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I see, I misread. I think what we perceive as men being attracted to young women is exacerbated by media and consumption; older men are typically depicted with younger women by and large for “sex appeal,” and what we’re sold is that fantasy that youth is fleeting and therefore better. Being a man myself (though queer) I would hope that you’re noticing less attention towards you because the men around you are changing. It’s not popular to justify cat calling and harassing behavior as “boys being …
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 03:33 PM
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To follow up on the commenter, why should you care about the negative attention men are (not) giving you? You getting cat called at 14 shouldn’t be a a badge of honor. If you want men to give attention to you, consider what kind of attention you want, and then consider why you want that attention. Is it that you want to be thought of us pretty by other people? Or do you want to feel pretty because of how you look? Does that validation need to come from a man? Do you believe what you want others …
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 03:08 PM
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I took a look at your other posts and incel ideas seem to be something coming up for you. You’re a young guy, and seem like someone that sticks more to themself and spend time thinking about how you fit and don’t. To more directly answer your question, Incels seem to think they’re entitled to sex and are resentful because a woman won’t show interest in them. You don’t seem to be in that camp. I started by mentioning what I’ve gathered and thought about you because you seem like a nice person tha…
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 02:37 AM
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There’s a community for everyone, and it’s unfortunate that this isn’t the one for you. How did you get to a net negative result? If you’ve got some numbers you’ve run on that I’d love to see it. It may be good for the mods to get that so they know what is working and isn’t in this sub, too.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/22 10:14 PM
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Eating healthily and working out are fine, but that doesn’t mean you don’t need therapy- I’m not going to try to convince you towards it anyway. It’s unfortunate that you’ve been berated here, and hopefully you have other places where you feel comfortable and more supported.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/22 09:46 PM
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What information are you wanting to gain from that question? I’m feeling pretty certain that you’re asking a number from which to reduce a value judgment.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/21 02:15 PM
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It’s a creepy question on its own, and it’s a major jump to conclusions that they would lie.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/21 02:52 AM
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A huge one
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 06:54 PM
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That’s a call for therapy
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 06:53 PM
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That’s a big jump to conclusions, and I don’t really know where to take this anymore. Some guys have bigger dicks, and you don’t. That’s pretty much it.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 06:48 PM
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You used the exact word it all is: a fantasy.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 06:37 PM
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Saying that everything about a large dick is better is also an exaggeration. Look, most lady friends I’ve spoken to about the sex they had with a guy focuses more on how the sex built up than the size of the guys dick. I remember some girls in high school talking about how a guy with a guy e dick who didn’t know how to use. Immediately afterward, they brought up a guy with a smaller one that wowed them. “Motion of the ocean”
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 05:58 PM
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According to who? Because all the women and gay men I know will say the exact same thing (unless they’re size queens): a big dick is impressive to look at, but it hurts. No one wants to take a 10 inch dick everyday, it’s for the novelty.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 05:38 PM
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What makes bigger docks better for sex? Start there.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 05:29 PM
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This is stupid. She’s the only one that gave you a solid point to move forward based on your personality and didn’t degrade you and you immediately put her down. Get off the internet and spend time with friends so you can develop your personality, and so you’re not sinking yourself deeper into the TRP cesspool.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 05:27 PM
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You’re twisting my words. OP is complaining about other people getting more sex than him because he think he’s not attractive. If he’s got image issues, that’s entirely different than being childishly envious about some else’s sex life. As for being a “remotely serious person,” I’m responding to a complaint about women that are “pumped and dumped” like that’s the entirety of the nuance. I’ll take it as seriously as that.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 05:22 PM
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I’m going to play ball a bit with you here- I’ll make the assumption that you’re right- uglier men won’t get to fuck around as much. So you’re an uglier man and aren’t going to be able to fuck as many women as you want to- now what? Well we’re left is where you accept that not as many people want to sleep with you and you move on from that- or you make a fuss about it and start complaining like you feel entitled to sex. If you want sex so bad, just go fuck a dude.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 01:32 PM
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Is this Swift enough?
