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–	Men need to come up with an alternative to marriage. Why not? It’s very natural for females across species to be highly selective. You think every male bird, deer or wolf gets to reproduce? We created systems and societal rules to ensure women needed to couple and depend on men. We regulated the laws of nature. Now that women have more rights and are better able to provide for themselves, you see them being more selective of partners. Yes. This means not every man gets a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 02:03 PM
–	Men need to come up with an alternative to marriage. I think that greatly depends on your social circle. I know couples who refer to their partner as their spouse in some form but they’re not legally married without plans to do so in the future. No one in our circle cares. It’s a statement on their commitment to one another/their relationship, not a reference to their legal standing as a couple. But I’m in a blue city in a blue state with really open-minded, accepting friends so… again, I think location and social circle matters more in regard to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 01:55 PM
–	Men need to come up with an alternative to marriage. Getting married is no guarantee. People aren’t NPCs that behave according to a set of pre-defined rules. There are so many things that go into someone’s sex drive, particularly women’s, even more so as they age. Men act like women intentionally do this bait and switch and I have to wonder how many become worn out as life gets busier/more demanding and have hormones thrown out of wack as they age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 01:46 PM
–	Men need to come up with an alternative to marriage. Anecdotal I know, but, lol I’ve thrice had the opportunity to marry. These were offers my bfs made knowing I’m not keen on marriage. This might shock you but different people want different things, of both genders.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 01:43 PM
1	Many women have been socially programmed to be self-centered and narcissistic. Gotta love how people above were asking for a more detailed/nuance example of what a deep conversation is and you kept skirting those questions saying that people know what you mean colloquially; yet here you are wanting to dig into the detail/nuance of this comment feigning ignorance of the implied meaning of “mean squat” here. Just a funny observation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 05:43 AM
1	The utter revulsion women feel and openly express against the idea of coddling or nurturing their partners like a mother figure is conclusive proof that women do not actually love men for who they are Okay but what about her HUSBAND’S messes? We’re not talking about mothering sons, we’re talking about mother partners. How many messes of his should she clean? Let’s say he works 50 hours a week. What portion of his messes count as labor to be contributed to the relationship?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 03:02 PM
5	The utter revulsion women feel and openly express against the idea of coddling or nurturing their partners like a mother figure is conclusive proof that women do not actually love men for who they are There are women that out-earn their men, and those numbers are only going to keep growing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 02:59 PM
6	Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so. They should choose better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 03:34 PM
9	There's No Shame in a Man Wanting a Bangmaid Jesus thank you. I was scrolling before commenting to see if someone else left something to this effect. Most people in my life would probably put me in a “hardcore feminist” box because I refuse to allow men to pay for me, I’m hyper-independent, etc. Most people when they find out that I LOVE doing feminine/domestic types or things to pamper my guy are surprised. But that comes with the caveat that my guy respects me and values me as a whole, autonomous, human being with feelings/dreams/thought…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 03:54 PM
–	Women are larping loneliness. OP is larping having a girlfriend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/26 01:04 PM
–	Women are larping loneliness. Seems like from the comments that this is the predominant assumption drawn from your post. I’d learn to communicate my point more precisely if I were you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/26 12:59 PM
0	Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege" Again, I’m happy you have found men that can take guidance without it being a huge ego-crushing or anger-inducing debacle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/26 04:10 PM
4	Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege" You’ve had phenomenal odds because in my experience most men absolutely are not obsessed with pleasing a woman in bed, and those that are severely lack the skillset (and the openness to coaching) to achieve that. Congrats! 👏🏻	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 03:03 PM
–	When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different things I’m hoping you could rephrase this because I’m struggling to understand what you mean/are asking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/26 12:46 PM
–	When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different things I have approached men. Up until recently I’ve had a zero percent success rate. So one out of somewhere between 20-50 approaches? Men act like they’d be over the moon and say yes if a woman approaches them but that’s just not the case. I’ve said it before, when men say this, they’re imagining someone they’re mutually attracted to approaching them. Thats just how it goes. 🤷🏼‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/26 10:49 AM
–	When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different things Also, men vastly overestimate how aware women are of their options. Some of the men I had MAJOR crushes on revealed to me years later (7 years after the fact for one particular bloke) that they had a thing for me. I was totally oblivious and truly thought they just thought of me as one of the homies. Up until this last year, I could count the number of times in one hand that I’ve been approached in public. Men think the average woman’s lived experience is just having money, gifts, and wieners th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/26 04:19 AM
5	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool This part. Most men that wind up feeling “creepy” after approaching, are being creepy because they don’t take the soft rejection and exit stage left.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/26 02:05 AM
3	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool Big ups to all the men not approaching where I frequent (gym, work, my grocery store, my regular coffee spot). I don’t like having to change my routine because a guy hit on me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/26 01:50 AM
–	The "she did it with her ex but won't with me" situation is typically valid for a man to be concerned about. What are you talking about? This isn’t a childish thing. I’ve stopped sharing music with partners because with previous exes we would bond over similar music and it would be on at home/around one another a lot and now when I hear XYZ artist I think of a partner. People will absolutely choose to not engage future partners with certain things because of this reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 01:32 AM
–	women hate “choose better” because they dont like the responsibility of when their choices go bad. And it only applies to them. Yeah but see, as men who are unwilling to listen and believe women’s shared experience with this type of thing you will never understand, because you refuse to, that most of these men are absolutely not communist china-sized walking red flagged assholes. Most are quite charming, lie about their intentions, manipulate emotions and investment, to get what they want (to have you hooked) and THEN they start revealing subtly that they are assholes. Of course, women have responsibility to slow down an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/26 08:57 PM
-1	Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women? Where in my comment did I say that women don’t do these things?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 01:23 AM
