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It's hard to compare, because of how different the lighting and makeup is. To me, she looks different, not necessarily better. I feel like she should have lost 10-20lbs to improve her facial aesthetics instead of opting for surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:47 AM
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Really I was sleeping w like 5 different guys Aww, you sound like such a catch! I'm so pleased for you and your bf <3
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:03 PM
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You are spot on. The vast majority of men and women do not put in a lot of effort when it comes to pretty much anything (I'm not even speaking about dating/relationships). Going to the gym in an attempt to get fitter literally puts you ahead of 80-90% of the population. A man who cares about things like skincare, and puts thought into his clothing is already doing better than 80% of men. Realising your career sucks and making a change/learning a skill means you have more drive than 80-90% of peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:53 PM
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It’s just sexist, I said it was sexist. grow a pair Damn, imagine lacking self-awareness to this degree. You are a genetic anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:45 PM
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Poor you, can't go a day in your life without getting triggered by something 🥲🥲. Must be really tiring being you 🥲🥲. Here's some advice: stop taking everything on the internet so personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:41 PM
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I rest my case 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:32 PM
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I don't completely agree with the premise of your post, but a lot of the women here are exhausting. They're not able to formulate a response without coming off as extremely hostile. I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:02 PM
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This is one of the weirdest takes I've ever seen on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:20 AM
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Sorry to hear that. I would sincerely advise you to take some time off Reddit, particularly subs like this, because they seem to be detrimental to your mental health. Whether you agree or disagree with my points specifically, you should take solace in the fact that people on Reddit are not necessarily a good reflection of people in the real world. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:06 AM
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Nope, I'm pretty satisfied with things at the moment. What about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:58 AM
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Keep staying mad 💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:54 AM
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Well, thank you for your opinion, but I will respectfully have to disagree. Have a fantastic day
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:57 AM
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No she doesn't. All she needs to do is hop onto the internet and type in "hehe I'm a girl".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:26 PM
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Cheating has more to do with the actual cheater themselves, than the person being cheated on. Thus, it doesn't really matter if you're Chad, Tyrone. If you're dating a Bonequisha or a Barbeesha, however, you're asking for trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:13 PM
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It's got nothing to do with whether some men are hypocritical or not. Women denigrate men who see them only as sexual objects. These same women will then put up pics of they booty and they ass like I'm finna ignore that! I present to you: Exhibit A (NSFW)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:04 PM
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95% of Indians who date white women gon leave they ass once their parents decide it's time for them to get married. I'm really sorry you got tricked like that, and hope you're doing better now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:36 PM
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Avoid podcasts and YouTubers like the plague, except if you're watching them solely for entertainment purposes. I find people like Fresh & Fit to be goofy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:21 PM
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Alright then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:23 PM
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Wikipedia "paternity fraud" - studies that solely looked at couples who obtained paternity testing because paternity was being disputed, there are higher levels: an incidence of 17% to 33% (median of 26.9%). Most at risk were those born to younger parents, to unmarried couples and those of lower socio-economic status, or from certain cultural groups) Sorry bro, but it literally states that this only applies to cases where paternity was being actively disputed i.e. situations where men must have …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:00 PM
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Ah right, it appears that you lack reading comprehension. Well, I won't be wasting any more time engaging with you here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:08 PM
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nice /nʌɪs/ adjective adjective: nice; comparative adjective: nicer; superlative adjective: nicest giving pleasure or satisfaction; pleasant or attractive. "we had a very nice time"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:45 PM
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Never let a person’s lack of options convince you that they’re loyal. Chicks who who aren’t promiscuous tend to be physically undesirable. This just simply isn't true, especially since everyone on this subreddit knows that even a below-average woman has ample opportunities for easy sex, whenever she desires it. Remember, we are talking about casual sex (and by extension, the possibility to cheat), not finding relationships. You are right that men tend to want harems, and women prefer one guy…but…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:39 PM
