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15

Don't speak for all of us He isn't. He said most and you did too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:49 PM
3

In my opinion they are being sexually objectified more than men for sure. But the thing is, more than half the times they are the ones who do it to themselves and then they find ways to blame men either way lol
/r/MensRights16/03/25 05:06 PM
107

Can't wait for all the feminists to start protesting on the streets because of this inequality
/r/MensRights07/03/25 09:59 PM
0

Disgusting
/r/MensRights05/03/25 04:17 PM
63

Not often do I see decent jail punishments for female pedophile rapists. Good W
/r/MensRights21/12/24 03:53 PM
3

In my view "being a man's peace" would mean not constantly jumping on my nerves and creating unnecessary drama just for the sake of it, rather than the things that you enlisted. I'm inclined to think that a lot of the men would agree with me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:54 PM
6

I agree it's not right, just as it's not right to label men who disagree with women as "incels", yet so many women on the internet do it nonetheless
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:45 PM
10

In my eyes she's just a dysfunctional adult which isn't completely the same as a "loser". Maybe you don't make a difference between those two things when viewing men though. Anyway, those things can be fixed with time, I was pretty much in a similar spot in the past and now I'm on a completely different page, so it's not like she's set to be like that for life. Either way, things like being kind hearted, feminine and others are personally far more important to me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:50 PM
20

Positive traits that you listed outweight the negative ones for me, so the answer leans to yes. Also negative ones aren't written in stone so I'm confident we could fix some of them with time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:37 PM
1

I think this is the first time ever on this sub that I fully agree with you on something
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:40 PM
5

You're right, however I think that regarding men's issues and their future, republicans are a lesser evil compared to dems
/r/MensRights06/11/24 01:36 PM
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Neither of them. But if I'm forced to choose, considering the fact that I can't even imagine myself having something casual with a 100+ body person, let alone commit, I guess I'm picking the other one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:48 PM
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I've been ridiculed by a whole group of women after I rejected one of them when she made an advance towards me. And I wasn't even rude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:18 PM
6

Yes, there are. What's the point of this statement though? People here don't claim that whatever they're talking about applies to all men (or women)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:33 PM
9

You can't make this up 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:40 PM
6

You are comparing apples with oranges. Average man can't afford handing out rejections like an average woman because he doesn't get nearly as many options, unless he wants to stay single for a very long time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:27 PM
18

but you have sex once-twice a year I cannot be in a sexless relationship no matter how much love is involved, sex is an integral part for me so the choice is clear. Even if you wrote month instead of year my answer would remain the same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:24 AM
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Depp has been proven in a court of law to be a wife beater False, no such thing has been proven. On the contrary, it has been proven in the court of law that Amber used makeup to create fake bruises before taking photos. Stop with the BS and false information. This shit is well publicly documented
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:16 AM
4

if you struggle with the apps you will struggle everywhere else as well This is not a rule. I had zero luck on apps on multiple occasions when I tried them, but outside of them had no big issues and dated fairly regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:50 AM
1

Probably the realest answer here. It's hard to put a percentage on something like this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:39 AM
2

It's not a huge loss for them as they always have options so they can pick someone new and/or better when it suits them. Obviously it also depends on how attractive they are but compared to the guy's experience, it's night and day
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:54 PM
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You can still have sexual experience and learn what you're compatible with without being involved in hookup culture. Just saying.. Either way, you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:30 PM
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If he is a man with a penis and I am a woman with a vagina, we’re already compatible sexually If only things always worked like that. Live and learn I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:23 PM
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Can't say if this is the norm in general but I did witness multiple times what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 02:27 PM
1

My bff is a female
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:29 PM
3

If only this take was applicable to modern times lol. Such a bs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:50 PM
37

Imagine complaining about stuff like this during war time. "They have a difficult time meeting men now" Yeah no shit, men are kinda busy dying in trenches trying to defend their homeland
/r/MensRights04/08/24 09:53 PM
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There are some things in life that are naturally unequal and unfair to some groups, and will always stay like that. Dating is one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:36 PM
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I'm 5'10 and I was called out for being short by a noticable number of girls. To be fair, I live in a country where the male average is 6'0 so I do fall on shorter side. Fortunately I was blessed with above average looks so height "issue" was oftentimes overlooked
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:07 PM
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It's a genital mutilation, of course it should be banned. And the argument I hear often is "it's cleaner" and it's nuts to me. I wash my dick as part of regular hygiene and I never have to worry about it being unclean or having some smell present
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:10 PM
24

I completely share your opinion and never understood why some people think this would solve anything. A whole reason someone would approach you is because they find you attractive. Most women don't find most men attractive and that won't magically change. The only thing that would be different is that the already good looking guys would be presented with even more options
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:26 PM
37

Nothing new really. Most of the reddit is anti-men in one way or another, so good luck with contacting the admins
/r/MensRights25/07/24 07:41 PM
0

But y'all won't do that, now will you? Unlikely. They have to go through their "hoe phase", otherwise they'll miss out on life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:38 PM
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It doesn't matter what I'd change because it still wouldn't make me physically attracted to her, and that is one of the most basic things for me in order to want to date someone. And there is nothing bad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:43 PM
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Short hair, generally hair dyed in screaming colors, bunch of tattoos and piercings (especially septums which remind me of cows)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:20 PM
1

No, because I can't date someone I'm physically not attracted to in the slightest, so why force myself. She would be a great friend though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:31 PM
8

On point. When they say "my past doesn't define me"... I mean yeah, it kinda does
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:19 PM
7

As usual, switch genders and watch all hell let loose. Damn this patriarchy and oppression of women
/r/MensRights29/06/24 09:37 AM
12

Because they generally see men as their "oppressors" and a default rule is to be against everything that has to do with enemy's wellbeing
/r/MensRights28/06/24 10:00 AM
21

That statement is toxic when it is said in the context of a general male population because the bar is inversly proportional to a man's attractiveness and obviously not everyone is attractive. So the case of the bar being all the way on the ground, it would mean that in reality it is down there only for the really attractive guys which usually tend to have primarily height, face and athletic build working for them. And this is a common knowledge at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:22 PM
-5

I've been on this sub for a while and I never saw this claim
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:10 PM
1

BiH, RS
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:31 PM
4

Hahahahha ima nas balkanaca ovdje PS: OP I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:08 AM
2

Yes, with multiple ones. Reason being none of them hit even the low bar of attractiveness for me to engage in intimacy with them. Nothing special happened afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:54 PM
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This will always be unfair from a certain angle just like many other things in life. But that's fine because life im general is unfair and shouting at the clouds is pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:09 PM
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Are you living under a rock?
/r/MensRights07/06/24 06:16 PM
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My most basic standards for a girl: be a genuine and nice person don't be fat don't be involved in any type of sex work or adult content creation I think this is pretty reasonable and achievable for most
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:56 AM
8

Do you expect women to cook for you during the “talking stage”? No, and I didn't know this was a thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:54 PM
2

In the case of laundry, it's literally just pushing buttons Whenever I see someone complain about how doing laundry is a difficult chore today, I always imagine them having to carry it all to some nearby river and wash it by hand
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:16 PM
13

Edit: WTF you completely changed the post about the working partner Well, this raises an eyebrow
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:04 PM
48

Pretty much yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:57 PM
7

same old red pilled "women have online dating easier" spiel Because they do, at least when it comes down to the number of received likes and matches. It's not some red pilled spiel imo, it's just the reality of things. On dating apps women are always outnumbered by men, they can be as picky as they want and most men will be desperate for anything. When I was with my ex, we installed Tinder just to try for fun. By the end of the day she had "99+" likes lol. I don't know a single man who had that …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:57 PM
6

"forbidden topic" LMAO. Gotta make sure not to anger feminists with honest questions
/r/MensRights15/05/24 04:22 PM
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Sigh... this topic again. It should be put on ban list
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:48 PM
5

28 M. I'm not leaning greatly on wanting kids but I'm also not strictly against it. For whatever reason, I couldn't see myself having kids with most of the women I've been with, that was even a breaking point of my last ltr. I also wouldn't even consider bringing a child without establishing a high degree of financial security beforehand and also resolving some of my own personal issues even if my partner was the "right" person for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:44 PM
6

Would enjoy company of a woman more but would pick a man due to higher odds of survival and getting the f out of the island
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:11 PM
2

I feel like the red pill today has gone too far just like feminism did. They have many good points and I like some stuff, but there is also hypocrisy and BS to it too.
/r/MensRights29/04/24 01:24 PM
1

I've noticed that misogyny has become very prominent on social media lately I've noticed that both misoginy and misandry became very prominent on social media. But what I've also noticed is that it's the misogny that tends to be called out the most while for misandry the blind eye is often turned or is just kind of accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:31 AM
1

Can't decide between 1 and 3, but 2 definitely goes to the last place
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:45 PM
5

Is the notion that men, especially high performing, ambitious men, don't put any importance in a woman's goals or education correct anymore? Is there truth to this? Imo there is truth in it. In general they may put some importance into it but overall woman will care a lot more about the state of man's career, education, goals etc. than vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:40 PM
1

I'm not sure how looks of men she hooked up with would be relevant for my decision on accept her or not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:04 PM
16

Use common sense and don't date someone who hates you or looks down upon you
/r/MensRights19/04/24 12:15 PM
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Wild take
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:58 PM
6

-too old This one has truth. As for other points, I never met a man who plainly rejected woman for, I don't know... wrong eye color? Like seriously? They might exist but are certainly not in the big percentage. You sound like someone rejected and hurt you so I get it, it can be tough Edit: after looking at your profile, it kinda tells. In your 30s, single, seriously insecure and convinced that men don't want you because you're "short"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:50 PM
3

You could've picked up better counter-examples. Breast augmentation consistently ranks among the top cosmetic surgeries performed globally. Wearing braces for teeth isn't limited to sex and age and there is no definitive data to claim whether girls/women wear them more vs boys/men. It's a very common thing in children and increasingly more in adults. Both of these things are much more utilized and incredibly more effective in treating the problem at hand, compared to hair transplant which has mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:44 PM
3

It confuses me why you constantly put accent on balding. Among all the things that you listed, that's literally the only one that's out of control because it's purely dictated by genetics. Even hair transplant surgery can't help those who lost too much hair
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:23 PM
1

Confidence and not giving af makes you attractive no matter what you look like I would agree with this, mostly. However, I don't think it's applicable to everyone. There is still a number of men out there who do get rejected purely based on their looks, and it's hard for me to imagine that someone can keep their confidence level up all the time when they have 100% failure rate in something. Human mind is not resilient to that degree. Loss of confidence leads to loss of motivation which leads to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:13 PM
1

She's deleting comments lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:56 PM
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Top % of men who are getting dates consistently (where OP wants to get) are first and foremost distinguished by their way above average looks, so physical appearance needs to be taken care of to whatever degree genetics allow, then all other things. And some people just aren't blessed enough in that department. Your advice comes in the end like a topping on a cake. If we're strictly talking about dating apps and instagram (since OP is mentioning this), being funny, relaxed, not fake it etc. will…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:36 PM
3

I know this sounds to you as a helpful advice, but in reality it really isn't doing much for what the OP wants unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:02 PM
1

Not really. Apart from Pearl, I know few other "pick-me" women and most of them are actually in a relationship or married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:52 AM
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A lot of women even prefer 'short kings'. This is just false, at least a part which contains "a lot". Height is a genetic trait and being tall for men is a sign of good genetics, so it's generally seen as an attractive thing. Besides that, never in my whole life have I heard a woman say she prefers a "short king". In my country I am slightly below average height. While my height wasn't an issue for majority of women I ended up with, more than a few hinted or just said openly to me that it would …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:18 PM
2

There's very little to indicate that Russia actually wants it to go nuclear. They would 100% lose in that scenario Everyone would lose if it goes nuclear. No going back after that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:49 PM
3

