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What about values and life goals? I'm just curious where those fall for you personally. Example: I do not want kids, full stop. Not happening. That means my life goals are very different from someone who actually wants them. So I found someone who also does not want or have any kids. We are also on the same page in regards to politics, religion, social issues, and have enough of both shared and differing interests/hobbies to avoid pitfalls like codependency or drifting apart over time. Oh, and p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:53 PM
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Missed out on what, and why? How's she doing now, if you know? I'm just curious. I went to college near enough to be able to live with my parents to save money while working part time so I missed out on a lot of what most Americans would call the traditional college experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:27 PM
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guys on PPD think they’re average when they’re really bottom of the barrel This.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:23 PM
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and apparently yours as well now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:39 PM
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So do women who grow up in families where crying gets a response of "stop it or I'll give you something to cry about" Even now as an adult with my own home I slink off somewhere private. The shower is a nice place. So is my car in the garage. It's not healthy but privacy makes it feel safe to let those feelings out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:29 AM
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I haven't worked in two years and I'm loving it. Get to pursue my own interests and hobbies all day. Before I barely had time to read a magazine article. Yesterday I read over 200 pages of a book I got for Christmas. Different strokes for different folks. Dude definitely isn't "right."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:48 AM
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I figured they just learned it on their own lol or shit books like The Game, I dunno
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:41 PM
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Dread Game is the term that Red Pill users and men who fancy themselves "pick-up artists" use to describe the act of making someone think you're going to dump them or choose someone over them in order to get that person to shape up. Quality men don't even know what this childishly manipulative bullshit is, so it's a great indicator of who to avoid if you're seeking a male partner. Harder to recognize when someone's attempting to put you through it, though not impossible. Just call their bluff an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:56 PM
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jfc you replied to their comment and they replied, sad sack almost like you're on Reddit or something
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:56 PM
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I'd definitely forget about PoF and Tinder then. PoF felt like the Craigslist of online dating sites and I doubt it's better now. And Tinder... ugh, even more of a dumpster fire (can unicorn-hunting couples hit up FetLife or some other more appropriate place? JFC) OkC got a lot better after I stopped using it, though. I went to delete my account when I saw it was still up but dormant (for once I was grateful for a company sending regular emails haha) and noticed, at least for women (back in 2014…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:09 AM
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Same with older men! I don't want an age gap relationship so I specified an age range that was kind of narrow but also what I was seeking. Cue men 10 - 40 years my senior telling me I need to give older men a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:35 AM
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That's not true for all men, I assure you. (And no, I'm not referring to dudes that look like off-duty models or whatever) Met my partner on OkCupid back in 2014. He messaged me first and stood out because he actually read my whole profile before reaching out and asked a thought-provoking question to start a real conversation (instead of just "hey ;)" or something obviously copied and pasted to lots of women.) I think Tinder and Plenty of Fish were pretty awful but made some great connections wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:33 AM
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Yup, you can specify in your profile online that you aren't interested in single dads or having kids at all, ever - you'll still get your inbox flooded with: "Oh come on, give a single dad a chance - I'm a great guy!" Lol maybe but if you have kids you're not a great guy for me "I only have them every other weekend so it's like I'm childfree the rest of the time" Hahaha not true at all, you're still a father and I don't want to date any fathers "My kids are so special/great/sweet though, you'd l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:25 PM
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One night, I went to my parents' house to do laundry for the both of us. The apartment machines were crap and someone kept taking my wet laundry out of the one good washer and i didn't want to have to keep watch. Plus I missed my family and wanted to see them. I had, like, three loads' worth of laundry. The third load, the washer just... stopped mid-cycle. Broke. Had to take the sopping clothes and dry them from there but it took many cycles and I fell asleep on the couch waiting. Woke up at lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:35 PM
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Idk about other women but I learned all about it in Cosmo back in high school. Oh, and a book about the human body I had as a pre-/teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 10:11 PM
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My Abusive Aaron ex (that was actually his name, too, lol) had a lot of red flags in his behavior that I was way too naive and inexperienced in life to realize. started showing signs of being very jealous and controlling within about a year of dating: trying to keep me from seeing my friends unless he was able to be with me as well, hated visiting my family and tried to keep me from my weekly Sunday dinner with them, etc made lots of negging remarks about my clothes, hobbies, friends, interests,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 10:05 PM
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True, and we do use that protection. And yeah, sucks to know most women in the US are kinda just... well, this is how it has always been. I appreciate you taking time to explain your reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:05 PM
