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| 1 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonLike I said, generally those that are based in truth are actually the last straw in a series of obtuse and undesirable behaviours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonDude I'm sorry to spoil the party but I have to tell you: those "icks" are jokes. The icks we talk about have gotten progressively more ludicrus for comedic value. No one actually cares if you cross your legs. No one cares how you walk. It's everything as a package. If someone is no longer attracted to you because of that, I guarantee it was the last straw. The fact that every girl is going wild for Astarion, Halsin, and Gale in bg3 should tell you that your take is wrong. Astarion who is an eff… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 11:52 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The take-away shouldn't be that "women think 80% of men are below average"; it should be that "women suck at rating men systematically".Thats not what the study was about. the original study was stating that a certain percentage of women were competing for a smaller percentage of men, when they looked purely on swiping data and not actual dating behaviour. The study did not set out to find what women thought was physically attractive. My point is the study is if you are attempting to actually relate it to how women select male partners and it proves that dating apps don't really benefit people long term when it comes to finding … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 01:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The take-away shouldn't be that "women think 80% of men are below average"; it should be that "women suck at rating men systematically".I think you may have missed my point. Physical attractiveness is only a small part of attraction for women. If you're judging your overall attractiveness by a snap reaction to a few static photos, and ignoring all other aspects that make up your attractiveness, then you're making that decision on poor data. Women are not as dependent on physical attractiveness alone as men are. Idk if you were privy to the "he's a 10 but.." joke trend, but the underlying concept is very true. To many women, attr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:37 PM |
| 6 | CMV: The take-away shouldn't be that "women think 80% of men are below average"; it should be that "women suck at rating men systematically".I think this study fails to take into account that for many women sexuality isn't purely visual. Many women experience sexual desire more emotionally and socially and aesthetics is just another thin layer on top. Asking women to rate attractiveness on looks alone sets the experiment up to fail because realistically only 20% of the population of any people is photogenically hot. If you took that same cohort of women and set them up with blind dates with those same men, you'd likely see those resu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 11:29 AM |
| 0 | Shaming men for being virgins or not getting women is cruel, mentally damaging and by far way worst than slut shaming is for women, in fact it severly affects women more than slut shaming doesI recognize there's a difference in experience here, but I don't personally know of any women who would: A) start a podcast to specifically talk about how virgins disgust them and that being with a virgin devalues them as women, B) bully their friends about being with virgins, C) go out of their way to call out virgins or start reddit threads about virgins, and women definitely didn't start the notion that virgins = losers, that was other men. I'd doesn't sound like women are the one perpetuatin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 06:00 PM |
| – | Cheating is bad no matter your genderOption two: you could not risk your relationship and do some self work and therapy instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 09:42 AM |
| 5 | Women are ultimately hurting themselves when they refuse to approach and caution guys against approachingMaybe it would help if you started thinking about it in terms of how women's sexuality works and the experiences we might have had. We are different from you. Women largely don't approach men because that "see it, want it" sexuality isn't what many women experience. Physical attractiveness is just the first step in a ladder of "is this person a candidate for a relationship of any kind", and though it's denied a lot here its definitely not the most important one. We are rarely going to be genuine… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 11:41 PM |
| 24 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.Plenty means "a lot" and no, I doubt you've met "a lot" of crippling socially inept or mentally disadvantaged women to be jealous of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 11:06 AM |
| 28 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.I doubt very highly you have met "plenty of women" who are completely socially inept to the point of it being seriously detrimental to a partners life. If you're meeting "plenty" of people who you're having awkward conversations with, the common denominator is you, my guy. Either you're seriously judgemental, or you're the reason the conversation goes south. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 10:24 AM |
| 3 | Men being required to ask women out overvalues womenThe ridiculous first statement aside: And what if the dude you're describing likes a chubby tattooed woman? Is he being forced date her at gun point? How do you 100% know that she didn't ask him out? I don't think you realize how genuinely asinine it is to ascribe someone a numerical value based on your completely biased and unique perception when attraction is individual and subjective. And THEN on top of it assume things baselessly about their morals and personalities because you're just .... … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 07:54 AM |
| 2 | realising that the pool of suitable men for marriage is dwindling rapidly in your 30s it's the female equivalent of the shock that the redpill causes in menIdk where y'all get this from. There's plenty of good single men after 30, and more and more women are opting to be permanently single and child free by choice - not tragically unable to find a match like y'all seem to hope for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 05:22 AM |
| 1 | A lot of dating advice given by women here only works for womenApologies, I don't understand the difference. "Women go for either" and "women go for both" reads the same to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 04:57 PM |
| 3 | A lot of dating advice given by women here only works for womenSo I'm confused, is OP right and the typical "life of the party" he knows has a hard time getting women, or are you two right in saying women only go for that type? It can't be both, my love. I think maybe y'all should start reevaluating and listening to the women that post here because it seems like many redpilled posters are looking for excuses as to why you're not finding success but the map keeps being drawn for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 10:42 PM |
| 3 | A lot of dating advice given by women here only works for womenDo you mean in a one night stand sense or a relationship sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 09:38 PM |
| 5 | A lot of dating advice given by women here only works for womenBeing the "life of the party" is not the same as being a well rounded, interesting, emotionally mature person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching themI think there's a big difference between lambasting a whole group of people whom very few people have a negative interaction with, and a whole group of people where 1/4 of a population have had a negative interaction with. In the bee situation, a laughably small amount of bees sting to kill because they've been rejected, and yet 1/4 of the people who enter the room still get stung in some way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 04:57 PM |
