring him to lift. But just doesn't listen.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 05:51 PM
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Again. I doubt it would have worked. Maybe it would work some times but not every time. Moreover, its a small city, once someone run you over and you don't respond making a statement you come off as pretty weak and make survival difficult.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 05:42 PM
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Totally agree. Not saying its smart to get into a fight. Its a good thing he didnt start it . But you have to understand the landscape here. Today you are the guy who got slapped and didnt respond. Next time there will be 10 betas to try you out as well. The word here spreads fast. Its not that big a city.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 05:34 PM
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haha ...Try visiting India. You will find the line between fiction and non-fiction really blurry there. Believe me ;)
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 05:32 PM
1

Would be great if he has the capacity for that. But as i said he is a very skinny guy. Great on being an ex-boxer :)
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 05:30 PM
2

Yupp... Others have done it as well ... which one did you pick ?:)
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 05:29 PM
1

Well maybe he doesn't. but to have that attitude in that scenario, i don't think its a beta attitude, or even i could have held the conversation like he did.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 05:28 PM
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Haha...Sadly the only part shown in indian movies that doesnt happen in real life like that is the song and dance. And maybe a little non-newtonian physics :-p
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 05:27 PM
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Its called venting. If you are not getting enough pussy and had to leave all the chores, drive 20 km to be some place and not even get to hit the guy (when few people already did). it sounds like all waste and you have nothing to tell for the story or let out the anger. Understanding the mindset yet ? And i think i didn't write properly, my bad. I meant everyone else who were in the room. The people outside would have to manage anything coming from outside.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 05:21 PM
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Ahh okay. Thanks for the info. And i can understand why people might think that way, its a huge cultural gap and to be honest even i was skeptical as well when i heard it. But after like 6-7 guys confirm it and you hear the same from a shop owner, i found it plausible. And as i said i have an eyewitness account of another story i will share later which made me convince the whole part. Also such cases are a norm in north India.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 04:52 PM
1

Agreed. Physical fitness is a major characteristic of being alpha. And i mentioned that he is not a true 100% alpha. What I am emphasizing is that he had the attitude of being an alpha, just because he believed he is one. Just a strong belief alone will make you push to the limits and let your mind and body adapt due to it. It was to emphasize more on fake it till you make it as well. I think most people missed the point or maybe i didnt write it that well. :(
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 04:45 PM
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I dont know what that means...new to the community.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 04:24 PM
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I guess you are not aware about the concept of college gangs.They are not going to someone house to politely knock. It's a hostel of a university with the average hostel capacity of 250. Even in the worst case the union/college gang there will have 50 people on average. And oh they were there. 30 is keeping it on the mild level. They had baseball bat to manage to keep them company. Things in these cases get easily violent. And don't worry about curry shit...enjoy it with little pieces of shit ca…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 04:23 PM
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Well... not really. I wish it was that easy. You have to imagine it happening in India and not the western world. You don't involve cops here for slaps. Unless someone broke your leg or opened your head with baseball you don't involve cops. Sometimes not even then. India would be much safer if cops did what they are supposed to do. :)
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 04:15 PM
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Haha. Yupp. Exclusively Punjab . I understand Non Indians might have a tough time grasping the story. Still felt like sharing.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 03:54 PM
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Try raj from TBBT if you want to make it even funnier. :)
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 03:38 PM
1

