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Just out of curiosity, what do you mean by “charmed”? Was the feeling spontaneous, or did something specific that the women did or said cause you to feel that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:09 PM
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This seems like a chicken-egg phenomena to me. Are the apps messing up the women, or do women who aren’t picked for relationships just stay for longer on the apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:25 PM
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It does. Because women that linger on dating apps tend to want casual sex and are much smaller in number than the men that do, they can afford to be more selective with who they see casually and inevitably wind up picking guys that are out of their league because they can
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:28 AM
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People that stay on dating apps for a while disproportionately want casual sex compared to the average person. That’s not even considering that just half the women agreed or needed persuasion, while far more men probably would’ve agreed if you gender-flipped the scenario. Women who don’t want casual don’t want casual sex, and women who want it stay on the apps way longer and are overrepresented on them for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:04 AM
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I don’t think women respect men who sleep around because they sleep around. Women that find promiscuity in and of itself attractive are usually the toxic type that only like “bad boys”. The most positive acknowledgement it’ll ever get from a woman is that the man must be generally attractive to other women, but it’s not RESPECTABLE per se. If a woman’s more sexually conservative, she probably even has disdain for guys who sleep around. The most respectable man with regard to sex is the man that …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:03 AM
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If it means anything at all, I have to agree with the original commenter. My mother and grandmother are both religious and married religious men, but both men tended to take the iron fist approach to their marriages and didn’t treat them well. I was always told never to depend on a man, and a couple of women I’ve spoken to on the matter with mothers that depended on their fathers were told the same thing. I’m sure there are SAHMs and SAHWs who are married to great men, but I wouldn’t be surprise…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:46 AM
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Yes. I’m still young (21) and yes. Thank you. No woman wants the kind of man that would trade her for a younger woman. We’re not jealous, we’re grossed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:26 AM
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I refuse to believe you’re not joking
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:43 PM
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Women choose from the pool of men willing to approach them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:57 AM
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That right there is another clear sign of a guy being fuckboy, and is another reason why waiting works. If a guy is communicating inconsistently or sporadically after long periods of not talking, I’d assume I was an option to him and would delete the match/contact. If you wait to hook up, you can figure that out before ever needing to have sex with the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:01 PM
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Guys who have sex a lot are way less likely to wait around on a girl they don’t like when they can get sex from a different girl they don’t like in a shorter time frame. I’ve never known a single girl who waited to have sex get used (because the fuckboys drop like flies) but I can’t say the same for girls who put out quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:55 AM
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Most fuckboys don’t have the patience to date a girl they don’t care about for that long. They also tend to out themselves the longer you get to know them (talking about sex all the time, becoming annoyed when sex isn’t on the table, talking about old questionable sexual encounters, not showing much interest in your preferences or stories, etc). That’s why waiting works.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:36 AM
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Can you link a source? I’m not doubting you, this is just really interesting to me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:05 AM
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They don’t postpone sex to avoid being “easy,” they do it to filter out guys who only want sex since they’ll give up far sooner than men who want something serious. It’s super rare for me to see women that wait a while to have sex to be used for sex, while girls who put out sooner inevitably wind up having sex with guys that never liked them enough to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:32 PM
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Yes I see what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:25 PM
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I think it’s a little more sinister than not wanting a downgrade in your partner’s attractiveness. I watched part of the full YouTube video uploaded by the girl in this post’s thumbnail, and she talks about feeling “disgust” as a result of her past that “doesn’t go away.” It seemed more like she couldn’t forgive herself for being used by men in the past, so when trying to enjoy sex with her husband she was unable to do so. Every time I see any online testimonial about a woman who’s stopped hooki…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:17 PM
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I don’t see any other explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:05 PM
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Not to the ones they don’t find attractive enough. A lot of guys are pretty rude to those girls
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:48 PM
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Quote in the picture was probably said by the guy she’s with
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:46 PM
