zipplesdownthestairs Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Message for the guys that feel like giving up Wow this sub is a train wreck of angry dude	/r/seduction	18/11/21 04:34 AM
4	[FR] How NOT to go on a date w ur ex after you’ve learned game. It's not the universe.... It's her not really caring	/r/seduction	02/12/17 12:15 AM
1	"Just to be clear it's not a date haha" Who says boi. Are you 13? For the record I agree with you. Just not shaving... Some like scruff	/r/seduction	01/09/17 09:37 PM
1	What Podcasts Do You Listen To? Just curious if there are any good ones people recommend	/r/seduction	31/05/17 08:34 AM
2	I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt. You got rejected cause of race, I have been rejected cause of height. So what? Play vain games, win vain prizes.	/r/seduction	28/05/17 10:16 PM
1	The most important thing about seduction is not being more emotionally invested in her than she is in you. Agreed. Emotional investment is a thing that gradually builds with getting to know a person and build trust.	/r/seduction	13/04/17 04:52 PM
3	The most important thing about seduction is not being more emotionally invested in her than she is in you. I have 2 responses to the stuff you're saying: 1) I'm not against emotional investment. I think it's a natural, inevitable and good thing. I'm just saying that men should not be more invested in the girl, at least in the early stages in the relationship. After you've been dating somebody for a while, the emotions go deep and tangle in complex ways, so it's hard to tell who is "more" invested, but the main thing I am trying to prevent is the guy who is immediately "all in" while the girl isn't. S…	/r/seduction	13/04/17 04:37 PM
2	The most important thing about seduction is not being more emotionally invested in her than she is in you. To add to this models is just one step of Mark Mansons journey and if you follow it through to his latest book alot of models is intrinsically ties to his ideology of just being more comfortable and emotionally in tune with yourself. The subtle art of not giving a fuck is basically a book on inner game and models i find is a book based on having that inner game and going out and just being a genuine person.	/r/seduction	13/04/17 04:25 PM
5	The most important thing about seduction is not being more emotionally invested in her than she is in you. Thanks. As I agree with some of this post from wuojo other aspects fall flat for me. You seem to have captured what I myself disagree with. Emotional investment is how you build a relationship. Investment does not mean neglecting self it just means being vulnerable and interested emotionally. People are all going to move a different paces and I think what is attractive to people is just being healthy emotionally and self confident but that doesn't mean not being emotionally invested.	/r/seduction	13/04/17 06:46 AM
2	OK guys, older guy here. We need to discuss online dating in a honest manner for a minute. Meetup.com	/r/seduction	05/04/17 03:04 PM
3	OK guys, older guy here. We need to discuss online dating in a honest manner for a minute. Go to meetups for hobbies. I met tons of ripe 30 yr olds at volleyball	/r/seduction	05/04/17 08:57 AM
1	Boredom is why you're beta Nailed it. People are just different beautiful and come in a variety of types. I don't know how Alpha vs beta is a thing instead of a spectrum	/r/seduction	03/04/17 02:07 PM
8	Boredom is why you're beta Writing articles on Reddit is so beta, real Alpha's would be out performing. /S I don't believe in Alpha beta bullshit. We aren't pack animals. I will agree that boredom is just something that will be commonplace in someone's life who is unwilling to.go after what they enjoy	/r/seduction	02/04/17 07:46 PM
2	Do you guys ever get just bored listening to people? When I go on too many dates in a row and rwalize I'm burnt out	/r/seduction	05/02/17 10:16 PM
15	Carl Sagan gives great advice. It's only cancer if you use it to maintain a shitty view. One side of the coin is nothing we do matters so why bother. The other is nothing we do really matters so why not just do the very best at touching everything we can in our own little meaningless life. Why fear things that will not really matter in 5 years let alone 500	/r/seduction	24/12/16 06:41 PM
-1	5 Truths That You Don’t Want To Hear in Pickup Cause that person is clearly not interesting you at the time or a priority. If you were interested in said person or the conversation topic more appealing you likely would be more open to chatting or saying hey can't talk right now but opening a chat later. If you get ignored for an hr or two you definitely aren't a priority at that time.	/r/seduction	03/11/16 11:28 AM
1	Just broke up with gf.. It's unreal how differently things change I just think we are using different words to discuss and argue over the same thing. I agree that it you that there will be some enmeshment. I just don't call that codependency. I refer to what you call a personality disorder as codependency.	/r/seduction	06/01/16 06:29 PM
2	Just broke up with gf.. It's unreal how differently things change I'd have to disagree. I never said having a partner was a bad thing. I simply said being codependent is a bad thing. You should be happy being alone. Among the core characteristics of codependency, the most common theme is an excessive reliance on other people for approval and identity. That's part of the definition of codependent relationships. Perhaps you are mistaking codependency for support. Support is being able to love someone enough to let them make their own choices and decisions withou…	/r/seduction	06/01/16 06:17 PM
1	Just broke up with gf.. It's unreal how differently things change Codependent attract codependency. It's an unhealthy relationship. Your first sentence says it. You went into a relationship needing someone. Take some time and figure out how to be happy not needing anyone but yourself.	/r/seduction	06/01/16 05:55 PM
1	Getting over being a "second" Look up the word codependency. Yes being selfless is good but to an extent it can be unhealthy. Do you put others issues above your own? Do you sacrifice your own wants and needs for others? Do you feel kind of frustrated at times that you play second to their wants and needs? It's important as a healthy individual to focus on you and put your own wants and needs first and be fulfilling your desires not just helping others with theirs.	/r/seduction	02/01/16 11:21 PM
2	I have no friends You have it good. I live 45 min outside Edmonton in a town of 2500. There are always things to do. Just go find a recreational drop in sport. Even if your friends bail. Commit to going. Don't give up. Toronto is a vast city with an array of every activity you could do. And even the surrounding areas have way more population than the majority of Canada.	/r/seduction	31/07/15 10:10 PM
20	All you kids out there under 18. Stop reading this subreddit and go out and play. Then I would recommend focus on self- game not just picking up girls. Focus yourself on approaching everyone, guys and girls included, talking to teachers. Build your charisma. Maybe get a job or do some part time work, play sports or join a club. These things will help you improve your social game and build your confidence. If you are looking for tips on how to just build yourself up then please don't title 14 yr old first approach.	/r/seduction	29/07/15 09:39 PM