Howdy ladies. Before I go further I'm a guy. Just so everyone is clear I'm a straight male. Women you haven't been hurt by men's actions. Ya don't understand why he cheated ya don't understand why he watches porn and frankly it's hard to trust after being hurt. Fair enough. But it's a two way street. When a guy who wants to invest himself on a relationship finds out she is simply using him for free food or that she has 5 or 6 dudes waiting in the wings to fuck her the moment he fucks up. When she spies oon him and uses him and when some women marry men only for their money that hurt men it's a two way street. And when some of you would rather read a horoscope than believe anything any man said, lumping them into a a whole group is just as wrong as a man lumping you all into a big clump. You ladies know how.many times I have been turned down for the way I look when the woman wasn't no fitness buff herself. Y'all can not expect a thousand out of a man when you won't put a hundred in. No some of you women do but a whole lot of you don't. You should try to improve yourself instead of letting a man give you your happiness. And the same goes for men. Some of you wome in here are hateful spiteful people. You don't deserve a good man because you will simply hurt him. And some of you are just hurt because of a bad guy. You need to start becoming a woman that a good man would want and you will find a good man. And men should become a man that a good woman would want. It's a two way street. And while a lot of the things I have seen here are just fine there is a whole lote more that is pretty sick.