zoomfrog2000 Archive

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2	X-year-old still a virgin People come here looking for answers with at least somewhat of an open mind. You're here to mope and reject good advice and criticism. You've already thrown in the towel and sound like a broken record. No one can tell you exactly what to do and how to feel. You just haven't done enough reading and researching.	/r/seduction	14/10/18 05:11 PM
17	X-year-old still a virgin Texas is a big ass place with lots of different people. YMMV.	/r/seduction	14/10/18 04:55 PM
2	X-year-old still a virgin This is not a them thing; it's a you thing. Being walked all over doesn't even register with me because no man or woman should even be allowed to do that, so that's on you. The second I feel like someone is treating me like shit, they can go fuck themselves. You are so desperate for whatever it is you are wanting that you are letting people do that to you. The things that you think are so awful are lessons to be learned from not things that make you weaker and less confident. You have first hand…	/r/seduction	14/10/18 04:53 PM
7	X-year-old still a virgin Except if it was me, I wouldn't be quiet about it. If they were any kind of decent mates they would be like oh shit we need get this guy laid. Now, you have a whole team working with you. Yea, as a guy we have to work soo much harder to get it sometimes. Most guys know this so let that be your asset in this case. It's not embarrassing to reach out.	/r/seduction	14/10/18 03:38 PM
5	X-year-old still a virgin Many have felt the way that you do at some point including myself. You're in a slump. You will one day realized that you put too much thought into thinking lesser of yourself. You just haven't quite figured out that there will be someone that you will find more interesting than this girl. It happens every..single..time. Are you telling me there isn't someone as hot or hotter out there that you'd be compatible with? You're clearly too hung up on losing it instead of just working on yourself. I'm …	/r/seduction	14/10/18 03:31 PM
1	FR: Date flaked on me. I ended up going out with my wingman, and I got us both laid. (make friends with her friends) Also, Last Hour Resistance It still boggles my mind that girl would put a potentially dirty dick inside her mouth but would be unwilling to fuck. I'm guessing it's because she can rationalize that she didn't have sex, which is of course bs.	/r/seduction	08/04/18 03:54 PM
2	I'm a woman and I don't know how to flirt You don't appear to be unattractive but if you want to go the extra mile and do the minimum of what us guys have do, then you wont have to really flirt. Guys will be coming to you. Ask yourself, are you a trim but healthy weight for your height? There's a reason why guys that are fit are more desirable than guys with dad bods or fatter. If you can marry working out and a hobby like some sort of sport/outdoor activity then all the better. Try to have hobbies that exposes you to a lot of people. Y…	/r/seduction	29/03/18 08:35 PM
0	7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubs If you are in college, then college. If I had known what I know now, I'd totally slay. All these places that OP listed are great because there is a high concentration of people where there's bound to be a lot of women. Well, a college campus is one big concentration and a microcosm of the "field". You can certainly target specific activities and groups but study areas work just as well.	/r/seduction	23/02/18 08:19 PM
9	I want to hookup with my roommate. You don't shit where you eat. When things go sour your life could turn upside down.	/r/seduction	07/02/18 03:39 PM
32	How To Date Tall Girls, Even If You're Shorter Than "Average" There are many answers, but the simplest is to be jacked. You're going to have to back that up with other attributes like personality and all that but if we are strictly judging by appearance which we seem to be then being physically fit is the ticket.	/r/seduction	06/02/18 06:10 AM
1	As a woman, how do I help my male best friend get a girlfriend or an FWB? He may look average facially, but can he improve the way he dresses? Can he improve his fitness and build? He doesn't need huge muscles, but if he walks around like he is no stranger to the gym or physical activity, he shoots way up in the looks department. The reason why you are spotting average looking dudes with hot girls is because they probably have decent personalities. The help you want to give him might not be something you can give him directly since you don't have any experience flirti…	/r/seduction	16/01/18 05:47 PM
