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I would say that’s why people in this thread are wrong. It doesn’t instantly separate and put you ahead of 90% of other guys. It separates and puts you ahead of ninety NINE point NINE percent of guys. I completely believe you’ve never met anyone who met their girlfriend that way. I never have either. But I’ve met every single one of MY girlfriends that way.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/22 11:36 AM
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A great quote that really applies here: Be careful of your thoughts, for your thoughts become your words. Be careful of your words, for your words become your actions. Be careful of your actions, for your actions become your habits. Be careful of your habits, for your habits become your character. Be careful of your character, for your character becomes your destiny.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/21 02:13 PM
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This is probably one of the people giving 10 million excuses OP speaks of.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/21 01:03 PM
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Moving abroad was the best decision I ever made when it came to dating. A lot of other drawbacks, but far from a bad choice. I would recommend it to anyone seeking a true pursuit of quality women.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:13 AM
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Because all those time wasters are so mainstream now everyone does them. Also, the damage comes about so slowly and subtlety. Just like eating one cookie, does masturbating to porn once a day really seem that bad for you? Feels good, makes some of the boredom go away. But really you are just slowly making yourself into a lesser man with each sugar-filled bite or porn-riddled stroke.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/21 03:22 PM
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I legitimately do not think in my ENTIRE life I have ever met a woman who could write a list of interests that elaborate and detailed.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/21 11:58 AM
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Curious about the world.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 11:09 AM
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I agree that most women have been on dating apps at some point. I also know that some people have managed to have outlying success stories resulting in quality relationships. That being said, I would never LTR a girl met via app. Too much at stake with the investment you take in an LTR. Plus, there is the lack of potential you are allowing for yourself.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 05:08 AM
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How many years is it safe to consecutively take creatine?
/r/TheRedPill23/08/20 02:17 PM
1

This was the answer that really resonated with me. Your wording was perfect here.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 12:41 AM
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It’s a very fair answer. Do you have any discipline habits specific to this topic/issue?
/r/askTRP27/07/20 12:18 PM
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The thing is I REALLY thought I had it out of my system. But it keeps coming back.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 12:17 PM
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I want sources for all these claims.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/19 01:45 AM
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You will manifest those traits on them if you project that mindset. You need to BELIEVE that you are the prize and they will do the freakiest shit with you because you’re the best they’ve ever had.
/r/seduction12/05/19 01:33 AM
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Dates are just as much about baby stepping the interaction as pulling from cold approach on the streets or in clubs. If this is your first date, don’t feel bad about simply learning and pushing your comfort zone only slightly. This probably won’t end in a lay but you never know. I’ve been on hundreds of first dates and am still always learning. It never stops. To this day not every first date will end in a lay for me, but you will certainly get better at recognizing how to give yourself the best…
/r/seduction14/11/18 03:22 PM
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Somehow the definition of trolling went from "arguing something you do not really believe in order to get a rise out of someone" to basically anything at all that related to teasing, being negative, or stupid in the eyes of the other person.
/r/seduction12/11/18 07:48 PM
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I don’t think much of dating apps. Cold approach. Cold approach. Cold approach.
/r/seduction20/10/18 10:53 AM
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My game is fine yo. I don’t consider being behind a screen real game anyway.
/r/seduction20/10/18 10:52 AM
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Just because you managed to not get hit by a car, doesn't mean it was a good idea to go play in traffic. DMing some girl you don't know may work once in awhile. But unless you have a massive amount of clout on the gram it's going to be a seriously inefficient method.
/r/seduction19/10/18 06:25 PM
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Thanks! I wouldn't have realized if you hadn't said anything. haha
/r/seduction24/09/18 02:58 PM
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I 100% agree. Dating apps are willfully hamstringing yourself and reducing the potential you have.
/r/seduction23/09/18 04:55 PM
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This can’t be stated strongly enough. Every time, and I mean every time I’ve ever obsessed over a woman, without fail it’s because I have some glorified idea of her that is just not true to what she really is. She’s just another girl.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 03:35 AM
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As someone who is not very knowledgable about history, or at least wants to know more, why did this change?
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 08:03 PM
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Deal! Haha
/r/seduction13/07/18 05:13 AM
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How’s that?
/r/seduction13/07/18 05:12 AM
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Never once known what's that's like. But you sound like you have experience with it.
/r/seduction12/07/18 10:12 PM
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I'm not the one with the downvotes and the complete lack of substance to his messages. Let me help you out, brother. That's you! :D
/r/seduction12/07/18 09:59 PM
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Yeah, basically anywhere. Cafes, parks, middle of the street, or even the subway. Subway is a tough one because of all the people standing there quietly but I just nut up and do it usually. The one place that is sacred to me is the gym. Myself and many other feel the gym is a place to focus. I may have a light conversation with a girl if it happens naturally. But I never go out of my way to flirt at the gym. Remember it's not what you're saying, it's how you're saying it. It can be small talk, i…
/r/seduction12/07/18 09:38 PM
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Yes, we are. Because you haven't contributed anything helpful to this conversation.
