I’ve been lurking for the last month and I absolutely love this sub! I wish I would have known all this when I was younger because I definitely wasted my 20’s with NVM and LVM. I’m lucky to have gotten married to a HVM. I met him when I was single and confident about my worth.

Anyways, I just want to add this advice as I’ve seen way too many friends and family struggling with fertility in their 30’s/40’s - queens save up and freeze your eggs (i recommend right around age 30). It will take off so much stress as you continue to date and find your best partner. You can date stress free knowing you’re not “running out of time” or whatever else people say to make women settle with LVM. Even if a relationship or marriage ends, you’ll be secure in knowing your eggs are safe if you ever decide you need to start a family later in life.

That’s all! Lots of love