Well in a way. But the only thing I can think of that he can provide is social status. In this part of the world ( maybe like the rest as well ) you get a lot being with a guy who everyone is drooling over. Maybe he could hook up other friends with friends of his gfs/plates but other than that i dont think of much. He is however interesting person to talk to, can help you look good and develop an attitude that you will need in the world and help his friends in any way he can. I guess that counts…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 03:18 PM
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Yupp, you have no Idea. When i talk about this people think I am exaggerating. I wish i was. Its all so fucked up. To stand your ground in a fight in india. You need a whole different set of balls. Watch any of the Indian movies on college/school dynamic for more info. They are not exaggerated like the songs :)
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 03:01 PM
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Yeah i know and as I said he has his flaws. Not lifting one of them. But we are talking about India here. Believe me you are not aware of the culture. If someone has to pick a fight, with that type of group dynamics, muscle doesn't help much and I mentioned 'two' and 'big'. Most of the time you are going to be knocked down the first time. The prestige comes from how you take it. And how you revert.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 02:57 PM
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If you genuinely like someone's personality or if they are really cool I see no harm. Other than that if have really hot friends or might help you with something at school / college / life. Or If you need a wing girl. Btw don't come back on this forum with headings 'fell for a low SMV girl'. You have been warned. :)
/r/askTRP13/10/17 11:34 AM
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Been there with 2 differences. I didnt find redpill until like 9 years later and secondly i moved to another place so didnt have to see the bitch. But if you are going to see her everyday there might be some issue. Solution (revenge route - a dish best served cold) : Work on yourself so much that you get above in SMV. Use all the things others mention in red pill community. I assume natually at that point you will be above her and other friend cirlce. Start socialializing with everyone except he…
/r/askTRP13/10/17 11:21 AM
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Why you have been passive your whole life : 1) social circle and close friends (mom, dad) 2) media and chick movies. The whole thing is designed to keep you in control and never flourish the natural way. Why the other guys figured it out? 1) someone taught them to be bold and stand up for themselves 2) they naturally learned not to give a fuck Both things is a start to developing a frame that is naturally attractive and alphas emerge from that. How to develop : swallow the pill, approach more, d…
/r/askTRP13/10/17 09:23 AM
1

The cure for oneitis -> Abundance . The process ... start approacing ... say (25 women for a start in a month) The average god mode .. not the greek god ;) The best case : (20 respond well, 14 give you number, 9 agree on date , 3 you sleep with) The human mode The average case : (13 respond well, 8 give you number, 5 agree on date , 1 you sleep with) The reference-guy mode The worst case : (7 respond well, 1 give you number, 0 agree on date , 0 you sleep with) lets only talk about worst case. 1)…
/r/askTRP13/10/17 09:05 AM
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Read 'She is six steps away'. Someone shared it a couple of days ago on u/PickupTorrents'. I think the approach will suit you more. Its slowly calibrating your mind and slowly stepping out of the comfort zone. I am not like you ( meaning i can just talk to women ), only when i have an agenda ( that she has to like me ) then it becomes difficult. But i still think the approach will work for you. Good luck ! Here : https://www.reddit.com/r/PickUpTorrents/comments/75fd02/share/
/r/askTRP13/10/17 08:16 AM
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Never thought of these things. Good Information. Thanks !!
/r/seduction12/10/17 06:33 PM
3

Explore different things till you find your calling. I didn't knew shit about life when I was 17. And I lost my virginity at 26, I think you will do better than that. And it never really matters. I Still feel awesome. Few things to try music, photography, sketch/paint, travel, nature walks, hiking, extreme sports (snowboarding, surfing), indoor activities (table tennis, billiards, bowling), just sports (football, hockey, cricket), be out in the sun more. And get used to be with people. You might…
/r/askTRP10/10/17 11:57 AM
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If you are little insecure and want a less bold approach. Try running into her (accidentally), acting confident and not too interested, don't engage in too long talk (1 to 2 mins). Say you have to leave. And tell her to meet at your place for drinks some night (fixed time). Text one hour earlier to switch time by 15 mins or so. If she doesn't reply and doesn't show move on. Not worth the time. If you want to go head on, then just text. I am going to the bar in an hour (close by) wanna join? Make…
/r/seduction09/10/17 08:08 AM
1

Thanks. Just curious.. How and when is 'I have a boyfriend' a shit test? How can you tell?
/r/askTRP07/10/17 02:22 PM
1

Thanks man! Appreciate the inputs. Yeah I need to keep trying more. The good thing is I was not shaken by the rejection. Usually would have lost control and babble. Maybe this is how things improve.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 02:21 PM
1

Thanks. Yeah I am still working on understanding and trying to have a strong frame.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 02:15 PM
1

Thanks man. As I said never done this before. But yeah I was a little pushy and a little desperate. Will have to try more to get better.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 02:13 PM
1

Thank you for the analysis. There was some rapport before as well. So I was not talking to her the first time. I knew from her she worked some weekdays and occasional weekends. That she was not studying yet but will join college next year. But yeah maybe in this particular interaction there was no rapport build up. Will try to do better next time.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 02:12 PM
1

Thanks man! That's quite detailed and good explanation.
/r/seduction13/09/17 07:04 PM
1

Just curious. Do girls normally carry this?
/r/seduction13/09/17 07:03 PM
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