0	Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women? I mean, every woman should read this and realize that many men don’t (or don’t want to) see us as whole, autonomous people with dreams and need and desires of our own. Many men want servants and they view women as the people to fill that role. They want someone who will endlessly give and never ask to receive. Robots are perfect for men like this. I can’t wait until they get more advanced/affordable so these goobers can leave us alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 02:21 PM
-1	If many women say you are a total catch but won’t date you, the harsh truth is that they are lying to you. What should women say? “Don’t know what to tell you broski, you’d have women lining out the door for you if you weren’t ugly as fuck 🤷🏼‍♀️” Women communicate with more ambiguity because men are very unpredictable in their responses. A lot of men can’t handle honesty, a lot of men are unsafe to be transparent with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/26 03:57 PM
1	If many women say you are a total catch but won’t date you, the harsh truth is that they are lying to you. Well, firstly, yeah I would imagine most women don’t want to date their friends. There’s a sweet spot between acquaintance and friendship to dating a woman you know. Women tend to be more involved in social circles/networks and dating friends can be messy. And personally, there’s this mental block/shift I have once someone becomes a friend. I just don’t look or think of them as a dating option, idk why, it just happens. But to the first part of your reply: yes, I’m saying women use it to describ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/26 02:47 PM
4	If many women say you are a total catch but won’t date you, the harsh truth is that they are lying to you. Check the flair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/26 02:07 PM
1	If many women say you are a total catch but won’t date you, the harsh truth is that they are lying to you. Okay well I’m explaining how many women use that term in this particular context. You can disagree with the meaning, but I’m translating for you. Whether you like/agree with it or not, the context that OP described, this is what women will generally mean by it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/26 02:07 PM
4	If many women say you are a total catch but won’t date you, the harsh truth is that they are lying to you. Again, they’re a catch personality-wise/how they would treat/show up for a partner. These things matter to women but, just like men, looks are the barrier to entry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/26 01:32 PM
8	If many women say you are a total catch but won’t date you, the harsh truth is that they are lying to you. It means they’re a catch personality/behavioral-wise but ugly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/26 12:50 PM
5	Physical Touch Love Language Well, I’ll start by saying the love languages is a little bit BS but it can provide at least a baseline understanding of ways people feel loved/appreciated. I have a high libido so of course I value sex/intimacy, but I also love snuggling/hugs/etc. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Generally though, when I see a man put physical touch as their love language I do assume that they’re mostly looking for/meaning sex. It of course depends on other contextual information specific to the individual. EDIT: I’m editing to add that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/26 05:45 PM
17	Men (and society) want tangible value from women but are mad that women want tangible value too Clocking in early for this one. 🍿	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/26 09:53 PM
6	Women contribute significantly to men misreading them Then since YOU ARE AWARE that you struggle with these cues, why not give that disclaimer and at the end of asking say something to the effect of ‘hey, I sometimes don’t pick up on minor cues so if ever you want me to stop inviting you out in the future, please let me know. I don’t want you to feel uncomfortable’ Most women are going to give you so much more grace and likely feel more respected/comfortable being upfront.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/26 06:20 PM
4	Do women understand how difficult men have it in the dating market? (Not Incel content) That’s very sweet! I hope you can find her and return those same loving, thoughtful gestures!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 01:56 AM
4	Do women understand how difficult men have it in the dating market? (Not Incel content) Lol is Google’s AI enough to prove it guys?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/26 06:27 PM
4	Do women understand how difficult men have it in the dating market? (Not Incel content) I didn’t cum a FEW times with her Try, I came a FEW times with her and see if that makes a difference. I assure you, it does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/26 06:26 PM
4	Do women understand how difficult men have it in the dating market? (Not Incel content) If you have the choice between two women, average personalities (fun and bubbly, maybe some times dramatic, with some niche hobbies they love) but one is an 8/10 and the other is a 2/10, you’re going to tell him to chose the 2/10? Likely not, most would likely say, wow son, no idea how you captured that girl’s interest but don’t let her get away. People will always choose the best option available to them. The trick is, people are nuanced and you don’t always know what you’re getting up front. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/26 06:24 PM
3	Do women understand how difficult men have it in the dating market? (Not Incel content) Well that all depends on the specific struggle and the women you’re seeking to connect with doesn’t it? Are you not getting any matches at all? Are you getting matches but convos die super early? Are you getting first dates that don’t convert to subsequent dates?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/26 06:11 PM
6	Do women understand how difficult men have it in the dating market? (Not Incel content) Well, as I’ve mentioned in other comments, that lack of success does get to one’s head and absolutely seeps through in interactions with the opposite gender. No one is going to deal with a bitter, hateful in your words, person, and love them up until they’re reciprocating that effort. I know I’m not alone when I say the average, or below average, looking men (the type of dudes to don the “nice guy” label) that I’ve dated have been more bitter, more pushy, more insecure, and quite frankly meaner …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/26 05:56 PM
10	Do women understand how difficult men have it in the dating market? (Not Incel content) Yeah of course everyone wants this, but this is the disconnect. Men, of all different varieties (masculine/feminine) want a woman/partner who tends to them and cares for them and treats them sweetly. Many men do not return the favor. Men who think their role is to “provide” think of that provision as monetary (housing, paying for dates, buying a gift, etc.) Many men do not think of provision as listening to your partner vent after a long day, drawing a nice bubble bath without expectation of int…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/26 03:14 PM
3	Do women understand how difficult men have it in the dating market? (Not Incel content) Well that’s why I said regardless of how differently men might present, feminine/masculine, they ultimately want a woman to take care of them in some way, shape, or form. Because there are these differences among men, they phrase it differently, but I ultimately believe their desire to be the same/similar.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/26 03:06 PM
7	Do women understand how difficult men have it in the dating market? (Not Incel content) I don’t know a single person in my life, myself included, that gives a single fuck about whether there are men who are femboys or feminine. Maybe you need to meet different people or get off the toxic corners of the internet. There are all kinds of perspectives in the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/26 03:05 PM
