My brother was always better treated than I was...by literally everyone but especially by my mother. And he never faced consequences for his actions. For example, for his birthdays he always received expensive gifts like tech and I received a fucking birthday card. I know I shouldn’t be ungrateful but it’s hard to see when you brother receive many gifts and you receive a cake and card. When I started working I bought myself really my dream bag for 1k dollars and I was really proud of myself. Few months my brother “accidentally” threw it away and he faced no consequences. My mother even said to me”it’s not like you worked hard for it” and I was repulsed by her words. It’s like my hard work didn’t matter. A few months ago I’ve lent him 5k dollars because he told me that he needs it to repeat few subjects at university. I was an idiot and I sent him a transfer. And guess what? He spent it all on videos games items. I was sooooo fucking dumb. My mom said it’s not her business and I shouldn’t give money so easily. That was the last straw for me and I packed my things. It’s hard that she always favored him and I had no real support at home. To be honest, I can’t get over it.