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Yea guys please don’t listen to this man he must be trying to eliminate the competition lmao. If I acted this way with my gf I’d might end up seeing the truest inner asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:09 AM

The problem is on both sides someone’s gonna do that I mean no one should lead anyone on but shit when they make it so easy people will take advantage of them that’s something that will never change in dating in general what’s important to remember is not everyone’s like that majority of people probably aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:02 AM
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That’s just factually wrong though men have been in power for majority of human history like I wish it wasn’t that be awesome but it is that’s why we are where we are today with feminism and stuff I don’t see the point in denying something like this
/r/MensRights11/01/25 12:51 AM
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Your right femenism does have a lot of racism in it that lots of femenist have tried tons to fix idk what’s ur point there’s racism all over in America and in their history it’s up to people like us to fix what poisons our system u don’t just go aww it’s racist end femenism like no not everything within it is racist and a lot of work is being done to change that to make it more inclusive to all women who are affected
/r/MensRights11/01/25 12:50 AM
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Idk what country that’s allowed in but not mine so idk your laws there
/r/MensRights10/01/25 06:43 AM
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Honestly bro i did not read anything u said I’m going to bed but off your first sentence I’m just gonna say going band for band for who was more oppressed won’t do much but for sure it wasn’t men definitely a class issue which pertains to today but that’s affects everyone. Goodnight man I’m tired
/r/MensRights09/01/25 07:45 AM
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No I said they weren’t false. My statement is actually true I mean you can look it up I don’t have any links saved for you. In terms of what I think should be different we need to start looking at cases of sexual assault differently in America atleast other countries have done a better job for example Sweden has had a more progressive stance on sexual assault laws broadening what’s considered assault and they advocate for affirmative consent. They also have a much better support system for victi…
/r/MensRights09/01/25 07:44 AM
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Yea man I get you idk why I come here to debate people it’s so pointless but I can’t help it i want people to change their minds I want a better world for my future kids but on the bright side I don’t think most of these guys are gonna be getting laid so I think my kids will be alright
/r/MensRights09/01/25 07:40 AM
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Yea I mean the feminist sub is atleast a lil more reasonable a lot of crazies there but I try not to hold thst too much against any movement cause it is Reddit the cesspool of the worse individuals humanity has to offer
/r/MensRights09/01/25 07:30 AM
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I don’t think it that’s just what it is. Like actual data I’m not pulling it out of my ass if the majority of sexual assault accusations were false then things would be different this also applies toward men and women if anything it’s harder for me to be open about sexual assault against them due to patriarchy which can be hard to grasp but it’s the truth same reason why it’s more difficult for young men to share their emotions
/r/MensRights09/01/25 07:28 AM
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Yea I try not to just makes me sad at the world sometimes I mean just look at the downvotes I’m such a horrible guy for also acknowledging other people’s oppressions like goddam. Every time I come back to Reddit I’m reminded why I got off it
/r/MensRights09/01/25 07:27 AM
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Just meant men in general when I said we I mean it is the men’s right activist it’s subreddit it’s important acknowledge where ur party has done wrong as well in history given the extensive history we have lol but u might be a girl so idk
/r/MensRights09/01/25 07:23 AM
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I love this one man. Fine if we look at the laws ok we’re all equal does that mean racism no longer exist or sexism ? It takes two seconds of critical thinking to understand this I don’t mean to sound harsh I just hate this argument cuz I used to use this brain dead argument
/r/MensRights09/01/25 07:18 AM
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That’s actually not true and usually used by anti victim advocates the actually number is like 2-10 percent the majority of rape reported is good faith and trying to deny tbst is disgusting in itself. False reporting exists in every crime but trying to diminish it isn’t the right approach also a lot of rape isn’t even reported or sa because of societal shame embarrassment so when u talk about these subjects try to have more empathy rather then trying to make a point against
/r/MensRights09/01/25 07:17 AM
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I mean social conditioning is an easy answer to that. Also what does this point have to do with anything I mean awesome more men commit acts of bravery now what do u want me to do with that give ‘em all a medal. Any inkling of someone saying hey guys we don’t have to hate on women to be men’s right activist and I get instantly downvoted like this place isn’t for men’s rights it’s just part of the problem same as with how some feminist are just hating men constantly none of them care for change t…
/r/MensRights09/01/25 06:53 AM
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I mostly identify as a feminist I think cause I never really felt at home in these men right activist spaces I’ve found more reasonable men within the feminist movement then here which makes me sad but still I want this place to become as empowering as the feminist with less hate of course that will never disappear there’s still women who say hateful things too but nonetheless I want everyone to fight for eachother but with how history has been and where society is now I see how it’s difficult e…
/r/MensRights09/01/25 06:37 AM
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I mean still no agree to disagree doesn’t apply when it comes to oppression against people I mean wassup sister but I wouldn’t say agree to disagree if someone said naw I think black people aren’t oppressed still
/r/MensRights09/01/25 06:33 AM
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When I ask you this I’m being serious and it condescending. But are you actually serious rn or like rage baiting me cuz if so 10/10 rage bait this is like saying bro black people had it easy free housing and all they had to do was pick cotton man chill out
/r/MensRights09/01/25 06:21 AM
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The ideology is that women have been oppressed and they are fighting for better opportunities and to not resort back to what our history was in no way is that wrong so saying the ideology is wrong would be the equivalent to telling black people like me hey racism is just an ideology or something like no it was real so there’s people against it. I always find women who are against feminism weird it’s like a black person against racism. I as a man wouldn’t be against men’s rights but I hate how ma…
/r/MensRights09/01/25 06:19 AM
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Dude what do u mean it’s up to me to prove it you want me to teach u basic history of women getting oppressed it’s like telling me naw black people weren’t oppressed prove it like what are u talking about
/r/MensRights09/01/25 06:17 AM
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Sorry maybe ur not American boogie man is just a phrase people use. I’m just saying you don’t understand women more than they do that’s just stupid man you gotta go outside and talk to people to understand better how people are and this doesn’t mean basing it off your one bad interaction
/r/MensRights09/01/25 06:09 AM
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Ok first I’m a man so i know men’s struggles pretty wel I guess my second I have looked around this sun some guys are genuine a lot just are hating women without realizing it maybe I guess. I get it maybe you have had bad experiences but I doubt it’s anything near what women as a whole have gone through i as a man recognize that. Our issues matter too and it would be better if less of these incels and women haters would gather here cause like hey I don’t want you here. I implore you to have an o…
/r/MensRights09/01/25 06:08 AM
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Also when people say kill all men it’s mostly women aiming their frustrations towards the men who have victimized then I think the vocabulary should be different though because like I always say it’s how people understand what you say not ur intent
/r/MensRights09/01/25 06:02 AM
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Easy easy easy response. Kill all men isn’t a good thing but I’m not gonna be like oh man femenist is bad and is the problem that’s 3rd grade level thinking. Fucking men’s rights act like incels half the time on here no wonder they only get shit for it that’s why u don’t judge people as a whole and generalize them. Also no one’s saying false accusations are awesome no one’s throwing parades are there some people who don’t care yes but that’s doesn’t mean I’m gonna validate their opinions. Senten…
/r/MensRights09/01/25 06:01 AM
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That’s just false my man I mean my ancestors personally probably would’ve been oppressed too given our worlds history. But I mean come on women have had the short hand of the stick for a long long time
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:56 AM
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Yea some women say that and it’s false I mean do u want me to defend people on the femenist side who make bad arguments. There’s tons of men who make terrible arguments as well I’m not gonna ask u to defend then. False accusations happen no where near the rate that just literall assault or rape happens. Both are problems.
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:54 AM
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Yea I see a lot of dumb posts here makes it hard to advocate for men’s rights when it’s all redundant shit and usually hating on feminism or women or something. Not saying this guy was trying to do that at all just making a point towards this sun
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:42 AM
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Well I mean women didn’t really have much control of anything back then so duh of course it was done by men. It’s like saying before they allowed black people in baseball all white people were dominating like duh. This isn’t to take away that yes men do great things but yea they also do bad things that’s what people do were complicated but I don’t think trying to go band for band with bad and good really solves anything
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:38 AM
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Most feminist are dealing with women’s issues which is what that’s for. If men’s rights activism had more positive members around it be better but it’s usually portrayed as a incel or women hating community and shiii ion blame em that’s what I see at least 50 percent of the time on here. It’s not a misandristic ideaology to advocate for women’s rights. Men have been the oppressive structure for quite sometime and that shit has also affected us in the way we live in society today I mean things li…
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:33 AM
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Dog looking around these comments in this sub there’s a lot of women haters which I’m kinda disgusted by I mean bringing down the other gender doesn’t make anyone better. Are there femenist who do similar things yes but that doesn’t mean as a whole everyone’s attacking men. If your feeling attacked maybe your the problem their attacking people who harass them and treat them like lesser beings
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:26 AM
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Dude u need to go outside and just calm down women aren’t out to get you the boogie man isn’t under your bed or boogie woman I guess
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:24 AM
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That’s the dumbest comparison I’ve ever heard tbh. Like if your not getting bombed ur not oppressed wtf. No one’s saying oh women in the west have it harder than the kids getting blown up in Palestine.
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:23 AM
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Dude come on now
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:22 AM
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What are you most worried about for your sons growing up ?
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:21 AM
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It’s harassment though imagine ur daughter is getting cat called by some gross dudes on the street like that’s not ok we need to learn how to treat people like human beings not pieces of meat that’s the point against cat calling
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:20 AM
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Femenism needs to happen all over the world in places where things are worse and places where things are better just cause it’s better doesn’t mean you stop striving for a even more non oppressive society. Cat calling is harassment and harassment towards anyone is not cool I have a gf and I’m disgusted by the things I’ve seen some guys say like people have no manners at all. Wage gap does exist for a multitude of reasons one of which is sexism which they want to close the gap on as much as possi…
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:19 AM
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That’s not what’s happened at all feminism isn’t this evil movement like everyone thinks it is I’m a feminist and I advocate for the problems men deal with too I advocate for everyone’s problems because people deserve to be heard y’all just gotta break outta this mindset it only sets people back
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:17 AM
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I’d disagree with this I mean there’s still lots of issues that need fixing that’s why feminism still exists and it’s not a counter to men that’s not what it is at all and this kind of attitude and talk is what makes people not like men’s rights like what are y’all doing this shit is cringe
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:16 AM
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That’s definitely something I’d take up with upper management that’s not allowed in the work place and if you feel like your uncomfortable or your being treated differently because of it then you have a point and a case to make
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:14 AM
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Just cause a few crazy people say that doesn’t mean it’s everyone it’s like how there’s crazy incel people in men’s rights does that mean everyone’s like that ?
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:10 AM
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I’m a little lost though like what exactly is happening like all the girls want to flirt and get mad when u don’t flirt back I’m just a bit confused I’ve never heard of something like that happening in the work place especially and you can’t go to HR or anyone or a higher up to help you out
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:09 AM
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That’s not true at all
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:07 AM
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You don’t take an article like this and then blame it on femenism dawg and MGTOW aren’t the way to go at all definitely not the smart way it’s filled with too many insecure women hating men and that has nothing to do with men’s rights
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:07 AM
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How has this caused ED for you I mean I don’t get that part. But also what kind of work place is this usually most work places don’t want the whole flirting with eachother cause that only causes more problems and to be judged and basically excluded I guess for not flirting like ur married maybe you should talk to HR
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:05 AM
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Well what’s we’re talking about can get really complicated I mean people in general are all different and idk much about Serbia and their culture to really talk on that as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:12 PM
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Well if 99percent are macho dudes (I get it I came from a similar country) then the women don’t have much of a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:05 PM
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Well I hear a lot of basic stuff get Called red pull I’m in my 20s and dating hasn’t been a struggle besides the normal struggles ya know I get denied sometimes I don’t I know I have aspects that are favorable but I’m also not some chad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:55 AM
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I didn’t say u were huckster but I haven’t heard that phrase in a minute lol. I just said this is a sad way of living and I guess u think how I live is sad too but I’m pretty happy I have a gf lots of friends so whatever makes u happy man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:54 AM
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Whatever u wanna believe man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:52 AM
1