7	Do women understand how difficult men have it in the dating market? (Not Incel content) Also, just to add: yes, women can get sex easily. And yes, men want to get sex easily. But would men be as interested in sex where they don’t get off most of the time? Only once in my life has a man gotten me off without a toy, and once with a toy. It’s very easy to abstain when men don’t bother to consider women’s pleasure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/26 02:59 PM
12	Do women understand how difficult men have it in the dating market? (Not Incel content) If you think this is aggressive then you’re very fragile.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/26 02:55 PM
8	Do women understand how difficult men have it in the dating market? (Not Incel content) The fact that being taken care of is seen as something emasculating is telling you everything you need to know. I would so disagree with this take. Nearly all of these men talk about how they want a woman who is soft and nurturing. I would argue that, just because how men might present differently (“alpha” “femboy” etc.) doesn’t change the fact that women are still desired to and expected by society to take care of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/26 02:50 PM
7	Do women understand how difficult men have it in the dating market? (Not Incel content) I’m not really going to answer the questions as it would take too long but I’ll say two things. Women, like men, of course want validation of their desirability. I’d argue most women also want to be respected and appreciated as whole people at the same time. This seems to be something that most men, in my experience, do not have the capacity to do. They want us sexually, then want us to stfu and leave them alone. This is unappealing. Men, generally, do not speak or act in ways that would lead on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/26 02:42 PM
2	Q4W: Do you actually pursue men you like? Chasing? Idk about that. But I definitely shoot my shot from time to time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 02:43 AM
–	Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worse Weird, considering I’ve been committed to on a number of occasions. 🤷🏼‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 12:00 AM
–	Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worse I mean I generally chat/screen my first dates for a couple of weeks prior to meeting. So if we’ve been chatting that long, there’s a spark, I’m super into the dude; I don’t see why I ought to hold back. Besides, I don’t want to get months into a relationship only to discover we’re sexually incompatible or he performs terribly in bed. I’d rather discover the misalignment prior to developing deep feelings. Sex is super important to me, I don’t want it to be difficult to walk away because I’m emoti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 02:04 PM
1	Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worse I mean, I’m sure a lot of guys have that same interpretation. That said, I’ve never once cheated in my life. 🤷🏼‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 08:01 AM
1	Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worse Do you mind rephrasing this? EDIT: not sure why someone downvoted this. I didn’t understand their comment and asked for clarification. 🥴	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/26 08:27 AM
3	Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worse No one said it doesn’t matter. These are personal choices. You asked me about my personal choices then decided to respond by lecturing me. Get a grip. I explained my perspective. You don’t have to agree, that’s totally acceptable. Live your life in a way you’re comfortable with; the rest of us will do the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/26 08:09 AM
2	Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worse Not really, I’m fairly average and I used to be big as hell. 🤷🏼‍♀️ It’s just about meeting someone you connect well with. I’ve had guys call it off after we’ve slept together, so what? They probably wouldn’t have been looking for a relationship with me if I had made them wait X-number of weeks either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/26 02:12 AM
3	Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worse Oh definitely not. If a guy asks my body count, which I think is fair and fine to do, I generally cut it off there because they won’t like my answer and we’re not really aligned on our views on that front.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/26 02:09 AM
7	Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worse You can absolutely be safe while not playing these stupid “I’ll make him wait until the 5th moon of Saturn is in mercury” non-sense. You can ask someone prior to going out to get tested and use protection, and you can absolutely set up code words to message friends on a schedule and let them know where you’re at. There’s an ocean between getting black out drunk and hooking up with a stranger in a club bathroom and communicating/facetiming a potential match prior to your date for a couple weeks a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/26 05:50 PM
19	Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worse I don’t really have those kinds of rules. I think game-playing is silly. If I like a man (his look, personality, skills, etc.) and I want to be intimate with him and he wants the same I go for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/26 02:56 PM
74	Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worse I slept with all of my exes on the first/second date… it has never prevented men from wanting to commit to me in my experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/26 12:30 PM
1	A lot of men would rather be with a woman who they know is using them than be single. Paying ensures the man will never get a second date with me. Some of us really do NOT want partners paying for us. Some of us really do want yo strictly provide for ourselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 01:01 PM
1	How do women view friendship with men? I mean, my friends are my friends. I’ve got two best friends that I would do unspeakable things for, one is a woman and one is a man. People are people, man. 🤷🏼‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/26 07:09 PM
–	Social Skills are underrated as a Man, and every man that claims its not that relevant has never seen a really charismatic man. I’m sorry my guy, but have you seen most men’s dating profiles? No one looks good in neon yellow, oakleys, looking down at the camera in their crotch or flipping the bird at someone they’re trying to woo. EDIT: some of this is obviously location-dependent (less likely for the profile above in say, NYC or LA)	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 01:38 PM
1	It's better to be the mistress than the wife I’m having a hard time following your commentary. You’re jealous because women have less T, therefore less drive? But you’re jealous of women? I must be misunderstanding your point, hopefully you can clarify.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 01:13 PM
9	It's better to be the mistress than the wife Exactly this. Ladies, be free.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 05:02 PM
3	No one hates independent women, you are just arrogant and obnoxious I have never dated a submissive man. Earning less money does not make a man less masculine or dominant. EDIT: This doesn't mean all responsibilities rely solely on you per se or he's completely submissive but the direction of everything is dictated by you. This is such a good illustration of a point I often make about the red pill. Just because someone is the breadwinner or has a dominant personality, doesn’t mean they do/need to dominate a relationship. Red pillers always talk about how women w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 12:19 PM
0	No one hates independent women, you are just arrogant and obnoxious In my experience it’s not that men are intimidated by a more successful female partner, but more that they internalize a certain feeling of failure or inadequacy which leads to a lot of weird (sometimes controlling) behaviors. There are also a lot of men that prefer their women to be more dependent on them. The types to shower them with affection and take the time to plan really cute outings. These are things that a women who spends an above-average time working and attending to professional or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/26 07:45 PM
