Like the whole hypergamy thing (tho I agree with it on some level) is exclusively applied to women. The whole "listen to her actions not her words" (btw there was a wierd example where 1 R.P guy was making out with a girl who was like his high-school crush and she while making out with him calls him a psychopath, I never knew what to male of that situation) the whole shit-testing what ever that is, maintaining a frame of whatever. That shit is designed for men to "screen" women. It works the other way, mainly the whole listen to his actions not his works thing, maintain your frame for your best interest, "screen" the men. This shit works both ways.