Funny enough I’ve watched both so thanks but no thanks my man. This is just a sad way of living but hey to each their own I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:31 AM
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Alright man whatever crazy how this specific section of people understands the truth and everyone else lives in ignorance reminds me of flat earth
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:14 AM
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Dude that’s not redpill that’s just normal understanding yea life’s unfair so what man. Consider yourself lucky your on Reddit and not some war torn country now that’s unfair. So fucking privileged we are guys just be happy we can walk on two legs and feed our selves that’s something that’s really unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:10 AM
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Well ur looks matter too no one ever says it doesn’t and the people who do are also called wrong by people who are blue pilled or whatever. Tons of things matter u find a girl cute she finds u cute that’s all u really need u don’t need to be some Greek god like most people here feel like. I strongly believe every guy can be a 7 only person holding you back is yourself. But trust it can get you through the door girls want love too they want partnership they don’t wanna be alone just like us too m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:47 AM
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Well I mean idk how it hasn’t I just call it advice not blue pulled but being a good person caring about your body and hygiene and just making your self a well rounded individual is typically enough to get you through the door and on a date. So idk how that advice hasn’t worked for u mind elaborating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:43 AM
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It’s not u don’t listen to what I write I never said women don’t like handsome strong guys but whatever dude love how u want I really don’t care anymore. Whether it’s partial subscription or whatever this place is brain rot and cannot be good for anyone’s mental health that’s why I’m out of here I coke in every now and then when I want to make myself upset at other peoples mindsets on the world kind of like rage baiting myself I can’t help it it’s like the best reality tv
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:50 AM
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I mean whatever works idc anymore u girls are way more tolerable than some of these red pill guys. But I might disagree with you on it but who am I to change ur mind at this point right. I’ve seen marriages that were partnerships that work out great I think people dive too deep into this know ur place as a man and as a woman stuff and there’s nothing wrong with being a femenist it’s literally just about women’s rights people who are anti femenist will twist things around to make it sound worse s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:48 AM
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Dude if I use personal experience then I can disagree with everything u said my guy. I mean just go outside and look around there’s tons of normal looking people in happy relationships fine maybe u won’t date Margot Robbie neither will I tough luck
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:27 AM
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Yea ok man gl
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:21 PM
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Yea well me and my girl been together for a lot of years now so whenever she’s ready to leave me for the high value man she’s more than welcomed I guess. Dude if I’m younger than u and I have a better perspective in people maybe it’s time to start looking into yourself. I really don’t care anymore all subreddit talk with incels and redpill dudes is making my brain hurt ima hop off Reddit and go touch grass maybe give me girlfriend who’s gonna leave me a call
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:42 PM
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Anyone who’s redpill or whatever you wanna call it kinda might not suck at dating I guess but y’all definitely suck at understanding people. Now idc anymore I don’t want a back n forth good luck with all ur endeavors ima go live my chad life
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:40 PM
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No I mean yea it exists in Reddit I guess but like normal people don’t be saying blue pill lol ya know. Like I’d never say I’m blue pill cuz that’s ducking cringe. I think people spend too much time chronically online and tbh I’m abouta hop off Reddit too every time I come here and talk to people it’s just really sad I think y’all would do great with like a walk in the park or something or just never touching Reddit again if it’s this easy to become some cringy redpill blue pill whatever pill. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:32 PM
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Ight bro I don’t care anymore tbh y’all can live ur sad lives but when u get tired of that try incelexit or one of those subreddits where people like u finally escape and live better lives. I’m not Superman idc about y’all that much I’m telling u people like me and many others who aren’t “chads” are doing just fine but it’s ur life man do whatever idc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:26 PM
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Escape the incel space before u become one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:13 PM
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Cause it literally is or atleast it was to me and most other people but if I don’t know that wearing a seatbelt is safer and a redpill guy says wearing seatbelts is safer I don’t go oh man these redpill guys know wtf their talking about. Also I didn’t even only say be yourself or have a good personality dumbass there’s wya more that goes into it and I said that but redpill guys are always like UGHHHH personality fuck like y’all are insufferable idc anymore I’m over it I’ll let the incels live sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:06 PM
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Damn bro I apologized cuz I was like maybe I am too harsh on y’all you guys are just hurt mislead dudes. But fine be a dick idc anymore live ur life thinking whatever u want im over this tbh y’all are brain broken I’ll just keep living my life and everyone else will too and you guys can keep up whatever this is I guess hope it works out for u man but whenever u grow up and I don’t mean age I mean mentally then I’ll be happy for u and I hope it’s not too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:59 PM
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Dude that’s a crazy response to someone saying yea women sometimes have it harder than dudes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:57 PM
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Dude no one is ducking saying you can’t say women are untruthful everyone knows that because everyone can be like that. You wanna know why my answers are so simple because it truly is that simple man I mean dating and people are complicated but understand that the way people act you can’t just apply that to everyone man. Also I’m sorry lots of incels are hitting me up so I might not give u 100% attention
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:52 PM
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Wait so u don’t get how to treat people normal? Well dude that’s ur first mistake I guess but trust me redpill is anything but normal lol. When I say normal I just mean I talk to them as if I’m trying to make a friend maybe throw in some flirting to make it obvious I’m trying to pursue em a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:50 PM
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But if I’m telling you I’ve experience both bad and good and you’ve only experienced bad then maybe you can see that hey you’ve just had some bad experiences. Can you tell me about this reality that I for some reason don’t live in. Also I’m not some chad or hot guy I’m a pretty normal dude broke but haven’t fallen into redpill and never will cuz It’s kinda sad and depressing if you choose to think like that about everyone. You can say oh it’s just the sad truth of the world but that’s not really…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:49 PM
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That’s literally what u said sit around and let dudes Persue me. So you’d be sitting around and taking money from guys living off dudes and people already do that sugar babies or escorts or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:44 PM
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No I never said that usually guys got there from some bad experience with a girl that led them here that’s what I’ve heard mostly or they say they’ve observed the world and understand it now talking as if everyone else doesn’t live in the same world. What I want to figure out is when someone’s sucked into this cult mindset how do we get em out of it cuz next step is black pull and incel and fuck no one wants to live in that sad life thinking like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:44 PM
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Dude this is so funny lmao. Ur right man ima tell all my friends rn drop what there doing and just live off guys you’ll be a millionaire. Like bro tell me you’ve never interacted with people without telling me you’ve never interacted with people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:39 PM
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Well what if I told u I don’t think like that and ik plenty of guys who also don’t think like that. I’m sorry you’ve had experiences with really bad men it’s crazy to hear guys get married have kids and all of that just for sex cuz tbh that’s a really complicated way to get laid it’s much easier than that. I don’t see women as sexual objects no one should that’s wrong that’s what a lot of women and guys fight against but the wrong path to take is to generalize it to all men because that’s what t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:38 PM
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Alright ur right I’m being a bit snide it’s just I really hate people who think like u not cause I don’t like you but because I genuinely feel bad for you I understand what it’s like to be there I was probably one different experience away from feeling like that but I had good people around me and I learned more and opened my mind up a bit more to understand that what’s being said doesn’t align with majority of people. Also don’t say powerful aura man thats cringe I’m trying to help u with that …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:36 PM
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Ight play devils advocate with me what if some girls were just not nice people just like some guys are while others are better partners. I mean regardless you’ll have issues in a relationship. But instead of trying to simplify everyone to they all think like this maybe understand dating and people are much more complicated than any redpill talking head could figure out most people understand this and live relatively happy lives. I mean hell datings been tough for me too man I have some traits th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:30 PM
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Ok I’ve also lived and seen quite true opposite. Attraction varies from person to person. I don’t like using personal experiences because it makes people incredibly biased like have i seen someone leave someone for a guy that’s more “high value” as they’d say yes and I’ve also seen the opposite makes u wonder huh maybe everyone isn’t the exact same cause people are unique. I mean if that’s true my girlfriend would’ve left me for one of the rich guys that throw themselves at her I’m not rich not …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:19 PM
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I’m also typically a realist so tell me what’s some red pill things that are just true. Also when people typically tell me some things that are true it’s usually either things I just don’t agree with which I hope u offer up and something that everyone knows but people labeled as oh the redpill figured it out like no dude obviously working out and good hygiene will help u get girls duh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:15 PM
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Dude I’m literally saying what others have said they called a movement and whatever so maybe u have different views on it that’s fine. Is is cringe regardless of what u wanna label it as so I’m glad we both agree on that. But what I hate is this I know the truth no longer can I live in this false reality. Like dude do u hear yourself. As someone who apparently doesn’t know the truth and lives in the matrix I live a pretty happy life I do well with women I have female friends who are great I’ve h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:13 PM
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Dude it’s not just about being a nice guy you can’t just do one thing and expect to win. Being a nice person is good no one’s telling u to just go be a simp. It’s just treat people normal work on yourself there’s tons to work on in everybody. But there’s no oh I understand women I know how they think so listen to me guys if u wanna get with these girls. I’m a nice guy and I’ve been not a nice guy I’m a human being I’ve never had too much trouble with women and I’m not an average looking guy I’ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:10 PM
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Exactly now I’ve met both bad and good women there’s always gonna be bad and good people we can both agree but your taking the experiences where you’ve been hurt and applying that. I acknowledge that just because I’ve been done wrong by someone doesn’t mean I apply that to everyone. Of course I’ve been there I’ve been mad like oh fuck these bitches there all whores but that’s just me being upset and lashing out I get over it I grow up. It’s like if said everything I met a black person they robbe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:08 PM
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I mean sure maybe some single moms will get mad but that’s there problem. There’s girls who don’t want guys with kids too it’s a preference that’s all. Just like there’s people super far into the redpill or whatever there’s people who are super far and wrong towards the other side most normal people fall into the middle where they understand people are people and making generalizations over any gender is typically just wrong. It’s like if I said ladies don’t get comfy cuz ur man will leave u for…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:04 PM
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I love my girlfriend she’s beautiful to me and if some other girl came through with whatever you guys say is higher value I wouldn’t leave same extends to my partner and she’s actually had people who would be consider higher value than me want her and yet she chose me was it cause I’m 6 foot or something or was it cause there’s more than just status that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:01 PM
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Well u kinda also just said nuh uh women think like this and lie. Dude u just got hurt man do some women think like that and lie well of course I can’t say no one does that cuz that elude be dishonest. But you also can’t turn around and say all these women are lying and complaining about cheaters when really their just trying to paint themselves in a good light. Like dude no one really likes cheaters generally. I promise u dude women don’t all want the man who just fucks everyone and cheats on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:58 PM
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But even then there’s hit girls and hot guys with partners people would consider not on their level in terms of physical attraction how do they win. Also I think you have a bad perception in what dating is. You think in every relationship that one person would leave if this HVM walked through and chose them now will that happen in some cases yes that’s a shallow person however in other cases that just doesn’t happen cause dating isn’t like a video game I’m not looking at ur ranking on this fake …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:11 PM
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Well first I can’t really point u towards a blue piller cause no one calls themselves that lol. But I promise u most normal people just say those things without the weird parts of the redpill like oh you have to be a high value man and you have to be a chad that stuffs just cringe sayijg that will definitely turn people off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:20 AM
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Will that is a blanket term I’ll give you that but usually a good personality can differ from person to person ya know. Some people I don’t really mess with but others do they see there personality differently than I do. I think being a male feminist just means being a feminist and a guy not too complicated there you support women’s rights. Unsuccessful guys might have trouble talking to women that’s normal shit I do too sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:19 AM
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Well if you only listened to be yourself then you haven’t listened much. It’s multiple things just being yourself can work out great because it attracts someone who’s attracted to who you are but there’s other things that matter such as how your personality actually is if u have a shit personality then maybe don’t be yourself lol but also hygiene working out and taking care of yourself is something people tend to like although others don’t care too much about that. Also if I walked around thinki…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:17 AM
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Hey I actually agree with that second part there but that’s a different discussion. But you can hear yourself so I’m sure u know what ur Sayijg sounds crazy. You honestly think women just all lie to hold on to this “dating” power y’all think they have. People are complicated people are all unique you can’t apply this to everyone are some women bad people that will treat you poorly and act that way yes but the same applies to guys this isn’t something you can put on everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:14 AM
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Well yea some women might do that and that makes them a bad person but that’s not every woman and it’s not even a majority I’ve been in plenty of relationships and flings and never has a girl leverage that she has more options than me even though they do. I’m sure maybe u were in a toxic relationship where that happened the difference is instead of applying that to everyone you just go damn that wasn’t the right girl cause if she’s going to act like that why would u want to be with her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:13 AM
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Dude I think u guys are just kinda confused first of all there is no blue pill no one who is blue pulled calls themselves that it was just created as not redpill basically. Second it literally is my guy people say happy wife happy life as like a half joke ya know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:11 AM
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I just looked up Tom too and I’m sure he’s the guy I wanna listen to about the truths of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:23 AM
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Dude ur calling me 14 u literally follow the redpill u don’t wanna hurl insults at me man. And I think Andrew tate is his own dumb person I’m pretty sure he called red pillers losers so I’m sure he doesn’t follow that but still has a bad mindset on women. Don’t bring up that loser rollo man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:22 AM
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So you think all women just collectively lie like some hive mind and the men who were lead to the redpill because they can’t talk to women now understand how women think. Most girls ik and guys just cringe at the redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:09 AM
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Dude no one says man yo and accept her children lmao I mean maybe some people dude but a lot of normal people would call them crazy too. If someone wants to be a step parent that’s there own choice also judging people by their past can be harsh I personally believe body count shouldn’t play a huge role in someone’s decision but that’s me maybe ur body count is lower and u want someone closer to you that’s fine no one says u can’t do that. It’s not about do her chores I mean helping out with chor…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:08 AM
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I would say the things I’ve seen kind of use harsh generalization and they try to act like they understand how women think when most of them were lead there because they don’t know how to talk to women funny enough. Now this is just what I’ve seen from most redpill talking heads and people but they don’t have a lot of respect for women and kind of see them as beneath them at times. Now if you prefer for your man to lead the household rather than a partnership that’s fine that’s ur own choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:06 AM
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Well that’s a very large generalization that’s just flat out wrong cuz I for one do not want some harem of young hot women. I’m fine with the one girl I got rn. So I’d push back on that claim it’s like saying all. Now some people like poly relationships that’s up to them not me since it’s not for me or you I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:04 AM
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Dude I think u are blue pilled mostly everything you said is just what everyone else says. I mean who has ever said don’t be someone who values their time or stands up for themselves. I’ve never heard anyone say be as accommodating as possible and agree with everything she says no one says that. Also of course fitness and career success matter and so does ur personality and how kind you are to someone these are all things that make up a partner. You spending less free time with her and more on u…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:02 AM
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Lmao typically generalizations of people are wrong because you can’t generalize a whole population so your already off with that one. Also stfu dude oh boo hoo why should I do unpaid work like what are you talking about it’s Reddit dawg people share ideas and opinions are you alright. And I asked you to specifiy something and you wouldn’t so what are you talking about I literally said tell me about the redpill what are some “truths” you agree with and your just crying definitely a beta
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:58 AM
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Yea but the thing is that’s not redpill at all everyone already knows that attraction and personality goes hand in hand obviously if I find someone attractive I will talk to them my problem is attraction is different for everyone there’s common traits that are more favorable by some
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:55 AM
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Dude no blue piller or as I like to call em normal people deny that girls like attractive guys I mean guys like attractive girls it’s not a eureka moment. However looks are not the only thing that matters it’s a mix of both you want someone your both attracted too and someone who’s company you enjoy what’s wrong about that statement. Also dude it’s so cringe to call people chads and whatever like god do y’all not hear yourself. Also if you think all women care about is abs and rich dudes and thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:11 PM
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Well it was talking about women picking men with the right genes I heard that when redpill talk about a high value man how does this not relate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:04 PM
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Well it’s a bit of both it’s simple things that are true like I’ve heard like good hygiene and workout mixed in with wrong generalizations so both can be true there. Also dude I’ve already seen so much incel and redpill content it just makes me depressed for other guys who believe in it tbh cause it’s preying on the weak now I’m not tryna take a jab at you it’s just what they’ve done and there’s nothing wrong with falling victim to something like this. Why not explain your own opinions instead o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:56 PM
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How does this explain the millions of men in happy relationships who don’t fit the typical red pill mold of a “high value man”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:53 PM
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I agree so make it good lol. I’m saying I’ve had bad sex that’s turned around to good sex it’s not like I’m wasting my time the sex was good lol I just communicated to make it better ya get me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:51 PM
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I actually have no idea what ur talking about please tell me more about the sexy son hypothesis lmao that sounds wild as hell. Especially to all it gospel your cracking me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:46 PM
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That’s kind of crazy to just drop someone who’s and at sex I mean if they unwilling to communicate then yea for sure I’m not saying just have bad sex I’m offering a way to make it better I love that you have good chemistry with your wife me and my gf do too but we continue to communicate to make it better and keep things fresh and exciting ya know I mean you have to communicate to bring up your own kinks and just basic consent on things
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:45 PM
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I’m saying it’s dumb to expect them to be amazing and to blow your mind like we’re all people here let’s be realistic man. Do you go into every sexual experience expecting them to be amazing and if you don’t communicate at all do you even know if your any good. There is zero negatives to communicating with your partner about sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:40 PM
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Well bad is a stretch but of course you could find someone you connect with sexually off the bat but that doesn’t you can’t have the same experience with someone else if you communicate. It’s dumb to expect everyone to be a pro and get everything right the first time we’re not sex gods lol. Plus sex only gets better as it goes on in my experience because we keep talking about what we liked and didn’t like try it man you can turn bad sex into really good sex quick
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:35 PM
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Dude what are you talking about. Have you never communicated with your partner about sex ? You’d be surprised
/r/TheRedPill04/01/25 08:34 PM
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Lmao for a second I thought u were fr. But yea idk how people say communication is overrated it’s literally the most important part of sex like I’ve had girls give me head and I would always be quiet about how I like them to do it or what I like to do and I’m a guy so it’s not too hard to please me but when I started communicating with my current gf I couldn’t believe how much better sex could be and how much better I could be at sex for my partner. It’s all about not being selfish I mean just t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:32 PM
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I’m glad they haven’t taken advantage of you financiallly at least but what is so true about redpill can you give me examples and also I don’t think anyone that’s blue pill calls themselves that it’s just weird and cringe I think we can both agree on that I mean what are 12
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:31 PM
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I’d say both are pretty ducking scary but I’d lean towards the guy simply because if it came to having to defend yourself there’s an obvious disparity and I feel men tend to be more violent when it comes to emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:27 PM
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I disagree of course sexual chemistry makes something way easier but I’ve had partners where communication made it way better and only made me better at sex saying communication is overrated is going to lead to a lot of bad sex for ur partners
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:23 PM
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Can you elaborate no one elaborates they just said I’ve observed life and I understand now. Like it sounds goofy it’s kind of like people who believe flat earth. It’s this group of people who think they understand and know something that no one else does and they are special because of it and everyone else is mislead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:56 PM
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And I think you’ll look back at yourself now with embarrassment when you get out of this. But being “blue pilled” doesn’t mean accepting red flags idk where you heard that don’t judge just means like hey we’re all people you know we don’t need to judge each other harshly but that doesn’t mean allow every red flag. Also blue pulled is dumb no one calls themselves that their just normal not trying to say ur not but it’s just kind of weird and cringe. From what I’ve seen redpill makes a lot of gene…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:55 PM
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Well isn’t that kind of basic advice from people treat someone well make sure they aren’t insane and it’ll work out usually. My problem with the redpill stuff is I hear a lot of things that were already being said and already exist but redpill has taken it as their own and along with that I hear lots of things I don’t agree with now idk how female redpill works cause the redpill on the man’s side kinda hates women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:51 PM
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Can you elborare that’s kind of vague
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:49 PM
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I’ve heard it and I don’t agree with some of the things I’ve heard could you tell me something you’ve heard that’s an absolute truth that the redpill pushed that isn’t just something that already existed and people talked about but the redpill took and made it theres
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:48 PM
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I mean I’ve been hurt in my life I’ve been rejected I’ve experienced life like most other people but never did I hear the redpill rhetoric and think it was a good idea I saw it for what it was and maybe that’s cause I was lucky I had great women in my life that were friends so I understood where the redpill went wrong a lot
/r/TheRedPill04/01/25 07:47 PM
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I didn’t coke here for validation I came here to understand why so many guys get sucked in I mean I sort of understand why most of the red pillers I met have the same sad story and I’ll give y’all the benefit of the doubt it’s easy to get sucked into something like this especially if you’ve been hurt in life but getting out of it is the hard part it’s learning to accept you’ve been duped and that it’s a toxic mindset
/r/TheRedPill04/01/25 07:46 PM
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So you got hurt by a women in your life and that made you turn to redpill I see that happen a lot. Do you ever think that maybe you were just hurt and redpill took advantage over someone who was in a tough place and wanted some sort of “answer” as to why
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:44 PM
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Can you tell me what exactly made sense ? Everyone keeps saying that but doesn’t elborare and I actually see redpill just take basic advice and play it off as redpill while adding some other generalizations that are wrong. It’s like if I tell you to workout and care about your hygiene that’s not redpill that’s normal advice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:43 PM
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So you got hurt and turned to the redpill that’s the common trope I’ve seen. Love isn’t a lie man people get cheated on it sucks some people are bad partners can you explain more on how red pill is the truth I guess cause every point I’ve heard isn’t convincing at all but I can see how it would be if I had a bias mindset due to being hurt by women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:42 PM
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Can you explain how it’s a humiliating ritual and what did they teach you that no one else talked about that helped you with women and sexual behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:41 PM
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Do you think personality doesn’t matter at all ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:40 PM
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Well that’s not red pill that’s just kind of a normal thing if you improve things like your career and looks more people will find those qualities attractive shows drice and a care for one’s self that isn’t red pill people have said a ton I see that you kinda took a jab at the whole “personality” thing but that’s also something that matters as well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:40 PM
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Ok people keep saying it explains how the world works can you tell me more about that like elaborate on these truths
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:38 PM
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Can you tell me some
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:56 AM
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Well what I said was also true but was much healthier mentally. What’s made you feel like this clearly you have some deep personal connection as to why you think everyone treats men specifically like shit.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/25 09:18 AM
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I mean I think everyone gets treated like shit by both parties in their own ways but they also get treated nicely not healthy to make these types of generalizations also yea the earths not flat why did we bring that up
/r/TheRedPill04/01/25 08:34 AM
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I’m a lil lost what are you talking about in that first sentence maybe I’m reading it wrong. Also we are treated like crap are you talking about like men as a whole and who’s treating us this way and why. Lots of people think self sacrificing is a pretty honorable trait so idk if I agree with that. This all seems kinda pessimistic
/r/TheRedPill04/01/25 07:37 AM
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Well I’m a man not a redpill dude but still a man lol I’d love to know what the red pill says about me and why you believe it maybe I agree or can question your claims a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:35 AM
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I mean that’s a pretty basic belief not really specifically tied to just redpill I think that’s just normal advice man
/r/TheRedPill04/01/25 07:28 AM
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How does it help you find a good marriage match and has it actually helped in ur current dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:12 AM
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Yea but if you go around more people are probably not redpill then are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:31 AM
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Can I ask how it’s improved things like your appearance,self confidence, etc. I hear people say they’ve gotten good advice but what kinda annoys me is that it’s basic advice that everyone gives and attributing that to redpill doesn’t make sense to me. Also what things within the redpill make sense I’ve heard people talk about societal truths that they’ve learned from the redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:30 AM
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That’s where your wrong red pill doesn’t hold universal truths on how society works it only stands to prey on people who are hurt and want something to be angry at and they spill lies about knowing how the world truly works and these so called “truths”.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/25 06:15 AM
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Do u not view any men as regular human beings I mean I understand the crazy incel redpill dudes can be kinda crazy but not all dudes are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:06 AM
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Idk sounds like not the best relationship off the start now how you feel about the hookup he had when you two started dating is on you I can’t tell you how to feel but for me that wouldn’t fly. Personally if your having this many issues this early on just imagine when the actual big issues start coming up this should be the honey moon phase things should be much easier rn
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/25 05:29 AM

Oh yea dude I don’t blame young guys for falling into this I mean it’s really easy and manipulative especially to a younger audience luckily I never dove too deep in
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:23 PM

