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What exactly is a trauma bond, in a divorce I suppose? Lost myself and OPs title pulled me in while stuck waiting.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/25 09:18 PM
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Interesting
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/25 01:34 PM
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what
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/25 07:15 AM
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Sounds very similar to my situation minus the kids, length however. Wish I had advice for you but I'm still in the situation myself. We are separated though - I left our first house together, hell the first house I ever bought. Good luck OP - if I ever figure something out that isn't grieving I'll DM you. Look forward to something, anything.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/25 02:45 PM
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I read your post. Be strong brother, it's always for them, then you.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 06:28 AM
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Had a reply but hang in there. I though 19 years was rough, 40. Hang in there brother.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/25 10:34 PM
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I feel you my friend. I moved most of this music to what I'm calling the Ex-Wife playlist, and during working on my car recently trying to enjoy older stuff. I've had this playlist for...a very long time. Something about her she always mentioned is that my music choices pulled her in and love/s/d them. I'm sure it will take years but eventually I'll be back to enjoying.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/25 03:20 PM
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heh...it wasn't in this list or part of the various artists list but I know that song by heart. Painful. I hope you had a great holiday
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/25 10:47 PM
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Hell yeah brother keep at it!
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/25 10:46 PM
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It cracks me up. The past couple weeks I've been stuck working on my car. FedEx/RockAuto pissed me off with a wrong part and I busted some bookshelf speakers out along with an amp and just jammed. While the playlist needs to be pruned more - 99% of my music no longer has a direct connection with her. I'll fucking cry if I listen to the ex-wife playlist, nothing I typically share but yea
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/25 10:46 PM
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Oh wow that is cool dude. Something she stopped me from was probably enjoying any interests I had. It's..not predicable knowing me but I've always wanted to learn Piano even if I sucked at it. I have solid timing and muscle memory but after talking with a friend who was raised with piano its quite the investment haha. That said. I'm finding it so hard to listen to my usual music. Somehow some way, in a long time span she absorbd my music taste. Thank you for your reply.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/25 10:43 PM
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At least the effort you have to put forward for now is for the kids only (assuming, not prying). There is no excuse for being so dirty...it might just be me, but I'm 4 months in my divorce. The place I'm staying inbetween getting back on my feet is 10 times cleaner than it ever has been, my bed is made out of routine to keep my mind straight when I wake up and I'm actually getting appreciation for my effort. Feels insane but I'm happy about it. Good luck my guy keep posting
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/24 03:40 AM
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Hell yeah! I don't normally get excited and say this but LETS GO! Have a great new years brother
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/24 01:50 AM
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I'm sorry to bring this up brother. "emotional affair" - thank you for the 2 words I needed to properly describe my ordeal. I have all the proof in the world up to 99.99%...but that last 0.01% has kept me down hard for the past 4 months. I've known for longer but the proof I have you cannot misinterpret. Before the 4 months it was a period of about 5 months that slowly grinded me away until I called it quits. Hang in there my man
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/24 02:07 AM
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I know I'm 1h late but 5'3" 190lbs HAHAHAHAHSHHRIISXBNSBSHAHAHAHAHA
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/22 04:49 AM
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Is this where we start chimping lines like 'you go girl'?? /wrist
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/22 02:00 PM
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