6	How do you ask a girl out if she’s always around friends? True words. It just takes one to say something like, "well that was forward" or some cockblocky bullshit to make the situation awkward. Obviously, a quick-witted person might be able to play this off but it really just depends on the situation. If she's an objective 10 and you're not and her friends have no idea who you are, you'll probably crash and burn. Without knowing whats really going on I'd say the Facebook thing is just fine.	/r/seduction	15/12/17 06:51 AM
9	A guy on a speed dating event being fed lines and rocking it. Proof that it doesn't matter what you say, but how you say it. Even though I thought all his interactions were fine, I don't think you can be to harsh on the guy for not having chemistry with some of them since he was being forced to improve silly lines given to him. And the truth is, if you can be this smooth in conversation you aren't going to be at these speed dating events. This guy would be shooting for hotties that wouldn't be caught dead at something like this. I don't think there's anything wrong with speed dating, but there is a stigma associated w…	/r/seduction	16/11/17 05:34 AM
3	Check Girls Out Mid-Conversation That's funny because if you talk with enough people especially women, someone will end up saying what you just said. It's even funnier when it has worked on the person saying it. No one is ignoring intelligence so get off your high horse. This is about escalating sexual attraction.	/r/seduction	07/09/17 08:11 PM
1	Top 10 Reasons to Date a Fat Girl Lame. The list makes it seem like it is only applicable to fat girls, which it isn't. Most importantly, attraction isn't a choice.	/r/seduction	31/08/17 03:14 PM
2	Girl I've been talking to sent me this. Does this mean anything? Am I over thinking it? Geez, you could've said this in the beginning. She's definitely saying you are cute but in the stupid head gamey way that girls do.	/r/seduction	27/07/17 03:14 PM
67	I asked a girl to have coffee with me. She insisted a dinner so I agreed. I wanted to be a date, but I didn't specify. Now she wants to bring a friend. I asked who she wanted to bring she said she didn't know yet. How do I handle this situation without being awkward? If this is true and everyone is saying it's a lost cause, I'd say fuck it and go on this dinner. At the end let the bitches pay for their own dinners. What can they say? You only pay for dinners if it's a date or you're with close friends. This situation is neither. If they throw a fit, it just becomes an even more hilarious story to tell your friends. If this is a precursor to a threesome, you'd probably already pick up on it and wouldn't need advice from seddit, but somehow I don't think that …	/r/seduction	24/07/17 05:27 PM
5	Almost First F-Close Can you give us an update on whether or not you manage to salvage this?	/r/seduction	06/07/17 01:54 PM
9	Girls reading seddit, what is your impression on our experiences and what we go through This would be an interesting perspective, but I don't expect a whole lot would chime in. The truth is chasing girls is typically the man's burden in our society and how he goes about it is not seen as their problem. Girls aren't going to be browsing a subreddit called "seduction" because of the sleazy sounding connotation, which is unfortunate since some people are just trying to be better versions of themselves and not necessarily trick anyone into sleeping with them. Also, there's nothing wron…	/r/seduction	06/07/17 01:49 PM
10	30 yo Asian doctor can't get dates to save his life, advice requested! I'm not saying this guy is an Adonis, but his female friends are whack. Not wanting to date an obese person is very reasonable, and I'll bet they were being hypocrites. Even if someone was a 5 and was only attracted to 8+, there's nothing wrong with that as long as he knows that the pool of women that would be attracted to him is greatly reduced.	/r/seduction	29/06/17 06:06 PM
1	How do I work on my humour? I naturally like to liven up a social situation by saying something funny through either sarcasm, observational commentary, or ridiculous exaggeration. I'm not a comedian so it's not like people are busting a gut laughing, but it helps when you say things with confidence. Sure, there are times when it's funny in my head and the joke just doesn't go over or your peers just don't have the background knowledge to get it. Whatever. Make fun of the fact that it didn't go over and move on. A quick wit…	/r/seduction	23/03/17 03:27 AM
0	How a One-Night-Stand with a Model gave me a Glimpse into the True Lives of Beautiful Women. Exactly, my takeaway was dm;hs. The phrase "getting lucky" definitely applies to a one night stand. There was no way that model was thinking about how no one would value her when she becomes a 30 year old hag. This would've been better just as a field report and people can just come to whatever conclusion they want. But I get it; you're reflecting about how you landed a model.	/r/seduction	02/03/17 12:12 AM
