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| 7 | Is it a good idea to cold approach random girls in my college cafeteria?I agree with that 100%. You gotta find out the vibe and whether she’s just being nice or if she’s actually looking to engage in conversation. Then, you decide if you should go on to the next one or not. Just reflecting back, I found the most success was approaching between the hour of 8-9am before classes. You’ll have a better chance at finding a girl eating alone. Not only that, but you’ll be her first human contact before the busy day of lectures start. It gives you more to work with. You can … | /r/seduction | 30/10/18 01:08 AM |
| 5 | Is it a good idea to cold approach random girls in my college cafeteria?“Hey! Do you mind if I eat with you?” That’s worked for me quite well. | /r/seduction | 29/10/18 11:01 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Cold Approached an actress. Spent 2 hours in the parkHey man, I’m also in tech sales. Ive been at this company for a year and they’re looking to go public in a few years. I’m currently at six figures, so a good start, but I’m looking to make more. Any advice on how to capitalize on that? I’m guessing stock options as early as possible and hope they explode in 2 years? | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Thought I passed a shit test, seems I was wrongYeah, man, it seems like you played your hand a little early on that. Seems like you did a great job securing the date. I would’ve just kept the texts before as purely logistical to make sure the date goes off and then go with the charm and escalation once you hang out. For me at least, when online dating, once you’ve made small talk and you have the date set up, there’s no need for flirtation through text. Just save the charm for when she sees you in person and feel it out from there | /r/seduction | 13/06/18 12:40 AM |
| 1 | How the hell do you close?I’d say that pretty much hits the nail on the head. Adding to that, getting some sort of inside joke helps even more on that third point. Girls love that | /r/seduction | 21/12/17 01:17 AM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?That’s natural man!! I felt the same at 20. Just keep grinding. It’ll pay off as long as you keep the effort up. Focus on everything, and remember that your love life is only a facet of your life, nothing bigger. As your life progresses, it’ll become smaller and bigger at times, but remember that it’s only a part of your life, not the whole thing | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 04:58 AM |
| 1 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Don’t sweat it too much man. Listen to that advice above. It hasn’t happened yet, and that’s fine. It’s life. I’ve been down on life before, and literally January of 2017, I said “I’m gonna make this a great year” and everything changed. Get on that mind set. Don’t say “man, I hope things change.” Say “I’m gonna make things change.” Build resilience. I’ve known people who’ve never been on a date or kissed a girl at age 25 and then all of a sudden, they start dating someone they’re really into. T… | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Alot of girls are attracted to me and flirt with me but idk what to doAsk them open ended questions. Listen and then share or just listen | /r/seduction | 25/11/17 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Should I (a relative beginner) do cold approaches on a large college campus?Go for it with an innocent intent. Just go with the vibe of getting to know people. Make sure it's a good context and not while you're walking to class. When I was in college, the best was the cafeteria in the mornings. Go up to a girl and be like "hey, do you mind if I eat with you?" It worked wonders, but the only drawback is it's only effective if she's eating alone. Just be sincere. Another one is "Hey, I'm new to the campus and don't know anyone." The vulnerability will help let each other'… | /r/seduction | 05/09/17 04:45 AM |
| 3 | (19m) First date advice, steps to get to know her???I'd take her to dinner, but I'm 25, so that might be too much or make her nervous. If I were you, I'd do desert and a movie. You guys can get ice cream, make conversation for 20 or so minutes, and then go to a movie where you guys can be together, but not have the pressure of making conversation. Then, after that, you can talk naturally about the movie. Also, when breaking the ice try asking open ended questions("what" and "how questions) and you can ask about family, friends, hobbies, or ask ab… | /r/seduction | 01/05/17 01:55 AM |
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