About a year ago around this time I started ghosting a high school friend of mines who takes up hours of my time with her relationship problems. Ask me for advice and then NOT take my advice. At one point she even calls me at night. I’m a early sleeper and she know but she still disregarded my boundaries because her man was messing her up emotionally. Either by going MIA without telling her or forgetting important dates or cheating the list goes on.

So I had enough and told her if she can’t keep doing this. Then she told our other friends that I don’t care about her and I was being fake. So things got toxic and I had to cut her off.

Now recently due to covid 19 I have been getting back in touch with a lot of old friends due to quarantine. And I decided to check on how she’s doing. Oh boy she’s still the same. She s with a different guy now but experiencing the relationship problems.

There are people you can’t help and sometimes you have to let go and set boundaries no matter how much you love them. And some women expect other women to be available 24/7 but when their man going MIA for weeks and come back out of the blue they will forgive within a day.