4	Men should be happy to pay for the first date Yeah… I’m still not going to let a man pay for me… Too many losers think that picking up a $7 coffee means they’re entitled to physical intimacy. You do you, but some of us do not want to fight men over offering to pay on every date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/26 02:14 PM
5	Why are Men are obligated to pay but women are not obligated todo anything? And the irony is, these same red pill dudes get salty about women not reciprocating their payment through sex. Meanwhile the red pill talks about avoiding creating “covert contracts” where one side has expectations and deals that have never been discussed. Exactly like you said, a guy paying for dinner in hopes of getting paid back with some play was never an agreed upon arrangement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/25 06:16 PM
10	Why are Men are obligated to pay but women are not obligated todo anything? Yeah but the problem is, you’re assuming that women can just predict that things are going to go somewhere with the date. Obviously, that’s impossible. It could be discovered after the first date through conversations, or maybe one a subsequent date, that there’s a major incompatibility or maybe something off-putting happens that cuts the dynamic short. The guy, according to your first response, is going to be justified in feeling some kind of way about it. …that’s not the woman’s fault, it’s ju…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/25 06:12 PM
6	Why are Men are obligated to pay but women are not obligated todo anything? No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/25 06:04 PM
29	Why are Men are obligated to pay but women are not obligated todo anything? This is exactly why I refuse to allow men to pay for me, even a coffee. They think if they cover a $20 lunch tab that they’re entitled to stick things inside of me. I don’t sell myself, but if I ever did, it damn sure wouldn’t be for a measly dinner. No man on earth could afford it. I strongly encourage women to pay for themselves to avoid these tit-for-tat losers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/25 05:50 PM
2	Why do men need women? How would you know, OP, your flair says woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 10:31 PM
2	Why do men need women? This thread is cringe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 10:30 PM
–	Dating, marriage and children are not worth it for family-oriented men. I’ve got a full time and two part time gigs; one is fine dining and I’m on track to crack $80k at it, the other is coaching and while I actually make great hourly, it’s purely for the fun of being involved in a sport I love. The variety is great, it’s also really smart not to have all your eggs in one basket.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 04:38 PM
14	Dating, marriage and children are not worth it for family-oriented men. For real. I’ve never seen myself having kids but if I did, I would NEVER want to be the primary parent/stuck at home. I love working, I have three jobs. If I were inclined to the family life, this is exactly the kind of dynamic I’d want. There are women out there that would love this arrangement OP. Is it more difficult for straight men to find dates? Yes. Is a woman like this much much harder to find? Also yes. But that doesn’t mean they don’t exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 03:33 PM
–	Sex is a need, and men are losing today because they are not needed, which is a result of the Industrial Revolution. Sexual intimacy is not just about pleasure it is deeply tied to self-worth, confidence, and emotional stability. For most men, prolonged sexual rejection leads to depression, anger, and a sense of being fundamentally unwanted. I believe this. I would argue, however, that men should work on decoupling that thinking in therapy. Similar to how women who tie their self-worth to how many men find them attractive should work on that. It’s not healthy to allow your self-worth, confidence, and emotional…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/25 06:41 AM
–	I've tried helping a few younger guys get dates, something is wrong here. That’s weird to me. I swipe left on me. With no bio info filled out or ”I’m an open book, just ask”	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 09:03 PM
–	I've tried helping a few younger guys get dates, something is wrong here. When I did online dating back in 2017 as a man who isn’t super attractive, I had entirely way more luck then I did after I got divorced in my early 30’s. Why are you coaching men on dating when you yourself haven’t been successful?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 08:40 PM
7	Do women actually go to bars and clubs alone? Do women actually go to bars and clubs alone? Yes. I do. But in real life, I’ve literally never seen an attractive girl at a bar who wasn’t surrounded by a group of her girlfriends. Well if you’re only considering attractive women then you’re overlooking the unattractive ones that may be there by themselves. Do women actually go to bars alone, and if so, are they going alone in the hopes that a man will see them and approach them? No. Sometimes I just want to be out and about and my friends are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/25 02:05 PM
0	In my country there's a saying that goes "If you want to catch more fish, you should ask the good fisherman for tips, not the fish". It's talking about picking up women, obviously. Yeah, but fish know what they like. So if, instead of asking how do I catch fish, you ask fish what they like, you can incorporate that into your proverbial tacklebox. Again, my point is that just asking generic advice probably isn’t going to get accurate answers because you’re not considering the audience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 09:07 PM
3	In my country there's a saying that goes "If you want to catch more fish, you should ask the good fisherman for tips, not the fish". It's talking about picking up women, obviously. So, from that, I’m assuming you’re looking for short-term/casual/hookups. Then, again, I’d argue you want to ask women who specifically prefer short-term dating/hookups what they look for in partners. Unfortunately, there probably is a bigger emphasis on looks because if someone is having passing flings/hookups, outlooks on politics or lived experiences growing up probably matter a hell of a lot less than attractiveness. Like, if I’m just looking to hook-up with a guy, I’d prefer him to be a hot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 06:56 PM
14	In my country there's a saying that goes "If you want to catch more fish, you should ask the good fisherman for tips, not the fish". It's talking about picking up women, obviously. Well, this phrase is kind of misleading. Because the idea behind it is that ‘a fish will never honestly tell you how to catch them.’ The thing is, “how do I catch a fish(you)” is not the right question to ask a fish. Instead you’d be more effective by asking the fish things like what do you prefer to eat, where do you prefer to eat, when? Are there things you go through that make you less hungry/less inclined to eat. Circling back to women from the analogy. You’re better suited to ask the type o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 06:35 PM
2	What guys really want Yeah if you’re a tourist and eating at decent/higher end restaurants to be able to have an elevated experience while traveling maybe… But if you’ve lived there you’d know that you can get meals, albeit quick and easy ones, that are filling and blow some sit-down Japanese restaurants in the US out of the water for around $5. It’s not even comparable how cheap it is to eat fairly well in Japan. Yoshinoya is the GOAT, I miss it 😭😭😭	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 04:39 PM
5	What guys really want It’s also just the Japanese customer service philosophy: omotenashi (お持て成し). Being overtly hospitable, showing genuine care, and going above and beyond for customers is just how things are done there. OP is weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 02:30 PM
1	CMV: These "Her" like AI experiences won't alleviate loneliness for men I don't agree with shaming people for AI partners...? Not sure if that was your takeaway from my response or not, that's just how it seems from reading your comment. As long as no one is being harmed, let people do what they want is my opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 06:58 PM