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I agree with what you're saying. The positive attributes you've listed are great examples of how men should be behaving around women they like. The real issue is that men are raised being told to be nice to women, but they don't have a solid grasp of what kind of behaviours are undesirable. All women say they want a gentleman, which results in men (particularly inexperienced me) to exhibit the following behaviours, which they perceive as being gentlemanly/nice: Clinginess (things like messaging …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:19 PM
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Being 'nice' and 'reliable' with nothing else going for you will obviously not be enough. That's not true; being nice can be a detriment even if you do have other things going for you during the attraction stage. Here is an interview Tupac did when he was young, detailing how he got rejected by a woman because he was too nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:21 PM
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I feel like you are projecting, here. Even though there are many hoes with a hypergamous nature, I think you are forgetting that there are plenty of non-slutty women who don't behave or think like them. Many men assume that women want to fuck anything and everything; actually, this is something that most men wish they could do themselves. Whilst you won't always get it right, you can get a good understanding of a woman's nature by observing her mannerisms, what she wears, etc. I find that a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:51 PM
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Over 1 in 4 men are raising a kid that isn't theirs.. That's an insane exaggeration. Come on, now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:38 PM
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Most people are too dumb to figure this out. Anyone who is in their teens or twenties now, should start investing some of their salary right now into index funds, ETFs and bonds immediately. A couple that starts with £1,000, and invests £400 a month (i.e. only £200 each) will have around £500,000 in equity after 30 years at just a 7% interest rate. Doing it for 40 years returns over £1m (compounding interest, baby). It literally just takes two forward-thinking parents with a long term approach t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:24 PM
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RP & communism are not analogous in this sense because the guiding principle behind communism is that everyone has free access to goods, thus, the assumption that communists don't care about money, is likely to be correct (irrespective of whether or not their individual beliefs are driven by envy of the rich). Conversely, TRP as we (I) know it, is merely an acceptance of the uncomfortable truths of modern dating (at least in this context - in theory, you could be Red Pilled about anything). Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:52 PM
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Your perception of RP differs greatly to mine. RP does not make assumptions about its proponents, therefore maintaining that one of its principles is to "get over women" is erroneous. This entirely invalidates your argument that RP = simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:17 PM
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What you are saying is asinine. For your benefit, I'll repeat the attributes I listed: calm, assured, assertive, masculine, intelligent, takes care of his body/appearance, These are extremely basic, generic and universally liked traits. You can be all of these things without being a stereotypical gigachad. The issue with your statement is that you equate self-improvement to simping for women, which is nonsensical. This is the same train of thought that men follow when they say things like "women…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:53 PM
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This literally has nothing to do with what women find hot, though, unless you are supposing that everything men do is for female validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:33 PM
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The bigger question is who will Maury get to come on his television show !?!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:30 PM
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I don't think that's the correct definition of alpha male. When I think of an alpha male, I would think of someone who is calm, assured, assertive, masculine, intelligent, takes care of his body/appearance, etc. A beta male is someone who is none of these things, is flabby, pulls out the soyboy cuck face when taking selfies, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:17 PM
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Great choice! I would have done the same, though when I went to university (almost a decade ago) I was kind of clueless and picked something utterly useless instead. I can't argue with you on the rest of your comment! Maybe I was being a bit extreme, but the point still stands, broadly speaking :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:47 PM
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Sorry; to be clear, I think all STEM related degrees are a fantastic choice (I'm putting medicine along with Science). Having said that, from a purely selfish point of view, I would recommend people to go into engineering/tech, at least if you live where I do. I'm not sure what it's like in other countries, but in the UK, you can literally walk into graduate roles as a CompSci grad, and the salaries are pretty good, too. Do you think we could/should live without teachers I don't think a degree s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:36 PM
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Of course, I am in total agreement with everything you've written here. I appreciate the conciliatory nature of your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:24 PM
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I feel like anyone who is dumb enough to go to university today and not study in an engineering or tech related field deserves everything they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:20 PM
