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6

She's not afraid to lose you because lack of dread.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:06 PM
1

She is kind to you because she likes you. Girl that likes you will also want to be in relationship with you. When she doesn't lke you anymore, she will not be that kind to you anymore.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 02:11 PM
0

You should take a chill pill.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 10:05 PM
1

It might be because you are doing all these things for wrong reasons. With that I mean you might consciously or subconsciously do all the things with expectation of some benefits from outer environment and not solely for your internal fulfillment. Let’s suppose you are building a sand castle on a beach. If you are doing it solely for your internal fulfillment, you have no problem with knowing that a big wave or strong wind will probably destroy it over night. However if you are doing mainly to g…
/r/askTRP21/04/21 09:50 PM
2

My ounce of rationality suggests me I should consult doctors for medical questions, not internet videos/articles from random people.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 11:19 PM
-1

Yep thousands of dead people lying everywhere due to vaccine. Girl not being an antivaxer is a huge red flag.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 07:45 PM
18

He just wanted to say that you should react the same way as you would react to any other IOI. And don't get triggered so easily.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 06:38 PM
1

Mess your mind indeed
/r/askTRP16/01/21 03:20 AM
2

Why hypergamy sucks? It's like saying gravity sucks...
/r/askTRP15/01/21 05:50 PM
1

It's your decision between being a pothead vs. being anything else. Which one is right only you can judge.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 11:26 PM
2

She just wanted to take the safest path possible to ensure he would cover her shift. Yea it is a bit manipulative, but she was doing that for you (even though lying is not nice, her lying in order to be with you is a sign of attraction). Anyway, due to your insecurities, you have totally misinterpreted situation in order for it to fit into your internal version of reality where you are not worthy of her.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 11:18 PM
3

She doesn't have to text you because she has abundance of dick anyway... If you had such abundance, today you would simply text the next plate in your rotation after first one ignored you and wouldn't even bothered wondering what happened to first one. That's exactly what she most likely did yesterday.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 07:20 PM
13

Because after you apologized and explained her your transition from blue pill to red pill, she realized you are still blue pill beta she can suck some attention from.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 01:04 PM
1

You are weak and insecure, work on yourself. Seeing her personal stuff wasn’t an accident. Saying stop working and enjoy time with me is needy. Thinking about option of confronting her is weak.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 12:36 PM
12

Why do you feel like replying anything at all?
/r/askTRP06/10/20 07:17 PM
0

You couldn't sleep because you are insecure (that's also why you had to examine her phone). Because you are insecure, she is not commiting to you. So whatever you do with her is not as important as what you do with you.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 04:10 PM
1

Yes, but she still pays same "amount" of time, innocence and youth, regardless of how high value man is. So why not get higher value man instead of op?
/r/askTRP04/09/20 05:23 PM
2

Well, it's not like she had to "pay" anything more for stock that was already higher value. How both stocks will develop in future is always uncertain.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:30 PM
2

This one is tricky, because with poor delivery it can go bad as it also tells you intend to be in a relationship because that's something you need.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 04:43 PM
1

Well, you replied with "goodbye" which has essentially the same meaning (effect) as "you can't talk to me like that...' if you want to set boundaries and mean it, then being direct cannot hurt your frame.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 05:55 AM
1

In this case your response should be the same as if anybody else talked like that to you. I'd say "you can't talk to me like that" and if they are unable to produce mature response, demote them. Man or woman, it doesn't matter in this case if it is truly an insult and not a shit test.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 08:07 PM
5

Except this is not a shit test and therefore should not be handled as one.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 07:56 PM
-1

I hold a certificate saying "not weirdo"
/r/askTRP05/07/20 06:32 AM
1

Detach from your ex and that guy and focus your attention and energy on improving yourself and getting a better girl. Revenge is for the weak.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 11:09 AM
2

Ideally, your life after retirement shouldn't change.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 10:37 PM
0

No need for apology, unless YOU believe joke was unacceptable. You should have spiced up joke a little bit though...
/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:51 PM
1

Because sustaining low self esteem compounds through years and does more and more damage to your psyche, just like smoking slowly deteriates your body.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:27 PM
1

In your case low libido is just a symptom, and doesn’t need to be adressed directly. What you should do is to work on the core that causes that symptom. It is most likely related to your low self esteem you mention in one of the other posts. I would start by reading a book called psychocybernetics. Once you improve your self esteem this and possibly other symptoms will go away by themselves.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 03:13 PM
3

If you are after emotionless sex with women then you should drop them once you get emtionally invested. The other option is vetting and potentially upgrading them to a fwb or ltr. So it really depends on your preference and the kind of material she is.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 03:05 PM
2

Your post radiates insecurity plus you give her too much comfort. And she saying that you're better looking than him is just her way of giving insecure you comfort you crave, while it should be the opposite. Regardless of what happens (has happend) with this particular guy, you have lost this one.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 09:51 AM
2

You might not like my opinion, but I think you are putting too much importance on yourself.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 08:12 PM
1

What is that "a lot" she has been going through?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:55 PM
0

It's up to you whether she's a 9 or not... However to me is more like 7
/r/askTRP11/04/20 07:30 AM
1