1	Honestly, where's the best place to find attractive/intelligent women? That is the exception to the rule, whatever that rule is. It's not a matter of believing you; it's that you typically don't just go on tinder and find a bunch of attractive female doctors.	/r/seduction	06/02/17 04:12 PM
28	I highly recommend watching the documentary "The Science of Sex Appeal." Learn how the subtlest sounds, sights and smells can affect sex appeal, and how genetic, hormonal and neurological factors create sparks between people. Here are a couple of clips from the documentary. Can someone give a tldw?	/r/seduction	08/01/17 02:00 AM
1	So a girl and I are going to hook up tonight. How do I not make it awkward? Alcohol is always a good lube for social interactions. Bring a bottle of cheap wine and some pizza for the movie. Obviously, you need to make sure that nobody drinks too much otherwise that could lead to shitty sex. At some point, when she's done chewing put her pizza down and make out.	/r/seduction	14/12/16 04:43 PM
1	Ok, how do I not mess this up? I would probably start with not posting someone's face and name on the internet.	/r/seduction	06/12/16 05:44 PM
28	College Pickup - Why classic "game" will hurt you There's a myriad of things going on. Sometimes they just want to go out without being hit on or no one wants to be the one that doesn't get hit on so they are all the cockblocks. Guys have to come up with clever ways to isolate like pairing up for team games like beer pong. If you roll up with your own friends you're not seen as a threat to the pack. People generally have a conversation with the person nearest and so with everyone else busy you can isolate.	/r/seduction	05/12/16 11:41 PM
-2	Just approached a 10 at a restaurant - chatted for half an hour and talked about tinder. This blew my mind.. I know how average looking I am especially for the type/race of girl that I'm in to and I'm perfectly ok with that. I won't stand a chance on tinder, so I don't bother. Any game I spit will have to be in person and probably not at a club either. In a way, it makes things a bit easier and I can focus on certain situations where I can use my personality and confidence. Luckily, not all girls, no matter how good looking, are only into the Zac Efron type. Sure, some will have a minimum standard in t…	/r/seduction	19/08/16 06:05 AM
37	Dani Mathers fired, banned for life from LA Fitness over locker room photo of naked woman Word on the street is she traded a sexual harassment lawsuit against playboy for being playmate the year. Heffner himself didn't even attend the ceremony knowing what a sham it was. I was thinking no way a joker face like her was pmoy but holy shit it was true.	/r/PussyPassDenied	15/07/16 10:50 PM
1	MILO YIANNOPOULOS CRUSHES A FEMINIST Not according to her and her spiel about "confidence". Oh no, I am a woman scientist who has gone through the hurdles of getting an advanced degree and happen to be working with a room full of dudes so I don't feel confident all of a sudden...	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/06/16 11:14 PM
1	Hardcase Newbie: Today I asked a smoking hot 10 for the time and what do 'ya know... Go do this like 50 more times. It should eventually evolve from "K, bye" into actual organic conversation where you're relaxed and are your natural self. This is especially true in a mall because you'll realize that if you fuck up, you can move onto the next hottie. You'll see a lot of pick up vets on youtube who will go out can say/do off the wall shit just because they get a kick out of it.	/r/seduction	29/06/16 07:28 PM
1	Hardcase Newbie: Today I asked a smoking hot 10 for the time and what do 'ya know... life was pretty fucking fun without them Agreed. I quite often think about this. Pretty people can get away with having other people's hobbies because everyone wants them around because of how visually enhancing they are to the group or person. Though, I think this notion leans more towards women in general. You could ask a hot girl what her hobbies are and if the responses are something like "having fun", "going out", "eating delicious food", or some other very generalized answers, most guys wo…	/r/seduction	29/06/16 07:16 PM
10	Women and friends are coming on to me out of the blue... no idea why. Pick the hottest ones and start there and then watch it all burn to the ground. Or just don't be a dick. If you act like a confident but nice fun loving guy whose a good lay they might not expect mr. right but mr. right now. Keep your mouth shut about every encounter so you don't hurt anyone's feelings.	/r/seduction	25/06/16 12:54 PM