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Cheeeeez! Definitely gonna be trying that one next time, appreciate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:18 PM
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Okay honey, enjoy clocking into work tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:56 PM
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If having "A" woman is the end all be all of your expectations, then there's hoards of meth heads, land whales, and homeless women that you could pick from. You know that you aren't after just "A" human with a vagina. You also want the RIGHT woman that you find that fits your specific standards of attractiveness, personality, education, etc. So, you've decided to misquote me entirely and write a load of nonsense after the fact. I never said having a woman is the be-all-end-all for men, I merely …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:42 PM
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That's what I thought, dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:09 PM
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You are the one projecting, and were unable to provide a reasonable response to a real-life example I gave, thus you resorted to being condescending. If you must know, I have plenty of real world experience. I did grow up playing video games, and then I did start socializing every day for several years. I've been poor, and I've been rich; I've worked minimum wage jobs and now I can make your yearly salary in a day. I'm much more qualified to talk on the matter because I've experienced a much bro…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:01 PM
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See, you are emblematic of everything RP says about women. You are not going to be able to find "the right" person, if you can't even find "A" person. Is that easy enough for you to understand? I grew up very introverted and spent a lot of time indoors playing video games. I've since met several women who were extremely similar to me, except had a spate of online/irl boyfriends and were rarely, if ever, single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:40 PM
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The more someone deviates from being a standard model of expectations, the more difficult it will be fore them to find compatible partners either for sex or relationships specifically. The more generic a person is, the easier dating will be for them. The more obscure someone is, the harder dating will be for them. This only applies to men. An introverted, video-game whoring, book-reading basement dwelling woman with baby pink hair will have no trouble dating people. The male equivalent will stru…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:30 PM
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Don't forget the women who appear in manosphere content and yell "I BET HE'S NOT GETTING ANY PUSSSAYYYYYY!" whenever a guy says something even remotely left-field.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:10 PM
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I read today that 80% of African-American women are either overweight or obese, which was kind of telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:28 PM
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It's pretty well known that women don't date down in socio-economic terms. A female lawyer is not going to be dating a supermarket cashier. If you reverse the genders, then it is certainly a possibility that such a relationship would occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:26 PM
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Oh shit my n*gga you really gon call her out in public like that? Shieet
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:48 PM
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She’s clearly got the options. At some point don’t you just have to pick a person and stop waiting for someone “perfect”. I read a study the other day (it might have been linked through here, not sure). Two groups of participants were given ice cream to taste; the first group was given three different flavours, whereas the second group was told they would be testing 50 flavours. The group that was testing 50 flavours was far less likely to describe a flavour as being good, and their rationale wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:12 PM
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Interesting, thanks for the response!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:18 PM
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From one of your earlier comments: the guy got outraged and started grilling me to see if I was lying and eventually called me a stuck up bitch who was missing out. On a few other first dates I’ve had men ask me how they stacked up to all of the other men I’ve been dating (even if I wasn’t dating anyone else) and if I was going to waste their time because they were less attractive (they weren’t until that point). That's not RP, that's being a POS/deeply insecure. Maybe they thought they were Red…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:24 PM
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she’s a slut that’s probably lying to you about her attraction to you, if you’re a less attractive man and she doesn’t have sex with you in the first 3 dates she’s using you for your wallet ect. AF/BB is a real life phenomenon that occurs. It basically means that many women exhaust all of their attractive/desirable options by the time they reach a certain age (usually 25-30) and are then left with a much shorter dating pool. By the time they're ready to settle down, they realise that all the tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:44 PM
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What about a shawty with no titties or ass
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:19 AM
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What do men say when they actually cold approach you/your friends? I'm genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:59 AM
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Facts queen 👏👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:43 AM