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I really should’ve mentioned in my original comment that I don’t think that all men that use game intend to play women, so thank you for writing this out. You said it a lot better than I could’ve considering you’ve been through it firsthand lol. I can definitely see how learning game can help men without any experience learn to attract women and build confidence in their social skills, which is much needed considering that the burden of performance when it comes to approaching the opposite sex i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:46 AM
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Yes, I was just arguing that men in relationships prior to marriage have the power, while women have the power after marriage (assuming she makes and saves less money than he does)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:29 PM
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“Now we live in an era where women are not only the gatekeepers to sex but they also hold the keys to relationships as well. And men are now navigating the dating marketplace with high levels of thirst. So when a regular guy meets a girl and she decides to be with him long term, she usually holds the power.” I’m not saying this doesn’t happen, but ironically I think the opposite side of this is more closely related to this post: because the ultimate commitment is marriage, and the current norm i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:55 PM
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Honestly, as a woman I assumed her frustration came from the realization that many women are predictable and easily manipulated when they aren’t aware of game. That’s personally what got under my skin about it. Most people really are simple creatures, and might inadvertently be played by people around them when falling for their tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:54 AM
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Younger woman not into older men here. You go girl tell them lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:11 AM
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AI mimicking human companionship always seemed like a shaky idea to me, but this comment makes me see the good in it. I’m really, really happy that you’ve made your life more livable using the technology, and I hope you don’t get any judgment for it (online or irl) because it’d be completely undeserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:04 AM
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I mentioned that I don’t drink in my comment before lol. I don’t touch drugs either. You’re completely right about regret after doing things while on drugs or alcohol though. Just commenting on how OP might’ve misread the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:40 AM
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I don’t drink. It is idiotic, but that wasn’t what the comment was talking about. I should’ve elaborated, but girls who are willing to sleep with men when drunk often would never do so sober and regret it when they are sober, so they prep a friend beforehand to take them out of those situations because they don’t trust themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:52 AM
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“I’ve seen it a number of times where the signal wasn’t given” No, you just didn’t see the signal. It could be as simple as eye contact, to a text message, to fixing a hair clip, to rapping her fingernails on the table, to stirring her drink with her finger. The dudes aren’t supposed to know what it is, but it’s visible and girls that plan it beforehand know what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:42 PM
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I guarantee you the girl was so drunk she’d regret it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:39 PM
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All the comments are saying this but I just thought I’d reiterate, she 100% asked the friend to drag her out. Girls don’t need help getting hookups, they need help getting away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:34 PM
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I think I would. Funny would be the biggest issue because I communicate in jokes and it’d be nice to have the same sense of humor, but I could make it work if I cared about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:34 PM
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I find that women with low body counts and less sexual experience care about choosing men without extensive sexual histories. I don’t know about valuing purity specifically, but I know that low n-count people almost always prefer each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:47 PM
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I don’t know about this. If I had a past relationship that ended on good terms and something tragic happened to them, I’d want to help so long as I wasn’t dating another man (they’d have a right to expect that I shouldn’t contact any exes).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:43 PM
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I don’t have any close friends of the opposite sex, and I wouldn’t want anyone I was dating to have any close friends of the opposite sex. There’s a reason relationships are so fickle nowadays compared to what they were back then, and it’s not because what we’re doing is working
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:03 PM
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Glad that this is the top comment. Perfect response.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:31 PM
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Honestly, I’m sure people would understand your situation if you explained. I think when people think “chronically single” they assume that the individual cannot get into and maintain a relationship at all. You were married, and the death of a marital partner is a huge thing to go through. You have kids together so it’s even more understandable. Only people with major red flags themselves would see that as a red flag. Really sorry for your loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:06 PM
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Honestly, based on all the horror stories I’ve heard when it comes to men cheating, having ONS, stringing girls along, and maintaining situationships when the woman wants more, if he seems completely normal otherwise I’d absolutely love to give it a go and would even prefer it over a more social guy. The problem with preselection is that many men are as faithful as their options. I’d be a lot more open to dating a guy like this than a guy every woman is after. Its also worth mentioning that I’m …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:52 PM