1	I Really Suck At Connecting With Girls It really depends on what you're doing. Always find ways to do some kind of kino. The classic example is showing a girl how to putt from behind. Even if she's good you can do it jokingly; it's the act and the physical touch that counts. You can just stare into her eyes without talking and maintain a slight smirk. She'll probably smile back and/or say "what" and you can just tell her she's pretty. Depending on how objectively hot she is you might want to keep the compliments about her looks to a …	/r/seduction	09/05/16 08:02 PM
2	I Really Suck At Connecting With Girls This is really difficult to answer especially when we don't know what you are doing or saying during these dates. The notion of trying not to have sex with them in the first or second date might be the reason you aren't "connecting". If they are having fun, is it the kind of fun they can have with a brother or a friend or is it the kind they have with a potential lover. Guys that act like too much of a gentleman are labeled as nice guys and that's not what they want right now. To have a connecti…	/r/seduction	09/05/16 06:42 PM
3	UPDATE: I finally asked the gorgeous girl out from my class. It seems like some of the folks commenting are wondering if she thinks it's a date. Regardless of whether it is or isn't a date, I would be ready for the opportunity for something more intimate if it goes well. Your best bet is at the peak of your conversation when she's laughing and feeling good, suggest a real (more fun) date where you can be more physical and playful. Half the battle is having good logistics so always have a plan to move things forward.	/r/seduction	26/04/16 08:03 PM
3	Is it weird to ask out a girl in my class who I've not spoken to the entire semester? I've gotten no's before only to have them be interested later on. It only works if you let it roll off your shoulders and continue social interactions with her in a non-creepy, non-needy way. At this point, she already knows you are interested in her but maybe didn't know you well enough to say yes or just bad timing. If you're confident, sometimes asking a girl out is the best way to start a dialogue to get to know her even if she doesn't say yes. If I'm going to get rejected, I'm going to lear…	/r/seduction	22/04/16 05:40 PM
17	Bringing girls back but not hooking up? Just want to elaborate on what everyone above has said. Most girls will not initiate the first move, so it's usually up to you. Think about it this way: if you are worried about fucking up by going for the kiss at the wrong time, you would really fuck up by not doing it at all. If she's in your bed and you guys haven't kissed yet, the time for light makeout is over. She already has sex on her mind. You need to quickly transition to kissing her passionately and start using your hands all over her…	/r/seduction	18/04/16 08:18 PM
3	Some things have happened to me in the past week, that would have never happened if I were a decent looking guy I don't think you are looking at it right. The general populace may not care that you are a grad student, but what about other students who are just getting into the field. People tend to gravitate towards people who know more about something they are interested in. I saw grad students date undergrads all the time. You have higher value because you are on your way to becoming an expert in the field. I'm not saying you can't date a model but she'll probably care less about what you do because it …	/r/seduction	15/03/16 06:51 PM
3	Some things have happened to me in the past week, that would have never happened if I were a decent looking guy Maybe you could tell us what those things that happened to you were. It makes for a more interesting read and some might be able to empathize. Also, this is a perfect time for you to have recognized all this. You're a grad student so people around you assume you know your shit and you mentioned that you do well enough money-wise. Everything that you claim you need to work on is easy compared to what you already have. Remember, you are at the top of the food chain and you're surrounded by young s…	/r/seduction	15/03/16 05:27 PM
1	Now dating an NFL cheerleader So how is a play over the top? I'd go see a play by myself. Would I fly to Vegas and catch a show by myself, no. That would be over the top. I see where you're coming from though as I've never taken a girl to a really nice restaurant on the first date.	/r/seduction	11/03/16 05:31 PM
3	[FR] Cold Approach Cute Girl, Amazed at Response and Almost Cried Next time go for the number anyways. Always be sure you haven't missed a chance. Make something off the cuff like how you read in cosmo that it take women 1.5 weeks to get over a break up and that you'll call to check up on her. It's even better when she calls you out on your bs, and you say you made it up with a smile. If with whatever banter you make up and you still don't get a number, you can walk away knowing it was a hard no.	/r/seduction	03/03/16 04:53 PM