/r/seduction12/07/18 09:05 PM
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Yes, I have sex with them. Literally said that in the original post. What's your point?
/r/seduction12/07/18 09:00 PM
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I definitely will listen to this over the weekend. Sounds interesting.
/r/seduction12/07/18 08:59 PM
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I actually could see that being really good timing. And yeah, I definitely don't pay for stuff unless it makes sense in the context.
/r/seduction12/07/18 08:58 PM
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Never have a problem answering a question! Especially a kindly worded one. Honestly, day game always felt the most natural to me. So it's nothing special I do during the day. I forget which PUA said this originally (I think RSD Jeffy), what's the difference between day game and night game, "During the day, the sun is over there and at night it's over there." Meaning you should theoretically act the same. Which I generally believe. The reason night game doesn't vibe with me is that I get too much…
/r/seduction12/07/18 08:53 PM
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Dude, girls like sex too. Not every girl is going to automatically assume sex means something more. There are tons of guys out there who never get those expectations because they are congruently perceived the entire time as purely there for "fun" and/or sex. I am doing something wrong to not represent that image. Hence this post.
/r/seduction12/07/18 08:33 PM
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Thanks man. In reflection, I’m really conscious of the amount I text them... but have never given much thought to hanging out too often. So that’s definitely a tweak I could make. I appreciate it.
/r/seduction12/07/18 07:07 PM
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Definitely not committing to a relationship with them. I’m not a night game person (not a big fan of trying to pull girls from the club). And of course never date coworkers. So it’s basically only doing day game cold approach. At the point, after talking to them and building some investment, get their number, and plan on hanging out later. Everyone in this day and age doesn’t call it “a date.” But obviously for all intents and purposes... it’s a date.
/r/seduction12/07/18 07:04 PM
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Especially unhelpful because I am literally asking for advice so I don't "awaken their love." In other words, I don't want to give women the wrong expectations and disappoint them. Basically, I'm trying to avoid hurting their feelings.
/r/seduction12/07/18 05:48 PM
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Word. It makes sense. So that would mean my plates that are getting stared at constantly are more attractive than the ones who aren’t getting looked at. Do I have it right?
/r/askTRP10/07/18 08:15 AM
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Honestly man, not everything has to be about your mission. It’s okay to be curious and just want to understand the way the world works better. I’m not trying to be contentious and I definitely know where you are coming from. But honestly, I just want to gain some insight on what drives that behavior.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 08:02 AM
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Definitely a shit test. Going back to game 101.
/r/seduction08/07/18 03:49 PM
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It's an interesting discussion. I've personally seen a few studies that show that women become less happy with a single partner after they have a high partner count. I think it makes logical sense in connection to what I've seen in my life about biology and psychology. I by no means take is as gospel though. I follow scientific evidence in general, but I don't think humans are perfect, even in scientific pursuits. Especially psychology. It is really hard to get a grasp on human behavior and moti…
/r/seduction07/07/18 12:36 AM
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I don't think of anyone as lower. It's not my place to judge people, only to judge who holds what role in my life. You can date thousands of people, but you only marry one. At least, that's usually the goal. When there are thousands to choose from, why not choose the person who has the traits that suit you best. It's a large commitment to choose a partner for the rest of your life. People can do whatever they want. I will have a friendship with almost anyone. There is a difference between have a…
/r/seduction07/07/18 12:18 AM
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You didn't exactly misunderstand. I do want my future wife to only have slept with a few people. The way I reconcile that belief though is that I think it's completely acceptable if a woman rejects me for my high partner count. It's completely within her right to do so. I just have personally never met a woman that has let that stand in the way. But if it happens, I get it.
/r/seduction06/07/18 11:47 PM
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to be better That implies that there is something wrong with sleeping around. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. But either way, scroll down and read my comment chain with OP. I basically had this exact same back and forth with him lower in the thread.
/r/seduction06/07/18 11:41 PM
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Nope. Many more than a few.
/r/seduction06/07/18 11:34 PM
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Anytime. I'm always happy to talk about this stuff because I started from the bottom, now I'm here. lol I know the struggle first hand. Keep the momentum moving forward and always stay positive and it will get easier. It's all about living a good life. Be easy brother.
/r/seduction06/07/18 10:30 PM
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Just remember man, there is no such thing as "soul mates." Yeah, it's a beautiful idea and I grew up as a romantic-type who loved all the Disney ideals and stuff like that. But there are hundreds of thousands of women you would have absolutely amazing chemistry with. This is why it's VITAL for a man to date around as much as possible. Always keep your options open so you always will know you made the best decision you possibly could have for you.