When men judge women as "low value" due to their promiscuity, it usually means just judging whether they would be fit candidates for serious commitment i.e. relationship or marriage, and those women are not really taken seriously when it comes to those things. But they are not devalued as people and I don't believe that many men find them detestable and repulsive in a way that you imply. As far as wanting to fuck them, sex and relationships are two different things for men, and they can be compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:29 PM
55

So instead of taking accountability for bad choices, she gets rewarded with half a mil. Western society is wild
/r/MensRights22/03/24 10:27 AM
21

I know that you don't think that. Coming out of ignorance is not always easy
/r/MensRights20/03/24 01:20 PM
25

It must be really nice living in your own bubble 😕 It would be good to come out to the real world every once in a while though
/r/MensRights20/03/24 01:08 PM
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I wonder if their sentences will be the same Of course not. He is likely to get a much lighter sentence due to male privilege and patriarchy that feminists always complain about /s
/r/MensRights18/03/24 04:26 PM
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Some men are single because they are boring, yes, but that is a very small percentage because that plays a role mostly in already established dating/relationship, not for the initial attraction. Whenever we meet a new person or see them on some app, the very first thing we process in our brains is how they look, so we automatically categorize them based on that and we usually know right away if they are to our liking or not. If a woman discards a man because he does not pass that looks threshold…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:00 PM
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How do I win an argument against dumb feminists You don't. You can try but eventually you'll realise that it's not worth the time and energy you'll invest in the "debate". I've encountered few feminists where constructive conversation was possible, but they were in a minority. Others (overwhelming majority) just discard your arguments and go head through the wall with their opinion no matter what. My advice: Don't bother
/r/MensRights11/03/24 01:43 PM
4

I guess it isn't in that case. But having a life partner is still a whole different experience
/r/MensRights29/02/24 07:08 PM
1

Dating apps are completely superficial. You cannot feel the real vibe of the person, you have a hard time showing your true charisma, you can easily be catfished and you're judged exclusively on your looks and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:21 PM
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It's all flowers and rainbows until one time a realization hits you that getting into later stages in life and growing old alone is not so fun after all. But by that time, it's usually too late to revert back
/r/MensRights29/02/24 03:11 PM
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While I agree with this, I think it tends to apply mostly on men who are around average in looks department. If you are 8 and above, you can still pull while having the most basic conversation skills and even being introvert because women will clear the way for you or even hit on you. I've seen this play out in real life numerous times
/r/MensRights29/02/24 11:29 AM
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I think that face and height i.e. genetics play the biggest role here while wealth comes as a nice bonus. Sexual options of a chad are not much impacted by being broke
/r/MensRights29/02/24 09:21 AM
1

There are people like that here as well, but what I've observed is that majority of them tends to be older than 40. I was thinking more in the age group of.. let's say 26-36. If a man in that age group cannot support himself to live alone in a small apartment and not die of hunger, or has basically zero sources of income, the chances of him pulling even a broke woman are pretty low, until he changes that situation. Obviously the older he is, the harder it becomes. My initial assumption is that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:26 PM
-4

Alright, then I must've been blind all my life since the number of times I witnessed or known some unemployed broke man pulling and dating a woman, stays in the single digits. I'll try to "open my eyes" more from now on
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:59 PM
-3

I don't live in US
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:49 PM
-4

Broke people mostly date broke people. Yeah, in high school and partially college. In mid-twenties and later in life, it will be a rare sight to see any woman dating a bum.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:43 PM
-2

Except for when they are low class. A woman who is broke will hardly ever consider dating a broke man even if their interests and hobbies align. The same cannot be said the other way around though. When they are positioned higher up in the hierarchy, they may date people from their own socioeconomic class, but women would usually still keep a preference of their partner earning more if possible. It's just how things are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:35 PM
2

If she's broke because she is an entitled lazy slob who only wants to leech of others and not do literally anything with her life, or has a huge debt, then the answer is no. In most other cases, her financial status has a very low impact on my desire to date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:10 PM
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It tends to happen to people who socialize regularly and meet new people. Although it is worth noting that social and dating apps have distorted this to a certain degree
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:23 PM
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TikTok is cancer. Delete it and go outside more
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:35 AM
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I would categorize sex as a secondary need - primary ones being of course food, water, air. Your survival doesn't depend on it, but your mental wellbeing does. Same with socializing, you can stay alone your whole life but it will have a severe impact on your mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:46 AM
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Maybe she always fell in love and hoped that it's finaly the ONE That motive is quite far reaching. Promiscuous people casually sleep around a lot - hence the word "promiscuous". It is extremely unlikely that a girl like that always "fell in love". Maybe she hoped that if she will agree to casual sex he will fall in love with her too Maybe once or twice, but from that point it becomes more and more unlikely. Even naive people are not that dumb to repeat the same mistake over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:59 PM
2

I could argue with you on certain things, but it's very clear that you are salty about her and led by emotions, therefore I think it would likely be just a waste of time. Also, if I understood correctly, you literally made an unprovoked insult towards someone's physical appearance. That tells a lot about you. I wouldn't be surprised if you happened to be a very obnoxious person in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:54 PM
6

How exactly is Courtney a pick-me girl? Or are you saying that just because
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:29 AM
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Found out about that tik tok via this youtube reaction too. I think Courtney covered it very well. I'm also surprised he even reached out to her later again. The woman in the tik tok seems a bit like someone who would be hard to deal with on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:06 PM
0

Then you've seen the wrong posts. I know what I've seen and I was not hallucinating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:10 PM
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No they don't Yes they do, I've seen it. Not regularly, but every now and then I come across on reddit a post or a comment like that from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:01 PM
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I think that is asking a lot considering which people control most of the reddit. I'm honestly surprised that this sub hasn't been taken down so far, but there is no doubt in my mind that it gets targeted regularly by feminists and other bunch.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 04:27 PM
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Yeah, I'm getting that vibe too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:58 AM
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Me accepting or not accepting what you said in your top comment is not the point. In my reply I just stated two things that are true, and not with intention to attack you or anyone. But you're comming off hostile in your comments like someone has wronged you and like you're bitter at men. The guy above just shared his similar experience to yours and included a general statement on who mocks who more on the basis of sexual performance. But you clearly did not take it well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:56 AM
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but women are more judgemental about it Because generally they tend to be. But in no way this "disallows" you to share your view.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:37 AM
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One of the article comments: could be the lack of attention her hubby was giving her Of course we gotta involve some man to blame for this woman's behavior
/r/MensRights14/02/24 10:12 AM
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“no discussion about looks.” This is obviously ridiculous, considering how fundamental they are to physical attraction and dating You have a point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:03 PM
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I feel like people underestimate womens physical strength It's not about underestimating strength, it's about simple biology. When you observe the difference in height, weight, muscle mass and bone density and frame, you come to a rational conclusion that men on average are way stronger than women in terms of brute force. Obviously there are exceptions to this but exceptions don't make the rules. It's just how things are and anyone who claims otherwise is a 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:15 AM
58

Degenerates
/r/MensRights07/02/24 04:30 PM
7

Majority of women have misconception of what a true dad bod really is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:16 PM
1

I agree that these points should define an average man. However, I believe that in this day and age with this economy, shift in how we date, socialize and spend time alone, food industry and all the rest, there is not a huge percentage of men that check all of these boxes, thus being slightly below average becomes the new average.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:24 AM
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it allows you to blame your lack of success on the other gender The RP leans a lot more towards blaming men for their lack of success with women. At least that's how I understood it. Any red pillers are welcome to correct me on this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:22 AM
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I'm signing this. Had a pretty solid dating life through high school and college when I was meeting girls in real life. But that one time when I tried a dating app for 10 or so days, I barely got any matches, and I'm not an ugly dude. Now that I'm slightly older and working, social circles are visibly shrinking and I'm not too keen on trying dating apps again
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:50 PM
3

I went to a therapy and my therapist was a woman. We started off really good, but as time went on it felt like we weren't going anywhere. It seemed like she didn't completely understand some of my issues and couldn't provide an adequate guidance. This is just one case though. I didn't seek any other therapists and I found a way to deal with some of the issues I was facing by myself
/r/MensRights29/01/24 12:00 AM
1

These people are mental
/r/MensRights27/01/24 10:59 PM
3

Of course I would care, and all my exes had the same opinion on me hanging out with women who I fucked before, be it ex, fwb or someone else. I thought this was a common sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:09 PM
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People don't need to be completely subjective in order to know if someone is conventionally attractive or not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:12 PM
-6

Why are you stalking my profile and commenting on my posts to other subs? Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:44 PM
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Men are definitely approaching less than they used to, although to what degree I can't really tell. A lot of the things happen online now, many men have less confidence and social skills in general, especially the ones who struggle to have even a small friend circle. On the other hand, now the risk for being called a creep or even worse reported for harassment by some women is higher, even when approached politely. Attractiveness of a man plays a very big role in this though. Times have definite…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:31 PM
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How do you counter a false allegation of abuse in such a scenario? Pray that some random stranger is recording it if you are not doing it already
/r/MensRights20/01/24 04:43 PM
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5%-10% is low Think again. This percentage is very concerning
/r/MensRights20/01/24 11:57 AM
3

men around here threaten violence Where? I've been on this sub for a long time and I don't remember seeing this once
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 02:02 AM
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It isn't, but people like this will still call it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 02:00 AM
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Obviously it's never truly over, but I'd say mid 30s and later are very close to that if the guy doesn't do anything about his inexperience and doesn't make anything of himself. The best era for dating would and should be in highschool and college purely based on the sheer number of like-minded individuals of similar age that surround you. But in reality a lot of the guys are not very successful with dating in that time period and some are borderline invisible to girls. So if they don't do every…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:24 AM
1

Yeah and we're talking in the context of men and women here, which is overwhelming majority anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:51 AM
4

If you end up going on a multiple dates with a man, should he pay for each one of them as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:16 AM
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Now ask yourself who's the one who pretty much always asks the other one on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:12 AM
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I don't prefer dating women who date multiple men at the same time and if I find out about this after few dates it's an instant turn off and I move on right away. Fortunately a big percentage of women I dated shared my preference so I didn't have too many problems with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:49 PM
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Because in its eyes men are the evil oppressors and they are the victims, so by default any mention of men's rights is a direct attack on them. This is just one of many examples which showcases that "equality" part was never really a thing
/r/MensRights17/01/24 10:38 AM
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I guess most men are not "real men" since only about 7-8 % of men worldwide are over 6ft
/r/MensRights16/01/24 04:11 PM
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Me and all my male friends don't crave stay at home wife. It is whatever woman decides but we'd rather prefer her work because the economy is shit and relying on a single income source these days is very risky. And not everyone will have a side hustle that will generate good cash you can rely on in case of sudden unemployment. My partner is fairly wealthy and I haven't worked a 9-5 since we've been together. Also it's ironic how you are complaining about the very thing you benefit from and which…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:50 PM
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“You posted to r/mensrights which IS an incel forum, therefore you are a mysoginist and probably lying. You refuse to apologize for your participation in an OBJECTIVELY evil sub, so you are evading the REAL issue here." Just make a throwaway account and ask whatever you wanted to ask. A person who replied to you with this comment clearly hates men and goes by with "all men are trash". It is pointless to try and have a constructive argument with them as they only listen to whatever can be heard i…
/r/MensRights16/01/24 12:50 PM
13

Yes
/r/MensRights15/01/24 10:32 PM
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Wondering how many years she will receive for the stabbing. Probably not even close to enough.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 10:20 PM
8