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How do you know this, though? I've had doctors discuss it with me in the past and they definitely warned me of side effects. As did various people IRL and online. But what's the alternative? Use condoms and just hope they don't break? So many different options, too. It's prescribed to menopausal women to help with those symptoms, as well as to people who have hormonal acne. Let's not forget that it is also prescribed for endometriosis, PCOS, prevention of ovarian cysts, etc. Or just not wanting …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 07:22 PM
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But what's wrong with the pill? Anyone who wants it has a right to ask for it and have a way to obtain it. I, for one, have never taken hormonal birth control. I would also say I consider myself a feminist. And I'm well aware of how my hormones cycle each month. Track it and my symptoms on an app and everything. I even reduced my dairy consumption by probably 90% or so when I realized I was sensitive to lactose and breaking out any time I tired to enjoy some dairy ice cream or mashed potatoes (b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:16 AM
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What does someone choosing to take birth control have to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:58 PM
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Yup. Exactly. This kind of whining seems to be pretty much the norm in the sub, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:30 PM
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Then count me as one more "minority" I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:16 PM
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Oh no, don't you realize? They decided that the topic was testosterone, and they also decided that the discussion must remain rigidly focused on only that topic. That's not how normal conversations work, of course, but since you broke their rules they get to use "you went off my set topic" as a valid response when none other could be put forth. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:55 PM
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That's cute how you think that stuff is "fixed" but I can understand the feeling of fear towards the natural process of aging. The uterus isn't broken when you reach menopause. In fact, it's doing what it is supposed to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:50 PM
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If you're a 40 year old man who wants to have kids, your prime years are past. Post-40 is old sperm and that puts the hypothetical baby at higher risk for quite a number of health issues. Same with the hypothetical mother. I'm not one of them, but if I were a woman who wanted children, I'd want them to have the best chance at a healthy start to life. I would also not want an increased chance of pregnancy complications like pre-eclampsia and gestational diabetes. There would be no point dating a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:48 PM
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What about men who don't want to reproduce, ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:43 PM
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Staring down retirement with no kids is what some folks want, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:19 PM
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Maybe to you, but to me it means, "will we facilitate a good life together?" I don't want to shock you, but I am able to support myself with or without a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:05 PM
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Agreed. I'm less concerned with looks that inevitably fade with age and more so about things like, "do I want to grow old with this person?" or, "are we compatible in our lifestyles, personalities, goals, etc?"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 06:42 PM
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I wore contacts for 16 years starting at age 7. Can't do it anymore unless maybe dailies. The technology has improved so much since 1998 but they're still... there, on your eyeballs. Lots of annoying things about contacts, they can be a pain (literally.) Maybe she didn't like them for that reason as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 08:04 PM
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Close cousin of basketball shorts, flip flops, and t-shirt
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 08:01 PM
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I don't know anyone except my boomer parents who get their news by watching talking heads on TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:47 AM
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Men do this often as well. I feel like it's just a matter of perception. Like, why is it okay for men to filter out women they deem "unattractive" but if women dare to do the same they're getting "uppity" and reaching beyond their "market value" (to use an incel term here, but still) I cannot count how many "uppity" men have tried to hit on me while I was out with friends at a club or similar venue. Like, moid, stifle yourself, you are beneath my standards so get over it. But true moids can't ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 01:48 AM
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This is a thing men do as well. I've broken up with a few men and had them "check in" on me from time to time. But also, some people are mature adults who can remain on good terms with their exes. Not a big deal. For me, there's a couple I look up from time to time. First one: An ex who abused me physically, emotionally, and financially. In early September I got an email on his behalf requesting a video call. Apparently he stole some stuff and had meth on him and got caught. I used to check in o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 07:32 PM
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Mine does this. We've been together seven years. They were incompatible and broke up before I met him. I'm an adult, and I can handle the fact that I'm not the first romantic interest he's ever had. There were other women before me, and not all of them broke up on bad terms, like this one. Just wanted to add my experience to show how this varies so greatly depending on each unique situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:42 PM