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You have a much better idea of what you’re signing up for with employers, and there’s usually guaranteed compensation at a predictable amount. The same can’t be said for involvement with fuck boys and gold diggers. They’re very rarely transparent about their intentions, and you have no compensation to show for once they’re done with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:06 PM
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I agree that no sex before marriage is probably best for society at large, but being able to wait until you’re married is very, very location based. If you live in a major city it’s almost impossible to find someone else that’s willing. A lot of guys won’t even be willing to commit to being a boyfriend without having sex in the dating process.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:45 AM
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Eh. I agree with your comparison: I see them the same way I see men who use women for sex. They’re doing things that benefit themselves and can be technically doing nothing wrong, but they shaft people in the process. Neither are hated because they’re smart, they’re hated because they’re parasitic and use people who probably don’t want to be used.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:17 PM
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I think sexually rigid women (relationship girls, girls with hangups) don’t abide by this. I think women who would sleep around are exactly as you described
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:06 PM
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Men who don’t want a submissive housewife probably don’t want to be used for money. Men that want one understand that money is a part of the deal. It’s really all about personal beliefs and preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:29 PM
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Honestly, I don’t believe in obesity being normalized by media but I agree with this comment. People completely underestimate how addictive food is and how difficult it is to quit eating until they lose weight themselves. I was just barely in the overweight BMI category (by about 2 lbs) and lost 30 lbs. I can’t imagine how difficult it would be for someone bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:26 PM
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This is honestly one of my favorite things about men. They have an easier time accepting harsh truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:21 PM
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It was written by a former nobody who lived vicariously through the FMC
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:18 PM
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I know this is anecdotal and doesn’t compare to a study, but I’ve seen a correlation between guys being dominant and guys mistreating women irl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 06:07 PM
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Just out of curiosity, how common is it for the women you know to ask you to open up, and how commonly do those women hold it against you? To be clear, I completely believe what you’re saying, especially after reading the thread you linked. I just want to gain more perspective on the matter
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 10:11 PM
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It’s a selfish movement. They’re probably aware of the hypocrisy but don’t care unless it benefits them. It’s not about the good of society at large, it’s about how they can make their own lives more enjoyable
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:26 PM
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Definitely when it comes to the right to bodily autonomy and support for the basic feminist beliefs (right to vote, right to work, etc). They’re just very different in how they see sex and sex work
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:19 AM
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I’m also a college virgin. I think it really depends on college culture and that the stereotype comes from girls in party schools and girls who go clubbing. They’re by far the most visible to guys since they stay single and dating for longer and put out more often
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:19 PM
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MMF would be my absolute worst nightmare. Crazy how varied people’s preferences can be
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:14 PM
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Porn gets men into slapping, strangling, rough anal, hair pulling, throat fucking, etc. which makes sex for women today much more dangerous than it once was.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:01 PM
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They’re talking about two different kinds of feminism (liberal feminism and radical feminism) and treating them as the same thing. Liberal feminists are sex positive, radical feminists are vehemently against it. The libfems that complain about it almost always see the harsh reality of oversexualizing themselves and do so out of regret
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:57 PM
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Maybe I’m an asshole, but I don’t think it is. Fit people like and date fit people, the rest get what they get
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:35 PM
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This reads as cope to me. Every study out there on the subject shows that looks matter heavily to both men and women. It’s fucked up, but it’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:06 PM
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That’s what I meant to say. I’m not talking about POC that exclusively date white people, I’m talking about the ones that do so while openly hating white men/women. It’s a combination of attraction and resentment brought on by being told that whiteness is more attractive than other appearances. Resentment is definitely the better word to describe it though; I think only a select few POC are jealous of white people because of internalized racism, while the rest resent that whiteness is the standa…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:45 PM
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It is. I’m not justifying it, I’m pointing it out. It’s wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:51 PM