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He asked her to go on a walk. She said as long as it was a mellow one. So, I take it she's not an athlete. But, she didn't say "no." She essentially said, "as long as I don't have to physically exert myself too much." That's called letting a man down politely, either to not hurt his feelings or to put yourself in danger. I have friends who have literally told me that they're scared of outright saying "no" in case they guy starts getting abusive/violent. And, getting handsy, especially in the mid…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:40 AM
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She didn't agree to the walk, and suggesting otherwise is akin to typical male delusion that is seen everywhere in the world. Most of my platonic friends have playfully touched me. It just means they think you're not a creep, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:34 AM
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Why is this a Q4W? They are known for giving horrible dating advice to men. This is how I see it: You've already asked her for a walk, so unless she is socially retarded, she knows exactly where you stand. Kudos for being up front with her. There is no need for you to ask her again because she already knows you are interested, so if she does want to see you again, I'm sure she'll make it overwhelmingly obvious. Don't start interpreting every little action like playfully punching or touching your…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:26 AM
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This subreddit is full of misogynists who masquerade as RP'ers. Actual RP just refers to opening your eyes to the truth. Per Wikipedia: The red pill represents an uncertain future ... and allow[s] [you] to escape into the real world, but living the "truth of reality" is harsher and more difficult. On the other hand, the blue pill represents a beautiful prison [of] ignorance, living in confined comfort without want or fear RP is not about misogyny, it's about accepting the true insidious nature o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:46 AM
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Why are you implying that those men are red pilled? They sound like weak, insecure fools, and those are exactly the kinds of questions I would tell a man not to ask on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:01 AM
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But we also know from economics that consumers can exercise a lot of control by choosing to withhold their spending power or taking it elsewhere to a different company, thus lowering demand. You are totally correct, however, men are biologically predisposed to wanting to have a lot of sex, and the vast majority of men are too weak to show any restraint. In essence, they are shooting themselves in the foot. It is not possible to get billions of men to men to collectively agree to lower their stan…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:48 AM
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one of those women would date those guys even if they were the only men remaining on the surface of the planet, they dont find them attractive and they wont even if all attractive men dissappeared from the planet, They don't find them attractive because they are of lower social standing than them. That's why Twitch streamers date other Twitch streamers, and why female celebrities rarely marry ordinary folk. You can still be a good looking simp, with a good job and a good personality, and still h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:25 PM
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Are you able to critically think at all? The reason why women don't consider the simps as options is because there are tons of simps feeding into her the idea that she is something special. When there are 50 people vying for the attention of 1, then the 1 will naturally levitate towards the idea that they are more valuable than the 50 - this is why a female Twitch Streamer or YouTuber/TikTok'er will never date one of her fans/simps, because she sees them as having lower status than her. Research…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:11 PM
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The most cringeworthy one I've seen is "I like memes", rofl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:20 PM
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It's kind of hilarious that she wrote that without even a shred of irony. If anyone needed even more proof as to why not to commit to a woman with a high N-count, just read that comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:19 AM
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Feminism is about leverage. Most of the stuff they say is not grounded in reality, and they perpetuate lies like the gender pay gap (which has repeatedly been debunked) and the existence of some kind of patriarchy (which doesn't exist). I would argue that it's much easier being a woman, than a man, in today's age.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:24 AM
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I agree; there's no way a company should be able to rake in profits of $50bn a year whilst their employees are busting their asses off and struggling to survive. If there was a way to split at least a percentage of excess profits amongst workers, that would make the world a fairer place. I'm not advocating for socialism, but rather, a form of restrained capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:21 AM
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I'm not even sure if capitalism is the problem. Plato said that democracy is not the ideal solution, because it draws in self-motivated and power hungry people to run for positions of power. This is why each presidential candidate utters the same crap about how they will make lives better for the people, when that... never seems to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:08 AM
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The problem in this sub is that a lot of people think the whole nice/bad boy dichotomy is binary with no room for nuance. When people say nice guys finish last, they are referring to men who are overly nice to the point of being effeminate. Things like constantly messaging your girl telling her she's the hottest girl ever, always neglecting your own needs for her, being a push over or generally just doing "nice" things as a way to coerce women into sleeping with them. Being open and honest about…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:07 AM