1	Have you ever been with a girl that rejected you before? Obviously you kept your cool and brushed it off your shoulders. What was the turning point where you realized she was coming around. Also, are you in high school? Being in high school nullifies any tactical advice seeing how high school girls are random as fuck :P	/r/seduction	03/03/16 04:20 PM
2	What are some red flags on an unhealthy woman that a man should keep an eye out for? Probably, but that could depend on how hot she is. Attractive women are just going to have a lot of suitors. However, if she isn't rude and spending time with someone she ignores her phone or turns it off.	/r/seduction	21/02/16 10:23 PM
7	[FR] Lost virginity from Tinder girl Yea, I know some friends who had gotten parasites. There's really no cure, and you have to save up for their college tuition for like almost 20 years.	/r/seduction	21/02/16 05:34 PM
6	Attraction has a expiration date, you must seize the opportunities: Social/Festival/Bar game A full indepth look at fading chemistry Ugh, learned this the hard way.	/r/seduction	19/02/16 09:48 PM
1	Pass denied by Waka This isn't real. Waka admitted it on tmz.	/r/PussyPassDenied	05/02/16 10:32 PM
7	How I avoid friendzone : I consider girls I find attractive as friend that I'm having sex with. Well you need to man up and cut her off. And by that, I mean cut yourself off; that seems to be toxic situation. If she inquires about it, just straight up tell her what you think about the situation. You don't need to be a victim of your desire for sex. If she's not the crazy type then there will be one of two outcomes, which either would be fine. You guys just stay friends and platonic or she'll agree to be your gf after seeing that you can put your foot down. Play it how you want, but it just…	/r/seduction	28/01/16 11:46 PM
2	About to lose my virginity, need advice I don't know how you feel about her being on the pill, but that's another added layer of protection. Assuming an SO is clean, one of my worst nightmares is having an unexpected child.	/r/seduction	20/01/16 05:21 PM
3	How do you guys deal with the "how many girls have you slept with?" question ? It's like the classic no response: "3...hundred...thousand."	/r/seduction	11/01/16 02:56 AM
2	Approached a girl while she was with friends during the day. What's your excuse? I was gonna type this, but you've already worded it so beautifully. This is probably the least threatening, most reasonable approach ever. It's nothing fancy and it flows way better than asking someone their phone number out of the blue in front of her peers. Even if she wanted to say yes, the pressure from her friends is usually going to lead to a no by default.	/r/seduction	29/12/15 10:18 PM
5	What's a fun/easygoing job to meet women? This might be true at first. It'll change once you start getting good. As long as you're not looking around like a creeper and are there mostly for you then it's all good.	/r/seduction	03/11/15 05:03 PM
8	How to open sets at the beach?Tons of hot chicks there,need ideas Be hansom. Got it.	/r/seduction	14/08/15 11:34 PM
7	Simple, effective first date (with bonus F-close). Detailed step-by-step "...the cleaner your home is, the dirtier she will be." lol	/r/seduction	12/08/15 04:50 PM
4	[FR] First Tinder Date ends in F-Close I appreciate that you didn't blah blah over the text game and actually showed us in the FR.	/r/seduction	09/07/15 04:08 PM
1	[FR] Hosted July 4th Party, 2 F-Close Waiting for my 1-fer year.	/r/seduction	07/07/15 05:58 PM
1	This sub has helped me so much. F-closed on a second date after the first didn't go well months ago. Pretty classic case of she was already down and you just not fucking it up.	/r/seduction	09/06/15 04:40 PM
1	How do you guys get over the nagging feeling that some girls are just too attractive for you? All the health stuff you seem to have. If you want to expand the exercise activities to something a little less mundane, so something like trail running or kayaking or biking, it can really open up the field. These are the kinds of activities that are not only work outs but generally are more fun to do with others, and typically fitter and more attractive people are drawn to them. Don't stop lifting though. IMHO, lifting is for my personal vanity and I would rather focus and do it by myself. To …	/r/seduction	26/05/15 07:13 PM
2	How do you guys get over the nagging feeling that some girls are just too attractive for you? As an average looking guy who likes girls not of his own race, I understand this sentiment. What it boils down to is, yeah, it's a numbers game. You can better the numbers by working on yourself and your perceived value. I'm not saying become a celebrity but if you look there are a lot of average looking celebs with hot looking women. Try to be good at something and be known for it. You have to stand out somehow because at a glance the naturally attractive guys will always attract initial attent…	/r/seduction	26/05/15 05:04 PM