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As a woman with a body count slightly higher than 5 who has been loyal to their partner of over 6 years, I'm inclined to call BS. You're not that young, but maybe your own lack of experience is clouding your perspective here. Body count over 5 does not in any way equate to "promiscuous" - and you should be happy about that. You are kind of slut-shaming here, tbh. Maybe that's why you keep hearing it from people? I find that, generally, men I've known who talk about women like this aren't being h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:27 PM
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It's not, though. I'm from a similar area, and I've spent time on other cities throughout my country. I think you're experiencing that phenomenon that happens, for example, when you get a new car. Let's say a blue 2015 Honda Accord. You find, after a couple weeks of owning that car, that you're now seeing blue Honda Accords everywhere. Does that make sense? You're going out to these places and apparently analyzing (or trying to) the ratio of men to women. You just notice the men more for some re…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:16 PM
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Sorry for the novel but you did ask for detail, and if you're interested in a woman's perspective I wanted to offer it. So here goes. I don't want to feel pressured to make an immediate decision on someone if they pursue me IRL. I'd want to start out feeling like we could just talk and get a feel for each other's personalities. Let's meet for coffee or do something fun together - even if it's something really low-pressure like you inviting me to go on a hike you had planned with your friend grou…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 10:55 PM
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Maybe. But maybe also, in some cases, "platonic" means something closer to "I could tell he wasn't just interested in me as an attractive body or immediately treating me like a date/potential date (like the second example). Most men I know who are in happy, healthy relationships did not start out like that second scenario, they were more like the first one. And I feel more attracted to someone once I know they like me as a person and not just because I looked cute from across a crowded bar or wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 10:30 PM
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For me, it was the cherry on top after our already perfect date. Did he doubt that I'd say yes? No - he read the room, he knew we were getting along super well and really liked each other by that point. Like what people mean when they say they "clicked" with someone. It was great. There's a right way and wrong way to do it, surely, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 10:17 PM
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You could also just order one drink, like and Old Fashioned, and just sip at it/nurse it throughout the night. Nobody will care or notice that it's the same drink, especially if you don't have ice. Coke in certain glassware would look close enough, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:49 PM
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Who gives a shit if he fails to get laid after ending it with her. He's feeling like he wants to end it, so he should. It's only fair to both parties. He wants to break up, he admits he's beginning to resent his partner over this, and so he should do the right thing and break up. He has the right to do that. He also needs to understand that she doesn't have to wait around for him, and likely won't. I don't think it's as much about his "prospects" but more that he's feeling some FOMO over his ine…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:29 PM
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Right? Like... what if the woman doesn't even want to have kids? Plenty of men out there that don't want them either. Almost like there's so much more to relationships and life itself than youth and fertility. Shockingly, lots of men out there want someone to be a companion that they want to spend their life growing alongside. They also realize that time turns us all into wrinkly potatoes eventually and one day you'll both be old (and therefore, ugly according to TRP) so why spend life fixated o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 01:47 PM
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I wish 90% of my eggs would be gone by 30. That'd be awesome. We don't all want kids but it's okay if you do or don't. What will you do when your young, hot, firm, feminine, woman eventually - gasp! - ages?? I'm honestly curious. You really don't seem to give a shit about anything but "youth = beauty."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:22 PM
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Go hit up the tradwife sub, lots of women there wanting to be exactly that for some like-minded man out there. Also, kinda funny you misspelled "feminine" because you seem really hung up on whatever that means to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:17 PM
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Yeah, red pillers are not included when I think of "men" - they're automatically excluded but thankfully they show their true colors easily and that helps one avoid those.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:13 PM
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And you don't know how women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:09 PM
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Ooh, damn, ya got me. That line was so good you re-used it just for me. I'll enjoy my dogs and my husband, though. Good luck finishing in a sock for the rest of your life!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:36 PM
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He's also talented, successful, and generally regarded as attractive in spite of his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:59 AM
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You're wrong about that, actually. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:56 AM
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Well, they choose the color/design and intentionally had it put on their nails. How is it surprising that they like what they picked out?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:47 AM
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I don't want to have kids, full stop. No kids, ever. Not for me. Not with anyone. So I chose my partners based on the opposite of what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:41 AM
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It just varies from person to person. I'm also in the American south and I've had lots of creeps catcall me starting from age 13, among many other experiences. I'm sure there are women who grew up in my hometown who haven't experienced it as much as me. Just how it shakes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:30 PM
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