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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Girl started scolding and preaching after I approached her in coffee shop Bitch is crazy. Keep doing you, soldier.	/r/seduction	18/09/19 02:44 PM
2	Long distance keeping attraction Best thing you can do is get some side chicks so you are not so needy for this one. Your ambivalence will make you even more desirable with the current girl. Maybe not what you want to hear, but female psychology is often counter intuitive. Good luck, soldier.	/r/seduction	18/09/19 12:56 PM
2	How escalate without alcohol? Regarding point #1, I don't literally mean you getting drunk, but you may feel like she will be more receptive because you know that she had 1-3 drinks. That knowledge may quell some of your own insecurities. You know what I'm saying? The woman will always reflect the man's energy, so if you are tentative, she will be too.	/r/seduction	18/09/19 12:45 PM
1	I asked a girl out and this happened....? This is what we call "the friendzone." Move on, soldier. Reflect on your approach on this as a case study because I suspect that you came off as too soft in your approach where she didn't feel like you are a masculine guy. On that note, never ever invite a woman to "bubble tea." Come on man...	/r/seduction	18/09/19 12:39 PM
4	How to ask her for a date indirectly? Hey man, my advice to you is do NOT be indirect. It will not be awkward unless you make it awkward. In fact, she will respect you being a man and asking straight up. If she declines then you move on and she will see you with other women and then she'll wonder if she made a mistake. If you tiptoe around it on the other hand, she will not respect you and she'll be more likely to decline your offer. Get it done, soldier.	/r/seduction	18/09/19 12:35 PM
3	How escalate without alcohol? Hey man, here are a few thoughts to maybe push your thinking a bit. 1). Projecting your insecurities on her. Part of me is wondering if the 1-3 drinks are really loosening you up, not her, enough to build the courageousness to escalate further. This is something to reflect on; I definitely do this too and I suspect many men do as well. 2). You have to escalate in tiny increments to test for constant consent. From the very first time you meet her and you go in for a kiss on the cheek vs a profe…	/r/seduction	18/09/19 12:29 PM

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