1	CMV: These "Her" like AI experiences won't alleviate loneliness for men I agree that this is good for women. I think there is probably a decent overlap in the types of guys that will be drawn to AI girlfriends and the types of men that lack introspection/growth/accountability. Someone else commented on this thread that AI girlfriends would be a more perfect version of women, without the flaws. I think a lot of men aren’t mature enough to have a girlfriend with differences of opinion/lifestyle/perspective and can perceive women’s autonomy as a flaw. Obligatory NOT AL…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 03:26 PM
4	What is your perception of 40+ Single Childless Men??? Preferred. 🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 04:38 AM
10	What are your thoughts of prominent feminists in power who do things that men in power are chastised for when they do the same actions? Brother, I don’t know if you’ve seen the news these days. When did this article come out? Because if it was recently, then it’s not surprising it’s not risen to the top of the news cycle with all the Trump-Musk reporting. Also to answer your question, I think the allegations are abhorrent. It doesn’t matter that she’s a woman, that’s a gross abuse of power and crosses so many lines.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 10:48 AM
8	Q4M: Why aren't men as into Consensual Non-consent or raep fantasies as much as women? I wonder if men are less likely to self-report having these fantasies. One would imagine that straight men fantasizing about CNC would be fantasizing about being the perpetrator, which, for obvious reasons is something folks would be less likely to own up to. No clue either way but that’s my armchair-researcher-speculation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 10:14 PM
24	What you date a man who has seen an escort under these circumstances? I would never date a man that I knew had seen an escort. Regardless of circumstances. Hard no from me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 09:59 PM
2	As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men. I mean I can see where you’re coming from but I personally like to pursue > being pursued. I’m usually pretty forward with the men I like/am dating. Unfortunately, I would agree that who I like, is a lot more finicky. /:	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/25 10:19 PM
1	Why do you not use dating apps as much as us men? I’d say 2,3, and 5 from your list resonate with me. Honestly, dating just isn’t worth it. I have a pretty awesome life filled with people that love me and are fun to be around. I just don’t feel the need/desire to date men anymore and, unfortunately for me, I’m only attracted to men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 09:02 AM
4	"Lower your standards" is good advice for women but bad advice for men Obviously this is slightly hyperbolic	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 06:41 AM
–	Would the next generation of women be ok with a 60/40 split marriage? I’m good with 50-50 or being the main provider. Men are notoriously unreliable as providers and I would never put myself in a position to be reliant on a man for my life/lifestyle. I have no interest in a man contributing more financially to the relationship than I do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/25 03:25 AM
1	Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true. Blood transfusions are a need, but they aren’t mandated by law. Okay… but people that need blood transfusions and don’t get them can die. Men will not die without sex. Of course sex is a huge biological drive, the desire for physical intimacy is wired into most people. Stating that it’s a need; however, makes it sound like it’s the same level of need as air or water, and it’s not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 02:57 PM
6	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? Well that’s why I don’t feel like I’m wasting men’s time. I’m not trying to collect a bunch of instagram followers. Personally I feel it’s more time wasting, not to mention disrespectful, to go on multiple first dates with a bunch of men around the same time. Eventually I’m going to have to pick one. It’s fairly tricky to sus-out compatibilities and elements where I’m not in alignment with someone if I’m doing the same thing with 3-4 guys at once. I just take it as I’d rather be focused on one p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 09:35 PM
7	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? I’m not opposed to meeting someone, I’m just not making actively looking for someone a priority. If I meet the love of my life, amazing! If not, I’m content with what I’m doing for now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 09:28 PM
6	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? I mean, I get approached occasionally in real life too but my feeling is the same; I’m just not very interested right now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 09:27 PM
11	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? Well personally on the apps I approach it like this: Start talking to a few guys I match with One of them suggests moving off of the app/going on a date I inform the other guys I’ve chatted with that I only see one guy at a time and someone else proposed getting together first so I’ll see where that goes. I keep my profile up unless/until dating gets more serious/official. I acknowledge that there are only so many people they can match with at one time so no worries if they unmatch me. But if th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 08:32 PM
8	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? That’s an interesting thought. Right now my number one focus outside of survival things (work, my home, etc.) is establishing a mutual aid group. I think because I do a great deal of community building/organizing, I have a lot of my social and connection needs met. This is probably the biggest contributor to the lack of desire to date; I’m just fortunate to have cultivated a lot of connections with other people and supportive communities in my life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 08:19 PM
11	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? I get where you’re coming from but I don’t feel that way. When I’m in a relationship, I’m not constantly analyzing what my partner does or doesn’t do for me. Maybe a more accurate way to express it is just that a relationship isn’t necessary for survival? Like, it’s nice to have one, but it’s not necessary to have one. I’m on a pause right now so I personally don’t believe I’m wasting anyone’s time. I’m pretty clear with where I’m at with the few men I’ve talked to on apps. I also only talk to/g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 08:16 PM
24	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? A few things: Straight men genuinely do not understand how to market themselves on the apps. While I do love being in relationship and in love, what other than very occasional fuzzy-feels do I get out of it? I pay all of my own bills, have lots of love and support from friendships, and can get myself off easier, faster, and more reliably than any man can. It’s just not necessary as a woman to be with a man, IMO. I’m a great partner and I enjoy being with someone but honestly the juice just isn’t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 07:13 PM
10	Can the illiterate be sexy? If you’re in the US, it would shock you how many students were not properly instructed on how to read. NPR did a fascinating series called Sold A Story which delves into the issue. (Also, this guy documented his process of teaching himself as an adult to read if you’re curious: https://youtu.be/NhYrDSTFrRo?si=tPbcqIS38gI_8LqB)	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 05:53 PM
3	Can the illiterate be sexy? It depends on why he’s illiterate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 05:50 PM
1	The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think. Perhaps men can work on separating their worth and fulfillment on romantic relationships with women. Tying your worth and purpose to having a relationship with another person, leaving that control and power of your life externally, is a recipe for disaster.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 04:10 PM