Chill
/r/askTRP09/04/20 07:48 AM
9

Yup, the same way you get brain cancer exposing head to the sunlight
/r/askTRP08/04/20 06:29 AM
9

He should have focused on his mission and lift
/r/askTRP06/04/20 07:38 AM
1

Ok, good. Don’t know how knowing that will change anything for you though... The only thing I can see is you mentally overinvesting in such stuff...
/r/askTRP05/04/20 01:32 PM
1

You’re asking yourself the wrong thing. What you should find out is whether she’s up to meeting you or not.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 06:31 AM
2

You need to be a valuable person. This attracts connections and money. It's simple as that. Networking is a technique (a tool) but will not work without having value or being able to demonstrate it. For that reason, homeless junky cannot build valuable connections regardless of how good his networking skills are. On the other hand, elite nuclear scientist will get strong connections even if he's a networking retard.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 10:49 AM
1

Why you ghosted her after finding her on tinder if you didn't care? It doesn't add up. And appropriate question here is not whether she's worth keeping around but why is she gonna dump you. And the short answer is too low smv.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 01:29 PM
3

Your value is not high enough for her to feel satisfied, but at the same time she can't find better either, so she's still keeping you at the moment. I wouldn't care who follows her/is friends with her on social media. If you feel like you have to care and check on her, then this is the signal of your inner insecurity, which might as well be the reason she's looking for other options in the first place. So in my opinion, any reaction in this case is an overreaction. I don't believe any of your p…
/r/askTRP25/03/20 01:06 PM
3

By honestly and truly not giving a fuck. If you prentend to not give a fuck while inside you are still bothered, that will be evident to environment, no matter how hard you try to hide it.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 09:03 PM
18

Don’t give a fuck and let that be known without further elaboration. Understand that her shaming you is projection of her inner problem, therefore you should accept it as such. I don’t know why you withdrew from the group because of that... Asking for her apology is weak, because you don’t need apology from someone you don’t give a fuck about.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 08:16 PM
2

Let her find out by herself. But then you will no more need her anyway.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 11:37 PM
1

If she comes around, it will be only to see that you are still an unstable needy guy she despises. And then you will reset your no contact counter and proceed with being a pathetic looser. Start improving yourself and let that be the sole focus at the moment.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 11:39 AM
2

Having to check her phone signals insecurity. And you most likely radiate insecurities in other ways, which you are not aware of. And there's the core of the problem. I know it sounds harsh, but you deserve to be where you are.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 10:05 PM
1

It bothers you a bit, be honest with yourself. Find where your insecurity comes from and fix it.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 11:07 PM
2

Firmly putting palms on them for example.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 08:28 AM
0

That’s a bit insecure.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 10:15 PM
5

Considering guy’s hands (beta, not used to touch women) and the fact he posted this shit “look at me i wish i was a player” post, I wouldn’t be concerned. I would treat it as a shit test at most and handle it by ignoring it. Any more attention to this can only harm your frame.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 10:11 PM
1

Mainly blue pill guys waiting for things to get "fair" again.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 11:25 PM
0

Who gives a fuck.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 07:41 PM
20

Work on your balance. It’s not like you either 100% party or 100% grind. Find a position somewhere between that suits you better than position you are currently in. The best thing you can do to begin with, is to define what you want out of life and then define priorities accordingly. If you want a successful career and to have a better social life, then decide how important each of these two is to you. By doing that, it will be easier for you to plan your actions. In your case you will probbably…
/r/askTRP09/02/20 12:56 PM
1

Just treat her as a plate, as this is from now on the highest status she can ever have.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 01:41 PM
3

Did you fuck her?
/r/askTRP18/01/20 03:42 PM
1

While there’s nothing wrong with it in your case, it doesn’t mean it’s the best option for you. I was in similar position as you 10 years ago, but decided to stay at parents for a few more years (telling myself all the legitimate reasons stated in other comments). I regret that today. Looking back now, nothing develops you as a man more than being truly independent, not relying on any support from outside. It is true you can tell yourself “I’m able to go living by myself anytime if I want to” bu…
/r/askTRP04/01/20 02:30 PM
1

Yes and the house should also be as big as you can afford.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 02:13 PM
0

It’s a comfort test, which requires you to go slightly beta. It’s up to you whether you’re willing to pay that price. But if you can’t imagine enjoying dinner (or something similar) with her, then it’s probably not worth it.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 07:21 PM
4

Plate her again if you feel like, otherwise don't.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 08:32 PM
1

Meditate every day in the morning Start removing distractions Excercise
/r/askTRP27/12/19 02:22 AM
2

Well, their primary natural (hard coded) purpose is to find best possible man and take care of the family (primarly offspring). It makes sense for them to focus on keeping her man for physical and material security. So it is viable for them to make man a purpose, but today they have option to choose due to modern society which can provide and protect them if they choose not to make men their main purpose. On the other side, man’s primary purpose is not to find best possible woman to have kids wi…
/r/askTRP16/12/19 07:34 PM
1