/r/seduction06/07/18 10:24 PM
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A woman has every right not want to marry me because of my high partner count. I just have never encountered one who wouldn't be in a committed relationship because of that. Sure, sometimes they scoff when I tell them my number and kinda push me, like, "Oh my goddd! You suck!" But that's the worst it's ever been. Even that time though, we had sex like 20 minutes later. A woman has every right to sleep with as many people as she wants. I won't think of them less of a person. I even said, I would …
/r/seduction06/07/18 10:16 PM
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I agree with u/boy_named_su In the mainstream, it's not a popular opinion, but I don't want a wife with a crazy sexual history. With a one night stand or a FWB girl, I don't mind at all. In fact, I probably prefer her having the experience. Generally experience makes you better at sex and I can have some freaky kinks myself, so I'm down to do new stuff in those situations. But when it comes down to choosing my partner in life, who I'm going to spend 30 - 60 years of my life with, I want someone …
/r/seduction06/07/18 10:00 PM
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That was basically my thoughts on OP's question. In the mainstream, it's not a popular opinion, but I don't want a wife with a crazy sexual history. With a one night stand or a FWB girl, I don't mind at all. In fact, I probably prefer her having the experience. Generally experience makes you better at sex and I can have some freaky kinks myself, so I'm down to do new stuff in those situations. But when it comes down to choosing my partner in life, who I'm going to spend 30 - 60 years of my life …
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:53 PM
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You’ll almost definitely notice yourself falling into a flow-state after you have made a few approaches, even if they are awkward or “rejections.” So just throw yourself in there for the first 5 - 10 with absolutely zero fucks given about what happens. Then minimize time between the next few. I find the minimizing the time thing the most important at the beginning. Once I’ve done 10 or so approaches, even if it’s later on in the night and I haven’t talked to anyone for hours, my brain usually is…
/r/seduction05/07/18 06:41 PM
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You do what you want, bud. It’s only you who is going to live a sad life if you don’t love someone. I’ve loved plenty of women and it’s been really easy not to have my heart broken. It’s called just don’t be a moron.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 04:07 PM
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I didn't get that at all You can love somebody What were you reading then? Cause the author literally says, "Fall in love with other things, and only 'like' women." Everything I read was just I'm just too scared to open up and love somebody. I don't care how "Disney" it sounds. It takes strength and courage to open up and love someone. Not the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 07:27 PM
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It sounds like a buffer because it is a buffer. I can’t even believe this post has upvotes. I guess it’s just because it is well-written. But the bullshit is so strong it’s mind-boggling. A man will realize that any love has the potential to end in heart break, but also recognizes that’s part of life. He also will be strong and aware enough to keep his eyes open to any deceit or betrayal. And strong enough to survive any of that shit. This whole thing reads like some teenage boy who just broke u…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 04:59 PM
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I want to try gear so bad but I am really worried about the health repercussions probably because of all the myths that float around in the mainstream discourse.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 02:05 AM
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How long were you lifting for before you started gearing?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 09:18 PM
1

I'm going to copy a comment I made elsewhere in this post because I think it fits your comment really well too: "I think the reason a girl will cheat on you is as nuanced as the whole "nature vs. nature" debate. Everyone understands a huge portion is based off character. But people don't focus on the logistics enough. It's the same thing anyone who is into pick-up focuses on. If you get a girl in a great mood, it is easy to get to a place to do the deed, and no one is around that will judge her …
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 01:17 AM
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I think the reason a girl will cheat on you is as nuanced as the whole "nature vs. nature" debate. Everyone understands a huge portion is based off character. But people don't focus on the logistics enough. It's the same thing anyone who is into pick-up focuses on. If you get a girl in a great mood, it is easy to get to a place to do the deed, and no one is around that will judge her for it, you have the lay in the bag 99 times out of a 100. It's the same thing if there is a possibility your gir…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 01:11 AM
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Would you feel comfortable walking shirtless down Main Street tomorrow? This is seriously underrated. I have ripped my shirt off just after a workout and walked around Manhattan in NYC, Shibuya crossing in Tokyo, Hongdae in Seoul, and plenty more crowded places. It's the best feeling to have the sun on your back, while packs of girls check you out and giggle like schoolgirls to each other when they see your muscles and audacity.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 09:43 PM
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The calluses are the best. You can give women a massage and back scratches at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 09:39 PM
1

Yes, I also completely agree with this. 100% I think all the points we both have made are true and can stand on their own.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 10:44 PM
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True to a certain degree. But I would bet on a guy with a confident mindset over a purely attractive guy any day of the week. I'll give you an example. One of my circles of friends has a few guys who are stereotypically "hot." But if it was a competition between them and let's say the dudes from RSD (who are just average looking guys), the RSD dudes would destroy my friends at gaming. 10 times out of 10.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 07:25 PM
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Completely agree with everything you said. To add to it, I think most of the times a girl will blow a guy off is not because he is ugly (girls idea of attractive is more subjective than a guys is x100) but because of the creepy/awkward factor. The funny thing is betas do this to themselves. Just have to remember that every human interaction is a battle of frames. When a guy is super nervous to approach he comes in with a "oh no, please don't react badly" frame. Then that's exactly what happens. …
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 06:25 PM
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