Oh dude ur 14 lemme help u now get off Reddit and do not give into this redpill manisphere anti feminism bs alright it’ll make ur life much better. I fell into the rabbit hole around the same age and I feel like such an idiot now that I’m older and my brain actually developed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:18 PM
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Buddy u are lost yes we are technically animals but we’re not fucking animals if your know what I mean. Your life is going to be negatively affected if you continue to worry and think about things like this dude. What’s even ur argument here what women want men that have good jobs and sexual value wow round of applause for Einstein yea everyone wants a partner with every positive attribute. But this is the real world with real people and real emotions people end up with random people you’d never…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:14 PM
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Lmao dudes a lame
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 11:39 PM
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U needed some random dude to tell u to go do something with ur life to actually do it in my opinion their just lame ass motivational speakers who also sell some crazy ideas about how women and men work as if it’s still 1560
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:59 AM
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I think that’s obvious of course a women’s presentation matters in attraction it matters with everyone how u present yourself will attract certain people if I went straight goth emo boy look rn I’d attract girls who are into that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:46 PM
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First off I think I said I did like the exercise part. Also this is not a redpill way of thinking that’s literally just being a normal functioning person you needed someone to tell u lifting weights eating good and asks hygiene was important no fucking shit. Those are basic good things for life but then I see a bunch of women hating false views on masculinity being thrown around by redpillers
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:45 PM
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Mainly the way redpill makes women seem and how dating should work for men and women also with the how guys shouldn’t show emotion is quite literally toxic masculinity and is adding to the men’s suicide rate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:43 PM
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Blue pill red pill literally sounds like it’s just left vs right but on a social and not political scale. We have a fade concept on equality mind to tell me the truth then. The pay gap isn’t only due to sexism I’ll admit there’s multiple variables in play but sexism is definitely something that exists and happens in the work place that affects women it’s something that’s just ingrained in us rn mentally that affects decision making kind of like racism I do believe it’ll slowly disappear since wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:42 PM
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Wdym by leftover women Prenup is up to the people in said relationship but I’m sure you know women don’t benefit from divorce as much as u think unless ur some literal 1 percent guy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:38 PM
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Alright for one at what point does a women’s past become to promiscuous and how does this devalue a women to you. The people who put women on a pedestal mostly are men and I don’t really know what that means like don’t open doors for them or something
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:38 PM
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What is it then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:35 PM
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U rather open up to the whole world then the one person who’s closest to you and your going to possibly share a family with make it make sense dude. Don’t take advice about women from fucking redpill dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:34 PM
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Isn’t rp mainly for guys who are struggling that’s like their whole thing if ur already a normal functioning guys then rp will just make u retarded fuck while for people struggling it just makes em worse in my opinion but maybe they take exercising and working hard that’s like the few good things I can agree on even tho it’s just basic information
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:34 PM
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Yea dude all the redpill guys are right while the majority of everyone else is dumb must feel good to feel like ur part a lil club that’s knows the “truth” while everyone’s been poisoned
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:32 PM
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Naw we still fucking we just ain’t got a girl rn two of us left a long term one so we chilling rn
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:30 PM
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First I bring up that example cuz they use it as a reason not to show emotion which is dumb cuz it’s an insane example that everyone knows is something u already shouldn’t do but u can’t use that as a reason to explain why not to show emotion and yes they do say that atleast the popular ones maybe the smaller guys don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:04 AM
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Wow women like tall funny rich guys and dudes like beautiful women that’s insane he’s like a modern day Plato or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:17 AM
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I mean hit me man idc
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 07:11 AM
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I never said that was all it was just one of the things I’ve heard. Please explain to me some sexual dynamics and educate me from the great godfather
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:30 AM
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I mean if it’s more centered and not at all about women hating or being purely materialistic and the whole she has to have a low body count thing might not be that bad. But if that’s true why even follow redpill getting your life together and getting in shape isn’t even a redpill thing they just adopted it from common sense that confuses me the most. The main redpill thing is kind of that whole incel guys and hating on women look that’s how everyone who isn’t redpill views them. Also I’m left le…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:17 AM
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If I don’t agree I’ll lyk I always love a hood back n forth on opposing views
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 06:14 AM
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Ight man tell me ur views lemme hear it I’ve heard some wild shit on Reddit
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 06:13 AM
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I’m a dude and in my early 20s and I can tell u I feel like Reddit dudes don’t exist when I go out in the real world sometimes Reddit makes me thing society is trash then I actually talk to people and I remember oh thank god it’s just Reddit
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 06:10 AM
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Cool u wanna talk about it I’ll watch the video u sent but I’m kinda watching something else rn so since u watched it maybe we can have a lil back and forth if ur down. One thing I will say is yea dating back then is nothing like it is now cuz women have more freedom which is a good thing in general for women I believe men are feeling hurt now cuz women have taken more “masculine roles” like being able to support themselves and in society it’s easier for women to have more masculine roles then i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:05 AM
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That’s the concept I’ve seen redpill dudes spit out when an opposing side says being emotional is ok they usually go with an extreme example. I have not yet seen a redpill dude say it’s ok to cry infront of your girl or something I would love to tho cuz that be great
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:02 AM
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That’s the dude they call the godfather of rp right
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:00 AM
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Yes I have so I hope ur gonna offer me up someone else lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:51 AM
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Alright what’s some things they talk about u find beneficial to men as a wholen
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:47 AM
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Again u wanna give me some of ur points u can argue for I won’t say it’s bad cause I am going off the most popular of redpill people so maybe there’s more niche ones I don’t know much about that have good views
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:40 AM
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Well that was an example man I also said not all of their advice is bad but the thing is their good advice isn’t something new that they made up
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:38 AM
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Yea I read it in a really bad way so just checking ur not insane
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 05:26 AM
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Alright that’s your opinion I don’t think I’ve stated anything wrong yet. Care to tell me the viewpoints u take from it list off a couple if you can. I quite literally took the things I said from popular redpill guys so maybe u just reside in a different sphere of the redpill that’s not as popular or I just haven’t heard of. I’ve seen tons of redpill stuff cuz it’s trendy rn so not hard to see stuff about it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:25 AM
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I highly recommend having female friends if u wanna talk about understanding the female mind. Also as a dude if a girl makes a comment about ur face I really hope all u do is verbal but guys have hard times controlling their emotions which they should work on. Also just cause everyone’s not a 10/10 doesn’t mean girls won’t get with u I’ve had a few very attractive girls by society standards and I’m a very average looking dude I got them by my personality. Also wouldn’t u rather have a girl that’…
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 05:24 AM
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Well what it an average hobby I mean a hobby is literally just something you enjoy doing. Also idk if it’s just dudes who found out now but having a good job is a good quality it’s nothing new nothing that was never direct everyone kind of knew that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:20 AM
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Yea it’s a scam but I will admit it’s a smart one shit I should’ve made a podcast preaching this stuff. It literally just sounds like how dudes would talk crazy about girls back in like highschool or something like oh oh u had sex ur damaged goods now like they gotta grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:19 AM
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Yea funny enough it’s a never ending loop and any girl that does respond to that stuff is the same shallow girls that’ll also feed into the stereotypes they believe in
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:18 AM
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Wait what did you mean when u said that I might’ve read it wrong
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 05:08 AM
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Usually what people feel or think isn’t always true especially when it’s redpill stuff feeding it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:45 AM
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I’d say at most workout u don’t have to be the hulk but good build and actually get some good style that suits u and hair is always a good thing to change when stuffs not working but surgery is crazy
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 04:44 AM
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Very true I mean if it’s between meth and redpill take the redpill. The funniest part is redpill is seen as like opening ur eyes to reality when I’m reality their just getting sucked into another lie for someone else’s monetary gain
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:37 AM
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Of course there’s tons of way to help yourself deal with ur emotions but a sure fire way to get a good result is opening up simply going out and doing fun stuff is great for the smaller problems in life but for real issues it’s more of a distraction
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:36 AM
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No I always see them take it to the extreme I wouldn’t have said that if they didn’t. But again that’s why I also say prob depends on which redpill dudes I usually just pick at the big guys like fresh n fit dudes. Yea by super emotional I mean like crying over everything not being good at controlling ur emotions with anger and that stuff. But that doesn’t mean don’t show emotion in troubling times it’s good for ur mental health to have a release.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:35 AM
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Bro ugly people have girlfriends have all the time everyone can find love. Sure if ur super ugly ur prob not gonna be dating the model or the 10 but looks isn’t what makes a relationship good
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 04:34 AM
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Bro women aren’t deciding if u get surgery u are it’s ur face man. Yea good hygiene is a basic thing also none of the stuff you put means a girls just gonna have sex with you. Honestly I’m not a hot dude but having sex or getting girls isn’t rocket science it may not always be easy but it doesn’t take surgery
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 04:33 AM
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Bro even then like that such a drastic thing to do if ur face isn’t like a 10. Like there’s tons of people who are short and not socially hot that are happy in relationships I’m not a fan of advocating for surgery just for this
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 04:31 AM
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Damn I guess all the short dudes I know and seen with girlfriends or who just get girls every now and then must secretly have huge dicks or something.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 04:30 AM
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Dude 80 percent of guys do not need face surgery unless like you got fucked up in an accident or you got a cleft lip you’ll be alright
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 04:23 AM
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I agree most men do recognize that redpill isn’t a good thing but there’s atleast a lil chunk of guys who’ve gotten sucked in so I hope to atleast help em see why some of the redpill stuff is more detrimental to their growth it’s way to materialistic for one example
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:16 AM
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Yo short dudes y’all don’t need face surgery this dudes insane gonna be honest.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 04:15 AM
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Lmao thanks I wouldn’t call it brave tho just speaking my mind on redpill stuff not a fan of it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:13 AM
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Real life will always be better dating apps is purely just based off being shallow and attractiveness. There’s people you could connect with crazy on person but y’all might miss each other over a dating app. Also only teens or 40plus where do u live man you prob live in like a area where people usually raise kids so that’s why it’s so drastic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:12 AM
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Well cause it’s the redpill and it goes with their way of thinking. I’m confused by what ur asking
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:05 AM
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I don’t at all think it’s extreme claim to say that. Also I think it’s really damaging and toxic how it frames a lot of what a relationship is around sex. I mean unless ur just tryna be single and hookup with shallow women then redpill is pretty good I mean yea get super rich and just fuck some girls that’s always been a truth in the world if ur a famous person sex is pretty easy to come by. What’s some redpill stuff you really like cause I won’t shame all of it but I think a lot of the “good re…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:04 AM
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Of course that’s not true most people still want monogamy. Of course there are people who are ok with open relationships but that’s definitely in the minority and for one sided open relationships that only really belongs to like the super high less than one percent of men who can. Most girls like monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:01 AM
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Idk what u men’s by consider acceptable could u tell me some really bad ways to open up to a partner. And of course it could vary women to women on how they take u opening up to them but most in my experience respond pretty well I think women take it better than men cuz they are very caring and men it’s a little tougher cuz guys don’t really talk about their emotions with their dudes friends which I think they should my group of dudes have become way closer since we’ve cried about our real probl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:00 AM
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Yea my conspiracy theory is that all these redpill icons don’t believe any of it and just do it for the money cuz it’s an easy target audience. I don’t even think it’s that crazy of a conspiracy cuz people do stuff for money all the time and at this point none of them are probably gonna go back on their word they make crazy money doing this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:58 AM
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Well idk the facts but if I were to guess on that it’s kinda like how lions kill the cubs that aren’t there’s so maybe we don’t feel as prone to compassion when it’s not our kids cuz if that but that’s just a guess based off other animals. But it could also come from that “motherly instinct” some women have where they just like babies I mean it’s like puppies they are pretty cute but some women hate kids too so it just kinda depends but it doesn’t really help with the women don’t care about pers…
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 03:55 AM
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When people say just be yourself i always felt it was implied like hey obviously don’t be a bum
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:52 AM
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Lmao true. Also men are hella emotional I mean most violent crime is cuz of us we just show most of our emotion differently then women typically do. However when I say emotional it’s not like whine all the time about how u stubbed ur toe or something it’s about legitimately being able to open up when it’s needed when u feel depressed or something bad just happened in ur life or there’s a problem that’s been itching at you and you haven’t told anyone these are actual important things men need to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:14 AM
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Yea I bet if u see only redpill anecdotal stuff and their stats it’ll disagree with me but most dudes aren’t redpill cuz they know it’s kind of a trap and it’s definitely not gonna help in women liking them if their redpill. Girls hate that shit bruh. You can try and tell me what my own girl thought of me but I’m pretty sure I’d know better than u man. You can’t just say oh u can’t win this argument it’s over I won. It’s a toxic way of thinking and it’ll only hurt men and increase the suicide ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:11 AM
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I’m not white knighting I’m just saying the truth I mean all women aren’t this evil person u think they are I didn’t open up for a long time because I didn’t want people to think less of me that’s only more damaging for my own mental health. Girlfriends I’ve had haven’t loss respect it just allowed to get closer. Some bad people yea might ridicule u or lose respect for u but those are just emotionally inept people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:05 AM
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I wouldn’t compare that to stoicism since it’s literally definition is taking like pain and hardships without showing emotion you should be able to show emotion as a man to people when things get tough that’s why men’s mental health is so bad took me a lot to start opening up because I think it’s so ingrained in society for men to be this tough rock all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:01 AM
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Lmao good one man. But fr women will listen to ur emotions same with men if anyone critiques u for that then their just bad person u might have some bad experiences with it but don’t allow that to dictate how u open up to people cuz that can be more harmful to u in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:00 AM
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I made another comment about emotions for example like I see a lot of don’t be emotional with ur girl or whatever but I think they take it to the extreme sometimes like yes don’t be super emotional no one likes that but being emotional doesn’t mean crying at everything it means just being able to open up to people u trust when u need it and allowing people into that side of ur life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:59 AM
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Well that part that I mentioned isn’t even a redpill idea it’s a normal thing that always existed I mean mostly everyone would agree getting ur finances in order and exercising are good if I create a yellow pill and say murder is bad don’t kill people and to be a good father not be abusive you shouldn’t follow my ideology it’s just a normal good thing to believe in. Appreciate the godspeed thing people gotta bring that back
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:57 AM
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Dude girls will not lose respect for you cause you let yourself open up emotionally. Maybe some demon will but normal people will accept ur emotions and even comfort you. I’ve cried infront of girls before and they’ve never lost a level of respect for me if anything it grew us closer cause that kind of level of opening up allows you guys to become more bonded
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:50 AM
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I wouldn’t even use the word emotional cause no one likes an emotional person but someone can show their emotions especially to their partner when they need support is a better alternative I mean why else are men so prone to suicide today cause we suck at opening up. One of the most important parts of a relationship is being able to communicate ur feelings to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:46 AM
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It depends on what level of redpill your talking about I’ve seen a few different takes but it seems like there’s different sides on that spectrum. I’d say women probably don’t like the fresh and fit type of redpill because it kind of demonizes women and makes them seem as second class or an assistant to their man. Specifically I’ve seen a talking point saying something like women don’t want their woman to show emotion when I believe that to pretty false women usually want their guy to show a vul…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:36 AM
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Dude men love babies too. I mean it’s literally ur child why would u not love them. Also babies are made to look cute to people so ur more inclined to take care of them as well.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 02:33 AM
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Dude single guys aren’t staying at home in isolation that’s just incels most normal single dudes do go outside almost my whole guy friend group is single rn and we don’t whine in isolation we go aye let’s hit the club or let’s go play ball. I think the isolated guys should try socializing more it’s a tough thing to do for introverts but it’s an important part of a happy life unless u wanna be a hermit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:21 AM
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What a sad way to see the world and a sad way to live man I hope u get passed this at some point. I literally see people of all levels with partners at my college. A relationship is more than just being the hottest person in that category you can find someone cute and find them even more attractive after getting to know them has happened to me with tons of girls who I wouldn’t have rated a straight 10 at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:20 AM
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I agree but I mean don’t u ever want that sweet sweet candy cane lollipop. If a girl ever told me that I’d probably also want a restraining order but it be funny af
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:48 AM
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It’s Ight bro women love this line of thinking.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 04:33 AM
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No one’s saying that bro but you know who’s not gonna fuck any girls dudes thinking like this girls are cringing at this and so are dudes come on bruh y’all are making us dudes look so trash boohoo ur ugly deal with it
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 03:37 AM
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Bro grow up one day. No one is surprised that hot girls fuck hot dudes. I’ve fucked hot girls but I’m not hot af lots of people have and I used to think in highschool I don’t think I can get hot girls and I surprised myself a lot with how much personality gets u through. I would recommend actually spending time and talking to women not trying to fuck them or anything just legitimately talk to women and have them as friends to see how they think as well and I’d say the same to women cause I think…
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 03:36 AM
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In Asian countries there’s also that whole fair skin thing which is pretty racist in itself and white people do technically have fair skin so it’s ingrained into some peoples minds
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 03:05 AM
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Dude ur theory is kinda racist sounding not saying ur racist just like don’t think white people are better man it’s not a master race. There could be a large reason for it one of them probably does have to do with the worlds history on how white people kikds colonized a lot of it so some people might see them as better just because that’s how they tried to make it look with ya know racism and shit. The last thing is it though is the stuff you stated I mean the looks part could be an opinion thin…
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 03:04 AM
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There prob about the same I mean women and men don’t like the friend zone but realistically it’s not the worse thing like hey atleast someone likes ur personality if they don’t like ur looks that’s just personal preference find someone who likes both. Plus idk how you’d even be able to quantify that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:59 AM
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I mean yea unless ur super hot girls aren’t really gonna approach u I’ve approached girls and have had good and bad results that’s how dating works. Don’t whine about chads bro just makes u look even sadder. Boohoo ur ugly or average looking so is almost everyone else
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 09:36 PM
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The biggest issue with people here is they believe someone’s like either blue pill or red pill like you could just be a normal person not thrown under some made up shit and talk to girls yea be nice to everyone don’t be a doormat. If your upset your not getting any than aye man that’s tough happens to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:32 PM
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Dude no one says be a doormat and first thing u gotta do is quit with the redpill this blue pill this stuff no girl is getting wet over that. Also I don’t like any of this redpill stuff and I gotta say I get denied all the time it happens just cause ur nice to a girl or do certain things for her doesn’t mean she’ll magically like you some people connect better than other people I’ve talked to girls where nothing was wrong with them but I still didn’t date them not because their ugly or something…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:30 PM
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Aye let people become losers more girls for me
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 10:15 PM
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Yea Ima say that could be one of the reasons but porn not the main cuz I’m a guy who’s cool with just one girl in a relationship and I never considered laziness to be one of them like yea it be a lot of work but I also just don’t want multiple girls
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:47 PM

So ur completely incapable of finding someone who wants to be with you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:46 PM
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I’m a lil lost sorry laziness is the reason guys just want one girl instead of more?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:41 PM

damn im so sorry i assumed u didnt wanna live alone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:40 PM

Aye Jesus ain’t gon help ya here bro I mean the basic advice sucks but that’s all there is you can live like that or keep trying only options people really got
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:36 PM

Maybe work on ur social skills and talk to more women to get more comfortable with it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:27 PM
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Yea I agree the guys strength can be more physical in that situation while yours would be defusing which is a great balance like you said I want to walk on the street side not cause of some macho man thing but cause I want to protect the girl I’m with same way if I was drunk and spewing dumb stuff I’d hope my girl would tell me to shut up and drive me home before I got into a fight or something. But yea I’m not even a violent person I’d prob call the cops first
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:24 PM
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I’m gonna be responding to ur last paragraph. To the part directed towards the blue pillers. But I don’t see how that is something you’d want personally atleast if both parties are happy with that dynamic sure but I want a wife a partner a best friend I don’t want a child to raise and teach. I know it was just an example like a metaphor but I’ve talked to a good amount of red pill dudes and they see it like that where their kind of the authority I guess and want to be respected and basically not…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:54 PM
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What’s the explanation for the men who are cool with one girl instead of a harem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:34 PM
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I feel like the explanation is some people are fucking insane maybe. I don’t think there’s much discussion everyone can agree on that. I don’t think there’s some deeper meaning and I wouldn’t like to see this tragedy used as something to push some redpillers points on why all women do blah blah blah.
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 05:16 PM

That’s why I come to Reddit every now and then to tell guys that women aren’t the devil and to actually talk to em. Besides that if they wanna be tricked and live that life i don’t care enough to try and stop them I got enough problems me coming here while I’m bored at work is me saving my fellow man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:14 PM
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Men aren’t valued for their beauty as much and I don’t think we should value anyone over some basic shallow trait or thing they have but for men it’s probably net worth like how successful you are in your career that part is pretty highly valued by most people and I mean makes sense good job good money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:39 PM
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I don’t think people will get shamed too hard like they’ll definitely get a comment every now and then if it’s not a big secret that she does sex work. To me it’s whatever I might be surprised that ur with a sex worker cuz it’s not something I’d do but I wouldn’t really care it’s ur relationship not like the person ur with is the devil cause of sex work
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:38 PM

Yea we been knew this. For me idc cause if ur gonna get tricked than might as well learn from ur mistakes and not let it happen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:35 PM
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I’ve been called blue pill so I think I can say naw that’s not what it means. Most people I think who are blue pill wouldn’t even call themselves blue pill. Cause most of the so called blue pill people are normal people who thing the whole pill conversation and debate is dumb atleast that’s what I think. Every time I hear pill this or that I cringe a bit but that’s the word we use for this shit now I guess
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 02:32 PM
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Bro I don’t know what blast from the past is we don’t got basements where I live and I live on my own so good attempt but let’s try again cuz I want one that’ll make more sense to the situation atleast. Hope I ain’t hurt ur feelings too much alpha man by making fun of this post
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 02:30 PM
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Tell me you’ve never met a women without telling me you’ve never met a women
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 07:53 PM
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Yea I agree with certain funny things feminist will use in arguments like that I myself would say I’m feminist enough where I’ll care about any good causes I see towards women but I don’t be happy with the negative aspects I see. However I would say remember that it’s Reddit someone saying some sly comment to get u mad is just something anyone on Reddit would do
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 07:53 PM
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Well like u said it depends on the individual so u can’t really ask what do men think of a virgin the answers gonna vary pretty heavily I feel like. I think most wouldn’t think much of it really doesn’t change too much. I personally don’t think anything of it if anything I might just think oh that’s surprising or something since I feel it would be hard to be a virgin with temptation and everything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:35 PM
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How sad are you that ur upset over someone’s happiness
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 02:43 PM
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You’d have to be pretty dumb if u think they would work yea I don’t think anyone of out right do that but when u have that mentality little aspects will creep out in how u treat someone I mean I’ve had wild conversations where some dudes genuinely want to own the woman and have a slave basically. Some of them don’t understand that women also like to live lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:12 PM
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Yea I could believe that and the whole alpha thing doesn’t really work unless ur that ultra attractive frat guy kind of dude which a lot of women don’t even like. Yea their hot but again if their insufferable it doesn’t really matter
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:06 PM
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Lmao well I hope not that be pretty out of pocket
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:05 PM
1

True I mean even I complain about dating not to the extent like it is here but that shits tough man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:52 PM
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Will they improve is different but aye can’t control how ur born if u are uglier than all u can do is work with what u got and try and better yourself by saying aye ur ugly unfortunately could just discourage them and keep ‘em in that incel state I don’t want dudes chilling in that sad lonely place only raises male suicide rates in my head
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:51 PM
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I agree most people can make it work by improving themselves but getting rid of this toxic mentality is part of improving one’s self I hear a lot of wild shit about women and then they complain why they don’t get sex or dates and it’s like well if I was with a girl and she’s spewing that men are trash and useless and blah blah I wouldn’t wanna be with her even if she was a 10
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:48 PM
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Naw don’t say that you’ll only validate all the red pill and incel dudes every guy has a chance same with ugly girls they all deserve love but just gotta work a lil harder
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:46 PM
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Guess the chemistry just wasn’t both ways it’s hard to find something real I mean think about it what are the chances you come across someone u find attractive and love their personality and that person feels the same way towards you like it’s pretty hard and that’s what keeps a real relationship strong
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:45 PM
2

Basically it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:44 PM

Yea that’s what I mean by growing up you put it in nicer words though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:37 PM

Yea I get it their sexually frustrated and wanna take that anger out but eventually they gotta grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:11 PM

I’m not happily married but I’ve been told I push that blue pill shit I just say what I believe is true and try to get people off this negative and weird mindset like hey I’m literally a single average looking dude like most guys here but I don’t hate women or think this or that about the dating world cause most of what’s said is just not true on here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:03 PM
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Yea some people naturally just have desirable traits man outside of looks like the dude who likes sports and being social will get more girls than the guy who likes dnd and is an introvert. What self improvement means is improving all aspects of yourself it doesn’t mean go play sports u don’t have to just first take care of yourself physically and mentally and become a more well rounded human being with emotional intelligence and a better body because u take care of it. It also never hurts to tr…
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 06:52 PM
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Dude stop hating women so much first to what it’s a trend there used to be a trend of eating those tide pods dumb things become trends man
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 06:48 PM
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On god I’m black but I’m more than just a big dick tired of this objectification of black men. That’s half joke half truth tho this is funny to me cuz it’s always those damn black bbc dudes like damn bruh we got lives outside of our genitals
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 06:48 PM
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Either way yea it doesn’t stop the pattern from happening to some people and to those people honestly pick better that’s what ima say it’s the same when women get finessed basically and are married and have kids with some trashy dude it’s like why would u ever do that and then u realize people are people and we make mistakes and are sometimes misguided
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 05:22 PM
1

Which point were I referring to the sexless marriage or cheating
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 05:21 PM
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I don’t really have any relevant but we can do cheating since that’s a popular one personally I would most likely just end it if cheating occurred I don’t have much patience for something like that. Sexless marriage is interesting I had someone argue women get into a marriage and then after a year they will stop giving sex which to me sounds like the guy somehow got finessed into a marriage like that I personally wouldn’t have gotten into one like that cause I feel I’d know if my wife wants to h…
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 05:19 PM
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He’s probably just a cool guy I mean this is where personality matters it’s not that it’s an anomaly it’s that he’s prob just a cool guy and with basic looks those increase as someone likes who you are more. Plus the tats prob do help some people find tats attractive. I’d say I’m a pretty average looking guy too I don’t have tats but I’m 6’1 so that helps my looks have never made me super popular with the girls it was mostly my jokes that did me a favor
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 05:17 PM
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Well I wouldn’t ever want to force a woman or anyone to do what I want. First let’s choose one of the options you listed or I could just answer how I’d tackle all of em whichever u choose
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 05:15 PM
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So u just find women hotter than men it means ur straight. I never know what looks good in guys sometimes I mean there’s the basic societal look when it’s obvious but I’ve seen some girls find certain guys attractive where I just didn’t get it but then again I’m straight so maybe it’s just something I don’t notice. However I think ur allowing looks to play too big of a role of course they matter but these average men get married or whatever all the time so obviously there’s other characteristics…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:14 PM
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I wouldn’t say so exactly. It’s not like oh no one in my race wanted me so here I am it’s probably more like hey I like this guy and would u look at that he’s from a different race. It be weird to only date in ur race and then be like oh they don’t like me and switch most people just have a wide range of tastes it’s not about oh that persons not the cream of the crop for this race .
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 05:10 PM
1

Well yea of course your gonna disagree on something is there a point with this I’m a bit confused
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 05:09 PM
1

I mean I lied the first time I had sex I’m not even with that girl anymore and it’s had no impact on my life at all I say if u don’t feel comfortable sharing that information or u wanted to seem like u weren’t a newbie like me than just lie it’s not a devastating lie I think atleast and it’s something so insignificant that it shouldn’t matter at all but if it does to someone then maybe they already weren’t right for u but if u like em then sure lie say you’ve had sex there’s no way they’d actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:08 PM
1

Like with my partner?
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 05:06 PM
1

Yea I get it I mean I’m a feminist in terms of like I’m all for equal rights but aye I’ll make the women are bad at driving joke when my friend hits the curb it just depends the context and who I say it infront of. I wouldn’t make the day joke at a feminist rally or something that be me asking for issues
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 04:53 PM
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I don’t have any power plans because that’s Not how u enter a relationship this isn’t a chess match on who can gain more power and who has the best strategy this is a relationship where we should be equals. I shouldn’t have to have leverage to get my partner to comply I should just be able to have a genuine conversation
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 04:46 PM
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Dude it’s just music are girls not allowed to like rap. Plus I think I’m the trends ur talking about yea TikTok can be cringy sometimes but it’s just a trend people do em
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 04:45 PM
1

Aye I always said make racist jokes about everyone for equality. I think u can crack jokes about anything it’s just knowing the space ur in some people might find that joke offensive and rude and think ur a bad person while others might know ur just joking and think it’s funny. There are some shit that’s just like racist and not funny but that’s why it’s like don’t say the joke unless it’s kinda funny atleast
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 04:39 PM
1

Boohoo u don’t wanna have a talk now cause I didn’t fully read ur Reddit post about women in society. I don’t have a lack of reading comprehension and yea my attention span gonna be short when ur spewing the same thing everyone here does just way longer
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 03:25 PM
1

So u think ur wife shouldn’t have rights
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 03:24 PM
1

So u are trolling
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 03:09 PM
1

So u don’t care about anything I said as well I guess we’re even. But naw I read like 70 percent and skimmed the rest I got the jist man and if people say ur red pill or whatever it’s prob cause that’s how ur coming off man
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 03:08 PM
2

Well it’s probably the same reason why white jokes don’t feel as racist as black jokes. Personally I believe a don’t be racist to anyone thing I mean jokes are cool and all that stuff. But I understand that white jokes aren’t as racist I guess as black jokes due to previous history and it’s prob just the same with the women and men stuff is it completely right and just no but it’s how it’s gonna be for a while so don’t stress it’s just a post that got taken down doesn’t matter too much
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 03:08 PM
2

Naw I’m not jealous I mean maybe a little when I see someone making crazy money I might think damn wish I made that much but that’s pretty normal. It’s just sex work I mean I’m not particularly super supportive or sex work I just don’t care I’m neutral my personal values and beliefs mean nothing to how someone else makes their money
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 03:05 PM
1

Alright read most of it got the jist. Basically bro stop caring so much. What’s the point of whining and complaining about some women. These aren’t all women there are some bad girl and hey ur gonna get played in a relationship u might even get cheated on is the girl a shitty person yes but becoming red pill or incel because ur girl cheated on u is stupid. Also I would say there’s more guys who don’t think the whole pill thing than guys who do cause most people can recognize the differences in h…
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 03:03 PM
1