It's sad but I don't really have much sympathy for simps in general. They're pretty much the main reason why OF thrives, why women can behave like this streamer and why many other similar problems in this domain exist.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 08:12 PM
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Well I though so too. I strongly believe that every human should have equal rights and opportunities regardless of their gender, race, sexual orientation etc. But feminism today and feminism from before are completely different things, and the evolution of it went into a very hateful, bitter and toxic direction unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:56 PM
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Have you ever been in a long term commitment? Because if you have, then you'd know that there are often things that require prolonged effort in order to fix it. You don't just dip out on the first problem that get's complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:46 AM
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This has nothing to do with being lazy. Why would anyone put themselves through unnecessary torture if they don't think that the relationship issues could be worked on or if they don't care about fixing anything
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:39 AM
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Put up with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:13 AM
8

Men on average are prepared to put up with a lot more BS to keep the relationship/marriage going than women are
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:49 AM
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Generally it doesn't, but in my opinion it's also very important on how much time that person spends alone with their friend(s)s of other sex, how often, how many etc. There is a fine line between what should be acceptable and what not when you're in a monogamous LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:44 AM
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Just wanted to note that for men emotional connection and wanting to sleep with someone can be two completely distant things, and they most often don't need the first one at all in order to have the second one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:24 AM
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Of all the promiscuous women* There are some which are not attractive at all, which are also in minority. Most of the people I'm talking about fall into average looks range with some above and some below average which is to be expected as most people generally are distributed like that. I believe that correlation between being hot and having high n count applies more to men as hot men have many options vs average having few and anything below average is pretty bad in terms of options. This is ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 12:28 PM
2

My example more or less aligns with normal distribution where physical looks fall as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:05 AM
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Of all promiscuous women I know personally, just a small minority could be considered hot. The rest are average or below average. There is no link between n count and physical looks in women's case.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:45 PM
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Promiscuous people shouldn't be judged as people, but they should be judged as candidates for a potential long term relationship because in that case it matters. There is a direct correlation between body count and person's ability to pair-bond and sustain long term relationship or marriage and be happy in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:37 PM
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Oppenheimer is not different to most films. Because most films are anti-women Ah, there it is! The Victim card. We'll just preted that most modern movies don't revolve around dumbing and putting down male characters because that's what writers need to rely on in order to show strength of female characters. Especially if male characters are white and straight.
/r/MensRights09/01/24 04:03 PM
1

I don't believe there is a toxic masculinity or femininity, only toxic people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:45 PM
8

Paternity tests upon child birth would help avoid a lot of potential drama down the road. Man would know he is the true father and woman wouldn't get triggered later for cheating accusation. I cannot fathom why would anyone be against this except for serial cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:57 AM
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in other countries child support is based on the cost of raising a child, not a man's income. Exactly. And here I'm wondering which child needs almost 33k a month in order to be supported
/r/MensRights06/01/24 11:55 PM
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I don't think that every single man should automatically be labeled as an incel just for speaking their preferences or opinions on the internet when no one asked them, especially if there is nothing inherently wrong with what they said. But alright, we clearly don't share the same way of thinking. Appreciate the talk, peace
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:03 PM
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But what if their broadcasting has a place on a public forum where relevant topic is being discussed, or just preferences alone. This sub is more often than not an example of such thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:53 PM
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Yes, they do. And I can say "no, they don't", but I'd rather hear you elaborate. Here is one of the examples I've seen on the internet. A man who will never consider a woman who does sex work (e.g. onlyfans, porn actress, escort, etc.) as a candidate for a long-term commitment, because he believes that her private parts should be exclusive to him and that generally selling (not hers but anyone's) body and being used as a sexual object for money is in essence a self-degrading thing. Most often he…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:48 PM
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Yeah, I've noticed I read it wrong the first time and went to edit it but you already replied
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:14 PM
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Some women will overlook misogyny for short term fun if the guy is attractive enough. And I'm not so convinced that "some" is a small percentage. I've seen this myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:12 PM
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Beliefs and argumens do not have to be misogynistic in order for an incel insult to be thrown around. I've also seen women who insulted men like that while they were being misandrists themselves. Like I said, incel word has lost its meaning due to pointless overuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:08 PM
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Whenever I see an argument on social media about a man complaining about women or OF models the women always call him an incel Unfortunately incel has become a default insult that women (most often feminists) tend to use on a man whose beliefs and arguments oppose to their own, regardless of him being in the right or wrong. The word has lost its original meaning, just like feminism did.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 03:50 PM
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Because it's psychologically easier to stay ignorant of something that will eventually affect you in a negative way than face the truth and maybe do something about it. I find it somewhat similar to smokers. They know it's bad and it will eventually catch up to them if they don't do something about it (quit), but they don't want to think about it every time they light a cigarette
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 03:01 PM
6

All men fall into one of the pills or sometimes in a mixed one. Most are just not aware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:18 AM
27

Add "need a man who can handle me" to the list
/r/MensRights03/01/24 12:51 PM
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There is a very good reason why marriages in most societies are monogamous and why it has been the norm for a very long time. Obviously these people are clearly ignorant of the potential long-term consequences of the thing they're asking for.
/r/MensRights02/01/24 10:50 PM
1

Try not to get triggered by those people. Every sane and normal person understands that men and women need each other. Others who truly believe in something else are mental.
/r/MensRights02/01/24 04:21 AM
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they could pump and dump Let's be real here, only chads with abundant options do this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 04:07 PM
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Some amount throughout the span of their youth? Yes. Having casual sex regularly? Majority of men no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 02:55 PM
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It should be noted that it benefits only a certain small group of men. I agree with the rest of the statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 02:08 PM
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Then after 21 days she starts wondering "why does my husband resent me?"
/r/MensRights31/12/23 12:18 PM
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The book you're mentioning is just a joke. This book revolves around sexism and misandry. Big difference.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 12:15 PM
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Because women have that privilege
/r/MensRights31/12/23 12:13 PM
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Just because you don't agree with his content or dislike the person, doesn't mean he needs to be 'canceled'. Stop with this BS cancel culture. It's enough to just don't watch him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:30 PM
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Well, you certainly can't have a constructive conversation with someone who does not want to hear you
/r/MensRights29/12/23 04:18 PM
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Never. I don't want to introduce to my life all the drama and baggage another man's kid(s) will bring. Being friends with benefits is probably the farthest I would go.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:15 PM
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Wanted to ask why don't you just post your question directly on a feminist sub, but then I remembered that you'll just get banned or downvoted to oblivion because there is a lot of angry mob in those subs and you're their "oppressor"
/r/MensRights29/12/23 09:11 AM
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Disagree. I think that not wanting someone to do something or act in a certain way while in a relationship can surely be considered as a boundary. But it's alright. These are all just individual opinions, it just so happens that yours is different than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:23 PM
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If you're in a committed relationship, it is of a high importance to have clearly defined boundaries with each other and you need to have a backbone to walk away if your boundaries are not respected by your partner. So if "no clubbing without you" is one of them and she does not respect it, then you need to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:28 PM
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Why can't a 10/10 woman fall in love with an average dude Theoretically possible, but does not happen in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:14 PM
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So how does an average Western guy even get a 10/10 Western woman? He doesn't. If we're talking about looks alone, average guy would fall into 4-6 range and shooting for a 10/10 is going way out of his league. He'd need to have a lot of other things going for him if he wants to have a chance at pulling a woman of that caliber, e.g. be exceptionally rich, very high status, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:04 PM
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School only pursued Jessica's case How typical
/r/MensRights26/12/23 12:58 PM
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Now stick something about women of equal weight and watch how it makes headlines on TV and social media.
/r/MensRights25/12/23 07:23 PM
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I know about mens rights sub, not sure if it's the last one standing though. Still way more respectful towards everyone compared to feminist-like subs which are filled with hate, at least from what I've seen there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:53 PM
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We've been banned from reddit But WGTOW is perfectly fine Had to check this out and it really is like you said. Things are f-ed up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:47 PM
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- don't automatically believe a woman just because she is a woman, do thorough investigation - do not lock the man until he is proven guilty - in case of a false accusation, punish the accuser the same way you'd punish that rapist
/r/MensRights24/12/23 09:15 PM
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Portraying yourself as nothing more then sexual objects for men further amplifies the sexualisation of women in wider society Exactly. You can't have this and "don't sexualise women" at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:22 PM
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Imagine your ex fiancee from few years back wakes up one morning and decides to blackmail you with false allegations just to milk 9 mil out of you. Some women are unbelievable. And he still redirected the money she owes him for legal fees into her medical treatment.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 11:00 PM
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The tool is biased against men, it has been shown countless of times.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 01:05 AM
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I'm glad for you. But majority of people are not like you. Exceptions don't make rules
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:05 PM
10

Playing some specific games definitely can be better in some cases because tik tok and instagram are literally a brain dead activity and people use them pretty much 24/7 because smart phone is an extension of every modern human today.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:28 PM
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Maybe the better advice would be for men to minimise time spent online and in front of the screen in general, because games are not the sole factor in contributing to the loneliness issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:51 PM
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Next "research" from feminists: Jesus was actually a woman
/r/MensRights20/12/23 06:06 PM
10

Why should he stop?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:39 PM
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Relax. Just because Di Caprio does it, doesn not mean the rest of us do it too. In fact, I personally don't know a single man who does this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:29 PM
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Privacy left the chat
/r/MensRights20/12/23 12:19 AM
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Considering that society doesn't give a shit about them and the fact that they are often not believed or are a subject of laugh, no wonder.
/r/MensRights20/12/23 12:15 AM
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I rarely ever see people talk about toxic femininity even though it is very present. It's like society chooses to be ignorant of it, more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:33 PM
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The problem I see with many people is that they are so quick to classify literally any form of physical force as a child abuse, which is just simply not true. I believe that right dose of physical discipline is often necessary in character development and so that the kid doesn't grow up to be a spoiled brat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:20 PM
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I just find it incredibly stupid to combine those words. There is no toxic masculinity or toxic femininity in my opinion. There is only masculinity, femininity and toxic people.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 12:26 PM
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Men have issues? Well, it's because of their toxic masculinity of course.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 12:25 PM
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In my opinion, smacking children in moderation is ok and is not child abuse, especially when they intentionally act like little twats. I have friends who were beaten by their parents (including myself) and some who weren't. We who got our asses whooped when we deserved it learned very early on to respect elders and to not be spoiled, compared to those other friends. I wouldn't be the same person today if raised differently and that's why I believe that physical force can have benefits when done …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:15 PM
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You from USA?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:22 PM
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Are you in a need of one? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:59 PM
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Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:50 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:38 PM
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Men hate to be pursued and feel uncomfortable with a woman thirsting after him Tell me you're not a man without telling me you're not a man. OP, you have no idea what you're talking about, even though you may think you do. Compared to women who get hit on and have their DMs full all the time, most men are not very often pursued by women, some are never. So every time it happens they usually tend to welcome it with open arms and it's a fresh change. As for personal experience, my best and longest…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:20 PM
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Offer to pay for abortion. If she decided to keep the child, well, I wouldn't want that at all but I would stay there for that child and for her. Running away is a cowardly thing to do. Actions have consequences and adult person needs to hold themselves accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 01:09 PM
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In order for them find you sexually/romantically attractive based on your kindness, you first need to have other things going for you i.e. looking physically good to them. That is the basis of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:09 PM
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Keep in mind that what women put in polls and how they act out in reality more often than not doesn't align
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:58 PM
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Muscles are more important than height for attracting women Maybe in your own small bubble, but on a broader scene, generally no. This becomes even more obvious when the height difference between tall and muscular guy is large. You can put on muscle with hard work but you cannot put on height which makes it more valuable in the context of physical characteristics, and women know this. If you just hit the gym and get muscular, you’ll witness your dating options 10x if not 20x A change this drasti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:55 PM
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Unless it somehow gets cancelled by feminists
/r/MensRights14/12/23 07:16 PM
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If the abortion is banned, this is perfectly valid imo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:24 PM
3