1	How to become desensitized to pretty girls tl;dr Became a panther.	/r/seduction	10/05/15 03:02 PM
2	Smiling Changed my Life Some say that is a super power. However you interpret it, thanks for being an inspiration.	/r/seduction	30/04/15 04:25 AM
1	I am motivated to get good with women for the first time in my life. I'm 27. I'm almost stumped as to how it happened. There was a recent thread about locking down the girl before the outing. Even if its not 100% you can follow up with seductive looks and smiles throughout the occasion to increase attraction. It would be easier to steal her away for more private and intimate conversation so you can continue to work your game uninterrupted. In a group setting it helps to be a good storyteller or bring up interesting conversation topics. Come off as honest and confident in your opinions of said topics whether it's…	/r/seduction	13/04/15 04:16 PM
12	Teach me how to steer the conversation sexually Place you hand or fingers somewhere innocent on her body like her knee and ask her if she's nervous. "Yes/No." Doesn't matter what the answer is. Move your hand closer (mid thigh) to something naughty like her groin area and ask again. Repeat. She'll understand the game pretty quick while the sexual tension is increasing. Try and stare into her eyes while you're doing all this with also a bit of a smirk. Regardless of whether or not your hand gets swatted away you've made your point. Typically y…	/r/seduction	20/03/15 05:39 AM
14	Teach me how to steer the conversation sexually Ok this one is pretty stupid, but it's great if the mood is already light and there's some rapport. Start talking about games be it board games, video games, whatever. Then segue into "let's play the nervous game." It doesn't matter if she already knows what it is. Just have a sly smile and laugh it off; the idea has now been implanted. If you do play, wait until she brushes your hand off, and give her a big shit eating grin. If you ever have to explain something where it's appropriate try to ac…	/r/seduction	19/03/15 10:33 PM
7	How many of you actually fuck 4's-5's? In a way I'm kind of envious of this. My selection pool would open up immensely. Having chemistry and being physically attracted to someone seems really difficult to find.	/r/seduction	05/03/15 06:28 AM
2	Got drunk and made out with two girls at the same party. Don't know what to do. I don't think you understand what rape means. Being a player is one thing, but rape is something entirely different.	/r/seduction	23/02/15 07:07 AM
53	What are your fun first dates? There's a huge adrenaline dump for them that you can ride all the way back to you bedroom if you want. Sometimes a good date isn't about what was being said but how she felt about it overall. Anything that is over the top exciting is hard to forget, and it's better when it's associated with you.	/r/seduction	04/02/15 06:21 PM
2	Girls flaking then coming back (Quick question, don't upvote) I agree with this. She blew you off for something that she thought was better. I have seen this from the other side where the girl cancelled on her date to hang out with a friend of mine who had already established something with her. In your case, she didn't even blow you off politely, so she missed out on her only opportunity.	/r/seduction	02/02/15 07:33 AM
3	What is the most impressive seduction you have seen with your own eyes/know about? Did you learn anything from it? Did he ever say how he got from cockblock to laid. I'm curious of what the flow of conversation was like over the period of that 3 hours. He must of called her out on her shit somehow but not offend her too much to curb some of that bitchiness. From there, that's when the magic works. These stories are great but people always yaddi yaddi yaddas over the most helpful parts.	/r/seduction	08/12/14 06:42 PM
7	[FR] F-Closed Bartender From My Favorite Bar on "Date" Two... Wait a minute. Where do you get adult onesies on a whim?	/r/seduction	07/11/14 05:32 PM
1	MINI-[FR]: Hitting on a cute Police Officer who is about to give me a ticket.. A cop owned up to her mistake. Definitely not America.	/r/seduction	14/08/14 04:13 PM
1	(Field Report) How I fucked up and what I learned from it I too know the feeling of losing out to a friend, but the lesson really does burn into you for life. Next time you catch yourself looking away from a prime moment, you can still save it with style. As she looks away disappointed say "Hey" or "I gotta tell you something", or whatever. Right when she looks back, lay one on her. I've done that with hugs as sort of a push/pull. I'd go in for the hug when she expects a kiss almost to disappoint her, and as I'm pulling away boom make out. It becomes m…	/r/seduction	29/07/14 02:37 AM
