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Fundamentals zubwaabwaa/r/seduction27/09/22 03:30 PM
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Escalation & Calibrationzubwaabwaa/r/seduction16/10/22 03:50 PM
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zubwaabwaa/r/seduction01/09/22 04:05 AM
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Just message her and say “hey let’s go grab drinks this week” bam boom that’s it
/r/seduction28/10/22 07:02 PM
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Sounds like you’ve sucked some dick
/r/seduction25/10/22 01:17 PM
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The thing is people have to understand you’re born with the cards you’re dealt with. Some people are born with a good hand and some bad hand. But it ain’t all about the hand you’re dealt it’s about how you play the mofuckin game. Cuz you ain’t got no choice on the matter.
/r/seduction22/10/22 05:51 PM
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Everybody’s got their insecurities and you’re probably more attractive than the average man in some way. Think of it like that. Not all of us get to be 6’4 white guys, but we are not all 5’4 obese janitors who make nothing. Also since you’re a software engineer and by the sounds of it you can work anywhere remotely. Go find a place that you’re more attractive. Some places in the world height doesn’t matter nearly as much as other attractive values.
/r/seduction22/10/22 01:33 PM
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I don’t have any experience with picking up at a cafe - but i am a dev and i have worked in coffee shops. The more you work out of a cafe the more people you encounter with a chance of conversation spontaneously happening. Work from home 0% chance to meet someone, work from cafe there’s at least a chance. I’ve had people just show interest in what I’m working on which could be their way of approaching. You could always just ask “what’re you working on” to get things started.
/r/seduction21/10/22 02:10 PM
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Problem is with this mindset is that you have to find the right girl. I think you misunderstand what it takes to have one night stands. You have to find a girl who’s single, doesn’t have her friends around to stop her, is the type of girl who will go home with a stranger, and on top of that you have to have game to close all in that night. There’s a million excuses for girls to say no. If you come off as charming and cool it’s easier to have a date later and close then.
/r/seduction17/10/22 04:56 AM
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Gotta make sure to be making physical contact with them. Start putting your hand on their shoulder/arm, then waist, then back. Spend a bit of time on each body part so they’re comfortable with your touch. Then by the end of the date you’ll have physical connection so kissing is easy to do. Just imagine kissing someone without even having touched them it’s awkward.
/r/seduction06/10/22 02:36 PM
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Thanks for summarizing!
/r/seduction28/09/22 12:45 PM
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You got an article i can read? I tried googling it
/r/seduction28/09/22 03:41 AM
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What about if they start liking and commenting on your stuff? What does this mean??? We are all lost as guys
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:04 PM
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Watched them - and they’re good all up until the last video where the guy said watch porn bloopers. That’s awkward lol
/r/seduction01/09/22 04:17 PM
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Watching right now - thanks!!
/r/seduction01/09/22 04:24 AM
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The thing is YOU too can be someone’s Ben Affleck - men just age better
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:57 PM
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30 is actually the best time to start dating. I think it was JLO actually said men become useful after 33 - kinda meaning that’s like the start of the peak for men. I’m just entering my 30s (I’m 31 now) and it’s wayyyyy better than early and mid 20s. I’ve got money, I’ve got a good job, I’m in great shape, and I’m older. Girls usually like older guys as they typically like to date across and up social hierarchies- so the older you get the better you become (to a degree of course)
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:25 AM
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Probably not as good looking or charming as you think you are… no offence lol. I’m still getting laid from the dating apps at least every few months and I’m no 10/10.
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:37 AM
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I’d probably just say something along the lines of “Hey it was fun hanging out, let’s do it again sometime!” Or “Let’s hang out again, I always have fun with you”. It gives off both a subtle level of interest while remaining friendly. You don’t set yourself up for a mighty rejection, but you are showing interest.
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:54 PM
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The guy is playing the social media game and he’s winning - does that mean what he says is useful or insightful? No he’s saying things that will get him likes. Should you emulate his mentality and personality? No you are not in the social media game, you’re just trying to find someone. Do what he does to try and get social media fame, don’t do what he does to try and find someone because you and him aren’t playing the same game.
