Katie's season comes to a close tonight so let's chat about Blake

☆ He's the only contestant from Clare's season that reached out via DM to her before the show. He was able to do this because the show got delayed right before filming 🦠🧫🧼😷 So the guys knew the lead is Clare and she knew who her chosen men were

It doesn't matter what he wrote to her or that she's glad he did it; reaching out to the lead like that is against the show's rules, gives me the vibe that he doesn't follow basic rules in other areas of his life, and that he'll choose anyone pretty that likes him back (listen to Blake's sister from last week's hometown episode to know what I'm referring to)

☆ Oh and guess who else he DMed? Katie after she debuted her vibrator for Matt James

☆ Remember the art episode where Blake made a dick sculpture out of clay? I'm not gonna completely fault him for that because the show cut out his reasoning for what he made—supposedly he hasn't been intimate with anyone for 2 years, he misses having a deep connection with someone, and that it shouldn't be taboo to openly talk about sex

But when Spencer said that all Blake ever talked about was sex, for me, that's a flag (which color? I dunno)

☆ When Clare's season ended, Blake said, "When I found out it was her, I bought a book on dementia and Alzheimers to understand what she was going through with her mom. I fully dove in to make sure that I could potentially be that fairytale ending if I got there. Why did I invest so much and not get anything in return?"

Oof, wow Blake, relationships aren't transactional and no bachelorette owes you anything

☆ So, I took a massage class in college where the instructor told us why it's common for guys to get erections during a massage. Blake got a boner during a chakra reading with Tayshia. The instructor kept focusing on his boner but imo it was immature of him to not tuck his hard dick under his waistband and to keep talking about him being hard with Chris H. Unsurprisingly, Tayshia sent his handsome butt home right after that

Boners aren't special and a guy's cum isn't the main event when you're intimate with them; he strikes me as someone who thinks otherwise

I haven't watched Katie's season so I can't speak on what he's been like this year but it doesn't surprise me that he's on his third bachelorette

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Additionally, I was disappointed to hear that Katie and Michelle were chosen as leads. They're too young and inexperienced for the gig. The guys who go on this franchise precisely represent what guys are like in the wild and the show often puts these women in situations they should never be in (Luke P. not understanding the word 'no' with Hannah Brown. Bringing on red pill guys like Yosef). Therefore, you have to have bachelorettes like Clare and Tayshia who are able to kick out worthless guys without a second thought. And this is how you get friggin Katie on her knees and on the ground begging 🤡 Greg to stay. Absolutely no bachelorette should be begging for anything from a male especially when she's the lead of a mega popular show. You cannot have a lead who doesn't recognize that she's being manipulated

I'll end this with an unpopular opinion of mine: I think Annaliese and Bibiana should be the next leads and young leads and guys who are dishonest/not serious need to be nixed from the show