4	The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think. Okay...? You think women's rights groups never faced the same kind of societal/public scrutiny? You don't think suffragettes were derided and antagonized? Hell, a lot of these groups faced jail-time for their advocacy, and still, they persevered because women having the right to vote was more important than the public's perception of these groups/individuals. You're telling me that men's access to spaces where they can hear, uplift, and support one another are so important that the consequences …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 04:05 PM
1	A man should never be vulnerable with his partner, since women can't handle men's emotions Yeah but if you genuinely feel this way, stay single. If you believe it to be an illusion, why engage in delusional behavior?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 11:18 PM
1	A man should never be vulnerable with his partner, since women can't handle men's emotions That doesn't sound particularly blue pill. A woman only need a man's honesty. His vulnerability and true feelings are for trusted male friends or mentors. That's why healthy male circle are a must for a man's growth If this is true, then why would men want to be in relationships with women? What is a romantic relationship without emotional intimacy and vulnerability? You're saying men need to mask their emotions out in the world, only to come home and need to mask them even harder? That just sou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 06:04 PM
50	CMV: Confident, smart women intimidate males Aside from the fact that she is conventionally unattractive physically, WWT (the gal in the video) is the MOST INSUFFERABLE PERSON on the planet. I doubt I would be able to stand being in a room with her for more than ten minutes. There’s a big reason she’s single and it’s not because she’s fat, it’s not because she’s confident, and it’s not because she’s smart. It’s because she’s annoying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 02:38 PM
17	Men need to get in touch with their inner asshole to acquire love. He’s been in a series of dead bedroom relationships, supposedly. Guy is a grade D troll.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 06:10 AM
6	To women who had sex on a first date in the past - would you date a guy who openly says he prefers to do this prior to meeting? Well I’m stating my perspective, women are a monolith; how cool. I guess the honesty is good but I highly doubt this guy is going to find anyone matching with him. Now, to bring it up if a conversation is leading to sexual preferences before the date…? That would be an appropriate time to talk about it. But again, you’re going to find most women are put off by the entitlement. Similar to how most men are going to be put off by the profiles saying things like the key to my heart is paying my bill…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 01:59 PM
11	To women who had sex on a first date in the past - would you date a guy who openly says he prefers to do this prior to meeting? Wouldn’t you rather people just behave how they naturally would? Instead of feeling pressured to conform to a certain type of behavior to ‘catch’ someone? Seems weird. I want men showing up as their authentic selves so I can gauge if we’re a good match; not showing up pretending to be who they think I want only to discover down the road that they aren’t that person and we’re not aligned once the mask starts falling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 08:22 AM
12	To women who had sex on a first date in the past - would you date a guy who openly says he prefers to do this prior to meeting? Your OP isn’t asking for an alternative. It’s asking why or why not would a woman who has been intimate on a first date go out with someone who explicitly states that expectation in their bio. I answered your question, no? I do not understand what you’re saying here: I guess it’s just tough luck that you liked him and there was zero acceptable way to convey boundary line.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 07:58 AM
16	To women who had sex on a first date in the past - would you date a guy who openly says he prefers to do this prior to meeting? I mean, the respectful thing to do when you know it’s not going to work is to tell that person as soon as you realize it. And stating but you didn’t have sex with me. I feel you’re not into me Make you sound whiney AF. She’s either going to think you’re a total asshole or an incel throwing a temper tantrum. Most people can be into someone and still be cautious opening up sexually when starting to date someone. Again, it’s fine if someone feels that sex=interest, but it’s probably worth investiga…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 06:29 AM
15	To women who had sex on a first date in the past - would you date a guy who openly says he prefers to do this prior to meeting? I think you don’t need to outright state the expectation. It’s going to hurt your prospects. I do also wonder if this hypothetical man has reflected on past relationships and dead bedrooms to assess if their behavior or approach contributed in anyway to the issues in the bedroom. To be honest, this hypothetical dater would be better served by doing that honest reflection and applying lessons learned to new dates. Instead of outright stating he’s expecting intimacy on the first date, he’d be bett…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 06:23 AM
21	To women who had sex on a first date in the past - would you date a guy who openly says he prefers to do this prior to meeting? Yeah sounds like OP or… excuse me, his hypothetical bachelor, may have a problem inspiring passion and desire in his partners. Of course, it could also be he just happened to pick a bunch of low libido/non-sexual partners in the past, but there’s also something to be said about cultivating intimacy (not just sexually) and lust in your relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 06:17 AM
14	To women who had sex on a first date in the past - would you date a guy who openly says he prefers to do this prior to meeting? You don’t have to ghost someone? Wtf. Just be mature and say ‘Hey, the date didn’t pan-out like I was hoping, I don’t think we’re a match. Best of luck.’ You sound immature and disrespectful OP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 06:08 AM
18	To women who had sex on a first date in the past - would you date a guy who openly says he prefers to do this prior to meeting? The current top commenter nailed it; no, because of the expectation/entitlement. For me, on the occasions where I have been intimate with someone on a first date, things just naturally wound up there. Length and depth of communication leading up to the date, great connection/conversation, respect, attraction, etc. were some of the elements that contributed to that. I personally would not go out with someone who outright stated that there is an expectation of sex upon first meeting. To be clear, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 06:04 AM
7	Red Pill Topics Exist Because With Social Media and Apps, The Internet Exposed How Women Are and Have Always Been that women are more like guys than you’re letting your brain imagine It’s almost like… women are people!	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 04:43 PM
2	Red Pill Topics Exist Because With Social Media and Apps, The Internet Exposed How Women Are and Have Always Been OP’s username sounds like a cocktail at a gay bar.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 04:31 PM
2	When Women Hookup They Are Playing a Bad Numbers Game OP is the male version of Lilith of Babylon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 02:49 AM
13	Nearly every woman has been in an abusive relationship, yet they still claim they aren’t drawn to toxic behavior Which, this stereotype is so funny to me because the hotter the guy I’ve dated, the better partner they were. Cooperative, respectful, faithful. All things that, apparently, hot guys are not supposed to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 11:53 AM
19	Hyper independence is making men and women incompatible. Okay so then have young women be forced to register for a potential draft when they turn 18 like men…?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 12:36 PM
1	Most marital problems happen because men love their wives. Name one of those times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 05:22 PM