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F&F are one of the biggest platforms for TRP right now. I have only seen a handful of their clips, and maybe I'm being a bit too presumptuous, but one of the guys on there (Walter) had that debacle around a year ago when he was dating some hot woman, and it got exposed that he was a simp. fake edit: Here's a reaction video by Aba and Preach which covers this. It's surprising that so many people would follow them when they seemingly don't even practice what they preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:08 AM
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Agreed. Men claiming that they are slaves to pussy/romance have a weak mindset, and are focusing on the wrong things. OP needs to find other ways to channel his energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:42 AM
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Took the words right out of my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:54 PM
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Never 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:48 PM
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I know, and I've already pointed this out elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:43 PM
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Probably because you were out of options/older and wanted to settle, is my best guess. edit: just had a look at your post history, it turns out you met your husband when you were 36, and he was a divorcee and almost a decade older than you. Then you ended up getting divorced and he turned out to be a toxic, porn addicted gaslighter. Jesus christ, you women on this sub are so predictable that I'm almost at a loss for words. Having said that, I hope you're able to overcome this and live a pleasant…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:22 PM
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This is a very well-written comment that does a great job of explaining things. I hope all of the women here are able to read this. Thanks for your effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:02 PM
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they would dismiss that by saying it’s because you now work a “lucrative” job. that's definitely a big reason. I went from poor to rich within just a few years and became exponentially more attractive to women, at least judging by the amount of times they approach me. My personality, interests, hobbies and looks have stayed exactly the same. Unlike the guy above, I wasn't a walking train wreck, so I am able to make a good assessment of how money affects your desirability. But i guess in your eye…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:21 PM
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From what I can gather, you are in your mid-late 30s, therefore you have absolutely no understanding of the demographic I am referring to, therefore it's not even worth me typing out a reply to you. what do you care about the women who are trying to bag men “out of their league” why does it bother you that THOSE particular specific women are shitty? did you want to date them anyways? Read my above comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:09 PM

getting attention from men doesn’t distort a females perception of herself in the way you think it does kiddo, it obviously does, rofl. your attitudes and opinions about women aren’t going to attract the kind of partner you want. I love women, actually, and I have a couple of good girl buddies. My only thing is that women are extremely hypergamous, and many of them demand high standards when they offer nothing in return. What is so contentious about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:36 PM
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Facts, king 👏👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:13 PM

I like your outlook on dating a lot, and if I was choosing a potential partner then I would hope to choose someone like you. Unfortunately you are not representative of the current crop of women under 30. I'm in my late twenties, so a little bit younger than you - people started using social media here when I was like 15ish (in my town anyway). Almost anyone who was in a relationship back then, was in one with someone else from school. This made it easier for even average men to get in on the ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:00 PM
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All the power to you, m'sir. It seems like you have your head screwed on properly so I gotta respect that. Just beware of the blowback you'll get from the jealous 30-year-old women and above who start calling you a predator because you're not dating their sorry asses instead 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:46 PM
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It's not totally useless; I don't know how old you are but I wouldn't be surprised if women after a certain age starting valuing those things that I mentioned less. Dating in your 20s as a man is a complete shit-show, however, due to the inordinate amount of women who have unrealistic standards, whilst being nothing special themselves. It's not impossible for a man to meet someone decent at this age, but due to the prevalence of social media, women who have an abundance of options (i.e. anyone w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:38 PM
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In my estimation it does, but society's perception of men you is based on things like their looks/wealth/career etc. Cheating on someone makes you a bad person, but people who have are doing well in the above three categories will still be seen as HMVs by other women, thus enabling them easy to access to a large amount of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:50 PM

Having a good body improves your attractiveness by quite a bit, the same applies to both men and women. Even just losing weight and becoming skinny will get you way more opportunities than being a fat pig
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:25 PM
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Becky: Hey, do you see that shortking walking through the club with his chest puffed out like he owns the mf place? Stacy: Yeah! That guy fucks [in the spare room of his 4-bed semi detached place in Billionaire's row]!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:30 PM

