zizn Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Dating abroad is the best decision a man could make Hopefully I’m not going on too much of a tangent here. It’s interesting going back and forth from Bhagavad Gita to NRSV. At least, I find reading these types of texts conducive to better understanding different cultures fundamentally, as they are pretty influential. It seems that Indian culture is incredibly unintuitive to a lot of westerners. I can’t comment on the reciprocal. Do you think it’s possible that this is part of the equation? Just curious.	/r/seduction	09/05/24 06:02 AM
4	I think Men hyperbolize their "toughness" Who gives a shit if someone is a nihilist? We’re all gonna fucking die anyway, it’s not like it matters	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/22 01:03 AM
3	How many dudes in here are actually in a relationship? Not trying to prove anything! Sounds like you have a decent way of looking at things. I just interpreted your comment as like “men all suck and are holding back in fear of being punished” which I don’t agree with, but it sounds like that’s not your outlook.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 04:32 PM
5	How many dudes in here are actually in a relationship? Nah, respectfully, your head is in the gutter. There are plenty of really cool guys out there. They don’t usually come on subs like this to debate masculinity and whatever else because they’re just content and living life lol. If you try to find the worst in people, you will. I promise you most men aren’t thinking redpill crap all day just keeping it to themselves because they fear the consequences. That shit doesn’t even occur to most people who have a solid upbringing and who don’t have troubl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 04:16 PM
6	How many dudes in here are actually in a relationship? Right. I think the internet is pretty seriously concerning. I’m really worried by the divides it’s creating and extremes it’s pushing people into. In some of the more conservative-leaning communities (which I do follow to stay balanced, if you’re not looking at both sides you’re being manipulated), there’s some backlash against trans folks pushing ideology on everyone. Based solely on internet discussion, it’s not hard to see where they’re coming from because things are so quickly pushed to extr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 04:04 PM
0	How many dudes in here are actually in a relationship? Great! I’m glad you can make the distinction, I think it’s important in order to maintain sanity lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 02:46 PM
28	How many dudes in here are actually in a relationship? Imo I’d be careful placing the generalization there on men. Communities like this one tend to get a vocal minority. Internet in general tbh. People in real life tend to be way more grounded. Stuff like this sometimes gets downvoted, but for real when my outlook on humanity gets bleak the best cure is putting down the phone and getting out to meet people. It’s rare that a whole demographic loses it	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 02:34 PM
3	Now that women have been sexually liberated, most men will always be sexually frustrated You’re missing my point. My problem isn’t lack of success with online dating, it’s everything that comes along with it. A few years back when I actually cared about it I would typically get multiple matches a day, sometimes a great deal more depending on how much I felt like being active. My problems don’t stem from success here, it’s all the bullshit surrounding it. Yes, I know how to craft a profile that gets matches. Is that me? If I made a genuine profile constructed with no regard for match…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 06:33 AM
3	Now that women have been sexually liberated, most men will always be sexually frustrated You’re right. Thank you, I’m trying my best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 03:52 AM
6	Now that women have been sexually liberated, most men will always be sexually frustrated I appreciate the understanding words. I am not in the best place to be commenting on this stuff currently, in all honesty. She flipped the switch but everything else is on me. I feel like this whole account is just documenting my decline. What I’m going through now is significantly worse, it’s not her fault, but I wasn’t like this before. My post history is a mess, I need help. People don’t like those who need help, it gets you ostracized. Justifiably so. I probably shouldn’t have jumped in this…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 03:51 AM
24	Now that women have been sexually liberated, most men will always be sexually frustrated Yeah. Idek if I ever want to date again tbh. Years of effort to just be treated as dispensable, disposable, someone else was available and closer so I was trashed. Trusted her more than anyone, if she could do that, I have no hope that it won’t just happen again. I realize that this is not on nearly as broad of a scale, but it seems possible that it’s a manifestation of a fucked society. That was indispensable time and effort put into a void, which I could have been using to better myself. I had…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/22 11:18 PM
1	Most men who are unsuccessful in dating and sex are due to misfortune and circumstance For sure! Also, as someone who’s struggled with the whole being flirtatious thing and approaching someone with the sole intent of dating, I’ve had a lot of success with just trying to be friends or acquaintances with people. From there, if something happens, cool! If not then you still have new friends. For me I just forget dating is even a thing and relationships kinda just happen. I think that mentality can be attractive too subconsciously, you can be more genuine and not be playing games. Eve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 07:07 PM
3	Most men who are unsuccessful in dating and sex are due to misfortune and circumstance It’s interesting how it seems that people here view dating apps as synonymous with “the dating market.” I’m not ready to get back into dating yet after my last relationship, but I had tinder for like a week and deleted after I saw that it’s just not right for me. Perhaps you might think about doing the same, meeting people in person is entirely different and imo a much better route to go. Dating apps are incredibly shallow, turn it into a game, and from what I’ve seen, everyone on those apps are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 06:48 PM
5	Should you cut off all the people you've slept with when you get into a relationship? Definitely respectable! I work at a warehouse at the moment so my career path has been more focused around fucking myself. I’ve seen some higher ups try the fucking friends route at work and it seems to do the trick for them, usually someone walks them out and they never show up again so I assume it’s one way to get promoted	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 03:17 AM
1	Should you cut off all the people you've slept with when you get into a relationship? Oh, to be 15 again. I was ready to legitimately respond but… there’s like nothing of substance to this comment and it feels like I’d be indulging weird fantasies or some shit. None of this is really relevant to this conversation and it seems you treat people like assets. You do you I guess though. Wasn’t gonna reply but someone’s got to tell you. You have a whole organ dedicated to thinking but you’re using the wrong one	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 12:03 AM
33	Should you cut off all the people you've slept with when you get into a relationship? This is very much a situation based thing imo. I have very clear boundaries with my friends, and to me that’s a sign I respect our friendship enough not to fuck it up on impulse. My ex had a history with some of her friends. I found out by piecing things together and asking, so she never told me upfront. She was vague about it. When I would hang out with her around them, they never really tried to have conversations with me, get to know me, it was like I was just there, neat. When I would confro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 10:03 PM
3	The only reason to have sex with someone is if they're sexually attractive. You’re allowed to have your opinions and all but I’m allowed to have my dry heaving in response to them and I think that about wraps it up. Screw who you wanna screw, shit on who you don’t wanna screw, doesn’t make a difference to me especially once I’m living off-grid far away from this society	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 06:34 PM
3	Should women be mad, or understanding towards men? Sub par is a lousy insult. And don’t come to the conversation complaining about lack of effort when you yourself have offered nothing of value to the topic at hand. The fact that you so readily assume that complex topics can be “googled” away, presenting your argument for you, tells me that you’re not doing a whole lot of thinking for yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 05:13 PM