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The ones that exclusively date white guys while complaining about white men. SPECIFICALLY those girls. They resent them because they were raised with Eurocentric beauty standards, but they’re attracted to them because they were raised with Eurocentric beauty standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:13 PM
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I’m not white. My parents are immigrants. We’re raised by a community that glorify white features so a lot of people who exclusively date white guys glorify white features. It’s definitely problematic, but pretending it doesn’t exist just sweeps the problem under the rug.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:12 PM
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Internalized racism. I grew up in an ethnic home and they idolize European features and pale skin. The girls around me that are exclusively attracted to white guys will pick on white-passing members of the community for the same reason: resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:06 PM
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Imo there’s a big difference. I know so many of those types and 9/10 times it’s because they’re jealous that they’re not white and can’t compete with white girls for the guys they want. The girls that hate their ideologies just don’t like being belittled by guys Edit: This comment only applies to girls who emphasize how much they hate white men but only date white men. NOT all or even most immigrant girls. The ones I’m talking about internalize ideas on whiteness being ideal that they’re raised …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:39 AM
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Can’t blame you. It seems lonelier, but not being genuinely wanted + being used for money sounds like it hurts way more
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:33 AM
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Of course it can. I’m just talking about the odds. Hot girls can get the men they want to want them back pretty easily, and the same just isn’t true for average girls. There are always going to be hot girls that punch above their weight with extremely desirable men that don’t even look at average girls, but that’s not nearly as common as average women getting pumped and dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:20 PM
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Damn. This comment just made me support one-ended open relationships. I’d take suicide over marital rape and fearing my husband for the rest of my life lol. He can fuck other people no problem
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:14 PM
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Money. If he’s not making a decent amount, the girls he’ll want to marry (attractive) won’t budge. There’s a reason the housewife cheats with the pool boy but is married to the guy that can afford to keep her at home. If a hot guy has a decent job he definitely won’t have any problems though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:05 PM
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If I were a dude I’d pick a low body count woman, but a hot girl is wayyy less likely to be alpha widowed than an average girl
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:19 PM
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It’s just for the money
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:42 PM
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Pleeease elaborate we’re trying to take notes here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:22 AM
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Their daughters are an extension of themselves, so they want the best for them. Their partners are there to give them what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:20 PM
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Yep. It’s one of the dumbest traps a woman could fall for nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:28 AM
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That kind of guy is way less likely to be a good partner though. Definitely more sociopathic, definitely more hedonistic, probably wants more extreme sex, and could probably replace a girl without a second thought. Promiscuity is bad regardless of gender, it’s just impressive when a guy does it because it’s hard
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:26 AM
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That might be true for cheating because it’s harder for men to get laid, but it decreases marital satisfaction and pair bonding ability in both genders. It’s just a risk not worth taking imo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:15 AM
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How highly would you rate yourself on a scale of 1-10? I’ve noticed that more attractive girls have much better experiences with hookup culture than less attractive girls
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:27 AM
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As a girl who doesn’t have casual sex, this is true in theory but the reality is more complex. Women that don’t have casual sex tend to pair up with men that don’t have casual sex. People who hold that value tend to want someone who holds the same value because (1) They’re on the same page as to what sex means to them and (2) They’re less likely to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:26 PM
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“Frankly it boggles my mind that women still want relationships with a group of people that they openly fear and despise” I think these are different women to be honest. I don’t see very much overlap between women that want relationships and women that consistently show how much they fear or hate men. Personally I’m a bit scared of men, and not looking for any relationship or sex with men at all. The women that openly despise men are usually women who want one-night stands and fwbs, so it’s pret…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:20 PM
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Outliers in what way? (Looks, n-count, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:04 PM
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OP is a man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:27 PM
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This doesn’t apply to all of them, but a decent number of women that dress provocatively are dependent on male validation to feel satisfied with their lives. Those ones let male sexual preferences dictate how they dress, even if it might not be in their best interests
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:46 PM