No you can't, end of. I could be happy living in a house, with the expectation that one day I would like to move into another one. If I am actively looking at other houses so that I can move into one as soon as I find one that fits my style, we can deduce that I am not truly happy with my current living standards. If you can't comprehend this, then I don't know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:11 PM
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Thank you. Have a blessed day, you deserve it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:58 PM

You are conflating wanting to meet someone, someday, with actively looking for someone. They are not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:55 PM

You can not be happily single and still be looking for a partner. This is just a lie women tell when they are desperately swiping through 10 dating apps looking for a HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:46 PM
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They might have standards, sure, but they're much lower than when they were younger. I'm trying to think of a 30+ woman I know who is single, and not looking for a partner (through dating apps, going out to nightclubs). I can't seem to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:33 PM
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You know what I choose? I'd much rather be a sugar daddy to a college girl that is broke. That's not a bad idea, as long as you acknowledge that your relationship is transactional and don't resent the woman for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:30 PM
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Women are generally happier alone than settling for less than their ideal. Up to the age of 30, maybe, until their self-esteem gets nuked as they watch their friends having babies/getting married and end up settling for whoever. Now that I mention it, I legitimately have never met a single woman in her 30s who was "happily single" (i.e. not frantically searching for someone who she could settle with).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:18 PM
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Sure, but it is illogical to think a woman with a low body count and high standards should fuck someone after her second date, except if they have known each other before dating, as mentioned above. if you want such a woman, then be prepared to hold out weeks/months before you get laid. Of course, if she has a high N-count, then I can see why some men would be offended if she is still holding out whilst you are treating her to expensive dinners, but then at this point, such a woman wouldn't fit …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:05 PM
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The majority of men try to have what they believe to be meaningful relationships based on what BP teaches them, they don't find love, don't get laid, then some of them discover RP and go for the next best thing - getting laid. True, they will attract materialistic women, their whole life will be transactional as hell, but it's a guarantee. They will almost immediately have a stable materialistic partner, stable sex life, and thus stable life as a whole. On the flip side they could keep chasing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:51 AM
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Well, your post was written so retardedly that it was difficult to fully grasp what you were trying to say. My apologies for wasting your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:07 AM
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You're ignoring the fact that many women look ultra hot when they are layered in makeup, only to look pretty average when it's off. I would advise men to use caution when dealing with women who are wearing a ton of makeup, unless they've already seen her without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:04 AM
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Technically, red pill is just about opening your eyes to the truth. When I was younger and inexperienced, I thought being friendly to a woman would be enough (you can't blame men for this - this is an idea that is perpetuated by media/tv/film) To me, some of the main principles of RP are: Being nice will not get you laid. Women care about your job/money much more than they let on. You need to understand this in your teens and do something about it (i.e. study something which will lead to a great…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:55 AM
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You find a women who hasn't been ran through and has high standards that only you meet. She has sex on the 2nd or 3rd date with only you. This is a bit paradoxical. The only way this makes sense is if you have known them for a long time as workers/friends and already have a good idea of their character. It just seems really improbable to think that a woman with ultra high standards and a low body count would then have sex with a man after only knowing him for two dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:46 AM
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I mean you can’t be surprised that all types of women or men will be attracted to the flashy cars and expensive items you have it’s normal to want a lifestyle you don’t have or to want to date a partner that is financially well off. I guess that's true. But on the other hand, if an average guy was holding out only for a super model, you would think he was a bit delusional. So the same thing applies here, a bit. Also how do you meet that person if you basically flaunt your wealth? I don't; I have…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:34 PM
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Well, if they are only talking to me because they see something which might suggest to them that I am well-off (i.e. gold diggers), then they need to be an 8.5/10 in the looks department at the very minimum. I have had average looking women try to flirt with me when I've been using rented super cars on multiple occasions, which is borderline offensive. If I met a woman and both developed feelings naturally (i.e. without her knowing about my job/wealth) then I am less concerned about looks and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:02 PM
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Self-made millionaire in my twenties, able to provide financial security forever Low body count, never had casual hook-ups, deeply monogamous, no emotional baggage etc Tall, great hygiene, into fashion, fitness, etc Not jealous, possessive, insecure, clingy *Wide range of hobbies and interests, stupendous cooking and baking skills, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:18 PM