I think you handled well until she said “Is that okay?” I’d say something like: “well, what day were you thinking?” Which offers her option to properly rechedule. If she had a legit reason to cancel (not necessarily the one she stated), IMO you went too hard with stating boundaries.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 08:38 PM
1

She should be the one to reschedule. If she declines and he asks to reschedule, that is needy.
/r/seduction15/12/19 07:46 PM
1

Don't talk to her unless she initiates conversation (in that case you set up a date) and hit her up again in a week or so. If she's loosing interest and/or playing other options, all you can do is not to further lower your value. If after a week you don't get confirmation or reschedule from her side, soft next, you got better things to do than seeking her attention.
/r/seduction15/12/19 07:44 PM
1

Well, if YOU believe she sees you as a creep, then you got no chance. First get this out of your head, then the next time you see her, just talk to her the way you would if it was a date. Look for iois and ask her out, if no iois, no big deal, you go on with your mission and repeat the process next time you see her again. If you get an iod, it is you who should cut the conversation short and not giving her more than a nice "hi" next time without appearing butthurt. Just don't appear needy and en…
/r/seduction15/12/19 07:26 PM
2

The problem is in your head, not in your phonebook. If you give attention to people who don’t deserve it (not liking yourself), you do it outside phone/text interactions as well. So focus on appreciating yourself and being satisfied with your life and temptation will go. Not having numbers saved doesn’t really make much difference. However thinking about doing it signalises pity behaviour and imposting as a victim.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 03:05 PM
5

There's a book called Psychocybernetics. Apart from being one of the best books ever written on self image, it includes a lot of answers you are looking for.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 02:43 PM
1

First of all, even if she likes you, majority of women will not make a move, because rejection feels even worse for them than for men, as they are generally more emotionally vulnerable. Her not knowing where you stand helps you in a way that she keeps thinking about you, which is a good thing as it naturally builds attraction. However this is only true if there was is any attraction to begin with.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 02:35 PM
1

I see your position as a great universal opener. It doesn’t get easier opening any set but asking them to pose for a photo and throwing few lines in between to come out as a cool guy and potentially initiate further interaction. But it’s also true that if you feel like creep approaching in general, doing it “under disguise” still won’t work for you. Anyway, use doing your job (that’s how people will percieve you when you approach - primarily as a guy who does his job and not someone who hits on …
/r/askTRP08/12/19 08:51 PM
2

Remember, she wants it but she’s not allowed to say it overtly. By agreeing to you booking a room, she’s essentially saying what society disaproves.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 08:18 PM
2

Balance your nights out. I used to have same problem, although my hungovers got worse with years. What helped me was drinking much less (like 2-4 beers max instead of 10+) going out earlier and going home earlier (2 am+-). Other realization of mine was that if going out without getting wasted was not worth going, it wasnt’t worth going in the first place. The thing here is that any deviation from your routine of discipline pushes (throws) you out of balance. The bigger the shock to your balance,…
/r/askTRP08/12/19 08:09 PM
3

I wouldn’t react at all. I think your amused comment was unnecessary (emotional reaction to some extent), because it couldn’t have brought you any good. To me it sounds too close to saying “You wouldn’t go out with him anyway, would you?”. I would act indifferent and show her I don’t really care whether she goes or not. She will probably find an excuse not to go anyway. Given it’s first time he did something like that, I wouldn’t say anything to him, because it’s insecure and you don’t want to g…
/r/askTRP08/12/19 07:41 PM
1

I think disadvantages of consuming news by far outweight advantages. To make it short; consuming news take away your attention you could focus towards working on your mission, learning new stuff, etc. They feed your brain with mostly irrelevant data to process, eating away your mental capacity to work on solving your problems and making your life better I'm not promoting ignorance here, but among all options to consume information and knowledge, to me, daily news are just too far from optimal.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 05:25 PM
2

Did you escalate while she was still being upset from a bad joke? Looking back now, do you think you could have saved the session by calibrating her mood back to not being upset before escalating again? Given that she forgave you soon after going leaving your place, in my opinion there was some potential to get back to normal with her while still at your place and then escalate again.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 05:07 PM
2

Focus on becoming who you want to be (not shy, not beta,...) and environment will adapt. I dont’t want to sound too cliche, but in the end you will find out that respect is earned by becoming person who respects himself. I don’t see sistematically changing social environment will do you any good, as new people will quickly figure who you are and put you in the same social position you currently deserve. However, given that you already went through change, establishing your social position would …
/r/askTRP26/11/19 09:50 PM
7

Dude, I went through your pile of text 3 times and am still unable to understand your question.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 09:25 PM
3

I wouldn’t text her the same day as It appears needy. I would also phrase invitation in slightly more flexible way by not stating exact activity and time in the first text. Because if she actually has plans (its weekend after all), she can’t really reschedule, as you are stating specific activity (which I assume includes your other friends, which not good idea for a date where you want time alone with her and puts additional pressure on her). Given she was considering meeting you (which might st…
/r/askTRP18/11/19 09:43 PM
1

Based on your responses in this thread, you seem to be quite insecure thus constantly seeking validation. For starter, I would read No more mr. nice guy followed by Psychocybernetics.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 03:35 PM
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