Dude if ur trolling then alright then it’s not funny but whatever. If ur serious then bro honestly go get a life man this is kinda sad
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 02:38 PM
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I mean u get ugly dudes and midgets getting laid too I mean it’s gonna happen it’s not impossible plus a lot of guys don’t have much standards and will just fuck to fuck. I mean I thought another black pill complaint was all the bum ass dudes who get girlfriends and not the nice guys
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 02:37 PM
1

Whether I agree with how they made their money or not I shouldn’t care cuz it does absolutely nothing but piss me off. I mean whether I care or not these people will continue making money so why waste a second of my time being mad about it
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 02:33 PM
-1

What is ur point ?
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 02:31 PM
3

What’s your point it’s almost like ur saying they only dated interracial cause they couldn’t date within their race
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 02:30 PM
1

I mean I don’t like that u said these perfectly normal dudes are with average women why bullies and thugs get the hot chicks. Like what are we suppose to say fuck these so called average women maybe these guys actually like these girls and think they look great and have a good personality my issue is too many people are so obsessed with looks like it’s not even about u being attracted to the person ur with it’s about having the person ur with be attractive to like everyone. I think the issue wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:27 PM
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You’d be surprised how many experienced dudes are bad at sex too tho lmao. I mean there’s some girls who will say I don’t have to time to teach blah blah but then sucks for them I mean there not gonna enjoy shit with u. Most girls atleast that I knew also want to enjoy it so no one has an issue just talking about likes and dislikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:21 PM
1

Just wondering. I personally think you don’t have to do that but if u want to idgaf it’s not my life
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 10:05 PM
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I think that’s something you could work on you could never truly understand everything a man does cause ur a woman and I could never truly understand everything about ur life cause I’m a man and your a woman ya get me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:02 PM
1

She was a really hot Brazilian girl he was a chubby doctor
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 10:00 PM
1

Funny enough that’s the same country I saw a girl do something similar with a guy here
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 10:00 PM
1

Huh what country
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 09:58 PM
3

Not even a pick me even more redpill than some dudes on here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:58 PM
1

What things do the girls have here
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 09:48 PM
1

I don’t really care about women who don’t want kids or wanna be single I mean my own personal views that seems like a sad life but then again those are my own person views on how I want to live my life I don’t care what someone else does. There is a community on Reddit all about preaching not having children though those guys are weird it’s cool to do whatever u want just don’t shove it down other peoples throat
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:45 PM
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Yea but I don’t actually believe u tbh cuz no woman would talk like that about their own gender I mean not even a guy would talk about their own gender like that so you yourself are this demon of a person you’ve described to me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:42 PM
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You have a very misguided view on women man and thanks for appreciating the cool story I hope u understood that it meant not everything revolves around looks. Also so does this mean that in this 90 percent of men that women wouldn’t be attracted to that not a single one of them have a girl that thinks their attractive at all really that’s the truth. Dude I am not hot at all like I’m not whatever the chad description is and I’ve had girls find me attractive isn’t that crazy that people can just f…
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 09:41 PM
1

Damn so once they step foot it’s instant huh
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 09:32 PM
1

Not everyone is the same man
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 09:31 PM
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That’s fair I mean as a women physically ur at more risk than I would be and I’m at a lower risk of a man just trying to rape me or something. So it’s understandable it’s a privilege we have and I’m sorry that’s not something you’d be able to experience cause there are bad people in the world guys have their own limitations as well but not similarly to that one’s. Maybe I act a bit differently like more guy like I guess like I’ll be more stupid maybe is the word I can joke and say whatever I wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:31 PM
4

Do you think all women think the same and there all out trying to get u
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:27 PM
1

Experience like ur married to a foreign girl
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 09:26 PM
-1

Sounds sad and lonely
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 09:25 PM
2

For sure but we gotta remember it’s Reddit I mean Reddit itself is a cesspool of the worst of the worst but it’s fun sometimes so we keep it around
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:23 PM
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For men who do act like that I would say they prob do it off hope that things will change but that’s delusional and they gotta get real
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:22 PM
3

Yea dick has a mind of its own
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:22 PM
9

Yea naw
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:45 PM
-4

Before plastic surgery let’s try working out and hygiene for the basic stuff and then improving ourselves as a person in general there’s lots of different things that could mean like hobbies or opening yourself up to different things and emotional intelligence
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 08:44 PM
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Well the point is being ok with how u want to be as a man or women u don’t have to follow norms or traditional stuff I guess but if u do that’s ok too some people are against that while some aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:40 PM
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Yea Man U have fun with ur sex doll I like women a lil better. I don’t think it’s right to group all women under together with the same type of thinning I mean a lot of women don’t care that much about height looks or race. The looks part more care than others cause duh u want to be attracted to ur partner but attraction is different for a lot of people
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 08:39 PM
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I’m interested in what men do that causes a women’s behavior like what situations I haven’t heard that one too much. Also I think loyalty in general for some people have been tricky and that’s mostly due to the college age life where it’s just a bunch of kids basically emotionally unintelligent horny and given freedom they didn’t have before. I think the depression thing does come from how men are perceived about their feelings as tough and shit and not letting things hit them as hard as women I…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:37 PM
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I completely agree people think way too much about sex here and that’s the biggest issue on both sides if anything. I mean a relationship is way more than sex I can have sex with anyone a relationship is something with way more value
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:32 PM
7

What are some unreasonable demands your thinking of
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:28 PM
2

Lucky not as much fun with just dick and balls lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:28 PM
0

I completely agree and say the same thing to guys and girls all the time like hey some guys are pieces of shit some girls are you know why cause people can be bad people it’s not about gender or race just people can be shitty sometimes but the majority of them aren’t and not every person will think the same on certain subjects so don’t group everyone under one ideology that they might not even hold just cause u agree with a different point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:24 PM
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I myself don’t just want any women I see a lot of guys thinking too much about attraction and sex but please remember this is a specific subreddit filled with individuals who think like that and that the majority of men are not the same as the minority of men who think like that everyone group has bad and good let’s just not think everyone’s the same and it’s the same with women. Also not really my genitals don’t get in the way I think it’s kind of like how you can technically always see ur nose…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:23 PM
1

Yea I’ve been with a few foreign girls it wasn’t any easier or whatever than any other girl I mean as long as ur someone they find attractive and someone they like to hang out with it’s the same exact thing and attraction can be different for plenty of people.
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 08:19 PM
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Yea I can see how sometimes the media does make it out to seem that we’re out to get men and I’m a feminist myself and sometimes I am ridiculed a little for my gender and sometimes I see things I don’t agree with that make me feel bad about myself even if I’m nothing like some of the men they talk about so I think it’s more of a media game trying to rile people up they never show genders getting along like they actually do in normal everyday life. I think the high maintenance thing has to do wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:17 PM
2

So the solution is go where competition I guess I a little more fair for you. I mean there’s plenty of women who don’t really care if your not 6 foot most I’ve heard is atleast taller than them I’ve also heard some women say they can be short too and they wouldn’t care but if u have better luck somewhere else I mean sure just careful for the green card trap
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 08:14 PM
2

Wdym care to expand
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:09 PM
1

Personally atleast I know I can and would definitely just want to be with one woman if I could but I will admit the college fun of having a lot of pretty girls around can be tempting but most guys grow out of that same with girls I assume I mean a bunch of high schoolers are now given freedom alcohol and drugs in college their probably gonna cheat a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:09 PM
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Will people be less ugly and short to a foreign girl ?
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 08:07 PM
2

Is there something wrong with wanting more equality between women and men while also wanting a traditionally masculine man? Of course some feminist don’t want that but not all feminist think the same
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:05 PM
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Ight I’ll respond to everything you just said but first man if ur gonna think like that then ur fucked and ur gonna die alone if that’s the truth for you then fine but u will probably die alone and I don’t want that for anyone so please hear my following points. Alright yea dudes will fuck almost anything we’re horn dogs man we all know this. Also bro women wouldn’t touch 90 percent of men that is not at all true if that was true then shit ur telling me all the dudes I know are within that perfe…
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 07:50 PM
0

Yea I mean I get it and I’m not even too mad at people in this situation I mean most likely they’ve been isolated lonely and mostly rejected from society probably cause they weren’t as good looking or they have bad social skills so they ended up online a lot found a bunch of people like them and now their not as alone. I get how they ended up here and once u got all these people saying certain things about this is why we’re like this you start believing it and now ur stuck in a echo chamber and …
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 07:42 PM
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Ight so u don’t want a pretty girl. One of these crazy standards is wanting ur partner to look good to you. How is that a crazy standard. Your saying 90 percent of men don’t fit that people are attracted to different people of course there’s the “hot” people who are generally attractive to everyone. Also not every gives af about how tall u are most just want a guy taller then them and if u are short some girls still don’t give af yea u might have a harder time but that’s the hand you’ve been dea…
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 07:20 PM
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Yea I just hang around and try and get dudes to know women aren’t some unknown creatures. Good time waster when I’m at work
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 07:17 PM
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Had me in the first half ngl. I agree idk what these crazy standards are that people talk about I mean doesn’t everyone just want someone right for them if it was easy everyone would have a partner people need to hop off Reddit and go talk to actual real people not in a sub
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 06:53 PM
1

Dude maybe understand that ur just a person and don’t label yourself sub 5 like ok ur ugly that’s fine Man U can still talk to people no one’s going oh u can’t speak to me ur a sub 5 like sure u might get rejected but don’t even talk to people just to date like genuinely just have more conversation with guys and girls to improve some social skills and understand what girls are actually like instead of some dude in a sub telling u how they think
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 06:52 PM
1

Dude dating apps suck it’s texting trying to start an actual relationship like that is extremely difficult. Try actually talking to people in person that’s wha ti men’s poor social skills if ur only using online apps
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 06:27 PM
3

Dude idek what blue pill is how many of these pill things are there. Also forged in fire impurities burnt away is super dramatic man. Run the gauntlet wtf are you talking about it’s not simping say hey guys girls aren’t demons we don’t have to be afraid of them
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 04:23 PM
2

Yea some women just age better same for men and everyone’s looks fade a bit as they age but gotta appreciate the age like a fine wine
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:00 PM
-1

Dude what’s with this thing in the redpill or incel subs where all women just have the intent to use u for something you know people can just like each other in relationships right like this ain’t always a business transaction
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 03:25 PM
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Yea no most men aren’t thinking women age out by 25 dudes love milfs. It’s just some sad red pill incel dudes that just wanna hate on women don’t worry about age cuz no one really cares about how old you are as long as you look good and your a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 03:24 PM
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I’ll will say that happens but extremely rarely probably. Rejected normally yea that part happens more I’d believe that cause it’s normal and part of dating life. For the most part that shits not gonna happen if u approach people like a normal person or are just interacting in social environment with people like not even dating just talking to people of the opposite sex would do so many people in this sub some good I mean I’m currently single and haven’t found anyone rn but I know it’s not cause…
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 03:03 PM
3

Why do people always only blame attraction for the guy side I feel like the biggest problem is probably people just not interacting enough so they get poor social skills and spend too much time online like Reddit
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 02:56 PM
-2

Why are dudes single then
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 02:53 PM
1

Damn so poetic
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 02:43 PM
5

Well I’m not a super attractive dude and none of the girlfriend I ever had was really talking shit and complaining they were a lot nicer than that it could be possible that they just actually liked me cause their regular human beings who aren’t gonna treat me like trash for no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:42 PM
4

I mean there’s not enough girls that look like Ana de armas but that doesn’t mean I’m settling or anything like that makes no sense. Oh theres not enough super attractive people like no shit super attractive people are rare mostly everyone is average looking that’s why it’s average
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:31 PM
5

Then why are there average looking guys in relationships at all do all of these guys just have girlfriends that took pity on them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:25 PM
2

Bro ur using Reddit for evidence is already a bad sign. Also using tinder is even worse tinder is not a good app to prove how our dating world is if ur using tinder it’s already gonna be tough unless ur super hot I mean tons of people especially guys are terrible with profiles I myself have seen guys profiles with my female friend on tinder and yea we suck at this but actually meeting people in person is way different
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:24 PM
0

I’d say if ur ugly it’s harder to get sex than a relationship cause meaningless sex is just about looks and that ur horny while a relationship take into account everything about u. Also no their not all about looks it’s only a part of relationships. Personality means the world when ur fucking ugly dude cause it’s all u got left at that point then and you’ll see the common ugly dudes with girlfriends why cause they probably weren’t whining and moaning in a subreddit about looks mattering too much…
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 07:58 PM
1

Dude who tf are u talking about who are these women and why haven’t I met them like u have I’m so sorry in whatever country u live in that women treat u like that but in America a good majority don’t act like that. I mean if what u said is true than relationships would’ve fucking sucked but thankfully it’s not at all true and when I would tell my girlfriend hey I’m going to do this or that hobby she would just say ok cool have fun instead of saying I’m wasting my time cause it doesn’t benefit he…
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 07:41 PM
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Naw looks make u attractive but so does personality. Not everyone here thinks the same so I didn’t mean to offend u. But I just think the ideaology is fun to look at but not practical at all and only causes more harm cause now all these dudes think relationships are all about looks and if they don’t look good there done for and will have to resort to these subreddit and hating on women. I mean if all u care about is sex then yea u better be hot good luck if ur ugly and trying to only have sex
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 07:38 PM
1

I’m so lost by this comment if I like hiking I better have a truck to take her out how tf do these two things correlate
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 07:36 PM
1

Dude what. First what’s the gay like for like I don’t even get how it correlates here. Also maybe women don’t desire you much but don’t generalize it to all men. Women want men to desire them yea probably everyone wants to be desired in some way. Also sex is not even good for men wtf are you talking about and we don’t get much in return how does that make any sense.
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 07:35 PM
0

Well in my own experience man a good woman won’t give a fuck if ur hobby that brings u joy doesn’t make money yea if u spend all ur time only on that one thing like video games anyone wouldn’t like that shit. There’s balance to everything. No girls ever asked me for my hobbies and then said damn where’s the value though where’s the cash money like if I say I like hiking it’s cause I like hiking not cause I’m tryna make money ur thinking way to much on superficial things and letting them hold too…
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 07:21 PM
1

Holy shit dude just don’t date women. It’s definitely some that’s worth it I mean a partner best friend for life is pretty nice and in my good relationships I’ve very much enjoyed them. I might’ve been wrong but I thought those girls desired me when we dated I mean people usually do when they date bro. Bro women don’t get all the benefits if u date a girl and pay for everything and listen to her every command that’s on u. I’ve gotten with cute girls I wasn’t providing a ton to her while she did …
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 07:15 PM
3

That’s a good one but I’d probably try and keep it away from them as long as I can until like middle or highschool cause I can’t do anything once they get there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:07 PM
6

With body counts u chose to make those decisions so it’s a bit different
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:06 PM
2

Well ur born that way so it doesn’t work the same
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:05 PM
13

Naw height definitely does matter not as much as these dudes think it does though but I wouldn’t deny that more women prefer a taller man or atleast a man taller than they are
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:05 PM
-5

They willing to do anything at this point
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 07:04 PM
0

Dude guys can do hobbies too lmao I’ve never heard this point before so please help explain some more cause I just don’t see how that makes sense
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 07:03 PM
-1

Same here I don’t believe none of it I honestly think it’s nonsense and people have been brainwashed in an constant echo chamber but it’s pretty interesting ideaology to me cause I’m really into psychology and it’s good look into what isolation can do to people
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 06:03 PM
0

U holding us back bro
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:00 PM
6

Damn bro so men being themselves is ugly but if girls do it it’s cool
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:00 PM
-5

I hope incel tears doesn’t take this sub down or something because I enjoy wasting time here at work cause bro the way some of y’all think is hilarious to me like I agree with almost no one here usually but I also don’t just wanna shit on incels cause I do feel bad for em a bit but half the time they do it to themselves with the overly hating women thing like most people don’t take well to that. But even the term chads kinda dumb like it just means an attractive dude that people are jealous of c…
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 05:51 PM
6

I think the problem with the typical red pillers is that they literally see the dating world only about sex and looks and makes it very superficial I don’t believe in this pill shit but I literally just be myself and it works well enough sometimes. If ur just trying to have meaningless sex then yea market yourself but for an actual relationship typically being yourself works best in finding someone genuine obviously also try your best to better yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:38 PM
1

Saying attractive women get attention does not disprove me saying average looking dude can get with attractive girls looks aren’t the only thing that matters yea your girlfriend or boyfriend will probably have to think ur atleast somewhat attractive to date you and that plus with ur personality will make that person even more attractive to you and bam now ur an average looking dude with a better looking girl. I don’t see the point in whining about girls getting attention I mean guys are the ones…
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 04:49 PM
1

Lmao naw bruh I ain’t ever have to do that one I’m not into ghetto girls too much
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 04:27 PM
1

Well I can definitely say the world doesn’t work the way u think it does man if anytime u see a average dude with a girlfriend u think it’s because of money or status there’s something wrong
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 04:10 PM
1

Dude did u also know that the sun is hot like no shit attractive women will have hundreds of options what does have to do with anything
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 03:58 PM
-1

Oh yes but u do know I’m sure you speak only the truth. It’s not that I know this is literally just something most people know like I didn’t make this up this is how most people outside of these Reddit subs think
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 03:48 PM
-1

Hell I could say the same too all the experiences I’m sure you’ve had to bring you to this conclusion. But it’s also just logical to know that you can be average looking even “ugly” and have a girlfriend and that girlfriend isn’t dating u because ur a simp and u do whatever she wants that’s what a lot of people say but I’m telling you interact with the real world enough and you’ll quickly realize oh yea anyone can have a relationship. Is it going to be harder to find the right person if ur ugly …
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 03:35 PM
-1

Yea they may happen in some relationships but their not disgusted by the sight of them it’s probably like hey my boyfriend isn’t the hottest guy in the world but he treats me nice and I genuinely enjoy spending time with him that’s fine not everyone’s gonna be the hottest person in room
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 03:32 PM
1

That’s great I hope everything goes well and also remember not every therapist works for some people so sometimes exploring to find the right one is best. Also it’s completely ok to be afraid I am told it hurts for some women the first time but what matters is having a partner who’s completely ready to make it nice and easy for you on ur first time. You don’t have to do anything really kinky you can just have good old vanilla sex there’s nothing wrong with not being super kinky that’s fine it’s …
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 03:31 PM
1

First off I recommend therapy to everyone u don’t need past trauma to go it can only make u Better. Also it is cute to think about that pure love with the holding hand and cute dates the thing is most relationships are like that pure love can involve sex and sex can be something really romantic I mean now and days it’s seen as kinda dirty and unpure but it’s called making love for a reason if ur with someone I love it can be really good. But again the whole sex part is ur choice so u can deem ho…
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 03:22 PM
1