| 5 | Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching themIf there were a laughably small amount of bees in a room, you'd probably still avoid going in the room, my guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching themHey chief I'll give you a hint: when we say go out and touch grass, what we're saying is socialize outside your house, not literally go out and approach someone. Join a hobby group. Find some people with common interests or expand your interest set and try something new. Meet women in an environment where you see them as more than potential hookups. Make friends with them. Put yourself in situations where you can grow rapport and improve yourself. Understand how women view desire and what they w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Chad's still flakey, so why does he give me the tingles? | WhereAreAllTheGoodMenYou're assuming a lot about this woman just to feel better than her. What makes you think this is cyclical behaviour of multiple bad relationships besides your own feelings? This is one person she was in love with. Maybe do some internal work mang. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/03/23 01:10 PM |
| 5 | Chad's still flakey, so why does he give me the tingles? | WhereAreAllTheGoodMenIts no projection. One commenter actually claimed that her saying she moved on meant she "slept around a lot" and that respecting that he worked on himself meant that she was just waiting for him to make money. I was referencing that sentiment when i was saying they are genuinely never happy with how we act regardless of what we do. And this is not just getting over a straight rejection, and I can't see why you'd compare it to respecting someone's boundary when you're asked to leave them alone. … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/03/23 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Chad's still flakey, so why does he give me the tingles? | WhereAreAllTheGoodMenSo I don't get it, did you guys want a woman that wants to be with and loyal to just one man no matter what or not? You can't be happy when she just wants to be with one person, you cant be happy if she moves on. You're like fkn toddlers. You can't be seen as anything more than pathetic because you don't even like women even when they are doing exactly what you want. Can any of y'all even articulate how you'd expect her to act? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/03/23 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit, what is your actual body count vs. the body count you tell the men you're with when they ask?Nobody asks me because the people I choose to sleep with have respect and value for me as a person, and not a purely sexual object. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Would you be happier with women making the first shot at this point?I'm fine with them making the first move in appropriate places, and if they have appropriate reactions to rejection. I don't want to be approached at the gym or while walking alone at night. I'm pretty sure that's not much to ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 10:01 AM |
| 4 | Not only does the D.E.N.N.I.S. system work, it should be the ultimate blueprint for any man seeking to date women casually.How to have the most miserable, short-lived, turbulent relationship in your life in only (??) Steps! The dead game doesn't work if you want to be loved and nurtured. You'll find yourself rapidly single or constantly fighting. Being emotionally neglectful will get you a breakup at best, cheated on at worst. Women are cognizant of breadcrumbing. While you think you're being sly and having her fall like a puppy, she's actually going to replace that missing attention with better quality stuff. Pleas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Young men provide in peace their labor to the society, in war their blood; in exchange they get to get a wife to have children and he is deeply invested in the well being of society, modern society destroyed this social contract and expects young men to uphold a society that gives them NOTHINGDoing which things exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Young men provide in peace their labor to the society, in war their blood; in exchange they get to get a wife to have children and he is deeply invested in the well being of society, modern society destroyed this social contract and expects young men to uphold a society that gives them NOTHINGAnd who is it that is treating your hardships as less than? Women? Or other men? Who is it that you've tried to talk to that has deprioritized your pain? Who is it that you have tried to connect with to heal that has told you your needs aren't important? Y'all need to start realizing you're complaining about being in cages that you built yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 06:33 PM |
| 13 | Young men provide in peace their labor to the society, in war their blood; in exchange they get to get a wife to have children and he is deeply invested in the well being of society, modern society destroyed this social contract and expects young men to uphold a society that gives them NOTHING"Get nothing from society" = not getting laid?? Duuuuude Bro: Women work too. The times we didn't work (outside the home) was because men made it impossible for us to do so. Women go to war too. The times we didn't was 1because men made it impossible for us to do so. Having a partner is not a reward for being a part of society. Your reward for being an effective contributor to society is being a part of that society. If you want to be "rewarded" with a partner, put in the work to make it a good … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 01:16 PM |
| 1 | As a woman, I think gender roles are naturalI think you misunderstood the term equal. Equal does not mean the same in properties, but in value. Two things can have vastly different properties and have the same inherent value. No one ever argued men and women aren't different or inclined to different interests or social wants and needs. The issue is the subjugation of one over the other. Gender "roles" vary by culture so its asinine to say theyre implied. In north america, assumed gender roles assumes that I should not be working while my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 06:15 PM |
| 0 | Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies?You don't have to do anything. My comment was for everyone else reading tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies?Imo reading through your post history, you write like a dude impersonating a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 09:01 PM |
| 7 | Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies?I don't think I've ever laughed so hard at a comment. So having a personality is distorting yourself to entertain someone else. Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies?You act as if I pursued him. I did not. You also act as if that's not subjective, as if you know what he looks like and 100% agree with that. Maybe that's my opinion from loving him deeply. Like I said - I've dated all types, for long periods of time. You just chose to cherry pick what I said and interpret it to suit your own narrative. Sorry you're feeling alone and bitter. I hope you find your person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies?Bi woman here - I have personally never been turned on by anyone's looks, initially. I have always become attracted to someone's personality. The more we laugh together, the more we gel, the closer we get, the more beautiful a body becomes to me. I've dated big people, slim people, tall people, short people, bald people, people who are conventionally very attractive and conventionally less attractive - each one of them have had to BECOME beautiful to me. My life partner happens to be conventiona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:16 PM |
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