14	An article on the perspective of the hot girl. Just curious what you guys think. First and foremost, don't let it be personal when you get rejected. It could be a number of things that has nothing to do with you. Second, if you were the 10th person to hit on a girl that day, how would you stand out? Also, find someone who you think is attractive, but also interesting (to you). You'd be happier in the long run.	/r/seduction	28/07/14 06:34 PM
35	You never know where you'll setup an F close. That was a nice FR, but I'm not sure how much of this is seduction. It seems like it was kind of in the bag, and it was a game of "don't fuck it up." The girl was interested in you from the get go. No offense but I'd rather read about some average joe going out alone and meticulously jumping over social hurdles to maybe get a kiss from a girl. That's something that can be shared and learned/employed by others.	/r/seduction	14/07/14 06:53 PM
4	Inner game and seeing the change in myself Not necessarily. Yes, this could always backfire, but if it's the truth then it needs to be said now or soon. It's always best to set your boundaries early so the issue doesn't get out of hand later. Imagine a very meek guy suddenly standing up for himself after 5+ years of a relationship. His SO would be like, "Whoa, where is this coming from. What is wrong with you" when he should have been doing it all along. Communication and chemistry are just as important as attraction.	/r/seduction	02/07/14 05:19 PM
10	[FR] struggled, thought I failed, but I k-closed my first girl at a bar "No one gets between me and shark week." -Morgan Freeman	/r/seduction	02/07/14 05:01 PM
1	Should I let girls know that I'm a virgin? This seems to be a good way to go. I would probably get her all hot and bothered up until the point where you are about to have sex and tell her and ask her if she's ok with it. If she likes you, it shouldn't matter. I'd like to think that she'd feel honored to be your first. I think you're right about telling her up front. Disappointing her shouldn't be an issue either since she is already expecting it. If you manage to exceed her expectations, she'll love it. Go read up on how to have good sex…	/r/seduction	12/06/14 06:45 PM
81	How to answer the "you only use me for sex bla bla" line "Wait, so you want to be a couple?" Oops.	/r/seduction	02/05/14 09:02 PM
6	Observations resulting from a conversations I had with a HB 9.5 (after we hooked up) And then there are girls who think they are a 9.5 when they clearly are not.	/r/seduction	24/03/14 04:58 PM
6	I need help. Girl keeps flaking on me and I don't know what to do. Any ideas? Would you mind elaborating on how you went from calling her out to having sex. I get it in theory, but I'm curious as to who made the first move and how. I mean, it can't be as simple as, "You're right. No one has spoken to me that way before. I'm coming down this weekend."	/r/seduction	16/03/14 03:59 PM
20	[FR] Went out alone, turned out to be one of the best nights ever, kiss-closed HB8.5 "What do you think about a prince albert. I'm thinking of getting one."	/r/seduction	14/03/14 06:11 PM
14	My OKCupid experiment is over. FINALLY was deleted/banned. x-post /r/OKCupid Well, it was an experiment as you say so there's more to be read into it than that he got laid a lot. We've all heard it before; it's a numbers game. However, look at what he's accomplished from the experiment besides the sex. His AA is gone and I bet his conversation has gotten much sharper since he had to interact with that many women. Hell, it makes me want to go out there an fuck up a lot. Why? To learn.	/r/seduction	07/01/14 01:27 AM
2	How to exploit the advantages of being very physically attractive? It's certainly a huge advantage. I've seen it many times where a good looking guy can act a bit dorky/goofy and it can come off as cute whereas a less attractive guy comes off as unattractive or even creepy.	/r/seduction	05/01/14 08:56 PM
1	I was asked by a girl at a bar "How big is your dick?" ... I fucked up and didn't have a good response "Well my shoe size is xx. You know what that means. That's right, it means I have a small penis." It's a ridiculous question that deserves a ridiculous answer. If executed properly, you should get a laugh. Because you didn't really answer the question, it may even spark their curiosity. It shows you're comfortable with who you are so you don't need to prove anything. Nobody goes around asking how tight their vaginas are.	/r/seduction	26/12/13 07:32 AM