1	Most marital problems happen because men love their wives. I would like 1 of everything OP is smoking. On second thought, I might devolve into spouting off whatever nonsense this post was… nevermind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 05:12 PM
–	How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners? How can a man not feel worse? By maturing…? This is like a girl throwing a fit because she found out her 50-50 boyfriend used to foot all the dates/bills/expenses for girls he used to date. Maybe the guy realized over time he was not getting the outcomes, appreciation, love he wanted by doing so. Maybe she shouldn’t settle for a 50-50 relationship if that’s not what she wants. Likewise in this scenario. If a woman realizes overtime and through experience that maybe she really doesn’t enjoy the t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 06:20 PM
3	What's the point of 30+ women dating if their values already tanked in the dating market ? <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 12:05 AM
6	Seems like the women that men here actually want wont go 50/50 on dates. Nothing screams luxury like polyester. 🤌🏻	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 02:13 PM
9	Expecting for men to pay for your first date sets a bad precedent for the relationship You’re not entitled to the majority. Okay, so your dating pool will be smaller and more competitive if you’re looking for 50-50…. So what? It’s no different than the women who want 6ft, 6 figure, 6-pack dudes who will bankroll their life. It’s not right or wrong, but no one is entitled to that and it absolutely will limit your options and likely make dating more difficult. Such is life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/24 04:28 PM
11	Why are so many women in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects? For women who want children, I personally would absolutely advise against dating older men. I made this comment on a different thread somewhere yesterday: Also, recognize that the quality of sperm production absolutely decreases as a man ages. Sure, they can still continue to produce sperm later in life, but that might not be the healthiest, most viable genetic material.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 02:21 PM
3	What happens to women who go through a hoe phase in their 20s later in life? Your making the argument that correlation equals causation. In all likelihood, there’s probably a significant overlap between the women who don’t have casual sex, or sex out of wedlock, and the women who are members of conservative and/or religious circles. Obviously, if a woman is an incredibly devout Catholic conservative for example, she’s less likely to have had many partners outside of her husband and also less likely to divorce. Women from these types of communities face not only the stigm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 09:44 PM
6	Women feel they don't need men despite needing men; Men feel they need women despite not needing women. You think back when humans were nomadic that the women didn’t stay back to watch children, get meals ready, AND set up camp while foraging and hunting parties left the site?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 04:32 PM
13	Women feel they don't need men despite needing men; Men feel they need women despite not needing women. Well… I’ll speak for myself but my Glock protects me. 🤷🏼‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 04:22 PM
15	The 4B movement is just female MGTOW. Same. People can abstain from romance and intimacy without being bitter. Sometimes it’s just better for your wellbeing to not date; it’s seeming more and more common these days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 04:22 PM
10	Red pill men want tradwives but not gold diggers? To the Red Pillers, women are damned if we do, damned if we don’t. They want us, but they also don’t like us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 03:46 PM
22	Q4W: Why do you only swipe right on the minority of men? Don’t forget the not insignificant number of profile where they’ve got pictures flipping the middle finger. Honest to god, a lot of dudes would probably have success in a normal, real life setting; unfortunately most of those same men have no idea how to market themselves to straight women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 09:41 PM
–	AI girlfriends are going to completely change the dating game, and it's going to happen very soon. Hot pockets are an unexpectedly perfect metaphor here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 03:08 PM
6	q4w: After a great night of sex, you wake up to the man of your dreams. You listen to his stomach grumbling in hunger. What is your next move? Did, dm me the deets! 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/24 08:39 PM
–	Modern Women Are Incapable of Accountability Good god, the incels are out today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 10:29 PM
3	Having a partial facade a good courting strategy for men, even if it annoys women who value authenticity Thinking that grooming and putting effort into your appearance is the same as intentionally manipulating and lying about your core values is delusional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 02:38 PM
3	Having a partial facade a good courting strategy for men, even if it annoys women who value authenticity This thread is a great reminder to myself why I no longer want to date. We love to paint women as the manipulative gender but honestly? Men far outdo women when it comes to lying and manipulation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 02:36 PM
–	If women like bad guys, who don’t men…. Anybody else nearly have a stoke reading the title? Christ almighty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/24 02:20 PM
–	If women like bad guys, who don’t men…. Hibristofilia is incredibly rare. Please go get some help OP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/24 02:18 PM
1	Why do divorced men seem to struggle so much even when financials are not an issue? Where did I ever say women aren’t personally responsible for decentering men? Where did I say women’s fulfillment or lack thereof is caused by society? I was replying to the commenter above me that, as far as I interpreted, wants it both ways (stating that men don’t want to be mothered but also for some reason can’t discover their purpose on their own). So, because I was unclear, I asked a follow-up; sincerely. Other responses to my question have promoted a more sardonic response from me as they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 12:33 AM
7	Why do divorced men seem to struggle so much even when financials are not an issue? Why don’t men do more introspection and take accountability of their lives and fulfillment? Women were spoon-fed all the fairytales of being a wife and motherhood and we’re starting to shed that. I’m not a man but it feels like men were told to focus on identifying what their version of a fulfilling life is and to go after those things… isn’t that what a lot of online advice for men is? Particularly from the red pill…? ‘Focus on yourself’ ‘work out’ ‘build a successful career you love’ and that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 07:56 PM
8	Why do divorced men seem to struggle so much even when financials are not an issue? Why do men struggle to find that within themselves then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 07:20 PM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid I agree that those attempting to create social/political change by participating in 4B are overly optimistic of the impact it will have. That said, I think on an individual level, for a lot of women, participating in/living by 4B principles is a net positive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 04:01 PM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. What are you talking about? 4B is a commitment by individual women to not sleep with men, not date men, not marry men, and to not have children. So how would an individual woman committing to those four things be like cutting her nose off to spite her face?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 11:03 AM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. How do you reckon?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 09:22 AM
