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6	I Hate The Term “Emotional Labor”. Great quote: Some dislike the term “emotional labor” because it’s been overused at times and applied to things that are basic fulfillment of the social contracts of friendship and community.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/08/26 12:53 PM
13	I Hate The Term “Emotional Labor”. Exactly. It is - to use another of their favourite buzzwords - gaslighted of the highest order. Men have joked for years about their partners doing daily "trauma dumps" of their work days or falling out with friends etc - yet that is the 'bare minimum ' but if we say anything it becomes unpaid labour	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/08/26 08:31 AM
23	Examining misandry in the responses to this post in r/DecidingToBeBetter: “Wife told me why we haven’t had sex for two years. Now I’m planning to change things – for my own sake. The whole "not a need" argument is ridiculous. Coming home and offloading all your negative experiences to your partner and them being expected to listen empathetically and validate you is not a "need" either. However, you would be accused of coercive control / abuse / being a monster if you treated that "emotional labour " the same way sex is treated. Imagine if you told your partner that you not only didn't want to hear it but that they couldn't tell anyone else (friends - emotional infidelity…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/07/26 03:45 PM
2	Talk about emotional labor and unpaid labor is helping capitalists The feminist cries of "Emotional Labour" are an example of another of their favourite buzzwords: 'Gaslighting'. I don't know any men who don't have to daily listen to their partners or women colleagues trauma dumping on them [usually about other women!] with their latest issue (and if there isn't one, dragging up the previous one). We are expected to listen, comfort, reassure, empathise, support etc. I get it from when I wake up, calls at work, when home from work, last thing before I sleep. Yet…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/05/26 05:28 PM

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