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:34 AM
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I usually tell myself to finish whatever I’m doing first and then text after. At the gym? Text when you’re done. Watching TV? Text after the episode. Having dinner? Text after you’re done eating. At work? Text when you’re done work. Ez peezy
/r/seduction18/07/22 04:48 AM
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As long as you don’t grow your feelings go for it! Having girl friends is actually dope - they’ll introduce you to more girls and when other chicks see you with her they’ll let their guard down around you.
/r/seduction16/06/22 06:16 PM
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You got the guy version?
/r/seduction24/05/22 04:57 PM
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Sounds like you were trying to escalate too quickly and came off creepy. Just play it cool next time you think of doing something like biting your lip “seductively” and saying sexy
/r/seduction20/04/22 02:34 PM
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To add to this look into a ketoconozole based shampoo - it helps remove DHT from the top of your head.
/r/seduction18/04/22 05:56 PM
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Sounds like a catfish
/r/seduction22/03/22 01:40 AM
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Probably mixing up the sense of euphoria with having a good convo. People who are high on coke are annoying to talk to. I know because I’ve been the guy high on coke.
/r/seduction21/03/22 11:45 PM
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I had a situation like this also - straight to the point lay. She was leaving my city and flying out. It was her like “quick fling thing”. Matched the girl and 45 mins later i was in bed with her. I think travelling and matching is the ultimate no strings attached situation.
/r/seduction15/04/21 01:04 PM
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By the sounds of it you are way to focused on “getting” girls. You should really try to focus on yourself, your overall happiness and well being. Then when you’ve perfected that you should try to create opportunities for yourself. This can be going out to social events, talking randomly with strangers. I would really recommend the book Models by Mark Manson.
/r/seduction05/11/20 02:02 PM
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I’d be just honest say something like “Hey I get that you can’t get away from your Ex because you work with him - I’m okay with that. I’m just not comfortable with you spending one on one time with the guy. Try and understand my position and how you would feel if I started spending time with my Ex.”
/r/seduction17/08/20 02:01 PM
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Does he have the original dibs?
/r/seduction08/07/20 09:06 PM
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Dibs!
/r/seduction08/07/20 08:12 PM
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How old are you?
/r/seduction22/06/20 10:39 PM
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Just chill dawg. Send her some pics of what you’re doing. Be like “Out for a walk on this nice summer day!” Or “BBQing some dogs!”.
/r/seduction03/06/20 12:05 AM
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Your frustration certainly doesn’t help. Take a breath. Stop texting them constantly. Text them when things are calm to plan something. I’ve added them to insta and chime in every now and then on one of their posts/stories. You can’t expect anyone to risk their health and your frustration won’t signal well.
/r/seduction02/06/20 10:54 PM
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It’s a genuine reaction - nothing to be ashamed of. I’m not a girl, but this has happened to me before also. It can take a long time to really get over it. I’d recommend going out with someone else to forget about them! Even if it is just a few fun dates. Do something with someone else even if they aren’t 100% your type.
/r/seduction25/05/20 09:07 PM
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You must need a lot of money
/r/seduction25/05/20 07:14 PM
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Mark was a noob. Should’ve had the cojones to walk away early on. Like come on i always try to hold the mentality of your SO’s behaviour to you should at least be on the same level of respect your friends give you. Also that Giannina girl is a huge handful. She talks in cliches and is always searching for drama. Probably because she wants her life to be a drama. Ladies please don’t be that.
/r/seduction06/03/20 03:27 AM
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Just be cool - no need to over project. If you start saying bud and pal you’ll be showing her you’re trying to friend zone her. Just be friends, hang out, do things, and just have fun. Don’t go in with expectations and just get to know her. PS see other women at the same time - DO NOT have her be the only woman in your life or you’ll obsess.
/r/seduction12/02/20 02:57 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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