What you said OP sounds good on paper, but reality hits different
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:26 PM
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I thought of that calculator as something that was intentionally made to spit out very low percentages and therefore being kinda scam, but after playing with it and looking into things a bit more, the values it returns do make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:24 PM
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Of course a person will look better when they get their shit together. I was thinking more of people who are supposed to fall into "normal" category and was thinking of face looks. Maybe I should've noted this in the previous comment. When I view myself, I am not fat, I exercise somewhat regularly, have relatively clear skin and solid hair etc. and it's been like this before. Yet my face looks worse than 10 years ago, and it will look worse in the next 10 years no matter what I try to do. It's a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:11 PM
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I see. I just find it funny when people think they can look the same or even better when they get somewhat older. There might be some outliers but as a general rule I don't believe in that. Obviously things like surgeries and stuff are excluded
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:44 PM
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How old are you now?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:16 PM
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Dude is rich, famous and good looking. Why he chooses to stay with a woman who openly admits on cheating and who abuses him psychologically is beyond me.
/r/MensRights10/12/23 03:52 PM
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Guy can be the biggest bum in the world but if he looks good he won't have any issues in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:45 PM
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The 9th picture with those articles.. "women should not go to jail", "women offenders should be sent to support centres, not prison", etc. Are people actually that insane to make those heading statements? Holy fuck
/r/MensRights08/12/23 06:07 PM
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Because women in general are single by choice and men are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:59 PM
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hey no problem fam
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:53 PM
1

Start a sentence with a hashtag
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:42 PM
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alright alright, calm down
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:54 AM
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You can feel like a 20 at heart but you don't look like a 20 anymore and that's the reality. Why try to normalize something that ain't true? Older women are not as beautiful as younger ones. And there is nothing really wrong with it, we all age and our looks naturally deteriorate as we do and we need to accept it. The best you can do to slow down that process is having diet, sleep, exercise and low levels of stress on point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:53 AM
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I just wish that feminists weren't so hostile to me just because I'm a man or automatically view me as some kind of enemy without knowing anything about me. I know that not all are like that, but many with whom I interacted were. I wish they understood that I as a man also have issues specific to my sex, and even though they are very different to women's issues, they shouldn't be disregarded as unimportant or tried to be silenced when spoken about. Many years ago I was actually a supporter of fe…
/r/MensRights07/12/23 10:51 PM
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Or when there is a post where OP who is 40+ years old sleeps with a person who is 20 (or dates them). The comments will vary significantly depending on whether the OP is a man or a woman. You can only guess who gets support and reassurance and who gets bashed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:28 PM
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Looks like someone is furious about this post lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:18 PM
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Surprised?
/r/MensRights07/12/23 05:10 PM
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There is a common misconception that man are hornier than women Majority of men in general are hornier than majority of women. It's not a misconception, it is a very easily observable fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:12 PM
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He gave her another 30k and promised to give 400k in bitcoin if she replied on any of his messages. I generally bash on any men who would pay any amount for OF thots, but this dude is clearly mentally ill and needs a treatment asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:18 AM
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This is very true. Didn't miss a single point
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:34 PM
4

Sexual drive is one of the strongest ones we have and directly affects some of the ways we go through life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:31 PM
2

songs about a wider variety of topics Can you elaborate a bit more?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:29 PM
4

Haven't you heard by now? You as a man are not allowed to have standards
/r/MensRights06/12/23 09:43 AM
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Why are so many men obsessed with being the top guy when they know most men will never be the top Does this mean that they should stop trying at all? I never understood this mindset and it seems to be a setup for failure Mindset for not trying is even more setup for failure. I'd argue that most guys are aware that they will never be the top guy, but they have a chance to be the best version of themselves. That is the potential that is hidden in each one of us. Competition is something that is na…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:11 PM
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There are millions of men out there unknowingly raising another man's child(ren), with women they do trust Yep. And when they find out years later, all hell breaks loose. This and trust issues down the line could've been 100% effectively avoided if paternity test was included by default among other tests right after giving birth. But women tend to lose their shit whenever they hear about this suggestion
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:38 PM
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Yeah, most of us have seen some videos in gyms where a dude would casually look in the general direction of the camera and somehow the woman who recorded it thought it was some sort of intrusion and then felt the need to post it and complain to the whole internet. Whether it was for the clout or them just being insane, I don't know, but fortunately there were cases where it backfired. I don't know the thought process of some people. When you go to the gym you're gonna be looked at, there is no w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:22 PM
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As I man, I don't see an issue with checking out women. However, continuing to stare like a creep is a whole different story
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:52 PM
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Women have personalities and hopes and dreams and men play video games Ah, it all makes sense now. If only there were no games..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:56 PM
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call it male genital mutilation 100% how it should be called. Foreskin is not pointless, nature herself designed us to have one. No amount of blabbering about how doing this is for some health or looks benefits will convince me otherwise.
/r/MensRights03/12/23 01:31 PM
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Another prime example of how feminists will go against their own narrative of gender equality when they can benefit from it, and if they're called out for it then they play the victim card as per usual. Makes you wonder if their movement was ever truly about the equality or the superiority was the hidden motive all along.
/r/MensRights02/12/23 05:21 PM
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Obviously it can be a struggle for many, but dating in your 20s generally is supposed to be easier than in 30s and later on. And it's purely based on the fact that you are more likely to be surrounded by the people in the same age range and similar mindset who aren't taking life all too serious just yet. Now obviously some might jump in on this with the saying that only women have it easy in 20s, but I won't dwell into that as it is a separate topic that is frequently discussed on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:39 PM
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I wouldn't do things that would lead to her asking for paternity in the first place, but if she did I would not object to it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:34 AM
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It will be uncomfortable but I suggest just keeping it low and doing your thing. You don't have any leverage in this situation and those teachers are probably nutjobs
/r/MensRights01/12/23 10:14 PM
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is somehow still the victim It's always the victim card, always
/r/MensRights01/12/23 05:28 PM
0