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 07:30 PM
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Why would it be fake? You’re being obstinate in a forum meant for debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:27 PM
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I’m immediately doubtful of any argument that starts off with the premise being “a fact” and is then followed up by anecdotal evidence. I know women that have been with the same guy since high school out of choice, that don’t want to get married, that don’t want kids, that spend weeks talking with a guy before feeling safe. If you’re posting here looking for support or direction to get out of a red pill mindset, I suggest you start by not asking us to prove something is wrong- we’re not here to …
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 02:18 PM
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Like the guy above me, been out of redpill forums and book for just about 10 years (About to be 29). I’m happy to talk to you though.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/21 08:24 PM
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Haven’t watched this yet, but I’ve been saying this for years! Wanted to make sure I posted in case you’re up for discussing a bit. A place that I think you’ll find similar ideas is in Rom-Coms. Some hella toxic ideas in a lot of them.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/21 04:23 AM
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Word salad with shit sprinkles
/r/ExRedPill19/05/21 03:12 PM
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Edge lord. Got it.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/21 03:10 PM
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What does any of that have to do with the comment I made. And you’re back to making violent statements; sounds like your god isn’t going to like what’s going on in that head of yours.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/21 02:28 PM
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So let’s get this clear, you came to an ex-redpill sub to say “follow the red pill.” It’s truly apt that RP fits as a drug name because it’s clear that you’re showing up like an alcohol salesman at an AA meeting. Seriously, you need help getting out of this victim mentality. Every guy I talk to about this rp mindset talks about how they’ve been hurt by other people (and for whatever reason, they focus on issues with their mom), and move on to saying, “now they’re going pay because I’m not a Beta…
/r/ExRedPill18/05/21 11:27 PM
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I’m confused, are you asking a question, making a statement?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 06:54 PM
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Therapy is for yourself, not for the views, respect, betterment, or judgement of others. There is a stigma towards it, that’s, true, but there are stigma towards just about everything. It sounds like you think of it negatively and have had negative experiences with it, but that doesn’t mean that you should project your perspective of it towards others use of it. Also, gender is not the last bastion we have to overcome. Don’t know where you got that from, but it makes no sense.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/21 12:49 PM
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I like the sound of the themes you’re addressing here, just don’t see the narrative aspect of it yet. I can talk to you about the position from someone that identifies as a minority in the US.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/21 08:44 PM
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It sounds like he may be slipping into some red-pill shit. I think you’re welcome.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/21 08:41 PM
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Not sure I’m a full leftist, but the reason you see more leftists on here is because people more aligned to that identity tend to be more self reflective. I’m not telling you to become a leftist, I can respect whatever your political/economic leanings are as long as they respect others. I’m not trying to push you away, but I’m concerned that you specifically say women are the problem in this sub. Change women to people and you sound far less red-pilled.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/21 06:27 PM
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I caught on to the bullshit early enough in high school and paired that with some art/feminist courses. Now I’m on here talking to people that need help getting/staying out of toxic mindsets.
/r/ExRedPill11/03/21 01:30 PM
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Just a little confused here, and I’m actually asking, do you want this group to prove TRP isn’t a hate movement? If so, you should go to CMV instead.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/21 11:19 PM
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You’re asking for help so I’ll try to be nice. Anyone that presents an argument as a dichotomy is trying to sell you something and/or is lying. The dichotomy here being that there’s “what you’ve been told to believe” vs “the ugly truth; why is it that this guy in an expansive universe is one of the special ones that found the “truth.” Quite simply, it’s a scam. You’re being presented with arguments built off hypotheticals to inspire doubt and insecurity: What if she’s lying, what if she’s cheati…
/r/ExRedPill25/02/21 04:03 PM
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I’m on board with this comment. You don’t need to understand this “theory” to help someone struggling because of its “teachings.” It’s not a logical thought process, and you’ll have a hard time using reason to bring them out. What I’ve found works best is to get the person to find loopholes themselves; don’t give in to bad faith arguments, though- you’ll waste your time and sanity.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/21 04:25 PM
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You’re right. Sometimes it’s fun to engage.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 04:12 PM
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First, my partners a man. Secondly, what’s disgusting about your gf fucking other dudes ? Sounds about as gross as you putting your dick in another woman’s vulva. Leave the double standards to redpillers. Sounds like she’s going to have a hard time with this, so I guess the question to you now is, what is it exactly that you want from fucking with other people other than fucking other people (which is totally fine)? Is it worth losing what you’ve got going on?