Some of us yea but I promise it wasn’t the gaming that ended things relationships also can end when people drift apart or want different things in life
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 03:06 PM
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I would say do not at all let Reddit dictate your views on an entire gender red pill black pill is all a bunch of crazy people for the most part honestly who also don’t understand women please remember this is a small minority in the grand scheme of things and not all men are like that. Also maybe see a therapist or gynecologist for your vaginismus to see if maybe you can fix that feeling cause sex is pretty cool but if u don’t want to try and enjoy that experience than that’s fine and u could p…
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 03:06 PM
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Holy shit dude u know people being a good partner doesn’t mean being a simp it just means being a normal functioning human being who treats someone right not every girl is cheating on tinder with this chad dude the biggest issue on this sun is people think that relationships only have to do with looks that there’s not a single thing that matters in a relationship besides how you look like. Do looks matter in a relationship partially yea cause that’s one part of every couple but there’s so much m…
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 02:58 PM
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I’m sorry but what’s thugmaxxing
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 02:56 PM
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Well I’m a dude but I’m a gamer guy I have gamer guy friends and we’ve all either have or have had girlfriends that thought we were attractive
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 02:55 PM
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Since when does men doing what they want Risk them not being attractive like what’s the example of doing what we want and seeming less attractive I don’t get that point
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 02:34 PM
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For the most part this is not right
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 02:33 PM
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I’m sorry but this is an awful argument so women have more hobbies because they don’t have to think about getting dates like to me that just shows that you haven’t interacted with enough people. Everyone has hobbies and I don’t think I ever once thought to myself damn I can’t find the time to do my hobbies because of all of this thinking I have to do to get women like this makes me believe everyday you wake up it’s just constantly on ur mind on how to get women like bro there’s more to life don’…
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 02:33 PM
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The only difference in the sex lives is probably who’s having more sex just cause ur a 5/10 doesn’t mean u can only have lame sex. I’ve seen ugly looking dudes in relationships but aye their ugly to me doesn’t mean their ugly to the person their with sure they can either have money or status or they could also just be a nice person who’s a good boyfriend I think people are way too obsessed with looks and think if ur not a model then it’s over for you
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 02:01 PM
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Yea it does defeat the pill whatever because it actually happens and as an average man myself I can safely say ur pretty wrong about this topic normal looking dudes can have relationships it’s far from impossible. Also no I didn’t have to fuck 1s or 2s for a relationship I could find girls I found attractive and have a nice relationship built. A lot of your points can use the exact same logic against you. I don’t know what I’m looking at well u also don’t know what ur looking at they could or co…
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 01:59 PM
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This type of argument just tells me you haven’t been in a relationship or ever seen any relationships or something I mean I’ve been around a bunch of couples and been in one myself I can safely say that most relationships are not only based on sexual attraction yea some definitely are but most is such a stretch. Might as well just be fwb if the relationship is gonna revolve around sex and looks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 01:53 PM
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Yea probably some dumbasses who think all men or all women are bad but I like to hope most people can just be joking
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:55 PM
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Don’t do it your welcome
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 08:46 PM
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My soul it hurts the blue pill is taking me over. Bro I don’t even know what blue pill means what is that something redpill guys call people who think redpills dumb
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 08:44 PM
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Lmao don’t always lie but if u feel uncomfortable about how it’ll make u look u don’t have to be honest about that part but there’s no problem being honest too if anything it’s probably good to weed people out cause if someone’s acting like the person in the post then you most likely don’t wanna be with em
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 08:29 PM
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Just don’t tell people ur a virgin
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 08:23 PM
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So the world revolves around how good you look and if you look bad well sorry pal that’s it life’s done
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 08:21 PM
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What do you mean who’s stopping us
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 08:17 PM
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Well I didn’t ask hey guys what do u like during sex I asked hey guys what do u like in a partner it’s only as sexual as u make it and I mean it comes up when u ask it most people just aren’t talking about the type of person they wanna date all the time the last convo I had with friends was about literally pizza people talk about random stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:09 PM
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If u enjoy living like that than I guess I just assumed most people would want to not be alone
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 08:08 PM
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Dude ur short and ugly ur life’s not over that’s just how u were born. Yea looks matter somewhat in finding a partner but your forgetting the whole other half of dating which is actually personality and talking to someone. I mean you said for the average guys atleast they can get a woman who couldn’t get a Chad. I mean dude u know people don’t only dare for looks right like people can actually like each other. If the world dated purely off looks everyone would be pissed off cause there’s only so…
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 07:48 PM
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Yea but what ur promoting seems pretty depressing I mean I’m not a pill anything but this just seems sadder living like this
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 07:43 PM
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I mean it’s twitter so all that’s expected also their account is obviously steered towards a certain narrative so right or wrong posts they do make are all steered towards the same thing. I mean most of the posts I saw I don’t really have an issue with except for the joke one cause it was obviously just a joke the rest are pretty justified I mean the one about the dude paying for sex is like 50/50 on one hand he didn’t lie I mean you can just pay for sex if u have the money but then he degrades …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:42 PM
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But aye man if u don’t like a sub just leave it I mean I don’t really frequent that one but it’s just Reddit none of it really matters
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:36 PM
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Yea isn’t that the point of those subreddits I thought it was just wild extremism as jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:35 PM
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How is it weird in that situation. If anything it’s easier just be like hey guys what do y’all typically look for in a relationship and then bam everyone says an answer. It would be weird if u just randomly Pop it in out of nowhere but if u just comfortably get the convo there it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:31 PM
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Guess u haven’t spoken to any women outside of Reddit. Women will quite literally tell u exactly that when u ask just like u would if someone asked you I’ve never asked a girl hey what do u like in guy and have her say hehe it’s a secret
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:25 PM
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U literally just saying women see simps like men see sluts yea u can make some similar comparisons I guess but this is basically don’t be a simp
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 07:23 PM
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A good advantage to being single is you got more time to focus on you and you can save money I found myself losing a good chunk of my pay check and just spending more time with my girlfriend which would be fine but I didn’t like her that much so it was just draining my bank account and time. You also got a bit more freedom to do whatever u want whenever u want I’m a relationship you gotta have a lil more responsibility and be aware that ur actions can also affect ur partner too so u don’t have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:40 PM
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About 98 percent I can feel the hair growing in my neck faster every time I open this subreddit
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 05:34 PM
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Yea a lot of people I feel like haven’t interacted with anyone the way they talk sometimes saying all people act like this or all people act like that. Anyone who isn’t chronically online knows the stuff said on Reddit almost never relates to the actual world
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:32 PM
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Damn bro u wanna see the world burn what a rebel. I bet that Arnold documentary was sick but there probably was some crazy dumb stuff happening around that time too if people want to transmax I can’t stop em but that’s the dumbest way to pick someone up I mean if u wanna be trans just do it don’t do it to get a partner ur chances just shot to the floor if u do that
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 04:18 PM
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Yea I wouldn’t say the redpill way is the way even if it is they would have to completely reinvent it and start it off as something new cause redpill has already been pretty overran by a bunch of sexist and no one really wants to associate themselves with it. Even if rn the redpill group changed into some godly form of living and that would perfect humanity it’s been tainted with a bad image not enough people would want to follow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:15 PM
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Lmao ain’t no way u linked me the pokimane picture u funny
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:11 PM
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I would say it’s probably due to the exact reason u mentioned should be helping men. I think too many of these guys spend time online and in places like Reddit instead of being actually outside talking to women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:06 PM
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Well he’s mentioning traditional type of values world wide I also wouldn’t consider Russia traditional but I don’t really know how they live day to day
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:00 PM
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Yea I just wanted to mess with u a bit when I read that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:59 PM
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We are actually the exact same animal different ways of thinking sure
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:31 PM
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So what’s this post about men aren’t as hot as women or something
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:29 PM
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Never know in this subreddit lots of weirdos calling everything tall dude chad and shit
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 03:13 PM
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Don’t u think it’s kinda weird to group up a bunch of attractive black dudes and call em all Tyrone
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 02:55 PM
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So u went on this whole rant to say what don’t be a simp
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 02:54 PM
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So is the case being made the traditional living is better than the more modern way of living now. I would say your probably getting more of a vibe just looking from the outside it’s hard to really know until you live in it. For the most part I don’t get treated any better or worse for being a man so far
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:01 PM
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Lemme guess ur a nice dude and got rejected. Listen man most women and any decent person I assume wants a nice girl or boy. However just cause u think ur a nice person or even if u are that doesn’t mean their automatically gonna get with you there’s a multitude or things that attract people to each other. redpill does act a lot as an angry hate group and I personally see a lot of their views to be misguided and probably created due to some resentment towards women or society or whatever because …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:49 PM
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Ok look I get it most of the people here aren’t the most attractive so you haven’t been as lucky or popular in life that’s fine most people aren’t in the world I mean I wasn’t I still got invited to parties it didn’t determine how abusive I was at all. Whether or not a girl thought I was a creep or hot idk but it never affected me harshly as if I was a creep maybe remember that people can be normal and yea your looks matter if someone’s tryna just fuck u but besides that it doesn’t. Most people …
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 05:43 PM
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Why is everyone so obsessed with looks on this subreddit I mean I want my wife to be hot too but it’s almost like the only thing anyone cares about here and then they spin it off as if it’s the truth and that everything else is bullshit modern people spout
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 05:34 PM
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I know looks are a part of dating but sometimes people just also genuinely like each other and they don’t get together purely off looks atleast nothing that lasts ling
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 02:28 PM
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There are a lot of women who don’t like the traditional gender roles
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:23 PM
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That could typically happen if the other party isn’t willing to listen too that’s why there’s an issue in both sides in trying to come to an understanding cause neither side will really admit they may be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:20 PM
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I agree for the most part of ur judging a gender based off Reddit or online you haven’t interacted with people enough most normal people just don’t interact in these kinds of environments cause it’s usually so extreme I kinda like the chaos sometimes and try to find understanding to see different peoples point of view but I will say my increase use of Reddit has made me hate people slightly more I have to remind myself that it’s just Reddit sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:52 PM
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Damn dude I did not get that at all maybe we shouldn’t think purely sexual about this
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 09:50 PM
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That’s for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:50 PM
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Yea moral wise most would be against it including me cause I wouldn’t be for regulating my emotions like that but then again it would be up to choice as you said. We do have drugs that already alter how we feel like anti depressants to keep people from killing themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:40 PM
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Of course it varies for person to person I would say marriage and family are a main motivator for both genders I wouldn’t say sex is the primary motivator
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 08:35 PM
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I see ur point of view I’m interested if you could define what u determine to be high value and low value individuals. I would say overall though there is a hookup culture for sure I personally never had an issue with it because if u don’t like it don’t partake in it sort of view. But it definitely could have negative effects on people that we didn’t fully realize but it could also just do nothing at all in the grand scheme of things. I don’t the low value women with low value men thing because …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:30 PM
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Yea I think the function of having subreddit can also play into it because I never found echo chambers to be useful in any way it makes people lack critical thinking when they always talk to people who only think exactly like they do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:27 PM
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Yea thanks for your time and input glad to know there’s others who simply want common understanding have a great day
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:26 PM
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It’s definitely an interesting take and would make a fun black mirror episode I’ll admit that but without any evidence claiming it would be beneficial and if it was we would need to know the long lasting effects it could have which we don’t know so it would be dangerous to assume it’s the best solution moving forward
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:26 PM
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While at sometimes it can be at the expense for men women have faced a lot of troubles due to a multitude of reasons not all due to sexism of course. However it can be said that some of feminism has been at the cost of men in a negative way rather than a way that benefits us as a whole what those are exactly idk I haven’t researched it but I’m sure it can be true with some basic research. But I wouldn’t get rid of the movement I’d let it be because there should always be something fighting for i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:23 PM
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So you believe the primary motivator in life is sexual fulfillment that’s pretty interesting I myself don’t hold that view. What made u come to that kind of thinking and do u think u could be wrong
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 08:20 PM
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Yea it would be but I have no idea how it could be implemented for more people to attempt to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:19 PM
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Yea I agree I try to understand peoples views even when I hate them and disagree because I don’t think everyone is inherently evil and I have no idea how or why they came to believe what they did I don’t instantly assume anything about them base off one viewpoint I know of there’s. I’ve talked to sexists and racists and I still treated them as human even when they didn’t treat me as one because even if they do believe in negative beliefs doesn’t mean they can’t change and me yelling insults won’…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:18 PM
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But what if u find someone competent perfect for you and they don’t find u as perfect for them would we instead inject them with whatever makes them forget these feelings towards that person
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:14 PM
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I could agree with ur statement cause of course things that are meant primarily for good don’t only result in good things. I wouldn’t say get rid then maybe reform would be a better term do u agree I’d say the same for other movements and groups because every single one no matter the cause will have some bad aspects in it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:13 PM
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Yea I stated the same thing to someone with a similar comment I mean I believe we weren’t evolved to be able to use this much tech and be able to speak to this many strangers anonymously. When we do things like this and fall into certain groups it becomes an echo chamber where no one tells the other person hey maybe ur wrong about this and if anyone does it’s a hive mind and you’ll get attacked without any discussion about the issue. Doing this no one comes to an understanding and it’s just a bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:12 PM
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Yea I don’t think genetic bioengineering is the best way but it’s definitely an obscure take. Instead of getting rid of our emotions with science maybe we can just better manage them I believe everyone should see a therapist regardless of their mental state
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:07 PM
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But yea I don’t see it happening my solution would be for people to actually meet instead of on Reddit and to let go of their egos a bit but that’s a very hard thing for a person to do it’s pretty hard for me to let go of my ego sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:06 PM
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It’s a little too simple to say men horny women selective honestly I mean yea guys are probably more sexual if we were to take a surgery world wide it’s proven that girls are prone to certain things more than guys and vice versa. There’s more factors that obviously come into play in what u said and I agree that there are reasons the dating world is so misunderstood and I think a lot of it has to do with who we’re both parties don’t want to admit faults or find some common ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:05 PM
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There’s a lot of good the feminism movement does push and there’s also some bad I can admit that just as any group would have their are radicals that spew what I would call damaging views or do damaging things that only hurt the movement as a whole but u can’t say feminism shouldn’t exist it has existed and has done some good as well can we agree upon that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:03 PM
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Exactly I think it’s tricky when we literally can’t experience the same thing as women and men. I mean we can go through similar struggles however how were treated based on our sex can both sometimes be positive and negative I know I have experienced both and I’m sure as a woman u have too we have to be able to understand that even though we do differ in some ways that we’re able to come to an understanding. There’s too much anger and ego that takes over in these cases but the human mind is comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:01 PM
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I completely agree I see a lot of statements being said from both sides I find untrue I mean I mostly like to spend my time in the real world I really only use Reddit when I have nothing to do at work. Let’s just be social talk to one another without a screen so we can actually see the human being were throwing insults at I mean we don’t even know a person all we know is a single view they hold they could be a super nice person u just disagree with one of their views they aren’t the devil
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:00 PM
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I agree I think a big problem is how advance we’ve come in tech not saying we should get rid of tech but I personally don’t believe we were evolved to be able to communicate with this many people in this type of way I mean I could say anything absolutely anything to you and it wouldn’t matter cuz you’ll never know me. Also we’ve seen so many different people we constantly are able to know so many different things it was bound to have some sort of effect on us as a society
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:58 PM
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Alright could u elaborate more
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:57 PM
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I think monogamy is still pretty prevalent in atleast my country USA however shaming casual sex idk how that would fix the issues u brought up could u expand on it. I think we’re basing a lot of it on attraction which seems to be a popular topic around these subreddits should we almost tell people at what level of attractiveness they should go for because u mentioned average women not getting men out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:57 PM
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I agree with that response. My own view has been people need to let go of their egos a lot of people can’t admit when their wrong especially if they’ve back certain claims for a while they sometimes make it a part of their identity when they should understand that whether it’s feminism or redpill whatever that does not define who you are as a person. I believe if people drop their egos and instead try to have communication and basic understanding for each others views things would be better. Eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:54 PM
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Well that’s a disagreement I’m sure many feminist would have I myself would say I’m pretty feminist in places where women deserve a lil more equality to be held. So why do you think moving past feminism would fix anything
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:50 PM
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Yea I don’t think that’s the solution man. Also men being attracted to women isn’t bad now we’ve been attracted to women since the Dawn of time. If we reprogram everyone into being emotionless humans who only work to advance the species and create a utopia then yea we’re probably gonna jump leaps and bounds in terms of advancement but I don’t think most people wanna live like that. I think this is one of those correlation causation things ya know. I don’t believe this one solution would solve th…
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 07:38 PM
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It’s an interesting take I mean we are born being a little more aggressive and a little more sexual I guess you could say. But I don’t know if that would be the solution to all the worlds problems there’s no evidence to support the claim that it does unless there is which id love to read cause it’s an interesting argument. There’s multiple variables most likely that cause the world to be a not such good place as you said and I don’t think or simply don’t know if less sexual arousal would be the …
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 07:34 PM
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I wouldn’t say the world will continue to be fucked because of this. This ain’t the answer to the worlds problems
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 07:30 PM
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Only thing is people don’t only purely date from an attraction stand point other factors apply too and I don’t think monogamy is the issue there aren’t countless men dating multiple women there’s a very small minority of that most likely happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:27 PM
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I would say ur wrong about the seeking validation for their masculinity part if you disagree id like you to explain cause I’d like to see ur point a lil more on that cuz it may be true idk. I do agree with the success part as personally I want to be perceived as successful and I judge my happiness base off my success in multiple things I don’t think it’s ego however although ego does play a part
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:20 PM
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I agree that porn is harmful to society as a whole most likely and that people shouldn’t harass someone for taking the opportunity to make some money I mean it’s currently legal there’s no reason they shouldn’t besides moral reasons and how the image might affect them later in life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:51 PM
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I don’t think anyone should hate on it of course there’s the morals in which they can view it negatively if they want too that’s fine too. I mean exactly like u said it’s easy money if u do it on the side even if u don’t make a lot hell I knew a girl who did it for a few months not a lot of followers got like a few hundred all together it’s not sustainable but as a side thing she did it’s pretty nice source of income I don’t see an issue with it take an advantage that gross given u to make money…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:46 PM
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Also we don’t gotta the simple enough shit man we don’t gotta take jabs at each other
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:41 PM
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I mean you shouldn’t ignore it in the case of rape cause just because it’s not what standards happens same with women there’s reasons why they don’t typically happen one because it’s harder for men to be raped then women and it’s less typical for women to be rejected because less women will approach in general. Men will get rejected more because they will approach more and in this case I don’t see much wrong with men approaching women if u don’t want to you don’t have to you can still find a gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:41 PM
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I’d don’t see how those two compare could u expand
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:35 PM
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Yea that’s what I said a lot of girls typically don’t approach guys in general usually the guys make the first move. If u don’t wanna get rejected then don’t make a move but chances are a girls not gonna approach you. Only like super super attractive dudes will get approached ever or very rarely normal dudes will get approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:27 PM
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What do u mean? I mean girls get rejected too maybe not as much as guys do because guys typically are the ones making moves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:24 PM
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Yea I don’t know if being taller automatically means you have more desirable non physical traits but a lot of men are upset due to envy and insecurity and hey I get jealous of good looking dudes all the time I mean me and my friend are both 6 foot but my friends really conventionally attractive I don’t hate him for it he was born like that he’s a cool dude and he just gets better luck with women but I have traits over him that help me get girls too it’s all about overcoming one’s insecurities an…
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 06:24 PM
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I see by my downvotes I’ve hurt the feelings of some short dudes. It wouldn’t be as good of a TikTok if it was hey look at these dudes who are my height instead of look how short I am and how huge this height difference is.
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 06:21 PM
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How dare u ask a harmless question absolute scum of the earth
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 06:20 PM
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I have 5’10 friends who say their six foot and I just say I’m 6’2 or something and no one ever questions it or knows that their not 6 foot cause people literally can’t ever tell just by looking unless ur clearly tall or clearly short so the average guy can pass for a lot if he wanted too
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 06:13 PM
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Lmao he just said fuck off I also don’t know what manlet even meant it sounds like a slut towards short people or something lmao
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 06:11 PM
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Exactly I mean my sister was 22 and her boyfriend was like 26 or 27 I remember not being happy about it but after meeting him he’s a cool dude now there married my sister wasn’t mentally behind or anything they had similar interests had a connection and treated each other well if this under 25 thing became a law I wouldn’t have a white brother now don’t u dare take my privilege away.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:46 PM
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Well the people who scream all women are trash are most likely small minded people same with the people who bash all men. I mean you’ve seen some of the arguments and claims here be honest u don’t think some of those people are small minded. My hope is they don’t stay like that forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:44 PM
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Well genuine connections are not easy to find at all regardless of my height so that’s delusional in itself. I mean how tall are you that your height is completely hindering you from finding a partner. We both don’t know each other at all and your saying all the traits you could possibly have would mean nothing cause I’m tall even if your better than me in every single way it mean’s absolutely nothing because I’m a few inches taller than you. I have friends shorter than me and way shorter than m…
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 05:43 PM
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Honestly I saw this and thought has anyone ever made this claim who’s not insane. I don’t even think radical feminist would agree with this one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:38 PM
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Yea I feel like when an age gap is super large it’s a lil strange I men’s my aunt and uncle are ten years apart but their extremely happy four kids and it’s not like my uncle was rich so it was a money grab. So I think there’s definitely nothing wrong with age gaps even if it’s by a decade but something doesn’t sit right with me when a it’s like 67 year old with someone’s who’s 22 or something
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:37 PM
-6

Well it depends on what u mean by gf like I could get a girlfriend probably easy not cause of my height for sure but to get a girl I’m attracted to and have a connection with is very hard regardless of your height. And sure I have a desirable trait u don’t there’s probabaly a trait u have that people like that I don’t have.
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 05:27 PM
-9

First off wtf if a manlet. Second being shorts tough in the dating world cause height is seen as an attractive trait. For the most part there’s a decent chunk of girls who just want their guy to be taller than them and then there’s other who are ok with a shorter boyfriend. Yea taller dudes will get more attention that’s because they have a trait that a majority of girls like just because u don’t have that trait doesn’t mean u won’t be able to date or anything u don’t have to be at the top 1 per…
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 05:23 PM
3

I’ve personally have never heard that claim made before. Yea our brains aren’t fully developed til 25 but if we limit dating what else are we gonna limit until 25 when our brains are fully developed. If someone’s 21 and dated someone who’s 26 there shouldn’t be an issue anyone can get taken advantage of at any age and their both legal adults I don’t see any harm. When my sister was 22 she dated a guy that was 26 now their married and happy and no one was manipulated. I don’t think most people ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:19 PM
-2

You can complain about always being rejected or you can do something about it until you aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:49 PM
1

Yea well rejection happens I mean especially in stuff like college and jobs it can feel like no one wants you but rejection will always be a part of life it’s about being able to understand that and try and better yourself so the rejection can come at you at a lower rate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:49 PM
1

Well then that makes the video even funnier she legit found the tallest dudes she could find and made fun of her height by standing next to them. People just gotta chill man let’s not be so sensitive over a harmless TikTok
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 04:29 PM
1

Yea being tall helps with the girls same way having nice eyes like you would help with the girls bro I have basic brown eyes I don’t complain like damn you society why couldn’t I have green eyes it’s just an attraction thing. Also where are these girls at bruh I’m 6’1 I need some girls to start flocking my way
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 04:28 PM
4

Rejection is just a part of life you get rejected you have to move on and keep trying I mean don’t be the desperate guy and go up to every girl at a club then try a few times if it fails then damn and just have a good time at the club. It can hurt confidence when u keep getting constant rejections but u can only improve and get better with how u interact with strangers. Rejection isn’t suppose to be consequence free your doing something that takes confidence because u know your at risk of being …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:23 PM
1

Yea or cause their chill dudes u think she walked around and was thinking I need to find the absolute tallest man I can find and become friends with them. It’s a harmless video they all seem like their having a fun time making it and there if anything making fun of how tall those dudes are and making fun of how short she is it’s a harmless video and not heightism like some other dude called it I swear people are getting way too sensitive now.
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 04:20 PM
2

Exactly people just wanna complain about it this is a harmless video if she was saying fuck short guys tall all the way then yea u can be upset by that. I got tall my sophomore year of highschool with a big growth spurt my knees never hurt and I never got those growing pains I heard about.
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 04:18 PM
-1

This isn’t heightism bro this is a girl making fun of herself cause these guys are super tall
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 04:15 PM
0

Then stop bitching about women bruh and height I’m 6’1 so we’re both taller than normal so why is there any arguments about height. Yea I know some girls like taller guys and that’s not fair to the short dudes but hey there’s some things people just find generally more attractive short dudes still got their niche of women who like them so there’s no need to complain unless someone’s bashing people because of height.
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 03:59 PM
2

Literally said she made friends with them got weird looks then she took a video to make fun of the height difference. Your just mad that it’s a girl next to some tall guys bro it’s ok to not be tall it’s alright I get insecurities about height and stuff but this is just being mad to be mad
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 03:55 PM
-11

This video didn’t mention them being hot but if u think so man we all got our own tastes. It’s just a video like damn I’m so short next to these tall dudes. If it was tall women would it make u happier or if the gender roles were reversed like you can’t be that mad over a video where there’s almost nothing negative about it
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 03:50 PM
-14

Lmao it’s not being a simp it’s being a normal person bruh it’s just a video not even glorifying their height but making fun of how goofy she looks next to them
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 03:49 PM
-22

Dudes it’s just a video of someone making fun of the height difference. She’s obviously short and their obviously way taller than her
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 03:40 PM
-1

U should look within as to why ur so angry at girls
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 02:46 PM
0

Well duh I’d take that deal I mean girls obviously take that deal too when it’s given to them only issue is you gotta be within the top 1 percent of attractive people and then u gotta get lucky enough to get picked so yea maybe really attractive girls have life on easy mode but if you turned into a girl today chances are your not going to any playboy mansion and no one’s buying ur onlyfans
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 02:46 PM
10