Probably not to a degree that incel, misogyny and the rest from that group are, but it is definitely overused.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:35 PM
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Whether she gave me pussy or not is irrelevant and the outcome would be all the same. I still stand by what I said regarding those women who make their decisions in life based on astrology and things related to it. No matter how small percentage, some clearly behave like it's their more of a religion rather than some "fun". And she and her friend did perform some calcuations although I don't remember the details because I never cared for them and thought they were BS anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:08 PM
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This is an example of why I tell everyone that #believeallwomen crap needs to be completely cancelled. It's so easy for a woman to make a false allegation against a man, and because she will have a great leverage over him by default, she can use it for blackmail for example, or just to ruin someone's life.
/r/MensRights01/12/23 12:28 PM
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I experienced this first hand. There was this painter girl who liked me a lot during the college, and I kinda liked her so we went on few dates. One time during the date she asked me what my zodiac sign was and from there everything went downhill because I was pisces and we were not "compatible" in her world, so everything pretty much ended right away after that. Ever since then, I also see it as a giant red flag and just can't take serious enough women who revolve their decisions in life around…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:19 PM
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I certainly did experience creepy vibe from ugly women making a move which turned out to be weird as hell. But I agree with you that men suffer that a lot more often
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:01 AM
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Muslim by any chance? Me personally? No. There is a mixture of Orthodoxy, Catholicism and Islam here, although most people identify themselves as atheists on surveys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:42 AM
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Tbh at this point I don’t even see the reason in commiting to a western woman as their « whore-like » behaviours have totally gotten out of hands and are so normalized Kinda feel fortunate to live in a country that has not fully succumbed to the western influence regarding sex and promiscuity (yet). It's still not a big issue in finding a woman with low body count (sometimes even a virgin although that has become rare as well) because a lot of them still keep their dignity. I did try dating a "h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:26 AM
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I think a little hoe phase is beneficial to both sexes It is debatable on how "little" though. There is a lot of ground to cover between being a virgin and being ran through by every guy from your block (or male equivalent).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:29 AM
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Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:29 PM
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Nothing new really. Hot people often get a free pass when they fuck up and that's a pretty privilege for ya
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:17 PM
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I find myself fortunate enough to be one of those people who don't find anything that much likable about alcohol. I drink it maybe once or twice a year at most. But weed on the other hand..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:50 PM
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I understand your thought process, the topic can be debated from that perspective too. There's nothing in our biological makeup that suggests having sex during pregnancy would compromise the pregnancy. No, there is not. It is worth noting thought that hormonal changes, increased physical discomfort and other potential health risks that can come with pregnancy often times impact woman's desire and/or ability to engage in sexual activity on the same level as before the pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:17 AM
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I have no idea where your last comment dipped, maybe you removed it or maybe it is a reddit bug. Doesn't matter, I will reply to this one. Yes you did...otherwise, why mention pregnancy as a risk factor if you didn't mean it curbs promiscuit y in women? The physical ability of a woman to have sex during the pregnancy is not the point here, but what that pregnancy means to her is. It is basically a life-altering event which puts her in a vulnerable state, especially at the late stages. Once she g…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:41 AM
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I never said it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:52 AM
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Yes. Your point though?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:46 AM
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I was speaking in evolutionary context, not in modern day age
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:26 AM
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Nowadays yes, but that is a pretty small time range compared to the history of human evolution which basically engraved some behaviours in us
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:08 AM
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Wondering the same
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:54 AM
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Yeah, guys expecting women to be virgins nowadays are not realistic, especially at the later age. I personally only care if a woman is a hoe because I try to avoid dating those, but I'm well aware that if I asked her about her history, 9/10 times she wouldn't give me a fully honest answer anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:11 PM
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What about the other stuff such as her behaviour, sexual history, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:57 PM
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I don't really believe that high promiscuity is natural in women purely based on the fact that they have to bear all the risks when it comes to sex and pregnancy. I think that is has a lot more to do with what society around pushes for
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:31 PM
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Now count the years until someone gets arrested for misandry. We'll probably die off anyway before that happens
/r/MensRights29/11/23 07:05 PM
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I don't know on what planet you've been living on, but this already happens. Just like women are often judged for their promiscuity, men are often judged for their lack of experience when they get past the certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:28 PM
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This is a common sense to which I agree to, but not something which you can 100% rely on because humans are prone to unexpected and "bad" behaviour. No matter how much you trust someone, the chance of getting burned by them always exists in some amount, and it happens. Once it happens to you, you learn that you can never actually be fully certain into the state of some things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:23 PM
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I remember guys saying that “its easy to get a paternity test to confirm she’s faithful” because they dont want to put in the time to observe if she’s a faithful person. What do you mean by this? Observing a person does not guarantee finding out if she is or has been unfaithful. I see so many times how people get devastated when they find out their partner who they thought would never cheat on them cheats, or cheated years ago and they never saw a change in behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:50 PM
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Why do you say that? By using common sense. By the way, I never said that it is the case with each man and that the sex will necessarily be bad, although I probably should've noted this in my original comment for people like you. So chill out
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:41 AM
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I don't think it's about being ready to have sex or not. You can be ready for it and also be a virgin because you can't get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:55 AM
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I guess that's an option. But if things lead to sex, inexperience will be seen
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:51 AM
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False
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:18 AM
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I absolutely love my LTR but I’m always more willing to walk away from it if things aren’t on my terms This. Man should not let himself become the prisoner of his own feelings towards a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:44 AM
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Wanting women to be skillful and talented and smart instead of Onlyfans is a sign of oppression and women hating according to the lot of you all Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:19 PM
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the mensrights and Feminism subreddits aren't actually seeking equality, they are seeking superiority I've been here long enough to know that this sub ain't about superiority and often times men here are held accountable as well. Don't know about the feminist subs since I stay away from them. Been there few times and they were one of the most hostile places on the reddit that I've visited, at least in my experience.
/r/MensRights28/11/23 12:49 AM
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it would be nice to have constructive and not one sided discussions of feminism It certainly would. I don't have big expectations but I guess we'll see
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:39 PM
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Because women tend to date up or at least someone on their own level, so a highly successful woman is likely to go for a highly successful man. But the issue is that those men make up only a small percentage of male population, even less if we start including only a certain age range and physical looks. And those men have an abundance of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:55 PM
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It is enough to disagree with feminist on something and you'll be automatically labeled as incel, so the word has lost its meaning practically (or gained a new one)
/r/MensRights27/11/23 05:09 PM
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95% off Humans would cheat if there would be a good enough Option Certain percentage surely would, but stating that it's 95% is pushing it too much. In order to cheat, one has to have a serious lack of respect towards the loved one. Not all of us are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:28 PM
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It's one of those double standards for which people will never care enough to correct it. We just have to live with it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:10 PM
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I don't understand why anyone in their right mind would consciously lower themselves to be a beta-buxer to some woman, but it happens. I guess it's like my lack of understanding for men who throw their money on onlyfans prostitutes. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:25 PM
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And they'd still call you their "oppressor"
/r/MensRights26/11/23 12:59 PM
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Because they don't like you. Some may even hate you. You'll have a hard time arguing with them because you're their "oppressor".
/r/MensRights26/11/23 02:29 AM
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You'd actually be surprised to know just how many men do not have any options
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:47 PM
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Not meaning to argue but.. isn't an onlyfans kinda one of the trends today? A lot of girls out there are jumping on that bandwagon hoping it will be lucrative for them as well, probably without giving much thought on how it may affect their future in the long run
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:55 PM
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In my experience, for the most part yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:33 PM
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usually emphasise the "not having any bitches" part so its formed a tainted view of the situation Agree. It goes deeper than just "having bitches", but if that is the loudest argument in the room then of course it will sound maybe shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:43 PM
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Hate to break it to you but male loneliness isn't an issue that simply revolves around not having sex like you're implying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:29 PM
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Harmful for Kids? Yes, without a debate
/r/MensRights24/11/23 08:48 PM
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I agree with both of your comments
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:45 PM
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I cannot answer your question but can only confirm that I tend to encounter these things you speak of as well the more time I spend on the internet, although it also depends on which corners of the internet I decide to expose myself to. I am curious to know what percentage of women hold to these hypocritical claims though (besides the ones already having onlyfans), as I have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:34 PM
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Love it when men say here how they have it tough in dating and some women automatically translate it to men feeling entitled to intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:04 PM
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I've read every single OP's reply on this post and it is safe to say that the "CMV" flag is pointless as this person doesn't take into consideration anyone's opposing argument and is determined to push head through wall with her opinion no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:00 PM
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I am 27, the oldest age of a woman I am willing to marry is 30
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:22 PM
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Flirting and courting in the real world are widely considered creepy and even criminalized. Unless the guy is attractive and tall
/r/MensRights24/11/23 03:12 PM
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I think that the RP prioritizes focusing more on the period before raising a family. That's why the kids and their impact on the relationship dynamics are an afterthought. Although they also tend to be loud about divorces, child custody, etc. when it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:59 PM
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mens orgasms are much shorter compared to womens but I’ve never seen guys complaining about that or saying how unfair that is I've seen this. Then they'll tell you how women don't orgasm each time compared to men and so on. Each side will pick on something and we go in a neverending rabbit hole
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:56 PM
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Bruh, everything that you enlisted is unfair from one standpoint or another, so chill. Edit: my first sentence in top level comment includes it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:57 PM
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I was wondering the same thing even before this conflict. Those feminists are the loudest bunch when they need to get a new set of privileges while already being in a very privileged position in the west, but are surprisingly dead silent on actual women's issues elsewhere in the world. And as for men, well... no one gives a shit, we already know that. We are the "oppressors" anyway.
/r/MensRights23/11/23 05:20 PM
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She wants to hook up more than most girls do Yes, I've read your post and this reply doesn't even provide any significant answer in the context that I'm speaking in. You've clearly missed the point of my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:20 PM
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advantage it’s completely fair The existence of an unearned advantage implies in itself the presence of unfairness. What did the less attractive girl do or bring in order to have a line of guys waiting for a chance to have a go with her? What about the guy on the same level as her? Of course it's unfair. But that's just how things are. Many seem to forget that life is unfair in general and constant complaining about the things that are unlikely to change is a waste of energy in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:05 PM
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Although I am not 100% red pilled, I lean somewhat more in that direction. So to answer your questions, 100% yes to 1, 2, 3, 5. Although remember, equal is the key word to be applied to all answers. Question 4 really depends on the situation. Unprovoked violence against anyone is wrong, so that counts women as well. Although I am not the type of a person who would be violent towards women even if I was the one being assaulted, I think that if a woman hits a man, she should expect to get hit back…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:54 PM
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there needs to be a hard upper limit set for child support This. It just becomes pointless above certain amount or if the parent that has the child is filthy rich
/r/MensRights22/11/23 02:53 PM
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If you don't have a big social circle, are you basically fucked when it comes to dating? If you are a woman, no. If you are a man, depends. Are you attractive? If yes, then you are not fucked because you can score on dating apps and a small social circle will not limit you from finding a partner somewhere. If you are average or below, then you are fucked. What's sad is that as we get older, it gets more difficult to make new friends and keep the old ones, so don't waste time and go and socialize…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:04 PM
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I don't think it's intentional tbh. Same as "men" and "girls". I've also seen "males" and "women" too, although to a lesser extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:48 AM
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If you did, you'd understand the difference between romance and sex + friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:39 PM
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Have you ever had a regular friend with benefits?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:19 PM