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I don't think so, and I practice what I preach. My body count is extremely low, I'm in my twenties and I'm a self-made millionaire. When I wasn't in a relationship, I wasn't wasting time looking for hook-ups. I would admire similar traits in a potential partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:34 PM
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True, but I'm the furthest thing from a shallow person that you'd meet .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:26 PM
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Well, I sincerely wish you good luck in finding the love of your life. I wasn't trying to be rude, so I apologise if that's how I came across.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:11 PM
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I'm sorry but you lack self-awareness. You've just said that you're separated from your husband, which corroborates my previous point. I'm glad you are doing better in your life but you sound like a walking red flag to someone like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:07 PM
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It's crazy how a lot of the men here don't realise that they are contributing to the problem. I've seen so many people here saying "well I can't get a decent woman, so I'm dating/fucking some obese 2/10 even though she repulses me." If every single man collectively decided to raise their standards, none of this would exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:59 PM
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I don't think a nice, sweet woman would cheat on me because: I think I make a good partner (not jealous/insecure) and would treat them well. I care about my hygiene, fitness, clothing etc. I'm financially well-off I do agree that it's hard to tell, but I think if you have a non-slutty wife and are able to check off the above three boxes, it's more likely that she will be more concerned about you cheating. The women I mentioned in the previous comment are much more unpredictable and should be avo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:16 PM
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Do you not realise the irony of your comment? You sound like you've dated dozens of men in search for the one™. How many people do you need to date before you realise your strategy of picking mates isn't working?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:09 PM
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The problem is that most women who want a rich man bring nothing to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:04 PM
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A real-life MILF is a bit of a unicorn, honestly. The number of fuckable women I see over 40 is probably at like 1% or less :S
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:14 PM
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Because these men are being lied to by pick-up artists (LOL) that cold approaching works. Maybe it would in a nightclub, or somewhere along those lines. Everyone wants something quickly, when the best approach is to try and build a rapport with someone and then try to gauge if they like you back, first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:39 PM
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It's not inevitable, except if you're fixated on OnlyFans models or those thicc overweight women from Miami who appear on F&F with bodycounts of 50+. There are plenty of decent men/women so you make sure to vet them properly before committing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:35 PM
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Sorry, but you are giving horrendous advice. Who the hell is Destiny to be giving advice to other men? He is someone who decided to have a child with his ex-girlfriend, whilst fully acknowledging that he was in a toxic relationship, before abandoning them for some other chick, marrying her and then getting a divorce. During this time, he changed from being a university drop-out turned carpet cleaner into a YouTube philosopher (some credentials they are), and travelling across the world as a 30yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:29 PM
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Are you saying women who have been raped should count their rapist as a body? No, what I'm saying is that a woman who chooses to go over and sleep with a random guy she doesn't know or hasn't met before is dangerously irresponsible, because the risk of being raped/killed/etc. is seemingly not a concern for them. Also do you think these things apply to men and women or only women. Both
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:24 PM
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There's tons of reasons, really. Higher body counts are associated with high levels of cheating in relationships (proven by studies), demonstrates impulsivity and lack of restraint (too much of anything is bad for you), undeterred by the risk of STDs, pregnancy, possible rape/murder, lower response to pair bonding, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:53 PM
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That guy was actually in university, was a complete genetic freak who weighed almost 300lbs, and was almost certainly taking roids. It would take a natty lifter at least five years to be able to bench 400lbs. I'm not debating that men are stronger than women (duh), and in all honesty the female record holder was probably roided to the nines, anyway. The only reason I took exception to your comment is because you are suggesting that being able to achieve such a feat is a trivial matter. 99.99% of…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:23 PM
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Wifey range is 1-5, but the lower the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:08 PM
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That’s why the average dude on the street could be taught quickly to bench press the women’s world record. That's completely false, lol. It would literally take you years of proper training, as a man, to be able to bench the women's world record (which is over 200kg).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:58 PM
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