It’s also a great pass time if ur bored at work and wanna see dumb arguments and small minded individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:42 PM
1

Well the problem is ur probabaly listening to the radicals on that side we have to remember that not everyone thinks the same in a certain group there’s some radical feminist that will tell u just don’t talk to women but u shouldn’t take what they say and apply it to everyone just like there’s some people that are women haters that are red pill or whatever doesn’t mean everyone on that side is a women hater.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:41 PM
6

I think your the one who’s missing the point man I mean I’m a dude and I don’t really like a girl until I get to know her and feel comfortable to open up to her yea I can like a girl purely cause I think she’s cute or hot but I don’t dare until I feel comfortable and that doesn’t mean I don’t find them attractive and I just like their personality it means u find someone who fits in to both categories for yourself you think they look good and you like their personality which makes them look even …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:47 PM
0

Well not entirely man I’m definitely not in the 90th percentile of guys but my luck with girls comes mostly from being friends around them and then eventually asking if they’d be interested if it doesn’t work it’s fine and if it does awesome. My best trait is that I’m typically funny to most people so girls tend to love that now it’s hard to get better at being funny honestly I think you either have it or you don’t but it also depends in the groups your usually in some groups like certain jokes …
/r/AllPillDebate22/06/23 08:36 PM
-1

You just took what I said and made it was better honestly really good advice man exactly what I would’ve preached
/r/AllPillDebate22/06/23 08:34 PM
1

What do u mean by that people should be self improving every day
/r/AllPillDebate22/06/23 08:33 PM
-1

Aye Man U won’t be a 60 year old virgin yea the hand given to u certainly hasn’t made it easy but doesn’t mean you can’t improve. There’s no issue asking for dating advice at 25 there’s tons of people that ask for dating advice even older I mean datings complicated and it can be hard. I know the gym can feel annoying I felt the same when I started but u gotta try and fall in love with it especially when u start seeing progress it can become a huge motivator. Are you skinny or fat cause that depe…
/r/AllPillDebate22/06/23 08:33 PM
0

Reddits the only place I ever hear someone say normie
/r/AllPillDebate22/06/23 03:58 PM
2

Well if your not at all attractive to the person then yea it’s not gonna work out it’s a mix of these two things that leads people to be into you. If your really hot yea you might get with someone but they will probably leave soon once they find out you have a terrible personality. It takes a mix of the two to create relationships. If your neutral I guess or somewhat attractive to someone you can become much more attractive in that persons eyes if they like your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:36 PM
2

Your right that looks prob won’t beat status and money but the people u will attract probably aren’t gonna be exactly wife material I guess you could say their most likely with u purely for your wealth. However most people aren’t getting swept up by rich celebrities so everyone’s choosing people they find attractive and like to talk to that’s how real dating works. You can be attractive and have people wanting you but it doesn’t mean they want you for the right reasons or that you’ll even like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:33 PM
2

Lol u sound like a redpill version for women. people can do whatever they want if they don’t want to settle down in their 20s that’s fine but don’t say women shouldn’t give one man her 20s she can do whatever she wants whether it’s have fun with a bunch of dudes or settle down with one and get married earlier or whatever it doesn’t matter
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:30 PM
4

Could be a variety of reasons couldn’t just be one so idk maybe create ur own study on it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:48 PM
0

That’s not a bad point of view do you think it be more popular if they were able to get rid of all the toxic mess that surrounds it
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 09:38 PM
14

Wel I see the same ideaology spewed from both sides really hard to tell the difference I just see pill this and pill that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:32 PM
1

Do you mean like menopause
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:43 PM
2

Yea I don’t think the quotation marks saved it you could’ve said anything else and the post would still be saying the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:41 PM
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I mean I see black pill dudes say the same thing. I know the bad people don’t represent everyone as a whole but it’s tough when it’s a lot of dudes who speak out like that very damaging for your ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:41 PM
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I mean I’ve seen women shit in fat men too I just don’t think it’s as blown up or talked about because the fat acceptance was leaning more towards the woman side of the issue I don’t think we should shit on people in general cause not a lot of people respond well to someone just insulting them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:39 PM
1

You do know obesity comes with a bunch of problems just in general I mean men and women face their difficulties with obesity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:37 PM
2

Dude you say your neutral but then call em landwhales lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:36 PM
0

Yea without one I’m sure sex comes up more in peoples brain since their not getting any
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:32 PM
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I personally never heard of those crazy theories but I wouldn’t put it past the blackpill thing. I do believe it started out with good intentions like a lot of things do but certain people twist the narrative and end up fooling a lot of people and it can sort of shift this happens in all types of groups where the extremist are the loudest voice so it seems like the whole group thinks under a similar ideology but that’s probably not true. I mostly hear sexist and women hating remarks in black pil…
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 07:30 PM
1

Yea I swear Reddit just makes me lose faith in society but then I remember that it’s only people on Reddit and not the actual world where people can critically think
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:39 PM
1

Idk bout that one cuz I swear all I see redpill dudes do is complain about the dating world and women. I’d say for the most part girls hide it pretty well because I’ve been with girls who look like angels have almost nothing in body count and end up having a crazy libido but again it’s my experiences and every person is different
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:10 PM
2

Yea dudes never been with a woman when they say a sex crazed women was because of testosterone due to her cycle and whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:08 PM
2

For the most part I’d say guys probabaly are more sexual if we took the whole population into account but I think I’m any good relationship y’all are probably having sex a good amount of times a week
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:06 PM
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Bro I was abouta say like what dating has made me realize is girls are hornier than dudes I swear they just aren’t as loud about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:05 PM
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I don’t see how simps are making dating unbearable they don’t affect my life in any way of a girl is wilding I tell her she’s wilding if a simp wants to simp he can go ahead doesn’t affect my life. Also I don’t think most women want special treatment that’s all redpill vomit if ur talking about some extremists then yea probably. I’m confused as to how dumping relates to what u were talking about I think any normal person says something when they feel discomfort and if you don’t then obviously yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:03 PM
1

Yea I try and boost my confidence when I can but I always had a similar outlook on things. Like aye this is how I am and Im cool with it and ima deal with it plus I’m 6’1 so it’s nice to be a lil taller
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:58 PM
3

Could be true for the most part I guess ya got me feeling like an 8
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:26 PM
1

I mean if your looks are low and u wanna date a model then yea ur gonna be pretty upset by the outcome. Doesn’t mean that ur dating a disgusting slob that’s a human being who probably looks at the same level that the other person does so I don’t see the issue. There’s also the fact that they can just be a good person. You yourself now are giving value to people based off looks
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 02:56 PM
1

I’m not saying physical attraction doesn’t matter everyone knows it matters in some aspects and yea pretty privilege is a thing but aye your born the way you look you can complain all you want about not getting to play the game yet but that’s just not true. Will you Have harder luck for sure cause dating is already hard. However you can definitely find some form of connection I’ve seen countless couples that aren’t the most attractive people but their extremely happy and their attracted to the p…
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 02:46 PM
1

I’m not saying physical attraction doesn’t matter everyone knows it matters in some aspects and yea pretty privilege is a thing but aye your born the way you look you can complain all you want about not getting to play the game yet but that’s just not true. Will you Have harder luck for sure cause dating is already hard. However you can definitely find some form of connection I’ve seen countless couples that aren’t the most attractive people but their extremely happy and their attracted to the p…
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 02:46 PM
1

Alright I’m interested what are some brainwashed examples in ur opinion
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 02:43 PM
0

Dude those are literally points u made and I read them and told you my point of view but alright Brodie
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 02:38 PM
1

So what’s the solution lmao. I wouldn’t say hopeful insanity and upping your look is always nice but it’s not like your hopeless before but if you don’t at all care about your look don’t expect other people to think you look amazing. My advice is cutting out the bullshit hey u think u don’t look great and don’t have much of a chance what I said is basically what you can do to help your chances one being just being a better person overall in terms on kindness and just having some hobbies to keep …
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 02:37 PM
3

Thanks I try my best. This subreddit is too good I say some positive advice and get downvoted next time I’ll write women bad blackpill the way or something
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 02:27 PM
0

Yea feminism isn’t about dating short guys who make less. Also if ur taking personal accounts from people on places like Reddit especially subreddits like this one where a good majority are red or black pill obviously u will find a lot of those types of claims
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 02:26 PM
1

I would tell u just look it up probably tons of things we still use but idk who invented anything
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 02:25 PM
0

Shit 95 sounds good
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 02:24 PM
1

Naw in America it’s a bit different girls typically seem like they want to split the bill to not look like that type of girl
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:25 PM
1

Aye man live your fearful life I rather live in the majority chilling
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:12 PM
6

I think he saying what did men not invent that we depend on like in society.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 09:48 PM
0

Yea some women will do it man there’s bad people in the world but again it’s Reddit I take everything here very lightly usually but you will be done wrong by people in life don’t apply that to everyone u meet in life it’ll make it harder to open up and it does get hard I’ve experienced wrong doing too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:40 PM
3

I haven’t read up too much on tate since he went viral and it kinda died down but for the most part I think he mixes good points in certain aspects with a lot of bad views too so it mixes in too much and some of the stuff he says is pretty misogynist but it was pretty entertaining seeing everyone argue over him for now he’s innocent whether or not he’s guilty I don’t know but if he is pretty shitty human being if not I guess he’s not as shitty of a human being as he could’ve been.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 08:25 PM
2

I mean it’s just preference I wouldn’t say it’s normal or anything ur just attracted to white girls more. I’m more attracted to Asians and Latin girls it’s just preference nothing to stress about. I wouldn’t say being white is automatically attractive but I think in the majority white peoples or skin atleast is seen as a bit more attractive ik some cultures see it as a symbol of beauty
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 08:04 PM
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Yea I wasn’t tryna give u advice just saying how I jump into things. But for the most part yea I mean idk what these standards are cause they change with every person u meet but at the same time anyone can end up with someone and it doesn’t mean they match the standards or anything I mean hell I never thought I’d date a vegan but somehow my last three girlfriends were all vegan I still don’t know how I have that luck but I laugh about it now
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 08:01 PM
2

Nice indeed I guess what was the point of ur previous comment I’m lost now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:54 PM
1

Well I mean I’m general no one knows anyone’s standards really going in so it would be weird if everyone was given a list or something when attempting. But ik what u mean. I mean I would just be myself be respectful and Kind and see how it goes
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 07:49 PM
3

As a man I’ve listened to my own experiences as well as the experience of all my other guy friends. These dudes are in the minority and I’m not just saying that form personal experience and friends I am 100 percent sure most guys know that most women are not gonna shit on u for opening up I thought the point before was women wanted men to open up more so I guess the narrative changes with whoever’s controlling it at the time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:46 PM
1

Well yea I mean going into a relationship like that hard to meet every single one of someone’s standards no one does in the end people end up loving each other for their imperfections in the cases where the relationship does work out
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 07:44 PM
4

Yea that can happen and it makes it hard for people to open up it’s even happened to me but it’s important to remember the way one person treats u or even ten doesn’t mean that’s how everyone will treat you. It’s tough to have that mindset when you feel you’ve been wronged so many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:40 PM
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Aye it’s tough being lonely it’s never easy and it can make it feel like what’s the point. However u don’t have to be alone forever I mean ur 26 still really young and have tons of time to find someone right for you. Dating is tough it is and it won’t be easy even when u do finally find someone right for you. It can end badly and it can even end badly the first few times but in all those bad parts you’ll learn more about yourself and better yourself overtime. For right now I’d suggest working on…
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 07:39 PM
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Don’t go with the most women lose attraction for men who open up cause that’s not true it’s just stuff redpill people say. Sure some might and good riddance u shouldn’t be with someone who can’t be there for you in tough times. For the most part when I’ve opened up it’s been received well or better than expected with the girls I’ve been with
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:28 PM
5

Couldn’t have said it better myself. I don’t like the term trauma dumping cause in general it’s hard for people to open up about but ik what u mean if it’s someone who ur not that close with and they just start dumping stuff that u can’t really help them handle rn. Typically if ur close like in a relationship ur allowed to trauma dump and if it’s not received well then there not the right person for u
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:27 PM
2

I also don’t choose not to see it I choose not to let bad people shape my view on everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:03 PM
5

Well that just makes u sexist man some people treat me well others done there’s good people in the world as well as bad. If I get treated poorly by an Asian dude or something I’m not gonna say all Asians are trash it just doesn’t make any logical sense u get me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:03 PM
0

I mean I’ve been in relationships I have certain standards and sometimes all those standards aren’t meant I mean people getting into relationships that aren’t right for them isn’t primarily only for women it happens to everyone and taking their past and using it against them doesn’t help you or anyone and leave u generalizing a group a big group of people for nothing. I mean if u want to live like that it’s fine I just don’t see how it can lead to a happier life personally. If u could explain ho…
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 07:02 PM
5

Idk where u live man but I could probably go outside and find a decent human being pretty sure we might be best friends or lovers but she’ll atleast be a decent human being. Where are u from that it’s so bad haven’t heard of a country like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:51 PM
4

Hopefully you’ll someday understand the issue with that kind of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:44 PM
4

Again ur generalizing the women who do say that with all women it’s like if I said all men are racist sexist homophobic and have small dicks sure the one dude I met might’ve been like that but that doesn’t mean ima associate it with every dude in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:41 PM
3

Atleast u admit that logically speaking most women aren’t bad and it’s just personal experience most people tend to group everyone into one mindset but hey u know there’s good women and bad women and you’ve just met some of the bad more than good atleast for yoy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:40 PM
3

For the most part people are pretty normal I don’t think any group has to prove anything to anyone cause everyone’s different it’s not just one single hive mind
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:39 PM
2

I like ur answer I was gonna go for the first option or just 50/50 cause I mean there’s bad people and good people I don’t like the bad I like the good pretty basic right. But for the most part idk anyone until we actually have a discussion for the most part people are pretty normal and there’s few people I want as close friends and fewer I want as a relationship since that’s even closer
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:38 PM
2

I mean it’s the same way for the guys as we’ve seen people go for the very top but get upset when they don’t get it nothing wrong with being picky but by doing so and not being as typically attractive it’ll be harder I mean I’m picky and I’m no Casanova but ima keep being picky cause Ik what I want and if I settle I don’t be as happy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:54 PM
1

Yea I was gonna say most girls don’t do too much arms and usually do lower body with abs to keep the feminine look along with the thick look same way how some guys focus a lot on arms and Abs cause it gives them a manly look. Honestly as long as ur not looking disproportionate it’s fine
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 05:51 PM
1

That’s interesting I guess I was confused by what u said. In what ways do u think there’s more ease to life transitioning young I thought transitioning was always a pretty difficult thing that comes with a lot of issues and discrimination
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 05:45 PM
1

Yea I was taller than my dad so idk how I got to this height but aye I ain’t complaining I was never insecure about my height when I was shorter cuz I didn’t really realize yet how much some people cared about it. But tough luck for my kids lmao hopefully they take more from me I guess but I do like shorter girls. I like the feeling of I guess being a protector and I like a smaller girl cause I can just kind of wrap them up in my arms and it’s cute to me. But yea everyone’s different we all have…
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 05:44 PM
1

Well then yea I wouldn’t transition if I was u wouldn’t get much ease of life from it
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 05:39 PM
0

How short is too short for u
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 05:29 PM
2

Idk I’m like 6’1 so usually I eyeball it id probabaly say ideally 5’5 or 5’6 and under is what I prefer. I mean if I think she’s an amazing person and beautiful and she’s like 5’8 I don’t think I’d mind at all I just typically have dated shorter girls I guess I like feeling a lil taller or something idk yet why
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 05:28 PM
2

I see so they see it as your trying to use it as leverage for something else that’s pretty interesting it’s a lil different here but I understand how it could be seen like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:21 PM
1

Why would it be inappropriate would it be like disrespectful. Here I’m general paying for someone else is seen as a good or nice thing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:17 PM
1

So how does that usually work then. I mean people here have sex pretty quick too but usually just hookups and rarely that turns into a Relationship. Usually people will go on a date or two before they have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:12 PM
1

I typically would prob want someone fitter so I guess that would be a need for me. Bad teeth is a dealbreaker for me hygiene in general. Also would prefer shorter girls
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 05:11 PM
1

I’d say that does happen in America to an extent but usually people will go out on dates and then have sex it really just depends on the people and how fast things go.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:03 PM
1

That’s a lil harsh towards people who’ve already transitioned and the point isn’t for the benefits it’s for people who don’t feel like their in the right body in terms of sex I thought u were just feeling more like a woman
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 04:02 PM
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Well damn I haven’t met any women like that in my life. I think your combining the crazy ride with the rational side people tend to only view the crazy side when they reside in places those people are the loudest in the real world hardly anyone’s that insane and if they are don’t hang out with em is how I’ve lived.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 04:01 PM
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I would say quit redpill and keep the parts of it that u think made ur life better. If you aren’t a sexist and respect other people and ur happy with how you are because of certain parts of red pill that’s fine people would just want u to leave cause it’s associated with incels and sexist dudes. Doesn’t mean u are but it’s going to be the first thing people think when they hear red pill for the most part. You can easily live the life that has made u happy without adopting the toxic parts and jus…
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 03:02 PM
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Calling people sheep makes u look like one of those crazy red pill dudes but I agree with the part of hey if this guy likes the red pill ideaology and filters out the sexist bad parts it’s whatever as long as u don’t end up a sexist weird dude and you live a life where ur happy and respect others then it’s all good to me follow whatever narrative you like. The issue everyone has with redpill is that a lot of what comes from it is sexist like no matter what u think it’s obvious sometimes of cours…
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 02:59 PM
4

Jordan Peterson never did and himself said a lot of the far right thinking doesn’t like him cause of what he says too it’s just certain people took what he said to push an unhealthy narrative it happens but u can’t control how people are going to use what u say. Tate is an interesting case he does this thing where he says extremely sexist things and certain things that are just wrong while at the same time he will throw in something that’s true or that people for the most part should follow so n…
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 02:56 PM
2

Ngl all the countries he named will probabaly have what ur looking for but there’s plenty of women here that have prob what ur looking for too just hard to find the right women anywhere u go sometimes same with finding the right man dating gets complicated.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 02:48 PM
1

Thanks for the video man I needed something new to watch. I always wondered about other cultures in general so seeing how dating works is pretty cool. I’ve dated a few girls from other countries and it’s always a lil culture shift to try and get two different ideas of dating to mix it’s never bad more of just some misunderstandings on how they want certain things to go
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:46 PM
1

So do most relationships kind of begin with dates and sex before making it official or is it sex first then dates then relationship ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:45 PM
-4

Sure everything’s gonna have a majority and a minority like let’s say guys like fitter women probably in the majority but aye some guys like some meat on the bones. There’s always gonna be more desirable traits in both sides but I’ve seen people getting upset when their traits aren’t as desirable. Sure it’ll be harder if most of the traits u have are in this minority but it’s not impossible. I mean I myself have certain desirable traits and undesirable traits I will change and Better myself to b…
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 02:44 PM
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I always wondered about that me being an American there is certain dating culture and expectations on some parts. The bill thing is kind of iffy now which I appreciate as a guy. Most dates I’ve been on the girls always asked to split the bill or fought to pay her share I usually will say no cause how I was raised I see it as respect but I’ll usually say I got this one u can pay for the next date. But it’s interesting all the other dating culture in other countries I mean some may work some may n…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:36 PM
1

“You really can’t trust any women when left to their own devices” dude even u know that was just wildly sexist for no reason. I mean u honestly think a women can’t just be independent and survive on her own. It’s good that men can’t just have power by being physically dominant were not caveman anymore we cam have different power scales where some men or some women hold more power in society it’s better that way gives us a good look at different view points
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 02:29 PM
1

I’d say only the far left and right sides of this men women debate are speaking in different languages for the most part those two radical sides of each group aren’t a majority atleast yet. I think there’s an issue where you said women don’t want timid guys but expect guys to be ok with them being timid. I mean it’s ok to like a certain trait that u lack doesn’t mean u have to also have that trait different people like different things. I guess I’d be part of the not all women are like that move…
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 02:26 PM
-2

I’m confused what point are u trying to make that women won’t date feminine guys
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 02:19 PM
2

Well u can always transition now
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 02:17 PM
0

That’s a bold statement that women never date in the standards that they place
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 02:16 PM
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Because some people lack critical thinking where they can’t differentiate bad women from all women. So when they see one bad women on the internet they assume every women acts like that. It’s how racist people treat minorities oh I had one bad experience with a minority now everyone in that group must be a criminal.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 02:15 PM
1

Well obviously tinders just for looks and hookups I was thinking about real world dating. Also I guess I’m in the minority but I’m pretty picky cause if I’m not then there’s no point to the relationship cause I’ll know that it’ll end if I wasn’t picky about who I end up with
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:12 PM
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That’s why u work on it to the best of ur ability and u can find other people who aren’t super social and maybe isolate too cause those guys or girls also want some sort of friendship and companionship. When I say make friends for people who would fit ur circle it’s literally people with similar values not all have to be the same obviously
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 02:10 PM
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Well your completely right I mean bad trashy women will act like bad trashy people that’s why it’s important to find the good genuine people but it’s hard to do that sometimes we just gotta remember not to let the bad people have too much control over the happiness in our lives
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 01:54 PM
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Well first I ain’t gonna play along with ur stats respectfully. Second well yea people are picky I mean ur choosing who to let into ur life not only that but let into ur body too. Plus people let in the wrong people all the time which only makes us more picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:50 PM
0

Well aren’t u a negative Nancy. I rather this guy find his circle and live a happy life with who he is and meeting genuine people then thinking all is lost there’s no hope
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 01:48 PM
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Has to be a lil easier than a baby right
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 03:15 AM
1

Some can also mean 60 or 50 percent or anything else sure it might be majority of women who want a tall man and there’s nothing wrong with that and there’s a minority of women who don’t care how tall or short u are as long as ur within their height. Also I’m very sure that they did not do everything they possibly can because every single day u can improve yourself. There’s a higher chance that those people might be pulling a woe is me card however I do have some sympathy dating is tough rejectio…
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 09:47 PM
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Well to use ur own argument how do you know that upping there look makes no difference at all I mean of course there look can’t be the only thing they work on if their struggling. Also 99 percent of women do not care if ur short that’s not a real statistic that’s just how u feel.
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 09:09 PM
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Damn that’s an actual statistic could u send a link I’m interested in how that was even studied or surveyed. I still strongly believe that it’s not true but if it is aye can’t mess with stats. But if it’s just s slight advantage then that’s probably expected I mean we can’t be 50/50 on everything
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:25 PM
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Hey man I’m sorry you’ve lived such a tough life and that people treated you poorly due to things you can’t control that’s awful and flat out not right. However first off don’t say normies most people find it a lil cringy now a days so that’ll help a bit. Also it’s all about finding the right people and getting into the right circle there’s always gonna be bad people in the world but letting the bad people shape your life will only give them more power. Yea being confident and being yourself doe…
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 08:10 PM
-2