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Have you ever been deeply in love with a person?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:59 PM
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I find that interesting since I observed that at minimum 60% of my male friends from college and current male coworkers are not fucking and dating at this very moment. I must be living in the wrong area lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:32 PM
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Another example of dumb celebrities living in their own bubble thinking they know shit. It's unfortunate though because their voice has a wide reach.
/r/MensRights19/11/23 07:27 PM
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These past few months there were so many instances where I was contemplating suicide. Literally no one in my vicinity gives a shit for what I'm going through. But I guess I shouldn't complain, I'm a "lottery winner" afterall.
/r/MensRights19/11/23 04:58 PM
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For men specifically, it's more on the fiction side. Most of us will just end up being alone if we stop looking. But obsessing over it is also not a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:32 PM
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Can you sue her? Even if you were not found guilty, she took your life away from you and she just walked away like it was nothing.
/r/MensRights18/11/23 07:03 PM
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Men and women are different and are in general attracted to different things. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:22 PM
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Got through 5 minutes Then you aren't credible enough to shit on it. Irrelevant of which side you pick to be on, you need to fully watch or listen to what someone has to say on a certain topic, and after that if you disagree, you provide your preferably constructive arguments, without emotional involvement if possible. That is how you participate in a debate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:18 PM
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I remember seeing this video before. I think there is truth in it, but the extent of it can be debated
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:00 PM
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Only you can decide what your value is Some people tend to be pretty delusional with this, although it more often happens with women than with men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:57 PM
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Majority of guys do have sex That is debatable. Those in committed relationships? Sure. Those that go for hookups? Hardly. Even for guys who are in committed relationships, it can be debated how often they are in one. If average and below average guys who by the way make up the majority of male population have sex, and by have sex I mean have it regularly and not be starved for it, we would never see this overwhelming amount of complaints on unfairness and harshness of the dating market towards …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:12 PM
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Do you think there’s a lack of good men? No. There is a plenty of good men. The problem is that most of these women who complain about this only want a certain caliber of men, i.e. chads. But as we know, chads have many options so they have a hard time committing long term to one woman, meaning they mostly just pump and dump. If they decide to seriously commit to someone, they usually do it with the someone of their own caliber. So all these women that are left out (which is the majority) tend t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:17 PM
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Majority of guys don't even have a chance of denying women sex. Those that do won't be doing it. We can debate whether or not this should be done, but ultimately it's not a realistic scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:18 AM
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Men don't face criticism about their bodies... I'd agree with her on this if only she put something like "5-10% of" before the word "men", because that's my rough guess at how many men are at the same time at least above average looking in the face, at least 6ft tall and who have their bodies in check. Also, she claims the men don't get criticised yet she's the first one to jump on a bandwagon to criticise ugly men, men with small dicks, etc. Ladies and gentleman, meet Billie Eilish - a fucking …
/r/MensRights17/11/23 10:04 AM
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You're only seen as funny, interesting, loyal, useful, charming, talented, smart when you're above average in looks. They always forget this part. Having good looks makes everything else more visible automatically
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:40 PM
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Ok so, what if you want kids and family at one point before your biological clock runs out, or you just want to enjoy a committed relationship? You carry this mindset that you don't want to deal with average men because why would you, but it just so happens that you are an average woman as well because average and below average people make up the biggest percentage of both genders population. So you look up to above average and top tier men. But the problem is that they will not commit to you bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:34 PM
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the biggest lie is that younger women are sexually attracted to older men I'd say it depends. How older? 5, 7, 10, 12 years? Maybe more? One more important thing to note is that, just because your experience is like that, doesn't mean it's everyone's experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:30 PM
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It's probably not. There is a difference between a genuine shock and a fake one. I'm fortunate enough to be above average in looks and at this point have accumulated pretty solid experience with women. But I don't have line of them 24/7 waiting for me so I'm always able to pick one on a whim if I feel like it, compared to even women well below my "level" in general. And many women are oblivious to that which is the main point of this comment thread. Your reasoning can also be applicable in these…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:59 AM
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Spot on. Some of my female friends get genuinely shocked when I tell them that I'm not able to find a new girlfriend right after I exit a relationship or basically whenever I feel like it (just like they can), or that my inbox is not swarming with many different women when I'm single. Like, it takes time and effort. Although nothing would really change even if all women were aware of this, but just acknowledging the real situation would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:26 PM
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Make a movie with the only purpose of pushing agenda, then blame men when it fails. Typical
/r/MensRights15/11/23 10:00 AM
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What does it say?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:27 PM
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Ah Billie, a well known hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:26 AM
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The things that you enlisted could potentially be examples of "adapting" that I meant. Maybe I expressed myself wrong in the second part of the top level comment. What I originally had in my thoughts is that modern feminism doesn't care about men or their dating experiences and that complaining about it online will amount to nothing. It has spread its roots deep into western society and things won't change in any foreseeable future, so instead of just complaining, men have to "adapt" to it in ce…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:19 AM
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Feminism isn’t about equality I'm well aware. It uses men like you to undermine masculine leadership How do you mean 'men like me'?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:30 AM
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men's dating experience is unfair and feminism has failed to address it Hate to break it to you but feminism is not there to address the problem that you're talking about and it doesn't really care about it. Yes, the game is unfair but currently we can't do anything else except to adapt to it the best way we can with what we have
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:39 PM
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Sorry but wanting to love and to be loved is a fundamental emotion for all human beings regardless of gender. Discrediting a half of the population based on a half-baked "argument" that you provided is just nuts to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:31 PM
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She does not want to understand and based on all other replies I've seen from her, she is committed to go with head through wall no matter what. Probably got pumped and dumped by some chad and now she's salty on all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:10 PM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:04 AM
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Just because it's easy? Yes. When you combine this with the fact that men in general have higher libido than women, you have even less reason to not use the easy opportunity if one is presented. However, it is very important to note that wanting a commitment and wanting to get a dick wet are almost two separate things for men and I've seen many women get confused by this. This is why attractive guy will often use you for your body if given the chance, but won't be interested in anything more ser…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:29 PM
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Imagine how boring a life you need to have in order to decide that spend time writing an article like this is a good idea
/r/MensRights09/11/23 04:40 PM
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So in general Men: die in a ditch to protect their women, children and homeland from invaders Women: go abroad, party, get fucked by foreign men Feminists: oh no, look at how women are affected! we are the victims here!
/r/MensRights08/11/23 10:20 AM
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I guess women just have to play victim card on every front. Our mere existence is an issue to them
/r/MensRights04/11/23 09:15 PM
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It's typical. Woman having preferences results in "you go girl" and man having preferences results in "how dare you"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:25 PM
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You have OnlyFans which is already a form of legal prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:20 PM
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„As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ As much as I wish this wasn't true, my experience showed me differently. Almost every girlfriend to whom I opened up and allowed myself to be emotional about something very tough that I was going (or went) through, suddenly lost a big chunk of attraction towards me. It's kinda sad when I think about it, but I guess that's just how things are and I mostly learned my lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:56 PM
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She's just trying hard to cope because nobody wants her except for pump and dump guys
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:34 PM
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I'm a 33 year old woman and I've never needed a man Good for you I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:29 PM
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If it actually becomes a thing it will genuinely help men Definitely. Chances of getting baby trapped and paying for child support will be reduced by a great amount. It will also help better in detecting infidelity if one was taking male birth control without telling their partner about it and their partner still became pregnant (which of course can happen on birth control, but it will surely raise an eyebrow).
/r/MensRights02/11/23 01:52 PM
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Infidelity is so common now and is often seen as not a big deal as it used to be in the past. I know so many people who cheated and who've been cheated on (including myself) that it's honestly sad. Does trust mean anything today?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:42 AM
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People will just gurge it out to discredit any man who doesn't fit a certain mold or criteria- disagree, and you're an incel Funny and sad how women don't question themselves "What does incel really mean? Is this word fit to use in the current context and debate?", but instead think "This is the word everyone else is using to insult men in any situation so I'll use it too"
/r/MensRights30/10/23 03:09 PM
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in 11 years A LOT has changed Damn, couldn't agree more. Things evolved, but not sure if it's forwards or backwards
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:31 AM
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And then they wonder why more and more men don't want to get married and have kids
/r/MensRights28/10/23 04:55 PM
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ass/boobs/thighs preferences Not nearly as significant as height preferences (or requirements often). Women are much quicker to exclude a man as her potential option if he does not meet a certain height as opposed to men doing the same if a woman has smaller ass/boobs or even flat for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 05:11 PM
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"alimony ends when she finds a new guy" Hooray for having a common sense
/r/MensRights26/10/23 02:25 PM
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More and more men are giving 0 effort into dating yet they expect everything handed to them. Which ones exactly? Maybe except for some real bitter incels which are small percentage anyway, I have yet to see all these men that don't try anything and expect everything handed to them. Competition between men who genuinely try in the dating market today is fierce because one cannot afford to be average anymore in order to have good success with women. And it's all due to raising women's standards be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:44 PM
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It's scary how feminists want to monopolize the discussion on gender issues They want to monopolize literally anything that remotely benefits their narative. And they already have concerning amount of success in many things
/r/MensRights26/10/23 10:03 AM
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they already have their own money and career but are unable to date guys that make less Then they start complaining how women make less than men in general, so if that were to be reversed I wonder who would they date then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:32 AM
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This comment made my morning lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:01 AM
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Spared me of having to go through youtube history to find that video. I figured it was the university he attends to as well, but maybe I'll have to rewatch it again to recheck this. Anyway, trespassing that you're talking about, is that common to be forbidden or whatever? Because I don't live in a western country and here where I'm at, being on a campus ground of a uni you don't attend to is no big deal, just like being at any public space and I never heard of this "trespassing" in my college da…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:58 PM
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Not long ago I watched some youtuber cold approach girls on campus just to do a survey for some video he was making. And the approaches were alright, nothing too special, and if the girls didn't want to participate he'd just move on without being annoying. And you know what happened? Someone reported him for harassment, security guards came up to him, he explained everything and showed the material and whatnot but it was pointless, he got expelled. Stupid crap like this makes men who want to app…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:27 PM
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Cold approaching only works for certain guys Meaning - the attractive guys. With being average, you may have a slight chance if your game and charisma are maxed out. If you're below average, don't even bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:18 PM
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Notice how women are pressured to be less feminine This pressuring surely does not come from men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:42 PM
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You should constitute your red flags based on your own morals, beliefs and common sense. Do not just blindly follow what anyone else says is the red flag in someone, think with your head first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:11 PM
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I even think many of those rich guys who make living off selling and promoting redpill content aren't redpillers themselves in the truest sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:27 AM
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The average woman is more attractive than the average man To whom? This is like comparing apples and oranges. What you're talking about is a standard for physical attractiveness of a potential partner, and it's different for men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:50 PM
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Yes, divorce can happen to literally anyone Just like anything else in life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:48 PM
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It is likely that increasing your standards will narrow down the dating poll for you, but not in a positive way. The only men who can have standards for women like women have for men are those in the top 10%, i.e. chads and top earners. Majority of men cannot afford to be picky and will usually take what they can get within reasonable limits. On top of that, there is a good chunk of men who are really desperate for any kind of female interaction. Men will always thirst more for women than vice v…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:39 PM
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At one point we'll be called misogynists and incels just for breathing air. You can't argue with liberal feminists, their cause is just fueled with hate towards men and nothing else. Btw this kinda reminded me of a funny thing that happened to me a while back, which is maybe not linked to this but kinda gave me the same vibe. On some sub I think it was called white people twitter or something like that, there was a heated and hateful discussion about Andrew Tate. So in a sea of hate comments I w…
/r/MensRights24/10/23 09:11 AM
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No idea. I heard this from that wheat waffles guy
/r/MensRights23/10/23 06:33 PM
2