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They’re allowed to like what they like, but when what they like has cultural consequences that are more prevalent in the Black American community than in any other group, questioning it is fair (not including black immigrants in this because the culture and preferences are totally different). So long as holding them accountable doesn’t involve anything extreme (punishment, hate crimes, vitriol) and only involves pointing out that they may screw themselves over with their preferences, I think it …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:49 PM
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As someone who’s been heavily flirted with by married men, this is so true it hurts. Makes me never want to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:08 PM
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To be fair what OP says that they like seems to be objectively bad for them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:50 PM
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This is deep. No sarcasm intended
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:01 AM
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My stance on this is that women that are standoffish and curt are afraid, while women that are flat-out rude and snarky are disgusted. It makes no sense to have a bad attitude towards someone you’re afraid of suffering at the hands of.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:04 PM
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Nice try
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 02:54 PM
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I’m 20 and I wouldn’t. I like dating men closer to my age, and 4 years older is the highest I’ll go. Personally I instinctively don’t like it when I see it (one is after sex, the other money and something about how openly transactional it is puts me off) but it’s also none of my business. If they’re happy, they’re happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:33 PM
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I’ve always said “You can’t appeal to the morality of someone that doesn’t have morals.” This is the prime example of that lol. To answer your question we do think about it in that way (it’s immoral and therefore shouldn’t happen), but because you don’t, neither you or the woman can make sense of the other’s behavior. That’s why she tried to pointlessly rant in her replies to you, and why you made this post. Really, what I’m trying to say is that we’re just built differently
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:18 PM
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"Theres no logic in leaving someone who was truly good to you without ulterior motive." I agree that it's not logical, it's based on sexual desire which isn't restrained by logic. It's immoral, but for some people the instinct is strong. Personality plays a big role in this too. Doing so Is a clear sign of mental illness. I think it's sad, but not a sign of mental illness, just a sign of having low levels of loyalty + attachment and an opportunistic outlook. Good doesnt weight 250 lbs at 5 foot …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:01 AM
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Enablers are different from kind people. There are plenty of good women that would leave their partners if they were being mistreated. The truth is, being a good woman doesn't equate to being a desirable woman, and the saying "men are as faithful as their options" proves this. The men that leave for better aren't necessarily sociopathic, and the women that get left aren't necessarily bad, it's just that more attractive women exist, and the men are tempted by them. "Convince me shes a good mother…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:59 AM
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“These can’t be good women that are getting left.” I really disagree with this. Good partners are the ones that get taken for granted most.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:01 PM
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Minus the surrogate/adoption this is literally the plot of 2 and a half men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:52 PM
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NO. Absolutely not. I hate when people treat others like shit when they view them as being below their league in any context. The only thing that determines how I reject a guy (assuming I’m not afraid of him) is how respectful he is when speaking to me. I think it’s really important to be kind to someone who was brave enough to muster the courage to cold approach, so long as they do so respectfully. Rejection’s tough, so if I can make it easier to deal with I’ll do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:36 PM
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NO MERCY LMFAOOOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:14 PM
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That's true. I think I subconsciously assumed you thought that the perception of promiscuous men was completely positive since stud has a positive connotation tbh. I responded to the comment without really considering the point of the post. My fault
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:26 AM
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Thank you. A man who’s slept with 100 women is no doubt a guy with a lot of attractive qualities, but that single quality would scare most decent women looking for a relationship away. It in itself isn’t attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:49 AM
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People like to forget that for millennia, sex meant pregnancy. We’ve evolved so that our attitudes toward it are shaped by this reality. A guy that only wants to have sex with a woman and leave is a guy that would impregnate a woman and leave her to potentially die in childbirth, and if she were to live, their child would likely die without a father to provide for it. A woman that wants a connection with a man is a woman who could potentially give a man a family, allowing his genetic material to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:13 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s bad because you have a right to a preference, but I think it’s true that you’re less likely to value a woman’s personality/character if you don’t see the value of being friends with them without sex, and some women find that hurtful. Most guys would fuck their female friends, but some of those ones believe that it can be fun to just be friends with a woman (assuming she isn’t using him for favors). Someone who doesn’t agree with that is more likely to value sex a lot more tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:12 PM