Ok this is a lot but I’ll try and get to all ur points too. First off I thought u wanted to talk about looks so that’s what I meant I didn’t know if there was confusion there. Also it is a given I mean yea there’s some beautiful looking older women who’ve kept their look in check but it’s definitely faded. I brought up the incel point because usually incels make these kind of arguments so I try and remind people that they can up their look if they have an issue with it people tend to say this is…
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 08:06 PM
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Definitely lead to a bunch of cracked eggs. But I guess both parents could do whatever while the child’s incubating so that be cool plus it take away from the pain of child birth which would be nice for women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:46 PM
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I think this would lead to a lot of broken eggs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:38 PM
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In this scenario have we created like incubation chambers or do we gotta sit on the eggs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:38 PM
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I mean rejection is part of life can’t be told mad however ghosting is a cruel way to do so if it’s been a longer term thing I think that person deserves some sort of answer or atleast being told it’s been ended. However if it’s very early like just talking I guess it’s fine cause there’s no connection yet. Same goes for dangerous situations where ghosting is a safer option.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:35 PM
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Well yea if u only want to talk about looks that’s fine I mean obviously people want to be somewhat attracted to their partner but I think people refer to the fact that looks fade while personality will last longer. For the incels who complain about not getting women due to how they look I mean there’s always ways to up your look unless your completely disfigured and even then disabled people have found love
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 06:28 PM

I also think that women who demonize all men are just as bad I’m not defending one group trashing another whoever trashed and generalizes an entire group to me is just flat out dumb and can’t critically think to save their life. Also to your second paragraph I don’t think seeing women as “pussy” makes it any better yea ok pussy has no leverage on them well that’s the issue women are more than pussy we are more than dicks. Yea women aren’t royalty doesn’t mean u can just treat them like trash if …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:46 PM

Treating women as trash cause u can’t get any isn’t a justified way to live life you can’t justify being a bad person towards a group of people like that. Also I do agree not all incels are women haters but that’s what gets portrayed the most. Also the self loathing mindset won’t help them anymore in getting out of that incel life. It sounds like incels are mostly just depressed about not getting women and shifted it into a group which created an ideology which then created this terrible group i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:30 PM
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Damn lucky me then I guess all my friends are lucky too. I mean damn 90 percent of these dudes aren’t getting anything yet every guy I’ve met has I gotta buy a lotto ticket
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:30 PM

Yea the whole woe is me thing from incels is what I think keeps them from ever getting any girls. No girl wants to be with a self proclaimed incel
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:21 PM

Do u think living with the incel mindset just makes way harder though. Do you think the incel community could’ve been turned into a more positive one if they implemented ways to work on oneself instead of the whole oh woe is me outlook
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:19 PM

Yea I had a fwb before and I was still single we were just fucking, a relationship is something way more than that and I would say I’m not single if I was in a relationship where we hadn’t had sex yet. Sex isn’t everything and seeing being single in that light won’t help future relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:17 PM

That makes the prison part of the post a lil funny they get plenty of sex in prison
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:16 PM

Yea as a guy ima be in the minority according to this post even having sex I still am single casual hookups still mean I’m single
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:15 PM

I’m confused is this like a redditors go touch grass joke
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:45 PM
1

Well you just gotta find someone who’s a trust worthy person I mean easier said then done but end of the day anyone can cheat on u and it’s all about finding someone who u can trust and is honest. I dated a girl way out of my league and I knew it and I was always worried about her cheating on me but I got over it and that relationship helped me with that kind of insecurity I mean everyone kind of has it and it’s hard to get over. But she was getting 100s of dms a day she could’ve cheated at any …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:14 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with having high standards of course realistic ones like don’t say I only date models and girls with verified instagrams or something. However I mean it might take some luck but there’s tons of couples where it’s kinda clear that one’s out of there league in terms of looks but they can be extremely happy because they think the other person is attractive and they like them so it doesn’t matter how it looks to everyone elsen
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:03 PM
1

I’d love to see the statistics to see if that’s true if so then that would be an interesting case to study. If what u said is true too does that just mean that 5 percent of the male population are the only ones getting any from the 80 percent of women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:01 PM
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I strongly believe statistically that’s not true but kinda hard to get statistics on how good are moms and dads right that answer changed through life lol. However I won’t let my bad experiences with men women or people from certain races judge how I treat everyone from those groups even if the statistics are in the favor against those people judging an entire group off only the bad ones isn’t a good way to live life unless you want too then that’s all you but I rather not
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:54 PM
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I mean emotional labor really just depends on the people. Also for most of the points you listed for men it’s just being a normal good boyfriend it’s not emotional labor it’s literally just being a good person. Except for the dream part but that’s like a cliche and if it does happen hopefully ur girl isn’t immature and can laugh it off with you I’ve had it happen just like that before. Being there and being faithful I mean the same can be said for men also that’s just two parts that are needed i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:52 PM
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I mean that specific statement is a pretty juvenile thing to have your girlfriend do. Plus if that really stirs up a real argument just leave her my ex did that once but I laughed with it and she laughed later cuz she realized it was dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:50 PM
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There’s a lot of men who do that too so what’s the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:48 PM
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Well coming right out of relationship I don’t think anyone feels too good right away
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:47 PM
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I’m my own personal experiences the dad was there in a lot of them while in others he wasn’t or vice versa. I understand personal experience is a strong factor in making decisions but we have to remember that not everyone you meet will be the same this kind of thinking is really damaging in our growth and I find myself falling victim to it too. So you can live a happy life single but don’t do so because u think all guys will be bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:46 PM
1

From personal experience in the girls I talk to some need an emotional connection to get into a relationship isn’t that crazy. Instead of just getting into one to do it they actually need to like the person romantically. A lot of guys too can feel similar where hey if they really wanted a relationship sure they could try it however they could also want something real that means more to them which doesn’t come easy to really anyone in finding someone they have a connection with. In this scenario …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:44 PM
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I also read the last post just looks like it’s cause guys are horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:43 PM
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All this modern and traditional stuff seems weird I mean no one perfectly fits into these categories except for a few people I feel like no one’s fully traditional or fully modern I guess like I’m just being me and doing whatever I feel is right I never see it as modern or not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:37 PM
2

Well status matters to people who give it a lot of meaning. At the same time ur status can show some of your character too hard working determined all leading to success. Everyone likes a certain level of status but it’s not a huge thing I believe people think about only at the extremes of status
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:02 PM
1

Gosh masa do ya really think one day I can critically think too please teach me your ways for I am just a beta male how do I become an insufferable incel loser like you masa
/r/AllPillDebate16/06/23 04:43 PM
1

Lmao dude a racist and sexist what other groups do you hate you trying get all the infinity stones for being a shitty person. Aye dude live ur life man it’s obvious it’s gonna be a sad one. While u continue to be this alpha big man I’ll be this sad little beta cuck oh pity me.
/r/AllPillDebate16/06/23 04:41 PM
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Ima let u figure that one out on your own champ think through it carefully and don’t forget about critical thinking
/r/AllPillDebate16/06/23 04:34 PM

Exactly what I said if that’s the life you wanna live then believe what u want
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:38 PM
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Yea it’s worded terribly and no women and most non red pill people won’t side with it due to how it’s written if he doesn’t mean sexually and means a relationship then that makes more sense but it’s all about what people think u mean not what u meant
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:10 PM
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Well yea people will date people who share similar mindsets at the same time people can date people who like to party more when they don’t or who are more focused on academics there’s a wide range of people so don’t bunch them all together. Sure it might be in the majority towards that but people from all backgrounds end up dating and getting married a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:09 PM
1

I don’t believe people should settle but when I say settle I don’t mean this person is a perfect model or whatever I think I don’t wanna settle because when I find the girl I want to marry I want to know I love her for her and everything about her all the flaws that come with her too can make them look even better
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:03 PM
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Maybe your also seeing it through ur lens but that’s the initial vibe it gave off and u also do write the word sexual a few times but aye could’ve been my eyes seeing the word wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:56 PM

Well the only person who decides it was over in that situation was you. Relationships only become more attractive as they age that’s the whole point of them to give you someone to age and experience life with. Let’s say your 35 and single still the average age of death for men is I believe like 72 or something like that. So given that fact you’ve still got about 35 years left to live if everything goes well. You’ll be decades alone if you choose to be you’ll always be able to make friends be wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:55 PM
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Yea idk what it is I’ve just connected better with foreign girls and I do have a thing for accents and I love learning about cultures I haven’t lived in and just seeing other perspectives from people who grew up somewhere else is awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:51 PM
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The way you worded it makes it that you get into that friendship for sex which is a bad reason to get into a friendship if it was for a relationship then that makes more sense because that way it makes ot seem like sex isn’t all that matters in ur mind
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:50 PM
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Aye represent. I never went to another country to find a girl but my track list is usually people who have barely lived in America. I have no idea why I always ended up very attracted and connecting with immigrants but I always told my friend if it ain’t foreign it’s boring
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:44 PM
1

Well I don’t like how this post is worded I do understand it in a way. I mean most people meet and start dating because they come friends first if you did that because you found someone attractive and then they ended up not feeling the same way then there’s no issue with leaving. However I don’t like how this post is worded because it’s all about sex I think about it as in oh u don’t want a relationship then maybe I stop being ur friend cause I’m into u and it just won’t work or I stay ur friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:42 PM
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I mean I did fall into hookup culture in college and it was mostly to cope cause me and my long term girlfriend broke up she was my first so I kinda just went wild from there to I guess cope ya know the basic drugs alcohol and sex trope. I never did like it and I can see why people do it but I’m also very sure that most people do it cause their also just using it for some form of coping with something
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:38 PM
1

Wdym develop like develop your social skills for dating. Also dating is possible after 30 might be harder if you’ve been an introvert or a shut in before you turned 30 but again finding the niches u belong in can help
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:35 PM
1

If that’s how u wanna live man sky’s green
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:33 PM
1

Aye if that’s the life u wanna live
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:33 PM
1

Damn dude might as well kill yourself by age 30 then with that logic. If you wanna see it that way that’s all on you man my cousin and her husband seem pretty happy but I could be wrong cause they did meet past age 30
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:03 PM
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Oh yea well those things are more likely and if you don’t want that it’s fine. Dating past that age just means ur dating pools a lil more limited
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:52 PM
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Lmao I remember feeling like that when I was younger and more pure and there’s nothing wrong with it shows you just don’t want to only sexualize them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:39 PM
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Why would it be a waste of time? Tons of people meet and get married after 30. If your a girl then I understand it a bit more cause of the kids situation and needing to do it earlier than later but then again techs always changing making things like that easier
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:37 PM
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Yea that’s great man work out and work towards something like that. Working on yourself and enjoying ur hobbies you’ll eventually find someone who appreciates those things your doing. Trying to find a relationship can take long I always say u find the right person randomly when you least expect it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:12 PM
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U putting a spell on me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:11 PM
2

Your completely right I keep saying the same thing like hey some guys are shit some girls are shit doesn’t mean everyone is. People can’t want different things and enjoy life in different ways not everyone follows this guideline that both sides generalize. Most people when they have a bad interaction with someone of the opposite sex just go damn what an asshole and move on but it seems like for some men and women on Reddit they just go man fuck the other sex they all act like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:03 PM
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You’ll get a lot happier when u start having fun with it. I just try to remember these are some dudes that everyone knows are wrong except for them. It’s like flat earth it’s always fun to see how they think cause I honestly can’t understand it sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:59 PM
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Thank you I always thought it was a little weird like bye everyone my dad was hot af when he was my age. I’m more cool with the posts that celebrate their parents kind of like my parents were such a cute couple or something
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:43 PM
1

No please it’s so much fun to see the posts. I’m bored at work my main source of entertainment is the incels with terrible logic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:42 PM

Oh alright then yea makes more sense I thought the dude asked what arouses you and the answer was kindness in that scenario it makes no sense but I see what ur saying about just asking what someone wants. It’s kinda like when we were teens and you would tip toe around certain answers you want either because you were embarrassed or cause you were nervous and asking someone what they like sexually can be an awkward topic to bring up. However yea people should just say what they mean will they no. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:41 PM
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I technically still had sex but I stopped it really fast once because I didn’t wanna miss the movie I paid tickets for she was tryna be spontaneous and have some car sex like that’s cool but I came here for a movie
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:28 PM

Oh yea I was confused by the typo and I might still be is it saying that men asked what arouses women and then women said they found kindness to be sexy in response or did men ask what do you like in a guy and that was the reply?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:26 PM
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Yea basically is. Most of the “facts” I feel can easily be explained. Most of the rhetoric I feel like is there just to keep playing with the minds of incels and people like that so they stay poison and keep blindly following this group.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:24 PM

Looks are secondary in the sense that over a long period of time personality will last longer and will matter more as you age. For young fun looks will matter more. I always say looks and personality are like 60/40 or 70/30 leaning towards the personality side. Of course typically you’d want to be attracted to ur partner but attraction can be in many ways and doesn’t always have to be the typical societal standard some people find other feature more attractive that wouldn’t always be a normal th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:22 PM

Well in ur post it said arouse and not like unless I read it wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:12 PM

That boils down to the person a lot of people can just have conversations and at the same time there can be points where you don’t know what the other person means not everyone is straight forward and that’s just how people are some are more straightforward some aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:03 PM

I see your point of view but your points are kinda of trash but I’m on the side of people not just blaming the other sex for everything when it comes to dating and just having some level of understanding between each other. For your post on why can’t people say what they actually mean idk there’s tons of reasons. Everyone does it at some point and it’s just how people kind of are sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:49 PM

I’m grateful for my loving friends and family. It’s Bebe a while since someone did something for me but I’d saying just my friends hanging out with me makes me happy enough. Last good thing I did was supply the weed and bless my friends
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:35 PM

There’s also a lot of women doing the same there’s bad people in this world and there’s good people to cause there’s a bunch of happy and good relationships too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:15 PM

I mean women get rejected too it happens yea maybe at lower rates but that’s because we do have to initiate sometimes. Yea you’ll get rejected that’s the dating world every person u meet won’t be the one. Sure it can be a double standard and I’m all for women approaching men more nothings stopping them but it’s prob the same reason guys don’t it’s nerve racking no one likes getting rejected I know when I started approaching girls and getting rejected it was annoying but it built my confidence mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:10 PM

Glad we came to a consensus have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:08 PM

Yea but what’s the issue than girls aren’t approaching u but u have to approach girls. Honestly tough luck man ur a dude we got our advantages and disadvantages approaching women doesn’t ruin the dating world it’s just something u gotta get used to but it is nerve racking
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:01 PM

I don’t think paying for a meal is instinct but I also don’t think guys paying is wrong or anything. If people truly have a problem for it then split the check if the girl is upset by that then obviously you guys have different values so it wasn’t going to work
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:35 PM
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Naw bro a sex prescription fr. I get it that for some guys it can be hard to have sex but a sex prescription is just sad and won’t help at all. Improving on oneself and finding a partner with similar interests to have sex with would probably me way more effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:34 PM

I agree the pay thing honestly isn’t that huge of a deal unless the other person is a dick about it and expects it. No one should expect a meal to be paid unless it was a given. All I was saying though is this constant back and forth between men and women and whatever is very annoying and helps no one and only hurts the people with this ideology who generalize half of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:32 PM
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I’m general don’t generalize women and u won’t have these issues. Also it’s not women’s fault that men become incels and misogynist because they won’t date you. If women truly only ever went for the hot dudes then why are there so many average dudes and ugly dudes with girlfriends I don’t understand that. Women aren’t only choosing the hottest guys their just not choosing you. A good reason for that could be this kind of thinking it helps u in no way when it comes to finding a girlfriend. No gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:31 PM

Generalizing a whole sex is a big disconnect too like this post not everyone thinks like this. Also initiating as a man can be annoying like yea I’d liked to get approached too but that’s not how it works unless ur a really good looking dude. Initiating isn’t that bad because you have to initiate if you want to pursue a relationship even some women do it although it can be rare when ur an average dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:26 PM

This is where the disconnect lies don’t think about men that way same way this dude shouldn’t think of women this way it help’s absolutely no one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:24 PM

That’s definitely one of em I think the biggest disconnect is forgetting we’re all people with different minds and not everyone is going to think the same like with the paying or the initiating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:23 PM
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Yea this subreddit can be a lot of fun seeing the incel posts and talking to em but I agree with you on ur points in some parts and the main issue is that both sides of this argument need to realize it’s not that deep literally it just ain’t that deep sometimes. Also not making everything a competition and forcing ideaologies down peoples throat. If people put their ego down and just try and understand someone’s point of view it’ll work out a lot better
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:54 PM
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Yea I’m sure some of these people are normal rational human beings but blue pills annoying cause they don’t wanna listen and same to the red pill. On top of that the knowing the painful reality I literally just talked to someone like that. You can’t even attempt a conversation because they truly believe that they know some hidden truths and everyone else is sheep it almost feels like a mental illness but it’s probably more just chronically online
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:37 PM

Yea I’m a dude I was in those shock humor groups it’s a lot of fun and yea sure it can sometimes just be stuff between friends but people have feelings and sometimes those jokes hurt and get old when you’ve heard them all your life. Right now your just giving off a oh men aren’t that hurt by fat shaming kind of attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:16 PM

Well what some call bullying you’d call friendly little jokes and it’s clear u rather have a who gets oppressed more argument instead of truly seeing both sides. Women are of course hurt by body shaming same as men don’t act like oh but men don’t get it that bad so who cares for a lot of men they do get it that bad and I said it’s celebrated more as in people can be very mean and supportive with women in this aspect. Women had more plus size models than men do for sure the most progress for men …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:12 PM
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God I get it now I’ve broken free from the matrix the colors are brighter sounds are more beautiful it’s all so clear now. I finally know the truth all these betas will keep being slaves to the system unlike me who’s a giga chad alpha sigma male the longer I stay a loser virgin the more powerful I’ll become
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:59 PM
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I see and if I keep shitting on them long enough and being sexist and believing that all women are bad then surely I’ll have a healthy happy long lasting relationship I mean there’s no other solution to it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:52 PM

Don’t see it as ur wrong there’s some people who just handle rejection better than others nothings on u it’s on them. Only thing I disagree with is that friend zoning is def real it’s not in like a sexist way or anything like damn these women. It’s more like a damn she sees me as a friend guess I got friend zoned it doesn’t mean anything bad towards the girl it’s just like a gosh darn I got rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:50 PM

It probably works same way women might feel more comfortable to shit on men around women. When people are in their little echo chambers they love to bounce off their ideas. Then again it’s a smaller minority then we think that are sexist on both sides it just looks so rampant cause we’re on Reddit the place where rejects go to die or your just bored at work like me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:48 PM
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I think I’ve read about these women u think if I complain about them enough they’ll give me sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:47 PM
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Sorry to spoil this for you man but there’s people on both sides who date off looks and there’s people in both sides who date based off personality stop trying to make this a oh women do this more thing when u just generalized like half the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:46 PM

Those little jokes aren’t little to a lot of men who dealt with it that shit can hurt them same way women get hurt by body shaming it’s not a competition on who can get fat shamed the worse and you shouldn’t view it like that its simply not right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:44 PM

Wow you being a woman that’s a lil sexist honestly. Your completely invalidating men’s experience because u think women get it worse with being fat. Women are celebrated more with body acceptance than men typically are on media. Are men that soft is a disgusting way to put it. I shouldn’t have assumed u were a feminist just cause ur a women but you have to treat men with an equal level of respect
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:43 PM
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Alright ik u don’t care but I said it cause ik it was gonna come off as disrespectful. Also I see there’s no changing ur thinking fellow black man but I guess my experience with women is obviously different. Don’t live ur life off generalizing and not being able to put down ur ego. I’m sorry but u are a bit crazy with ur thinking I understand how u feel and why u feel like that but it doesn’t make it right you’ll be a lot happier when u stop accepting this so called “truth” and just realize ther…
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 03:42 PM
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Well yes thoughts aren’t crimes doesn’t mean ur not a bad person. Also I believe incels can get themselves out of that position but it’s more of a self loathing oh pity me kind of thing. I get it and I do feel for them but it’s hard when their extremely sexist. I get it people are ugly and can’t get girls but that’s not all that life is and on top of that I truly believe you can get girls maybe not as much as you want but it’s possible
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:39 PM
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Yea they can believe whatever they want doesn’t mean they should believe it and that it’s not wrong. Being an incel also brings nothing good to life from what I’ve seen at least if you could tell me some ways it does then maybe I can understand the community more. But what u said can also be used for like racism like yea it’s a free world and he can be racist but he shouldn’t be racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:52 PM
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When I say this it’s gonna sound disrespectful but I honestly mean it out of love like tough love cause i don’t want you to be unhappy forever. But dude stop being an incel and grow up honestly stop thinking that women are programmed or some shit to believe all of this stop thinking women are bad cause no sex stop thinking of all this women bad ideology I promise you that it won’t help at all with women and will only make you hate women more. I get life’s maybe been cruel to you in the dating wo…
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 02:50 PM
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Yea it is quite literally a you problem. I can understand why their acting like this because their sexually frustrated but just because u don’t get any doesn’t mean you can turn into some women hating incel that’s not gonna give you more girls to sleep with. Also yea sex is great but it’s not ur entire life everyone’s so obsessed with sex. If no girls are willing to fuck you or date you than maybe it’s time to do some self reflecting and some thinking about what can be done to better yourself. E…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:44 PM
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Wdym nothing will help anybody get more girls ?
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 02:40 PM

