22/M. Reason for going GMOW

Hi everyone, to get started I must clarify I’m not a socially inept guy. I never really struggled interacting with females or attracting them. I would consider myself average looking. I’ve lurked and read through this thread to further my enlightenment. Now I’m posting my reasons.

It all began when, I accepted the harsh reality of female nature, hypergamy and it’s weight in society. I’ll admit at 22, I was blinded by years of putting females on a pedestal. I was always giving into the chase and now I’ve exhausted my energy realizing it was wasteful. I’ll give a short story about my very own uncle. Then about what pushed me into GMOW

My uncle who is like another mentor to me, has given me advice I will hold onto for life. From his learned mistakes. He got together at a young age (21-23) with an unstable woman. He was oblivious to her true colors until one day he realized she was a pathological liar. He split from her and skipped town, she followed him. Long story short he fell into her manipulative trap.  Fast forward a few months she gets pregnant he’s now forced into being in contact with her. Years pass he has another kid with her. He decided to stick with her for the sake of his kids. (Typical) He was subjected to years of turmoil and toxicity.

About 2 years ago, she snapped on him and went berserk. She fell and broke her arm but blamed my uncle for it. Keep in mind his kids were now about 12, 10. He was also in the process of applying for law enforcement. Police were called and he now has a domestic violence charge on his record. Essentially ruined any chance of his potential career. This crazy bitch went above and beyond to play the victim in court to get full custody of his kids, who she now has turned against their own father.

He also went about a year without seeing or talking to his own kids. Luckily he’s now worked to get visitation in order. She also takes monthly child support from him which leaves him financially hurt. Things like this make me sick.

Lastly, I have lost interest in wanting a woman in my life. I’m perfectly fine and want to focus on myself and building my future. All the most recent girls have been a waste of time. To where the last female I was with for a couple months suddenly ghosted me and chose a guy with a child molestation charge, and still chose to defend him. It made me furious and sick. But I’m at a better mindset now thankfully.

Took some red pills for me to see the light. I’m a man, I am able and strong, I don’t need a female in my life to be happy or for validation.

Stay safe out there guys.