[M] A perspective on how to get relationships.

Ilivetowork · 2019-07-05T01:58:25+00:00

This guy is straight from MGTOW. Check post history.

JezebeltheQueen5656 · 2019-07-06T12:20:21+00:00

lol, a lost manlet thinks he can change our minds. well, at least he tried...poorly. failed miserably because all males are a failure one way or the other. this lost dude tops them all.

rainisthelife · 2019-08-02T11:21:25+00:00

Lol the amount of bullshit on this post is giving me a headache. But I’m actually going to leave it up so that women can see precisely why we say never take dating advice from men. Men will seek their male imperative and give you advice based on that. Ergo, advice that will not benefit you in any way.

Actual statistics and facts show that most women get married at age 28, and couples that get together in their early 20’s are more likely to divorce.

There’s absolutely no benefit to adopting the submissive role as a woman. All it does is open up an avenue for abuse and control. Which is why you see so many men giving that bullshit advice to women.

Frankly, the fact that this post is from an MGTOW should clue you in to the intent of its source. This is bad advice, you’ve been warned.

20CharacterUsernames · 2019-09-05T21:03:09+00:00

Somehow I ended up here from r/All. Here's my take as a male which is counter to OP's, this is of course purely anecdotal.

If anything I prefer to sleep with and date women who have had a decent number of partners, it would only bother me if the number of partners they had possibly indicates sexually compulsive and/or addictive behavior. I can't say what that number is exactly, because a lot of factors go into it, i.e. age, culture, number of years sexually active, etc. My reasoning as to why is that as someone sleeps with more people, they learn more about their own sexuality and preferences. In my experience sex with someone who is more aware of their own sexuality and preferences leads to better sex sooner, and good sex is a cornerstone to a good relationship for most people¹. I think it's good to sleep with someone pretty early on in seeing each other, personally, it's not unusual for me to sleep with someone on the first date, and if neither of us is interested in it by the third date or I don't see much point to continuing seeing each other. I don't think that's the specific number of dates people should go by, it depends on what your priorities are when looking for a partner, but as a very sexual and open person myself, I'd prefer to date someone similarly open and sexual. In general, I'd say it's to both the male and female's advantage for the female (really, both) to have a decent number of sexual partners, so that they have a better idea of what they want. It results in less "wasted" time for both parties.

1: The second leading cause for divorce is infidelity, which could loosely be interpreted as correlating to sexual dissatisfaction on some level.

edit: initially came across this on mobile and didn't read the rules before posting (admittedly not the wisest move). I didn't expect one of the rules to be no male input, sorry mods. it seems like this post might be a bit of an exception, so rather than deleting it myself I'll leave it to mods' discretion.

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