zuzumotai Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
27	I don't know who needs to hear this tonight, but girl you have GOT to dump your do-nothing-won't-propose boyfriend of 5+ years Very true. Someone who's actually taking you seriously will be asking you when YOU want to get married. He'll be ready. He'll recognize what a catch you are and want to lock you down. If he's "not sure" then even if he one day "makes up his mind" you can be sure that there was once doubt, and he feels like he's settling. Do you want someone who thinks they're SETTLING for you? Or someone who values you?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/20 06:35 AM
1	Just take your man and go... Shrug. Maybe he's going to a bachelor party, or schmoozing a sleazy boss for a promotion. That's not the point. The point is that you can trust a good man TO go and not have to worry about what he's going to do there. Personally, I don't like strip clubs, so I ask my partners not to go- and they don't. That's important too. But my point is that you shouldn't have to worry about him staying in his lane if he ended up there. He wouldn't have any desire to put his hands on someone else if you don't…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/20 06:18 AM
32	Just take your man and go... Women who act like this know they can't trust their man, so they're overly defensive. Instead, they should be looking for a man they can trust. You should be able to see your SO off to a strip club and trust that they're not going to try to fuck a stripper. You should be able to trust him to have female coworkers and female friends without it ever being a concern that he might cheat. It should never even cross his mind. If you can't trust someone to give you the BARE MINIMUM respect in your rela…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/20 06:02 AM
3	We've reached peak pickmeisha, ladies. DON'T LET THIS BE YOU! I love giving head too, but having to train your boyfriend like he's a dog is just.... sad...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/01/20 10:30 AM
3	We've reached peak pickmeisha, ladies. DON'T LET THIS BE YOU! Not arguing with you, but genuinely curious. If you don't like the idea of giving head, do you not like the idea of receiving oral stimulation either, because it isn't natural? Personally I like giving WAY more than I like receiving so I think its interesting. But I agree with sanitation. I'm not putting something dirty in my mouth. They've got to wash it first.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/01/20 10:29 AM
44	Listen up Buttercup I think it would be creepy if there wasn't already interest there. Like if they were strangers or not very good friends, this would be a bit much. But the fact that she was willing to come over to his house alone suggests that there was already some relationship there. Either really good friends, or in the early stages of dating. In that case, I don't think its creepy or over the top. Even if she didn't want to date him, if they were really good friends, i think it would be a sweet gesture.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/20 06:28 AM
300	Listen up Buttercup My first boyfriend won me over with small, thoughtful gestures in high school. I said I was really craving some hot chocolate, while we were all playing an online game together. He lived down the street from me. Ten minutes later, he shows up at my door with hot chocolate and three girl scout cookies arranged on a cute tray. It didn't cost him anything, but the thoughtfulness made my heart leap. If he won candy at an event and didn't want it, he'd leave it taped to my door with a note. He'd come…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/20 06:25 AM
4	Disney princesses of the past taught girls to be desperate to have ANY man in your life. Glad they are shaking things up a bit with Elsa! Thank you for this. Came here to be mad for this reason. SPOILER SPOILER FROZEN 2 Not only does Elsa run away to the forest, the entire movie is about how she's desperate to find someone just like her who can understand her. And then... she finds out... you're alone, Elsa. There is no one as powerful as you. You are alone in this world. Congratulations. :) And that's... a GOOD ending? Constantly running away from responsibilities to find a place to belong, leaving your unqualified sister and her…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/12/19 07:02 AM