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I’m saying that testosterone both drastically increases sex drive and proneness to anger. Plenty of single men aren’t violent at all and can control any anger that they may have, but you’ll find many more single men than single women that respond in this way because their biology makes them more likely do so. Same reason why there are more men in prison than women. Most guys are chilled out, but the most violent people in the population are men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:59 PM
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“Why are involuntarily single women not expressing the same violent behaviors, especially when they have much more to lose, much more quickly than the single man?” Testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:53 PM
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I think it’s something most people need to be happy with their lives, but clearly not a survival need. So a less pertinent need
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:16 PM
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I’m shocked at how many people are disagreeing with this. It proves the Red Pill not because of how the lead men in the novels act, but because of the preferences of the lead women. They want men that are richer than them, attractive, callous and that have a bad boy streak, which pretty much proves the concepts of maintaining frame, looksmaxxing and attaining status to get women. I’m a girl and if I was a dude who read women’s romance novels to get an idea of what women wanted, I’d be redpilled …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:34 PM
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Yes but Draco Malfoy is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:18 PM
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The bitter ones have the most to say so they stick out, but in my experience most older women just don’t want us to go through whatever they did. They’re more maternal than anything. Women are also a lot less competitive for men than men are for women, so that might decrease resentment. Competition is there, but it’s not as intense as what men go through
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:14 PM
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Honestly, age matters. If you want kids, it becomes much more difficult to have them after 30, and the dating pool eventually consists of divorcees and people who never got married (for a reason).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:09 PM
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This is actually true. Assuming kids aren’t a contributing factor as to why they wouldn’t want to date a 30+ woman, you automatically filter out anyone who thinks you’re too old to be attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:06 PM
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Yes. Women are more forgiving of it because attractive men tend to have higher body counts (the same isn’t true for women) but no woman wants to feel like a notch in someone’s belt. Keeping sex within relationships says a lot about your character and habits, which a woman looking for a long-term relationship will care about. In fact, reading this post alone made me happy because I didn’t know there were still men that thought like this out there lol. I really value that in a partner, and I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:47 AM
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Eh. I think men just have fewer conditions. Beauty seems like a prerequisite to strong feelings of love in men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:08 PM
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To be fair, I’d only expect a player to be able to pull quantity, and not necessarily quality. They spend a lot of their youth fucking around without practice in vetting for important qualities and against bad ones
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:46 PM
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Not true men will stop loving a woman if her looks deteriorate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 02:04 AM
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Damn. This made me gain respect for Rollo. It’s a strategy made to benefit men, not women, but I don’t know if most people who believe in it would admit that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:01 PM
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In 2021 median age for marriage in women was 28.6, and the median for men it was 30.6. The average age for women in 2021 was 33, and for men it was 35 (this is from a study from The Knot) Women over 25 are still marrying men that are close in age to them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:58 AM
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Most women are attracted to and date men their age or slightly older. Although women value income, they’re not biologically attracted to income so very few are satisfied with a partner that’s rich and substantially older (10+ years). We rarely want younger, and rarely want that much older. I’d say 4-5 years above our age is the limit for most women. 5-9 is pushing it and most women don’t actively search for men in this category, 10 or above just doesn’t work
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:31 PM
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The problem with this is that most guys would say yes to a girl they’re not that interested in for sex. When a girl accepts a guy’s offer to date, there’s a higher chance that you’re on the same page
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:38 PM
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It’s not different lol. I don’t think PPD members disagree with that. Those are whack too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:04 PM
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The ones that can’t find a man stay the longest. The women that can are there for very short periods of time, so they don’t represent the majority of profiles on the apps
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:26 PM
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Exactly what I was thinking when I read this comment. There’s no way she wasn’t sexually abused. 60 by your first year of being a legal adult is no coincidence
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:40 AM
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Old comment, but this is true for men too. All the research supports that. Old habits die hard.
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