Red pill content creators have been shadowbanned on youtube lately
/r/MensRights23/10/23 06:30 PM
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Makes sense. I gravitate more towards the opinion that it is easier to become porn abuser over time rather than stay in moderation because of such a strong, free and quick dopamine fix
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:55 AM
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Porn is mostly positive for men Is this a satire for my morning?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:13 AM
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Men are socialised to always put themselves and their needs first. Last time I checked, men were socialised to put women's needs first.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:56 PM
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Why are women ignoring men's issues? The answer is quite simple. Modern leftist feminists are all about victim mentality and all attention needs to be directed towards that i.e. how the patriarchy is oppressing them, how all men are evil, how masculinity is toxic and should be eradicated, etc. Not only do women in western society have all the rights that men do, government gives them way more benefits too. So now they try to push for superiority. There is no sensible argument for them to even co…
/r/MensRights22/10/23 12:21 PM
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No. Recording to do your stupid "influencing" needs to be banned. And not just for girls but for everyone. Gym serves only one purpose. It gives you space and tools so you can endure physical and mental pain of workout in order to become the better version of yourself whatever your primary goal may be - looks, strength, health, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:56 AM
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Do you think that sites like OnlyFans will eventually die out because men will rather pay for AI girlfriends which I presume would be a lot more diverse and adaptable to their wishes?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:16 PM
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What percent of men are able to date casually or date without the prospect of commitment The precise percentage is impossible to know, but you can confidently be sure that it is a small one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:21 PM
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Say whatever you want to say, but a woman knows that the child is hers because she gave birth to it obviously. A man can only base his knowledge around the trust. The concerning part is the astonishing frequency of paternity tests showing that the husband/boyfriend is not the father even after they divorce when he pays for child support for the kid that's not his. In my opinion, asking for paternity test is an attack on trust, but if there are reasons and signs for suspicion on cheating, then it…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:35 PM
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Even then they most likely don't truly mean it but don't want their wife to feel bad about it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:55 PM
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Tbh I've seen that many girls actually tend to have a wrong conception about what realistic dad bod looks like, and it's not what they think
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:37 PM
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Most of the advices I've ever seen from women regarding improving dating for guys are "be a nice guy", "have a better personality", etc. Thesr advices are valid but at the same time don't do anything to help majority of men. PS: just mentioning what I generally encountered online, it's not specifically tied to this post
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:27 PM
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I think that people are naturally attracted to attractive people
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:21 PM
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Are men really not attracted to fat girls? Just like women are not attracted to fat men. Well, most women. There are both men and women who are into that type of thing, but they are in minority and we all know exceptions don't make rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:35 AM
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I agree. That's a pretty good thinking on your part
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:12 PM
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Funny how there is a huge jump from 5'11" to 6'0" (almost double) but in reality the difference is minor and most people wouldn't even be able to tell. Social media ruins things
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:04 PM
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Just picked a random one I remember I've seen recently. Of course most of the sources for all things are biased, I just don't know which one are "clear" since I don't dig much around these topics which are the neverending source of arguments between men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:23 AM
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An interesting article about difference between earnings https://www.aljazeera.com/economy/2023/10/9/economist-claudia-goldin-wins-nobel-prize-for-work-on-gender-gap
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:04 PM
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Yes, that can play a role but one should have some self-dignity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:32 AM
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As a man, I cannot comprehend why would any man choose to stay in a relationship with a woman who is not attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:51 PM
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No, unless you do something very shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:48 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:36 AM
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Same. To me personally it feels weird and disrespectful dating multiple people at the same time. Many others would disagree but this is just my take on dating
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:34 AM
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Forgot to exclude that one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:44 AM
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tall, strong, dominant, handy can cook, good at cleaning These aren't even in the same spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:33 AM
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If you're attractive and not confident, you're just shy. If you're ugly and confident, you're a creep
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:46 AM
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Yes. Trying to change the natural flow of river or complaining why the water flows in a certain direction is just a waste of energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 11:44 AM
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I believe that most of the guys who look for virgins are just religious. For me personally, the only thing that matters is if her body count is concerningly high, and that is exclusively in the context of serious long term commitmet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 11:04 AM
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I do think that men have a slightly better edge when it comes to dating in older age compared to women, but that's only by a few years in my opinion. No one ages like a fine wine and years will catch up to us all. Diet, exercise and sleep will determine if we stay decent looking later in our lives or turn to sack of 💩
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:21 AM
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I view it as someone who has their shit together financially, physically, mentally etc. So basically in most of the areas in life that are more or less in our control.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:39 PM
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Yeah, these double standards with ChatGPT have been pointed out so many times, nothing surprising here. Other than that we can't do anything else about this, so it's not worth stressing about it in my opinion
/r/MensRights07/10/23 12:43 PM
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Men do like those sexually generous women, just not for relationships In my experience this is spot on. Me and most of my male friends I know would not consider a highly promiscuous woman as a candidate for a serious long-term commitment, for obvious reasons. Apart from that, being friends with them and casually hooking up are completely fine
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:57 PM
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I've seen it maybe like two or three times out in public with strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:00 PM
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Whatever the argument you make, it always boils down to how good looking you are. If you're an 8 and above, you can pick girls literally in any place you like and have success
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:26 PM
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Damn, I kinda expected better points since each of these can be argued
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:47 AM
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You don't need to think much to define a "Chad". It's a guy who is blessed with supreme genetics i.e. tall, well built and with very attractive face. He doesn't need to chase pussies as they are being offered to him on a plate. Now on top of that if he has money, status and high social skills, to me he is a "GigaChad" and is on the very top of male hierarchy in terms of dating i.e. you can't get better than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:04 PM
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Damn, can't wait to see how shit will hit the fan for women (and society in general) when they combine AI with dolls or even robots and put it mass production. But I guess feminists will still find a way to complain about that
/r/MensRights01/10/23 12:05 PM
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Looks are the door to personality. You can have the best personality in the world and have all that go to waste if you're let's say 3/10, because which woman will give you the chance in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:44 AM
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Well this is known and proven fact, especially in today's world where everything revolves around looks, but many people still find it controversal and choose to stay ignorant to it. Situation was probably somewhat different in the past, and in a better way before all these social and dating apps consumed people's minds. Between some broke 6ft+ douche chad and well established average bloke with nice personality, who do you think women will want to jump into bed with? Exactly. But there is no poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:40 AM
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The privilege of being attractive. Seems unfair for so many things but that's just the way it is and we can't do anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:28 PM
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Society just doesn't give a f about men. To most of them, we are some evil oppressors and expandable assets.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 02:06 PM
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My emotions don't have anything to do with this, I approached this topic by rationale. I could say the same for you as you just discard other opinions and don't even take them remotely into consideration. Also, sure, no one can know your true body count if you don't tell them. But the higher it gets, the more easier is to "smell it", and there are other things that can give it away. Further explaining anything to you is kinda pointless since you don't plan on changing your course of action no ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:19 PM
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Let me elaborate a bit. Insecurity is not the main reason as you are led to believe. Sure, there are men who will be intimidated by this as they likely won't be the best, the biggest, the most experienced that you had, etc. and that's a smaller percentage. But in the context of seeking a long term stable commitment, majority of men simply won't take you seriously enough for that if they knew who you were. I mean, think about it. In a few short years, you'll be ran through by more people than Leo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:29 PM
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I imagine it was, although being passed around the block this much especially at such a young age is not a good thing to flex with. But you likely have a different opinion, so you do you I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:37 AM
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21 yo and already slept with more than 100 people? Damn 💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:32 AM
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I used to be triggered and worried by things like these.. but now I honestly just don't give a shit anymore. It's inevitable for this bubble to burst one day
/r/MensRights22/09/23 03:27 PM
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Well, for start, women's expectations of men would return to a more "normal" level. Their options would go from having hunderds and thousands of men thirsting over them via social apps to only a few they would meet through social circles and by being cold approached. But in general, people would be a lot more happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:24 PM
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invasion of privacy There is no privacy if the information is publicly available 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:48 PM
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I agree, although I would also argue that men would still have higher number of hours even if women didn't have menstrual cycles
/r/MensRights19/09/23 10:02 PM
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If we're talking about western society, patriarchy is long gone in my opinion. Feminists will still complain about it because they are for the majority of part people with victim mentality who blame men for every single thing, want equality without responsibility, live in their own bubble and refuse to look at the other side. Obviously not all are like this, but most modern radical feminists are. I actually used to be a supporter of this movement years back, but now I want to puke when I look at…
/r/MensRights19/09/23 09:59 PM
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Men are in the overwhelming positions of power and make a lot more money than women Did you ever ask yourself why is the case, especially for money?
/r/MensRights19/09/23 09:42 PM
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"Sigmas" even more so
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 12:17 PM
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How much do looks matter depends on what type of girl do you want to attract and what game are you playing. If you want a 9/10, you'll hardly do that of you're 6/10 let's say. This is especially true if you do cold approach or spend time on dating apps. Obviously there are exceptions, this is just in general. Even though you may have awesome personality and other things in your life going for you, looks typically serve to open the door in the dating scene. Every time I had success with girls who…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:16 PM
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Probably not enough but maybe put in some ads
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:32 AM
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Marriage tends to get boring quickly if they were highly promiscuous before it. They also get more legal privileges than a man in terms of divorce so they're on the safer side let's say
/r/MensRights25/08/23 08:37 AM
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Yeah I unfortunately came to the same conclusion after I've read that the kids are someone else's
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:08 AM
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What if someone wants to get married but is afraid of suffering consequences because of the current situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:32 AM
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I've seen so many times people answer this with things like loyalty, trust, care, etc. And I laugh and get disappointed at the same time because that should be something that comes by default, not something you brag about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:27 AM
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Disagree. I'm a man and I know what a real love is with no sexual feelings involved. Also when it comes to love, when a man truly loves a woman, he loves her unconditionally while it's not the same the other way around. Just so you know, sexual feelings while being a big part of the picture are not the only thing we operate on. But I do understand your reasoning based on this and some other comments and some truth can be found there, although it's not all black and white as you make it so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:38 AM
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In my opinion, the average man who wants to but has trouble getting laid often, shouldn't be considered an incel unless he expresses extreme resentment and hostility towards those who are sexually active. Even though there is a rising number of these people, I don't think that majority of average men fall into this category.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:29 AM
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You misunderstood me. For example, you get an ego boost when you manage to score a goal in a game and especially when you continue scoring. Whether girls are trying to validate men or not is completely irrelevant in a context to what I was speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:46 AM
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I never said this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:28 AM
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Are average men really desperate for sex? Yes, those who can't get laid often or when they want compared to women - which is the vast majority of average men, and that is the general majority of men. When I'm single, it is a lot harded for me to pull casual sex with random people when I want. I'm not desparate for sex but I crave it like I crave sweets when I'm on diet. When I'm in a relationship, I don't have cravings because my primal needs are satisfied on a regular basis. does porn and mastu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:13 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:53 AM
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Why am I not surprised. They didn't do their homework but are the loudest ones in the room.
/r/MensRights20/08/23 11:25 PM
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Another common example where men are vilified for having a preference with women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:35 PM
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brown. brown. 5'8 or below. slim to medium. less or equal. less or equal. 0, 5. 0, 3. doesn't matter. hetero. 21-25. anything but radical left
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:45 PM
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As far as I know, Antonella is the only woman Messi has ever been with and since childhood. No need for him to ruin a relationship that special. But if they divorced, you can bet your ass he would go for a young woman in her 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:36 AM
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What is wrong with that word? English is not my first language so I genuinely wonder?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:25 PM
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Then how come I loved my ex girlfriend who I waited for a full year to have sex with because she was a virgin and wasn't ready? Albeit this is a bit more specific situation. If she was actually not a virgin, then I would still love her but I wouldn't put up with a sexless relationship because it's stupid and it doesn't work. Love between man and woman is conditional, and has always been.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:27 PM
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As far as western society goes, it is 100% catering to women and men are being treated like a lower class. But no one wants to admit that and feminists are still going around and shouting "we live in a patriarchal society". I mean, when will it stop? Today women are more privileged than men. How many more benefits and privileges they need to get in order for them to finally admit that patriarchy is no more? I also find it so stupid that they are the loudest lot when it comes to US and western Eu…
/r/MensRights18/08/23 09:23 AM
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Points referring to easy access to sex only apply to a very small percentage of men which tend to be tall, attractive, rich or combination of those. Most of your average blokes can even struggle to get a date, let alone go around and have casual sex. And the options for fulfilling sexual desires like porn, OF and the rest? That's actually a very degrading thing to guy's mind and nothing more than a quick dopamine fix that is damaging in the long run if done often. Rates of suicide, male loneline…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:57 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:40 PM
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Ah yes, the classic
/r/MensRights15/08/23 11:38 PM
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Pardon me. I made a mistake of speaking about these two specific girls when I meant it in a more general way. Of course there will be some girls who will look like this irl, but I think there are a lot more of those who don't, in my own opinion of course. I know some girls from college who look like 10/10 models on ig but in real life without makeup and posing they look so average it's disappointing honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:33 PM
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Anywhere between 5 and 15% I guess. But these girls don't look like this in real life. It's all artificially enhanced for ig photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:03 PM
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Damn, this is wrong on so many levels. They really want men to stay away from wanting a family lol
/r/MensRights11/08/23 09:17 PM
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And she's making double
/r/MensRights10/08/23 05:56 PM
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I've been called "fuckboy" numerous times by women just based on my looks, even though I wouldn't consider my bodycount to be high enough for that title to be justified. Either way, it always felt derogatory like I'm being called a slut or a man whore. So for me personally, "fuckboy" isn't even a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:30 PM
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I know what feminists would say
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:45 AM
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For us humans, we NEED to enjoy and like sex, and I will explain to you why. Among all living things on Earth, humans are known to have one of the longest gestation periods (i.e. pregnancy length) which is 9 months. Also, well over 90% of pregnancies result in only a single offspring. On top of that, human offspring generally takes extremely long time to grow up and become independent compared to other animals. None of this works in our favour in terms of species survival. So mother nature bless…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:39 PM
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You misunderstand the passport bro
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:00 PM
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🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:07 PM
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RIP guys who look worse than this dude
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:10 PM
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Yeah, he's not a model but what's objectively ugly about his face?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:35 AM
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Women tend to find majority of guys unattractive anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:51 AM
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I wouldn't say he's ugly, but fairly average in face. You're right about the sunglasses though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:05 AM
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It's hard but it's true
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:37 PM
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They increase their status and money with age and thus their sexual market value, or so they believe. There is some truth in this though, but not for everyone. As far as their looks, they deteriorate with age just like everyone else's. This can also be controlled to a degree by taking care of body and general health.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:50 PM
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I hate when someone tries to justify cheating for any reason, regardless of gender. If you don't have enough respect for your partner to stay faithful to them, something is wrong. If they don't deserve that respect, leave them. If they do deserve it but you still cheat, then you're a shit person, period. And even more shittier if you try to pull some dumb xyz excuses like this one. Some arguments may make sense in theory, but things are generally different in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:23 PM
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Yes, you're right about the sex part. I was thinking more of a personality traits
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:56 AM
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I don't think that being HOT is a fundamental quality tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:54 AM
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Of course it is. We expected nothing less
/r/MensRights19/07/23 08:42 AM
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What is there to be confused about? She is an online prostitute that cares only for money and she is baiting you. Please don't fall for this and don't be a simp. I mean even if she didn't insisit on you subscribing to her, the fact that she has an OF is 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/MensRights19/07/23 08:30 AM
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Cringe. It is the exact same case the other way around, if not more. What can a modern woman offer to a man that he actually wants? But hey, I know it's easy for everyone to blame the other side and avoid taking accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:24 AM
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I bet she tells herself how she is strong and independent woman now while expanding her pocket monthly with $130k of man's money.
/r/MensRights17/07/23 12:10 AM
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This is a long shot. Honestly if passport bros ever make a difference in laws, it certainly won't happen any time soon
/r/MensRights16/07/23 03:04 PM
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I respect both men and women who are virgins by choice and not because they can't get laid, although on a different level since generally speaking, men and women have a different access to sex. And that especially holds true in today's modern society with hookup culture and sexual "empowerment". As far as dating a virgin woman, I've dated a few of them and it doesn't make that big of a difference to me compared to women who had guys before. I did notice that some of my exes who were virgins bond…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:42 AM
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One time a girl I befriended on a party invited me to a date the next day and I refused her solely based on her being quite a bit overweight even if she did have a pretty face. I didn't tell her the reason but I did tell some of my female friends and they all gave me a mean look like I did something wrong. Similar thing happened with a girl with whom I had mutual female friends in high school. She was in love with me and all our mutual friends pushed me to date her but I just wasn't interested w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:10 PM
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Damn, didn't know that much. My 3rd world country does not implement any sort of those laws/restrictions 😅. Thanks for the info though.
/r/MensRights14/07/23 11:01 PM
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Is catcalling even illegal?
/r/MensRights14/07/23 09:34 PM
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It can mean both. There is a fine line between regular watching for stress relief and not being able to get off of it. One can easily transition from first case to second one without even realizing it. That happened to me and it was a real struggle pulling myself out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:06 PM
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I guess it depends on what you consider "marriageable" and also in which part of the world you live in, because there is a huge difference between western and eastern women for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:59 PM
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This. Gym, money, mental health etc. are good things to pursue but don't mean shit if you're super short or not at bare minimum average looking in face
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:47 PM
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I don't mind paying for a first few dates, but I do mind paying for every single date down the line if we continue to see each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:25 AM
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Misogyny lost its meaning long time ago by being overused for everything related to men, just like many other words. I've seen people get called misogynistic for holding a door for a woman.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 11:50 PM
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I only dislike stupid influencers who are constantly recording themselves for validation on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:41 PM
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I dOn'T nEeD nO mAn
/r/MensRights08/07/23 02:28 PM
2