–	Women Date Out Of Their League By Exploiting a Loophole Leave him be, he’s coping.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/24 02:32 PM
7	The Orgasm Gap Is Mainly About Biology and The Rest is Entirely Women's Own Fault Exactly. Lots of men refuse to take feedback from their female partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/24 07:03 PM
16	The Orgasm Gap Is Mainly About Biology and The Rest is Entirely Women's Own Fault The reality is when a woman tells a man what she likes, the four most common responses she’ll get are: 1. Intense defensiveness from the partner 2. Depressed/pouty partner 3. Request/feedback blatantly ignored by her partner 4. The partner will incorporate the feedback but perform it poorly (ex: stimulating sensitive areas too roughly) Many women learn it’s just not worth providing feedback in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/24 05:04 PM
41	The Orgasm Gap Is Mainly About Biology and The Rest is Entirely Women's Own Fault Tell me you’ve never been a woman who’s tried to have a conversation with a male partner about how to improve the finishing rate without telling me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/24 04:51 PM
15	To women, how would you feel if your partner spent a lot of money on his past partners but is relatively frugal with you? This is exactly how I view it. I don’t twist myself into knots about what my partner did with previous partners. As long as they weren’t abusive/cheating/etc. in past relationships, I consider it none of my business.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 04:13 PM
0	AWALT is just code for “I associate with shitty toxic women, but Im TOTALLY not the problem.” It's almost like... a lot of people(regardless of gender) have rose-colored glasses when dating and struggle to look objectively at shitty dynamics when they're attracted to/like someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 04:35 PM
6	"Divorce is better for the kids than their parents not loving each other" actually, I am not sure this is true. So what if they’re less likely to get married? Why is that such a bad thing. I’d argue that previous generations have shown us (through divorces and shitty marriages) that many folks shouldn’t have gotten married either. Can’t get divorced if you don’t get married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/24 01:32 PM
6	Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen" I shouldn't have to explain to adults that a 90 lb woman most likely has a smaller pussy than a 6'5 300 lb woman. Get a load of Andreas Vesalius over here. 😂 Tell me you don't understand anatomy/biology without telling me you don't understand it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 05:35 PM
7	The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debate tHat'S BecAUsE aLl wOmEn aRE chAsINg afTeR tHE tOp 2% of mEn. REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE. [/s]	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 05:31 PM
17	Do you think most men would forgive a cheating girlfriend if she was a good girlfriend ? Yo. OP, you weren’t a good girlfriend, you don’t deserve his forgiveness. Let it go and work on yourself. EDIT: after taking a second glance, this has to be a troll account	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 02:48 PM
2	Bars are one of the only real social spaces left where one can meet women. But they’re problematic for so many reasons. I make less than 100k in that very city. I don’t know many girl friends here that have ever even talked about their date’s/boyfriend’s careers/finances privately during girl-talk. That’s not to say women don’t care about that, but it’s less important than you might think. From this post and your comments under it, you sound like you’re focusing on the wrong stuff. I’d imagine your attitude/demeanor has more to do with their disinterest after talking to you than finding out you work in FINANCE (w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 04:48 PM
3	Are there certain sex acts you'd perform with some men but not others due to how hot you find them? How they look has little-nothing to do with what I’m willing to do in the bedroom. Trust, on the other hand, has everything to do with my willingness to engage in variety in the bedroom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 04:41 PM
29	CMV: Sex Robots should be banned Your false equivalencies are WILD. A robot is not a living being and would not fall under the umbrella of ‘consent’. That’s such a dishonest comparison but I’m pretty sure you know that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 03:57 AM
12	CMV: Sex Robots should be banned Naw, I’m really good. 😂 I think sex is a huge instinct that many, possibly most, humans have at some level. And if there are people who are so unattractive or have such bad luck trying to get sex with/from other people, I see absolutely no issue relying on tools to get the job done.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 03:52 AM
33	CMV: Sex Robots should be banned Okay well by your definition getting off with a sex robot = masturbation because it’s not two people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 03:50 AM
19	CMV: Sex Robots should be banned Wow, OP. Why do you care so much? What upsets you about someone you don’t even know using a tool to get off? Who made you the arbiter of who is deserving of sexual pleasure? This is such a wild take.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 03:41 AM
-1	Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to be There are people that get off on their partners wearing diapers. If you think that there isn’t a single person on this earth that likes a particular physical feature/attribute, in this case shortness, then I’m not sure what to tell you. Sorry it’s far from the mainstream thing but there are absolutely women that will either actively not care about height and some that even prefer it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 09:01 PM
–	Women don’t put more effort into their appearance I suppose if you want to win the argument. But I’d argue putting in more effort can be worthless if you’re not putting in the ‘right’ effort. Effort ≠ Effectiveness	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 05:46 PM
–	Women don’t put more effort into their appearance Yeah but that’s called supply and demand, brother. Dick is more readily available than pizza. So, naturally, when the supply (available/willing men) is flooding the market, the demand (interest from women) goes down (or disperses is maybe more accurate). Meaning that while women can “spend” less effort, men need to “spend” more effort to increase their chances of success. Is that fair? No. But hating the player isn’t going to change the game. 🤷🏼‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 05:33 PM
–	Women don’t put more effort into their appearance Certified fat-cep owner checking in. 💪🏻✨	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 05:23 PM
–	Women don’t put more effort into their appearance Well even with all of that, there’s still a thing called marketability which most men don’t understand. If we’re talking about online dating, I’ve seen so many profiles where the guy probably looks alright, if not good, in person. But dear god, most men do clearly do not care or understand angles, lighting, or generally what looks good. You could be the fittest, hottest dude around but if you take a crotch-angled photo with dad-oakleys and a frown on a potato-phone, or a splotchey mirror selfie …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 05:16 PM
7	Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to be Sure, there is the generic, societally attractive set of male traits. But let’s also not act like there aren’t women that like short men, or bald men, or dude with long beards, or dad-bods. Just like there are men that like fat women, tall women, older women, or any other trait for women that society at large doesn’t elevate as attractive. Besides, okay so what? What’s the point of this “debate?” As other commenters have stated, this doesn’t read as much of a debate as it does a ‘wah, I’m not ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 02:41 PM
9	Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to be Wow. You mean to tell me that people in general seek out partners that they’re attracted to?! Color me shocked! /S	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 01:50 PM