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 03:17 PM
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Multiple things here dude: Communication: it sounds like the person you’re with continues to have a tremendously positive effect on your life,and would continue to if you stayed with them. Trust will be the core of any future communication, and you need to communicate where you are in your own thoughts. If you want to be able to fuck around with other people, then tell her! She may be open to that but may want time and understanding first. She may want the same thing, but she has to be the one t…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 03:00 PM
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I don’t trust anyone that says they wouldn’t let Morticia Addams scowl at them
/r/ExRedPill04/02/21 10:56 PM
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No. It doesn’t. Having confidence is great, but what that “thinking offers” isn’t sustainable. I developed grit from poverty, but doesn’t mean I recommend poverty to anyone wanting to become more resilient.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/21 06:24 PM
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I’m Mexican, but think there are parallels; it’s hyper masculinity that blame shifts onto women. I would think that in an ideology about self responsibility there wouldn’t be a need to self victimize but here we are.
/r/ExRedPill09/12/20 04:08 PM
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We must be swift as a coursing river!
/r/ExRedPill28/11/20 10:21 PM
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Date down based on whose standard, though? I think people are generally unrealistic about what they want in a relationship. It takes time to figure that out
/r/ExRedPill11/11/20 09:46 PM
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As with any dating advice, this is only one side of the story. From what you’re saying, it sounds like you know what you’re wanting and are open to sharing your needs. Have an in person conversation and see where it goes.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/20 06:20 PM
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Nothing inherently wrong with it, but it’s just pop culture writing that just about anyone can write in. I mentioned Buzzfeed as an example of something where you would find an article titled “10 best things ever men can do to make women queens”
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 02:21 PM
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I’m going to need a source for this. It sounds like some early college buzzfeed listicle.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 01:37 PM
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I can say with certainty that I am not a man child. Don’t degrade yourself either. If there’s anything positive to take from TRP, it’s to have confidence in yourself. I replaced the “men” and “women” in your second sentence with the word “partner,”and it applied well. The rest of what you said is more gender related generalizations that aren’t productive. I don’t know what “feminist” articles you’re reading, but know that feminism is a term that can mean a lot of different things- and here it’s …
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 04:36 PM
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This is awful “advice.” Switch women with men, and if it sounds like it’s a stupid generalization that doesn’t apply to you, it probably doesn’t apply to women either.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 05:56 AM
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I’m getting pretty tired so if you happen to respond, great. I want to have this discussion with you. In the mean time, I think it would help you to watch something that I think will align a bit more with your sensibilities: Hot Girls Wanted. It’s on Netflix so pretty easy to find. I’m not endorsing it as a good film, or anything of the sort, but it seems like a documentary you need for some perspective outside of TRP. If you don’t respond, I hope you get some help, man.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 05:04 AM
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I was curious to see if you had some dissonance going on there. I’m not going to touch that because I’m not your therapist. What do you think makes men better?
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 04:25 AM
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I’m sure there are going to be people that are going to reply here that are going to call you a misogynist (and they’re right)- but I’m going to ask them to hold off because I know it’s going to turn you off from this discussion. Do you consider your mom to be included in that?
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 04:21 AM
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Why?
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 04:16 AM
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I took a quick peep at your post history, and you’re just sounding edgelordy my dude. I’m not going to respond to your post because it looks like you’re looking for a rise out of people. What are you angry about?
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 04:08 AM
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First, this is an ex-red pill sub; we don’t need more red pill propaganda. Secondly, these are sweeping generalizations that are pretty harmful. Men need to stop talking about women like they’re some alien species that needs to be dominated. If you have a thought about women, listen to a woman’s perspective on it before qualifying it as truth. Talk to your mother and see if she would want to be treated like this. I hate that in order to feel empathy with women we have to continue to frame them a…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/20 10:08 PM
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I think you just gave your own answer to someone else: TRP “justifies” their misogyny. I’ll make an analogy. A certain individual feels inferior due to his race. He believes that he’s been discriminated against his whole life because of his race, and hates other races for their “special treatment.” He finds a group that “justifies” those views, and uplifts him based on those beliefs. He feels more confident in that group now. I don’t think I need to name a group in that analogy, or give more det…
/r/ExRedPill08/10/20 12:47 PM
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I’m going to echo what you’re responding to and speaking as a man. You don’t need anybody to validate your worth other than you. Your answer to the OC was a list of “but society (aka women).” I hope therapy is an option that works for you, and I hope you’re able to find happiness for yourself.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/20 10:42 PM
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