Idk if it’s fake cause it’s legit happening in certain communities of people. Should it exist absolutely not but there’s dumb angry people with ego problems who just like to argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:40 PM
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I don’t think dating and casual sex could ever really die. This kind of thinking just comes from sexual frustration which I see a decent community of dudes have this constant anger towards the dating world and women won’t help anyone get more girls though
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 02:34 PM
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In general households with two parents are better than one regardless of what gender parent leaves or not. On top of that although the single mom made bad decisions along the way it still doesn’t take away from the fact that being a single parent is difficult same goes to a man. And y’all gotta stop with this women sexual power over men stuff like yea I do know that in the dating scene it is tougher for men but all this sexual power women shit just makes it worse for y’all. This kind of thinking…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:27 PM

So ur mad that even cucks get girls before you do. First off I promise you that there’s more non cucks than there are cucks so dont act like this is something common. Also some people like that dynamic I personally don’t do I don’t live that life seems like u don’t too so these women’s they do like cucks won’t like you that’s how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:23 PM
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Ight bro dating someone has a lot more factors than physical appearance ik it’s crazy right. Yes physical attraction matters but that’s like half of it. Also I agree the vast majority of men don’t or shouldn’t think like that but you also can’t then generalize women in the same post. Also people feeling entitled to dudes more attractive than them I don’t think anyone should feel entitled but also I don’t think anyone should be upset that other people want partners they find I guess out of their …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:18 PM

Well that’s the thing at what extent do these guys just have to toughen up cause their just “harmless jokes” that stuff gets to someone just like it would to a girl. Guys also have this buff dude body image they see that their suppose to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:13 PM

It depends there’s a difference between anorexic and a healthy skinny body so it has to be sure that there’s a problem. Fat shaming and skinny shaming is bad there both forms of shaming and the people who get shamed for it feel bad about it. I will say it’s probably a bit better to be more skinny than fatter in todays society but in general there shouldn’t be shaming it should be more about wanting someone to genuinely better their bodies for themselves. I’m all about inclusion and loving yourse…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:12 PM

Naw ima have to deny that one dudes get fat jokes for as long as their fat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:09 PM
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Most valid answer both parties would have no understanding of talking about anything other than their subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:06 PM
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The real problem is this blue pill red pill whatever pill shit. Peoples egos are far too massive to ever have an actual discussion and trying to understand both sides instead both sides see this like a competition where it’s about who’s right and who’s wrong and no matter what ideas or words are presented to them they won’t change their minds. On top of that people allow anecdotal evidence to run their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:06 PM
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Yea and that can end good or bad big dicks are awesome for porn but for a lot of girls literally it’s too much and it makes it not good. Same with girls and the whole loose/tight pussy shit people talk about. It’s just people being obsessed with sex which makes everyone insecure and even more obsessed about it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:33 PM
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6-12 the magic number. I honestly think sex can be easy if people just communicate but no one cares about that in hookups so it’s just kinda doing whatever maybe it feels good maybe it doesn’t I’ve even had hookups with girls that were bad and I think that surprised me the most about sex is that girls can be bad too I think growing up I was always told and stuff that the dudes were trash at it and the girls were good but for the most part it kinda goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:23 PM
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Well no one should really lead a relationship this is something that’s between two people. Sure In the traditional sense men were the leaders in relationships if you want that then by all means but a relationship takes two people not one. But again it all depends on what the person wants in my household my mom was the woman of the house I guess and that just was the personality dynamic they both communicated and handled situations together but my mom was definitely the assertive one just based o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:54 PM
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Yea you can be honest about virginity but all that brings is maybe an awkwardness if the other person isn’t a virgin. I just said yes I lost it with my ex and that was it no one cares then no one cares now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:51 PM
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Yea for the most part i think it’s about how much they care. I know that sometimes I’ve been on hookups and honestly I was focused on myself cause like I don’t know this girl we have zero ties. But with someone I actually like I’ll actually put in effort and have foreplay not just for her but for me too and that makes the whole situation better for the both of us. For the most part I think dudes and girls focus way too much on the sex part of relationships like yes it is important but it’s kind …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:50 PM

Yea as a dude this isn’t a neutral fact cause you generalized women and so many people in this subreddit do this not only for women but for men too and it’s so annoying seeing people who can’t open their minds .5 percent to understand both genders aren’t these different species. Do we have some differences yes do we both think differently in some majorities yes but not all people think like this and to write that women don’t think based on reality is just false do some women think based more off…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:47 PM

Yea in my friend group I prob got caught up in the hookup culture more but honestly maybe it’s cause it’s the college scene but hookup culture felt pretty high like it was not hard at all and I’m an average looking dude. Out of college it’s probably a lot lower but in that college space I’d say it’s a 50/50 on people looking to hookup and people looking for something real
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:44 PM
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Yea my first time I lied cause I didn’t wanna seem lame hasn’t effected my life at all whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:40 PM
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Lmao I was abouta say the first time usually is shit cause both parties are nervous and lots of dude are trash but I think that’s mainly because they don’t care and just wanna get a nut off
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:40 PM

Dude this post said say something nice about the opposite sex and you couldn’t help but say something negative. We get it women have done you wrong in the past lots of people here feel the same as I’ve seen doesn’t mean you write people off yea this dude has a good wife there’s tons of them out there. Just say something nice about women like hey for the most part I’ve experienced women to be kinder when it comes to emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:34 PM
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Yea I didn’t know what purge week was but it has given me some good chuckles today. But yea I think women are more physically attractive than men but I’m a straight dude I have no idea what women see when they see a man. I have a female friend that’s bi and sometimes I’ll be like damn that girls fine right and she’ll say eh yea she’s pretty and for me I think she’s hot cause of physical and she meets all the usual things guys see but for her she really relies on connection for anything to happen…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:32 PM

Honestly same I love conspiracies not because I believe but it’s fun to pretend like it could be true I mean what kid doesn’t wanna believe there’s dragons or the megladon is still out there. It’s fun to believe these conspiracies sometimes for the same reasons people love the fantasy genre I think. However some people take it too far and genuinely with everything they have believe in certain things and it becomes part of their identity and they become lost. Flat earth is the one conspiracy I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:29 PM
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It definitely depends on length of the relationship plus the reasoning behind it. I mean a healthy relationship will have a healthy sex life so if the bed rooms dead obviously there’s an issue and something’s wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:26 PM
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Dude I promise if sperm banks didn’t exist you’d still be getting negative sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:37 PM
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Yea my metabolism makes me very lucky I smoke and I eat a fuck ton and im still skinny. Makes working out and gaining muscle annoying when everything I eat just burns
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:36 PM
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Yea ik what u mean it depends the strain for me sometimes but it’s usually what I do after work to relieve some stress too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:31 PM

I mean yea if everyone is mad their not dating a super model it’s pretty unrealistic but for the most part being picky isn’t that bad you shouldn’t ever feel like your settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:28 PM
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This was highly specific but yea for the most part some of these dudes are just socially inept
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:27 PM
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Damn that’s weird it helps me get focused and shuts off the noise
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:25 PM
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This is the dumbest logic I’ve ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:22 PM
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Sick I prefer weed for my adhd or maybe I just like smoking weed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:21 PM
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Yea like grow up I can easily be like damn that dudes good looking and have it not mean anything there’s girl I know are attractive but I’m not attracted to them it works the same way with both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:20 PM
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I mean I see lots of guys and ik their attractive like I’m not attracted to them but I know their good looking dudes no girl had to tell me that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:20 PM
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So u pissed of some incels what do you wanna do force incels to think differently their already too far gone most of em. Don’t pay them any mind your letting them win by letting them take up so much of your energy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 03:20 PM
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Yea I haven’t seen any comments like that but it’s probably just a few incels or something man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 03:18 PM
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Have people actually said that I haven’t seen it. What was the context cause that’s a wild statement. Also could’ve just been an incel troll so I wouldn’t say all guys on here cuz I certainly don’t believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 02:55 PM
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No it’s a flaw in most cases it might seem like less of a flaw cuz guys will go up and talk to girls the opposite way it’ll be hard for that shy guy cuz no one’s walking up to talk. But being shy typically isn’t the best trait
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:11 PM
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Your right I’m not shy at all I’m a complete extrovert so it is easier for me. However funny u said smoke I was one and it was hard to quit but I did it cause I wanted a better life for myself and u can too but with the shy part. Girls hardly ever come up and try to pick someone up I’ve only seen that with my hottest looking guy friends. For the most part girls are nervous too they’ve never had to pick someone up and their more used to a guy going after them. That’s fine dude we just gotta man u…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:56 PM
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Shy men aren’t punished by society for being shy. It will be very hard to date if ur shy because of course u won’t approach people as much and you’ll probably be a lot quite in social situations which makes it difficult to get to know u at all. Being more social and less shy will help ur chances. Some people do like shy guys or quiet men but those people won’t find u ever if no one approaches anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 08:03 PM
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Well there’s tons of different attributes it all depends on the person of course there are general things that people want. Plus ur ex dumped u cuz of different wants for the future it happens and it’s for the best of u guys have different paths
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 08:01 PM
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Well dude what do u want people to do ur born like that. Some people are hotter than others u can’t force people to find u attractive. It’s not rigged at all it’s just the cards u were dealt maybe u got unlucky and ur an ugly dude and 5’4 it’s gonna be tuff but it ain’t impossible or ur 6 foot and attractive yea you’ll have an easier time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:53 PM

At the same time men choose who they go after and eventually end up dating and marrying so we both have choices girls just got a lot more choices same way a hot guy would have more choices then u or me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:28 PM

Dude ur being an incel tbh in the nicest way possible. Yea women hold more “power” in the dating world they can get more options because majority of the time men have gone after women so it’s just kinda how the dynamic panned out. Just because a women can leave and can find another guy doesn’t mean they are the reason dating is ruined. Most guys only view it like this when they just can’t get girls and hold some resentment because if it. Also if women are the reason dating is so bad what’s the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:27 PM
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Ah well that just makes u a bad person then but it’s your life so u can do whatever u want with it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:18 PM
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I mean what does that do for you if u wanted to cheat u should’ve just been fucking around already getting into a relationship would’ve been a waste
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:23 PM
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I wouldn’t call monogamy a feminine trait and it really depends the girls you want to attract. Most girls aren’t going omg I want him when she finds out he’s a man who’re with a high body count. Most people still want monogamy too I don’t see the obsession with wanting to make it seem like a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:39 PM
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I guess the thinking there is do you want a relationship or to just fuck. Your also just kind of describing casual dating I think
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:33 PM
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The unattractive ones will always have some difficulty but that’s based off physical attraction. Plus being unattractive just means u probably won’t be getting a ton of girls doesn’t affect much else besides that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:32 PM
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Relationships are all risks u don’t know if the persons secretly a dick or the best person for you they can leave at any time it’s just a risk people take. I wouldn’t say their at a disadvantage because it’s what they want and they want to find women with similar mindsets
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:31 PM
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That usually depends on how much effort someone wants to put in on the guys and girls side. If your a guy you should want to please ur girl and guys have to understand hey it is a lil more tricky to understand but that’s because it takes something different than what it takes for a guy so do some research as well girls should be able to communicate to the guy what they like and don’t like every girl I’ve communicated with has had a good time because we understand each other better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:13 PM
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No one says that everyone says just work on yourself and talk to people. You don’t have to wait until ur 30
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:57 PM
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I was being sarcastic but it is the internet. Obviously this shit wasn’t created for sex I just thought it was a funny statement I’ve never seen someone say it before
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:23 PM
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Naw I don’t really want a long discussion I was just correcting the wrong part of ur post for the most part I see what u mean with what ur saying as a society it’s gonna be hard cuz people just love choosing sides and arguing this gender war shit was honestly been annoying sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:21 PM
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Did u mean 90? Also sometimes women have to file for divorce whether it’s abuse or no connection. Sure maybe there’s some deeper meaning behind why the numbers are skewed that we can try and solve but I wouldn’t blame women for divorce rates I’d blame people in general for making mistakes way too young. Also maybe put some emphasis on couples therapy for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:19 PM
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Naw I read it but you said a lot about men and women not being different so maybe you just formed it in a weird way that doesn’t relate to how you actually feel cuz I agree with u for the most part but the post just came off in the wrong way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:43 PM
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This is just a I’m too ugly and girls don’t wanna fuck me post. Bro I promise self loathing and being mad that no one will fuck u will not get u more girls. Girls will get with you regardless of how attractive you are sure not a lot will but someone will eventually like you and like who you are. Unless you act like this I don’t think I’ve ever been able to pull a girl by being mad that I’m not super hot and that girls aren’t always sending me flirty messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:40 PM

I mean it’s also ur opinion on beauty and ugly. An entire relationship isn’t only based off how someone looks they also can just look better to that person especially if they both connect
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:38 PM
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Yea no one should be judged solely off one thing but the whole statement that men and women aren’t different isn’t the way to post this claim cause that can easily be refuted. What we should do is not base people’s ideologies and who they are off just gender cause it’s an important part of who you become but hardly the only one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:36 PM
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I agree that people should be judged on other aspects and no one should be judged being a man or woman but we are different as a fact and by different majority of that gender will fall into a specific category or have a certain trait more than the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:34 PM
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There are some situations where people use this term to be annoying and sexist but men and women are actually different like it’s not a opinion it’s an actual fact and I’m a feminist and I think most feminists would probably agree men and women are different doesn’t mean one sides better than the other and it doesn’t excuse bad behavior from both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:33 PM
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Nah bro ur wrong everything u see around u was created for the sole purpose of sex. The only people who care this much about who women fuck are dudes that can’t get girls
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:31 PM

Lmao ong that’s what this post sounds like. Gosh if only the girls chose the nice guys like us and let me smash
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:30 PM
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Yea plus isn’t the divorce rate like 50 percent I’m sure not all 50 percent who shitty partners and sometimes people just realize they aren’t a right match or have changed over time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:27 PM
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First off this post comes off with incel vibes. Second it’s not hard to be empathetic when a lot of single mothers just sometimes get done dirty. Yea people should dare smarter people but sometimes people make mistakes guys do it all the time with girls who cheat on them or are just gold diggers there’s bad guys and girls and both parties can be done dirty by the other sex. Plus it’s easier for the guy to leave then the mother to leave a child. Gosh but if only women could fuck the nice guys lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:26 PM
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I have a high body count and I’m no Casanova girls don’t think highly of you if your body counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:32 PM
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What’s that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:32 PM
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Well ur right about that but not everyone cheats and not every relationship will result in cheating ur demeanor kind of made it seem like u believed that. I hope u don’t cause that kind of insecurity can be really hard to get past in a relationship I used to deal with something similar til I got over it so I get it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:09 PM
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Oh so ur all for cheating ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:02 PM
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Your going down a bad path then with that logic it can be used in very sexist, racist, homophobic ways basically anything bad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:02 PM
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Well what if a girl had a lot of sex but is no longer that type of person
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:01 PM
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So everyone is cheating if that’s true then what do we do about it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:52 PM
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Who’s they is it all men if so then are all women who’s body count is lower than their man’s getting cheated on. This kind of thinking only separates people more from each other and makes both genders hate each other more you can’t generalize men same way u can’t generalize women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:51 PM
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Would that same logic apply to women if so how do people end up getting into monogamous relationships after having a higher body count
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:48 PM
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It’s poor thinking terms to assume that someone purely just wants to cheat going into a relationship like that I do agree that this post is hypocritical I believe if you want someone like fit u should atleast be fit too ya know equal give n take. However some people don’t care about lots of things some girl might be a virgin and be cool with her guy having a high body count it just depends on the relationship I don’t like how people are vilifying both genders into these extremes in this comment …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:47 PM
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I mean I think this quite is hypocritical but ur argument is all wrong. Lots of people go through time where they have a lot of sex then just slow down if someone finally settles down fr don’t assume their some horny bloody thirsty dog that can’t sit without fucking something. People can change.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:45 PM
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Just cause it’s harder for one gender to have a lot of sex it doesn’t make it any less hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:41 PM
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I mean but it’s simple logic to me u want girl with low body count you should have something similar to offer most girls also don’t like high body count or don’t care. Same thing if I want a fit girl I should atleast be a fit dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:40 PM
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Yea it’s hypocritical and those men won’t find virgin women unless those girls don’t care about a high body count. I used to want a girl with a lower body count then mine got high so I don’t wanna be a hypocrite but I’d still prefer lower but it’s whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:39 PM
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No they shouldn’t receive money your raising your kids you shouldn’t have to be paid to raise them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:36 PM
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Even then I don’t think u should be doing anything that gives u pleasure like that everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:25 PM
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Once or twice a day sounds like a lil much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:37 PM

Well it depends the life both partners wanna live if it is a gold digger situation then their being childish and wanting a parent not a spouse but for a lot of people it could be stay at home dad or mom that end up falling in love with someone who’s richer and it makes more sense for one of them to be a stay at home parent
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:23 PM
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I’d say porn has caused a lot of harm on the mental of mainly men in how things works also due to improper sex education and it can be an evil or it can be a normal tool used in life it all depends on how people abuse it. If some people realize they are and choose to do nofap and it helps them better their lives then that’s all good for them I think scientifically it’s already been proven that nofap doesn’t really do anything on a chemical level but I could be wrong it’s been a minute since I re…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:20 PM
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I agree I was thinking of a relationship where the guy just doesn’t improve. Being good at sex isn’t that difficult if everyone just has a conversation with their partner about it sure you won’t be perfect the first time but once you guys learn each other it’ll be good. Also any person who runs back to their ex is just not a good person so it doesn’t really matter how good u were they’d probably leave anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:52 PM
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Yea I mean most hookups is kinda all about pleasuring your self like u don’t know the person and if u don’t care you just kinda wanna be in n out. I will say I think for most men they also enjoy sex more with a partner rather than a hookup like hookups are cool but it’s the same as it is for women when there just isn’t a connection
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:49 PM
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Cause mediocre is better than bad lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:46 PM
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Yea don’t worry about him some dudes are still in the “demon time” mindset but ur right most men like women also enjoy having a partner their comfortable with it also makes sex much better for men I didn’t realize that til I actually was with someone I cared about and was like damn so sex can actually be this good. It goes both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:44 PM
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Doesn’t everyone treat the person their attracted to different then someone their not. I mean yea guys can basically nut with anyone and most girls kind need an emotional connection. I wouldn’t say the orgasm problem is that I’d say that’s based off hookups where the guy doesn’t really care. Most relationships where the guy actually cares and tries to please his girl don’t have a problem with that. Also women communicating what they like is a big help no one’s born a sex expert and everyone’s bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:42 PM
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Can’t really generalize all women into only marrying richer also who doesn’t want to marry richer everyone would rather their partner make more money of course first thing that matters is who they are but a good bonus is their rich. Also most men typically make a lil more then women do. “Women expect men to pay” again it’s up to you to pay for stuff like dinner or what not don’t go along with it and be upset that women just want money just leave her and find someone who’s not like that there’s p…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:43 PM
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Yea most relationships won’t last long if this in ur type of thinking going into most relationships acting like that is just childish and makes u no better
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:24 PM
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What do you mean naturally know. How do you naturally know someone’s debt. Also if your a guy and u pay a girls debt that’s completely on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:23 PM
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Most people do in general media easily flips peoples minds
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:22 PM
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Kids need both missing one will always have some kind of effect having both doesn’t mean ur set up cause ur parents could always be shitty but u have a better chance of being raised with the things you need. Mothers offer very important things when it comes to raising a child same with a father
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:19 PM
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This applies to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:15 PM
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Well your talking about the extreme then and at any extreme there’s negatives so come on dude
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:00 PM
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What’s wrong with having a partner that plays video games for fun it’s just a hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:27 PM
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Well it’s a hobby some people like it when their partners have hobbies it can also be used for monetary gain if you want it’s literally depends on the person
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:06 PM
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Well it’s if you consider it a vice or not I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:52 PM

I mean I agree with u plus if that person has crazy high standards they most likely won’t be finding anyone cuz people aren’t perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:35 PM

Yea naw I don’t wanna end up like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:08 PM

Well I mean most people do go back to their ex every now and then because it’s easier to form a relationship with someone you already know rather than someone u don’t. If u look back to the first time you met your ex you wouldn’t know the kind of person they’d be the same applies to everyone else can’t really decide who they are after a few days. Sure you can fall for someone pretty hard in the first few days or weeks but you still have to get to know them to truly know anything. People do settl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:18 PM
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It’s probably a marketing thing I mean it’s trendy to be inclusive for companies and that’s usually a good thing for them. Plus I think more people are becoming bigger so it probably just makes them more money too it’s all about money never forget
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:40 PM

The goal is to not compare them to your ex I understand all the feelings you got and I denied countless people even when the girls hit almost every mark but just didn’t give me the same feeling. If you continue to compare everyone you date to this “perfect girl” you hold up on a pedestal where she could do no wrong then it’s gonna be impossible to move on and not settle. Understand your ex wasn’t the right one for you if it ended it most likely ended because you guys weren’t a right match at all…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:37 PM
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Kinda weird to make it a whole category of people I mean they didn’t really need a name could’ve just been dudes with no game
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:22 PM
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I mean men and women both say it a lot don’t generalize it towards one group of people no one wants to be with average everyone wants to be with someone they want to be with
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 12:33 AM
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I mean idk how to answer that cause what calls for a women to be average looking. Like I can dare a girl and think goddam she’s the most beautiful girl in the world but someone else might think eh she’s Ight. So I don’t think you can really answer that no one has crushes on average people because no one wants to date an average person. No matter who it is they’ll be a ten to someone els e
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:00 PM

No it’s not better to be homeless but you cause you don’t wanna be homeless doesn’t justify u to be a piece of shit. In this scenario this girl has absolutely nothing somehow and wants to cheat on her only source of anything cause she doesn’t like him anymore. Literally just try and work yourself to a point where you can survive and then leave is the least you can. I get what you mean by it’s justifiable but not really cause your just being a bad human being
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:33 PM

Your right it happens all the time people realize oh I don’t like that person and they break up. What you don’t do is cheat because you still need this guy or girl to provide you with stuff for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:27 PM

Then break up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:26 PM

That’s honestly a her problem. You shouldn’t use people for food and a house when your their partner your suppose to be their partner first. Don’t get with someone solely for the point of having a place to stay it’s just a moral issue at that point if you don’t love him leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:13 PM
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What does being an incel even mean then I always saw incels as guys who basically hate women for whatever reason it is and hates the popular people in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:00 PM

Then she should go be with that guy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:57 PM

I think what he’s saying is be a normal good human being and don’t cheat and leech off your partner for money and a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:57 PM
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