1	Homewrecking over this Christmas break Your second point cannot be emphasized enough. There's a very good chance that the girl never tells the other guy that she is involved. Some girls can be selfish in this way. They meet an interesting guy and instead of shutting them down right away, they lead the guy on because they like the attention. Regardless of whether it goes anywhere, it's not innocent from the get go. Consequently, the guy doesn't get the girl and ends up having to fight someone for no reason. It's not his fault; it's HE…	/r/seduction	26/12/13 07:17 AM
7	My Abridged Kissing Guide Well, girls don't always know how to kiss either. Depending on how she's kissing, I would almost take that as an invite for my tongue. Aside from that, we're supposed to be kissing not feeding each other like birds.	/r/seduction	18/12/13 09:16 PM
5	Co-worker taught me a lesson, time for a new approach Close. That would be monster condom and magnum dong.	/r/seduction	21/11/13 09:30 PM
3	15 Character Traits That Chicks Find Universally Attractive In Men Or a saying that starts with Step 1...	/r/seduction	10/11/13 02:34 AM
9	How to give a compliment for greatest impact Cheese works. I find that it has to be somewhat in a playful manner otherwise it can verge on being lame.	/r/seduction	08/10/13 04:20 PM
3	[FR] From strangers to F-Close in 2 days For some reason I imagined you thinking you're all sneaky with a different account name but end up finding your mom's. You then are completely sickened after reading about her sexual escapades.	/r/seduction	13/08/13 04:36 PM
30	[FR] Newly 21. Bars are amazing. 2 #Close, 1 K-Close. 1 F-Close Me neither. Oh wait, time doesn't go backwards.	/r/seduction	04/06/13 04:48 PM
3	Pro tip: if your date tells you halfway through that she swallows ... All of what you've said hits close to home. When I was met with these signs for the first time I didn't really know what they meant until later when I had time to reflect on my missed opportunities. In her mind she's giving me the green light, but I'm still wondering if she likes me or if I do something it might turn out awkward. My problem was that I didn't recognize these cues. From now on I will try to utilize the high risk high reward mentality because being fearful of rejections has gotten …	/r/seduction	16/04/13 06:11 AM
1	Red Pill/Seduction knowledge implemented Would you care to elaborate? I mean I think I see what you mean, but maybe there's more.	/r/seduction	05/04/13 04:38 PM
11	Low Key Approach If I knew what I know now...	/r/seduction	04/04/13 04:37 PM
1	[FR] report from the other side- girl meeting a PUA Agree and amplify can be applied to a variety of situations. In the OPs situation, she called him out for being a pua, or at least having read pua material. Instead of him thinking oh shit she caught me and reacting as such he went along with it as he should. So the amplify part comes in when after he acknowledges it he starts to discuss the topic rather than being embarrassed about it. You can also apply this when some amog is making fun of you in front of the ladies because he feels threatened…	/r/seduction	19/02/13 04:49 AM
3	[FR] Blue Eyed Blonde - 5 Minute Makeout and More! I like the bit where she calls you out about sex. Just a good reminder to counter properly and continue to make it fun.	/r/seduction	14/01/13 07:23 AM
1	Increasing sexual tension via text... i would like to hear some stories. my text game is nonexistent.	/r/seduction	02/10/12 06:14 PM
4	[FR] Pulled my first two-girl threesome. Back story and details inside. How does one put on protection without destroying the flow/mood, or was there any?	/r/seduction	25/09/12 02:15 AM
12	Can't get over my race Yea, and now I need to join /nofap.	/r/seduction	03/08/12 06:55 PM
2	Guide to having a hot girlfriend i need to work on step 1: get a hot girlfriend.	/r/seduction	24/07/12 01:31 PM
4	Text Game: Sexting Escalation it was a daydream...	/r/seduction	23/07/12 04:24 PM
2	Getting out of the Friendzone I have to disagree since I've escaped from the friend zone several times. Sometimes I almost consider this concept as my MO. Obviously, this only works on girls that you see on a regular basis otherwise there isn't really enough time to change her perception of you. I am almost always attracted to girls who are not initially attracted to me. I'd say I'm average looking, but we all know personality goes a long way. With that said, a girl may not want to fuck me now, but it doesn't mean she won't …	/r/seduction	30/04/12 06:00 AM
4	STOP WAITING: DO IT NOW! I have lost out on so many good things/people by waiting for a better moment/time to do something.	/r/seduction	20/04/12 04:24 AM
11	Just a smile do you by chance have any favorite links discussing conversation threading. i can hold a conversation just fine; however, i'd like to have more control over direction and being able to continue with things that are interesting enough, especially after opening.	/r/seduction	13/04/12 06:14 PM