That's a good idea although, it is a bit hard for me to find a partner like that. Most of the girls I've been romantically interested in have always wanted kids
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:46 AM
5

I'd want to get married, but every time I hear stories like these it just makes it less desirable tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:32 AM
15

They are just trying to make more reasons for men to not get married
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:33 PM
1

This advice should be taken by all men for themselves and not just for the dating aspect. Also it is worth pointing out that this won't necessarily help each and every man to attract a woman, especially a woman they desire. For example, if you were unlucky enough to end up with bad genetics - short, ugly mug, body disproportions etc, going to gym won't give you the desired result no matter how hard you tried. Having more money will attract more gold diggers than other women. Having high status i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:00 PM
3

YES HAHAH I've seen this x times as well
/r/MensRights07/07/23 02:41 PM
60

I see this all the time. Feminists like to throw that word at anyone who disagrees with them, so much that it lost all its meaning.
/r/MensRights06/07/23 11:25 PM
3

I don't care if a girl I date is a virgin or not. The only big No No for me is if her body count is too high
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:00 PM
12

Most of my male friends are in the state of "I'll take what I can get". That could be seen as struggling because for the majority of time the girl they end up with wouldn't be their 1st or 2nd choice if they could successfully pursue women that they liked in the first place. Some of my friends have never been in a relationship or it has been years since they were in one. And a very small number of the rest of my male friends are hopping from one relationship to another and never had any really s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:08 AM
3

It's the same as rich people saying money doesn't matter or it doesn't buy happiness. It's always been like that. People who have something have always been oblivious to reality and suffering of people who don't have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:00 PM
6

People do super weird stuff where I live, but I've never seen this what you describe
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:56 PM
1

There are millions of men for whom it is a choice It's still a smaller percentage on a global scale
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:26 PM
3

Never heard of that rule tbh. Majority of my ig connections are from high school and college and I don't know a single girl there who has under 300 followers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:07 AM
1

Cold approaching is acceptable and it usually works if you're in a small percentage of very attractive guys. Rarely have I ever seen them get hard rejection ot labeled as a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:17 AM
3

I remember seeing some stats where women find something like 80% of men unattractive, or less attractive than they really are. Therefore, those men could be classified as "ugly" because they are not attractive enough to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:38 AM
1

I expected a better explanation for this claim, but all I saw was rubish and ignorance. And yes, women do have it easier than men in dating area by miles, at least in terms of available options. Generally speaking, average woman has a pool of available guys 24/7, typically in huge abundance the more attractive she is. If she wants a casual sex or to date someone, she only has to pick who. On the other side, average man does not have a pool of available women to choose from and as the time goes, …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:08 AM
5

Yep, men have an easier time. You mean chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:48 AM
1

My long term ex was naturally submissive and a very traditional woman. She may have been "inferior" in that sense by someone else's views, but I never really looked at her that way or felt like I'm superior or whatever. These posts are a bit pointless to me though. This is just how human relationships work. Some people will naturally take the lead while others will follow. Otherwise I don't think it could work because if both persons want to take the lead, there would be a conflict and if both w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:41 AM
1

I'm 5'10 and in my 12 years of dating I've been told that I'm "not tall enough" and even "short" by multiple girls. Obviously not every girl is like that since I dated a few of my height and slightly higher than me, but the majority of girls I've met want a 6ft+ chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:23 PM
6

I just searched "are we dating the same guy" and was shocked at how many of these groups exist, and it's like most of them were created by the same people. This might be a won battle but the war is hardly gonna change its course
/r/MensRights16/06/23 11:34 PM
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I had the same reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:50 PM
2

This is not sudden, it was always there. But I do agree that today you get even more points than in the past if you have the label that includes "6ft". I'm 5'10 and in my 12 years of dating experience I've been said I'm not tall enough and sometimes even that I'm short. I wonder how shorter guys have it..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:15 PM
2

This sub needs to have a backup plan because growing will just cause it to be a bigger thorn in reddit's ass as they are already not friendly to anything male-related.
/r/MensRights14/06/23 06:14 PM
2

Same with me
/r/MensRights08/06/23 02:48 PM
1

You're missing the point. Pursuing a career is not bad by any means, but for most men most women don't get bonus attraction points solely on their high degree, successful career or money, so they shouldn't expect them and later be surprised because it's not how things work. Men and women generally look and value more different things in each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:36 PM
1

Let them think whatever they want to think. Modern feminists won't change their idiot opinions no matter what anyone says. My blood was at the point of boiling many times because of the unjust and stupid things they did and preached and all in the name of equality. Today I avoid stressing about it if I can. They're opsessed with pushing their hate agenda and vilifying real men and everything related to them.
/r/MensRights04/06/23 02:48 PM
6

From what I've seen and also from my own experience, most people are generally gonna side with a girl and she's typically the "victim". The degree of that can vary based upon people's age and mentality of social circles as I've seen it more pronounced with teens and people in early to mid 20s. One of the worst treatments I got was when I was in a high school and was with this girl for around a year who's behaviour and attitude made the relationship incredibly toxic and stressful. She was even in…
/r/MensRights01/06/23 11:31 AM
3

Haven't read something this good here in a while
/r/MensRights30/05/23 08:07 AM
17

I don't know how young he is but it's likely he won't have grandkids in the first place to tell them that if he catches a bullet.
/r/MensRights25/05/23 03:01 PM
17

Whether or not one should find a way to serve their country is a question that needs to be viewed from multiple angles. Don't go to your deathbed an old man full of regret. This is also very questionable to me. Does it even apply in this scenario?
/r/MensRights25/05/23 02:05 PM
15

Toxic masculinity
/r/MensRights25/05/23 11:15 AM
1

Hey at least now you know who your "friends" are behind the mask.
/r/MensRights25/05/23 11:14 AM
1

Those who truly believe that the average man is the patriarchy are either blind, ignorant or unable to use common reasoning.. which basically sums up 100% of all modern left feminists.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 03:14 PM
22

Things are getting more ridiculous by day. So many things I read sound so unbelievable yet they are the reality.
/r/MensRights18/05/23 05:37 PM
6

I'm not very knowledgeable here but I genuinely wonder is it possible to move to any other country in the world in order to escape paying for child support and start anew?
/r/MensRights17/05/23 11:44 AM
269

So you're basically being discriminated against based on your gender and skin color?
/r/MensRights13/05/23 11:39 PM
3

I just did and got the same joke!
/r/MensRights11/05/23 04:04 PM
5

"we don't care what men have to say" is basically "this is my truth I like to believe and fuck you if you think otherwise"
/r/MensRights11/05/23 10:25 AM
8

Well that's one way to add a hilariously big amount of pointless work.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 11:38 PM
4

Interesting it is
/r/MensRights19/04/23 10:50 AM
12

Never thought I'd ever see so much hate for the opposite gender (in this case men). I genuinely want to know why are all these modern feminists so bitter and hateful.. Whenever I read the word "feminism" today I get instantaneously sick and that did not happen before.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 12:31 AM
12

Whenever you post something that says "studies suggest", you need to include the source as well. But I don't doubt that whoever made those studies pulled out the "2%" from their ass.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 01:05 PM
1

GPT is just another simp
/r/MensRights05/04/23 08:04 PM
2

Well what did you expect? We live in a world where men are guilty for simply existing.
/r/MensRights05/04/23 03:21 PM
0

This
/r/MensRights05/04/23 11:09 AM
3

ToXiC MaScuLiNitY
/r/MensRights05/04/23 08:10 AM
13

Pink hair... that says a lot lol
/r/MensRights31/03/23 01:24 PM
3

Far from enough. I'd rather ask for the other person to be imprisoned than money tho
/r/MensRights29/03/23 08:10 AM
1

And it will only get worse
/r/MensRights25/03/23 01:01 AM
10

Double fucking standards
/r/MensRights24/03/23 02:06 PM
3

Everyone will die alone
/r/MensRights22/03/23 11:39 PM
1

Author needs therapy asap
/r/MensRights15/03/23 06:19 PM
107

Yeah, nobody gives a f about men, we're just dispensable goods for them
/r/MensRights13/03/23 05:26 PM
5

I always found things like "pushing more women into STEM" blatantly stupid. They complain that there aren't enough women in STEM but ignore the fact that interests of majority of women lie elsewhere.
/r/MensRights07/03/23 12:33 AM
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You are what you eat. And they fed AI a bunch of biased data
/r/MensRights23/02/23 08:32 AM
7

I want to know that too
/r/MensRights21/02/23 06:51 PM
2

They can't play victims very well if they have it easier lol. Anyways, compared to men a lot of women really do live on recruit difficulty and that's a fact.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 02:47 PM
2

Brainwashed nation
/r/MensRights28/01/23 11:01 AM
2

Maybe it needs to grow in size which cannot be ignored
/r/MensRights22/01/23 08:54 PM
1

Imagine paying for a child support where child isn't even yours
/r/MensRights22/01/23 06:56 PM
1

Well.. depends on what type of woman. Unfortunately a lot of women today are not the type I'd want to be with right now.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 12:24 PM
8

That would create way more problems than it would solve. Dumb mixed with insanity.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 12:14 AM
7

When you go out, you see all this infrastructure that is built and maintained by men which allows for a very comfortable and privileged life today when compared to how it was to live in the past. Without men the society would crumble in days, however feminists would likely still complain it's men's fault their lives turned to sh*t.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 10:48 PM
7

Unfortunately nobody ever talks about toxic femininity.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 06:51 PM
16

I wonder if they'll find any legit evidence against Tates
/r/MensRights20/01/23 02:19 PM
340

Men should delete dating apps either way. They are one of the main reasons dating is so screwed today. Women get massive abundance of options which raises their standard way above what an average guy can give. This results in a ocean of guys who can't get a match, let alone date which effects their mentality in a negative way. Dating apps for the majority of men out there are just not worth it.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 02:04 PM
2

Well, there really is nothing surprising here. I mean.. we're talking about feminists. I don't even know what she means by 'male language'.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 05:38 PM
21

In theory maybe, but in today's reality feminism is something completely different and with sinister intentions towards male population.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 09:34 PM
1

"conclude two female researches". I can conclude many things from the headline too
/r/MensRights10/01/23 06:43 PM
9

Raging war in Ukraine, countless men dying every day.. And then you have some entitled feminists appear like this. Jesus.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 06:31 PM
5

You don't.
/r/MensRights02/11/22 12:23 AM
2

"Keep your friends close and your enemies even closer"
/r/MensRights30/10/22 12:24 AM
1

If your professor is a feminist, you can't do much about it
/r/MensRights29/10/22 05:44 PM
2

Just ignore it. You cannot ever have a rational discussion with a person like that, so don't waste your energy
/r/MensRights25/10/22 08:19 PM
3

Just a garbage product of today's woke culture and female "power". In a few years I bet we'll have a woman counterpart for every superhero there is, e.g. spiderwoman, ironwoman, etc. And every single show will lowkey be "women are better and all men are trash". I'd be fine with the idea of them coming up with their own female protagonists and not ripping off of the existing ones. Edit: I don't know if there really is a female hulk in the comics but you get what I'm saying
/r/MensRights25/10/22 08:10 PM
4

This woman is nuts
/r/MensRights10/10/22 06:47 AM
3

I considered myself a feminist for a bit, some time ago. However it was about getting equal opportunity, not getting equal outcome. Modern radical feminism in the west went so far from what the true feminism was when it first started. And I strongly believe that west doesn't even need feminism anymore because western woman can do everything a man can, and on top of that she even has a lot more more privileges. This new movement wrongly labeled as "feminism" was designed just to destroy the conce…
/r/MensRights04/10/22 10:38 PM
1

Don't worry, these modern feminists don't know either. That is their go-to umbrela word that they pull out of their butthole whenever they can't provide legit argument for something (which is almost always the case).
/r/MensRights29/09/22 08:48 PM
1

This is hilarious. Men can easily make a list of their own to counter this one. The only difference is that we don't go around complaining how life is unfair.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 08:35 PM
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